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Should you confess indiscretions?

One of our MIA blog readers would like a little advice about what he should do. He and his girlfriend recently had “the talk” and decided to go exclusive. Soon after the talk, he goes on a weekend trip with his boys and has a little inappropriate contact with random girl at bar.

He knows that since they had “the talk” he should own up to his indiscretion. The problem is, his girlfriend broke up with the last guy for a similar offense. Although he believes what he did was “not as bad” the fact that he didn’t actually sleep with someone else means he should keep it to himself.

If you are in an exclusive relationship, would you confess if you did a little dirt on the side? Would it matter the degree of the offense?

If someone you were seeing did something inappropriate with someone else, would you want them to tell you?

What would do if you your new boyfriend/girlfriend had an encounter with someone else, right after you decided to be exclusive?


P.S. For the record, I believe that if you hook up with someone else on vacation/out of the country or state..it’s still cheating. Seriously, don’t ever ask for a pass on something like that.

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:25 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:25 pm

ITL, they don’t have a 3 legged race

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:26 pm

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:26 pm

CT=camel toe

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:26 pm

But they do have pole vault.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:27 pm

swiss WTH (LOL)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:27 pm

Pole vault!!! I am laughing out loud. :)

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:27 pm

Single ~ well, this is one late bloomer (so to speak) that will be collecting some items along the way before leaving this Earth! Catch me if you can….

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:29 pm

I used to think CT meant C u n t

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:30 pm

Leggs, you’re a dirty girl. I knew there was a reason I liked you.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:30 pm

Swiss, but don’ t you feel funny when you running and your arms are stroking and that pole is just a bouncing. I always seem to bring the pole over and knock the bar off, haven’t figured out how to let it go yet

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:32 pm

“I always seem to bring the pole over and knock the bar off, haven’t figured out how to let it go yet”

It’s easy — once you get airborne, just think of dead puppies or grandma nekkid.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:32 pm

You know, just like in middle school.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:32 pm

Ewwwwww…lol

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:33 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:33 pm

Leggs, I was in my 40’s when I started. we all have to start somewhere.

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
5:33 pm

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:34 pm

Swiss yea that works (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:35 pm

Swiss But you have to time it just right, cause if you don’t that wouldn’t be a pretty site.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:35 pm

__________________flatline_________________________

Just dayum, Swiss.

Leggs: I despise that word. I was called that once, and realized pretty quickly that I would rather be called anything but that.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:37 pm

Alright, I think my work here is done. :lol:

Goodnight, folks!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:38 pm

CT= Camel Toe, now i’m really confused

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:39 pm

Night, Swissypoo.

Night, Leggs.

@Stamps: C’mon, man. You know what that means. I was born at night, but it wasn’t last night.

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:40 pm

Thank you ITL…he just wants someone to open up (no pun intended) and talk about it.

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:44 pm

Oh, wait, I spoke too soon. I see have have more work to do — S/H, here’s another example of camel toe: http://www.justsaypictures.com/images/camel-toe-05.png

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
5:45 pm

Now my work here is done. :lol:

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:48 pm

dang Swiss WTH, okay now I think I get it.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:48 pm

@C: I know, right? I could hear you whispering in my ear, “don’t fall for it, Twink!” :lol:

@Swiss: Go love on Mrs. Swiss and tell SuisseMochette Noelle I said hi and QUIT CAUSING TROUBLE! ;)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:49 pm

ITL – See I’m suppose to be gone but I was afraid it was a trap…lol I had to make sure you made out alright

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:53 pm

Honest guys that’s a first for me, not trying to get anyone to say anything

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:56 pm

Single and Happy – You’re not a virgin right or anything right? Not being funny

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
5:57 pm

Never mind, it’s going to take too much time…lol I’m out of here for real

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
5:57 pm

no i’m not, but didn’t know about the camel toe

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
5:59 pm

Good looking out, Twink. :) I’m glad you had my back.

@Stamps: Man, please. Are you for real?

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
6:00 pm

yes I am, why is that hard to believe?

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
6:02 pm

Because if you can typ P Cat, then you’ve by-passed the CT

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
6:02 pm

Twink – Someone is pulling a fast one…lol

C’mon Single and Happy, c’mon mayne….lol

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
6:03 pm

this is the first time i’ve heard it call the CT you learn something new every day

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
6:04 pm

Mmm hmmm, okay then. We believe you :mrgreen:

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:06 pm

If you say so, Stamps. (shrugs) Maybe they just don’t use that word where you from.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:07 pm

But, uh….Stamps???

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
6:08 pm

see you can teach an ole dogs some new tricks

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:09 pm

Bow wow and urban dictionary. Here ends today’s lesson. ;)

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
6:09 pm

I’m outta here. Y’all be sweet. :razz: