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Can you unbreak a heart?

I wish there was a way to corral all the bad girls in Atlanta together and make them face the trail of broken hearts they left behind. There are so any wounded men walking around this city. Talk about The Walking Dead – dead inside!

I have heard a lot of horror stories from men who are left bitter, scorned, gun-shy. They tell me they are in no hurry to take a leap of faith on another “pathetic broad” – (That’s right, women often become broads or females post bad breakups).

I have personally had to listen to a man call his ex Satan on our first date. Another, said his ex-wife had no soul. Of course, I sympathize and empathize with broken-hearted men. I have been there before too! I just don’t know if I can handle the challenge of un-breaking a guy’s heart, restoring his faith in women again. It just sounds exhausting! (I’m lazy, I know)

What can you do when you meet someone great but they are not open to anything meaningful because of what the last person did to them? Do you think waiting it out and proving you are different then their ex is a smart move?

Have you ever met someone who is suffering from a heartbreak, yet they want still want to date you and see where it goes?

Did you ever go through a bitter phase? How did you get through it? Did you put dating on the back burner or were you actively seeking a rebound person?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

597 comments Add your comment

HST

July 26th, 2012
3:33 pm

How do you make words in bold?

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:34 pm

well, i think it might be the second part. not the fried chicken…

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:34 pm

So you can’t say me.lon?

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:35 pm

Comon ~ before the day gets away from us, let me take this time and thank you for joining our blog conversation. Not only that, you jumped into the mire right out the gate with a personal account and surfaced pretty much unscathed. That’s rare here in Blogsville. If you stick around, your vest will be thrown to you in about 2 weeks.

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:35 pm

I said ITL says “I like fried chicken and waterme.lon too!” and it filtered it. Thought it was a glitch on my end…

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:35 pm

Comon — Here’s a tip: the filter tries to look for bad words even in other languages. So even words like “repu.tation” will get flagged because it contains “pu.ta.”

Whoever programmed the filter is a dumbass.

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:36 pm

Leggs: I have to say, you have all been interesting and entertaining today. I am glad I stumbled upon this blog. Didn’t do any work today (thank GOD for paralegals!) and I will definitely be back to visit again!

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:36 pm

Yeah, “me.lon” is forbidden because it contains “me.lo” :lol:

Note that I was able to say “dumbass.”

Stupid f__king filter. lol

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:37 pm

i’m swiss~ I would have to agree with you.

Leggs~ as I come back, I will keep you guys posted on the progress of the situation. I go to court in October, so we’ll see how it goes.

disco

July 26th, 2012
3:38 pm

swiss – breathe in, breathe out. breathe in, breathe out.

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:38 pm

Oh boy, I think swiss is revved up.

disco

July 26th, 2012
3:39 pm

CC – ditto. thanks for stopping by. you can sit on the porch with me any time. do you know how to play spades? lol.

HST

July 26th, 2012
3:39 pm

How do you guys boldface out here?

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:40 pm

You do that, Comon. We will be here if you need support in your favor or in your child’s favor (more likely will lean with the child), but you get my drift.

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:42 pm

disco / Leggs — I have patience for a lot of things, but stupid isn’t one of them. :lol:

disco

July 26th, 2012
3:43 pm

swiss – I agree. looks like the filter people “play too much”

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:43 pm

disco~ I am a spades champion. But don’t let me play with the hubby as a partner because we cheat… IJS

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:44 pm

HST~ I want to know how tey bold too. And make their smileys laugh…

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:44 pm

Comon Cents – You said you’re a gal right? Just want to make sure I don’t get folks mixed up on here. I initially thought you was a dude until you said different. Okay…got it :)

Willie Dynamite

July 26th, 2012
3:45 pm

Swiss- everybody always ask about SwissMocha and the Mrs. How are you doing man?

