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Dating: Coming on too strong?

I finally got a chance to watch Bravo’s new reality show, Miss Advised. The show features 3 dating/relationship experts who don’t always follow their own advice – hence the name.

One of the ladies – Julia, has show some pretty brave, albeit pushy dating tactics. She has practically begged for one guy to kiss her (he wouldn’t), and she tried to impress another guy with a limo ride. Of course, with cameras filming her every move, she probably upped the ante a bit. I literally cringed at her over the top behavior. Maybe my ego is way too big, but I don’t know if I would go to such lengths to get a man.

I rarely hear men complain about women coming on too strong. I am sure it happens from time to time, but how do men deal with it?

Ladies, have you ever come on too strong trying to impress a man? Could you tell you went too far?

What do you do when you are too eager and come across as a little pushy or desperate? Should you scale back and try to recover or cut your losses and learn from your mistakes going forward?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

226 comments Add your comment

Lily

July 12th, 2012
6:34 am

Coming on too strong wreaks of desperation.

Lily

July 12th, 2012
6:44 am

If it’s a first date, presex and the chances are positive sex will happen, men have no problem. If it’s presex and chances are slim to none, men run. If coming on too strong is post sex, forget about it. They are out of there.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
7:33 am

Lily you’re back in form again nice.

I don’t know how to answer this, I can hold my own and so there are no issues with me if she is forward. Course that’s my general view and it may come off as chauvanistic. Don’t get me wrong I’m not that guy that needs to be showered with gifts and limo rides.

Jeff

July 12th, 2012
8:04 am

There are some women are so controlling, manipulative and arrogant (men too, but WD asked how men handle it, so…) that they will ignore any soft, polite, respectful face-saving brush off. At that point, you have to do to them what women do to men who are insultingly agressive:

Put them in their place, leave no doubt and embarrass them. Granted, they’ll turn on you and run their mouth even more and you will be satan. But there is one comment that will always silence any woman who has gone too far:

Honey, if that thing is as awesome as you obviously think it is, go home and lick it yourself.

Silence, I garauunnnnteeeee.

Single and Happy

July 12th, 2012
8:06 am

A pushy woman will and has always pushed me away. Doing nice things is one thing, but begging me do something after I’ve said no is a real turn-off.

CoolShadow

July 12th, 2012
8:31 am

Pushy women are not a regular issue in my experience but in most cases if you ignore women long enough, they’ll go away. And then there’s always the restraining order…

Jazzy

July 12th, 2012
8:38 am

define pushy

ATL Guy

July 12th, 2012
8:39 am

When women come on too strong, it shows desperation. Guys don’t dig that because the next question is “why is this girl so desperate!?”

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
8:40 am

Lily u spot on!

I’ll forgive your no#1 spot today coz of that post.

Being too pushy will cost a woman puddy,then I’m outta there!!

Good morning!

Jazzy

July 12th, 2012
8:41 am

nothing one-sided either because thats too easy

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
8:42 am

Jazzy must be a controlling woman :lol:

ATL Guy

July 12th, 2012
8:55 am

I’m going to drop the blog because I’m too busy to keep up with it. Been chatting with you all and Celisea, no hard feelings! Don’t get caught up in negativity, life is too short. All the Best!

ATL Guy

July 12th, 2012
8:55 am

Jazzy

July 12th, 2012
8:55 am

unable to ask a question without negative comments? okay, never mind

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
9:03 am

Jazzy:

I define a pushy woman is one that have to tell her man every step to take. The dude may have security issues and the lady takes advantage of him because of it.

Jazzy

July 12th, 2012
9:05 am

thank you blackfoote, that’s more along the lines of my thinking as well.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
9:10 am

Good morning Lovelies,

Vibes of desperation equals RUNNNNNN!!!!!! I don’t like an overly aggressive dude so I can only imagine how men view overly aggressive women.

disco

July 12th, 2012
9:21 am

good morning. jazzy – I too would have asked define pushy.

it may seem straight forward but I actually think it’s relative. some guys are such wimps (for lack of a better term) that you have to take charge and make decisions or nothing will ever get done. it’s not so much that you are being pushy as handling business. I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with a woman making a first move. initiating a conversation, buying a guy a drink or whatever. in and of itself, it’s no big deal. some guys will appreciate it and others will think the woman was pushy.

since jazzy was called out I’ll go ahead and say that while I have been called bossy (and sometimes I am bossy) I don’t think I’m pushy. I just think I’m willing to call a shot or make a decision when necessary. I don’t necessarily try to persuade people to take my view or do what I want them to do.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

July 12th, 2012
9:43 am

Never needed her to beg me to do anything…throw that thang at me, and I’ll catch it for you!

Single and Happy

July 12th, 2012
9:44 am

To woman that tells her man what to do, when to do, and how to do, is a controlling woman, That’s different from a pushy woman is one who’s persistent on starting a relationship, having sex, getting marriage or any other thing that you’ve told her you’re not ready for. They’re not trying to control you, just trying to convince you that you don’t know what you want.

Single and Happy

July 12th, 2012
9:47 am

(To me a woman) I mean

disco

July 12th, 2012
9:48 am

jake – re catching things. some guys can catch and some guys are afraid of the ball. lol.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

July 12th, 2012
10:04 am

Disco…you right, and thats a dayum shame….If I could have an encore presentation on these streets, I would be terrible…lol

Roberta

July 12th, 2012
10:11 am

I don’t think the kiss or the limo ride are signs of a pushy person. They lend themselves more to behavior by someone who may not have a lot of self-confidence or self-esteem.

Most pushy people have agendas, and the person being pushed should try to figure out what that agenda is.

disco

July 12th, 2012
10:25 am

I hate to sound pushy but I sure as heck wish the blog folks would check in.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
10:34 am

Morning Gang!

I kind of agree with the wimp factor disco speaks of. But I would call such folks as one that need a “nudge”. I would not want to push anyone into anything, and no one better try pushing me or they will get their feelings hurt. Pushy people irritate the mess out of me. My son HAD a little friend that was pushy. He would call the house and when my son was not available or just not there, he would get invasive with the questions like “what is he doing, when will he be back, why can’t he come to the phone, etc”! The nerve of his little behind. I let him know he was being disrespectful and none of that was any of his business!

Some folks are cool with and welcome a little nudge when it comes to romance because of shyness. But when one feels they have to throw themselves at someone, female or male, that’s just pathetic.

Oh, and someone can bark out orders to me until the cows come home, but it’s on me as to whether or not I follow those orders cause I’m a grown-A woman! A person can only “control” you if you allow it. No use in a dude complaining about it, but still hanging around said chick. He must like it!

disco

July 12th, 2012
10:39 am

kimmie. thank you. that’s what I’m talking about. a post with some force. lol. and not that a little kid had the nerve to question a grown up. disrespectful little bastid. I’d give him a pass on asking when he might be back but that’s about it. one thing I disagree with in your post – well not really disagree with, just another pet peeve of mine. your comment re shyness. I feel like shy is for kids. grown folks need to suck it up. you don’t have to be super outgoing and all up in everybody’s face and all but if you are grown and acting like you can’t open your mouth and speak because you are shy – I can’t get with that. I’m quick to reject a guy who sends messages through other people. I’ll tell them to man up and speak to me. some of my friends always counter with “but maybe he’s shy”. shy my A! he’s an effing punk and I don’t do punks.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
10:47 am

disco – Hey, I mentioned shyness, but I am totally on board with you on that!LOL!!! Some folks can deal with that, but I’m not one of them either. I do think it’s a little juvenile. I like a MAN to go after what he wants, with confidence, no aggression needed. Open your mouth and talk and get what you want. If he’s unable to do that, not only do I see him as a punk, I assume he’s not interested, because I’ve seen the so-called shyest dudes drop that mess the minute they decide they want a woman, a job, whatever! The squeaky wheel definitely gets the oil. You don’t get anything in this world being a marshmellow.

Shy need not apply! :)

disco

July 12th, 2012
10:54 am

I had a party at my house once and a friend brought a friend. I did not know this guy. he was apparently “shy” and just sat in the cut and said nothing. that’s cool. quiet isn’t a problem. the problem was dude couldn’t even open his mouth and ask for a drink or a plate or anything. eventually he asked a person who asked a person who asked me if he could have something. I called him right out and everyone laughed at him. a closed mouth don’t get fed. grown A man scared to ask for a drink. I’m a little aggressive but dang. I’m not going to have you in my home and not welcome you. if you weren’t welcome I wouldn’t have let you in.

kimmie – is it just us? if so, oh well.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
11:10 am

disco – See that’s just crazy, and even a little creepy if you ask me! I’ve had dudes like that call themselves “liking” me! Always lagging back, just staring, never saying anything. Almost come off like a serial killer! :shock: Folks would get mad when I would not be interested and say “he’s just shy, give him a chance”! H to the Naw!!!

Looks like everyone fell by the wayside!LOL!!

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
11:15 am

Good morning! I’m not into shy either. You need to have the balls to approach me and ask me what you want! I have no problem being flirty and making it known that I’m interested, but if he doesn’t respond, then I go about my merry little way. If he’s too shy to ask me out, then we don’t need to go out.

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
11:15 am

Morning All,

Disco/Kimmie – I’m shy. Hahaha.

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
11:17 am

Celisea must be exhausted after yesterday! At least she won and hopefully ATL Guy is gone for good! :-)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
11:19 am

Bluzy – Not even a little…lol :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
11:19 am

Bluz

What happened to Cely.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
11:22 am

Are you ok Cely?

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
11:22 am

Hey Willie! You shy? Yeah, right!LOL!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
11:23 am

I’ll figure it out in a moment.

abc

July 12th, 2012
11:29 am

Turn off your TV and read a book.

So-called reality TV isn’t real at all. It’s purposely staged to mimic a car accident that drives, albeit viewers, rubberneck as they drive by.

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
11:30 am

BF…just read the last few pages of yesterday’s topic

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
11:34 am

Blackfoote – I’m good. Tomorrow is gone!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
11:36 am

yesterday…..sorry I’m in the middle of debating legal docs. I’m distracted.

GracieL

July 12th, 2012
11:38 am

Gracie don’t give chase.

If a man doesn’t pursue, then he’s just not that into me. I will save my time & efforts for a man who is.

That being said, I have seen women who go over the top in hard pursuit. Yeah, sometimes it works because there ARE men who are lazy, and frankly, they like having it all dropped in their lap w/o having to put forth any effort. No decisions to make. Easy as pie.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
12:01 pm

Well just damn. I’m blown away and confused as hell. I know who cares but it’s still good no matter how things roll.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:15 pm

Awww, the beau just surprised me at the job and brought me lunch. :D I figured it tied into the topic because he calls my desk phone and tells me to bring my arse outside. (being a bit pushy) but it was for a good reason. lol

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
12:17 pm

Blackfoote – I’m the unspoken reference. Certainly not to rehash….make sense? Dead and buried.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
12:20 pm

Rain rain go away

disco

July 12th, 2012
12:21 pm

slim – that’s what’s up. I’d be happy if somebody brought me a snickers right about now.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:21 pm

BF – Why the confusion? Cel ran ATL Guy off the blog, or so he said anyway. He threatened her with destruction and she called him out on it. lol

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:23 pm

So if we get any new monikers on the blog soon, should we assume that it is AG reincarnate? lol

disco

July 12th, 2012
12:25 pm

slim – it’s not so much the moniker as the writing style. you have to pay attention to the words and the meaning behind the words. lol.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 12th, 2012
12:27 pm

Slim – :)

I was blogging from my phone but it’s hung up…pooh

On topic – I guess it depends. I see some of the men have a problem with a woman stepping up. I’ve also heard on this same blog, some men said they’ve missed out on a few potentials because they didn’t get signs and she didn’t step it up. Sooooo, I guess it depends on how we’re spinning the top. I do believe though next week it will be the same topic coming from another angle and different answers…lol

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
12:27 pm

Kimmie- really I am shy. Not to the point of not asking or getting what I want or anything like that.

As for the topic- I personally can’t deal with a pushy woman. That comes across as too thirsty. I do love confident women but that is a fine line. I will say I have been accused of being lazy and wanting a woman to chase me. That’s is so not the case. In my experiences some women think that just because they give you the hints that they like you its up to me to take over from there. On my end I tend to make sure I’m qualifying her just as well. I understand the concept of the chase but I make sure that I wanna catch you.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:31 pm

I hereby nominate kimmie and Cel as the blog investigative team

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:33 pm

When I see chicks on that Bridezilla show and see some of the attitudes of those women, I wonder what the men see in them. Or do they not have any cahones to stand up for themselves….There was only one show where the dude basically gave the chick his wedding ring back during the reception of the wedding, due to her bossy, no holds barred attitude.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 12th, 2012
12:33 pm

Slim – Look at you with jokes…lol I accept!

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:41 pm

WD – Would you do the honors of presenting them with their badges? ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 12th, 2012
12:45 pm

Cely glad to hear you’re ok.

Slim1 my confusion lies in not catching on and thinking it’s somebody else. That was cool what your beau done, men need to step up like that and make his girl feel good.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
12:53 pm

BF – Yeah because when it comes to me, mere thoughtfulness and the small things can go a long way. He also has these sweet smelling flowers that bloom every once in a while in his yard. The other night he took one off the bush, brought it in and stuck it in my hair when I wasn’t looking. The gesture was just as sweet as spending $50+ on roses or some type of arrangement.

ATL Guy

July 12th, 2012
1:23 pm

Well I see you love to keep talking about me, must have left an impression! :) No one ran me off, but I have enough things to do than spend my day on a blog. Anyways, till next time! Take Care Slim. (btw- I only use one screenname so this talk of respawing as someone else doesn’t make sense)

HST

July 12th, 2012
1:30 pm

If a woman wants to take the reigns, and impress me with her tactics…I’m OK with that. If a woman tries to convince me of love, religion, or idealism…I excuse myself – usually permanently. I have never been scared of a woman going after what she wants. If you’re an achiever, then YOU understand that YOU are in control of what you want, and it’s up to you to get it. However, trying to hard does reak of desperation, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized, everyone feels desperate from time to time. I’d rather tell the other person to calm down than dismiss them.

As long as your not telling me what I want, we’ll be OK. I didn’t get to my age and stature by not knowing what I want, or having direction.

I prefer a woman that knows and goes for exactly what she wants.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

July 12th, 2012
1:31 pm

Cely and ATL might as well go ahead and bump them uglies….lol.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
1:36 pm

Jake – Shhhhhh….trying not to let anyone know we’re here. I almost don’t understand myself. I’m flabbergasted! Nooooo bumping…lol

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
1:38 pm

Slim – My name is Wes……

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
1:55 pm

If some ugly bumping jumps off, let me know so I can pull up a chair and pop me a heneiken ;-)

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
2:03 pm

HST I like that 1:30 delivery!

disco

July 12th, 2012
2:15 pm

good googgly goo blog people. y’all (we) ain’t hitting on nothing today. no one has anything to report?

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
2:22 pm

Mr. Unknown

July 12th, 2012
2:22 pm

Afternoon folks,
HST great post, pretty much sums up my thoughts.

Now this is dedication to your partner: Woman watched NASCAR with deceased man for over a year
http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/nascar-from-the-marbles/woman-watched-nascar-deceased-man-over-021212570–nascar.html

Now if everyone could find love like this…
Have a good day folks.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
2:24 pm

what’s up with tootie and tommy doing radio cat commercials

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
2:30 pm

Hmmmm…nothing much going on here. I guess I should report that I never did respond to Dr. Brit aka Mr. Flirty (coined by my mom). Never really bothered me like it would have in the past. When I went to my therapist, my mom asked if I brought him up and I didn’t…guess it really didn’t stick! :-)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

July 12th, 2012
2:33 pm

Hellooooooo Blogsville!

Hope everyone is well……

Mr Unknown – I read that story this AM and was like “What in the EFF?!?!”

Nothing to add to the topic, if we are still on topic anyway! :)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
2:33 pm

Bluzy – You go girl!

HST

July 12th, 2012
2:36 pm

I stepped out for lunch. Mexican soup…ummmm.

Exiled!, thanks.

Mr. Unknown, that is completely a crazy story. I would of certainly read such an article, but with the word NASCAR, I would’ve just dismissed it normally. That article is not only creepy, it is sad and almost unbelievable. NASCAR fans never surprise me, after all they enjoy sitting next to decibels that cause deafness, and sniff leaded fumes for hours on end. “Go fast, turn left!”

DreamsMaterialize

July 12th, 2012
2:38 pm

Afternoon Everyone
Coming on too strong is usually relative. If I’m not attracted then she’s desparate. If I am attracted, then she’s a hot smoking chick who was SO attracted to me that she couldn’t help herself (a man’s ego, I know). lol

Mo (aka Moeisha)

July 12th, 2012
2:43 pm

LOL Dreams!!

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
2:44 pm

Dreams – That’s probably the best post all day lol

This day is creeping by and every minute feels like 30. I’M RETT TA GET GET GET DA HELLZ ON!

disco

July 12th, 2012
2:44 pm

dreams – re relativity and the male ego. no different than women and harassment. if it’s a buster the catcalls etc are harassment. if he’s a hottie we don’t mind the compliments. lol.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
2:46 pm

With regards to the Nascar story, that’s just plain disturbing. :shock:

disco

July 12th, 2012
2:46 pm

I can just hear some old out of shape so and so talking about “ooh girl. I’d like to lick you up one side and down the other” and having to suppress a gag. let a fine sexy something say the same thing and a chick’s knees might buckle.

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
2:49 pm

I woke up today thinking it was Friday. Hate when that happens! It’s been a long day. I’m going out tonight, which will make tomorrow even longer!!!

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
2:52 pm

Dreams – Agreed!

disco – I guess I’m a tad different. While I agree with you for the most part that a hottie can sometimes get away with saying stuff a buster can’t, sometimes weird & creepy is just that no matter what package it’s wrapped in. Especially if you’re saying some provacative stuff to me and I don’t know you like that! Yuck!!

HST

July 12th, 2012
2:54 pm

So I’m sitting in the bar at my local Mexican Restaurant. A baby starts balling/fussing in the bar – the parents ignore the child – and it goes on for 5 minutes minimally. My lunch is turning into a headache, so I say something.

I say – Mommy do you understand that when an infant cries like that it needs something. That baby can’t communicate, so it cries until its needs are met. She looks at me like I’m nuts, and her husband gets upset. The Father tells me to mind my own business, and I tell him that his screaming baby has become my business. He stands up and tries to swing at me – meanwhile the baby is still screaming – and I subdue him. The Proprietor, whom knows me, as well as all the staff, quickly grab the man. He says “OK…OK…OK” and he sits down. They ask me if I wanna call the police, and I said no. No harm, I’m sure they were just frustrated, heck, I was frustrated. Anyhoo, I go sit back down and the baby starts back again. This time the child is S-C-R-E-A-M-I-N-G, so the Manager and the Proprietor ask the couple to leave. They decide to show their ***** on the way out. UNFREAKINBELIVEABLE!

It was good soup though.

disco

July 12th, 2012
2:56 pm

well kimmie, I didn’t say a weird creepy hottie. just a plain old sexy hottie that you wouldn’t mind playing that little back and forth innuendo game with. the one that will have you telling your friends “let me tell you about this guy I met at so and so”. I’m talking about that hottie. lol

HST – similar situation happened with a friend of mine. she made a comment about a kid and the father stepped to her husband ready to do battle.

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
2:58 pm

Disco..women don’t say that often but I don’t care how fine. If a phine chic were to ever say,publicly and outside if the bedroom that she wants to lick my dizzle,it wld creep me out still.

Ofcourse I expect my dizzle to be licked but comeone! Style is everything. :lol:

Tease him a tad,give him a lil tingle rub…u know and not be so braggadocio and in public at that! :lol:

HST what’s ur take? :lol: do soccer mums go gung-ho for u like that?!

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
3:00 pm

HST…good for you for saying something. How dare they get upset when you make a comment about their screaming baby! I was talking about this with my parents the other day because some show we were watching had a restaurant owner in NY who banned children from his restaurant. I don’t mind kids being in a restaurant if they can behave. It drives me crazy to see unruly kids and the parents just ignoring that. I know that my brother and I didn’t act like that in public because we would have gotten it if we had!

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:00 pm

ex – I wasn’t talking about women saying stuff like that. I was talking about men saying stuff like that and men say stuff like that all the time. of course, I’ve been known to throw out a raunchy line here or there just for the shock value. most men don’t expect and it’s kind of fun to watch their eyes pop out and their jaws drop. don’t let them mess around and spill a drink or something. lol.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
3:03 pm

Afternoon, all!

Finally got a break for long enough to pop in.

(waving at Cel and BF) Hey Zingers! :)

A baby was “balling” in the bar?!?!? What, he kept ordering bottles of Cristal? :lol:

Mo (aka Moeisha)

July 12th, 2012
3:05 pm

HST – so they having a screaming kid they ignore and they expected everyone else to ignore the kid as well. If you want to do that at home, go ahead but in a place like a restaurant where other people pay to eat….nope, not gonna have it. Thats crazy!!

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
3:06 pm

In the industry i work in, I get lots of unwarranted, nasty, creepy comments and come-ons. Just yesterday this dude comes to the counter I was at at the time and just stands there. I asked if he needed help with something and he said he just enjoyed looking at me. So I took care of other customers as he creepily stands there. Finally he leaves….later on, here he comes again and he’s holding some folded bills in his hand. He says, I just wanted to give you a tip because you’re always so nice and courteous. I told him I didn’t need a tip, thats what I am paid to do. So he stands looking a bit perturbed that I didn’t take his money. He says, well is there any chance I could get a number to call you on later and maybe go out. I politely declined and let him know I’m already involved with someone. He stood there again at a pause before he eventually walked away. uggh!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:07 pm

I don’t hand out crass remarks but I don’t run and hide if someone gets fresh. You can toss a look that will draw the line

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:09 pm

ITL – Hey there!

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
3:09 pm

Disco…men say stuff like that usually,to women who show a lil more leather than is warranted.

Sometimes we cannot distinguish between ur normal style of dress and/or a coded invite.

So linguistically we go for broke coz like u correctly observed earlier,a shy mouf won’t get u(ur dizzle) fed! :lol: :lol:

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:10 pm

Gwaking, crass remarks, anything indecent should get checked

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:10 pm

Disco – I was talking about a dude that is fine – until he opens his mouth. The stuff he SAID made him creepy. Like what Exiled said.

Kinda like the dude you described in your earlier post. He could be fine as all getout, but standing in a corner staring and not saying anything wipes away a lot of the “fine” for me!

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:13 pm

Slim – :shock: Yuck! That’s the type of guys that I used to attract ALL the time! I’m used to ask “do I have Love Weirdos” stamped on my forehead???LOL!!!

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
3:15 pm

Ick. Those corner-standing, custom van-driving, silent-but-staring ones make my skin crawl. (((shudder)))

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
3:18 pm

I think I told yall about the dude who saw me bundled up in my coat when it was cold…he says,’You shole look cold and I can get you hot and sweaty if you need me to.” Ewwwwwwwww creeeper

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:19 pm

There’s a dude that lives on a side street off my street. He’s got some reeeeal issues. I use to speak in passing until he got ballsy enough to knock on my door one day. Scared the heck out of me. I didn’t allow him to finish before asking him to get off my property. The next day I put up no trespassing signs. A few days later one was torn down. About a month passes and he gets ballsy again. I was heading out for church and opened the door and he was standing there. Almost tt’d on myself. I started telling him again to get off my property and he starts talking louder and louder. He left but I had to call the cops. He was gone by the time they came. I sent them right to his house too. I see him now but I won’t come out if he’s out there.

Creeeeepy

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
3:20 pm

Kimmie,I think a classy woman in a ‘wrong’ neighborhood will get that.

A classy gent may face similar ‘pushy’ advances if in the wrong environment as well

ATL guy is just beneath Cel…

I’m just saying!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:21 pm

Mmeelloo – Grrrrr…shet it up

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:21 pm

y’all are being all grown and mature. y’all are killing my “boy crazy” vibes (a little phase I’m going through right now). I’m only talking about the ones that you wish you had the courage to break off a little something right then and there.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:21 pm

Light/Slim – I’m so glad you ladies get it!LOL!! Before I got married, like I said, half the time those creepy types are all that seemed to go for me. Or, they were the types folks were always trying to set me up with, dating back to high school!! These are the dudes that would end up complaining and blaming their lack of charm with the ladies on the ladies themselves, beyotching about how women don’t want the “nice guys”! A lot of the times they would not be bad looking either. But they had that “creep factor” that can be hard to describe to people.

“Fine” & “Hot” is more than just a physical description, it’s a state of mind, how a dude carries himself. Confident, classy, respectful, like you are happy to be among civilization and not living in a cabin off by yourself in the woods!!LOL!!

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:23 pm

no lie. some friends and I were at dinner the other night playing “who can hit it”. the food at the restaurant was the bomb. the customers, not so much.

HST

July 12th, 2012
3:23 pm

Exiled!, generally, I try to stay away from women like you described. I don’t try to change them, I just know what I feel is acceptable to myself. I was in my late twenties the last time a strange woman did something unacceptable to me. I do not do PDA – that’s just not me – no matter what.

Bluz, my parents would have taken me outside, but parents could also spank pretty freely when I grew up. Getting out of line usually meant, you were drug outside by your ear, then slapped, or worse. However, this was a baby and the Mother and Father were ignoring the child.

I was surprised that the Father did what he did. I was 80 lbs over him, and way leaner. I figured after I subdued him so quickly and easily he’d realize that he just swung at the wrong guy. He did not, so I could only assume rationally that he was frustrated as ****.

From earlier posts, I thought a buster was a lame person, and buster was not dependent on looks.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:23 pm

We all get catcalls I’m sure. Call, churp, whistle…whatever NONE OF THAT, takes away from me being a lady. As long as buddy ain’t yelling stuff at me and groping. I can’t control what anybody else does.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:24 pm

disco – Oh, okay. Carry on, nothing wrong with a little “boy crazy” crazy sometimes!!LOL!!!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:25 pm

Or flashing himself…let him yell. You can always ignore.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
3:25 pm

And he had one of those bushy pedophile-like mustaches lol

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
3:26 pm

LOL@Kimmie! Those undercover creepers are the worst. The ones that seem normal from a distance, until you start talking to them or get close enough to realize they are not “our kind of people”…

I think it might be hereditary. My mom and I were at Belk on Saturday and a woman there kept talking to my mom like they were BFFs….walking over to show her the things she’d found, etc. My mama’s a good sport, though; she just laughed and said, “Yeah, your daddy always says I’m a weirdo magnet!” :lol:

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
3:28 pm

Disco,I think u just acting out loudly what’s burning onside of u…,

If u don’t mind me asking,when was the last time? :lol:

I told u,play the air con filter trick on ur ex…

Get ur sticky cobs cleaned girl! :lol:

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
3:28 pm

Ick, Slim. Add that to the list.

Drives a custom van
Has a 70’s porn star moustache
Wears pants that are WAY too tight

What else, girls???

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:29 pm

ITL – You always kick the door down coming in…lol

HST

July 12th, 2012
3:30 pm

Celisea, that is creepy. Do you tote a gun? We have great open-carry and CWP laws in our state; moreover, iron clad castle laws. If he comes back, it’s aggravated trespassing.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:31 pm

HST – I don’t but I’m dang sure thinking about it. Seriously.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:31 pm

I’ve handled a couple of guns before.

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:31 pm

thank you kimmie. I am embracing my current state of boy crazy. I literally decided the other day that the fact that I have been wearing wedges to death might be a part of what’s throwing my luck off. this weekend a sister is dusting off the stilettos, changing up the rotation.

ex – I may be acting out but it still ain’t none of your business (even if it is in a public forum for all to see – lol). calling me out. putting me on blast. what’s wrong with you?

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:32 pm

Light – Just a “blank” look in his eyes.

Heck, I can deal with the dude that’s loud and obnoxious a little better!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:32 pm

Off this topic: We are on our team call (late today) and someone apparently have on a wireless headset. THEY JUST FLUSHED THE TOILET…UGGGH

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:32 pm

celisea – some of us attract the occasional run of the mill weirdos. you manage to attract the upper tier weirdos. what’s up with that?

HST

July 12th, 2012
3:33 pm

I have protection dogs, come into my yard, and they’ll send whomever to whatever God they wish.

Even though my property is clearly posted, I’ve had 5 legal bites. Last time the judge told the trespasser that “He can’t fix stupid.”

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:34 pm

disco – Girl I don’t know…lol I saw his this morning but I came on out only because the Sanitation truck was picking up garbage on our street. You can believe though he was waiving. I turned my head. He’s a nut.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:34 pm

upper tier weirdos

LOL!!!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:35 pm

disco – Maybe I’m a weirdo magnet

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:36 pm

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:37 pm

I’ve tossed around the idea of a dog but I don’t want to be bothered with the upkeep

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:39 pm

And I have a kid so I can’t have a man just “staying” there… And I have NOOOOSEY neighbors

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:39 pm

Did any of you all ever see that movie LisaRaye was in, The Players Club? If you did, remember that quiet dude that would always be in the strip club watching Diamond dance and one day he followed her home and tried to attack her?

That’s the type I’m talking about.

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:40 pm

weirdo magnet? it takes all kinds. I used to be a gold tooth magnet. I was and still am a single father magnet. I’m also a bad credit magnet. bright side, I’ve never been a momma’s boy magnet.

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
3:40 pm

Add, nasty tobacco ridden teeth to the list, along with long dirty fanga nails lol

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:40 pm

Celisea – I have really come to appreciate nosey neighbors! Especially when I lived alone, they really looked out for me!!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:41 pm

bum magnet tops the list

HST

July 12th, 2012
3:42 pm

Celisea, you really should…

I know I can’t alarm you more than the Creepster already has, but that’s some really disturbing behavior.

Most of my GFs (friends, but their women) love to shoot, and make girl’s night out with the range to begin with. Most ranges have ladies night, and other promotions for women. Rent a couple of guns and see what you’re accurate with. In the end, what really matters is hitting the target in the appropriate spot for the situation.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:42 pm

Kimmie – I ALWAYS have neighbors watching. One lady asked me about a week ago about my lamp in the living room being left on….I AM NOT KIDDING

Mo (aka Moeisha)

July 12th, 2012
3:44 pm

Damn Celisea, your neighbors take looking out seriously!! WOW!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:44 pm

HST – Yes it is. He’s on my street at least 3 days a week. Just standing there. I have to be honest, I’m afraid of guns. But seriously, I’ve been giving it some thought.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:46 pm

Mo – She didn’t even tapdance around it. She walked up and asked “did you know your lamp in the front was on all night?” LOLOLOLOL

HST

July 12th, 2012
3:46 pm

“upper tier weirdos” that has to be the phrase of the day!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:47 pm

Kimmie/Mo – What I do like is being able to call my neighbor that lives directly in front of me and ask if she sees anyone, if I hear noises. She does the same.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
3:47 pm

C – That’s wild, but God bless em!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:48 pm

Anyone wants to take the title? lol

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:48 pm

I always appreciated the value of the “observant” neighbor until I ran into the truly nosey neighbor. to add insult to injury it was a man. dude not only noticed everything but thought it was okay to comment on it. one neighbor had a guy friend sleep over a few times and nosey neighbor asked if she had a new roommate. he was just dipping. a couple of times I had visitors beat me to my house and they had to sit outside and wait. he thought it was okay to go to their car and tell them about what time I usually got home. another time I was putting baby items into my trunk and he had the nerve to ask if there was anything I needed to tell him. guess he was asking if I was pregnant but if I am or not why the heck would I need to tell him. needless to say, I wasn’t having any of that. I talked to him nicely two or three times and then I finally cursed him out. haven’t heard a peep out of him in more than a year now.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:49 pm

Kimmie – Yep

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
3:50 pm

Disco..ull do good in them stilettos especially with ur nice legs!

A sister gotta do a workout! :lol:

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:51 pm

If I didn’t have a kid, honestly they would be all out gawking :)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:51 pm

What happened to ITL? I got an email but then she dropped off

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
3:52 pm

Disco cursing somebody out? Noooooo say it aint so. Hahaha

disco

July 12th, 2012
3:54 pm

uggh. just thinking about that man irks me. anything he notices and he’s right there popping off at that mouth “so, you got new furniture? so, you got new floors installed? so I noticed the ups guy left amazon boxes at your door. what did you order?” he is notorious in the entire subdivision. everyone talks about him and his invasive questions. I joke that the reason he has a dog is so he can walk the neighborhood and be nosey.

willie d – I cursed him out bright and early on a Sunday morning as he was walking his dog before church and when I finished cursing him out I told him to go to church and “pray on that”. I cursed that man so bad about his attempts to dig in my business that after I calmed down I felt a little bit guilty.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
3:56 pm

My creepster ain’t a big burly dude but he’s built and very muscular. I’ve already thought about he would overcome me if I had to fight him off.

HST – I do have a bat :evil:

HST

July 12th, 2012
3:58 pm

There’s been break-ins all around me and my neighbors, but not a single on of my neighbors who’s property touches mine. My dogs do not play, and I wouldn’t wish their tyranny on anyone. It’s really a massive responsibility/commitment, and an exercise in discipline – not for my dogs, but myself.

I’ve had some guys whom are walking down the street panic about my dogs. What do the criminals do? They put their hands in the air like they’re under arrest. I can barely control myself from laughing, but I figure only a criminal would put their hands up like they’re under arrest. So I maintain my stern look, and tell them that their not under arrest. It’s priceless.

Wanna know how to keep unexpected visits from friends or family? Have guard dogs – you’ll never have an unexpected visit again.

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
4:01 pm

Dico – I doubt that it mattered whether it was Sunday or Tuesday afternoon. I am guessing it was a matter of time. Hahaha We need to find you a blog stalker. I’m like exiled now, you need to take the edge off. I’m a lil too shy and reserved for the task but I can coach someone up to handle you.

kimmie

July 12th, 2012
4:06 pm

disco – My former next-door neighbor, a woman, was kind of like that dude. I remember a dude I dated a few times had this really nice BMW. The 1st time he stayed over it was parked in my driveway. We had gone out and came in late the night before and were lazying around on a Saturday morning. I guess chick was dying to see what he looked like, cause she called and said in case we hadn’t noticed there was a really bad hail storm and the hail had messed up alot of folks cars, so maybe my friend should check on his! I thanked her and hung up and laughed! He didn’t leave for about 3 more hours so I know she was on pins and needles!LOL!!

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:08 pm

Celisea, that’s messed up, but I like your preparedness.

Dogs are a massive undertaking.

A gun is a few classes, a license, knowledge of usage, and that’s it.

I’ve always figured, you’re going to have to address my dogs, and when you do…it’s one to the cabbage. My K9s are registered with the state and DNR as protection dogs, so I’m afforded certain rights regarding them. It’s a felony to interfere with them performing their duties.

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
4:09 pm

WD..if u don’t dable in Rough sex u can’t handle Disco! :lol:

Unless u like Domination in the cut! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
4:10 pm

Speaking of Players club; I’m bored and feel like the Dude in the wheelchair. Somebody say or do something to make me feel better.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:10 pm

I’m back. Had to run a to quick meeting. Some folks in this building….smh.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:10 pm

HST – Well, I’ll fight until the bitter end…and I’m serious

disco

July 12th, 2012
4:12 pm

WD – it was a matter of time. I talked to that man and talked to that man and talked to that man. he just didn’t get it until I went off. it’s funny, before the cuss out it was like he stood inside his house looking and waiting to time it so that he could be out when I or others were out. since the cuss out it’s almost the opposite. it’s like he makes sure he’s not outside at the same time I am. I joked with my son that I was going to get voted off the island (out of the neighborhood). between cursing him out, checking all the pet owners who weren’t picking up after their dogs and keeping my eye on ms. there goes the neighborhood. I tell you what. we may not like the stereotype of the angry black woman but the angry black woman gets results (at least when she’s not dealing with other angry black women). lol.

kimmie – your neighbor was a hot mess. really. she called to try to coax old boy outside? daggone shame.

ex – just to humor you. “if it ain’t rough, it ain’t right”

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:12 pm

Speaking of rough…..

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:13 pm

I’m kidding…seriously I’m kidding. Don’t want to open any cans

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:13 pm

@Cel – If you are not comfortable with a gun, don’t let anybody talk you into one. I’m serious – for your own safety. :)

Blank stares, bad teeth, dirty finger nails…..we’ve gone from creepy to downright pitiful. :lol:

@WD – did I see you say you were shy?? HA HA HA HA!!!

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:14 pm

ITL – I’m not comfortable but I’m really leaning towards getting one

Tsunami

July 12th, 2012
4:16 pm

Celisea, what hood do you live in!?

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:17 pm

:) I should not be so damn fabulous :)

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:18 pm

Disco, that neighbor must be really lonely, I have one like that but it’s a she.

Celisea, I have no doubt that you would. Get some Pepper Spray off eBay, it’s cheap, and highly effective. At the least, it will give 30+ seconds to get away.

disco

July 12th, 2012
4:20 pm

HST – I’ve also heard a lot of folks say they use hornet spray as a “pest deterrent”. apparently the trigger is easy to use and it shoots a long distance. it’s relatively inexpensive and it will buy you some time.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:20 pm

I’m giggling to myself

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
4:20 pm

Ex – naww budy no domination on this end. With Disco the rough part is just getting in the door. If/when you make it past that point you good.

Disco – I’d say angry black woman is a fitting description. I aint rough, buff or prison cut but I bet you have a pretty smile. It is ok to smile sometimes. Let me see it.

ITL- very, until you get to know me.

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:23 pm

Hornet Spray would make my *** run the other way, but Mace is concealable, and easy to carry everywhere. Mace/Pepper Spray also shoots 20 ft, and has a dye to identify the perpetrator if he washes off.

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
4:28 pm

OMG! I just found that the bar I’m going to tonight has just lost their liquor license temporarily!!! Ugh! I’m still going, though, because of plans with a friend of mine. I texted him and hope he’ll be bringing at least beer!

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:29 pm

Holy crap, it’s 4:27, I’ve been out here since noon just about. Well, bye-bye boring day. I couldn’t play with the dogs today, because it’s wet and muddy. I don’t drive my sport cars in the rain unless I’m caught out. With the action at lunch, and the blog’s antics…not a bad day…

Willie Dynamite

July 12th, 2012
4:29 pm

Cel – ummm I think I’m beginning to see the common denominator. You attract a special bunch whether it be @work, home or this blog. I know I know shet it up.

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:30 pm

Bluz, what bar lost their Liqueur License?

disco

July 12th, 2012
4:31 pm

willie d – I must say you are pretty insightful. I don’t let most in my true circle but once you are in, I got you.

HST – some of your real hood, been there done that types have already developed a tolerance to pepper spray and mace.

willie d – did you just say that celisea is the weirdo? I’m sorry. did I just call you out after you’ve been all cool with me? my bad. I’m sorry man.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:33 pm

WillieD – Like I said earlier, I shouldn’t be so damn fabulous :)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:33 pm

WillieD – Would that include the beer and wings bunch…whoa, I went there :)

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:35 pm

WillieD – Like I said earlier, I shouldn’t be so damn fabulous

LOL@Cel. Reminds me of what my bestie and I used to say. “Don’t hate us because we’re beautiful….hate us because you’re not!” LOLOLOL :lol:

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:36 pm

ITL – And THAT, is the comment for the day. I should make that my tagline on my moniker :)

DreamsMaterialize

July 12th, 2012
4:38 pm

Celly Cel you want me to say a few words to your neighbor? “I’ll make him an offer he can’t refuse.” ;-)

disco where do you live? You seem to seriously underwhelmed with the caliber and look of dudes in your neck of the woods? lol

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:38 pm

HST – Did you leave?

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:39 pm

Dreams – If you will get him to shoo…lol I just try to steer clear of him

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:39 pm

Disco, that’s why I open or conceal carry a gun, but Mace was merely a stated alternative to a gun. I’ve had my CWP since I was 18, however, I take great delight in beating up gangsters. I’d much rather take the opportunity to beat them senseless like their disposition.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:39 pm

Look at Dreams stepping into the role of protector. That’s hot. ;)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:40 pm

HST – What state do you live in, if I may? I’m asking because you mentioned the gun laws in your state.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:41 pm

Um, HST? Have you chosen to ignore the “First do no harm” portion of your oath? Or have you given up the practice of medicine to pursue race car driving full time?

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:41 pm

Right here enjoying myself – no double entendre intended.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:41 pm

HST beating up folks is hot but I’m not going to go there. I’m still putting salve on from yesterday…lol

disco

July 12th, 2012
4:43 pm

dreams – I’m in NC. guess the men in the cackalacky are lacking. lol.

celisea – why did I think of “shoo fly don’t bother me”.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:44 pm

Do I need to go back and read yesterday’s blog?? You okay, Twink?

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:45 pm

disco – I dunno…maybe because that’s the feeling associated with creeps

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:46 pm

ITL – I’m good. I did have Sassy and Bluzy to jump in. Everybody else just gawked and picked a side…lol You know it goes :)

SlimUno

July 12th, 2012
4:46 pm

Cel – Beware if you see Dreams soon stalking you…what better way to get rid of one crazy than but to pickup another.

just kidding Dreams. You knows i luvvsss you ;-)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:46 pm

ITL – Nooooooo, don’t go back and read. You might bring the evil spirits with you.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:46 pm

Pssssstttt…..WD – 51 days ’til FOOTBALL!!! :)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:47 pm

Slim – I ain’t gonna lie, already thought it.

Still love you Dreams :)

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:47 pm

Lawrenceville, GA.

ITL, I have never ignored my oath. I retired at 31 – I work for free – I completely donate my time and education.

I do underground racing, I am a Modern Day Cannonballer. I do lots of track days, and mountain runs as well. I raced in my early 30s professionally, but it’s to time consuming.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
4:48 pm

Well if I was here, I woulda had your back, Twink. You know that! Shoot, we’re Zingers for life or cellblock C, whichever comes first. LOLOLOL :lol:

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:49 pm

“HST beating up folks is hot but I’m not going to go there. I’m still putting salve on from yesterday…lol” chuckle*snort…

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:51 pm

ITL – And you know this…zingers for life….or cellblock C. We might be doing the latter if folks don’t leave me alone :)

HST – Now you know how sexy that is. Putting down your gun and beating folks senseless. Stop fronting.

DreamsMaterialize

July 12th, 2012
4:54 pm

just kidding Dreams. You knows i luvvsss you
Dang slimmy like that? lol

Slim – I ain’t gonna lie, already thought it.

Still love you Dreams
Celly Et tu Brute? lol

Look at Dreams stepping into the role of protector. That’s hot.
ITL I knew I could count on you to have my back. ;-)

Good evening ya’ll.

disco

July 12th, 2012
4:55 pm

C/ HST – or even better, beating folks senseless with your gun. hate to admit it looks like it would feel awfully good to pistol whip somebody.

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
4:55 pm

Dirty finger nails?

ITL don’t like dirty fingers conferring her? :lol:

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:55 pm

Dreams – Okay that me laugh….we’re down like “fo flat ties” for life :)

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:56 pm

disco – I honestly thought that’s where he was going,until he put down the gun…lol

Exiled!

July 12th, 2012
4:57 pm

Fingering her

HST

July 12th, 2012
4:59 pm

I’d never surrender my weapon, but I do enjoy teaching lessons. No fronting, I do fight club once a month, and fight at least 10 times a year with strangers. My parents sent me to private school and different martial Arts classes…I still do 3 classes a week. I’m a physical guy, always have been and always will be…

FTR, it’s only the loud mouth gangsters that want to be beat senseless. I’ve never went past the point of anyone’s submission or consciousness.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
4:59 pm

MMeelloo – Ummmm who does? That’s an infection waiting to happen.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
5:00 pm

I’ve never went past the point of anyone’s submission or consciousness.

Well dernit, you say that with such a calm. That’s borderline scary…beating folks unconscious.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
5:00 pm

Thanks, C. I wasn’t going to justify it with a response. Gross.

Bluzgirl

July 12th, 2012
5:01 pm

HST…sorry took so long to respond. Darwin’s in Marietta. I’m working on building a blues band for a very talented friend of mine, so we’re going up there so I can introduce him to folks to play with.

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
5:02 pm

And, much like Ed and Brad, HST…….

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
5:02 pm

ITL – Ewwww ewwww ewwww…and ick

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
5:06 pm

@Bluzy – I LOVE Darwins. They don’t have liquor there anymore? Hmmmm. I remember a very interesting “conga” line in there one night when Mudcat was playing. Little Joe from Chicago led the way with his trombone, I had a tambourine, and other folks fell in behind us. Great night!

I haven’t been since they remodeled.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
5:11 pm

I’m glad ITL showed up. I’m glad the day picked up. And I’m glad we shoo’d the devil away….for a minute. He’ll be back :evil:

HST

July 12th, 2012
5:13 pm

Bluz, that’s pretty cool, have fun. So are they charging a bottle fee, or are you gonna chug before you go?

ITL, “And, much like Ed and Brad, HST…….” are you referring to the movie Fight Club?

HST

July 12th, 2012
5:25 pm

Well Bloggers, it was a fun day in Blogsville; however, I’m out. My housekeeper left me a Roast in the crock pot, and it’s time to eat! Everyone have a great evening…

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
5:36 pm

Did everyone leave?

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
5:40 pm

I’m still here, Cel, but about to leave.

Celisea

July 12th, 2012
5:41 pm

Acutually ITL, I am too…night! Try not to stay away too long next time :)

Into the Light

July 12th, 2012
5:48 pm

I’ll try, Cel! Nighty night. :)

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July 12th, 2012
8:48 pm

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July 12th, 2012
9:39 pm

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July 12th, 2012
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July 12th, 2012
9:41 pm

Celisea, Slim Goody told you earlier today. Watch more closely.

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July 12th, 2012
9:50 pm

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July 13th, 2012
12:11 pm