I did a quick mental scan of my exes and former beaus and you want to know what I realized? They are NOTHING alike. They vary in looks, income, background, race – you name it, they differ. While I always believed I had a type, the reality is who I am attracted to and who I end up dating are remarkably dissimilar.
I believe that attraction is the inexplicable, totally random, sometimes downright confusing part of dating. It jams us up and leads us astray but it also adds excitement and thrill. Talk about a double edged sword!
Do you think is smart to date a wide variety of people? Do you prefer to stick to the same type of person because that seems to work out better? You know that saying, variety is the spice of life – does that mean dating the same type over and over gets boring?
Have you ever thought of what would happen if you dated someone totally opposite to what you are normally drawn to? What do you think would happen?
How similar are your exes? How do they differ?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog