Dating: How do you know when it’s over?
When the novelty of a new relationship wears off, a lot of people start to realize the thrill is gone. Maybe the the weight of a real relationship gets too heavy. Or things go sour and it the fights become more frequent.
I think a lot of couples stay in relationships far longer than they should. How do you know when it’s over, though? How can you be sure it isn’t just a rough patch, or a typical growing pain that relationships go through.
Have you ever been surprised by a break up? Is there a way to notice they signs that things are headed to splitsville?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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218 comments Add your comment
Lily
July 19th, 2012
6:19 am
I can’t say I’ve been taken by surprise with a beakup however, I’ve felt a bit of anxiety during a rough patch. I’ve wondered if it was worth the effort but, never fully abandoning the idea to get through it. I believe when there’s still something that remain, both still want to give it a go. Sometimes frustrated, sometimes feeling at your wits end, still seeking ways to work through. Usually for me when it’s over, there aren’t any ideas or solutions. I’ve shut down on even the possibility.
Troy
July 19th, 2012
8:53 am
How things progress once the novelty has worn off will show if there is staying power. It is healthy to experience growing pangs. Running for the hills isn’t always an indicator of bad. Sometimes that sort of reaction means you cut out to quickly.
SlimUno
July 19th, 2012
9:17 am
Good morning peeps,
I have a serious case of tennis/golfers elbow or straight tendonitis. Too much mouse clicking and typing
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
9:24 am
Good morning.
One way you know it’s over is when you drive home and see his car in the driveway and all you can think about is egging it!
SlimUno
July 19th, 2012
9:28 am
LOL
disco
July 19th, 2012
9:32 am
good morning. how do you know when it’s over? the fat lady sings. lol.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
9:35 am
Or she faints when she sees you…
czBrat
July 19th, 2012
9:44 am
HiYas!
how’s every lil thing in blogsville?
frankly, i struggle with wanting to move on once the newness wears off. i suffer from wanderlust.
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
9:45 am
Or when she’s no longer hungry
DreamsMaterialize
July 19th, 2012
9:47 am
Morning
When you try to stay at the gym as long as possible to avoid going home.
When deciding between chicken or steak for dinner turns into “your mama’s always in our business”
When anything they do/say (even if it’s something good) gets on your nerves.
When you’d RATHER sleep on the couch.
czBrat
July 19th, 2012
9:49 am
^ just oh my!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
9:54 am
When you’d RATHER sleep on the couch.
A lumpy couch at that…
Mike P
July 19th, 2012
10:09 am
It’s over when…
1. When it has become too burdensome for me to show physical restraint.
2. The first time she puts her hands on me.
3. The very instant I lose all respect for her.
4. When she becomes too combative.
5. When I can no longer trust her.
6. If I learn about her sordid past from others and not from her.
7. If she places her personal desires and interests above the family.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
10:24 am
It’s over when….
1. The sound of his voice makes you wanna puke
2. You take the best part of the meat cooked that night for dinner
3. You no longer mask “passing gas”
4. When you look at your watch and say “great, he should be sleeping by now” and head on home
5. When you no longer care if his laundry is done
6. MikeP’s #1….
disco
July 19th, 2012
10:31 am
since we’re making lists, these are real life experiences of folks I know
1. when you go to move your husband’s car so that you can get your car out of the driveway and his “other” phone rings
2. when you feel like your husband is cheating on his girlfriend to be with you.
3. when your husband is served with child support papers in church
4. when your kids tell you that you need judge hatchett
5. when your husband gets deployed and you get your tubes tied before he comes home
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
10:35 am
When you don’t care if you left doo doo crumbs in the toilet…he/she no longer gets that residual courtesy flush
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
10:36 am
Sorry, but I chuckled at #5, disco.
And your #1 is one of the more stupid things cheating men do. Hide a phone that’s not really hidden. Dumbclucks…
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
10:37 am
Oh my goodness, doo doo crumbs….
disco
July 19th, 2012
10:37 am
6. when your husband’s ex-wife still has a key to the house and comes and goes as she pleases unchecked by your husband. you even come home one day to the ex-wife walking around “your” house half dressed (hubs wasn’t home but principal)
7. when your girl has a baby that’s not yours, you forgive her, accept the kid and then she has another baby that’s not yours.
okay. think that’s all I’ve got for now. I’ll have to think on it some more.
disco
July 19th, 2012
10:47 am
oops. hope y’all recognize I meant hubs wasn’t home but it’s the principle of the thing. hubs isn’t a principal and to my knowledge he wasn’t off somewhere with a principal.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
10:47 am
when your husband gets deployed and you get your tubes tied before he comes home
Couldn’t help but laugh at that for some reason…don’t judge me
when your husband’s ex-wife still has a key to the house and comes and goes as she pleases unchecked by your husband. you even come home one day to the ex-wife walking around “your” house half dressed (hubs wasn’t home but principal)
Where they do that at?!?!
I really and truly hope that that hasn’t been anyone’s experience…oh my..
disco
July 19th, 2012
10:56 am
sassy. all on my list are real experiences.
1. friend of mine
2. cousin’s first-wife
3. family friend
4. friend of mine
5. friend of mine
6. cousin’s second wife (same cousin as number 2)
7. acquaintance
Mike P
July 19th, 2012
10:57 am
@disco: what is your list about??
Dynamic
July 19th, 2012
11:00 am
I like the lists
1. When he’s snoring at night and you feel like smothering him with a pillow.
2. When people mistakengly call you by his last name and you correct them with the quickness (That is not my LAST name!!)
3. When people call the house and you tell them that he no longer lives there.
4. When the things you thought were cute get on you last nerves.
5. When you have to fantasize(about a ex, his brother, the mailman) to climax.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:01 am
Had to laugh at your #5, disco.
Your #1 is what dumb cheating men do, try to hide another phone in an obvious place, the car!!!
disco
July 19th, 2012
11:01 am
mike p – first list is what folks told me was their last straw in the relationship. second list just matching folks with the first list.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:05 am
Certainly been there, Dynamic with your #2
It’s over when:
7. You look at him on the side wondering how many times were he in fact dropped as a child.
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
11:09 am
You know it’s over
when you start entertaining advances from other people…
finding other things to do with the time you usually spend with your SO like, re-caulk the bathroom shower, clean out the gutters, lint brush all your white cotton t-shirts, clean out all the closets in the house.
czBrat
July 19th, 2012
11:14 am
lol @ sassy. disco should write a book. just a nice little compilation.
happy to report that it’s been sooooo long since i’ve been in “i knew it was over” mode.
as for current s/o, all i can say is i know i’m not ready for “i do” every time i think to myself ‘i’m so glad he has his own home to go to’.
czBrat
July 19th, 2012
11:15 am
when you start entertaining advances from other people…
finding other things to do with the time you usually spend with your SO like, re-caulk the bathroom shower, clean out the gutters, lint brush all your white cotton t-shirts, clean out all the closets in the house.
omg! just DEAD!!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:19 am
Cold cut artist = Tank (Southern Jazz Festival at Wolf Creek Park (404) 741-1075
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
11:24 am
as for current s/o, all i can say is i know i’m not ready for “i do” every time i think to myself ‘i’m so glad he has his own home to go to’
Don’t feel bad cz..I sooo cosign with you on that sentiment. Everybody wants/needs their own space…
disco all I can say is d.amn really?…If I ever come home and find your ex in my house it’s going to be a problem…
DreamsMaterialize
July 19th, 2012
11:30 am
When you turn going to the store for milk into an adventure just to get some peace of mind.
When the two of you can sit in a room for hours and not say anything to each other.
When you restrict all interactions to one-word discussions like “yeah”, “ok”, “uh-huh”, “maybe”, just to avoid an argument.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:32 am
It’s over when:
8. He passes you in the hall with a good morning and your response is “F U!”
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
11:36 am
You leave your SO home to go and help a gf who needs a ride because of a flat tire. On your way to gf’s house, she decides she wants a burger from McD’s for the first time in six months. You pull into the McD’s parking lot and the SO that you left at home on the couch is at McD’s buying sweet tea with a chick who works in your building.
I’d say, that’s a clue that it’s over.
disco
July 19th, 2012
11:38 am
brat – I must be a good listener because folks are always telling me their business.
sassy – me, myself, personally (lol) I’m not moving into the first wife’s house period.
dreams – sitting in silence for hours might not necessarily be a bad thing. of course, I live alone and generally have a higher tolerance for going long periods of time without talking. I often find people feel like they have to fill the space.
leggs – that’s funny but sounds like something I would say.
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
11:38 am
When you leave work on a Friday afternoon ready to go hang out with your girls because your SO has gone out of town for the weekend with his boys. However, you pull up to light at Piedmont and Sidney Marcus, only to realize that the car next to you is your SO’s and the chick sitting next to him is not one of his boys.
That’s a clue that it’s over.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
11:38 am
Y’all are keeping me laughing this morning.
You know it’s over when:
You text instead of call because the sound of his voice gives you an eye tic
The thought of his hands on you initiates a gag reflex
You watch talk shows and think, “Hmph! That’s nothing….they should film us!”
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
11:39 am
When you come home from work and your hubby says that he needs to talk to you. What does he say? “I don’t want to be married anymore. It’s not you. It’s me.”
Well, actually, it wasn’t me. It was the stripper that he was leaving me for.
THAT is more than a clue that it’s over.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:41 am
It’s over when:
9. They touch you and your skin literally crawls right off your body and leaves the room.
disco
July 19th, 2012
11:41 am
SCool – I have to ask. your stories – are they yours, folks you know or made up?
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:44 am
It’s over when:
10. They start choking and you don’t even help by patting them on the back. You just get up and leave the room because of their noise.
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
11:45 am
Those would all be me. Yuuup! I really knew how to pick ‘em.
But oddly enough, I am thankful for all the bad choices in my life.
They were lessons on how to make better decisions.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:48 am
“You text instead of call because the sound of his voice gives you an eye tic” – good one!
disco
July 19th, 2012
11:48 am
SCool – well in that case I have to ask, how did these scenes play out? at mcdonald’s did you just look, notice and not say anything or was there a confrontation? at the light, did he notice you, not notice you or try to pretend not to notice you? lol
Single and Happy
July 19th, 2012
11:48 am
You know it’s over when you don’t want to, it doesn’t want too, and you refuse to try viagra
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
11:50 am
disco – Joey Greco and the Cheaters announcer could have been there announcing, “And now we return for the con-FRON-tation!”
Single and Happy
July 19th, 2012
11:52 am
Leggs have to rearrange a little bit, the only sex you’re having is in passing in the hall ” F U, F U too”
DreamsMaterialize
July 19th, 2012
11:55 am
You know it’s over when you don’t care if you get caught
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:56 am
I’ll definitely accept that, Single!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
11:56 am
It’s over when:
11. You start cleaning out his part of the closet so you can put more of your stuff in it (and he hasn’t even moved out yet).
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
11:57 am
Scenario One – Chick ended up wearing the sweet tea. Ended up leaving my GF in the McD’s parking lot for my SO to take her home. (He did.)
Scenario Two – Forced buddy to pull over in the QT parking lot on Sidney Marcus. We had a pleasant (or not so much) conversation. I dinked him in the head. He grabbed my neck in a choke hold. Had a nice little conversation with APD. No charges were pressed.
Scenario Three – He moved in with the stripper. A week later, I found out I was preggers. I moved to Atlanta. Lost the baby. Got a divorce. Lived happily ever after.
disco
July 19th, 2012
11:59 am
well this one’s not relationship related but I once worked a job and I knew it was over when I got a new boss and one day she put her little hands on her hips when talking to me. my whole mindset was “who the eff does she think she’s talking to”. granted that wasn’t the primary issue but it was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
dang SCool.
kimmie
July 19th, 2012
12:00 pm
Sup Gang!
Some of these “It’s over when” are cracking me up!!
Yayyyy!!!! My work computer crashed!! I’m happy because they are sending a technician out and maybe finally it will be fixed!!!
Blogging at a spare one now but can’t get to my email! Yayy!!!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
12:02 pm
It’s over when:
12. Someone calls for him and you say he’s not there even though he’s just in the bathroom. He then asks who it was and you say “wrong number.”
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
12:02 pm
Ladies, u doing just Great,H..I..L..A..R..I..O..U..S!!!
keep it coming!
Sexcool…u told me about that Mcdonal’s scene…not the confrontation after..
how did it go… ??
As for me: Its over when I dont come home to sleep anymore! been there,done that.
Its over when i direct payroll to remove that automatic deduction that goes into her account.
Its over when I mistakenly holla at a friend of her sister
kimmie
July 19th, 2012
12:03 pm
SCool – God is good, isn’t he?
Actually some of these are sad. I am thinking back on times I knew it was over. That’s a really bad feeling. In a few, I hung around FAR TOO LONG!!!
SexyCool
July 19th, 2012
12:05 pm
All the time.
Gotta go conduct an interview.
Two fangas…
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
12:05 pm
Kimmie…u hung around far too long…just give us the play by play Kimmie..comeOn!
DreamsMaterialize
July 19th, 2012
12:05 pm
“You know it’s over when you don’t care if you get caught” also tranlates into “Its over when I mistakenly holla at a friend of her sister” lol
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
12:06 pm
In a few, I hung around FAR TOO LONG!!!
Me, too.
DreamsMaterialize
July 19th, 2012
12:07 pm
In a few, I hung around FAR TOO LONG!!!
kimmie I think the common theme in a lot of these is that USUALLY it’s over long before it’s over. How are doing btw?
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
12:08 pm
It’s over when:
13: He asks “what’s for dinner?” and you say “I don’t know cause I’m not cooking” (because you ate out before you got home),
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
12:12 pm
It’s over when:
you pretend to be asleep when he comes to bed, just so you won’t have to look at or talk to him
you don’t care if he’s cheating
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
12:13 pm
Its over when, when u smash,its to fulfill a routine and present her a facade but u hardly foreplay and u never kiss!
disco
July 19th, 2012
12:14 pm
I started to type out when it was over for Jodi and Yvette in baby boy but it was over too many times to count and in the end it wasn’t really over. lol.
kimmie
July 19th, 2012
12:14 pm
Exiled – Nothing interesting to tell really. There were at least 3 that I knew were not working, all the signs were there, but I kept hoping against hope things would work out. 2 were long-distance and a lot of the efforts to see each other were falling on me. One came to ATL for a week(had a house here) from a project he was working on in DC. His mom & daughter lived in his house here. Anyway he had been here 2 days and kept talking about other plans he had that did not include me. I asked him about it and finally he said seeing me was not a priority when he came home, his daughter was. Mama let it slip to me though, that he was not spending time with daughter at all because she was babysitting! I should have shut it down right there…. but I was a fool.
Finally broke it off when I found out he’d put a stalker virus on my home computer and stole from my hard drive! Have not talked to or laid eyes on him since. Last time he called I was on my way out the door to my 1st date with now husband.
kimmie
July 19th, 2012
12:15 pm
Dreams – Doing great man, just trying to keep this workout thing going!!!
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
12:18 pm
@disco: I don’t know what it is about Baby Boy, but if I’m flipping through the channels and it’s on, I have to stop and watch. That scene where Jody tells Yvette, “You’re my rib, girl!” gets me everytime.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
12:24 pm
I don’t know what it is about Baby Boy, but if I’m flipping through the channels and it’s on, I have to stop and watch
You are not alone ITL…I like that movie,too but for other reasons…Ving Rhames. Every scene he’s in does it for me…even him cooking breakfast buck nekkid…
disco
July 19th, 2012
12:24 pm
ITL – I heard tyrese in an interview joke that the movie comes on even too much for him. apparently, according to him, the networks that air baby boy all of the time say they still get outrageous numbers of viewers when it’s on. I guess as long as folks keep watching it they’ll keep showing it.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
12:28 pm
Have you ever been surprised by a break up? – Once. Had dinner plans, but he wouldn’t answer his phone. When he finally did he said he was busy and hung up. Didn’t need a magnifying glass for that.
disco
July 19th, 2012
12:34 pm
sassy – not to harp on ving rhames since we covered him some time back but I love the man too. have you seen phantom punch where he plays sonny liston? in the movie he says he only knows how to do one thing and that’s “knocking MFs out”. I love it.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
12:41 pm
disco- I haven’t seen that movie but I might have to look for it when I rent movies this weekend…I loved him even more after I saw the movie “Rosewood”…when he introduced himself and said ,“They call me MAN”..I was like uhh huh I”m sho they do…
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
12:46 pm
You know it’s over when:
He leaves you in Charleston the same night you arrived to go make very little money and comes back to pick you up two days later. When he comes back, you’re to livid to speak to him, so you party it up with friends while he sleeps on the couch.
He hires his ex girlfriend (the only person you’ve been in a physical fight with) to play a gig with him while in town and only tells you because you found out he spent over an hour on the phone with her. When you ask when he was going to tell you, he says “when I have money to give you.”
When you’re mom is going into a major surgery and he’s travelling and decides it might be more important to stay an extra night and play for free at a jam rather than come be by your side when you need him most. (he did show up at last minute…he knew better).
Now…to previous S/O
When he tells you he loves you and wants to marry you one minute, then calls you horrible names the next and blames his bipolar disorder.
When you’re on the phone with him and find out a friend committed suicide and you start crying and he asks if you ever slept with him. Then, when you tell him you don’t want to talk to him anymore that night and will get support from others, he threatens to take a bunch of pills and lies about going to the hospital.
When you spend a lot of money on a plane ticket to go see him and on the way to the airport, he calls you his ex girlfriend’s name.
When you wear a t-shirt of a local band and he yells at you because he is jealous and accuses you of sleep with said musician.
Boy…I could go on and on…
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
12:46 pm
when you rather stay upstairs folding clothes, than be downstairs with them mean mugging while they watch tv.
disco
July 19th, 2012
12:48 pm
bluz – you deliver every time. I laughed out loud re be called the other chick’s name on the way to the airport. so how’d that turn out? did you continue the trip or turn around?
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
12:55 pm
bluz – you deliver every time.
For real right?!…just shut everything down with all of that. Chile you’ve got the patience of Job to withstand that… Sounds like that MiMi/Stevie J. syndrome…
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
1:00 pm
It’s over when the chick on the side calls the house asking for him and you actually give him the phone and ask her how she’s doing or what they have planned, while waiting till he gets the phone…
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:07 pm
(he did show up at last minute…he knew better). – justification on your part. When women stop accepting things like that, they’ll be treated better. Sorry, but last minute is not acceptable (for me).
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:08 pm
Don’t start with that fake/staged nonsense known as MiMi/Stevie J.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:10 pm
That 1:00 is so very, very true!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:11 pm
It’s over when:
13. It takes too much energy to give a damn!
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
1:13 pm
Leggs – Not to get the train wreck of Stevie J/Mimi started but I overheard someone talking about Stevie J and Joseline supposedly being engaged now.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:14 pm
If that’s the case, Frick and Frack belong together.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
1:16 pm
disco…I call him Psycho in Seattle. This was my second time visiting him. I called one of my best friends and she begged me to not get on the plane and that she would come pick me up. For some reason, I got on the plane anyway. It was very awkward when I got to Seattle and the trip was doomed. It was about two weeks after I got back, when my friend had killed himself, that it was done.
Sassy…I did have the patience of Job, but I think that patience has run out with the crap I choose to deal with. I will no longer allow myself to be disrespected by men!
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
1:18 pm
Leggs…the only reason it was enough at the time is because of my mom’s serious surgery. I couldn’t handle a break up also and I forgave him (for some unknown reason). Looking back, that was really the beginning of the end. I don’t think I ever really forgave him for not being there with me at least the night before the surgery. He literally pulled into the hospital parking lot right as they were taking my mom in…
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:20 pm
Got it bluz.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
1:23 pm
I’m sure I have more to input on the lists! I’ll have to think! Maybe some funnier ones that I’ve experienced.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
1:31 pm
How about just for a date and not a relationship…
You know you don’t want to continue when you’re sitting at a restaurant on the patio with families and he uses the “f” word with every other word. Then he refers to strip clups as t*tty bars.
When you come back from the bathroom and he’s taken the only seat available at the bar and doesn’t even offer it to you, so you are forced to stand next to him.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
1:36 pm
You are not alone ITL…I like that movie,too but for other reasons…Ving Rhames. Every scene he’s in does it for me…even him cooking breakfast buck nekkid…
Now I LOVE Jody, but I sure don’t change the channel when Ving is on there….
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
1:36 pm
Did I run everyone off?
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
1:39 pm
That’s a description of a jack a$$, bluz.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
1:48 pm
when he introduced himself and said ,“They call me MAN”..I was like uhh huh I”m sho they do…
This made me LOL.
Dynamic
July 19th, 2012
1:50 pm
You know it’s over when….
You’re in labor and he’s no where to be found.
You’re throwing away old papers and find a write up from his job. The write up lists all the times he has called off to work and you thought he was working.
Guy comming in from work: “Hey baby how you doing”
Girl in the kitchen on the phone rolling her eyes: “Damn it I thought they had mandatory overtime this week, girl let me go you know this dude gone wanna talk to somebody”
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:07 pm
…….aaaannnnnd scene.
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:08 pm
dynamic – those are some good ones. not that old boy was fronting like he was at work.
ITL / sassy – and scrappy called him “mr. man”.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
2:10 pm
Leggs…see why it scares me to be back in the dating scene?
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
2:11 pm
Oh and…both of those dates were two different guys who thought they were going to get sex at the end of the night! Boy where they wrong!!!
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:12 pm
@disco – I’d call him Rumpelstilskin if he wanted me to. You know I love those big ‘uns. Ooooh, what if they did a Good Times flashback and Ving was wearing James’ corduroys? CHILE…….
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:16 pm
@disco – That’s what we should do for our next directorial venture. Recast old television shows with current actors.
Ving = James Evans
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
2:17 pm
Dynamic – Totally understand the part about job write ups and faking going to work…
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:17 pm
well – we talked about the other side. I’ll try to think of when some fellas should have known it was over with me.
1. when I set money on fire in the street and told him I didn’t want it but no other chick would spend it
2. when I stood outside his momma’s house banging on the door, calling her names and daring her to come outside
3. when I stood outside his sister’s house banging on the door, calling her names and daring her to come outside.
4. when me and the other chick came to blows
5. when he showed up at my house and I had every thing he had ever bought stacked up neatly on the dining room table
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
2:23 pm
dayum disco, you gansta I see…
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
2:23 pm
No doubt it’s scary, Bluz. The alternative is less flattering.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:25 pm
Note to self: NEVER pi$$ off disco.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
2:25 pm
and scrappy called him “mr. man”.
And I don’t blame her either…remember the scene where she took him a cup of coffee and left him in the barn just a skip..skip..skippin along her merry way…too funny but truth be told I probably would’ve,too
SassaFrass luvs a big strapping guy like that..
I’d call him Rumpelstilskin if he wanted me to.
a Good Times flashback and Ving was wearing James’ corduroys?
!!!!!!!!!(@ the visual I just got)…damn…damn…DAAAAMN!!!!
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:27 pm
slim / ITL – that was the “young” me. well, the items on the dining room table was relatively recent but all that other mess was way back when.
sassy – she was skipping wasn’t she. and how about at the dance. what did they say “twirl that man scrappy” (twirl him, spin him or something).
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
2:28 pm
SlimUno ~ I know you ain’t surprised disco has gangsta qualities…that’s why she’s so charming on this blog (lol).
How much money did you burn?
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
2:28 pm
disco…I love how hardcore you are! I feel like you could teach me some things!
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
2:30 pm
when he showed up at my house and I had every thing he had ever bought stacked up neatly on the dining room table
Well I had a similar “you know it’s over with me” situation similar to that…
You know it’s over with me when I show up to your house(cause he ain’t ever crossing the threshold to my domicile ever again) with all of your isht in a black trash bag and proceed to decorate the lawn with it…and leave.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:33 pm
LOL@Sassy. Yeah, I don’t even care who else we cast in the show, so long as Ving is in those cords. (ITL now furiously fanning herself)…..mercy!
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:35 pm
leggs – I honestly don’t remember but dude was hustling and I’m sure it was plenty. he thought it was “hush money” but he learned you can’t hush me.
bluz – this is why my “handle business” personality and your “take all kinds of crap” personality would clash. you’d drive me crazy.
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:35 pm
here’s another flashback to the old old old days. you know it’s over when I come to visit you at county jail and your other chick is either still in her visit or the guard let me see the names on the visitor’s list. no more collect calls / letters / visits for you. (and it’s never happened to me but I’ve heard tales of chicks bumping into each other in the waiting room and nearly coming to blows).
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
2:38 pm
Shyyd ITL I’ve been fanning…stopped and started again at the thought of Ving in those tight a$$ beige/brownish corduroys…ever noticed how they “hugged” James’ a$$ and…well you know ITL. Okay let me stop before I make a phone call
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
2:40 pm
Leggs – No, I’m not surprised at her ganstaness, but I was like whoa…she not just a lil baby gansta…she’s like gansta grillz gansta
She’s the Shug Knight of blogsville..lol
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
2:43 pm
disco…but, you could help me to get over the “take all kinds of crap” part of myself! I am working hard on it. I swear with the next man, I will NOT take crap anymore. Over all that!
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:46 pm
sassy – who you gone call?
slim – no you didn’t say shug night. y’all funny.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:47 pm
LMAO@Sassy. Guuurrrrllll, either somebody turned up the heat in here, or my inner child is playing with matches. Ving+Corduroys= Clean-up, aisle nine. Better bring a mop.
disco coaching Bluz…..I’d pay to see that.
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:48 pm
bluz – you did mention one fight. tell us about that.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
2:49 pm
Bluz…baby gurl…if you have to use disco’s kickassedness to help you then by all means do so but like the old folks say, “Baby, you’ll know when you’ve had your fill…only you’ll know”…
Ultimately it’s all up to yoU.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
2:49 pm
disco ~ you said it.
SlimUno ~ I know you weren’t really “surprised.” I took it that you were talking about the rawness she exhibits (lol)…that’s why I like her. She as smooth as an emery board.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
2:51 pm
disco…but, you could help me to get over the “take all kinds of crap” part of myself!
Just reading this line I immediately thought of the teacher choking the isht out of the student for their lack of understanding and execution.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
2:51 pm
Ving+Corduroys= Clean-up, aisle nine. Better bring a mop.
who you gone call?
My man…Mr. Bermuda
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:53 pm
LOL@Leggs’ 2:51. I was thinking the same thing. On the top of the school supply list will be Kleenex and bandaids.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
2:54 pm
You know, though, i’m having a tough time with the rest of the cast. Florida, especially.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
2:55 pm
Kleenix and bandaids. Guuurrrll, you better put a few ace bandages in that cart.
disco
July 19th, 2012
2:56 pm
leggs/ITL – again I say y’all crazy but y’all are about right. lol.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
2:58 pm
On the top of the school supply list will be Kleenex and bandaids.
And on the bottom of the list in italic writing next to an asterisk will be the special supplies for the advanced level students…like a box cutter, pepper spray,running shoes with black laces..etc…
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
3:00 pm
i’m having a tough time with the rest of the cast. Florida, especially.
Me,too…
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:02 pm
like a box cutter, pepper spray,running shoes with black laces..etc……
black hoodie, night vision goggles, and a blowtorch.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:03 pm
How about Mo’Nique for Willona?
disco
July 19th, 2012
3:06 pm
wait a minute? are y’all having fun at my expense? should I be offended? lol.
sassy – my mom gave me my first box cutter when I started 6th grade. it was just one of those little yellow plastic ones with the slide. my mother had a metal one so I remember thinking mine was cheap at the time. lol.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
3:14 pm
No, we’re not having fun at your expense. Those are tools for bluz.
Now, why the heck would your mother give you a plastic toy box cutter. Preparatation in practicing the slide??
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
3:15 pm
Mo’Nique for Wiona is perfect casting.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
3:18 pm
Here’s the details about the fight. I’ll try to make a long story short. The girl and I were friends years ago. My recent SO was in a relationship with her at the time. She started showing me a lot of craziness and I pulled back from her as a friend. In the meantime, she and loser had broken up (or so I thought) and he and I had relations. I fell for him back then (this was about 10-12 years ago). Once I found out they were still together, I felt horrible. He broke my heart back then. She and I had words and I just hated that I fell for his lies. Fast forward a few years…she and I rekindled our friendship and past mistakes were forgiven (or so I thought). I was going to sublet her apartment, but things were crazy at the time and she pulled it out from under me twice. After the second time, I stopped talking to her.
One night, I’m at Northside Tavern, just hanging out enjoying some great music. I was on the phone with my friend while my boyfriend at the time was in the bathroom. She came up to me fuming about something. I ignored her since I was on the phone and she grabbed my drink and threw it out. I hung up the phone right then. We exchanged a lot of words. She accused me of talking isht about her, which I honestly had not been doing. She said she wanted to hit me in my face and I told her to do it. She barely hit me and jumped up from my stool, grabbed her, and got at least 3 good licks in on her before someone pulled me off. My boyfriend had missed the whole thing. So many people hated her and I got a lot of congrats afterwards. Even the cop who worked there came up to get my statement and said he heard I had a mean right hook. I was known as Rocky for a long time there! She moved to FL the next day, so I have no idea if bruises were left!
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
3:19 pm
my mom gave me my first box cutter when I started 6th grade.
Ahh a woman after my own heart
My mom told me I needed an equalizer(no lie that’s what she called it)…and gave me one,too but when I was in the ninth grade and entering high school. Before then I went to karate school and was one degree away from a black belt before the school closed.
I remember thinking mine was cheap at the time
No it wasn’t that…a plastic slider is just enough to get a mofo off of you but not too much for a then 6th grader to handle…
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
3:21 pm
Mo’Nique for Wiona is perfect casting
Speaking of “Wiona”..Fred C. Davis could never get her name right..who’d play him?
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:24 pm
@disco: Of course we’re not. But I am imagining your stocking at Christmas. I bet you were the only kid that got refills for your boxcutter and brass knuckles. Am I right?!?!? lol
disco
July 19th, 2012
3:24 pm
I can’t stand Monique. (not that anyone cares but she just annoys me).
sassy – “we here”, “we tracking” lol
bluz – YOU GO GIRL!!! in a full fledged bar fight.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:26 pm
So funny you said that, Sassy. I was thinking about Alderman Davis….it would have to be somebody that does “stuffy” really well. No one comes to mind so far.
But how about Terrence Howard for Sweet Daddy? Or Flava Flav.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
3:32 pm
I’ll take Mo-Nique over that other loud mouth woman that plays in a lot of TPerry’s movies. The woman with the raspy voice who sometimes spit venom.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
3:34 pm
And…just so ya’ll know…I didn’t just sit back and take everything he did to me. Trust me that I did react…sometimes pretty harshly! I just stayed too long!!!
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
3:36 pm
disco…see…I have some scrap in me! LOL
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:37 pm
Anthony Anderson as Bookman?
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
3:43 pm
Afternoon, folks. Looks like I’m surrounded by women. Just the way I likes it. Good thing, thing I suppose, since it looks like I’m going to be surrounded by women for a while — little SwissMocha is a girl.
(I’m in trouble)
disco
July 19th, 2012
3:44 pm
Anthony Anderson is good. okay. I’ll play.
how about luenell as florida? Jennifer lewis as willona? katt Williams as sweet daddy? phil morris as the alderman? Orlando jones as JJ? who else do we need? Thelma, Michael, penny…
Swiss – pink bubble gum cigars for everyone!!!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
3:45 pm
swiss ~ please listen. I know what ‘m talking about….CONGRATULATIONS! I’m ready to babysit when you need one.
Bluzgirl
July 19th, 2012
3:46 pm
Congrats Swiss!!!!
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
3:50 pm
swiss – Hate to say I told ya so….but….I told ya so. Let me know if you need help assembling the barbie doll house or the tea party table set. Oh and ya might wanna start wearing pink more often now, so by the time she gets here, you’ll be really comfy in it lol
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:51 pm
Congratulations, Swiss!!!
(ITL now ordering UGA cheerleader dress in size 0-3 mos. for SuisseMochette)
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
3:52 pm
little SwissMocha is a girl.
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
CONGRATS SWISS!!!!
On the real, I think it’d be a GREAT idea for the blog to get together and have a lil meet n greet/baby shower for lil baby Rella aka SwissMocha
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
3:55 pm
Good cast, disco. I LOVE Katt as Sweet Daddy. HI-LAR-IOUS!!
Ummmm, Sassy, baby Rella is MY baby. Not Swiss’s. Well, at least I don’t think it’s Swiss’s (don’t tell For Real, though, or I’ll never get my gas cards!!!)
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
3:55 pm
Thanks, ladies. I’m actually excited to have a little girl, but I know I’m ruined now. She’s gonna have me wrapped around her little finger, I already know it.
Slim — Mrs. Swiss has been dress my arse in pink for years now, so I’m good & ready.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
3:58 pm
swiss ~ those little girls are no joke! Your life has changed forever (boy or girl).
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
4:00 pm
swiss – I must say that Mrs Swiss is one smart chick…she knew what she was doing from the start with dressing you in pink and using those advanced yoga postions = baby girl
http://www.fitnessmagazine.com/workout/yoga/poses/extreme-yoga-poses/
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:01 pm
Suge Knight of blogsville
thats Slim at her bestetest!
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:03 pm
Swiss, did u read on the ajc front page about the wife of a marine that got killed after an orgy in California San Diego and the other jealousy chic went bananas…?
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:04 pm
Sassy — I’m down for that, as long as I can drink. (Don’t judge me, I need it.) lol
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:04 pm
mm, Sassy, baby Rella is MY baby
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:06 pm
“maybeyou,Swiss and For Real need to go on The Maury show”
I can bust out my white boy dance on national tv when I find out I am NOT the father. lol
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:06 pm
Swiss when is she due?…and yes you can drink…heck I think a few of us will be drinking.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:07 pm
!!!!!!!
Not the “white boy dance”!!!
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:08 pm
Me.lo — I did see that. I guess the D can be a powerful thing. (Although, in that case, it sounded like ol’ boy was augmenting the D with a lot of accessories, which is kinda cheating, if you ask me) lol
disco
July 19th, 2012
4:08 pm
y’all am I wrong that the only reason I picked luenell was because she’s homely?
swiss – you retarded. not the white boy dance when you are not the father. that’s funny. I could just see somebody talking about look at the baby’s ears. look at her fingertips. she’s too dark or she’s too light. he has to be the father or he can’t be the father. a hot mess I tell you.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:08 pm
Sounds like a great idea, SassyMe.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:09 pm
LOL. Something tells me that if it’s a toss up between Swiss and For Real, we might not need a DNA test. IJS…..
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:10 pm
oh swiss got a baby..Congrats man!!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:10 pm
The sillies5 reason I’ve heard on Maury is “I don’t make girls, only boys.”
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:10 pm
Sassy — Due late December. Gonna put Mrs. Swiss under the tree so I can unwrap her. lol
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:13 pm
I like to see you trying to get a pregnant woman under the tree (lolol).
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:13 pm
Well, actually, I don’t really want to see that…just a bad figure of speech.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:13 pm
@Leggs: Baby Jonquell’s ding ding is little – just like his daddy’s! And they got the same unibrow!
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:14 pm
“Something tells me that if it’s a toss up between Swiss and For Real, we might not need a DNA test”
ITL — I may be all whiteboy on the outside, but I’m a carrier of soul… IJS… lol
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:14 pm
me too Swiss..im not allowing anything to come in the bedroom to “enhance” the experience coz right there,thats an admission that u kinda fall short.
Im sure there are chics that play that game..guy is not really up to par but rather than say..hmmm,it wont work..they will be slick and in a kinda mellow,sexxy voice say:
babe,i was thinking..why dont we let my vibrator in the bedroom,u rub me with it a little,u use this banana to &&()*U&*& my spot,get a Cocacola empty bottle end push it inside..then u can finish it off urself?
but the dudes gladly go for it!
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:15 pm
Me.lo — Thanks, buddy. Yeah, maybe there is a god after all — and he’s punishing me for being a horn dog. lol
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:17 pm
@Ex: You do know it’s a vajayjay, and not a trash compactor, right? You can’t just be sticking fruit and empty bottles and your recycling and all that in there.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:17 pm
How about no toys in bedroom, Ex, and the guy does the fist action like Jayne Kennedy requested…you down with that for added stimulation???
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:19 pm
Ooops, sorry folk…went too far out on the ledge!
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm
Speaking of vajayjay’s, I texted my friend that had her baby last week to see how she was doing. This fool says she’s good and her cooter is feeling about 85% ok.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm
A carrier of soul…..LOL.
Yes, doctor, please run the genetic test once more. I’m certain I have the soul gene.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm
Due late December
Well I hope she arrives on my birthday….December 24th
So with that being said, and with the holidays in full swing by that point…we need to have the shower the first week of December if not earlier but we’ve got plenty of time to figure it out. Swiss are you two registered anywhere?…i.e.Baby’s R Us or someplace else?
disco
July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm
ex – a chick like me will say it won’t work. dudes better be happy there are chicks that are willing to work with them. trust me. short dudes know they are short and they are just happy to be getting some. if they have to share with the odd inanimate object every now and again I’m sure they are more than willing to do so.
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:21 pm
@ITL..i know..but if that were the case, why do some folks even bring syringes in the bedroom and draw blood…for some folks,it takes a LOT to get them off..
some ladies want a whip..”slap my butt!” ,’SLAP IT!”
I mean..the bedroom ,for some, is like some war in Tora Bora Afghanistan !
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:22 pm
This fool says she’s good and her cooter is feeling about 85% ok
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm
short dudes know they are short and they are just happy to be getting some.
Eeeewwww…not the short weenie!!! Talk about a let down/disappointment/we might fight moment…
D!%k is like a box of chocolates…you never know what you gone get..
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm
Some
#don’t judge me
of usfolks are naughty and need a little spankin’ every now and again….Juicee1
July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm
Man…reading the first page…yall are F-U-N-N-Y today !!!!!
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm
Disco, u dont thing there are some short dudes who are packing?
I undertsnd ur stereotypingDisco..thats why when i see a really ugly chic with a decent guy, im tempted to think she gotta some real head spinner down there.
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:27 pm
Sassy — Not yet, but now that we know it’s a girl, I’m sure we will be at some point in the not-too-distant future. Of course, little UGA-themed baby stuff is always welcome for me — Mrs. Swiss has already warned me about buying too much UGA stuff for the baby, but if I didn’t buy it…
lol
disco
July 19th, 2012
4:27 pm
leggs – you didn’t go too far. I can see a short dude scrambling, trying to make something work. “wait baby wait. give me just a minute. how about this toothbrush? I’ve got an electric razor? oh yeah. there’s a flashlight in the drawer. come on girl. this will work. I promise you.” lol.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:30 pm
Cool, disco (lol).
disco
July 19th, 2012
4:30 pm
ex – I didn’t mean short in height. as for short dudes packing, of course there are some but – and here’s a little detour – have you ever heard of the term “yellow wasted” or “yellow gone to waste”? as far as I’m concerned a big package on a small man is a package gone to waste.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:32 pm
come on girl. this will work. I promise you.
and he’s saying that with sweaty,clammy palms….hands-a-trembling cause he know he might get a beat down…
disco
July 19th, 2012
4:36 pm
sassy – I’m going to make one more janky comment and then I’m done. lol. re Ds like a box of chocolate. some are smooth, creamy, chocolatey, sweet, delicious, cream filled and full of nuts. others make you want to spit them out and gag.
well blog peeps. things generally occur in threes. anybody else on here expecting? if not y’all might want to be very, very careful.
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:37 pm
yellow gone to waste”?
yea Disco, to us dudes that is like a Halle Berry thats frigid cold and jut outa it in bed!
A dime that is a slacker where it counts !
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:37 pm
@Swiss: SuisseMochette Noelle – Future DGD Class of 2034!
http://shop.georgiadogs.com/COLLEGE_Georgia_Bulldogs_Kids_Newborn_And_Infant/Nike_Georgia_Bulldogs_Infant_Red_Cheer_Dress_And_Bloomers
Exiled!
July 19th, 2012
4:40 pm
I think facilally banal chics are the best @ Disco
coz they wanna ride u real derty and prove ur outside view of them is waaay wrong. My ugly chic,decent looking guy theory!
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:42 pm
The blog monster doesn’t like my links, apparently…
SlimUno :-(
July 19th, 2012
4:43 pm
Mrs. Swiss has already warned me about buying too much UGA stuff for the baby
swiss – Again Mrs Swiss is such an intelligent woman…she is trying to prevent any major heartache or disappointment in the future. But I can see you now, secretly playing UGA’s school song/mantra’s etc over her baby monitor as she sleeps :lol;
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:45 pm
Slim — Oh, my kid will be a Bulldog fan, there’s no 2 ways about it. The indoctrination has already begun… lol
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:46 pm
@Swiss: Does this mean the nursery won’t be in red and black?
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:48 pm
If she has a birthmark, hope its not a “G”
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:49 pm
ITL — Nope, I lost that battle. Maybe if we had found out we were having a boy I’d have had a fighting chance at making that happen, but now, there’s no doubt: that room will be all pink. (Mrs. Swiss loooooooooooves — and I mean LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVES her some pink & has been wanting to paint something pink in the house since we moved in.)
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:51 pm
Ok, swiss, you have the job of making sure swissmocha doesn’t look like a pepto bismol bottle when out in public.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:51 pm
Mrs. Swiss loooooooooooves — and I mean LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVES her some pink
NO WONDER you two are so perfectly matched.
Seriously, I love pink, too. And baby girl stuff is SO SWEET!
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:53 pm
That was a good one, ITL. They were talking about pink and chocolate on Hollywood Exs last week (lol) sinch R.Kelly’s wife likes to swirl.
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:53 pm
ex-wife…
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:53 pm
ITL — lol Yeah, you’re right, I do loooooooooooves me some pink, too. lol
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
4:54 pm
SuisseMochette Noelle
Is that her official blog name?…cute
some are smooth, creamy, chocolatey, sweet, delicious, cream filled and full of nuts. others make you want to spit them out and gag.
True!!
anybody else on here expecting? if not y’all might want to be very, very careful.
I just found out about two weeks ago that my lil sister is having a baby in January…and since I’m the oldest and childless errbody started looking at me with that quizzical look like “well whatcu gone do” on their faces…. I literally got bombarded with that from alot of people that weekend…I think they’re tryna jinx me but it ain’t happenin. Babies are miracles of/from God and it would take an act from HIM to get me knocked up…
i'm swiss
July 19th, 2012
4:54 pm
Somehow I think we’re all talking about different “pinks” lol
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:56 pm
Girl pink for you guys, and boy pink for those that swirl…pink is pink (lolololol)
Leggs
July 19th, 2012
4:57 pm
especially once they touch..ba da bing!
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:57 pm
That’s what I’m calling her, Sassy. I had to throw the Noelle in, since she’s a Christmas baby.
It’s been babypalooza around here. In the last two months, I’ve had: friends who had twins (a boy and a girl), other friends have a boy, a coworker have a boy, a friend have a girl, another coworker due to have a boy in two weeks, and another friend due to have a boy in 3 weeks. Whew! It’s kinda giving me baby fever.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
4:59 pm
Oh, and a friend’s daughter had her baby early last night – another little boy.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
July 19th, 2012
5:01 pm
I like the name ITL…it’s cute for blogsville.
Swiss I knew what yoU were talking about
Alright good people…read y’all tomorrow…
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
5:03 pm
Night, Sassy Jane.
Into the Light
July 19th, 2012
5:03 pm
Hey – we made it 5 pages today. Woohoo!!!