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:46 pm

Let’s see if this works…

For bold text:

<![CDATA[bold text here]]>

For italic text:

<![CDATA[italic text here]]>

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:46 pm

HST – use lessn symbol then type the word “strong” then close with greater than symbol, type what you want bold then, less than symbol then “/strong” then greater than symbol.

whew, does that work???

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:46 pm

Nope…

Basically, just use the HTML “strong” and “em” tags to bold & italicize.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:47 pm

Nine pages of fun fun fun, two new bloggers in one day. Whoo hoo, attendance is on the rise. That’s a good sign :) I thought I saw Single and Happy earlier. Maybe not. Oh and Ray Charles to the BS…that’s 4 in a week. Keep ‘em coming. We NEED new folks to mix it up, give it some spice (yesterday’s topic..lol), keep things fresh and anew :)

Glad to have y’all NEWBIES!!

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:47 pm

Do not like people who cheat at cards..it boils my senses. Spades is elementary, my dear watson. I challenge you to a game of bid whist!

Willie Dynamite

July 26th, 2012
3:48 pm

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:48 pm

Willie D — We’re all doing well, thanks man! My only complaint is that Mrs. Swiss’s tittays have never looked more inviting, but they’re too sore for me to really have fun with…. :lol:

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:50 pm

HST / Comon — I used to have a whole cheat sheet for all of the font styling & emoticons, but I think I blew it away when I re-installed Ubuntu on my web server. Oops.

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:53 pm

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:53 pm

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:55 pm

I still have the cheat sheet…I printed when you posted. Anybody need it??

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:55 pm

Yea, not working for me… Oh well. I have still enjoyed blogging with you guys today.

disco~ I only cheat when I play with the hubs and it’s not even intentional! We have known each other so long, I just know what he’s thinking/doing. As my sister-in-law says “When someone cheats at cards it makes your ass itch? LOL! :D

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
3:56 pm

C ~ YES! I always wanted to learn how do all that stuff!

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:56 pm

WillieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeD – :)

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:56 pm

bold:
bold text here

italics:
italic text here

Just remove the spaces from those tags.

SlimUno

July 26th, 2012
3:57 pm

And to this day, you can’t even say the name “Me.lo” (minus the period) without your post getting blocked

Reminds me of the movie Beetlejuice lol

Willie Dynamite

July 26th, 2012
3:57 pm

Swiss – you already whooped man (good), answering we to a ? About YOU.

Tween me and you, re: soreness. Stop knawing man, Get you a feather, baby oil, stethoscope and some patience. Fight the urge to dive in and just sit back and perform. Trust me on this one.

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:57 pm

Dammit! It recognized the tags with the spaces… okay, here…

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:57 pm

swiss ~ I still have your cheat sheet. Is it ok if I post it or I can send to you via email…whatever your preference.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:58 pm

Comon Cents – Okay you know I’m “challenged” a bit so I’ll have to fax to myself and figure out how to post here under a link. If you can tell me quicker (lol), then post it here and I’ll follow your instructions.

When I say I’m not tech savvy, I AM NOT…lol

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:58 pm

[strong]bold text here[/strong]

[em]italic text here[/em]

Just replace the [ ] above with

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:59 pm

Comon Cents – Never mind…Leggs will handle.

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
3:59 pm

Motherf__ker… ;lol:

SlimUno

July 26th, 2012
3:59 pm

Cel – I need the cheat sheet too because when we upgraded our systems it erased all that stuff. :-(

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
3:59 pm

Have to have swiss’ permission.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
4:00 pm

Slim – What’s your fax (if you can post)? If not, Leggs says she has a copy.

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
4:00 pm

Leggs — If you try to post it here, it won’t work. If you email it to me, I’ll put a link up to it as a plain text file & then you’ll be able to actually see the symbols without the browser actually rendering the markup.

HST

July 26th, 2012
4:03 pm

OK, that went right over my head, I am a computer dummy.

OK now I don’t feel so inept, or least alone…haha.

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
4:04 pm

Into the Light...Happy She Got Her Flirt On

July 26th, 2012
4:05 pm