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Should you confess indiscretions?

One of our MIA blog readers would like a little advice about what he should do. He and his girlfriend recently had “the talk” and decided to go exclusive. Soon after the talk, he goes on a weekend trip with his boys and has a little inappropriate contact with random girl at bar.

He knows that since they had “the talk” he should own up to his indiscretion. The problem is, his girlfriend broke up with the last guy for a similar offense. Although he believes what he did was “not as bad” the fact that he didn’t actually sleep with someone else means he should keep it to himself.

If you are in an exclusive relationship, would you confess if you did a little dirt on the side? Would it matter the degree of the offense?

If someone you were seeing did something inappropriate with someone else, would you want them to tell you?

What would do if you your new boyfriend/girlfriend had an encounter with someone else, right after you decided to be exclusive?


P.S. For the record, I believe that if you hook up with someone else on vacation/out of the country or state..it’s still cheating. Seriously, don’t ever ask for a pass on something like that.

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
8:51 am

Howdy Doody and Bah Humbug to Monday lol

WrightIdea

August 6th, 2012
8:59 am

He needs to keep it to himself. He did cheat, but the only reason he wants to share it is to relieve his guilt. He should live with the guilt and learn from the mistake. If he had slept with the new girl, I think he would need to confess, because it increases the risk of STDs, but since they did not go that far, he just needs to live with the guilt. Poor girl (his girlfriend) – the guy can’t even his commitments this early in the game. Hopefully, he has learned his lesson..

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
9:04 am

Temptation lurks around every corner…

Where is everybody? I hope this isn’t a setup…seems a bit eerie round her this morning.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
9:11 am

This topic is too much for a Monday morning! :-) I gotta wait until coffee kicks in…

Good morning…

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
9:15 am

BLuz – Is that what’s keeping folks at bay this morning? lol I know a some counties started school today so maybe folks are out taking care of Back to school biz…

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
9:21 am

I think it is because it’s so dreary and the back to school hubub…hopefully folks will join soon. I know that I did not want to get up this morning, but that’s because I helped a friend move yesterday and I’m hurting!!!

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
9:34 am

Bluz – Did you hear from your bed buddy over the weekend?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
9:35 am

Hello everyone, Next topic

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
9:37 am

I may be hit with some bean bag pellets, but I don’t think he needs to say a thing. He should keep this little indiscretion to himself and the fact that he’s feeling bad about will hopefully dictate his actions going forward.

Hey blogger, since you are reading these comments, respect your woman, the relationship YOU AGREED to be exclusive with and keep your hands, your tongue, your feet, all other body parts to yourself and share only with your SO!!!!

Good morning!!!

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
9:44 am

Morning,

I’ll start off saying, “how about no indiscretions to start with.” You start a new relationship and “nearly” cheat? No such thing as nearly…btw Did you not know your own level of cans versus cannots? I think if you know within your heart of hearts that you love having a variety or that you are not one for resisting temptation, then you probably shouldn’t take the path to exclusivity. Should you tell? Probably not? What will likely happen if you don’t tell? You’ll do it again.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
9:44 am

We did text a little back and forth. Flirtations texts. He’s a pretty funny guy!!!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
9:47 am

Celisea ~ I stated to say if you can’t handle the tempations around you, only means you’re not ready for an exclusive relationship. All the women walking around are not there for you to sample just because you think they’re pretty, sexy or what have you. Even if the woman gives you an opening, be a man and turn down the offer. That’s what a real man does who respects himself, his woman, and truly wants to work on his relationship.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
9:49 am

I guess I can comment now that the coffee is running through my veins! I do not think he should tell her if it was just a kiss (although I still feel that is cheating). BUT…he better not do it again. I’d like to know why he did it in the first place if he had just had “the talk.”

I don’t think I would handle it well if my brand new boyfriend admitted to doing anything with another woman right after the talk. I just don’t see how you could trust someone who does that. This guy has broken trust immediately, whether she knows it or not.

Anyway…that’s about all I have for this topic.

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
9:54 am

Leggs – Exactly. I was about to say people will say and do ANYTHING to get what they want…even if it means going exclusive, knowing you aren’t ready and not caring if she’ll end up hurt. All for what you want. Buuuut, I didn’t want to be read as “strong black coffee” this morning…lol

Mr. Unknown

August 6th, 2012
9:57 am

Morning,

Sounds like she wanted to make sure they had “the talk” before he went on that trip. lol. Which means it was a forced under pressure decision he wasn’t ready to make. I’m just trying to read between the lines. In a brand new relationship, a random chick shouldn’t sway you. Besides why is he bring his dirt back with him. Women are too intuitive, she was probaly picking up his guilt before he even got home.

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
9:59 am

Which means it was a forced under pressure decision he wasn’t ready to make.

Yeah, put that gun to his head….

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
10:00 am

Excuses, excuses, excuses…lol Must be a man talking…lolololol

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
10:00 am

The devil MADE me do it!!! Yea, that’s it

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
10:04 am

Where’s ITL and Comon Cents today??? Ladies?????!!!!

Mr. Unknown

August 6th, 2012
10:04 am

Lol, Get out of here C…. There are two sides to everything.

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
10:06 am

Well Mr. U, if you weren’t there, then you can’t drawn any conclusions. You know, “probaby, maybe, sounds like.”

Celisea........gooooooo Gabby!!

August 6th, 2012
10:06 am

draw not drawn

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
10:11 am

Mr. U – Now tell me how you came up with that scenario unless you are the one that offered up this topic…Hmmm???

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:13 am

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
10:13 am

I’ll weigh in here, if he did tell her, she should leave him! If he’s cheating this early why invest in more time into the relationship. And if you’re cheating this early, why are you in a relationship?

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
10:20 am

“Sounds like she wanted to make sure they had “the talk” before he went on that trip. lol. Which means it was a forced under pressure…”

Unless you were in the room and you witnessed him being strong armed, you don’t know if there was any pressure or not. The last I heard, “men” despite ultimatums and pressure. You can’t force a man into a relationship!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
10:27 am

Mr. Unknown

August 6th, 2012
10:29 am

Slim~ Lol, I wouldn’t broadcast my dirt. C~Yeah I hear you, I will stick to the idea she got nervous when she heard about the out of town trip with the fellas and decided now was a good time to have “the talk”. Single~ “why are you in a relationship?” Same question I asked, He felt the pressure to add the Exclusive tag before going on the trip.

We can’t give a scenarios or the reasons for what transpired?

Mr. Unknown

August 6th, 2012
10:34 am

Leggs~ “The last I heard, some “men” despise ultimatums and pressure.” Just because “some” don’t like it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:35 am

How about we don’t guess, conclude or assume…leaning to his favor. He had the option to forego exclusivity (the pressue behind a gun must be beastly) or even better, he could have opted to take a pass on cheating.

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:36 am

Why get nervous all because of an out of town. Heck, you don’t have to hit the islands to cheat. Folks can get that down right under your nose, if you aren’t careful.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
10:37 am

The thing that stick out is being on a trip with his boys. It look as if he want to impress them and not the woman he had the talk with. Now he feels guilt and a need to tell because the boys are not around and he has her exclusively. He do need to use another phrase “my/his boys” sound too high school and you can’t have it all even if it’s there for the taking. I’ld pass on the confession because it’s meaningless, the verdict is guilty of perpetrating “with his boys”.

Good Morning:

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
10:37 am

Good morning, all!

Somebody is gonna get smacked before this day is over, I can just feel it in my bones. I have a headache, I don’t feel well in general, and people are on my nerves. Recipe for disaster.

On a brighter note, I don’t think purging your own guilt is a good reason to tell. HOWEVER, if it’s an indicator of things to come, better tell her now and save her additional heartache later.

Here I am, C! :)

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:39 am

I’m surprised this dude is asking. I thought their motto (those that’s not grown up yet) is to deny, deny, deny…lol

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:41 am

Heck, it won’t get to that, unless his guilty conscious gets the better of him and he tells on himself by way of “acting” guilty. The body and conscious is a powerful thing. I hope his conscious eats his insides…lololol

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
10:41 am

Unknown ~ sorry, what I was alluding to is “men” don’t allow themselves to get suckered into ultimatums, just those who can’t pull up their own drawers! Yeah, I know it happens.

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:43 am

My coworker, our admin’s sister was coming home from out of town this weekend with friends, had a massive heart attack and died. So sorry to hear this.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
10:44 am

Cely the story does have a youthful conotation to it. I don’t know of anyone who wants to know your every move or conversation you have with people.

Celisea....shoo fly, don't bother me!

August 6th, 2012
10:45 am

Hey there my Big Blog Bro! Exactly. Who is still going on excursions and tossing aside all caution to the wind and THEN thinking about the ramifications of said actions?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
10:51 am

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
10:53 am

Hey, C! How was your weekend?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
10:53 am

Celisea, we have a new motto, don’t ask don’t tell, then, it’s it wasn’t me

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
10:55 am

ITL – My weekend was QUITE delightful :) :)

Single and Happy – Um, that’s not a new motto…lol Is that not a secret code in the MLB? Don’t you have to be a man for the ink to appear or something like that? Yea, that’s it. It’s written in invisble ink and shows up if a man reads. :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
10:57 am

Hi Leggs, Light, Slim1, Bluz, and Cely. y’all get this I know. Dude not ready for exclusive, he wants her to be there when he gets back so she can be exclusive to him.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
10:58 am

Telling someone to just end your guilty feelings is not a good enough reason at all…it would really hurt her. I just hope he doesn’t do ANYTHING like this again and that the guilt hurts him enough.

Back when I was 20-21, I cheated on my then fiancee. It was the worst thing I could have ever done. I didn’t love him anymore and was too chicken to just break up with him. He worshipped me. I had thought about coming clean, but knew it would destroy him. It wasn’t worth it to hurt him just so I felt better. I promised to myself that I would never, EVER cheat again. I learned a lesson.

My recent ex had been married in the past and his wife cheated on him with the best man only a few months into the marriage. He said he wished she had never told him. It started a spiral of him cheating on her, resenting her, staying too long, and being broken. They’ve been divorced about 10 years and I know it still bothered him a lot. He would say that he was over it, but would get angry if the subject was brought up. It really messed him up. But, he’s screwed up anyway!!!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
10:58 am

Morning, BBB!

Yep. He wants the old “do as I say, not as I do” relationship. Un uh. Commitment is a two-way street.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
11:00 am

Hi BF! I need a coffee with Bailey’s this morning! Is the bar open yet? :-)

Mr. Unknown

August 6th, 2012
11:00 am

Leggs~ Maybe in a perfect world we could generalize all men or just the ones that you have history with but the world is a big place and these types of actions happen to all sorts of folks. It maybe a measure of insecurity or tactic used by said person but none the less it happens. Even to grown folks that have the ability to pull their draws up. Can we agree to disagree?

Mr. Unknown

August 6th, 2012
11:04 am

What happened to Lady and her sunshine??

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
11:06 am

Yay, Twink. I’m glad to hear it. :) :)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
11:07 am

Cel even when they show you the pictures on face book, the answer is, it wasn’t me!!! ( it wodn’t me)

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
11:09 am

The beau and I had a convo about cheating last night…he had a dream I told him I cheated on him or something. But anyway, he said he’d be gone if I cheated. I think there’s always a difference in how women and men handle infidelity. More often times than not, the women would be more willing to work it out. The men are ready to dump yo ass before you get the whole confession out.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
11:09 am

Bluz yes it is, that’s a good one I think I’ll try one myself without the coffee.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
11:10 am

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
11:10 am

Unknown ~ ok. Yes, its’s a big world and we can’t generalize any particular group but we do! So, going forward with ALL the rest of MIA topics, let’s keep that in mind.

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
11:10 am

BF – Hey, hey, hey ;-)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
11:11 am

Hey there, BF. Have you perfected the art of your new toy?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
11:11 am

I need the caffeine to go with the booze! LOL! Too many late nights in a row…

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
11:11 am

Siim once you cheat on a man, you are used goods, you can laugh at all the men before you and say they just could keep her, but not at the ones after you.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
11:14 am

If a woman is not a virgin, isn’t she “used” goods anyway?

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
11:15 am

CCA = Alicia Keys (404) 741-1075. However, I only heard one clue!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
11:17 am

Cel, no because I never shared her with anyone, and they couldn’t put it on her like I do.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
11:17 am

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
11:18 am

Cel you know we have some warped minds when it come to that p cat (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
11:18 am

Leggs a work still in progress, I got my cheat sheet I’ll get there. :)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
11:19 am

Um…oh, okay

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
11:21 am

Is the bar open? I’ll have an Amarula and coffee!

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
11:22 am

I sure don’t feel like working today

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
11:24 am

Coming up for my Light in the darkness.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
11:28 am

Mmmmm, delicious. Thanks, BBB! Just what I needed. :)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
11:30 am

Cel…I’m hearing you there! I cannot seem to get moving today. On my third cup of coffee and it’s not working well. I typically only drink two small cups. Moving my friend yesterday has just wiped me out!!!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
11:31 am

My CCA pick is accurate. Get to dialing!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
11:36 am

If any of you haven’t been to Wolf Creek for an outdoor concert, please go. Acoustics on point, comfortable seating with room for a small table if you like, gravel road parking(uggghh)/grass parking, but no traffic getting out. The exit from the concert was well executed, and I was very appreciative.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
11:38 am

Where’s Wolf Creek?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
11:44 am

Headed to lunch and Costco. (deep breath)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
11:49 am

Random thought…don’t you hate it when you have to change your password on a Monday morning?!?! I keep typing in the old one!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
11:50 am

Merk Road/Camp Creek Parkway. Very nice and very comfortable. Had a great time. Took the wrong person to attend with me, but still made sure I enjoyed myself. For free tix, I was extremely happy with my tix (Row G, Seat 20). Better than when I won tix to see Mary J at Chastain. I was all the way in the back with the squirrels in the woods. Horrible seats.

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
11:53 am

I was all the way in the back with the squirrels in the woods

Well dayum! lol Glad you had a good time. Why was the company the wrong one? Were they are part pooper, constant complainer, just wack as heyal?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
11:59 am

Bluzy – Funny thing about me, I only want one REEEEALLY good cup of coffee in the morning and I’m good. I think you’re having withdrawals or something…lol

On the password thingy, I jot in small letters in the back of my portfolio binder or tablet (whatever I’m using) but I do it in such a way that no one can crack or know where/what system to key into. Chile, I can change one day and forget the next morning…lol I have to key it several times for it to stick

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:04 pm

Hmmm…maybe it is withdrawals!!! LOL! I feel like I’m a zombie today! Of course, it didn’t help that I stayed up Sat night until 6 am to finish reading the third Fifty Shades book and then had to get up at 9:30 to help my friend move!

With my password…I know what it is, but it’s just instinct to type in the old one! It should never change first thing on a Monday or on Friday afternoon! I always write it down and keep it in my desk, which is locked up when I’m not here.

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
12:05 pm

Interesting you said “constant complainer” – Good grief, she complained about everything. Sitting there with her lips pursed most of the evening. People behind her dancing a little to close to her head (she’s sitting) and she started cussing. DJ played between intermission (he was JAMMING), she complained because she thought it was too much of a filler. It was, but it was what it is, go with it. Bytching isn’t going to get the artist on the stage any quicker. Got up to use the rest room, but person didn’t move their cooler quick enuf, she bytched about that, she’s a passenger type driver and bytched about all the drivers on the road. I was about to scream. Guy two seats from us showed up 3 hrs late drunk and she complained about “why did he even come if he’s that wasted?” Jonathan Butler came out and guys 3 rows ahead of us stood up and stayed standing. She griped and griped about why wouldn’t they sit back down. Told her it’s their tix and they’re entitled to stand or sit. Some folk don’t care about those around them at outdoor concerts. At one point had to tell her, this is all part of outdoor concert going. Stuff like that.

Hell, I needed to be there with a man just to stroke my shoulders. I was tensing up thinking that! I danced in my aisle by myself. Wobbled, cupid shuffle, etc. by myself why she sat with her arms folded. Oh well. I definitely know who not to bring next time.

Honey

August 6th, 2012
12:07 pm

I think he needs to tell his gf and they should reevaluate whether they’re ready to be exclusive. If I were her, I wouldn’t break up with him but I’d definitely wonder if he was ready to be a one-woman man.

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
12:22 pm

Leggs – Dang! I agree…let ole girl complain from the comfort of her own home next time lol

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
12:32 pm

Leggs I think I know that girl (LOL)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:33 pm

Here’s something funny…I texted the guy last night and did not remember it at all until he just replied. I take Ambien to sleep and sometimes text and email and don’t remember. Luckily, I’ve never said anything I shouldn’t. I just don’t know that I did it until the next day. It’s always something relevant.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
12:35 pm

Bluz you take ambien, is that the one that makes you do crazy things in your sleep?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
12:37 pm

Not just the crazy text, but it kind makes the you do the things you may have been thinking about doing but wouldn’t do.

abc

August 6th, 2012
12:38 pm

First of all, if you can’t avoid cheating, then give your partner a break: tell them, and let them go.

But, if you screw up and resolve to do better, just shutup and make like it didn’t happen. It isn’t honest, but it spares the other’s feelings. Personally, I have no doubts about my girl, but I know she’d never tell me if she stepped out on me, and I’m actually fine with that. If I knew, we’d be through. As for myself, I know I’ll never cheat.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:40 pm

Ambien can make some people do crazy things. With me, I usually just eat a bowl of serious and may try to return emails and texts. It doesn’t always hit me hard like it did last night, but I was overly exhausted and for some reason still couldn’t just drift off. It’s like my body was fighting. I’ve been on Ambien for about 3 years, I think. Never have done anything crazy…

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
12:46 pm

Bluz, he just never told you (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
12:46 pm

Umm what’s a bowl of serious (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
12:48 pm

Bluzy – Are you able to fall asleep without Ambien?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:50 pm

LOL! I meant bowl of cereal! Can you tell I’m multi-tasking?!?!

Come to think of it…my ex and I did have sex when my ambien kicked in and there were tims I would remember doing it, but not remember details. He didn’t like that because he’d put in a good performance and I would say “I think it was good.” LOL! I told him that if he didn’t like it, then we needed to not have sex so late.

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
12:51 pm

I’m not quite sure but i’ll take CEREAL for $300 Alex

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:52 pm

Cel…I can fall asleep on the weekends without it, but I’m a night owl and just stay up until I’m ready to sleep. During the week, if I don’t take it, I will toss and turn and my mind will race. I think part of it is because I get stressed about my boss. I have anxiety issues, so this helps to take the thoughts and worry at night.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
12:53 pm

Bluzy – Gotcha. Don’t want you to get “hooked” on it. You think you toss and turn now BECAUSE you’re body is dependant on it?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
12:54 pm

If I may, you should do something really exerting and see if that will help you knock out.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
12:56 pm

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:56 pm

I think I may be slightly dependant on it. If I had to stop it, I’d be afraid that I would go back to having insomnia. I don’t take it on the weekends to give my body a break and I’m usually fine. I’ve tried to not take it during the week when I was super exhausted, just to test. I just tossed and turned as was up and down all night! I think my tolerance is a little higher since I’ve taken it for so long…many nights, it still takes 2 hours for it to really kick in.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
12:56 pm

Bluz all jokes aside, have you been getting that prescription from the same doctor? Isn’t it just supposed to be short term?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
12:57 pm

Cel…I can tell you that I had no problem falling asleep last Thursday night after all the activity! ;-)

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
12:58 pm

O/T: I heard a chick on the radio the other day saying how she saw a chick at church that had a back tattoo that read, “Balls Deep”. :shock: Just had to share that with yall :lol:

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:00 pm

S&H…yes, it’s been the same doctor. I believe it is supposed to be short term, but for me it turned into long term. I think since I have generalized anxiety disorder, it’s more understood that I might need a sleep aid. Most people take it during short bouts of insomnia. I get more anxious at night and my mind races and then I start to worry about the time and that makes it worse. I’ve tried it all…

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:00 pm

Slim what was this chick wearing that showed a back tattoo at church, also that may be the old her :-)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:00 pm

Bluzy – Mmm hmmm, I just bet….that’s usually how it goes. Maybe night right away but that’s some goooood sleep

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:02 pm

Bluz, have you tried a different doctor? it’s strange for a doctor to keep someone on something that may become addictive.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:03 pm

Bluzy – Don’t be taking stuff during “sessions”….lol You can’t get the full effects.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:04 pm

He’s been my doctor since I was 8 years old. He knows my life story basically and will give me whatever I need. He says that I know my body. I really don’t want to get off it. It does it’s job. I have a friend who takes it recreationally and I just don’t understand how. I take it at 9:30 every night and usually am asleep by 11:30.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:05 pm

Cel…I know, right? When I know this guy is going to come over, I won’t be taking it. (I need to come up with a nick name for him). With the ex, he lived with me and knew what time I took it every night. It was his fault if he gave a great performance that I don’t remember! I told him that I didn’t want that to happen often because I want to enjoy that!!!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:06 pm

Since you were 8, it’s your business, but you may need to look into getting another doctor. If you’re taking it every night, and can’t go a week without it, you’re hooked. that’s not good for you.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:08 pm

Bluz he gave a great performance because you really weren’t yourself, if it was that great why couldn’t he repeat it when you weren’t taking it?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:10 pm

S&H…I hope to get off of it eventually, but not yet. I’m still working with my therapist for anxiety coping methods. It’s a long process to get it all figured out!

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:10 pm

Because my ex was a selfish jerk! I just didn’t really know it at the time…

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:11 pm

Bluz do you have the anxiety issues every night?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:12 pm

So his performance was only great in his mind (rotflmao)

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:14 pm

S & H – From what I could gather, I guess the lady that called into the radio station was sitting behind the chick. So maybe when she leaned over or got up, her shirt rose up and she could see the tat. lol

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:17 pm

The issues are worse during the week. I think it’s because I know that I have to be asleep by a certian time or the next day will be rough. Also, there are work issues. To be honest…I only take my anti-anxiety medicine in the morning when I get to work to keep me calm throughout the day. Otherwise, I may lash out and lose my job.

On the weekends, I think I don’t have a problem with the anxiety at night because I’m up watching tv, working on things, reading or whatever until I’m at the point of being exhausted. I’ll stay up until 2-4 am on the weekends. I don’t usually take anti-anxiety meds on weekend either, unless I’m dealing with some tough stuff in life.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:17 pm

Slim, isn’t that just like them church ladies, always judging others, maybe she need to read my moniker (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:20 pm

Okay bluz, I had some morphine once, it was so good, I didn’t even want to have sex, when they told me I couldn’t have anymore I went into a slight withdrawal, and it was only one 1 or 2 shots. I’m say you may want to go to another doctor about the ambien, 3 year is a long time.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:21 pm

@Bluz: If you have anxiety issues, DO NOT go to Costco during lunch time. Whew. I was ready to run over somebody’s heels with my buggy. :evil:

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:23 pm

S & H – You have a point but even I was sitting there wondering why state of mind that chick was in when she got that tattoo. Balls Deep?? Really though…not the sort of attention I would want for myself. But we all are living and learning every day

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:24 pm

@Slim: :shock: Mercy. smh

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:26 pm

Slim she got it for her man (LOL) while he was putting the tattoo on (LOL)

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:27 pm

I think Bert from Q100 was taking ambien almost every night and has since weened himself off of it. I’m not certain if he’s begun taking something less addictive or not. Maybe a fellow blogger may know. I can’t see it being a bad idea to look into some other alternative Bluz

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:28 pm

ITL…I don’t think I could handle that! There are times that when I go to Wal-mart, I have to get on the phone with someone just to distract me from all the people and the anxiety!

I remember after the break up, I had a minor panic attack at the grocery store. I hate grocery shopping and he either went with me or did it himself for 2 years…it was hard getting back into it, but I’ve learned to cope and have no problems anymore.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:29 pm

Completely off topic: I thought I’d be nice and bring back treats for the office (thought maybe it would improve my crappy mood). Don’t you know that I got out of the car and dropped the container of cookies on the ground, it came open, and spilled a quarter of the container? I wanted to give the ones that fell on the pavement to someone “special” here, but I was nice and threw them away. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:29 pm

I CANNOT do Trashmart. I’ll run in on the way home for emergency stuff but I HATE that store. Especially the one on Howell Mill….ugh

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:30 pm

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:30 pm

Slim…Bert was taking Lunesta, which is not supposed to be addictive. I tried that and it didn’t work at all. I’ve tried every type of sleep aid and they don’t work.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:32 pm

Wal-Mart is enough to give anyone a panic attack. There are times I pay more just to avoid going there.

Have you tried any alternative methods, like Melatonin or Valerian? I’ve heard good things about those. On the other hand, if it ain’t broke….

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:33 pm

I have a pretty high tolerance level. It takes a lot to knock me out. I came to, during a prodecure. That was not fun

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:34 pm

ITL – Most times I pay more to not shop there…lol

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:34 pm

ITL…the herbal stuff worked for a couple of days and then nothing. Tylenol PM worked for a week and then nothing. You know…If I’m not on Ambien, I will be dependant on something else…

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:35 pm

I came to, during a prodecure.

:shock: Dayum, Gina. I’ve heard stories about that happening. Did they re-sedate you? I saw a story about a woman who woke up during a procedure but bc of the paralytic drugs she couldn’t say anything.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
1:35 pm

Ever tried weed?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:37 pm

ITL – Yep. I was groggy but I was awake. I could hear everything. I started moaning because I could feel the pressure of the procedure. That’s when I heard the doctor tell them to give me another shot.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:37 pm

Leave it to Swiss….. :roll:

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:38 pm

ITL – It’s probably just the gloomy weather and you know God does have a sense of humor ;-) I think I told yall about the time I was going through a rough time. I was at work and decided I just needed to get out of the office so I went to lunch. I was praying in the car for patience. Next thing you know, I get stuck behind the train. It kept going forward then backing up, forward then backing up. Of course this did not help ease my already growing frustration. Next thing I know I just start laughing to myself like, ha ha ha…Ask and you shall receive. I guess I just didn’t expect Him to challenge me with patience that fast. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:38 pm

That was at St. Josephs…even though I still like that hospital.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:38 pm

That’s scary, C! :(

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:39 pm

Cel, hope you didn’t feel the pain.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:39 pm

ITL – Heck yeah…that’s the only time it’s happened though.

I’m still trying to think of some profound meaning for balls deep. Other than the obvious

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:40 pm

Swiss, no medical weed in GA (LOL)

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
1:40 pm

ITL — Hey, it could help. And it’s natural. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:42 pm

Single and Happy – Odd thing, I didn’t. Just pressure though. Sort of like the pressure you feel when you’ve gotten a eipdural. I didn’t feel the pain the I shole felt the pressue. kkk kkk, woo…Kkk kkk woo…kkk kkk woo Those are breathing excercises while labor pains are coming every three minutes….lololololol

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:42 pm

Cel maybe she was a basketball player, or played lingerie football, ( I guess that’s how you spell it)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:42 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:43 pm

cel, don’t know nothing about birthing no babies (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:43 pm

Single and Happy – LOL…I was trying to find some “religious” meaning. What’s lingerie football?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:43 pm

Chile, it’s at the top of the pain-o-meter

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:44 pm

Hey cel I’m trying to give the girl a break, at least she was in church, maybe she has changed her life :-)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:45 pm

That should have been 2 ki ki and 1 woo

ki ki, woooo ki ki woooo, ki ki woooo…lol

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:45 pm

Cel that had a womens football league that played in lingerie, I think that had a team here in one of the metro areas.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:45 pm

LOL@Slim. Your train story had me giggling. Thanks, I needed that.

@Swiss: Oh, it could help….help get her arrested! ;)

@C/Stamps: Maybe she plays water polo?!?!?!?

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
1:46 pm

“maybe she has changed her life”

And if not, maybe she has her cell number tattooed on her cooter. Either way, who are we to judge? :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:46 pm

Enter your comments here

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:47 pm

Single and Happy – Yeah, people can change

Really? – Never heard of football lingerie. I guess touch or tackle in that arena would be okay…lol

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
1:47 pm

swiss…yes I have and I don’t care for it much! I’d rather drink, but not drink myself to sleep every night! :-)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:47 pm

ITL – LOLOLOL

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:48 pm

It was tackle, with pads over the lingerie

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:48 pm

Cel – My coworker said maybe the chick misread it. I’m thinking, now what could her tattoo have said that looks remotely like “Balls Deep”? :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:49 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:50 pm

Slim, “Yalls some creeps” (LOL)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:51 pm

@SH: We stumbled across the lingerie league one night. The ex and his BFF were staring at the TV like they’d stumbled on Nirvana.

@Slim: Bulls Weep? Like since Jordan retired?!?!?

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
1:51 pm

Re: lingerie football. I love it when they run the spread and go deep. And when they pound it straight ahead. And and when they slip tight end over the middle.

(Should I go on…?) :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:52 pm

Single and Happy – I can’t be getting tackled with stuff all loose. Pads on what parts? The breasts and cooter?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:52 pm

Swiss, just like my moniker says don’t judge. i tell people that were all going to be sitting on the same bench in hell, so what difference will our sins make then!

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:52 pm

Slim – I was trying to picture a picture

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:53 pm

Swiss what about that balls deep play, hike hike!!

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
1:54 pm

ITL – Good one, Didn’t think of it all all. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:54 pm

Okay, wrestling maybe but not “tackled”……our parts are delicate in some sense. I know folks like painful pleasure but getting elbowed and stuff??

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:54 pm

Bluz: Have you tried relaxation techniques or hypnosis?

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
1:54 pm

I wonder… in lingerie football when the QB is under center, does her hand get slippery? :shock: :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:54 pm

Cel, helmets and shoulder, and knee pads. (don’t need no carpet burns) (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:54 pm

Single and Happy – Is that a safe link? Do I need to look from my cell?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
1:55 pm

SWISS!! Stop it, man. Stop it, I say. :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:56 pm

I think it should be safe, probably blocked for sports though.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:58 pm

Slim i’m sure the have pad or a shield for that (LOL)

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
1:58 pm

ITL — Hey, you’ve got to account for these things in your game plan. I’m guessing there’s a lot of shotgun in that league, IJS… :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
1:59 pm

Okay….checking it out from my phone

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
1:59 pm

Opps I meant Swiss

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:00 pm

Single and Happy – Never heard of this before…wow. Where is this being held? What state?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
2:02 pm

Okay, I’ve to run upstairs. Y’all pray for me….this woman up there, God love her, works my nerves. Wooo saaaaa……woooo saaaaaa

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:02 pm

I can’t go past the initial page,without purchasing a ticket.

Single and Happy – Are you going?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:07 pm

I wonder what the qualifications are to join this league :) :)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:08 pm

Guess I’ve been under a rock because when I started to google, it populated on it’s own.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:10 pm

Cel — You thinking of trying out? I’ll come cheer for you! :D

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:10 pm

Oh wow….when it says lingerie, it means lingerie

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:12 pm

Swiss – I’m wondering if I could quality…lol I appreciate the support though :)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:13 pm

Single and Happy – I learned something today. I learned there are things out there that I have no clue about…lololol

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:14 pm

Cel — I usually keep this on the low-low, but I’m actually an advance scout for the lingerie league. Based on what I’ve seen, I think you have potential, but of course, we’d need to put you through a full work out. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:21 pm

Swiss – LOLOLOLOL…..when does training start?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:23 pm

ITL…never tried hypnosis. I have tried some relaxation techniques. Just doesn’t seem to work at bed time. I know I’ve gotta find something else that works. I know it’s not good to have to take a pill to sleep, but I’m afraid it will be like before. I was miserable when all of this set in.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:24 pm

Bluzy – Join the lingerie league. That’ll help you get to sleep…I’m sure. A few rounds of running across the field all scantily clad and getting tackle should do the trick

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:24 pm

Bluzy – Join the lingerie league. That’ll help you get to sleep…I’m sure. A few rounds of running across the field all scantily clad and getting tackled should do the trick

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:25 pm

Cel — Lingerie football is a year-round sport. What position did you have in mind? You look like a natural tight end to me. :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:26 pm

Cel I think they used to have a team here, but folded due to poor attendance

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:27 pm

Single and Happy – Dern it, I was getting amped for training.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:28 pm

Swiss – LOLOLOL…natural tight end works for me! Whatever you recommend coach :)

James Earl Harris

August 6th, 2012
2:29 pm

Cheating is cheating, no matter how you sugar coat it.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:29 pm

Swiss I thought she was more of a safety, can’t get anything past her (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:30 pm

Cel or it may have been from all the accidents of people slipping in the stands (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:30 pm

Single and Happy – Good one….lolololol Stoooop

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:31 pm

“I thought she was more of a safety”

S/H — Have you seen her booty? Don’t want to waste that kind of talent on defense. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:31 pm

Single and Happy – Another good one!!!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:32 pm

Cel the Atlanta team was named the Steam, the moved to Charlotte, couldn’t find a stadium to play in

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:33 pm

Swiss – We can always get a league going for recreational purposes. I wouldn’t recommend any of the public parks though. Somebody’s backyard??

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:33 pm

Single and Happy – I sure they couldn’t

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:34 pm

Swiss no unfortunately I haven’t :-( (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:35 pm

Cel I have a big back yard (drooling)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:36 pm

LOL Cel…I might like that! I’ll mention it to new guy!

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:37 pm

Single and Happy – Yeah, I just bet you would be so charitable and loan it out.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:37 pm

Yes I would Cel

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:38 pm

Bluzy – Run it by him….IN A TEXT

Single and Happy – All I can say again is I just bet you would…lol

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:39 pm

Single and Happy – I noticed, you drool a lot. What’s up with that?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:40 pm

LOL!!!

I have a big backyard, but could use one of the boys to mow it first!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
2:40 pm

If you guys are still on Ambien,

ITL – Since you’ve been seeing the same doctor since age 8, do you think it may be time to get a different perspective on the issues you have? How many ways can he say the same thing or you talk about the same thing? Just a thought, but really wondering how therapy works from such a young age into adulthood with the same doctor.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:40 pm

You would think with all the strip clubs, a lingerie league could make here. If you can’t make here you can’t make anywhere (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:41 pm

Oh wait, with all the strip clubs, the lingerie league may have been over dressed (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:42 pm

ba domp domp

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:42 pm

Cel, I like women, they make me go gaga

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:44 pm

Bluz correct us, but the doctor that gave you the ambien isn’t your therapist?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:44 pm

Leggs…It’s me who is on the Ambien. I have been seeing the same GP since I was 8…therapy for only the last 2 years…

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:45 pm

Single and Happy – No kidding!!! That’s QUITE apparent.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:45 pm

And it is GP that prescribes the Ambien…

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:47 pm

“I have a big backyard, but could use one of the boys to mow it first!”

Did Bluz just ask an MLB representative to give her a Brazilian?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:48 pm

swiss…LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have no comeback for that…

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
2:50 pm

@Bluz: Just suggesting some alternatives, but hey…if it ain’t broke….

@Swiss: Boy, you are on a roll today…. LOL

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
2:53 pm

But speaking of body hair…. some of those male gymnasts could use a little scaping in the pits. UGH! It looks like pits gone wild. :eek:

But, um…..the male track and field stars??? ITL likey the slo-mo. :oops: Don’t judge me.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:56 pm

ITL…I couldn’t agree more about the gymnasts! The swimmers sure are hot, though!!!

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:57 pm

“But, um…..the male track and field stars??? ITL likey the slo-mo. Don’t judge me.”

ITL — I won’t judge you for drooling over the bouncing mandingo in slow-mo if you won’t judge me for reading lips during women’s track & beach volleyball.. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
2:58 pm

LOL…….@Light
I find out here that’s why the dvr was in the still mode?

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
2:59 pm

I have a big backyard, but could use one of the boys to mow it first!

swiss…..

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:00 pm

O/T…I’m so excited today because I’m having my first bass lesson tonight!

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:00 pm

ITL – I was watching some of the slow-mo’s and i couldn’t get past the fumbling faces with every step. Sort of looked like a st. benard with the head hanging out of the window

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

Nevermind, I see swiss was already on it.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

Bluz, I guess you only got your front yard mowed (LOL)

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

“ITL – I was watching some of the slow-mo’s and i couldn’t get past the fumbling faces with every step”

Slim — Pretty sure ITL was looking lower. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

There will be x-rated gymnastics at the next Olympics.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

@Bluz: I’ve always been a fan of the iliac crest, and the swimmers and divers show them to perfection…. Mercy. A girl could cut her tongue self on those sharp ridges. :lol:

@Swiss: No judgment here. I just cannot help but look….it’s mesmerizing. Some of those guys are blessed with way more than athletic skill. IJS….

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
3:02 pm

SlimUno ~ we were laughing at the faces too, along with the bulging eyes on some of those runners.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:03 pm

@BF re the “still mode”: guilty as charged. :oops:

@Slim: They showed their faces?!?!? :lol: :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
3:03 pm

On that note I’m out y’all be good.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:07 pm

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:08 pm

ITL – You are so crazy! :lol: I may take notice later on tonight ;-) Glad to see you in better spirits than earlier

Leggs – Yeah I was taken back by it at first lol But them boys were Giiizzzoooooone!

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:10 pm

I’ve just started playing Words with Friend this past weekend and I think i’m addicted already. I’m such a novice though

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:11 pm

@Slim: Thanks! :) BTW, I thought the scene with Sanya Richards-Ross and her hubby/sister/cousin was really sweet. I love seeing a husband look at his wife the way Aaron was looking at her. Too sweet.

Jake...SPJTWB

August 6th, 2012
3:11 pm

On topic, never confess anything…get caught, confessing dayum sho not gonna make it better…

I must say that the best thing I have seen in the Olympics was the Women’s 100 metter final….it was some talent on the track then….I’ve always been partial to the “track body”….

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
3:15 pm

Okay, where are we now?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:17 pm

We’re right here. :)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:17 pm

Slim…I was addicted to that for a couple of weeks, then it faded…

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:18 pm

Bluz – I’m sure I’ll get over the newness of it at some point.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:21 pm

Me, too, Bluz and Slim. Although I still like it. Addicted to Scramble with Friends and Draw Something, too. :)

@Slim: Weren’t you recently in Pigeon Forge/Gatlinburg? I might be going in October. A group of us that used to be together every weekend but don’t get to see each other much anymore are thinking about doing a weekend there.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:26 pm

Most of my friends got over the newness of the Words also, so they quit playing or would take forever to respond.

I’ve wanted to try Draw Something, but have no one to play with!!!

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
3:28 pm

Bluzy – I love Draw Something and WWFs but my memory is low so I had to remove. I was headed to buy a memory card a gazillion times Saturday but never made it.

All of a sudden, I’m slammed with work….ugh

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:33 pm

Bluz: send me an email, and I’ll give you my user ID for Draw Something.

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:37 pm

ITL – I have not tried Scramble but I heard that it’s better or more fun than Words…I was in TN last October for our yearly trip. We’ve actually postponed this years trip because too much other stuff is going on. Plus we usually reserve the same 3 cabins in a cul de sac and they all weren’t available for the time we usually go. I’m a bit bummed but it’lll be ok i suppose.

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:38 pm

How does the Draw Something thing work? Sounds boring

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:41 pm

Scramble is more fast-paced, so if you like that, then it’s more fun. Plus, it only has 3 rounds, so games take less time.

I hope we get this all worked out so that we can go. I think a couple of folks are camping, but I’m thinking cabin/cottage. Sleeping on the ground is not as kind to my body as it used to be. LOL Plus, not to be a total cheez-ball, but I heard something about going to Dollywood. I’m IN!! :)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:41 pm

ITL…can’t find your email addy…mine is bluzgirl79@gmail.com

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:42 pm

I’m not much of an artist, by the way! :-)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:42 pm

Draw Something is like Pictionary for your phone/tablet. You are given three words, and have to choose one to draw and your opponent has to guess. You both get tokens for every round that is guessed correctly. The more tokens you have, the more colors you can “buy” to draw with.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:48 pm

Bluz: Mail call. And don’t worry about being artistic….most people aren’t. Including me.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:50 pm

Got it…setting up the app now…

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:04 pm

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
4:05 pm

I’m still here trying to get through this last dragging hour

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:06 pm

I hate the last hour of the day! I don’t feel like doing anymore work. At least I have my bass lesson to look forward to tonight. My hope is to be able to play at a jam in a few months. At least one song!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:09 pm

going to have to change your moniker to bassgirl

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:11 pm

Well…I’ll be playing at blues jams when I’m ready…maybe “bluzbassgirl”

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:12 pm

okay, bluzbassgirl it is

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:13 pm

I just hope I actually stick with this and learn!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:18 pm

No hope to it, Bluz. If you want to stick with it, you will! :)

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
4:18 pm

Bluzfool
BluzzyBassBroad
BluzzyBass Girl
BB Girl

ok, i’m rhet ta go now lol

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
4:19 pm

And who uses broad anymore…not even sure what I was thinking. Guess I was going for that BBBBBBB deal. oh well, pay me no mind

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
4:22 pm

BadBassBluzChick :-)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:22 pm

I think you def have to leave Bluz in there somehow, otherwise people might think you just like to fish. ba domp bomp. :)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:23 pm

Where has disco been today????? I was all set to tell her about seeing Baby Boy on TWICE this weekend.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:23 pm

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:25 pm

Loving all the suggestions! I’ve been wanting to learn for a couple of years at least. My ex played bass and guitar and he never would teach me. So, now, I’ve found a cool chick willing to teach me for cheap!!!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:26 pm

Speaking of bass players, I’m guessing you know Eskill, Bluz?

Chick….anyone I might know?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:27 pm

I started to teach myself to play in high school, but my brother loaned his bass to a friend and it got stolen. I was just starting to get decent when that happened. I think I’ll pick it up fairly easy. The hardest part is learning all of the notes and chords! Show me a song and I can learn it, but I need to learn the essentials…

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:28 pm

Can you read music or do you play be ear or both?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:28 pm

I do know Eskil!!! Very well!!! I think we probably know each other…my ex used to play with Eskil years ago…he was the bass player for the band that E is in now. (don’t want to get too specific).

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:28 pm

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:30 pm

I know just about all of the musicians who play at Northside…

I don’t read music yet. That’s one regret I have…I learned to play percussion in middle school. At least I can read beats, but I wish I had learned to play a horn so I could read the notes.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:30 pm

Sorry…didn’t mean to blast that out there. I thought about it after I hit “send”. But are you talking about the big tall guy that played with another band as well?

I’m betting we’ve met. My friend Kim is good friends with Eskil and Lola.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:33 pm

Not big and tall…long, brown hair and glasses. He quit playing with them about 5-6 years ago I believe…he used to date the blond sax player that was in the same band…

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
4:37 pm

Y’all are gonna make folks think that all white people know each other. :lol:

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:39 pm

Only the cool ones, swiss…

Steven Q. Stanley

August 6th, 2012
4:40 pm

The longer you wait, the more likely you are to get a no good dog who is going to cheat on you. Wake up ladies, don’t die alone.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:43 pm

Steven…I’d rather die alone than be with the wrong man.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:43 pm

yall white?? (LOL)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
4:44 pm

What about the men, Stanley Q? Are they going go die alone because most of them are still sleeping? Nevermind, I guess the answer to that would be a yes too!!!!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:45 pm

Green Stamps: Two words for you: frozen peas! LOLOL

Willie Dynamite

August 6th, 2012
4:45 pm

Late afternoon All,

Just creeping/peeping in as I make my rounds.
Swiss – you are one funny dude.
Bluz – please have a few drinks during your bass lesson with your lady friend.please

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:45 pm

LOL single…yeah…white girls who are into the blues!

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:46 pm

OMG WD…the alcohol doesn’t work that way with women anymore! That went out in my early 20’s!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:46 pm

(ITL now working through beer-fogged memories to get the right mental picture)

Hmmmm, I’m going to have to think on that one, Bluz.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:47 pm

ITL, I see you bending ova, Bluz I thought it was just CW

Willie Dynamite

August 6th, 2012
4:50 pm

Bluz – hey you are into your just having fun stage. Ijs

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:50 pm

He ain’t worth trying to figure out who he is! LOL! I wouldn’t be surprised if you and I danced together at some point without even knowing it.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:51 pm

WD…even if I was into girls, she would not be my type!

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
4:51 pm

“That went out in my early 20’s!”

Bluz — Tell us more about your hot lesbian experimentation early 20’s, please.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:52 pm

yall danced together mmmmmm (drooling again)

Steven Q. Stanley

August 6th, 2012
4:52 pm

If you want to die alone Bluz that is your call. Do so with my blessing. Many do not though, but they are on the path to doing so.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:54 pm

You’ll just have to imagine my experimentation! ;-)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
4:54 pm

Stanley, here’s one just for you.

My child has been trying to get me to get a kitten while she’s away. All I can think of is Stanley Q, Stanley Q, Stanley Q = Hell No!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:54 pm

Steven we all die alone, no one goes with us!

Willie Dynamite

August 6th, 2012
4:54 pm

Bluz – what time is your lesson? 9:30 perhaps
Let’s see: musician + ambien + alcohol + early 20’s rebirth = a good blog day tomorrow. Hahaha j/k Bluz

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:54 pm

Going to die alone I mean

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:55 pm

Probably so, Bluz. Ask Little Joe or “Danny” – I play a mean tambourine. LOL I think I told you the story about the conga line.

Do you know the guy who plays spoons and washboard with them? He was a total a-hole to me one night.

@Swiss – down, boy, down. LOL

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
4:55 pm

“You’ll just have to imagine my experimentation!”

Bluz — Hell, I already do that with every hot chick I see by default. Throw me a bone here. :lol:

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:56 pm

Green Stamps, twink was right about you drooling. We need to get you a bib, sweetie? :)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
4:57 pm

Yea, my shirt all wet

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
4:57 pm

“@Swiss – down, boy, down.”

ITL — Which one of us are you talking to?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:58 pm

Steven we all die alone, no one goes with us!

Unless you get really pi$$ed and take some of them mugs with you!! :lol: :lol: Sorry, couldn’t resist.

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
4:58 pm

True dat, Single, but we know that’s not what Stanley Q meant.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
4:58 pm

ITL…I used to be up there playing tambourine and dancing on the stage with them! I do know the current washboard player…he’s super sweet when sober. Never know after drinks!

WD – my lesson is at 6:30, so not a late night!

Maybe, just maybe, I’ll tell you about my girlfriend one day…

I gotta go…they’re kicking us out of the office. Later!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
4:59 pm

@Swiss: Both of you! I think I heard Mrs. Swiss calling for your cunning linguistic skills and the Matterhorn.

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
4:59 pm

swiss ~ maybe you might need to throw ITL your bone!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:00 pm

Leggs, but doesn’t one still end up dying alone? How many couples have actually died together?

Willie Dynamite

August 6th, 2012
5:01 pm

Wait a min, ITL and Bluz were drunk playing the tabourine and dancing together in a congo line while in there early 20’s and drool was involved. I gotta stop speed reading.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:01 pm

“I think I heard Mrs. Swiss calling for your cunning linguistic skills and the Matterhorn.”

ITL — Hey, you wouldn’t run a marathon without getting warmed up first. Might pull a groin or something… :lol:

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:02 pm

swiss ~ maybe you might need to throw ITL your bone!

Thanks, Leggs, but I don’t really have a taste for married bones. ;)

Steven Q. Stanley

August 6th, 2012
5:04 pm

At least you have a child there for you Leggs. You will have someone there for you. Obviously someone who cares too.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:04 pm

Yea WD you got the jest of it (LOL)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:04 pm

@Swiss: Why do I have a mental image of you writhing on the floor screaming, “I pulled a hammy!” :lol:

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:06 pm

“@Swiss: Why do I have a mental image of you writhing on the floor screaming, “I pulled a hammy!””

ITL — Um…. ‘cos…. you were peeping in our window last night?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:07 pm

Um…. ‘cos…. you were peeping in our window last night?

Dam#@it! I knew you saw me. But btw, nice dismount – you really stuck the landing. :)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:09 pm

Hey WD – 26 more days!!! :)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:12 pm

I agreed with you Single. I took Stanley meaning growing old alone then dying alone. Just playing with the words.

I know ITL!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:13 pm

Instead of thinking about dying alone, why not enjoy life whether it be alone, or with someone. Life is too short to be worried about who’s by your side when you die.

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:14 pm

Um…. ‘cos…. you were peeping in our window last night?

Dam#@it! I knew you saw me. But btw, nice dismount – you really stuck the landing.

Both of you have lost your minds!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:15 pm

Both of you have lost your minds!

@Leggs: You’re just now figuring that out???? :lol:

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:15 pm

Life is too short to be worried about who’s by your side when you die.

I sure hope not many are worried about that because more often than not, many can’t even see or know who’s standing by their side.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:15 pm

Thanks, ITL. I’ve had to totally re-calibrate the dismount to account for the baby bump, but I’m getting there. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:16 pm

And drooling ALL THE TIME but you can’t type PUDDY??? You type “p cat?” Me thinks your drooling is a bigger issue than CT or lingerie or puddycat

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:18 pm

Leggs that’s right, that’s why you better enjoy it while you can, live life with no regrets!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:18 pm

@Swiss: I think you could up the difficulty if you did the twisting double back in full layout position instead of pike, but other than that, you are pure gold, baby….pure gold. :)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:19 pm

anyway Cel, I was trying to think of a way to put it without it getting blocked (LOL)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:20 pm

Single, with this new chapter I’m about to embark on I’m going to do just that!

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:20 pm

PUDDY PUDDY PUDDY CAAAAAAAAT….meoowwww

:) :)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:20 pm

Cel what CT?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:20 pm

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:22 pm

“I think you could up the difficulty if you did the twisting double back in full layout position instead of pike,”

ITL — I was in full layout. That wasn’t my legs in pike position…

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:22 pm

I’m out of here

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:23 pm

Leggs I told my sons awhile back that I’ll probably be dead for a couple of weeks before they even notice, but when they look at all the refrigerator magnets of all the places I’ve been and the things I’ve done they’ll will know I enjoyed my life!

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:23 pm

:oops: Oooohhhh, my bad, Swiss. DAYUM. You should be on the track team.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:24 pm

Night, Twink!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:25 pm

will someone tell me what CT means?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:25 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:25 pm

ITL, they don’t have a 3 legged race

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:26 pm

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:26 pm

CT=camel toe

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:26 pm

But they do have pole vault.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:27 pm

swiss WTH (LOL)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:27 pm

Pole vault!!! I am laughing out loud. :)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:27 pm

Single ~ well, this is one late bloomer (so to speak) that will be collecting some items along the way before leaving this Earth! Catch me if you can….

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:29 pm

I used to think CT meant C u n t

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:30 pm

Leggs, you’re a dirty girl. I knew there was a reason I liked you.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:30 pm

Swiss, but don’ t you feel funny when you running and your arms are stroking and that pole is just a bouncing. I always seem to bring the pole over and knock the bar off, haven’t figured out how to let it go yet

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:32 pm

“I always seem to bring the pole over and knock the bar off, haven’t figured out how to let it go yet”

It’s easy — once you get airborne, just think of dead puppies or grandma nekkid.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:32 pm

You know, just like in middle school.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:32 pm

Ewwwwww…lol

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:33 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:33 pm

Leggs, I was in my 40’s when I started. we all have to start somewhere.

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:33 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:34 pm

Swiss yea that works (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:35 pm

Swiss But you have to time it just right, cause if you don’t that wouldn’t be a pretty site.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:35 pm

__________________flatline_________________________

Just dayum, Swiss.

Leggs: I despise that word. I was called that once, and realized pretty quickly that I would rather be called anything but that.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:37 pm

Alright, I think my work here is done. :lol:

Goodnight, folks!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:38 pm

CT= Camel Toe, now i’m really confused

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:39 pm

Night, Swissypoo.

Night, Leggs.

@Stamps: C’mon, man. You know what that means. I was born at night, but it wasn’t last night.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:40 pm

Thank you ITL…he just wants someone to open up (no pun intended) and talk about it.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:44 pm

Oh, wait, I spoke too soon. I see have have more work to do — S/H, here’s another example of camel toe: http://www.justsaypictures.com/images/camel-toe-05.png

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:45 pm

Now my work here is done. :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:48 pm

dang Swiss WTH, okay now I think I get it.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:48 pm

@C: I know, right? I could hear you whispering in my ear, “don’t fall for it, Twink!” :lol:

@Swiss: Go love on Mrs. Swiss and tell SuisseMochette Noelle I said hi and QUIT CAUSING TROUBLE! ;)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:49 pm

ITL – See I’m suppose to be gone but I was afraid it was a trap…lol I had to make sure you made out alright

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:53 pm

Honest guys that’s a first for me, not trying to get anyone to say anything

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:56 pm

Single and Happy – You’re not a virgin right or anything right? Not being funny

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:57 pm

Never mind, it’s going to take too much time…lol I’m out of here for real

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:57 pm

no i’m not, but didn’t know about the camel toe

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:59 pm

Good looking out, Twink. :) I’m glad you had my back.

@Stamps: Man, please. Are you for real?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
6:00 pm

yes I am, why is that hard to believe?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
6:02 pm

Because if you can typ P Cat, then you’ve by-passed the CT

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
6:02 pm

Twink – Someone is pulling a fast one…lol

C’mon Single and Happy, c’mon mayne….lol

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
6:03 pm

this is the first time i’ve heard it call the CT you learn something new every day

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
6:04 pm

Mmm hmmm, okay then. We believe you :mrgreen:

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:06 pm

If you say so, Stamps. (shrugs) Maybe they just don’t use that word where you from.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:07 pm

But, uh….Stamps???

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
6:08 pm

see you can teach an ole dogs some new tricks

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:09 pm

Bow wow and urban dictionary. Here ends today’s lesson. ;)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:09 pm

I’m outta here. Y’all be sweet. :razz: