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City & State or ZIP

Can you unbreak a heart?

I wish there was a way to corral all the bad girls in Atlanta together and make them face the trail of broken hearts they left behind. There are so any wounded men walking around this city. Talk about The Walking Dead – dead inside!

I have heard a lot of horror stories from men who are left bitter, scorned, gun-shy. They tell me they are in no hurry to take a leap of faith on another “pathetic broad” – (That’s right, women often become broads or females post bad breakups).

I have personally had to listen to a man call his ex Satan on our first date. Another, said his ex-wife had no soul. Of course, I sympathize and empathize with broken-hearted men. I have been there before too! I just don’t know if I can handle the challenge of un-breaking a guy’s heart, restoring his faith in women again. It just sounds exhausting! (I’m lazy, I know)

What can you do when you meet someone great but they are not open to anything meaningful because of what the last person did to them? Do you think waiting it out and proving you are different then their ex is a smart move?

Have you ever met someone who is suffering from a heartbreak, yet they want still want to date you and see where it goes?

Did you ever go through a bitter phase? How did you get through it? Did you put dating on the back burner or were you actively seeking a rebound person?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

597 comments Add your comment

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
4:56 pm

ITL, WillieD? Nothing? I thought we were about to get the mullet/jorts thing going. Nothing?

Into the Light....feeling left out.

July 26th, 2012
4:56 pm

@C: I’m glad you’re staying!!!

@Swiss: boo, you are a LOT of things but chopped liver is not one of them. ;)

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
4:56 pm

Well dernit, I guess not huh…YAAAAAAY….page 12

Willie Dynamite

July 26th, 2012
4:57 pm

ITL – I quit, you don’t play fair. Hahaha

Into the Light....feeling left out.

July 26th, 2012
4:57 pm

Soooo, I have a question.

If Swiss’s job is the blog breaker-downer, who would fill the other blog jobs?

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
4:58 pm

disco – lololol…thank you ma’am We needed that

ITL – I’z here for you girl…

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
4:58 pm

Hey C~ they said light skinned guys are making a comeback so maybe we will see Al B. Sure soon…

SlimUno

July 26th, 2012
4:58 pm

I made it unscathed….see yall next week. Im outta here biotches!

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
4:58 pm

ITL – What are the other blog jobs???

Into the Light....feeling left out.

July 26th, 2012
4:58 pm

I’m sorry, WD. C’mere…let me rub your bald head for luck (in a completely friendly way that is IN NO WAY disprespectful to Mrs. Dynamite or the Dynamitettes). :)

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
4:59 pm

Bye, Slim!

@C: I dunno. I was thinking we might need to generate the list.

I nominate BF as Blog Sheriff.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
4:59 pm

Comon Cents – I don’t know about what they say but Celisea only dated “light skinned” guys…nothing knew or spectacular to me. I like them all shades. That’s just what’s been attracted to me :)

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
5:00 pm

Okay…so

Blackfoote – Blog Sheriff
Swiss – Blog breaker-downer

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
5:01 pm

Celisea’s only date

nothing new to me

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
5:01 pm

Guys, I got to run. Got to go pick up lil cents. I’ll catch you later. This was fun!

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
5:02 pm

Can I be the domain master of debauchery? I think I’m qualified…

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
5:02 pm

Comon Cents – Ohhhhh, my bad…lolol I thought you said maybe YOU (as in me), will see Al B Sure…oooh, my bad

I’m not looking for Al B. :)

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
5:03 pm

Comon Cents – Unless you’re some kind of woman, I think “debauchery” of anything should be assigned to one of the men. Dontchu think? It’s just not lady like :) BUT, if you can hang, I say the job is yours :)

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:04 pm

I think you are a shoe-in for the job, Cents! :)

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
5:04 pm

C~ based on what’s gone on in my life, I think I can hang. IJS… ;)

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:05 pm

@C: What’s your job gonna be?

I think we should put For Real on the refreshment committee, since he likes those dang honeybuns so much.

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
5:05 pm

Comon Cents – Okay GIRL, you got it!! It’s yours. Work it!!

Comon Cents

July 26th, 2012
5:06 pm

See you guys later! Have a great night!

Celisea....just agreeing today :)

July 26th, 2012
5:07 pm

ITL – I don’t want to be in the spotlight. Can I man the doors and pull the curtains? If they’re not yea high, no entrance. If they don’t rub the stump for good luck, no entrance. Oh, and handing out blog vests???

Can I? Please?

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:08 pm

Mother may I????

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:08 pm

@C: I don’t see why not. But you might have to wrassle (yup, I said wrassle) Leggs for blog vest hander outer. She always does that.

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:08 pm

ITL – Okay…I’ll just man the doors and pull the curtains :)

What’s your job going to be?

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:09 pm

I think we should make Sassy Chief Manties Patroller. You know she can spot ‘em in a minute. LOL

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:09 pm

I dunno. What do you think would be a good job for me?

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:10 pm

Yes! That’s a good one. Can we throw in handing out warnings, prior to said citation?

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:11 pm

I think it’s up to her to set the policy, but yeah….I think a warning is probably in order. Unless it’s a really greivous offense.

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:11 pm

I think “greeter”…you would do fantab in that position :)

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:12 pm

Gotcha on Manty Handler….ohhhh, love that title…Manty Handler :)

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:12 pm

We should bring this up tomorrow, so other bloggers can select their jobs, too. Wonder what disco will pick? Kimmie? Leggs? Willie D? Jake? This could be a riot!

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:13 pm

Awwww, I like greeter. Plus, it’ll be good practice for when I retire and work part time at Wal-Mart. LOLOLOL

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:13 pm

Manty Handler! That made me laugh out loud.

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:14 pm

I’m scared to think of what Ex’s job might be….. Dear Lord, help us.

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:14 pm

Okay…cool.

So far we have

Blackfoote – Sheriff
Swiss – Blog breaker-downer
Sassy – Manty Handler
ITL – Greeter
Celisea – Door man gal

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:15 pm

Ooooh, I think disco should be the counselor. You know she will give it to ‘em straight; no sugar coating. We need that kind of honesty.

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:15 pm

LOLOLOL….not Walmart greeter….LOLOLOLOL Move over, I just might be working with you there :)

I think he and Comon Cents can share the debauchery thingy. I’m SURE there’s enough for the both of them to get in on it…lol

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:16 pm

Okay….cool, disco is counselor

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:17 pm

Alright mey ladee (let me stop), it’s time for me to scadaddle :)

Night!

I might have to come up with a better job for myself tomorrow. Nobody better not crack either…lol

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:17 pm

Yeah, but he gets so out of control with the nastiness sometimes. He’s in a category by himself. :lol:

Into the Light

July 26th, 2012
5:18 pm

Night, C!

Don’t forget to practice your “Welcome to Walmart” greeting on the way home. We’ve only got 30 years to get it just right. :lol:

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:19 pm

Well seeing how Comon have weathered the crazies by her account today, I think she can handle MMello. If not she can just knock him across the head a time or two…lol

Celisea

July 26th, 2012
5:19 pm

i'm swiss

July 26th, 2012
5:31 pm

For the record, I believe “Manty Wrangler” is a better title. But that’s just me…