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Dating dilemma: Nobody likes your mate

My new beau (I know, I’m shocked too) has invited me to attend a wedding that will have loads of his relatives. I’m not all that worried because I’m something like a Mom Whisperer. Mothers love me with their sons, what can I say? It’s a blessing and a curse.

I thought about the men (uhh the one guy) that my parents met and how awful I felt when things didn’t go that well. Dad thought he looked like an inmate because he had a scar on his face. My Father, the comedian still jokingly asks me “What ever happened to Scarface?

I digress. The point is, it can be problematic when your new relationship is tested by disapproval of family or friends. If you are from a close knit family, you are forced to become a mediator. You feel stuck in the middle and you never want to choose between the two. The question is, should you have to?

What happens when nobody likes your mate? How do you handle it when everyone around you has negative things to say about your relationship?

Should you take heed and pay attention? Do you think what they say is true, “Love is blind” and you have to listen to the opinions of others?

Have you ever dated someone that caused a serious challenge in your other relationships?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

295 comments Add your comment

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
7:09 am

Never had the problem with dating someone that my friends and family don’t like, because I don’t live my life for their approval. It’s what you think of each other that matters. If you live your life to make others happy, then you more than likely are in for a sad life.

Elijah

July 3rd, 2012
7:21 am

I am in the top 2…
If no one likes your mate, run for the hills.
Well I have to scratch Diva off the cat list for now….

I know how to pick-em, beside my family is a party family and if you know how to party u are in.
Some dates do not make it to the meet the family stage….But Celisea will get introduce to the family. BAMMMMM

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
7:40 am

Just wow Elijah….I was heading to take my bath and decided to peek in first. You are relentess if nothing else.

Destiny

July 3rd, 2012
8:08 am

@Diva – I concur most mothers love me. But my family on the other hand, they don’t like no daymn body. While I listen, I truly make my own choices. I’ve heard it all; he needs to get his grill fixed, he too feminine, he acts like a thug, he does not defend you…..I could go on and on , They seem to like the one I have now, but they are wondering why we don’t spend more time together…he got another family somewhwere? SMDH

MissMoni

July 3rd, 2012
8:14 am

GOOD Tuesday Morning MIA!
The select few that have met my family were well liked. I have had only 1 Mom that wasn’t absolutely crazy about me. At the end of the day, you and your mate have to do what’s best for the two of you. Just remember people to include family & friends will ALWAYS have SOMETHING to say, good, bad or indifferent.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
8:57 am

good morning. personally it’s not an issue for me since I don’t live near any family. even if I did, I’m not in it for family approval. I’d much rather have a mate that could pull off a work function than someone that blends in with my family. my family, for the most part, is die hard, cut throat, ghetto, loud, often rude, combative etc. etc. am I clowning them? nope. they are mine and I love them. several of my family members have mates that no one likes but for the most part we tolerate them.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
9:11 am

Good morning.

My ex husband didn’t necessarily like my family because he thought my brother was a thief and conniving. When he first met them during a visit home, we walked into Mama’s house with our cooler full of food and drinks. My family attacked it and from then on he thought they were uncouth. My o my, the pot calling the kettle black with his tacky family all across the board!!

disco

July 3rd, 2012
9:20 am

leggs – funny but I have to ask is your brother conniving? is he or has he ever been a thief?

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
9:29 am

Hush, disco (lol). Yes he has been a thief, but my ex didn’t know it then. I had a thick rope necklace with a gold nugget with an “S” in the middle of it that I lost. I know I lost it on Jerome Avenue carrying lil leggs. I wore it out that day and came back home w/o it. Couldn’t convince him my brother didn’t steal it.

Elijah

July 3rd, 2012
9:48 am

@Leggs u know what they say finder’s keeper even if its a family member…hehehe

@Celisea… In order to date a woman like yourself determination with a touch class is needed just to get your attention,,,So until I return to the ATL I have to be relentless to set-up our date.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
9:56 am

Good morning,

I don’t have much on topic. I see nothing wrong with your family’s opinions say if you’re young and can’t see a thing yet. Say he or she is a bum and you’re the only one without a clue…something along those lines, okay. Even so, them not liking him or her should be because they can sense something you apparently can’t pick up on and he or she is not good for you. Now if it’s along the lines of just not liking your choice of mate because they’re too short, or too tall or not making enough…for them, or too fat or too skinny or of a different race….then you’re silly for listening. Like my daddy and uncle would say, if you like ‘em I love ‘em. I’m not in it for them anyhow…them being my family.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
9:57 am

Elijah – Where are you now that you’re “returning” to the ATL?? In order to date a woman like myself (your words), you cannot display the crazies. Are you ATL Guy (like you’re gonna say yes)? LOLOLOLOLOL

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
9:59 am

I’m not dating blog folks though…Elijah

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
10:01 am

How do you handle it when everyone around you has negative things to say about your relationship?

This has only happened once and they were right…albeit once they stated their opinions that was the end of the discussion…they didn’t haggle me about it. I eventually ended the relationship and all is well. When people say, “Mama always knows”, I totally understand…

Now as far as me meeting mothers I always win…I don’t wanna brag or sound arrogant but mothers have always liked me and I them.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
10:11 am

I’d like to believe mothers would like me as well. I’ve already experienced the MIL with ice in her veins, so I should be good going forward.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
10:11 am

my son brought a little girl home a couple of years ago that I didn’t care for. I told him as much. in may they both graduated together and her mother came up after graduation all grins and smiles wanting them to pose for pics and all that. she took pictures of them, I didn’t. she asked why I wasn’t taking pics and I told her that I didn’t need any. she then kept pressing trying to figure out what we were doing after graduation, where we were going to dinner. did we want them to meet us somewhere. after we got away from them I asked my son if he told that woman about his momma. heck, I didn’t care for the daughter I wasn’t about to even front like I wanted to know the momma.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
10:19 am

I didn’t care for the daughter I wasn’t about to even front like I wanted to know the momma.

Ouch…did the daughter do something in particular or did you just have that feeling?…

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:20 am

Well so far it’s been one dude for my kid and of course her signature says 1 year and 7 months (ugh)…whatever. So far he’s been pretty decent and presentable. Of course I’m not with him everywhere he goes so I’m not crazy either. His mama and sister came over (separate times of course) and I wasn’t feeling the sister as much as the mama. She talked too much and was too much like “sista girl”…naw, I’m grown. Apparently there’s close to 20 years between the sister and my kid’s bf. She was almost sorta kinda schooling me….I guess…on how he’s been raised to be a good boy. Not sure why she was telling me that. Frankly he ain’t my concern directly…my kid is. But up until this point aside from him wanting and liking ass like all normal boys I can’t find too much I don’t like about him.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:20 am

The signature on her phone….WHATEVER!!

disco

July 3rd, 2012
10:21 am

sassy – no. she didn’t do anything. I just didn’t like her.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
10:29 am

Okay disco..to each his/her own. Maybe it was that woman’s/mother’s intuition but either way you have a right to feel how you feel.

But up until this point aside from him wanting and liking ass like all normal boys I can’t find too much I don’t like about him.

I understand that Celi…I have a 12 y.o. niece and I know my brother’s nervous about her dating and whatnot. I know he’s gonna remember the isht he did when he was growing up and he’ll be looking like :shock: when some little boy tries to start coming around..

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
10:31 am

R.I.P. Andy Griffith :-(

disco

July 3rd, 2012
10:32 am

sassy – I won’t even put it on intuition. I’m being really, really simple with it. I just didn’t like her. lol. everything or in this case, everyone, isn’t for everybody. that chick wasn’t for me. my son still continued to date her for awhile. he just didn’t bring her back for any visits after that.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:34 am

Sassy – That was the hardest thing to overcome. I had the talk with her repeatedly and over the years. It’s up to her now. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not okay with kids acting like grown folks but I definitely cannot police her everywhere she goes. I tell her it’s a choice and to know bad decisions have consequences. It was funny when she said (about a year ago), “oh no mama he don’t put his hands on me or try anything” and I replied “so he’s gay, because if he’s a normal boy liking girls something is wrong if he’s not attempted anything”…she went pale and said nothing…

I ain’t gonna lie, it was hard giving in to this thing called dating and so-called love with young girls. If you don’t though, they’re gonna sneak. You may as well try as best you can to give them a bit of rope (not too much) so that they’ll feel free to be open with you.

I’m still having angst…lololol

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
10:34 am

RIP Sherriff Andy Taylor (Andy Griffith died).

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:34 am

Awwww man Andy Griffith passed?? I so liked him :)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
10:34 am

I see you now, Sassy!

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:36 am

I will say though, I stuck to the 16 year old threshold like my mama gave us. No 13, 14, 12, 16….none of that…sorry if your friends can. You can’t!

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
10:37 am

Celisea ~ when mine would tell me she’s just friends with so and so, I told her you don’t need that many male friends. Had to let her know they all aren’t coming around because they want to be friends. They’re sniffing and they’re sniffing hard.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
10:40 am

Celisea I’m not a parent so I couldn’t even pretend to understand your angst..but I do agree with that post b/c as you’ve said you two have had the talk and now it’s up to her to make the best decision with regards to that. It couldn’t possibly be easy but at least you’ve let her know that she can be open with you without fear of some kind of mommy backlash. Good for you mami :lol:

Bluzgirl

July 3rd, 2012
10:42 am

I’ve learned that I need to pay a little more attention to my family and friends. Of course, for my family, no one will be good enough for me in their eyes! Since the recent breakup, I’m finding more and more people who did not like him and hoped that I would see the light and dump him. I wish they had all talked to me sooner, but I probably wouldn’t have listened. My mother never did like my ex and looking back, she had good reason. I promise to pay closer attention with future men…

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:43 am

Leggs – Exactly and soooooooooo true, so so true.

Sassy – Thanks chicks :) :) Please know I’m still having sweats and stuff when she’s with him…lol I’m kidding sort of but I know it’s life and at some point they have to get out there and give it a go. I’m just praying that the hiccups and missteps won’t be too great along the way.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:44 am

That was suppose to be chica not chicks…sorry

disco

July 3rd, 2012
10:44 am

celisea – and I swear I’m not calling you out (I don’t know you or your daughter) but when reading the part about her saying he wasn’t trying to put his hands on her I couldn’t help but think maybe she was the one putting her hands on him. lol. we all know there are some hot-tailed little girls out there (again, not speaking on your daughter) and boys often get the bad rap but I’ve known many girls that were way faster than their teenaged boyfriends.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:47 am

disco – I agree…lol I’m not even offended

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:47 am

Yeah, she’s the fast one in that duo

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
10:51 am

I hate compliance training…ugh

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
10:51 am

Leggs – Your post about the boys sniffing hard brought to mind: I’m like a dog in heat, a freak without warning. I have an appetite for sex ’cause me so h0rny

Oh and howdy folks ;-)

czBrat

July 3rd, 2012
11:19 am

What happens when nobody likes your mate? How do you handle it when everyone around you has negative things to say about your relationship?
you marry him anyway. have two beautiful kids. then have a hella time getting divorced. ☺

Should you take heed and pay attention? Do you think what they say is true, “Love is blind” and you have to listen to the opinions of others?
loaded questions. just not in the mood for such today.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
11:20 am

C – yeah. it wasn’t personal. I know I’ve intercepted all kinds of explicit emails and text messages from hot tailed girls talking about what all they wanted to do to, with or for my son. it’s real out there. and part of why I say sometimes it’s not always the little mannish A boys, sometimes the boys just get the blame.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:25 am

Ut oh, the list signs of workplace violence seems normal in the world of folks I know…lolololol I’M KIDDING

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:26 am

disco – I would say it’s ALWAYS mannish little boys, heck that’s their nature. I would add though nowadays it’s girls TOO. How’s that?

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:26 am

Inform your manager of suspicious signs of workplace voilence??? All that does is enable folks to become snitches if you breath hard.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
11:30 am

C – if I don’t know the kids my opinion generally relies on who I’m talking too. when I get around folks who act like their daughter is a princess I point out that no one wants to claim the daughter that’s giving BJs under the bleachers. when someone is acting like their son is all that I point out either he’s getting some, trying to get some or is one of those who just plain can’t get any. growing up I was on both sides of the coin. I ran across some boys that had me beat in the “grown” arena and I admit to being the girl who clowned the guy who wasn’t doing anything.

C – can you share the list? I’m curious to see if I’m on it. lol.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
11:33 am

That’s straight to the point, SlimUno!

czBrat

July 3rd, 2012
11:36 am

I’ve intercepted all kinds of explicit emails and text messages from hot tailed girls talking about what all they wanted to do to, with or for my son
sweet jesus.

lol @ slim. how did the blogettes get to talking about younguns sniffin all over each other? lmao.

i’ve never been disliked by any dude’s mama. at least not that i’ve been told.
i’m convinced the dude’s i bring home will never get 100% approval (cuz nobody’s quite good enough for “the baby”), but the fam is quite thrilled with current s/o.

as for the munchkins: i’ve only disapproved of one beau thing 1 brought home, and i told them so.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:41 am

disco – I was taking my compliance course and have closed out now. But some of the stuff listed was normal to me in what I’ve seen

Talking loud
Financial distress
Mental distress
Intimidation
Dislike for employee

That’s just some…lol So you stressing over a bill and you mean to tell me folks can the manager you’re scared cause someone yelled at their creditor???

I’m kidding but not really.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:42 am

We are leaving early today….shhhhhh (heard it through the grapevine)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:43 am

And (from what I heard), that’s why she’s rescheduled my 1:1, even though she sent an email saying she had a conflict

disco

July 3rd, 2012
11:45 am

re the grapevine. I wish the “little birds” around here would start chirping. so far, nothing.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
11:48 am

I’m just waiting on them to ring the bell…dang I’m ready to go. I was feeling okay about working all day until my coworker called me and said my mgr called her to reschedule her 1:1 and put that tidbit in her ear.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
12:01 pm

GIVE US FREEEEEE!!!!

I’m sooo rett to go…I think I feel a cough..cough…

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
12:03 pm

Well, I know I’ll be here until 5:30. He rarely lets me leave early.

czBrat

July 3rd, 2012
12:04 pm

um. early release would end up costing me lots of $$$ cuz all i can do to kill time until 7pm yoga class is shop.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
12:04 pm

Woo hoo 2:00 it is!!!! Of course she always says take your laptops and forward your phones to your cells. Translation: you can’t go shopping or by the rib shack but straight home to finish working. Hey, no complaints, that works for me :) :)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
12:07 pm

Fine Celi…you show off :mean:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
12:07 pm

Aww my emoticon didn’t come out right…you get the jist Celi :lol:

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
12:08 pm

Sassy – I got it…lol

Bluzgirl

July 3rd, 2012
12:15 pm

I’m definitely not feeling being at work today. I was off yesterday and had a couple of doctor appointments. I think it was hard to get up this morning to work one day, then off tomorrow, then back for two days. I don’t know…I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed and have been in a mood! I’ve warned my coworkers. LOL

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
12:31 pm

Afternoon All,
Nothing much on topic. How is everyone today?

czBrat

July 3rd, 2012
12:35 pm

hey willie. glad you could join us. it’s been terribly exciting. :sad:

well, boss lady called around 10 to say that she was already on her flight out of town. boss man just called to say “guess you don’t need me today, so i’ll see you whenever”.

me thinks my pto has begun. i think i’ll hang here and enjoy the peace and quiet for a while tho.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
12:35 pm

I’ll probably be here till 5 as usual…so far no signs or hints to an early release. :cry:

How about this for O/T…do yall believe PMS is real or a myth? (fellas feel free to provide your feedback)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
12:38 pm

Alright folks…I’m stoked. I just finished my training (where I received a warning that sr. mgmnt would be notified if you haven’t completed by 7/8), we’re leaving at 2:00 and I’m headed down to get something healthy to eat.

Can y’all tell I’m stoked??? LOLOLOL

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
12:39 pm

Slim – I know you’re asking the men but PMS is real!!

disco

July 3rd, 2012
12:40 pm

slim – I forgot. I have an off topic too. to address yours though – I’ve always been the chick who told the PMS chicks to stop whining. don’t know if it’s real or not but even if it is grown women have been dealing with periods for years and need to control themselves and their emotions. just my take though.

Here’s my off topic. is this funny or is it playing too much? husband and wife are riding with hubs driving. when hubs isn’t paying attention wife turns on his heated seat. mind you this is in the 100+ temps. apparently it took him a while to realize the seat warmer was on and meanwhile he’s sweating bullets. she thinks this was hilarious. I think it was playing too much.

C – stop bragging.

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
12:41 pm

Afternoon gang!!!!

All mamas like me, always have. When I was younger it was somewhat of a curse it seemed. The dudes felt pressure I think. One told me his mom pulled him aside after meeting me the 1st time & told him “she’s a keeper. Don’t mess over her!”

I love for the fam to like me, but it’s more important that he & like EACH OTHER! And while I’d like to dismiss the approval of families, as I get older, it can be important, within reason. If you get married, like it or not, you are marrying into another family as well. Doesn’t really matter the physical distance either, cause sooner or later you will have to deal. One of my friends that lives here has a BIL in Hawaii that despises her. He treats her like pure dirt the few times they have been around each other.

Alot of times family can see things you can’t. The few times my fam didn’t care for someone I dated, they were right on the money. They are always respectful to my friends, but they pulled me aside after with their concerns, out of love. I’m lucky like that, with immediate family anyway. The few distant relatives that had something to say, it was always out of jealousy. Got some cousins right now that don’t invite me to anything since I got married. I was their whipping girl, the one they gossipped about not having a man and saying one would never want me! I made sure I sent them a wedding announcement with my beautiful new family picture! They are beyond peeved!LOL!!

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
12:43 pm

I asked because I guess my energy level diminishes at the onsite of my “aunt flo”…So this morn the beau texts me asking how I was feeling and said I wasn’t myself last night so he was giving me some “me time”…said it was all good because he “knew what time it was’ ??? Now I know I didn’t have an attitude or anything but I was a bit lethargic and quiet. I just thought it strange that he picked up on that…

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
12:44 pm

disco – I would say that was mild funny joke :lol: That’s happened to me where it took a while to realize why i was so freaking hot when usually i’m the cold one

disco

July 3rd, 2012
12:49 pm

kimmie – just this week a guy was saying to me how he wishes I could meet a lot of his relatives. going on and on about how open and warm and loving they are and blah blah blah. Instead of rolling with it, me being me, I told him that it’s all good if folks like me but I’m not the chick to go out of my way to try to get folks to like me. if we get along, great. if we don’t they can kick rocks.

slim – most folks did think it was funny. I wouldn’t have been tickled at all. in fact I might have been leaning towards anger and it’s so not worth it in the name of a prank.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
12:49 pm

WD – Do you ever notice a change in behavior with your Mrs either before or after her monthly?

Bluzgirl

July 3rd, 2012
12:51 pm

Disco…I think that is funny! I hope the hubby found it funny and has found a way to get back at her!

Slim…I definitely believe in it! I think that may be my problem right now with being moody. Usually, no one else can tell, though, that I’m PMS’ing. I try not to be any different to others. I definitely get moody and crave red meat and chocolate!!!

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
12:55 pm

“do yall believe PMS is real or a myth? (fellas feel free to provide your feedback)” – I think a can or worms has been opened.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
12:56 pm

kimmie – also re your not being able to get a man (according to your cousins) how come one of my cousins got married way back when and my son and brother were infatuated with the idea of riding in a limo. they went on and on about riding in a limo. my mother said they could ride in a limo when I got married and both kids were like “yeah right. like that’s going to happen”. my mother, not making it any better, chimed in that eventually someone would die and they could ride in the funeral limo. to this day we still joke about that.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
12:56 pm

Before my cycle, I’m eating everything in sight…namely sweets, I’m super “ahem” and I’m (sometimes) mean…it’s real

disco – I laughed at the heating the seat issue but maybe playing too much in this weather.

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
12:57 pm

Slim?

PMS..so ur perfomance was not stella last nite and beau picked on it?

ofcourse he would…..

why u want us to comment on ur pre-PMS perfomance anyway Slim? :lol:

good merning MIA!

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
12:59 pm

Brat – hey what’s up with you?
Disco – that’s was funny and just a clean prank. Why so serious?

Slim – yes its real and yes I pay attention and know the schedule. Selfishly I plan some me time around the monthly. Mean but a win win.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
1:06 pm

…but I was a bit lethargic and quiet. I just thought it strange that he picked up on that…” I hope you would find it a lot stanger if he hadn’t picked up on it. Men should know when their woman’s personality has shifted (good or bad). It shows that they are paying attention and are intune and can recognize when things aren’t necessarily centered.

That’s a good thing, SlimUno.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
1:07 pm

Cel/Bluz – I had a nice big piece of cheese cake last night and I didn’t want to be bothered while I ate it :lol:

Bluzgirl

July 3rd, 2012
1:09 pm

Slim…that’s making my mouth water! I have to go to the grocery store tonight and I’ll be buying some ice cream!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
1:10 pm

Before my cycle, I’m eating everything in sight…

Your body’s preparing itself for a baby…NOT saying your going to have one mind you..but certain hormones are released that increases appetite.

my energy level diminishes at the onsite of my “aunt flo”…

That’s because of loss of..well you know. Red blood cells contain oxygen that provides energy so when you lose them you lose energy as well…

Between the hormones fluxing in and out of control that time can definitely bring out a certain amount of cattiness in some people…some moreso than others..

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
1:11 pm

Slim – Just the thing you needed and the exact way you should have felt…lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
1:13 pm

Men should know when their woman’s personality has shifted (good or bad).

Yep that’s indeed a good thing…but also there are chemicals(pheromones) we give off without even know it and that can stimulate or repulse a mate depending on where a woman is in her cycle and other things..

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
1:14 pm

can stimulate or repulse a mate – the visual of repulsing a man has me near tears from laughing.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
1:16 pm

Does that make you want to somehow bottle some to keep away the trolls Leggs? :lol:

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
1:18 pm

Yes, Sassy, Yes!

cba

July 3rd, 2012
1:18 pm

My wife was bragging too much to her daughter that her “aunt flo” days were over. Then last week….knock,knock…aunt flo returned!! The first time this year!!
Side note: During the years, I’ve had two or three women that I worked with would tell me, “it’s that time of month”. To myself, I would say, “why are you telling me that”.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
1:23 pm

The first time this year!!

I know she must’ve been like :shock:

Leggs you ain’t right :lol: That being said, I wonder if someone’s ever thought of some type of spray, much akin to but spray, that would do that? A long time ago I remember seeing pheromone commercials advertising it so if they can do that then…

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
1:27 pm

cba – My sister is ten years older than me and going through menopause. Same thing happened to her a couple of months back. She hadn’t seen aunt flo in months and there she came aknocking

czBrat

July 3rd, 2012
1:28 pm

not much, willie. thanx for the luv :) wishing you and the fam a safe and wonderful holiday!

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
1:30 pm

Sassy – Are you answering these questions while wearing a white lab coat, hair tied in a bun and glasses? Just asking, plz don’t mess up the visual (smile)

cba

July 3rd, 2012
1:32 pm

I need to do some research on menopause because I’ve heard horror stories. I don’t want to move into the basement prematurely (lol)
I must admit so far so good, but this is a loooooooooooong process.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
1:33 pm

Leggs – I didn’t even think of it that way so you do have a point. Other than being a bit quiet, I didn’t think I was acting different.

Sassy – Thanks for the lesson but how do we explain the extreme bout of h0rniness pre-flow?? lol

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
1:34 pm

@cba ~ they probably wasn’t just letting you know all willy nilly. Probably trying to explain why some things may have gone awry at the office. You know, threw a stapler at someone, or dropped a box of paperclips and left them there, etc.

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
1:34 pm

Brat – We (my whole team) coming to your house for bbq. What time?

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
1:35 pm

Sassy – Good stuff girlie

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
1:35 pm

“…much akin to but spray” – no doubt but spray would do the trick, probably a helluva lot better than “bug” spray. :lol: :lol: :lol:

i'm swiss

July 3rd, 2012
1:35 pm

Sassy — They’ve already made such a spray. It’s called “Sex Panther.” 60% of the time, it works every time.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OThqZEMBf7M

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
1:36 pm

cba – In other words “duck” or steer clear…lol

i'm swiss

July 3rd, 2012
1:38 pm

“It smells like Bigfoot’s d_ck” :lol: :lol: :lol:

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
1:39 pm

Translation: Run!!

cba

July 3rd, 2012
1:39 pm

Leggs, I was sorta thinking that way…..they were giving me a head’s up :lol:

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
1:41 pm

swiss – Isn’t that panther p!ss???

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
1:43 pm

As far a pheremones go, aren’t we all attracted to different ones…like we don’t all have the same chemistry so not sure if spraying Big Foot juice on your will attract anything other than flies and gnats. I’ve heard of chick dabbing some of their own juice on the pulse points to attract more men

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
1:43 pm

YAY, we get to dip at 3!! :D

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
1:54 pm

but how do we explain the extreme bout of h0rniness pre-flow??

As I’ve said earlier with regards to the increase in appetite…close to the same thing. Every month our bodies prepare for a baby and when it doesn’t happen…here comes Auntie. On a very basic human nature level our bodies(evolution is amazing..I love science) are trying to get pregnant so that’s why we get super h0rny around that time…also keep in mind that certain hormones we have being are being released…some more than others that help in trying to get pregnant. Ever wonder why some women close to menopause get extra h0rny?…or why women reach their sexual prime right BEFORE menopause…cause the body knows it’s reproductive years are ending and it’s once again aiming at procreation. NOT that you’re actively trying to get pregnant…it’s just years of evolution.

I see you Leggs…and yes “but ” spray would do just as good a job :lol:

Willie D…yes I am (SMILE)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
2:01 pm

Enter your comments here

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
2:02 pm

Sassy – oh my dayum (not-smiling, I’m focused now) keep talking.

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
2:03 pm

So Slim, when u get pre-PMS h0rnyness, u take an advil or u get VVIP treatment? :lol:

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
2:05 pm

I meant, wih the accompnaying PMS headache Slim?

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:06 pm

Exiled – You always manage to tie in some form of sex act into any topic.

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
2:08 pm

disco – That’s funny about the limo. And the dude with the family thing too!LOL!! Thing is, when it comes to me & folks families, like any other social setting, I don’t sweat it. I just be myself and either they can roll with it or not. I can fit in anywhere and make the most of it. I’m not jumping thru hoops to “make” anyone like me though.

I really would rather talk about anything, root canals even, than anyone’s cycle. Really you guys, especially with dudes? :shock: Even though I’m a woman, I really don’t have any patience with other women’s hormonal mood swings. And in the workplace, I feel all women kind of get lumped in that same catagory – too emotional to handle anything so we get no respect. Count me out of that – I handles mine, nobody would ever know and that’s how it should be. Credit my mom for that!

disco

July 3rd, 2012
2:09 pm

willie D – I think I mentioned on here that I’m not into the practical jokes. as far as I’m concerned they are all playing too much. imo, jokey joke types need to be with other jokey joke types. I’d leave a man that was always pranking me because I’d be ticked off all the time or plotting revenge. revenge for me wouldn’t be a counter joke, revenge for me

Celisea/cba – re aunt flo making those sporadic mid-life appearances. That’s how those late life accident/surprise/blessing/miracle babies get here.

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
2:11 pm

I didnt mean sex Slim…

I meant a massage! :lol:

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:14 pm

That’s how those late life accident/surprise/blessing/miracle babies get here

It’s never over until Aunt Flo says it’s over. lol My mom is going through menapause and all the hot flashes that come with it

disco

July 3rd, 2012
2:15 pm

kimmie – I know countless chicks who let their mother in laws take them through the ringer. also know many who bend over backwards trying to impress the in-laws before they are even legally in-laws. to each his own but I’m not the one. I try to make sure guys understand that going in. not saying I’m going in to disrespect your momma but I don’t have a problem reminding him and/or her that she’s not my momma.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
2:18 pm

slim – I met a lady who didn’t want children. took precautions her entire adult life. thought she went through menopause and the coast was clear only to discover she was expecting and a routine doctor’s visit. she was heartbroken and devastated. approaching 50 and about to have her first child.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:21 pm

disco – A friend of mine told me that happened to her SIL. The chick already had kids that were grown and here she was 45 (i believe) about to have another kid. She was severely depressed.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:26 pm

Exiled – The only massage given was that of my tongue licking the strawberry topping off my spoon when eating my cheesecake ;-)

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
2:26 pm

Disco? how about just treating folks same way,whether its mother in law or not?

Mother in law does not connort special treatment…just treat her same way u wld treat ur mum,hopefullly respectfully.

Now, some chic will treat a mum in law waaay specil coz she thinks mum in law will say a word to her son so she can marry her..thats different but it happens.

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
2:27 pm

that of his tongue licking…….

cake cake cake cake…..

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
2:27 pm

not saying I’m going in to disrespect your momma but I don’t have a problem reminding him and/or her that she’s not my momma.

Okay?!?!

thought she went through menopause and the coast was clear

The change of life happens in stages and could last for upwards of 10+ years…menopause has four main stages(pre,peri,meno and post) and there’s no set time as for duration. Doctors usually advise women that they may follow their mother’s pattern…they may follow but that’s not quite etched in stone either. So that poor lady thought she was in the clear and ended up with a bun in her oven…

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
2:28 pm

disco – The worst I’ve dealt with regarding dude’s moms are the dudes themselves – mama’s boys. One dude’s mom would call over to my apt looking for him! Another would use “having” to go see his mom as an cover for his extracurricular activities. I had no trouble letting them know what wusses they were. The last one in particular, I let know I hope he didn’t think throwing “mama” out to me all the time made my expectations of him any less, that somehow that is supposed to stop me in my tracks. He looked at me like I had 2 heads, but I think deep down he seemed to respect me more.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
2:29 pm

ex – duh!!!! I get that. I’m just saying that not every chick does get it.

sassy – okay is right. not everybody’s momma is a sweet, little old lady. some of these mothers are straight beeyotches.

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
2:33 pm

Exiled – I’m with you – I treat everyone kindly, moms are no exception. I never did that “extra” ish to a boyfriend’s mom, thinking she’d get him to marry me. I respected all of them too much to think they couldn’t see thru that mess. Plus, I didn’t want anyone marrying me out of pressure from anyone. If you are not man enought to decide on your own, miss me!

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
2:34 pm

not everybody’s momma is a sweet, little old lady. some of these mothers are straight beeyotches.

disco – I second that!!

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:34 pm

not everybody’s momma is a sweet, little old lady

Lil Scrappy’s mom comes to mind :lol:

cba

July 3rd, 2012
2:36 pm

Ms cba took that oops out of the equation many years ago.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
2:37 pm

The worst I’ve dealt with regarding dude’s moms are the dudes themselves – mama’s boys

Tell me about it..what’s worse are the widowed mothers who act like their sons are their men and NOT their sons…they act as if they trump EVERY other woman in his life at ALL times, regardless if he’s married or not. It’s almost like a competition of sorts…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
2:39 pm

Lil Scrappy’s mom comes to mind

I’m sure she does..her and Keisha Coles mom and Jim Jones’ mom,too…

Speaking of lil Scrappy’s mom..I’d never get on national tv and tell anyone my mama used to deal dope and pimp women…

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
2:40 pm

Sassy – That’s the ultimate dealbreaker. If you can’t get your mom, grandmama or whomever in check(respectfully), I gots no time for ya. My own mom cut the apron strings a very long time ago!

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
2:45 pm

not everybody’s momma is a sweet, little old lady

Lil Scrappy’s mom comes to mind

Now, that is funny…that woman is straight hood. Probably walk around with blades in her hair, under her tongue, between her fingers.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:46 pm

Leggs – She told Scrappy he needed to ‘handle that’ in reference to Stevie J calling his BM a biyah biyah

disco

July 3rd, 2012
2:48 pm

and to think I was sitting here thinking “who the heck is lil scrappy”. I should have known y’all wouldn’t leave me hanging.

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
2:49 pm

Can yall imagine a young chick all lovey dovey with a dude going to meet the future MIL and its Disco? Hahaha

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
2:49 pm

Something is gravely wrong with Stevie J. You would think Mama Dee raised his pimpish, short, egotistical self.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
2:54 pm

willie d – my son and brother have already both (jokingly?) decided that they will put their final contenders to the test by not only doing the “meet the family” thing but by leaving the chicks alone. if they can hang and/or defend themselves, then they are keepers. if they cry or call for help they don’t make the cut. lol.

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
2:57 pm

I wonder how Stevie was brought up

SlimUno

July 3rd, 2012
3:00 pm

You all enjoy the holiday, be safe and don’t get caught slippin while sippin… ;-)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:11 pm

She told Scrappy he needed to ‘handle that’ in reference to Stevie J calling his BM a biyah biyah

And of course you know he did it…I’m wondering why the baby’s mama told Scrappy any way…she had this really smug smile on her face while he was talking about wanting to “put these paws on him”. She never should’ve told him and if she did there was a way for her to diffuse the situation…his mom could’ve calmed him down,too, instead of hyping him up for foolishness…AND he’s on probation at that…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:15 pm

I wonder how Stevie was brought up

I’on know but I was wondering what he had to make ol girl stay with him for 15 years and NOT be married…even Joseline was like, “He’s the best I ever had”…I suspected it was the hammer. Well I read an article on ESSENCE talking about the same thing…the article literally said it’ the D(for real y’all). I didn’t know he’s the guy Eve made that sex tape with and from what I read that “D” had her gone in the head somthin awful…that must be an impressive hammer but that shouldn’t be the end all be all..

Exiled!

July 3rd, 2012
3:19 pm

Sassy..had to laugh at ur descitpiton of the hammer!

woooooo! :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:23 pm

The thing that surprised me Ex is the fact that there’s an article about it…I mean he’s literally hit those women over the head with it(pun so intended)…

Robert

July 3rd, 2012
3:24 pm

“What happens when nobody likes your mate? ”

Last year my 25 yr. old daughter came to my house for a 4th of July “Bar-b-que”. She told me she was bringing her new boyfriend. To my surprise the boyfriend was an older man, and he had the nerve to dress and act like a younger man in his 20-30’s. He wore a baseball cap, blue jeans and sneakers (Bama). My daughter knows how I feel about older men dating younger women. She is too young to date a 40 year old man. When he came inside my house he forgot to show respect and remove his baseball cap which is very disrespectful. You do not come into my house and show no respect. My daughter saw me looking at him like he was a “thug” ready to find a reason to kick his ass. She removed his baseball cap off his head and asked to see me in private. She realized the pressure I was about to put on him and asked him to leave.

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
3:24 pm

Even the best of yall/us get puddy whipped or dic-ktamized. But 15 yrs dayum.

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
3:28 pm

So now we get the story. A wannabe thug/bama is knocking off Roberts lil girl. Maybe dude shouldv’e came in the house drinking scotch wearing a fedora.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:29 pm

Exactly Willie…15 yrs is a looong time to be sprung…

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:31 pm

</strongthe boyfriend was an older man, and he had the nerve to dress and act like a younger man in his 20-30’s. He wore a baseball cap, blue jeans and sneakers (Bama).

This explains a lot. The issues with jeans and a baseball cap and calling folks bama…noooow I get it.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
3:31 pm

willie d – funny.

robert – you should appreciate a fake thug (and an older – more mature? – one at that). she could have brought home a real thug and that little scenario could have gone left in a hurry. lol.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:32 pm

He wore a baseball cap, blue jeans and sneakers (Bama).

GASP!!

How dare he come to a BAR-B-QUE dressed like it was some casual event?!…the nerve of him..

Maybe dude shouldv’e came in the house drinking scotch wearing a fedora.

And he should’ve had on a blazer with the patches on the elbow and an ascot in the upper pocket…

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
3:32 pm

He might have gotten a better reception, WillieD. Nonetheless, remove your hat. Especially man to man!! Don’t come crossing my threshold like we’re equals.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
3:34 pm

I understand the snobbish side of Robert, however, you should remove your hat when walking into someone’s house.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:35 pm

It’s a gentleman thing.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
3:35 pm

sassy – my son broke out his corduroy jacket with leather patches when we went home to visit once. my brother and cousins were clowning him big time. he was in high school at the time but that was how he liked to dress. my family accused me of turning him into a “carlton”. lol. of course, those particular cousins think they are dressed up when their sneakers match their jersey so you know their opinions don’t mean jack.

disco

July 3rd, 2012
3:37 pm

gentleman thing or not it’s apparent robert had already judged dude. I don’t think removing the hat wouldn’t have made much difference.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:39 pm

disco – Natually….he was bama

I see I need to chat with ITL…disappearing for weeks at a time is NOT the twinly thing to do…lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:40 pm

I don’t think removing the hat wouldn’t have made much difference.

Cosign..I understand that men should remove their hats upon entering any home that’s not theirs but it sounded as though he got profiled for his attire…

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:42 pm

naturally…

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
3:43 pm

I agree it probably wouldn’t have made a difference…his first strike was 15 years older than his daughter. Of course it’s downhill from there.

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
3:44 pm

Maybe its a pecking order thing. Robert can ask dude to leave but at the end of the night cue the music Boom chicka wow wow. Even older dudes have to know there place. It may not have been a sign of disrespect, maybe dude just forgot to take off his hat. You go all Winston Churchill on the dude and then he goes John holmes on your baby girl.then you come on here talking bout capa and bamas. Maybe lil mama don’t wantr tea and cucumber sandwiches. Maybe she wants 8 tracks and 6 packs. IJS

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:45 pm

Dern General Hospital still comes on???

disco

July 3rd, 2012
3:45 pm

and somehow all of this is dude’s fault. lol. just earlier we were talking about the daughter’s role in these shenanigans. sounds like the daughter tossed dude under the bus. seems like if she was really into him she would have had one of those “let me tell you about my daddy” talks. she may have been using dude to get at daddy for something else. just me and my “conspiracy theories”.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:49 pm

Maybe lil mama don’t wante tea and cucumber sandwiches. Maybe she wants 8 tracks and 6 packs. IJS

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Willie!!!!

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
3:51 pm

Yeah, of course he had on the “thug” uniform! LOL!!!

Robert – do you think your daughter was trying to get a rise out of you? I mean think about it. You’ve come on here several times talking about your disdain for sneaks, jeans & baseball caps. Surely your daughter knows your stance on this. The fact that she would bring dude to the house dressed like that & he’s much older to boot lets me think she’s trying to be a rebel.

I mean, I spoke earlier of my family & how they rolled I brought dates around. No, they did not like all of them, but it was never because they were not presentable. I never would have darkened my parents door with some thugged out dude, real or wannabe! I’m not crazy!LOL!!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:52 pm

Yeah disco…she should’ve given him the daddy disclaimer. I do it when I take a man to meet my mom…I’m like, “Look once you meet my mom you’ll see where I get it from”, and all goes well. She’s cool but if you get out of your lane she’s got that “act right” to help straighten you out..

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:53 pm

Robert’s daughter is an adult and she needs to date the person she’s happy with. Most times it’s not going to be what you would prefer but if she’s an adult and old enough to make her own decisions as well as deal with her own consequences, sometimes you gotta let ‘em ride it out. He could very well see something she couldn’t or can’t still and even so it’s her life and her decisions to make. He’s not going to able to police her selection in mates nor beat folks up because he’s not pleased. Again she’s the one to decide AND LIVE WITH IT. He can advise and be there but he shouldn’t interfer. Usually being like that tend to make things go further left anyway.

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
3:53 pm

disco, looks like you & I are on the same page about dude!! Yep, a conspiracy!!LOL!!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:54 pm

Willie you forgot the pimento cheese sandwiches :mrgreen:

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
3:56 pm

As long as it’s not blatant disrespect and abuse then he should let it be and talk to her about it later. But greasing up and about to brawl won’t do anything but make things worse.

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
3:59 pm

Hahaha, really not trying to be contrary wit Robert bout his lil princess but I think she’s not as luily white as he is. But it is what it is.
Pimento cheese sandwiches but of course only with the crust trimmed.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
3:59 pm

Alright y’all have a grrrreat holiday!!!!!!!!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

July 3rd, 2012
4:00 pm

Pimento cheese sandwiches but of course only with the crust trimmed.

I heart you Willie :oops: :lol:

Bye!!

kimmie

July 3rd, 2012
4:01 pm

See ya gang! Be safe!

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:01 pm

Older men dating younger women, dang what I miss

Willie Dynamite

July 3rd, 2012
4:03 pm

See ya ladies, enjoy ya holiday

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:03 pm

Now that’s what I was thinking, apparently he was her type or she wouldn’t have brought him home..but anyway I’m out as well…

Happy 4th folks

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:14 pm

anybody here????

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:23 pm

everybody’s gone home leggs you left wit lil ol me

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:26 pm

Just the way you said it, with your eyes shifting ever so makes me feel unsafe…

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:27 pm

how could you tell my eyes was shifting(hee hee hee)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:32 pm

:lol: :lol: I figured as much.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:32 pm

comer, you want a lolipop little girl (LOL)

disco

July 3rd, 2012
4:33 pm

i’m still here too.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:33 pm

I got 2 lolipops (LOL)

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:34 pm

I got two lollipops (LOL)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:35 pm

nice to see you disco…. :lol:

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:36 pm

Single, whatcha gonna do with 2 fiesty women?

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:37 pm

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:38 pm

I want no part of lollipopping but I’m watching y’all…play clean nice

disco

July 3rd, 2012
4:38 pm

LOL single. that there was a good one. leggs – maybe you should have asked him what he wasn’t going to do.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:39 pm

why Celisea, I’ve got a big red one for you :-) )

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:40 pm

Nuh uh…my mama said don’t take candy from strangers :mrgeen:

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:41 pm

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:41 pm

Die happy

:lol: :lol: :lol: Good answer.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:41 pm

disco ~ w/Celisea saying play clean, I’m afraid to ask what he wants “to do.”

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:43 pm

I want to see you guys lick the lollipop, all in good clean fun :-D

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:44 pm

Celisea, hello my name is chester, now I’m not a stranger

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:44 pm

Heck, you may get better enjoyment watching us eat an ice cream cone.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:45 pm

Chester Chester as in child _______??? That’s worse :evil:

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:45 pm

Now, if it’s a blow pop, maybe. But a regular lollipop, not so much.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:45 pm

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm heaven

disco

July 3rd, 2012
4:46 pm

single and happy – not me. i tend to bite. lol.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:46 pm

the’re blow pops :-D

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:46 pm

y’all ever watched Identical Twins? I got it from Red Box, had never heard of it and started to drift while watching but I think this might be good.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:47 pm

mmm I like biters

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:48 pm

My bad, I jumped in between lollipopping…

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:49 pm

no problem Celisea, I know you wanted the big red one

disco

July 3rd, 2012
4:50 pm

I’m sure someone once said that to lorena Bobbitt. you might want to re-evaluate.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:51 pm

oh you said red box, my bad

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:52 pm

fresh and funny eh?

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:53 pm

Celisea, you are a nut, but that was FUNNY!

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:54 pm

dirty old man (LOL)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:54 pm

The two people I now work for (assigned to a new lawyer here last week) just informed me that we are the only 3 people left…WTF! Somebody release me…..

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:55 pm

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:56 pm

Single and Happy – Three words I LOVE to say…you said it though not me :)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
4:57 pm

Which one, Celisea “single and happy” or “dirty old man?

:lol:

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:58 pm

i’m both (LOL)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
4:58 pm

Leggs – LOLOLOL….both Maybe that’s the happy to his single

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
4:59 pm

I’m the guy that shows up with Roberts daughter (LOL)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:00 pm

Single and Happy – You know…pervert easily comes to mind if you’re single and happy and a dirty old man and proud of it. Don’t get me wrong, not saying you are…just saying

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:01 pm

now why would I be a pervert?

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:02 pm

Single ~ long as you don’t dance like an old man doing that “dirty old man” dance, you might be ok??

disco

July 3rd, 2012
5:02 pm

y’all are crazy. single, happy, dirty and old. hmmmm.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:02 pm

ummm I might cause I don’t know what the dirty old man dance is

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:03 pm

Because perverts asks girls if they want a lollipop.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:03 pm

Single and Happy – I didn’t say you’re a pervert. It just comes to mind….lol Single and Happy what a way to be :mrgreen:

Leggs – What’s the dirtry old man dance? lol

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:04 pm

You know when older, much older women do that pelvic thrust dance, well, older men have a similar one that makes you sit in the corner saying “awwww, bless his little heart.”

I know, I know way too many commas…

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:05 pm

guess I’m pervert then (hee hee hee)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:05 pm

Don’t fret, Single. You’re safe, and so are we!

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:05 pm

man I haven’t seen that dance, I need to get out more often

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:06 pm

Why leggs cause I don’t want to mess up my keyboard (LOL)

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:07 pm

Hey what’s a good sunblock

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:07 pm

I’m kidding…I know nothing about you to call you a pervert. Or do I? I’M KIDDING!

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:08 pm

Because this is cyberworld…. :wink:

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:08 pm

Celisea you don’t remember that night (wink wink)

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:09 pm

I can be a cyber pervert, (providing you’re all over 25)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:09 pm

And in cyberworld, everybody and everything is perfect :)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:09 pm

I’m going to a 40th bday party tonight. I sure hope no one will be doing that dance either because I won’t be doing the pelvic thrust….

I am actually cracking myself up.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:10 pm

on a serious note, do any of you know a good sunblock for blacks

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:11 pm

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:11 pm

Leggs you turning back to bday clock (LOL)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:12 pm

Ut oh…..in this movie there are identical twins…one good one evil and both in love with the same girl. Well the evil brother just made mad intense love with the girl whereas she thought to be making love with the brother. He said I love you and she said I love you too, (other brother’s name) and he’s is NOT a happy camper. Not sure why he’s mad, he went in pretending to be the other brother. He’s a nut job

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:12 pm

Naw, I never turn the block back. I love my age, how I’m aging, everything. I’m good! No shame in my game over here.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:12 pm

Most that I see says it helps you get a better tan, I don’t have a problem getting that (LOL) Hell did’t believe I could burn until last year

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:12 pm

turn the CLOCK….

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:13 pm

hmm you never turn the block away (rotflmao)

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:14 pm

He’s mad because he wants what his brother has and when he actuallys fools someone, he’s mad because he’s an IDIOT! Why get mad if your plan is working?

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:14 pm

I know what you mean about the age, it only get’s better with time.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:14 pm

Single and Happy you’re fifty right? You’re just now asking about sunblock? You mentioned the other day getting your tan. You’ve been tanning all this time with no sunblock? I personally don’t use it because I’m not sunbathing but I don’t know. I only buy sunblock when heading out for vacation and I just buy whatever someone tells me to buy

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:15 pm

Single ~ must admit I laughed when I read that too re: block. Thought of gangbanging…sorry, but I did.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:15 pm

Leggs – Exactly. He a real nut though. He killed his mom

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:16 pm

They’re doing it again!!!!

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:17 pm

Celisea I haven’t been tanning to get a tan, it just happens but last year is the first time that I actually burned. I think my cousin jinxed me, cause she told me to get some sun block and I told her black folks don’t burn

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:18 pm

Doing what, acting like rabbits in heat????

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:18 pm

Ut oh….he’s got a gun now. He started choking her and screaming I love you. She knocked him over the head and got away…now he’s caught her again but this time he has a gun. She’s saying what he wants to hear now.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:18 pm

Celisea, now what redbox did you get that movie from Starship Enterprises??

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:18 pm

If so, he may have the mindset some women have…if he impregnates her she’ll stay (after finding out the truth).

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:19 pm

Single and Happy – Oh, okay…

Leggs – End of that…he shot her. The real meaning of I love you to death.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:19 pm

Play by play, gotta love it. She needs to tell him what he wants to hear all the while blowing in his ear…

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:20 pm

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:20 pm

He shot her, but did he kill her???

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:20 pm

Leggs, some men have that mindset too. also I was just imagining them lining up a around the block (LOL)

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:20 pm

Single and Happy – As much as I’m sure it will tickle you, nope I don’t do Starship. Are they still in business?

Leggs – He is one crazy joker.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:21 pm

Damn, if I can’t have you, nobody can

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:21 pm

Single, that’s what I said, perhaps he has the mindset some women have.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:22 pm

Yes they’re still open, sex sells

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:22 pm

Leggs – Yes, she’s dead. She was trying everything and he was agreeing with her (in all her sweet nothings) but he shot her anyway. Right now he’s visiting his dad and his dad is telling him somehow killing his mom was an accident but he knows better. The dad is aged and living in a retirement home.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:22 pm

No one said “around” the block…I said on the “block”…big, big difference. I know how long a block is!!!

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:23 pm

Single and Happy – You got it. That’s graveyard love

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:23 pm

okay leggs, you know i’m little slow

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:23 pm

He might as well snuff the dad who knows about the killing.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:24 pm

oh okay leggs so when it gets to the corner that’s it, the sign goes out “this lane closed”

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:25 pm

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:25 pm

wait the dad killed the mom, the whole dang family is crazy

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:25 pm

Okay I’m going to need to watch this all over again. I fell asleep for a few minutes and apparently I missed some important stuff. He’s recalling some of the deeds in his life and he’s now talking (or thinks he’s talking) to his brother.

Ohhhh snap, there isn’t a twin brother. He conjured him up…ohhh snap

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:26 pm

“graveyard love” very appropriate!

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:26 pm

Leggs, man I hate when that happens and i’m just walking up

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:26 pm

Celisea ~ I am laughing so hard at you…

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:27 pm

Nooo he’s been doing all the killings Mom, Carla (some tramp he took home thinking it was Shelly) and Shelly. Well he’s in his apartment talking to a chair. There’s no one in the chair but he’s seeing a person

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:27 pm

Celisia, yea you missed alot

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:27 pm

Single, why you even thinking about walking up behind all the others…just greedy little prick.

Sorry, not calling you a prick, just got carried away with the scene!

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:28 pm

I feel like I’m there with you Celisea.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:28 pm

I feel like I’m there with you Celisea.

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:29 pm

WOW, I haven’t dbl posted in a long time.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:29 pm

Danggit – He killed himself…at the voice of the other person. Okay I’m soooo confused now. Shelly was making love to him thinking it was the other brother but when he went to look at his birth certificate it only showed one birth. His dad told him to go look at the birth certificate. The imaginery brother dared him and he killed himself.

Okaaaay, I’m going to have to watch this all over again.

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:29 pm

so the son killed his mother and the dad knew it wasn’t an accident, how he getting away with killing all these people

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:30 pm

Leggs little prick, are you sure we haven’t meet

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:30 pm

Single and Happy and Leggs – I’ve probably mislead y’all…lol I’m totally confused. But yes, he’s dead. All the other stuff I can’t concretely answer until I play it over. Yes, I apparently missed a lot while I napped.

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:31 pm

What time are y’all leaving?? I hope there’s rib shack open somewhere tomorrow. I’m thinking Dreamland

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:32 pm

so he was really whacked

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:32 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Glad you took that in stride.

Thanks everyone for letting these last 30 mins fly by. Have a Happy 4th and do something good for a stranger. Buy them a soda, burger, something. Don’t mean to imply all strangers are homeless, but you get my drift!

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:32 pm

Did disco leave?

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:32 pm

I’m leaving now….

PEACE!

Celisea

July 3rd, 2012
5:33 pm

Single and Happy – Yep…looney and now dead.

Well folks I guess I’m signing off now

Leggs

July 3rd, 2012
5:34 pm

Dang, at least I’m saying bye…disco just quietly marched out. I know it’s the 4th, but she didn’t need to march out…

Single and Happy

July 3rd, 2012
5:34 pm

good day all