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Dating: How do you know when it’s over?

When the novelty of a new relationship wears off, a lot of people start to realize the thrill is gone. Maybe the the weight of a real relationship gets too heavy. Or things go sour and it the fights become more frequent.

I think a lot of couples stay in relationships far longer than they should. How do you know when it’s over, though? How can you be sure it isn’t just a rough patch, or a typical growing pain that relationships go through.

Have you ever been surprised by a break up? Is there a way to notice they signs that things are headed to splitsville?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

218 comments Add your comment

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
3:51 pm

Congratulations, Swiss!!!

(ITL now ordering UGA cheerleader dress in size 0-3 mos. for SuisseMochette)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
3:52 pm

little SwissMocha is a girl.

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

CONGRATS SWISS!!!!

On the real, I think it’d be a GREAT idea for the blog to get together and have a lil meet n greet/baby shower for lil baby Rella aka SwissMocha :mrgreen:

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
3:55 pm

Good cast, disco. I LOVE Katt as Sweet Daddy. HI-LAR-IOUS!!

Ummmm, Sassy, baby Rella is MY baby. Not Swiss’s. Well, at least I don’t think it’s Swiss’s (don’t tell For Real, though, or I’ll never get my gas cards!!!)

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
3:55 pm

Thanks, ladies. I’m actually excited to have a little girl, but I know I’m ruined now. She’s gonna have me wrapped around her little finger, I already know it.

Slim — Mrs. Swiss has been dress my arse in pink for years now, so I’m good & ready. :lol:

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
3:58 pm

swiss ~ those little girls are no joke! Your life has changed forever (boy or girl).

SlimUno :-(

July 19th, 2012
4:00 pm

swiss – I must say that Mrs Swiss is one smart chick…she knew what she was doing from the start with dressing you in pink and using those advanced yoga postions = baby girl

http://www.fitnessmagazine.com/workout/yoga/poses/extreme-yoga-poses/

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:01 pm

Suge Knight of blogsville :lol:

thats Slim at her bestetest! :lol:

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:03 pm

Swiss, did u read on the ajc front page about the wife of a marine that got killed after an orgy in California San Diego and the other jealousy chic went bananas…?

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:04 pm

Sassy — I’m down for that, as long as I can drink. (Don’t judge me, I need it.) lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:04 pm

mm, Sassy, baby Rella is MY baby

:oops: My bad…or maybeyou,Swiss and For Real need to go on The Maury show :lol:

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:06 pm

“maybeyou,Swiss and For Real need to go on The Maury show”

I can bust out my white boy dance on national tv when I find out I am NOT the father. lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:06 pm

Swiss when is she due?…and yes you can drink…heck I think a few of us will be drinking.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:07 pm

!!!!!!!

Not the “white boy dance”!!!

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:08 pm

Me.lo — I did see that. I guess the D can be a powerful thing. (Although, in that case, it sounded like ol’ boy was augmenting the D with a lot of accessories, which is kinda cheating, if you ask me) lol

disco

July 19th, 2012
4:08 pm

y’all am I wrong that the only reason I picked luenell was because she’s homely?

swiss – you retarded. not the white boy dance when you are not the father. that’s funny. I could just see somebody talking about look at the baby’s ears. look at her fingertips. she’s too dark or she’s too light. he has to be the father or he can’t be the father. a hot mess I tell you.

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:08 pm

Sounds like a great idea, SassyMe.

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
4:09 pm

LOL. Something tells me that if it’s a toss up between Swiss and For Real, we might not need a DNA test. IJS…..

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:10 pm

oh swiss got a baby..Congrats man!!

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:10 pm

The sillies5 reason I’ve heard on Maury is “I don’t make girls, only boys.”

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:10 pm

Sassy — Due late December. Gonna put Mrs. Swiss under the tree so I can unwrap her. lol

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:13 pm

I like to see you trying to get a pregnant woman under the tree (lolol).

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:13 pm

Well, actually, I don’t really want to see that…just a bad figure of speech.

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
4:13 pm

@Leggs: Baby Jonquell’s ding ding is little – just like his daddy’s! And they got the same unibrow!

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:14 pm

“Something tells me that if it’s a toss up between Swiss and For Real, we might not need a DNA test”

ITL — I may be all whiteboy on the outside, but I’m a carrier of soul… IJS… lol

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:14 pm

me too Swiss..im not allowing anything to come in the bedroom to “enhance” the experience coz right there,thats an admission that u kinda fall short.

Im sure there are chics that play that game..guy is not really up to par but rather than say..hmmm,it wont work..they will be slick and in a kinda mellow,sexxy voice say:

babe,i was thinking..why dont we let my vibrator in the bedroom,u rub me with it a little,u use this banana to &&()*U&*& my spot,get a Cocacola empty bottle end push it inside..then u can finish it off urself? :shock:

but the dudes gladly go for it!

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:15 pm

Me.lo — Thanks, buddy. Yeah, maybe there is a god after all — and he’s punishing me for being a horn dog. lol

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
4:17 pm

@Ex: You do know it’s a vajayjay, and not a trash compactor, right? You can’t just be sticking fruit and empty bottles and your recycling and all that in there.

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:17 pm

How about no toys in bedroom, Ex, and the guy does the fist action like Jayne Kennedy requested…you down with that for added stimulation???

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:19 pm

Ooops, sorry folk…went too far out on the ledge!

SlimUno :-(

July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm

Speaking of vajayjay’s, I texted my friend that had her baby last week to see how she was doing. This fool says she’s good and her cooter is feeling about 85% ok. :lol:

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm

A carrier of soul…..LOL.

Yes, doctor, please run the genetic test once more. I’m certain I have the soul gene. :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm

Due late December

Well I hope she arrives on my birthday….December 24th :lol:

So with that being said, and with the holidays in full swing by that point…we need to have the shower the first week of December if not earlier but we’ve got plenty of time to figure it out. Swiss are you two registered anywhere?…i.e.Baby’s R Us or someplace else?

disco

July 19th, 2012
4:20 pm

ex – a chick like me will say it won’t work. dudes better be happy there are chicks that are willing to work with them. trust me. short dudes know they are short and they are just happy to be getting some. if they have to share with the odd inanimate object every now and again I’m sure they are more than willing to do so.

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:21 pm

@ITL..i know..but if that were the case, why do some folks even bring syringes in the bedroom and draw blood…for some folks,it takes a LOT to get them off..

some ladies want a whip..”slap my butt!” ,’SLAP IT!”

I mean..the bedroom ,for some, is like some war in Tora Bora Afghanistan ! :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:22 pm

This fool says she’s good and her cooter is feeling about 85% ok

:lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm

short dudes know they are short and they are just happy to be getting some.

Eeeewwww…not the short weenie!!! Talk about a let down/disappointment/we might fight moment…

D!%k is like a box of chocolates…you never know what you gone get..

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm

Some of us folks are naughty and need a little spankin’ every now and again…. :oops: #don’t judge me

Juicee1

July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm

Man…reading the first page…yall are F-U-N-N-Y today !!!!!

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:24 pm

Disco, u dont thing there are some short dudes who are packing? :lol:

I undertsnd ur stereotypingDisco..thats why when i see a really ugly chic with a decent guy, im tempted to think she gotta some real head spinner down there. :lol:

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:27 pm

Sassy — Not yet, but now that we know it’s a girl, I’m sure we will be at some point in the not-too-distant future. Of course, little UGA-themed baby stuff is always welcome for me — Mrs. Swiss has already warned me about buying too much UGA stuff for the baby, but if I didn’t buy it… :) lol

disco

July 19th, 2012
4:27 pm

leggs – you didn’t go too far. I can see a short dude scrambling, trying to make something work. “wait baby wait. give me just a minute. how about this toothbrush? I’ve got an electric razor? oh yeah. there’s a flashlight in the drawer. come on girl. this will work. I promise you.” lol.

Leggs

July 19th, 2012
4:30 pm

Cool, disco (lol).

disco

July 19th, 2012
4:30 pm

ex – I didn’t mean short in height. as for short dudes packing, of course there are some but – and here’s a little detour – have you ever heard of the term “yellow wasted” or “yellow gone to waste”? as far as I’m concerned a big package on a small man is a package gone to waste.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 19th, 2012
4:32 pm

come on girl. this will work. I promise you.

and he’s saying that with sweaty,clammy palms….hands-a-trembling cause he know he might get a beat down…

disco

July 19th, 2012
4:36 pm

sassy – I’m going to make one more janky comment and then I’m done. lol. re Ds like a box of chocolate. some are smooth, creamy, chocolatey, sweet, delicious, cream filled and full of nuts. others make you want to spit them out and gag.

well blog peeps. things generally occur in threes. anybody else on here expecting? if not y’all might want to be very, very careful.

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:37 pm

yellow gone to waste”?

yea Disco, to us dudes that is like a Halle Berry thats frigid cold and jut outa it in bed! :lol:

A dime that is a slacker where it counts ! :lol:

Into the Light

July 19th, 2012
4:37 pm

Exiled!

July 19th, 2012
4:40 pm

I think facilally banal chics are the best @ Disco

coz they wanna ride u real derty and prove ur outside view of them is waaay wrong. My ugly chic,decent looking guy theory!

i'm swiss

July 19th, 2012
4:42 pm

The blog monster doesn’t like my links, apparently…

SlimUno :-(

July 19th, 2012
4:43 pm

Mrs. Swiss has already warned me about buying too much UGA stuff for the baby

swiss – Again Mrs Swiss is such an intelligent woman…she is trying to prevent any major heartache or disappointment in the future. But I can see you now, secretly playing UGA’s school song/mantra’s etc over her baby monitor as she sleeps :lol;