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Trust your ex around your next?

I am stumped on this latest dating misadventure. I am lucky enough not to have experienced this one:

One of our readers is slightly freaking out since her ex ?? (um ex-fling/hook up/random guy to past the time with just befriended her new man. At this point, she is unsure if it was deliberate or if they simply met each other through friends innocently. To make matters worse, he has a little dirt on her. Just enough to make the new man’s opinion of her change. (She won’t say what it is, specifically but my imagination is working overtime).

I can say that if an ex of mine met my new beau, I’d probably freak out a little bit too. I just don’t know what my exes could say or do to wreck things. Why would the want to?

What would you do if your ex and your new mate became buddies or BFFs. Would you worry about what would be revealed about you?

Is this good reason to have full disclosures in a new relationship. That way, you won’t worry about something coming out before you want it to?

Have you ever met an ex partner of your significant other?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

409 comments Add your comment

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
5:52 am

If ur ex befriends your current and u think some dirt will come out,go All Out on offense..be proactive…say dirt about him or her to your current ahead of time.
That way when he/she starts heating stuff about you from him/her,the truth is now clouded and in a knot. Lol

Don’t wait there there like a sitting duck for people to try to define you. Define them before they define you!

That’s gangsta!

(beating Lily is now a routine)

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
5:52 am

oddmanout

July 25th, 2012
7:14 am

LOL!! I love this one!! The only problem that I might have, if this was to happen, is when the two of them start to compare stories/activities amongst themselves. I try to do diffent things with other guys, cant do the same thing twice and expect different outcome from it. #IJS

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
7:39 am

If I’m an ex, I have no interest telling the new guy anything concerning a relationship with an ex girl friend.

Good Morning:

SlimUno

July 25th, 2012
8:05 am

Good morning and RIP Mr. Jefferson (Sherman Hemsley)

Ray Charles to the BS

July 25th, 2012
8:19 am

Lol, when I met my ex’s, ex wife, we got a long so well that after meeting her and spending time with her and their kids( she is doing a great job with the kids too) I knew it was his arse that he had been the real a/hole. He talked about her like a dog, but it was mos definitly him!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
8:44 am

Well, I have to be frank….

First off, never do something that could possibly haunt you and if you do, never be ashamed. If it’s something you decided to do sans the new man or woman, it was your choice and decision to make. You’re an adult, that’s a priviledge that comes with :) IF by chance something transpired, say you aren’t ashamed of and someone wants to shake salt on your new thing, then I’m looking at your new person with a side-eye because it was prior to your connection with him or her.

As said all the time on here, everyone has a past. If you can’t look past that then too bad so sad for you. If you like that person and want to give it a go, you have to be open enough to not be affected by their past (I know…I’m having an out of body experience right about now…lol). Seriously, if your new person can’t detect or discern someone is trying to shake salt on y’alls new thing then maybe they aren’t the one for you.

Oh…morning lovelies!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
8:46 am

Oh…I forgot this piece…

You owe no one full disclosure. You’re a dummy to “splain” stuff that had nothing or no connection to the new person. Now, if it’s stuff you doing while with new person, then um yeah…that’s different.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
8:47 am

And if you’re THAT afraid, stop being Ms or Mr Freak of the Week…lolol

Ray Charles to the BS

July 25th, 2012
8:52 am

@Celisea- lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
8:55 am

Cracking me up already Cely, thanks I need that.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:00 am

Ray Charles – You see me?? LOLOL How are you?

Blackfoote – Heeey there big blog bro? What’s crackalackin?

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:06 am

good morning.

ex – your move isn’t gangsta. it’s junior high school “mean girl”.

C – I lean much more toward your approach. I owe no one any explanation for my behavior. quite frankly if new man is willing to sit back and listen to ex then that’s between the two of them. if ex feels better about himself for slinging dirt he can sling on. no matter what he says about me he knows at one point he still wanted me and probably still does since he can’t seem to get me off his mind.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
9:06 am

Morning, all!

Heeey, BBB (blog big bro). What’s for breakfast?

Nothing to say on topic (surprise, surprise….bring on the Romper Room comments!).

RIP Sherman Hemsley; we’ll miss you now that you;ve moved on up to the deluxe apartment in the sky

Ray Charles to the BS

July 25th, 2012
9:08 am

@Celisea- Your light is so bright I can see you from ova here! lol I’m good!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:09 am

disco – My sentiments exactly

ITL – You rolled in this morning and didn’t speak? To me, your twin twink? SHAME ON YOU!! :)

Ray Charles to the BS

July 25th, 2012
9:11 am

@ Light- everyone should know by now that the slinging of dirt is clearly a sign of scorn and scorn never comes from a trusted source.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:11 am

Ray Charles – :) :) Awww, that was sweet. That added to my already good mood. In a good mood for no reason…lol Didn’t get laid last night, I have the same amount of money I had yesterday (except 2.52), no good news of any sort….just in a grand ole mood :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
9:13 am

Morning Lady’s:

The breakfast buffet and bar is open, ya’ll help yourself.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:14 am

Blackfoote – Thanks but no thanks. I’m going light today. I have a small cup of grapes and cheese (2.52) :) No buffet for me today…way too heavy

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:15 am

BF – I know you mean well but that’s not funny. I would tear up a breakfast buffet right about now. folks might be looking at me like “you can’t take some folks anywhere”.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
9:17 am

Sorry, C, my bad. My stomach got ahead of my manners and me wondering what BF was cooking us for breakfast! :)

MORNING, TWINK!

@Ray: I have no idea why you addressed that to me, but um, okay.

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:18 am

C – nothing wrong with a good mood. the other day I was in a bad mood (for no apparent reason) and was attempting to explain it to my brother. he summed it up by saying that I was mad and had the nerve to be mad because I was mad.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:18 am

We’re going to miss Sherman Hemsley. I about as fond of The Jeffersons as I am Good Times :) :) My two most favorite syndicated sitcoms. I can watch them over and over and over. When I’m at my mom’s on holidays and I have it on the tube, my sister is having a caniption. Of course they have a gazillion tvs in that house…lol My mama, bless her heart is cool watching whatever I like. She laughs just as hard as I do…all over again. My sister is like, of all the movies on cable you’re watching Good Times and The Jeffersons.

George brought the madness and was NOT afraid to do so :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:19 am

disco – It happens that way. I could very well be walking in b!tchdom tomorrow…lol

ITL – Morning!!

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
9:19 am

I was mad and had the nerve to be mad because I was mad.

Some days be like that….. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
9:20 am

LOL……@disco you have a interesting family I can relate to.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:21 am

Some days be like that….

Yeah, when Aunt Flow comes to visit…she brings it all out of me. The headaches, the bad mood…all of it. Oh and will make you horny as ever KNOWING nothing you can do about it….in that moment

Sorry, went off the deep end there for a sec :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
9:21 am

I thought about y’all last night when I was watching Good Times. It was the one where the little boy on Florida’s bus has a hearing problem, but everyone thinks he’s slow. Well, everyone except Perfect Ms. Florida, who figures it out and proceeds to tell his mom.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:22 am

can’t do nothing about it

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:22 am

can’t do nothing about it

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:26 am

ITL – You know Flo was the matriach and was right all the dang time…lol

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
9:29 am

ALL the time. And had her nose in everybody’s business. It’s a wonder nobody ever caught her down in the laundry room and gave her a beatdown. ;)

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:33 am

BF – interesting is a nice way of putting it. lol.

C – I watch the jeffersons on tv one before leaving home each morning. I already mentioned I’ve got good times on dvd. been meaning to get jeffersons but haven’t got around to it yet.

as for me and my janky moods I recall once waking up in the morning literally having an attitude because the birds outside my window were singing to loud. attitudes/moods are most definitely unpredictable.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
9:33 am

LOL

Do y’all remember episodes where Flo and Maude would get into it.

QueenZee

July 25th, 2012
9:34 am

If my ex and my new mate became buddies or BFFs, it won’t stress me at all. Even though I won’t like the idea, I still wont border, I am confidence that my new beau will only listen to my words not the words of a broken heart or a possible hater. my ex can say or do whatever he wants, I am a woman who knows what she want and what she can keep, lol….and my ex is not one of the things I want to keep…lmao…u feel me????

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:34 am

Twink, you okay today??

Yeah, Wilona should have done it….lol It’s a wonder James, with his bad temper (and nostrils flared), didn’t smack her. He was around there smashing (not breaking) the one or two chairs they had…lol Hit Flo and keep the chairs…I’M KIDDING I’M KIDDING. Celisea does NOT advocate violence. Domestic violence at that.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:36 am

Blackfoote – I do. Remember when James would pick her up? They called him Henry on Maude.

disco – Not the little birdies….lol Po thangs, what ever did they do?

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
9:37 am

Morning

What are we still in Jr high? If my SO wants to listen to what my ex says, they will have a lot of time to do it because they will both be ex’s.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
9:38 am

Those episodes were on the Maude show before Flo went on to do Good Times.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:39 am

Speaking of BFFS….I was sitting next to my nosey, greedy, cheep aunt that was all crack on behind her back (sorry..that’s mean) after church service had ended. Why oh why was my brother texting me…lol First he was like “y’all sho is sitting mighty close and tight”, then he sends a text that said “BFFs for life” I was caracking up because I was trying to read AND SO WAS SHE…lol She was peeking over in my hand. When I looked across the church, he crossed his fingers to indicate that we were tight. I was laughing sooo hard and so was he and some of the other deacons sitting with him. She was the only one looking dazed and confused and wondering about the joke…that she knew nothing about

That was mean but my brother cuts up like that.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:40 am

that we all crack on behind her back…we as in the entire family

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
9:46 am

@C: Yeah, Twink, I’m fine. Busy, but good. :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:46 am

It’s been kind of nice the last couple of weeks around here… Last week I was gone, no meetings, no calls…nothing. The week before, everybody was out, gone, no meetings, no huddles..nothing

I have a 10:30 in the cute white guy’s office in which I’m dreading…ugh

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:47 am

ITL – Okay…just making sure you’re okay :)

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:47 am

C – since you are talking BFFs I have to get in a pet peeve. I hate the word “frenemy”. I hate when people use it. I hate that people embrace it. I will not call a person my friend and my enemy. you are either for me or against me. all that friends close, enemies closer stuff is for the birds as far as I’m concerned. frenemy is nothing but phoney. who has time?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:48 am

disco – Really. I like the word frenemy. It means you got a faker on your hands!!! They’re pretending to be a friend and holding the knife.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:51 am

Lord, we’ve veered away from the topic…lol Anybody want to speak..on topic? I’m going to hush now :)

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:53 am

C – I can accept a faker, they exist. I don’t see the point in pretending to be friends with said faker. just not my style. to quote you (I think it’s you, I could be mistaken), I’m not down for all that shucking and jiving, skinning and grinning. get out of my face with the phoney.

disco

July 25th, 2012
9:54 am

C – we are on topic. the ex that’s running off at the mouth is a frenemy. lol.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:55 am

disco – I can dig that. I’m not one for getting cozy with folks I know don’t like me… I just think the term is a good description of said faker. I will not though, hang out, break bread and all that other stuff on the basis of frenemy. I just know being a frenemy what you are and to keep my distance.

I could have quoted that, maybe not verbatim. Nope, can’t do faking.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:56 am

disco – The ex bumping his gums is wors than a frenemy, he’s a birl. What man does that???

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
9:59 am

Back on topic, I really can’t say or recall ever having been in that type situation. For a man or woman to befriend or badmouth or give details is just so silly and elementary.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
9:59 am

LOL…….@birl

Mr. Unknown

July 25th, 2012
10:02 am

I believe in being honest. Don’t live in fear of your past, its what defines you as a person. Most love showing off the shiny part of their past, present and future but conveniently skip over the bad, dark chapters of their lives. The worst thing in the world is to have someone(or a supposedly new friend) expose secrets about your current. It sucks!! Now the new guy is sitting there trying to figure out should he blast the fool that told him or blast the girlfriend that didn’t.

I say at this point she needs to do some preventive maintenance.

Morning all

disco

July 25th, 2012
10:03 am

BF – birl is real. lots of men have birly qualities. some are just better at masking it than others.

mr. unknown – I love how dude’s options are simply to “blast” somebody.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
10:09 am

Mr. Unknown – What preventative measures would you suggest? I mean at this point he can talk. Nothing she can do about that. I’m not going to try and beat someone to the punch (as suggested by MMeello). I’ve had someone to do that to me. When you’re trying to beat someone to the point, you’re creating something potentially dangerous that you’re not even sure about yourself. I’ve had someone to put something out (nothing really), because I believe the thought I would or had already talked. Look, this is a lesson I’ve learned…good, bad or indifferent, deal with folks that you can trust. Even if things are a bust, it’s a matter between two individuals. Dealing with folks that are spiteful and hurtful and lives by the motto I’ll get you before you get me is just plain crazy. I do not understand that. If it was the two of you, what happened there should stay there. That’s the way adults behave. I’m never going to be hold hostage to my past or things I’ve done. My mantra is I answer to God. Not saying you should live and have indiscretions all willy nilly but worry about people can be crippling.

If this woman (in the post) is on pins and needles, she should re-evaluate her behavior and the company she keeps. If he’s a stand-up man, he’ll see the dude shaking salt for what he really is.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
10:10 am

held and worrying

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
10:11 am

And no matter what women (some of us) say, today is proof positive that you CANNOT just do stuff and don’t eventually feel some kind of way about it.

disco

July 25th, 2012
10:18 am

in general I don’t get caught up much in what people say. way back when I was in junior high I got caught up in some “he say-she say” mess. my mother broke it down to me then that I was no better than jesus and people talked about him. the message stuck with me. that’s not to say that I haven’t had an incident or two or three or four in my life where I had to tell a person to keep my name out of their mouth but in general, I don’t too much sweat what folks say about me. an ex of mine can talk about me until his spit dries up.

Mr. Unknown

July 25th, 2012
10:25 am

From what I’m reading of the topic, the ex/jumpoff/in between guy has the power. I can guarantee her stomach is doing flip flops everytime she hears his name in a sentence. Thats too much power to give someone that is not even in your life anymore. Why stress about a subject that has the potential to be public knowledge anyway. She should address it, put the subject to bed and move forward.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
10:27 am

Mr Unknown – I agree with everything you said…except for her to address. There’s nothing to address IMO, as it was before the new guy and had nothing to do with him. It was a decision (albeit bad…IMO), to just sleep around with someone. But, it’s done. I agree, I bet her stomach is doing flip flops right about now. A good thing potentially gone before getting started. And that’s what I’m saying. What if she brings it up and the ex wasn’t/didn’t? Did she cause unnecessary harm?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
10:28 am

IMO, she should be prepared to talk about it if he asks. Even to that, she should be ready to tell him it was before him and be prepared to let it go. But I wouldn’t be stuttering and explaining stuff.

disco

July 25th, 2012
10:30 am

seems like most of the blog folks are for honesty. there is another alternative. the chick can LIE. lie like a rug. flip the script. call dude a liar. he’s always been a liar, that’s why we broke up in the first place. he was always lying about something.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
10:32 am

If you aren’t guilty, you don’t ever have to justify, Not guilty of the act but “guilty” She’s only guilty if it was while she was with the new guy.

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
10:37 am

What’s up with this need to know everything about everybody these days? If my past can’t harm you in anyway why do I need to tell you?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
10:38 am

That is a good one disco and valid. You’re right I wouldn’t get caught up in what somebody says. And It is more meaningless to me if it’s about someone else.

Robert

July 25th, 2012
10:41 am

“Have you ever met an ex partner of your significant other? ”

Ladies if this ever happens to you “do the right thing” and leave both of them alone. Your real Man wants to be friends with your ex-man? Is he insecure and trying to find “dirt” on you? Are they both on the “downlow”? I do not want to know the how, what, where and when you had good times with the ex-man.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
10:41 am

“What would you do if your ex and your new mate became buddies or BFFs. Would you worry about what would be revealed about you?” – I wouldn’t worry about a thing. I’m good people. My ex knows this and I wouldn’t feel threatened about any dirt he would have on me because the only dirt would be his words and how he feels about me. That’s his opinion, and since he’s my “new beau” I already know he’s strong and operates on what HE thinks and feels and is not easily swayed by others. One reason I picked him as my “new beau!”

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
10:46 am

Leggs gon head and throw your weight around.

disco

July 25th, 2012
10:49 am

single and happy – why do you think the so called reality shows and the entertainment news (translation gossip) are so popular? folks love to be up in other folks’ business. for various reasons of course. the sheer entertainment of it, to feel like your life is better than theirs, just to keep up and be “knowledgeable” on the goings on. take your pick.

robert – I like your downlow theory. lol. of course, it could just be that they clicked. also, I think many of us have “big city” mindsets. some folks, though, are “small town” as in they still live in a small town and the pickings are slimmer. they are used to “recycling” more than the rest of us.

while I’m not overly concerned about what an ex would say about me I have commented in the past that I wouldn’t hang out in a place where all of my exes congregated. in particular, I’ve joked about people being able to walk into a bar/club/house party/wherever and know that they had slept with half a dozen people in the room.

exiled

July 25th, 2012
10:50 am

speaking of frenemy, i really had to cut All communication with somebody i thought was a friend Disco…no explanation given, i just saw the signs after hearing some “informational gossip” from an acquaintance of wifey and then speaking to said friend and he pouts about same thing about me that i heard from said friend of wifey..put one on one together and i said hell no..i iant going to bother hanging nor talking to folks who think like that….im done…

Either u with me or the Terrorists! :grin:
I dont front either. If i dont like u, i dont like u.
Dot!

Mr. Unknown

July 25th, 2012
10:52 am

C- I understand what your saying but that would be selfish thinking on her part.

I hate being the last person in the room to know something. Trust me when I say the um ex-/fling/hook up/random guy has told somebody in his crew all about her secret and now the current guy maybe in an environment that consist of those same people that know all about her. All I’m saying is she should not have the new guy out among people in sheeps clothing with no ammo and she should not be stressing about it. There are to many unknowns or what ifs and the only person that will be directly affected is the new guy. But I get what your saying also.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
10:55 am

Had to laugh at “dot” instead of “period.” Different…

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
10:56 am

Disco, it’s not just those shows, anytime in the media if someone puts a mic in front of someones face they have to answer any question asked, or they must be hiding something. The problem being some people take that into a their daily lives also.

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:00 am

there are many gossip mongers among us. I won’t front. I’ll listen to some good, juicy gossip. every now and again I’ve got a little something good to dish. I don’t think I’m excessive with it though. I don’t wake up and plot my gossip strategy for the day. most folks and their issues I don’t give a dang about one way or the other.

speaking of exes – one of mine just called to confirm I was coming to his family reunion next weekend in Charleston. I was just in Charleston two weeks ago. now I wish I’d gone to savannah. oh well, it is what it is.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:05 am

Mr. Unknown – I gotcha. Still I think that if they’re going to give it a go, she’s gotta go with the flow and not sweat the other stuff. She can’t police him and where he’s going and with whom he’s keeping company. I understand though, where you’re coming from. I don’t really get though what you meant by it being selfish.

Trust me when I say the um ex-/fling/hook up/random guy has told somebody in his crew all about her secret and now the current guy maybe in an environment that consist of those same people that know all about her

And to your point here, you have to be thick skinned if you’re going to roll loosely everywhere with everybody. If you’re big enough to roll like that (and I’m not knocking), if you have to take the punches that comes with it. Or at least not care.

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
11:06 am

This reminds me of one day a co-worker asked me “could I keep a secret”, my response was evidently you can’t and walked away (LOL) People have gotten to where they won’t even tell me any gossip, because first they get the: and you’re tell me this why look, and if they continue, it’s the: their grown, they can do anything they want to, it’s not my business.

Ray Charles to the BS

July 25th, 2012
11:06 am

Good convo! But really who cares what a hateful ex has to say? What the sex was good? lol Grown people behaving badly.

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:07 am

OR – and celisea this is another one of my ghettoisms – you can make a brother pay dearly for what you do to him/for him. I have a cousin who would say “you can tell all your boys you screwed me but you better tell them how much it cost you”.

exiled

July 25th, 2012
11:07 am

Disco..he is confirming that u are invited?

dont write like a mandingo woman okay….clean up that…

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
11:08 am

Oh forgive me, good morning Lady’s :-)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:09 am

MMeello – I’m like that too. If I don’t like someone, I can easily pass you right on by. I’m like that at work. Y’all having cake for department backstabber, don’t look for me. I can walk past folks that I know are shady and never up to any good. I have no problem saying “good morning” and that’s all. I’ve said it before on here, I don’t play those kind of games. When we did our conference last year and all of us were there, my manager tells me afterwards, that she watched me and I don’t go or get into the fluffy. That I’m straightforward and no game playing. Ummm, did you expect anything different?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:11 am

Single and Happy – Oh forgive me, good morning Lady’s

You copying Blackfoote? He’s the only one that says lady’s not ladies…???????

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:11 am

@C: I can relate. My veep likes to point out that I don’t have the best poker face in the world. LOL

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
11:15 am

Cold Cut Artist (CCA) = Sheila E. (Chastain picnic basket for 8/18 includes tix, $25 gift card to something and something else..lol). Sorry, had to act like I wasn’t listening and paying attention to what my boss was telling me.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
11:15 am

404-741-1075

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:15 am

ITL – I have no poker face. if I’m thinking it, it’s written all over my face. I figure I’m doing good but not blurting out what I want to say. asking me to control my face AND control my mouth is asking too much.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:16 am

ITL – Girl, they love to tell me that here. I’m like whatever. I’m friendly and cordial and professional. I’m not catty or gossipy nor am I getting in the gutter. I’m not a backstabber either. If being stand-up makes me antisocial and poker faced…so be it…lol

Single and Happy – You got some splaining to do…lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:19 am

I know somebody ain’t tryna set up Blackfoote He make too many errors (no slight to you blog bro).

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:19 am

LOL@disco and C. Okaaay? You can assume you know what I’m thinking, but if I don’t voice it, you have no proof. :lol:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:19 am

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:20 am

Okay…was I the only one that caught that???????????

exiled

July 25th, 2012
11:23 am

we have an aunt in the family thats notorious for backstabbing….she will back stab anybody and everyone…but when everyone is there talking and having fun..its all nice and danndy…..

Let one of uall leave the room…shes on his/her behind..this that and the other…

The only folks that are spared are her kids….they are the best in the entire world..in her eyes! :lol:

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:23 am

facial expressions is one of the reasons I like eddie griffin. that cat makes some faces that crack me up. not because they are funny but because I can usually guess exactly what he’s thinking and not saying.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:23 am

HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO people, was I the only one that caught that?????

Mmeello, stop talking for a minute…lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:24 am

Okay, it happened. Folks are acting like they didn’t see it.

Single and Happy – I ain’t talking with you no more….lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:26 am

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
9:13 am
Morning Lady’s:
The breakfast buffet and bar is open, ya’ll help yourself.

Single and Happy 3 shades darker
July 25th, 2012
11:08 am
Oh forgive me, good morning Lady’s

That’s all Imma say on this…moving on

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
11:27 am

I’m on it…

Mr. Unknown

July 25th, 2012
11:28 am

Selfish, meaning she is only concern about how it would affect her.

“To make matters worse, he has a little dirt on her. Just enough to make the new man’s opinion of her change.” lol.. It ain’t no little dirt thats got her worried like this.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
11:28 am

Celisea ~ no, you’re not the only one who caught it…you are a firecracker!

exiled

July 25th, 2012
11:28 am

ok Cee..let me watch some Olympics soccer..now that i vented that outta the chest. :lol:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:29 am

Mr Unknown – No, it’s not. She’s got some splaining to do too…maybe. lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:31 am

Leggs – Why?? Why we gotta play those kind of games? Why can’t we just blog and let be? lololol I just don’t understand. I still say Blackfoote make too many errors. Either he’s faking in one place or someone is faking in another. But, all in a day on As the Blog Turns :)

Mmeello – No, you can stay. You was blocking my view of the crime scene and talking. The talking was distracting other folks from seeing what I saw. :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:31 am

@C: No, I saw it, too. But I see people using ’s to make a word plural all the time, so I just chalked it up to a common mistake. (shrugs)

Mr. Unknown

July 25th, 2012
11:31 am

I’m out, have a good day guys..

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:32 am

I mean seriously, as an adult (and not beating a dead horse), would you not consider indiscretions can haunt you? Would you just be get your sugar snaps on, never considering you may want to get serious and some dudes can’t roll with a loose past?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:33 am

ITL – I guess so…shrugs

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
11:33 am

Wait a minute somebody trying to step my heels? I see it now Cely who the hell is that?

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
11:35 am

Celisea ~ I often wonder why people do that. The only thing I came up with is:

1. To see if they can fool others

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:35 am

Leggs – I guess so. Cause all that flirting and stuff is just on the screen.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
11:36 am

Y’all know I don’t play a role in that kind of stuff.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:37 am

And although it’s a blog and just for fun, it’s still mean spirited to do that to someone. I mean have 50 names but let it be yours. Don’t insinuate foolishness on an innocent bystander. That’s just mean. And don’t be getting your rocks off behind a name. Trrrrrrust that I’m not fool nor slow. Just because I play along don’t mean I’m not aware.

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:37 am

not that I’m trying to change the subject but I have a couple of random off topics. first, I recently put a new heel on a favorite pair of shoes (brown leather sandal with 4 inch heel made to look like a bamboo stalk). it occurred to me this morning as I put on my favorite pair of shoes that they are probably like 12 or 14 years old. I remember growing up when old folks would say “I’ve got shoes/hats/belts/whatever” older than you. I wonder if I’m going to be that person.

next one. I’ve got a friend who works as a social worker. in particular she does food stamp cases. she was complaining the other day about all the men who come in to apply for food stamps and try to holler. I laughed but does anyone thinks she’s too picky or “judgmental” for not wanting to date a “down on his luck” guy?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:39 am

disco – Heck no! You ain’t gotta date a foodstamp man and feel bad. Not knocking anyone’s station in life but if you gotta lean and lay on me, I’ll take a pass.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:39 am

Oh lawd….here we go again. I wish there was some way to limit the IDs to one per IP address. That would get rid of this foolishness.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
11:40 am

Until Single and Happy can make this good I would suggest blanking him.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:40 am

And really, if you want to holler at someone (including the blog), you’re single they’re single, wouldn’t it be the grown-up thing to do, by just pulling them to the side and asking? Why all the “yuuummmmm, hmmmmmmmmm, oooooooo??” C’mon!!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:42 am

Let’s just keep blogging folks.

I’m probably gonna be the recipient of a bomb later today…lolololol

exiled

July 25th, 2012
11:43 am

I wld have to be down to one leg and one arm..maybe one eye as well and maybe completely incapacitated…. to be going on the Food stamp route.

Iam too proud to beg!

:lol: :lol:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:44 am

Mmeello – LOLOLOLOLOL Me too

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:46 am

I don’t understand men and foodstamps. I don’t. I’ve been where I was struggling like a mug with a baby. I’m talking broke and I refused to lean on the system. It was no cake walk, I was fighting back tears from the hurt and the struggle almost EVERYDAY, but I made it. I know it’s a cliched and stuff but you can overcome if you try and have the staying power.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:46 am

“all” cliched and stuff

disco – Is your friend considering one of those men??

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
11:47 am

Single I need to hear what you got to say. Cely what he put out here I said that a few days ago. Why he’s copying and pasting me is weird.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:48 am

Blackfoote – Don’t sweat it. Like I said, it’s just a blog but there’s something and a feeling behind someone attacking you. Whether it’s blasting or subtle.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
11:48 am

Celisea ~ going on things BF have said in the past, I think BF is being set up by misspelling the word like he does.

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:48 am

well C – another of my ghettoisms – food stamps are “free money”. lol. heck even more so since EBT. the govt should go back to paper stamps. that might deter a certain demographic from applying for them. I remember growing up we had to bust food stamps (we could spend a quarter) so the adults could get the change.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
11:50 am

I have a stalker and the effed up part is it’s a damn man.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:51 am

disco – LOL. I know back in the day, folks did NOT want to be caught handing over colored money. You’re in line behind them while they pull from various books. The cashier taking the money out while they’re looking to see who’s looking.

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:52 am

C – I don’t think she’s checking for the food stamp guys. as for paper stamps, you heard me say we used to bust them. for a quarter you could get a good little stash of candy. bust a couple stamps and momma could get some kool filter kings.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:53 am

@C and Leggs: Are y’all saying there is a conspiracy going on here? If so, that is crazy and beyond messy – that’s like “Hoarding: Buried Alive” messy.

Using an apostrophe s for a plural is a common mistake, though; I see it every day on FB. Isn’t it possible Green Stamps just made the same mistake? I’m not defending, I’m just asking if it’s a possibility.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:53 am

disco – Yep, folks standing outside the store or away from the counter waiting for the kid to bring the change. Oh yeah, that happened all the time at Bubba’s

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
11:54 am

Cely note when you called him out he went missing in action.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:55 am

ITL – Chile, I don’t know what day it is anymore. But if Blackfoote is saying he didn’t say it and he’s the only one that’s ever used lady’s, then I dunno.

I just know Single and Happy, our cruise is off and the thought of taking vacay and swimming with the fish is done :( I’m mad at you right now

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:56 am

Blackfoote – I know, I know….been there. Just keep blogging right on past it.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:56 am

Dang. I am feeling really naive right about now. I just didn’t know people did stuff like that. Or, as Sassy says, “Where they do that at?”

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
11:57 am

thought of taking vacay and swimming with the fish is done

If your suspicions are correct, you might have been swimming with the fishes for real. :shock:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:58 am

ITL – I know right…lol Lawd why?? That’s was a bit dramatic huh?

disco

July 25th, 2012
11:59 am

yeah. ebt messed up a lot. also makes buying stamps that much more difficult. back in the day, the neighborhood drug dealers would have mad stamps at the first of the month. back in the day, it was a race to see who could get to so and so and get those stamps for 50 cents on the dollar. now with ebt you have to either be cool enough to be trusted with the card or take those jokers to the store with you. okay. sorry. guess I got carried away on food stamps. I’ll pull back now.

I didn’t sign up to attend the blog meet and greet/cruise/ski vacation but if I ever attend one I’ll bring security. lol.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
11:59 am

All I can be sure of is Celisea. When I’m talking I can confirm that it’s me that’s talking…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
12:00 pm

LOL…….@Light

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:01 pm

So our waiving across the waters from Bahama Island to Cocoa Beach is just ruined now. It feels tawdry

Single and Happy – If you want me to keep the souvenir I have for you, defend yourself..lol

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:03 pm

Ugh. If I sign up for the blog ski trip/bungee jump/breakfast buffet, I’m bringing security and my invisibility cloak. And a robot that looks like me, in case someone gets pushed off the mountain/bridge/into the eggs. :(

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
12:04 pm

Flo-Light you mean with the sharks. Hopefully it is something he can explain easily. disco with all the shams that go on down here traveling here with security wouldn’t be a bad idea.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:04 pm

And, C, baby Rella wants to know what Auntie Twink brought her…..

disco

July 25th, 2012
12:05 pm

BF – sure he can explain it easily. it wasn’t him. his moniker was hijacked. he wasn’t impersonating you. someone that was impersonating him was impersonating you.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:06 pm

@BF: I hope so. I went back to page one and noticed that he used “ex’s” instead of “exes” when referring to two exes. Again, not defending, just pointing out that it could be a common mistake.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:09 pm

ITL – Your 12:03…lol

I have Baby Rella a cute onesie with Disney stuff on it :)

ITL – I went back too and same the same. All I can say is hmmmmmmmm

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:09 pm

ITL ~ she says “where they do dat at” :wink:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:10 pm

Single and Happy – Come back…we’ll give you the benefit of the doubt :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:10 pm

ITL – You getting your child support yet? You can’t survive off of 4 $2 gas cards…lol

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:11 pm

@C: Awwwww. She says, “tanks, TT” :)

@Leggs: close enough. ;)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:11 pm

I’m starving today. Normally lunch is between 1:30 – 2:00 for me. I can’t make it that long

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:12 pm

I’m sending it via Brown :)

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:12 pm

I noticed that many were embarrased using food stamps back in the day. I was never shamed. I didn’t care who looked at me ripping a 5, a 10 or a 1 out various packs. What I did know was Mama had food in the house for us. Now as an adult, I never used food stamps because I believed hard work and perserverance will get a person ahead in life and because too many lean on it when they don’t really need to. I opted to struggle and forge my way in life without the help of a government handout.

Not only that, why the heck can EBT cards be used everywhere now…I think I saw EBT accepted here on a weave place! WTH….

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:13 pm

@C: Nope! Not a dime. And For Real was in here the other day waving around honey buns like he got it like that. I asked for one and got the “Oh, my change is in the car” line. Mmm hmmmm.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:14 pm

Leggs – Exactly. EBT uses have it going on now. I see EBT everywhere too. I wouldn’t know it unless there’s some sort of snafu with the transaction (say I’m in line behind them). Otherwise it’s shopping as usual.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
12:14 pm

I’m trying Cely to see if comes back, other wise I’m heading to lunch but I don’t want him to come as I leave that would be effed up. Light I think he made a mistake but where is he to confirm?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:15 pm

ITL – Say it ain’t so. That’s a dang shame. How is he buying and waving honeybuns around and have not attended to his parental duty??? You know what to do right?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:16 pm

Blackfoote – I’ll say this, if you’re innocent, you don’t have to fret the actions of others. The truth always comes to the light…or they’ll stop.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:17 pm

Blackfoote – You wouldn’t be all those other screwballs would you?

I’M KIDDING

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:19 pm

The truth always comes to the light…or they’ll stop.

OR Deputy Dawg will shame you to the truth!!!!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:20 pm

Leggs – LOLOLOLOL…I’m laughing out loud at my desk. You wouldn’t be tryna be funny would you??

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
12:22 pm

The innocent shall prevail, it may come after death, 21 years later in prison they do prevail.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:24 pm

Always trying to be funny (lol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
12:24 pm

Cely I’m screwball enough for a lot of things but on a blog I’m just one……….LOL

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:25 pm

@C: I know, right? Even rubbing it in, talking about he microwaved it. Hmph! :( What do you think I should do?

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
12:25 pm

Afternoon Gang!

Don’t really have anything to add to the topic. High school sh–.

Loved me some Jeffersons & Amen!

R.I.P. Chad Everett from the show Medical Center.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
12:26 pm

I’m off to a lunch meeting. Back later.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:28 pm

Go to lunch BF, you’re good!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:28 pm

Kimmie – Chad Everett passed? He was so fine on that scifi show with Erin what’s her name.

ITL – You need to get your warrant for nonsupport. He’s playing games now. If he can buy honeybuns, he can buy pampers. I say though before getting that warrant, we bust a kneecap…or two

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:28 pm

Who will be the 3rd?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:28 pm

Headed for lunch…

Blackfoote – Don’t sweat it

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
12:29 pm

Heard about Chad on GMA this morning. That was one good looking man. I think he was 75.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
12:31 pm

Ok lady’s I’m out and hungry too.

For Real

July 25th, 2012
12:32 pm

What up Blog Fam!!!

On top: Kids games…

For Real is now licking the cream off honey bun wrappers and stuffing them down ITL’s and Celisea’s gas tank.

disco

July 25th, 2012
12:33 pm

okay imposter(s). y’all can come back now. olly olly oxen free……

For Real

July 25th, 2012
12:35 pm

For Real is now hiding all the backs to ITL’s and Celisea’s earrings.

For Real

July 25th, 2012
12:38 pm

For Real is now removing all of the toilet seats in ITL’ and Celisea’s house.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 25th, 2012
12:39 pm

olly olly oxen free……

:lol:

Come out and plaaaaay :mrgreen:

For Real

July 25th, 2012
12:40 pm

For Real is not draining the freon out of Celisea’s and ITL’s car.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 25th, 2012
12:41 pm

hiding all the backs to ITL’s and Celisea’s earrings

Now that’s just evil…that’s how you make a woman mad. For Real you must have sisters. :lol:

For Real

July 25th, 2012
12:41 pm

For Real is now removing all of the power window buttons in Celisea’s and ITL’s cars.

disco

July 25th, 2012
12:44 pm

for real has too much time on his hands. lol.

For Real

July 25th, 2012
12:49 pm

For Real now removing the buckles on all of Celisea’s and ITL’s sandals. Not the whole buckle, just the little piece you stick into the holes.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:50 pm

For Real – You’re stoopid….lol

Willie Dynamite

July 25th, 2012
12:50 pm

Afternoon All,

Nothing on topic. I just can’t imagine having to deal with all that.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:51 pm

You know we’re gonna get you right? Just keep waiving your warmed honeybuns

Dynamic

July 25th, 2012
12:51 pm

On topic: When I was in high school 3 of my exes had a class toether and 2 of them sat at the same table. I didn’t find it out until I went back to class to get a book I left, and there they all were….I always wondered if they ever had a convo about me??

So if a new boo wanted to be friends with an old boo so be it, I wouldn’t volunteer any information or act like it was an issue.

exiled

July 25th, 2012
12:53 pm

Is the yellow crime tape off???..

I had to hurriedly scary away for a minute to allow the BPD to finish their job.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
12:55 pm

MMeello – Are you still in Boston?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
1:23 pm

Was it my breath or something I said? lol I guess everybody is waiting on somebody

exiled

July 25th, 2012
1:27 pm

No..came back..went to Chicago for a minute..but back at home..untill the next one..chilling for now..will be in south Ga tmrw but back home for the evening..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
1:34 pm

Well Cely I guess you snuffed another out looks like.

Manny

July 25th, 2012
1:34 pm

There is nothing to fear but fear itself.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
1:35 pm

“another one”

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
1:45 pm

Blackfoote – I don’t even want that honor…lol It makes folks go on the attack. EFFECTIVE TODAY: I’m turning my head and pretending I don’t see a thing….lol Honestly, it just sort of jumped out that something was amiss. That’s not really Deputy Dawg, that was apparent.

SexyCool

July 25th, 2012
1:45 pm

Coming in way late on this – don’t know if it’s been said – why, assuming there are no kids involved, would the new beau be interested in being friends with the ex?

There are enough folks in the world that I don’t have to be bosom buddies with someone my SO used to lay up with. Learning that would have been license for me to pull up from the developing friendship.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
1:48 pm

LOL………..I dont’ want to alledge anything but this has the smell of the Bone Fish diaries.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
1:50 pm

I always get coupons for Logan’s Roadhouse. Had it for the first time in Orlando. Pretty good and healthy portions

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
1:51 pm

I tried to tell these dudes y’all are some keen and smart women they must think I’m BSing.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
1:57 pm

Blackfoote – There’s a saying from Shakespere, “doth thou protest too much” or as originally stated “the lady doth protest too much.” Stop sweating it. It’s just a blog. When we shut down and go home, that’s it….I think (ha ha). Really, people take it way too seriously. Sometimes folks don’t blog because they don’t like who’s blogging…seriously? Or sometimes we have cliques and folks will only blog with who they like….seriously? Sometimes folks attack cowardly. Pooh and blah to all that crap. It’s just a place to pass the time while we work. Just say what you like and feel and keep it moving. If you know you didn’t do it or say it, forget about it :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:06 pm

ITL now sending For Real a bill for replacing her earring backs, sandal buckles, toilet seats, and work to repair her car. :)

You are crazy, man. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
2:06 pm

Cely you’re absolutley right, let me take my boxing gloves off. That’s a done deal.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:08 pm

I have a headache that I cannot shake. It’s not a migraine. I’ve had it about 2.5 days now….geesh

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:08 pm

ITL now posting pictures of Baby Rella with a caption saying, “Daddy, I’m hungry, too!” on all the vending machines at For Real’s job, next to a picture of For Real wolfin’ down a honey bun.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
2:11 pm

SCool – I agree. Some folks like to keep mess going though. And as far as the past stuff goes, you grown, own it.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:11 pm

@C: It might be the barometric pressure. Try taking an antihisamine (like Zyrtec or Claritin) with an Advil. Sudafed with Advil works, too. ;)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:13 pm

ITL – You are a walking “pedia”…lol ITLpedia. Thanks boo :)

Well, I guess you can get results when the courts can’t. I burst out laughing at For Real and all his “undoings”…lol

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:15 pm

LOL@C! Gurrrrl, you ought to see me at trivia. ;)

For Real had me cracking up. I’m still printing those posters, though. I’ll come by and scoop you up to help me hang them.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:17 pm

ITL – I bet you are Ms. Trivia…lol I’m not surprised one bit :)

Yeah, I’m down rolling out. I just need to change into my fatigues and grab my brass knuckles.

exiled

July 25th, 2012
2:18 pm

Cel..is it a liquor headache.. :lol:

its ok if u went the debauchery route and came back,took a kneel to God to repent…

I was reading the ajc last nite and came across a story in there where Prophettes Juanita Bynum was talking to Frank and said she been with women in the past….did uall read that…. shes been with both men and women in the cut.
Thats explains All that crazzy_heezy in the parking lot with Bishop Weeks….

Pray for Juanita folks…..ofcourse pray for the Bishop as well…

I mean Eddie! :lol:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:18 pm

Barometric pressure…whodda thunk it? I wouldn’t have.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
2:19 pm

Light can baby Rella hang out with uncle Foote while you’re hanging the signs on the vending machines. Those 2.00 dollar gas cards came in handy.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:20 pm

MMeello – You are a riot….I burst out laughing again. I’m expecting real soon to get a call from my manager saying your neighbors are reporting that you’re too loud and too much laughing…lol

Not liquor headache…lol

Thats explains All that crazzy_heezy in the parking lot with Bishop Weeks….

Y’all hard on religious folks. I’m glad I’ll let y’all peek into my bad sometimes.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:22 pm

Dang Juanita been doing men and women. All that sweating and stuff she was doing while performing…hmmmm

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:22 pm

Well, God forgives :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
2:23 pm

LOL…….@Ex

disco

July 25th, 2012
2:24 pm

C – re managers and loud. you know I’m always fussing about my coworker who makes 15-20-25 personal calls a day (about nothing). how come today her boss asked if he needed to unplug her phone so that she could get some work done. I wanted to HOLLER!!! it was so funny to me. she tried to downplay it but she was cold busted.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:27 pm

disco – On the floor? He asked her out there? Noooooo Yeah, that’s a bit much. Heck 5 is too much. Is it on her cell or a desk phone? She’s not smart. She should get some of that talking done via text.

For me if it’s not an emergency and my kid needs me, she’ll text. Same with my brother and sister.

For Real

July 25th, 2012
2:29 pm

“I have a headache that I cannot shake. It’s not a migraine. I’ve had it about 2.5 days no” – Hmmm and you said 17.2 seconds wasn’t enough.

For Real now posing in front of Celisea’s desk like Al Green on his greatest hits cover.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
2:30 pm

disco that is funny being called out like that.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:30 pm

Juanita been doing men and women.

I read about that last week….hell if Eddie Longstroke can be forgiven then I guess she might as well open the closet door and: 1. Come “out” and be proud about it or 2. Give them skeletons some freedom and K.I.M…

exiled

July 25th, 2012
2:30 pm

I think u have to be really confused to want to go one route sexually,then make a detour,reflect and say No..im goinmg the other route…wil that person Ever be on an even keel….

There is lotta of hurt in the world..I tell you….

Now, wld u ladies excuse and forgive a dude if he said, he was a salad tosser but decided to come back str8 literally? :lol:

I guess i can answer my own question and say u ladies proly do forgive that..considering that some uall have been with felons who were in their for a minute…..

Trust they tossed it in there coz of the sexual drought..im sure..going by what uall have told me here….. :lol:

(hope i iant being too harsh) :grin:

exiled

July 25th, 2012
2:32 pm

there not their

disco

July 25th, 2012
2:32 pm

C – I know I’ve complained on here countless times re her countless conversations. she talks on the office phone and her cell phone and she sends text messages.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:33 pm

For Real – You are so crazy. You know I had to pull the album cover…lolol

http://www.freecodesource.com/album-covers/B000002TTP–al-green-al-green-greatest-hits-album-cover.html

Mmeello – I can’t do a reformed switch hitter. Sorry, just can’t. IMO, it’s just not the same for women. Another chick ain’t got a tool to insert. At the most, it’s gonna be a toy. And if that’s kept clean and sterilized, the next dude should be good. For a dude, well let’s just say it’s not that cut and dry. Nope, no can do.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

disco – Dang, that’s awful. Sometimes I get that feeling when I’m blogging too much. I guess recently, that should be all the time…lol

For Real

July 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

Celisea: You want me to lay like this Ha’Sean?

Ha’Sean: Yeah that it baby. Now you gon feel a lil pressure.

Celisea: Pressure?

Ha’Sean: Barometric pressure…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
2:35 pm

Ex that’s harsh man, felons……….LOL

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:35 pm

Mmeello – I haven’t been with a felon :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:36 pm

For Real – LOLOLOLOL Ha’Sean? LOLOLOL Straight crazy :)

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:36 pm

Celisea I’m back, had to go to some work, was trying to catch up but too much reading, what am I defending myself against?

disco

July 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

I’ve been with a felon. in my defense, I was with him BEFORE he became a felon. do I still get credit? I saw him a few years back at my grandma’s funeral and he asked whatever happened to us. I was like “dude, you went to prison!!!” lol.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

disco – They should ban her cell and give her 3 calls a day…lol On the floor where customer service is located, their calls are monitered. Somehow though, their on an 800 number so no personal calls are incoming. Too, they use to have a backline for that. They have new phones now, no way personal calls can come in at all. Too boot, cell phones are no longer allowed on the phone. The fear/risk is someone will take pictures of confidential stuff. She would die working on that team. They have to make calls on break.

exiled

July 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Cel..but if u forgive, as a christian and u met somebody at church..and hes trutful and said he was in there locked up 5 years..now on the str8 and narrow..u pass?

coz u take him..u know he aint all brawn and big and fierce like that..so..he proly tossed it..but u cant ask that..what do Cel do?

decisoons decisions people…

good man,good job…own car,own house..been to prison tho….

Cel..BAM! :lol:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Single and Happy – Nothing…everything is everything. It’s all good :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:41 pm

MMeello – If he’s been with a dude, NOTHING DOING. If he’s been to prison, I’m assuming and nothing doing. I mean I can be cool, but I don’t think I could be intimate. Being saved does not undo who you are. Another mistake people make. Being save keeps your sins in remission. You take you eyes off Christ, guess what? Yep, that stuff will rise up again.

exiled

July 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

Ima stop on this felon thing coz i was told once i could get killed..talking like that in the open…..

I second the motion on taking Disco and ITL advice..if i come to the blog meet..im bringing five bevy heavy dudes from Dekalb PD as security. :lol;

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

Disco, shame on you, not being a ride or die chick!! you’re supposed to stand by your man when he’s on lock down. That’s whats wrong with the sisters now, always wanting a man out of jail with a job (LMAO)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

MMello – I’ll tell you this too, when you first accept Christ, it’s just that. You are still who you are. It takes years of walking and keeping the faith to overcome and be removed. It’s not like “presto”…I’m perfect. Nooooo, it’s is NOT like that. It takes time to be removed. Even so, that’s not permanent.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
2:44 pm

Single and Happy glad you showed up before I left for the day, nothing wrong all is good no need to defend against anything.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:45 pm

MMeello – Why do you need protection? From what?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:47 pm

disco – You get a pass on folks that are felons post break up…lol You can’t control what folks do and you definitely can’t control what they do when you’re done.

disco

July 25th, 2012
2:47 pm

single and happy – I was ride or die at the time (this was maybe 20 years ago). believe it or not I could recite his inmate id number right now. it’s embedded in my brain. I mentioned it to him in a phone call not too long ago and he couldn’t believe that i knew it.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
2:48 pm

Exiled – You keep trotting out this Christian and forgive thing. It’s a whole lot more to it than that. Forgiving doesn’t mean accepting anything that comes your way. Whatever someone did before you is their past. It’s not up to you to forgive someones past. You’re not God. If they experimented in the past, the 2 of you are probably not evenly yoked. You’re not being less of a Christian by not accepting someone you are not evenly yoked with.

Plus, just from a medical standpoint, a woman is taking a HUGE risk dealing with a man that’s engaged in such high risk practices.

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:51 pm

Disco so you just couldn’t hold out that long

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:51 pm

@Uncle Foote – You know you can get her anytime. :)

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:52 pm

Blackfoote that’s good, i’m not to good at defending myself :-)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:52 pm

Yeah, I’m down rolling out. I just need to change into my fatigues and grab my brass knuckles.

Don’t forget your black hoodie. Oh, and bottle of deer tee tee. I’ll explain later. ;)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:54 pm

ITL – I don’t know the meaning but I have black coal underneath each eye. Too much? Okay, Imma need to know why I’m carry deer tee tee…before I do that

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:54 pm

Kimmie these days it’s all high risk, (the woman who didn’t tell her boyfriend she was HIV positive)

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
2:55 pm

Free Wesley!!!!!

What up folks?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:55 pm

LOLOLOL….stooooop

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

Celisea the only reason the people I know carry deer tee tee is to attract a big buck :-)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

Wesley career is shot, he’ll aways be a prisoner to banning black on black relationships and he’s got taxes to pay. It won’t even matter at this point…lol

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

Kimmie..but All I’m saying is,because they went to prison wld u assume they experimented?

And wldnt u take somebody based on who they are now not who they were before?

On the medical I’m thinking that u go for Medicaid to get tested before u take it 3 steps further,Right?

and it’s a two way street..coz both the man and woman had prior relations….look at this Juanita thing..who wldnt have thought she went there….??

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
2:59 pm

Single and Happy – Whoa

ITL – ??? Please explain and quickly. I have deer tee tee on my person.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
2:59 pm

@C: Let’s just say For Real’s coupe de ville is gonna smell like a port-a-potty at Bambi’s family reunion. Shhhhh…don’t tell. :)

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
2:59 pm

Go for medical not Medicaid! Lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:01 pm

Mmeello – Honestly, I would hold nothing against someone, ESPECIALLY if they’ve accepted Christ. I’m broad enough in thought to know no sin is greater than another.

For medical reasons though, I’m not going there…period.

Why is a thing incredible to believe Juanita dabbled? She’s a person like the rest of us. If I like sex, the freaky sneaky as well as you, I’m sure she does.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:01 pm

ITL – Goooootcha…lololololol That works for me.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:02 pm

@Ex: I think you’re making a huge assumption that all men who go to jail are gay for the stay. I doubt that’s the case.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
3:02 pm

I see you guys been doing a lot of talking.

Celisea ~ I may be wrong because I don’t know a lot about certain sports, but I think the black coal under the eyes helps to reduce the glare from the sun. I think???

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:02 pm

For Real – We’re coming for you :evil: Pay up and all of this will end

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
3:03 pm

Ok folks have a good evening, it is back to the nineties again might hit a hundred today. Stay Cool or try your best to.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:03 pm

@Leggs: In this case, it’s part of our undercover ops. Shhhhhh……

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:04 pm

Mmeello – You are very narrow in your thinking. I agree ITL, I bet many have come in and been released without getting into all that mess.

Leggs – Okay thanks. I was just caught in the outfit and fatigues, I figured it would enhance

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
3:04 pm

I don’t think every man in prison is down for the man on man swerve. I’d like to think not everyone in there is being raped.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

I have a cousin in there…he said it’s mostly the really young cats coming in that’s victimized. Not all though.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

…..and I’m pretty sure they sell lotion at the canteen. IJS…..

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:06 pm

single and happy – you must have missed the memo re me walking the line. I don’t exaggerate my background. back then I was straight up round the way girl. holding things down. I could make “cookies” right now if I had to.

ex – do you assume that everyone that went to college smoked weed? do you assume that everyone who went to camp experimented with all the other campers? just curious.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2012
3:06 pm

LOL…….@Light go get ‘em I knew you could handle yourself.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:07 pm

disco – I can answer that for ex. Yes, yes, yes and yes. Remember yesterday he assumed anybody gone out on 3 dates had already smashed.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:09 pm

Single – Yep, that’s why both parties need to protect themselves!

Exiled – No, there are certain things you did before that you can’t live down with me. I’m sure there are people that are will accept that, but I wouldn’t. Just like some dudes have said on this very blog they wouldn’t marry a woman that used to strip. I have a right to my preferences. You’re right it’s a 2 way street. Hopefully if a guy chose to deal with a woman that was promiscuous or used to sell her body or shoot up drugs, he would look out for himself as well.

That’s just a world I want nothing to do with, Exiled. I have friends that have done time and I accept them. Doesn’t mean I have to marry them though. I have a right to be choosy in that respect just like you men do. Not the kind of guy I would take home to family.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:09 pm

….and remember the time he said women who drink beer from the bottle are low-class?

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
3:09 pm

Disco, yea I missed that memo, trying to play catch up

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:10 pm

Ok..I hear ITL…I guess u ladies have some screenometer of some sort..

I watch Lockup on msnbc too much..

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

And speaking of drinking beer from a bottle, it’s almost FOOTBALL SEASON!!!

Kimmie, you got those chillren ready to be DGDs yet??? :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

ITL – I guess I’m an urchin then…lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:12 pm

Mmeello – You have kids now…just remember that. They’re gonna grow up and it’s not going to be all roses and candyland.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:13 pm

And when they make mistakes, you can’t write them off. You have to be open minded to help them. If you’re closed minded now, who’s going to help them if not mom or dad?

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:13 pm

I don’t know who “u ladies” are or what a “screenometer” is, but I do know what I will and will not tolerate and what I am and am not comfortable with……

Single and Happy 3 shades darker :-)

July 25th, 2012
3:13 pm

Statements that make you hmmmmm (ex)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:14 pm

Yep, me too. I’m good forgiving anybody. I’m not perfect nor am I God. The same folks snubbed will beat the “better thans” in heaven. Even so, you been with a dude, no can do.

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:14 pm

C – you have a cousin there? just one? lol. right now, I’ve got three cousins inside. one for murder, one for robbery and another on drug charges. I’ve got a few others sitting in county jails doing “short time”. I have two that just dodged bullets. one was facing attempted murder/aggravated robbery charges. he sat in county for a year. charges were reduced and he got time served. another just had similar charges dismissed.

EX – I watch lock up all the time too but I’m not caught up on the inmates. there are just as many men walking around creeping with each other that have never even been in trouble with the law. is one really any better than the other?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:15 pm

The same folks that snubbed, the “better thans” will get beat into heaven by the no do gooders…is where I was going.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

disco – There are bigger creeps creeping with dudes that’s free. I agree. Being narrow minded can REALLY blind you from reality.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

No ITL didn’t say they are ‘low class’ but it’s a No No for me…i stereotype them bad!

If u drink from the bottle and are cool with it,fine but Exiled wld not step to u if he saw it.. :lol:

I don’t define low class low class defines itself

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

dudes that ARE free….

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

Eddie Long and Juanita Bynum….she both looked like they would play both sides.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

LOL@C. If drinking beer from a bottle is the benchmark of a lady and her level of class, y’all might as well come on over to the shack to visit me. We can sit in the car on blocks in the front yard and drink The Beast out of bottles. And shoot out the windows of the high-falutin’ neighbors with their big ole fancy mobile (prounounced Moe-Bile) home.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

Mmeello – Answer me this, what’s low class about drinking from a beer bottle? Wouldn’t the act of drinking be worse? So drinking from a mug is better? So if she got drunk downing 20 mugs of beer over bottles you would think better of her?

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
3:18 pm

Disco…you aint from Jersey are you?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:18 pm

ITL – LOLOLOL…okaaay. Please include this urchin and save me a couple of windows to shoot out.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:18 pm

(ITL now making a note to only drink champagne from a crystal flute at the blog meet and greet, so as not to lose out on Ex “stepping to her” – with his married-a$$ self!)

For Real

July 25th, 2012
3:19 pm

For Real: Look ITL lets stop all dis here fightin. You know I love you gurllll. Now here take deese….

(ITL is now undoing her blouse.) No, no not this time baby but Real likes it when you proactive… No take deese 7 $2 gas cards..

ITL: Naw For Real I ain’t fallin for that again!

For Real: Hold on now baby… we a team now and the gas cards ain’t all I’m giving you. Here take deese $1 cash rebates on the gas cards from Spokeo.

ITL: I don’t know For Real..

For Real: Awww come now you know I got you. I got another order of stuff coming in any minute now and we’ll be able to go white water rafting or some pottery ish at 75% off. Yo choice baby cause that how we do baby.

ITL: Okay For Real. Will I see you tonight?

For Real: Shhhh! (traffic report on the radio.. 18 wheeler turned over on 258 South) Baby I gots to go my shipment just came in! Now you know Imma see my baby tonight. Now go on and make sure you have on dem scratch n sniff.. the vanilla kinda and make sure we got some hotdogs so I can fry you some afterwards.

ITL: ohhh For Real you going to spoil me.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:20 pm

ITL – Yeah, he’s rubbed up against a few blog legs in his married day…lol I guess that’s not worse than a chick drinking from a bottle.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:20 pm

Lol Cel with kids

Remember once I said when a parent’s kid is a prostitute their eyes and image of her changes coz it’s their own lol

She will be bringing me money during the day but be on peachtree street at nite

It will be dandy :lol:

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:21 pm

Light – They are fully indoctrinated!LOL!!! We are going to take a little road trip up there next week because they have been begging me! They frown whenever they see anything with GT on it or a gator!!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

MMeello – You’re so wrong for that.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

For Real, you are too much.

(ITL now looking for the coupon for Buy 1, Get 1 Free Oscar Meyer Angus franks…..only the good stuff for MY man!)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

ITL – And you’re wrong for that…lol

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:23 pm

Cel

Low class is ITL’s words

Didn’t use low class in my explanation

She’s right tho.

A woman drinking beer is not my fav thing to see..it’s worse when I see her mouthing it..

It is what it is in my eyes.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:23 pm

@kimmie: That makes me so proud!! I’ll be there in 38 days, and I cannot wait!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:24 pm

ITL – We need to talk. You drop everything for a pack of ON Angus Franks? What about baby Rella? I didn’t see pampers nor milk roll up in here. Weak for the weenie weiner

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

@C: I just can’t resist him…..his lips taste like honeybun icing and that vanilla lotion….. it just does it for me, Twink. :lol:

For Real

July 25th, 2012
3:26 pm

Blog meet and greet???? Where is my invo..ivnit…invat.. who was suppose to tell me?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:26 pm

ITL – LOLOL…I couldn’t type for laughing

Okay Twin Twink, get it together. When y’all are done roasting and getting you’re fill on honeybun icing, baby Rella will still need milk and pampers. I need you to snap out of it. Get the money first and THEN the rest.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:27 pm

But you can believe baby Rella will not be neglected. If I don’t have enough to cover the pampers, milk, and hot dogs, For Real will be getting those chicken dogs.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:27 pm

ITL – LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL Not CHICKEN FRANKS….OMG….LOLOLOL

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:30 pm

Yep. Chicken franks. Have you ever seen those nasty things? A friend of the Ex’s BFF used to come to cookouts and drink up everybody’s beer and liquor and then say he’d cover the meat for the cookout. Buster Brown would come back with chicken franks and a six-pack of Busch Light and act so proud of himself. Like he had really contributed.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:30 pm

I don’t think that all men that have been to prison have been tapped. But that’s not the only reason I don’t deal with ex-cons. Once you have a record, your entire life is changed. You have trouble getting a decent job no matter how much education you have. Me & my children would forever have to pay the price for your bad decisions.

I’ve just never been comfortable with the criminal types, the bad boys. That mess is not cute, and in that respect I am not ride-or-die. I’m not going to prison or jail for anybody and I’m not exposing my family to that type of scene. I like being able to lay my head on my pillow at night in peace. Miss me with all the drama.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:31 pm

Cel!

I’m pleading the fif on ur 3:20!

For Real

July 25th, 2012
3:32 pm

Heyyyyyyyyyyy the chicken dogs fry up the best while yall playin. Ain’t that right ITL?

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:33 pm

Light – I got a crazy cousin nicknamed Buster Brown!LOL!! And you are right, it is nothing nastier than a chicken frank!!! They taste like raw chicken skin would probably taste if I had tasted it!! :(

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:36 pm

LOL@Kimmie. One bite of that nastiness was enough for me to know I never wanted to taste one of those again. Gives me the shudders just thinking about it.

@For Real – Quit playing. You know I don’t allow mystery meat in my house. Well, present company excluded, of course. :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:37 pm

ITL – I haven’t had chicken franks but I remember my mama have a caniption because one of my sibs brought back chicken bologna. She almost took a switch. I remember thinking dang, they’re just a kid. The walked to the neighborhood store. She was like that about buying white bread to or forgetting to bring back her Tab or Fresca…lololol Needless to say a second trip to the store was in order.

ITL – Don’t be blinded by a smooth talking, honeybun eating, chicken franks cooking man. If you gonna go all out, go high class and get OM…lol If you want him to make you feel extra special, make him spring for a steak :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:38 pm

MMeello – Naw, don’t be pleading the fif…what say you?

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:39 pm

LOL@C. And For Real, she doesn’t mean a tube steak, either!!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:40 pm

Well, one thing I believe is that no matter your station in life, you can overcome. I’ve seen mountains move out of the way, I’ve seen the impossible happen. I won’t discount or write anybody off. Like my mama says, God can make a way out of no way. There are some folks that make more money than the educated man and I’m sure is skipping all the way to the bank. There are too many stories of triumph where people had it hard and things looked bleak. Nope, I won’t ever discount or write off anybody.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:40 pm

ITL – Guuuuuuuuuuurrrrl, getcho steak. Yous highclass then :mrgreen:

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:40 pm

I am cracking up on you all!! I really needed this!! :lol:

(Ova here taking a big swig outta my 40oz) LOL!!!!

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:41 pm

jake – I’m not from jersey. PA though which I suppose – technically – is close.

C –re your momma and white bread. when my mom was here I took her to mcallister’s deli. she got mad because all of the sandwiches were on “crazy” bread. all she wanted was some “regular” bread. whew, that woman frustrated me.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:42 pm

@kimmie: I always knew you was good people.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:42 pm

Celisea – I don’t write anybody off either, want the best for everybody, but still don’t have to marry them!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:43 pm

ITL – LOLOL…what is “crazy” bread, pray tell?

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:43 pm

kimmie – you don’t strike me as a the 40 ounce type. do they still make double deuces? that might be more your speed.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:44 pm

Disco..

I went to college never smoked weed

I ain’t assume nothing

But I ain’t dismissing nothing either

I was just akssin’g lol

Wld a chic have hmmmm if dude said yea I was in there for xyz considering

That’s all Disco ….

Now I be honest with u…me? I aint hanging or befriending a felon unless it’s my relative

None against ur own but me and myself I am with Kimmie

We cool but from afar

I have a friend that married an af American chic and the sister of the chic married a dude that went to prison ex drug dealer

I told my dude friend pleeeeeease don’t bring your bro in law to my house

No hard feelings there ! Lol

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:44 pm

crazy bread is any bread that wasn’t plain, regular, white bread.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:44 pm

@disco: Or as my daddy calls it, “loaf bread.”

“If we don’t have any rolls or biscuits to eat with supper, just put out some loaf bread!”

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:44 pm

ITL – I’m not making light at all…but it took us nearly a week to convince my mama she was in Florida. Yesterday, my sister said after all of that, my mom asked so, when are we leaving…. She was sitting in her chair at home? She said I asked, leaving where? My mama said Florida. LOLOL Again, not making light but I sure do get it.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:45 pm

ITL – You’re mom and pops sound like mine :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:46 pm

Awww, C. That’s kinda sad. :(

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:46 pm

ITL – You’re mom and pops sound like mine

@C: DUH! We’re Twinkies! ;)

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:48 pm

ex – I can get with you and kimmie. I’m not befriending any NEW felons. family and folks I grew up with like family will always get a pass. if I’m in town I’ll swing through the “so and so just got out of jail” barbecue.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:48 pm

ITL – Cheer up, she’s good. It’s a condition that’s a part of life. Like I said, by no means am I making light. :)

Mmeello – What’s ignorant about snubbing people is half the folks walking around could be ex-cons. You would be none the wiser. I hope you eat lunch or have a co-worker that did hard time…lol Since you said you ain’t befriending no ex-cons. Trust me, I don’t have any in my rolodex, but I certainly don’t have a problem being kind.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:48 pm

ITL – @C: DUH! We’re Twinkies!

I know, I know :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:49 pm

disco – I’m tossing a side eye at your 3:48. All day everyday we’ve got a story on some criminal you know, dealt with, had relations with, work with….etc Nooooow, you wanna side with folks that swear off criminals??

LOLOLOLOL

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:50 pm

Exiled – One of my good friends was dating this dude that was in and out of prison. She kept making excuses for him. Once they had an arguement and she told me while we were riding in her car that she had to look out for him because he was stalking her and had a gun. I immediately slid down in the seat. I was so scared! I told her I couldn’t come over anymore and would just have to talk to her on the phone!

That’s just not the life for me, having to look over my shoulder.

disco

July 25th, 2012
3:52 pm

C – it’s sort of like the devil you know. I’m cool with MY criminals. I don’t want too much to do with other folks’ criminals. sort of like when I met the guy who had just got paroled after serving time for bank robbery. some folks actually told me I should give him a chance. those folks had me stuck. I’m not the one.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:53 pm

How come I’m thinking about a fried bologna sandwich? Mmmmm

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:55 pm

disco – I’m not dating, sexing, hanging with any criminals. I don’t blame you. I’m not dating a bank robber, murderer or the sort either. I just believe everybody should get a fair shake. Yes, it was all their fault but if they want to reform, why not?

So family gets a pass huh? Okay then :) Familiar criminals…lol

You just never know what shoes you’ll be in one day. Just never know.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:55 pm

On toasted bread, with a big slice of tomato with salt, pepper, and mayo?

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:55 pm

ITL – As long as it’s not chicken bologna, make me one too please :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:56 pm

May I have my bread toasted please?

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
3:58 pm

That’s the only way, C! I hope you don’t want any Miracle Whip, though, because I do not keep that mess in my house. I can put some sugar in your mayo, though. :)

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
3:58 pm

C – I don’t snub anyone and I am kind to people. A dear guy friend I have did some time years ago, before we ever met. I have family that has gotten into trouble. Where I draw the line is dating & marrying. Or befriending a person that’s still into a questionable, criminal lifestyle. I’m not just talking street crime either, so-called white-collar criminals as well. I don’t want to have to hide my purse every time you’re around. I never wanted to expose my family to that type of life.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2012
3:58 pm

3:48 is funny! Lol @Disco

Cel I ain’t trying to a t clean but dang…everybody gotta take care of themselves or/and claim what’s theirs.

U know what’s funny,if my lil bro were a drug dealer,I can afford to beret him when he comes to my house,talk foul with him but give him some food still..and sit by side with him..

Can’t dot side by side with someone’s else relation who is ex con and be comfy..
Ull be looking str8 but the corner of ur eye wld be watchful :lol:

Dont like that stress

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
3:59 pm

disco – I wish a friend would try and convince me to date someone that robbed a bank. Remember not too long ago I mentioned a friend that set me up with a friend (yeeeears ago), and he was paroled for murder?!?! I was hot with her. I asked her why didn’t she date him.

disco

July 25th, 2012
4:00 pm

I have certain family members/old acquaintances that’ll be like “what’s up with you? I was thinking about coming down that way to check you out”. in my mind I’m like oh heyall naw but I play it off. so far I’ve managed to avoid any unwanted visitors.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:01 pm

ITL – I’m a Kraft only gal :) Oh and as for as ketchup for the OM dogs, it’s Heinz only. Cannot do Hunts…lol

Kimmie – I hear you. I understand.

Mmeello – Chile hush…lol

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
4:01 pm

Disco…okay, it just sounded familiar….lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:02 pm

ITL – If by chance, For Real comes through with steaks, tell him to bring A1. We do NOT put ketchup on steaks. Notice I said “we?” We’re twins. We share and share alike :)

disco

July 25th, 2012
4:03 pm

y’all done went from fried bologna to steaks. and with the quickness too.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:05 pm

disco – For Real is a rolling stone, we gotta get while the getting is good. He promised to come through. We might not see him again until the baby’s next birthday. So, if we can get steaks instead of chicken franks, it’s gonna be a bbq

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:06 pm

If a steak is cooked properly, it shouldn’t need anything. But if I do sauce, it’ll be A1. :) On the mayo, though, I’m a Duke’s girl. ;)

@disco – a girl’s gotta dream big, right? can’t do bologna all the time.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
4:06 pm

Dont like that stress

Exiled – Exactly! And if something were to ever happen to any of my family & friends on account of some mess I brought around them, I would never forgive myself!

And even my family & friends that I do deal with that got into trouble in the past KNOW not to bring that mess around me or mine should they ever fall off the wagon.

Cel – What I have a problem with is that it seems to be okay for men to be selective, but a woman, especially a single one, does not have the same luxury. Like you said, why didn’t your friend date parole dude?? If he wasn’t good enough for her, why’d she think he would do for you?

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:07 pm

Shoot, I’m trying to pool up these gas cards to pay for Rella’s cake, but looks like I’m gonna have to bake it myself.

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
4:08 pm

Well Cel, i am with you on the condiments, which one of you nastymouths use 57 Sauce for any reason…A1 only on Steaks.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:09 pm

If he wasn’t good enough for her, why’d she think he would do for you?

And like you said earlier, Kimmie, that kind of past follows someone forever. Doesn’t mean he’s not forgiven and reformed, but it will always be there.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:10 pm

@Jake: You’re welcome to come to the bbq, but it’s BYOM – bring your own meat. :lol: :lol:

exiled

July 25th, 2012
4:11 pm

just got out of jail barbecue” was funny to me..i know it happens…

I remember back in the day when my cousin got outta jail 2 years for fraud..we had a party….i was younger much younger…then i had an uncle who also did 3 or so years for fraud….

dont be jealous..my folks are educated,they do smart,cooking the books kinda crime! :lol:

:lol:

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:11 pm

Kimmie – I’m with you 100% No way am I going to lower my standards in the realm of dating for anyone. Men getting a free pass on a whole bunch of stuff we can in no way get away with…will probably always be. That’s why it’s foreign to them (IMO), to see a woman with standards. She’s faking, flossing, fronting, lying or hiding her past. No way can she be stand up….it seems…to most of them. IMO, this low opinion they have of women is from their experience. What they fail to realize (again IMO), is that they’ve not dated all and should not assume every chick is busted up and black on the inside. Bitter and mad at the world. Trrrust me, most think you have a stick up your butt because you’ll cut ‘em off with the quickness, no hanging on. No, it’s not always easy but a good woman can do it and keep it moving. But I so agree, that they can pretty much do whatever the heck they like to any chick (allowed of course), and THEN want to have their pick of the litter.

Yeah, I was hot with her and we are no longer friends…lol

ITL – My brother always says that. I’m not a big red meat eater. I’m mostly chicken and fish. Okay, if it’s done right, no A1 needed. I’ll have to bring my own Kraft I see…lol

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
4:12 pm

ITL…I always bring my meat…..would you like some of this Sausage?

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
4:13 pm

Dang, yall got me wanting some bbq now. And I thought I had had enough for the summer!LOL!

Ex – That’s funny, that “smart” crime!LOL!!

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:13 pm

Nah, C. I’ll pick you up a little jar to keep at my house. ;)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:13 pm

MMeello – LOLOL

Kimmie – I think we’re on the same page in that regard.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:14 pm

ITL – Awww, thanks twink :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:14 pm

Thanks, Jake, but um….I’m good. But when you stop to get your meat, can you pick up some milk and pampers for baby Rella? I’ll pay you when you get here….. ;)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:15 pm

ITL – LOLOLOL

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:16 pm

Me too, Kimmie. And of all things, I’m craving some brisket. WTH? I’m usually all about the swine.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:16 pm

ITL – We should make it a block party. No cover charge but please have (baby) item in hand. For Real will handle the food for all. Daddy’s home for a week, we have to get while the getting is good.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:16 pm

See there, C??? I’m learning….. :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:18 pm

C – you better say “new” baby item, because you know pooky ‘nem gonna roll up with Boomquisha’s stained bib trying to crash the party.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:19 pm

ITL – LOLOLOL…another good one. Riiight, “new baby item” in hand. You will be turned around if the item is not in it’s original packaging

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:19 pm

ITL – Didn’t you see the block party on Good Times for Wanda? I think it was Wanda

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:19 pm

…..with gift receipt. I am not dressing baby Rella in any ill-gotten garments.

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
4:20 pm

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:20 pm

Oh, the rent party/talent show??? I love that episode.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:20 pm

Okay….if we get low, we can return Okay that was ghetto fab but that’s the life we’re living right now. With For Real being a rolling stone, this seems to be our lot currently.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:21 pm

Yep, that’s the one

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:22 pm

Remember they did the Pointer Sister’s song? Flo sounding every bit like a man?? LOLOL

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:23 pm

Whatever we have to do, we’ll do. Baby Rella comes first. And don’t make me get to customer service and show out because something’s on sale now and they don’t want to give me a full price refund. Nope.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:25 pm

LOL. Yep. And the one where they went down to the taxi garage and put on a talent show because Keith had to work on Christmas? smh @ Florida thinking she can sing.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:25 pm

ITL – I’m happy to help show my tail for getting the original price. That money might pay a bill or something. Or at least get OM franks. We can’t live off of what daddy’s doing a year from now. We have to be proactive in getting the things baby Rella needs. So, new baby item, in original packaging, with receipt. There, that should do it.

disco

July 25th, 2012
4:26 pm

re ”smart” crimes. those are the folks I just don’t trust and can’t get with. they are in line with the common thief as far as I’m concerned. stealing is one thing I’ve never played. I might be able to dig deep and justify other criminal charges but not stealing (after all i watch westerns and some folks need killing. lol). I’ll never justify a thief’s actions. folks will make the argument “what if you are hungry or your kids are hungry”. I respond then you ask somebody for something to eat. no cause for stealing. dot.

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:26 pm

Yep…was that when they did the Supreme’s Stop in the Name of Love? Flo sanging from her belly sounded like a Floyd

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:26 pm

My co-workers think I have lost it. I’m laughing so hard, I’m crying.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
4:27 pm

“ITL…I always bring my meat…..would you like some of this Sausage?”

“But when you stop to get your meat, can you pick up some milk and pampers for baby Rella? I’ll pay you when you get here….. ”

ITL ~ you do realize he doesn’t have to stop anywhere to get his meat???

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:28 pm

disco – I’m loving “dot”…think I’ll borrow that. Thanks MMeello

Stop in the naaaaame of luuuve, befoe u breaaak my haaart….

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:29 pm

disco – My cousin just told her kids the other day, she’ll get them out of jail for anything but stealing. She said there’s no need to steal when they can ask for what they want.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:30 pm

@Leggs: No worries. He can still stop and get some ketchup. Oh, and baby Rella some stuff, too. ;)

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
4:30 pm

disco – I’m with you on the stealing.

Leggs

July 25th, 2012
4:30 pm

Celisea ~ I told mine if she finds herself in jail, I won’t be visiting her!

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:31 pm

Leggs – Me either. I might accept the collect calls though

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:32 pm

I’m with y’all on the stealing.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:32 pm

@C: if you don’t, I will. After all, we do share a birthday! :)

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:32 pm

Me too…hands down, stealing is not necessary

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:33 pm

Awwww Auntie Twink, you’re such a fantab auntie :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:35 pm

disco

July 25th, 2012
4:35 pm

C – if she’s in jail locally it might be cheaper to visit. prison phone calls have gone way up.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2012
4:35 pm

Off to a meeting

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:36 pm

disco – Thanks, I didn’t know that. What’s “way up?” More than a regular phone bill??

Celisea

July 25th, 2012
4:40 pm

I want some potato chips….really bad

Jake...SPJTWB

July 25th, 2012
4:42 pm

ITL, Leggs was correct, and I may not stop for Ketchup either, this meat comes with its own special sauce….lol

disco

July 25th, 2012
4:46 pm

C – back in the day a jailhouse call was a flat fee. might have been like $4/call. not anymore. different jails/prison use different companies to provide phone service for inmates. some of these charge fees at like $3/first minute and 50 cents add’l minutes. it varies a lot and I haven’t accepted a call in a couple of years so I don’t really remember. I just remember being shocked at my bill. you can even buy access so that inmates can call your cell phone number if you don’t have a home phone. it’s sort of like a prepaid phone card. (by the way, I speak of my own personal collect call experiences which were primarily PA institutions. don’t know about other places in case someone calls me out. lol.).

kimmie

July 25th, 2012
4:47 pm

My dad used to tell us he’d come bail us out, unless it was drug-related. Working down at Grady he saw a lot he didn’t want us getting into.

Be easy gang, I’m out!!