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Dating: Reformed player?

Some single people get a bad dating reputation because of past mistakes. Whether it’s breaking hearts or breaking cars, we have all done things we are particularly proud of. There are some things that are harder to live down though.

When you decide to grow up and start “dating responsibly” you probably will face a few challenges in cleaning up your rep. Do people believe you when you tell them that you have changed? A lot of people won’t! You probably will have to show them more than tell them.

A friend of mine found out that she is seeing a guy who has quite a bad dating record. The things people have told her about him so far are enough to fill up a soap opera. Of course, she does not see this side of him at all. He has convinced her that everything she heard was when he was young and dumb. Maybe he is a reformed player?

Do you think there is such a thing as a reformed player? Someone who has learned from their mistakes and cleaned up their act?

Are you reformed? How can one tell for sure that the person they are seeing has turned over a new leaf?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

482 comments Add your comment

Leggs

July 11th, 2012
4:01 pm

Don’t like that plain, sticky white rice…

Leggs

July 11th, 2012
4:03 pm

I haven’t had a string bean in my mouth since 1970 something…and don’t get me started on that string bean casserole people rave about over Thanksgiving. Just looks nasty.

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:03 pm

I love how domesticated you all are! :)

Single and Happy

July 11th, 2012
4:04 pm

Being from the country where most vegetables were either grown in the back yard, or came from the back of a truck you had to actually snap the green beans, shuck the peas and any kind of bean you ate. My mom said if you didn’t snap or suck you didn’t eat. That’s why I don’t like string beans now., but it still didn’t get me out of snapping them (LOL),

Single and Happy

July 11th, 2012
4:05 pm

Leggs 1970, uh oh you showing your age (LOL)

Single and Happy

July 11th, 2012
4:05 pm

yea I left of the something on purpose (LOL)

Leggs

July 11th, 2012
4:08 pm

I have no problem showing my age. Most here know my age! And if you knew, you would know my age doesn’t definie me. I’m proud all across the board.

The love my mother had for pigs feet creeped me out and that’s why I didn’t eat that mess.

Single and Happy

July 11th, 2012
4:09 pm

Leggs so you like a fine wine, it only get’s better with time :-) pigs feet ewwww

Single and Happy

July 11th, 2012
4:10 pm

time to run some errands, you guys have a great evening.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:15 pm

I don’t know it is about this blog and the black women on here that we continue to have one crass white dude continously sniffing around. A white dude with a wife and family. I don’t even see the black men showing blatant disrespect. Dang shame.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:16 pm

Not openly anyway, I should say

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:18 pm

If it’s not trying to constantly “crack”, it’s threats, if it’s not theats it’s outright sexual innuendos.

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:20 pm

What are you talking about Cel?

Leggs

July 11th, 2012
4:22 pm

And look at who responds….that in itself is quite funny.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:22 pm

Leggs – I wanted to bark…lol

Leggs

July 11th, 2012
4:25 pm

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:25 pm

My Bad – guess I didn’t realize it was a black women blog. How did Race even come into this?

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:26 pm

Just shows how uneducated you are Cel if you want to start turning everything racial against white men or whatever point you’re trying to make. I don’t think this blog deserves your disgusting comments

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:30 pm

Atl Guy – Do you see any of the black men on here CONSTANTLY sniffing around ALLLL day? Do you see any of them making folks so uncomfortable they can’t post? Do you see folks still trying to holler when they have wives themselves and then at folks that are “booed up?” You are a disrespectful pig. I wonder if you’re hanging around your mama with that sort of behavior? Hmmm, you sister? How about your wife?? I wonder if she knows you’re in the backhouse blogging?

And if there’s anything this blog is not deserving of, it’s the crazy, bi-polar, psycopath stalker you are. Today you spend all day giving facts about yourself to “prove” you aren’t the crackpot WE ALL KNOW YOU ARE…PURPLE REIGN. You are a crackpot.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:30 pm

Exiled!

July 11th, 2012
4:30 pm

Dang late

Y’all talked bout reformed hoes already?!

just dang man

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:33 pm

Today you spend all day giving facts about yourself to “prove” you aren’t the crackpot WE ALL KNOW YOU ARE…PURPLE REIGN. You are a crackpot.

:shock:

and the truth shall set you freeee….

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:33 pm

And your problem with me was you could NOT bamboozle me. Yeah, I said it. Yeah it was all gravy flirting but you sooooon found out, I was not one to be tangoed with. Yeah, I didn’t let nothing slip. Hate a woman like that don’t you. One you can’t contend with. You have outslicked and bamboozled plenty of women. Being doing it and bragging about that behavior and “unstoppable” until you found the right one. THAT’S your issue. You little punk.

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:35 pm

LoL I’m not Married, what are you smokin!? Again, its pretty obvious I’m not some guy you’re thinking of because as usual I don’t know what you’re talking about with this purple rain stuff. I can’t believe how ignorant and stupid you are, I’m starting to feel sorry for you

Bluzgirl

July 11th, 2012
4:36 pm

You go Celisea!!!!

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:36 pm

Kiss my ass buddy and get the hell on from here….k??

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:36 pm

Asking if anyone wanted to meet Saturday. He’s a slick mofo. He’ll have someone out there in his stead….lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:37 pm

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:38 pm

CELI…CELI….CELI!!!!

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:38 pm

Nah, I don’t know where its been. Keep being a racist and remain classy as usual

disco

July 11th, 2012
4:38 pm

lawd we done started with the name calling. my name is Bennett and I ain’t in it. lol.

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:41 pm

Cel – I asked who wants to go running with a group on Saturday (you didn’t mention that). But, your diet tends to be Varsity and Gravy on Biscuits so I would probably count your fat @ss out of that run. Too bad, you probably need the exercise

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:41 pm

Enter your comments here

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:42 pm

This mess is just dang crazy. I guess the stuff I pasted earlier you just pulled out of you ass huh? I STILL have a problem with that. Wanna attacked and them retract and play stupid….and lie until you think the other person will forget. You’re the smoking that stuff. Crackhead.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:43 pm

And trrrrust me buddy, NOTHING fat here. I’ve been seen. What about your punk ass? Huh? Just the chicks you bamboozled that ran into hiding? Yeah, you’re sniffing around. Almost had a caniption when we mentioned 440 leggs. Oh, wait that was HST

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:44 pm

You’re the only one looking stupid at this point … hate to say it

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:44 pm

Celi you’se a baaad woman!! :lol:

Exiled!

July 11th, 2012
4:45 pm

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:45 pm

Sassy/Bluzy – Just sick of him and his foolishess. A LIAR if I eve heard one. Folks lie so much they can’t separate real from make believe

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:46 pm

How moist for a man to go back and forth arguing on a blog with a woman…damn near ALL day…comedy I tell ya…

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:47 pm

Okaaaay????!!!!

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:48 pm

ATL Guy et al – If you come back, getcha self a new moniker and come back with some respect. I bet your wife would be just tickled to see your behavior on here.

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:48 pm

Cel – you’re the one lying saying I have a wife and kids and all this stuff that doesn’t make any sense. Get your facts straight cause you’re looking dumb. I’ve been on point from day one so believe what you want

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:49 pm

I don’t have a wife! You don’t exactly pay attention huh?

Bluzgirl

July 11th, 2012
4:49 pm

I’m just glad to see you stick it to him Cel!!!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:49 pm

Celisea…as I’ve said before, this must be one hell-uva blog for a dude to sniff around poke jabs at and argue…on a blog. Either their really getting his salty rocks off or he just doesn’t have a life…or maybe he just found out his wife Julia used to be Julian…I’on know :lol:

disco

July 11th, 2012
4:49 pm

I’m meeting someone after work for pizza. I was actually looking forward to pizza. now y’all got me wanting something with some daggone gravy on it.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 11th, 2012
4:50 pm

TL Guy et al

Okay that’s it…throw the damn towel!!(Rocky IV)

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
4:50 pm

Convince me you pulled your attack and comments (pasted earlier) with no rhyme or reason out of your ass? Convince me of that before you go to anything else. Just yank them out of your ass eh?

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
4:50 pm

@disco – Cel has lots of gravy for you, she might share if she didn’t drink it all