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Should you confess indiscretions?

One of our MIA blog readers would like a little advice about what he should do. He and his girlfriend recently had “the talk” and decided to go exclusive. Soon after the talk, he goes on a weekend trip with his boys and has a little inappropriate contact with random girl at bar.

He knows that since they had “the talk” he should own up to his indiscretion. The problem is, his girlfriend broke up with the last guy for a similar offense. Although he believes what he did was “not as bad” the fact that he didn’t actually sleep with someone else means he should keep it to himself.

If you are in an exclusive relationship, would you confess if you did a little dirt on the side? Would it matter the degree of the offense?

If someone you were seeing did something inappropriate with someone else, would you want them to tell you?

What would do if you your new boyfriend/girlfriend had an encounter with someone else, right after you decided to be exclusive?


P.S. For the record, I believe that if you hook up with someone else on vacation/out of the country or state..it’s still cheating. Seriously, don’t ever ask for a pass on something like that.

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:29 pm

Swiss I thought she was more of a safety, can’t get anything past her (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:30 pm

Cel or it may have been from all the accidents of people slipping in the stands (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:30 pm

Single and Happy – Good one….lolololol Stoooop

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:31 pm

“I thought she was more of a safety”

S/H — Have you seen her booty? Don’t want to waste that kind of talent on defense. :lol:

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:31 pm

Single and Happy – Another good one!!!

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:32 pm

Cel the Atlanta team was named the Steam, the moved to Charlotte, couldn’t find a stadium to play in

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:33 pm

Swiss – We can always get a league going for recreational purposes. I wouldn’t recommend any of the public parks though. Somebody’s backyard??

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:33 pm

Single and Happy – I sure they couldn’t

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:34 pm

Swiss no unfortunately I haven’t :-( (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:35 pm

Cel I have a big back yard (drooling)

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:36 pm

LOL Cel…I might like that! I’ll mention it to new guy!

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:37 pm

Single and Happy – Yeah, I just bet you would be so charitable and loan it out.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:37 pm

Yes I would Cel

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:38 pm

Bluzy – Run it by him….IN A TEXT

Single and Happy – All I can say again is I just bet you would…lol

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:39 pm

Single and Happy – I noticed, you drool a lot. What’s up with that?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:40 pm

LOL!!!

I have a big backyard, but could use one of the boys to mow it first!

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
2:40 pm

If you guys are still on Ambien,

ITL – Since you’ve been seeing the same doctor since age 8, do you think it may be time to get a different perspective on the issues you have? How many ways can he say the same thing or you talk about the same thing? Just a thought, but really wondering how therapy works from such a young age into adulthood with the same doctor.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:40 pm

You would think with all the strip clubs, a lingerie league could make here. If you can’t make here you can’t make anywhere (LOL)

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:41 pm

Oh wait, with all the strip clubs, the lingerie league may have been over dressed (LOL)

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:42 pm

ba domp domp

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:42 pm

Cel, I like women, they make me go gaga

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
2:44 pm

Bluz correct us, but the doctor that gave you the ambien isn’t your therapist?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:44 pm

Leggs…It’s me who is on the Ambien. I have been seeing the same GP since I was 8…therapy for only the last 2 years…

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
2:45 pm

Single and Happy – No kidding!!! That’s QUITE apparent.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:45 pm

And it is GP that prescribes the Ambien…

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:47 pm

“I have a big backyard, but could use one of the boys to mow it first!”

Did Bluz just ask an MLB representative to give her a Brazilian?

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:48 pm

swiss…LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have no comeback for that…

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
2:50 pm

@Bluz: Just suggesting some alternatives, but hey…if it ain’t broke….

@Swiss: Boy, you are on a roll today…. LOL

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
2:53 pm

But speaking of body hair…. some of those male gymnasts could use a little scaping in the pits. UGH! It looks like pits gone wild. :eek:

But, um…..the male track and field stars??? ITL likey the slo-mo. :oops: Don’t judge me.

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
2:56 pm

ITL…I couldn’t agree more about the gymnasts! The swimmers sure are hot, though!!!

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
2:57 pm

“But, um…..the male track and field stars??? ITL likey the slo-mo. Don’t judge me.”

ITL — I won’t judge you for drooling over the bouncing mandingo in slow-mo if you won’t judge me for reading lips during women’s track & beach volleyball.. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
2:58 pm

LOL…….@Light
I find out here that’s why the dvr was in the still mode?

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
2:59 pm

I have a big backyard, but could use one of the boys to mow it first!

swiss…..

Bluzgirl

August 6th, 2012
3:00 pm

O/T…I’m so excited today because I’m having my first bass lesson tonight!

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:00 pm

ITL – I was watching some of the slow-mo’s and i couldn’t get past the fumbling faces with every step. Sort of looked like a st. benard with the head hanging out of the window

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

Nevermind, I see swiss was already on it.

Single and Happy "don't judge others simply because they sin differently than you"

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

Bluz, I guess you only got your front yard mowed (LOL)

i'm swiss

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

“ITL – I was watching some of the slow-mo’s and i couldn’t get past the fumbling faces with every step”

Slim — Pretty sure ITL was looking lower. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

There will be x-rated gymnastics at the next Olympics.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:01 pm

@Bluz: I’ve always been a fan of the iliac crest, and the swimmers and divers show them to perfection…. Mercy. A girl could cut her tongue self on those sharp ridges. :lol:

@Swiss: No judgment here. I just cannot help but look….it’s mesmerizing. Some of those guys are blessed with way more than athletic skill. IJS….

Leggs

August 6th, 2012
3:02 pm

SlimUno ~ we were laughing at the faces too, along with the bulging eyes on some of those runners.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:03 pm

@BF re the “still mode”: guilty as charged. :oops:

@Slim: They showed their faces?!?!? :lol: :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 6th, 2012
3:03 pm

On that note I’m out y’all be good.

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:07 pm

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:08 pm

ITL – You are so crazy! :lol: I may take notice later on tonight ;-) Glad to see you in better spirits than earlier

Leggs – Yeah I was taken back by it at first lol But them boys were Giiizzzoooooone!

SlimUno

August 6th, 2012
3:10 pm

I’ve just started playing Words with Friend this past weekend and I think i’m addicted already. I’m such a novice though

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:11 pm

@Slim: Thanks! :) BTW, I thought the scene with Sanya Richards-Ross and her hubby/sister/cousin was really sweet. I love seeing a husband look at his wife the way Aaron was looking at her. Too sweet.

Jake...SPJTWB

August 6th, 2012
3:11 pm

On topic, never confess anything…get caught, confessing dayum sho not gonna make it better…

I must say that the best thing I have seen in the Olympics was the Women’s 100 metter final….it was some talent on the track then….I’ve always been partial to the “track body”….

Celisea

August 6th, 2012
3:15 pm

Okay, where are we now?

Into the Light

August 6th, 2012
3:17 pm

We’re right here. :)