One of our MIA blog readers would like a little advice about what he should do. He and his girlfriend recently had “the talk” and decided to go exclusive. Soon after the talk, he goes on a weekend trip with his boys and has a little inappropriate contact with random girl at bar.
He knows that since they had “the talk” he should own up to his indiscretion. The problem is, his girlfriend broke up with the last guy for a similar offense. Although he believes what he did was “not as bad” the fact that he didn’t actually sleep with someone else means he should keep it to himself.
If you are in an exclusive relationship, would you confess if you did a little dirt on the side? Would it matter the degree of the offense?
If someone you were seeing did something inappropriate with someone else, would you want them to tell you?
What would do if you your new boyfriend/girlfriend had an encounter with someone else, right after you decided to be exclusive?
P.S. For the record, I believe that if you hook up with someone else on vacation/out of the country or state..it’s still cheating. Seriously, don’t ever ask for a pass on something like that.
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog