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Can you unbreak a heart?

I wish there was a way to corral all the bad girls in Atlanta together and make them face the trail of broken hearts they left behind. There are so any wounded men walking around this city. Talk about The Walking Dead – dead inside!

I have heard a lot of horror stories from men who are left bitter, scorned, gun-shy. They tell me they are in no hurry to take a leap of faith on another “pathetic broad” – (That’s right, women often become broads or females post bad breakups).

I have personally had to listen to a man call his ex Satan on our first date. Another, said his ex-wife had no soul. Of course, I sympathize and empathize with broken-hearted men. I have been there before too! I just don’t know if I can handle the challenge of un-breaking a guy’s heart, restoring his faith in women again. It just sounds exhausting! (I’m lazy, I know)

What can you do when you meet someone great but they are not open to anything meaningful because of what the last person did to them? Do you think waiting it out and proving you are different then their ex is a smart move?

Have you ever met someone who is suffering from a heartbreak, yet they want still want to date you and see where it goes?

Did you ever go through a bitter phase? How did you get through it? Did you put dating on the back burner or were you actively seeking a rebound person?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

597 comments Add your comment

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 26th, 2012
2:27 pm

Bonanza is on that means I have a few minutes to go before I can holla I’m free.

Jake...SPJTWB

July 26th, 2012
2:27 pm

NEW QUOTE, NEW QUOTE!!!!…and since I was using CAPS, one more time, “FREE WESLEY”…lol

“There are a lot of people who feed off your misery. Starve those biotches to death!”

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:29 pm

Imma need a snack. For lunch I had a bed of greens with a scoop of tuna. I’m still hungry.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:29 pm

plate of greens

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
2:29 pm

@disco – Yeah you know me!

Jake...SPJTWB

July 26th, 2012
2:30 pm

Comon-I do don’t I, and they stand for….

Sweet Peeda Jeeda, The Womb Beater!!!

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:30 pm

as in salad…not collards

disco

July 26th, 2012
2:30 pm

if y’all (we) keep it up it might be another record breaking day up in here. way to go team!!!

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
2:33 pm

LMAO @ Jake!

Disco~ What record are you (we) trying to break. Sorry I’m new here…

Sassy Me...The blacker the berry... :-)

July 26th, 2012
2:34 pm

as in salad…not collards

I hope you had a salad and NOT collards with that tuna fish…lol

disco

July 26th, 2012
2:34 pm

CC – just that we’ve got quite a few pages going, keeping a good steady pace. some days are SLOW.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:35 pm

That’s why I re-stated…lol That did sound weird

HST

July 26th, 2012
2:35 pm

It was 9 for me, but I wasted no-time.

I never implied that you didn’t take responsibility if that’s what you were inferring.

I too find some humor in the MDiv degree, and would have chucked with you if we were friends.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:36 pm

disco – We’re standing the real test today. No shenanigans (except Comon), not bickering, no attacks, not major cutting up (hey ITL)…just a normal flor?

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:36 pm

SlimUno

July 26th, 2012
2:38 pm

Cel – I’m glad you clarified that, I was going to say that tuna and collards is a combo i’ve NEVER heard of. lol

I’m having a cinnamon bun for a snack ;-)

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
2:38 pm

You know I gotta cut up a little bit, C.

(ITL now singing, I gotta be me…….) :lol:

Into the Light...Pure as the Driven Snow

July 26th, 2012
2:39 pm

Uh oh. Slim said cinnamon bun. Honeybun will be here in a minute.

HST

July 26th, 2012
2:39 pm

I had greens and tuna for lunch yesterday C.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:39 pm

Slim – LOL…I know right? I think I’m going “light” in the snack department….I think

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:40 pm

HST – Greens? Salad?

Jake...SPJTWB

July 26th, 2012
2:40 pm

I am also a licensed, LLL.

Lick’em Low Lover…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 26th, 2012
2:41 pm

disco I was implying you are a sophisticated get in your face girl……LOL Know the books and know how to run the streets. Now that’s a gal worth the chasing.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:41 pm

ITL – I there with you..lol I like cutting up. I purposed, in my heart today, I would NOT clown. It’s not easy though…lol

SlimUno

July 26th, 2012
2:42 pm

Jake – LI (love it) lol

HST

July 26th, 2012
2:44 pm

I despise dieting, but I like seeing my abs more. Stupid protein shake and fruit for lunch. Now I can’t stop thinking about Nigiri!

Willie Dynamite

July 26th, 2012
2:45 pm

Afternoon All,

Looks around and thinks, WhannaHELL going on in here?

I’ll just keep walking and nod. I need a drink to try figure out who these people are and what have they done with my blog crazies.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 26th, 2012
2:46 pm

LOL……@Jake 2:40

That’s a good one for the fellas.

HST

July 26th, 2012
2:47 pm

Yes C, just like you – greens as in salad. I’ve always called salad greens, and collards collards.

HST

July 26th, 2012
2:49 pm

Leggs

July 26th, 2012
2:49 pm

WillieD ~ you make it sound like you walked into a scence from The Body Snatchers.

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
2:49 pm

“I too find some humor in the MDiv degree, and would have chucked with you if we were friends”~ even though we are not friends feel free to chuckle.

“We’re standing the real test today. No shenanigans (except Comon), not bickering, no attacks, not major cutting up (hey ITL)…just a normal flor?”~ Didn’t you know that shenanigans, alcohol and sarcasm are what most friendships are based on these days?

disco

July 26th, 2012
2:49 pm

BF – I am a unique individual indeed. sometimes it’s funny to watch the personalities/vernaculars shift from professional to regular to straight hood and back. what can I say? I’m versatile.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:49 pm

HST – Gotcha. I don’t like dieting either. I’m do MUCH better with my junk food/no good for you food intake :) I’ve never been big on fast foods anyway. I don’t trust folks and their idea of cleanliness. But I’m not a big cooker anymore either. I use to when my kid was small.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:50 pm

WillieD – The crazies? Chile we don’t know. We’re just on the blog bus. Apparently it comes with the ride…lol

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:51 pm

Comon Cents – Didn’t you know that shenanigans, alcohol and sarcasm are what most friendships are based on these days?

Nuh uh, I didn’t know. You taught me something today though. Sounds good to me :)

disco

July 26th, 2012
2:51 pm

I’ll own alcohol and sarcasm. not claiming shenanigans though.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:52 pm

disco – Shenanigans consists of an array of things….lol

Willie Dynamite

July 26th, 2012
2:54 pm

Had to go back and speed read a few pages to see how yall got to this point.

Alrighty then. Think I’ll stay posted up in my corner to stay outta trouble.

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
2:55 pm

disco~ not all shenanigans are bad. On the contrary, some are good and fun; those ususally come from the sarcasm and alcohol…

Into the Light...Pure as the Driven Snow

July 26th, 2012
2:55 pm

ITL: I’ll take Shenanigans for 800 please, Alex.
Alex: This famous blog meeting spot, is known for it’s “multiple” attractions.
ITL: What is Bonefish??

Into the Light...Pure as the Driven Snow

July 26th, 2012
2:56 pm

Exiled!

July 26th, 2012
2:56 pm

You got a good one today! :lol:

Fu-cking, leaving ,coming back, Fu-ck some more ,bring another, fuc with them

That’s what we call Rotation! :lol:

@Common C? Did u grow up in a loving family or there were some issues growing up?

(I know it’s done at this point but)

disco

July 26th, 2012
2:56 pm

C – yep. but I’m not claiming shenanigans. in my mind shenanigans is too close to “play too much”. I just can’t get down with the “play too much”.

“red rover, red rover, let Willie D come over”. don’t be scared man. join in the fun.

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
2:56 pm

Hi, Willie! Now that you know all of my sordid past, nice to meet you!!! LMAO!

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
2:58 pm

Exactly. When I say shenanigans, I’m not talking waaaay to the left.

Into the Light...Pure as the Driven Snow

July 26th, 2012
2:58 pm

Off to see my guilty pleasure. If I’m not back in 10 minutes, y’all will know he is looking exceptionally fine today. :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 26th, 2012
2:58 pm

LOL…….@Light you went there.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
3:00 pm

MMeello – Well just kick the down down then…lololol

disco – I feel you on the “playing too much”

Exiled!

July 26th, 2012
3:00 pm

Like the son in the direct tv commercial stumbling on
parents swinger party

Willie and I stumbled on a Blog swinger’s party! :lol:

Enjoy! :lol: