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Dating: Reformed player?

Some single people get a bad dating reputation because of past mistakes. Whether it’s breaking hearts or breaking cars, we have all done things we are particularly proud of. There are some things that are harder to live down though.

When you decide to grow up and start “dating responsibly” you probably will face a few challenges in cleaning up your rep. Do people believe you when you tell them that you have changed? A lot of people won’t! You probably will have to show them more than tell them.

A friend of mine found out that she is seeing a guy who has quite a bad dating record. The things people have told her about him so far are enough to fill up a soap opera. Of course, she does not see this side of him at all. He has convinced her that everything she heard was when he was young and dumb. Maybe he is a reformed player?

Do you think there is such a thing as a reformed player? Someone who has learned from their mistakes and cleaned up their act?

Are you reformed? How can one tell for sure that the person they are seeing has turned over a new leaf?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

482 comments Add your comment

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:28 pm

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:28 pm

It’s called clicking the tab “Show All” then control + F and typing in “ATL Guy” and it highlights and jumps to his post when you click “next”

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:29 pm

Yeah, um okay Purple….

Night folks

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:32 pm

No Exiled my day starts around 430-5am and as certain bloggers know who email me is that we had a huge flood right in the middle of bale season and it’s been a little struggle but all is well! The only contact I have had with blog people is when I sent Leggs and Sexy Cool pictures of my kids via email and asked Leggs to send them to kimmie. Other than that I posted on her a few weeks ago with my one and only “Purple Reign” I don’t do beef as people can tell you. It is only 4pm here and I may be a lot of things but hiding behind an alias is not me at all. BUt I know how this place works. It doesn’t bother me…lol

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:36 pm

I really welcome anyone to prove that I am ATL Guy. DO it anyway you can. Report it to the administrator of this site and then post the results publicly!

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:38 pm

Yes, Purple, ALWAYS the perfect little saint. Yes, I know all too well. I’ve said what I have to say. I don’t need to pull a thing. I know what I know. There are many ways and devices to blog. Like I said, I know what I know. I’ll never believe otherwise. What I know is proof enough.

And where’s ATL Guy???? Yeah, I know what I know.

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:42 pm

Celisea, it’s not about what you think. I have a few friends here who I care about what they think. I don’t know anything about ATL Guy. And the last few times that I have come on the blog they knew I was coming because they sent me an email wondering how I was doing and I respond and tell them I will log on later that day. You are wrong,so I don’t know what your issue is with ATL Guy but don’t merge it with you issues with me.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:42 pm

I know Purple….always the perfect little saint.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:44 pm

And since apparently your speed reading is a bit off, I don’t have an issue with ATL Guy. I believe he attacked and threatened.

But I know…always always always, the perfect little saint

Exiled!

July 11th, 2012
5:45 pm

Ok Purp

I wld hate to think Purp is a punk coz really,if u want black tail all u got to do is ask.

No need to wear a mask looking like Atl guy. Lol

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:45 pm

Well if he attacked and threatened handle it. I am sure you know how. He is just not me. Perfect Saint me? Hell no.

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:47 pm

Exiled I am not ATL Guy, LOL and if I wanted black tail I would just be me. Chicks of all races dig me :)

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:48 pm

Also only one woman can say that I flirted with her in that manner ever on this blog or of the blog via email. If any other woman can say so please post your name.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:50 pm

You’re still talking? You have nothing to prove….remember I have about months and tons of emails. Watch out now.

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:50 pm

And to keep said woman’s name cleaned nothing ever happened nor did we meet ever.

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:50 pm

So does my wife. Like I said I am not ATL Guy but don’t threaten me.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
5:52 pm

Purple – I said what I said. I’m not scared of you. I’m not ATL Guy either…. I don’t make threats. I said what I said.

Exiled!

July 11th, 2012
5:57 pm

I know Purp…so why u think Cel thinks u Atl guy as well?

or I am asking too private a question..

I hope some white folks aren’t looking at HST and his bragging and thinking they can come on here (our blog)and get black tail on the cheap! :lol;

Good nite folks!

I hope this beef goes away!

Purple Reign

July 11th, 2012
5:59 pm

Exiled, I don’t know. Oh well life is much larger than this. I have no disdain for ANYONE. My name is my name. I protect it regardless of my past. Good night

bluzgirl

July 11th, 2012
6:05 pm

Cel…he/they are not worth you getting your blood pressure up. Us ladies have your back! :-)

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
6:07 pm

Again, the perfect little saint. I know what I know, I know what I heard and I know what’s written, and I’m sticking to it. I’m not here to tarnish anybody’s image either, but I’ll be daggone if I just sit by while someone threatens mine. I’m here to protect mine as well. When someone comes at me and I haven’t done thing then, yes, I’m going to defend. I don’t care what people think they see or know. Keep on performing like you do. I know what I know. In case you didn’t know all of us have a life and just as grand as yours.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
6:08 pm

Bluzy – Thanks girlie. I said what I had to say on page 7. I just found it “odd” how someone just “pings” and pops up. I will say it as long as I’m breathing. I know better.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
6:10 pm

It is cowardice to throw rocks and come on say, “I don’t anything. Someone asked me to look in. I’ve been sending pictures of my kis” BS All I know is, since we are all clear now, I should get no more threats after this.

Single and Happy

July 11th, 2012
6:10 pm

Celisea, you have a vacay coming up, relax relate release oooooooooooooosssssssaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

bluzgirl

July 11th, 2012
6:10 pm

I wish you could “like” a comment like on Facebook!!!

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
6:11 pm

I guess Atl Guy will pop back in now…

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
6:16 pm

And just like Purple has his fan club, I have mine :) There are some that know she’s full of sh!t and have always been.

Celisea...tiptoeing through the tulips headed for vacay!!

July 11th, 2012
6:16 pm

ATL Guy

July 11th, 2012
7:25 pm

Glad that Purple giuy cleared some of that stuff up. I probably deserve an apology from Celisea for getting me mixed with him, but I won’t hold my breath. Have a good evening everyone

Celisea

July 11th, 2012
7:40 pm

I haven’t told it all….keep pushing it. I’ve been holding my self for months. Leave it alone……k?

Celisea

July 11th, 2012
7:41 pm

shouldnt be on my phone in the car.

Exiled!

July 11th, 2012
8:51 pm

I think Cel and Atl need to dust off some of this sexual angst between the two of u..