Dating: Faking it?
One of the many challenges of a new relationship is figuring out the other person’s quirks. You can only put your best foot forward so long before you have to let it all hang out. This can be a great thing, though! Well, until you start to wonder what was real and what was fake.
You know I always say that you meet the person’s “dating representative” in the first couple of weeks of dating them. The dating rep is supposed to reel you in, but what happens when the rep leaves?
A friend of mine is trying to determine how much was real and how much is fake in his new woman. Specifically, he is wondering if she was faking the Big O – early in the relationship, or is she faking it now. Apparently, there are stark differences and he doesn’t know what to make of it.
Would you want to know if someone was faking it in bed? Do you think you would come out and ask if they were?
When it comes to sex and dating, where does the real vs. fake come into play before you know the real person? How do you know when someone is being authentic or fake with you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta.
P.S. I am officially spinsterlicious!! It’s my birthday! Thanks for all the wonderful birthday wishes, you guys are the best!
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Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:05 pm
Celisea, hmmm something exciting and new, is awaiting you
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:05 pm
Single and Happy – I don’t put ANY stock in fakers so that was a wash. No faking here
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:06 pm
….and I faked caring that Single and Happy had a stinky old timeshare. LOL
Leggs
June 28th, 2012
5:06 pm
You got that one, Single!
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:06 pm
Single and Happy – Too late, it’s already happening
Leggs
June 28th, 2012
5:06 pm
WOW…11 pages.
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:07 pm
On behalf of Single and Happy
“Touche Celisea”
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:07 pm
ITL my time share isn’t stinky, this is someone else’s stinky time share (LOL)
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:08 pm
I know, Leggs! How long has it been since that happened???
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:08 pm
(ITL poking her lip out) So! I still didn’t wanna go! Even if you did invite me.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:09 pm
ITL I’ll take you to my stinky time share with the ocean view (LOL)
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:10 pm
Alright all you lovely bloggers, it is time…night folks!
ITL – How it down girlie
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:10 pm
oh wait, ITL you are female right, don’t want to be like swiss (LOL)
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:10 pm
Dern it! Hold it down
Leggs
June 28th, 2012
5:11 pm
ITL I’ll take you to my stinky time share with the ocean view (LOL)
Can only see the BBWives planting fish in the bungelows….
Bluzgirl
June 28th, 2012
5:12 pm
Good night ya’ll
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:13 pm
Leggs oh know, there will be no drama (LOL)
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:14 pm
I knew what you meant, C. We have Twinkie Telepathy!
Have a good night, girl!
@Single – yup, I’m a girl. A girl who travels in 3’s.
Leggs
June 28th, 2012
5:14 pm
Ok, no drama..hope there’s a scene with the bed breaking like in Twilight or in John Legend’s song…
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:14 pm
Nite, Bluz! What’s your stay busy plan for the evening?
Leggs
June 28th, 2012
5:15 pm
A girl who travels in 3’s.
ITL ~ all you did was get their horns up…. well someone will have to sit on the side and be a voyeur.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:15 pm
dang does everything come in 3s, and if it’s 3 women, it will be okay (LOL)
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:17 pm
Leggs may not break any beds, but be on the balcony howling at the moon (LOL) not faking it
i'm swiss
June 28th, 2012
5:17 pm
Wait, what?
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:18 pm
@Leggs: ICK! My Zingers are family. I’m not watching either one of them do anything. Yucky.
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:18 pm
Leggs – John Legend’s song…whew boy!
ITL – That’s right girlie…I can trust to when I’m not looking to do the right thing. THAT’S RIGHT…IN 3’s
i'm swiss
June 28th, 2012
5:18 pm
I do believe I have been confused with another blogger.
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:19 pm
Night for real this time…
See you tomorrow twin twinkie
Leggs
June 28th, 2012
5:19 pm
Howling is good.
Oops, sorry, ITL, my mind went elsewhere.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:20 pm
Why did Celisea have to mention the love boat, can’t get that dang tune out my head now
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:21 pm
swiss, maybe I did, my bad
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:21 pm
Single and Happy – Read the words below
The love boat soon we’ll be making another run, the love boat promises something for everyone. Set a course for adventure your mind on a new roooomance…dat dat dat. And looove won’t hurt anymore….la la la, dat dat dat
Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:22 pm
I’m such a stinker
Okay for real…I’m logging off…by y’all
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:22 pm
Hope 3s bring some cash with them (LOL)
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:23 pm
Yea C, you wrong for that!! now go home!!
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:24 pm
Night, Twink! See you tomorrow!
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:27 pm
@Swissie – I don’t know what S&H was referring to…..WE ALL KNOW you are ALL MAN!!! Oh yeah (said in my best Randy Savage voice).
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:29 pm
ITL I was referring to someone that assumed I was a woman and was asking for a pic.
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:29 pm
Okay, I’m outta here. Y’all be sweet.
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:30 pm
(blushing) I thought you were, too, Sing. Sorry.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:32 pm
oh okay, ITL that’s why I had to ask, see what happens when you assume (LOL)
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:35 pm
Let me clarify – I thought you were until you started asking my Twink to go on vacation. Then, it was pretty clear.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:36 pm
ITL oh okay
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:37 pm
So, it seems like you joined the blog while I was on hiatus (buried in work). Tell me about yourself….
i'm swiss
June 28th, 2012
5:39 pm
Single — Ah, okay. I believe you’re thinking of Me.lo (aka Exiled).
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:40 pm
ITL I already have 3 strikes against me, short, bigheaded blue-collar (LOL) older gentleman,
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:41 pm
Well, welcome! It’s always nice to see new faces in here.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
5:43 pm
Thanks
Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets
June 28th, 2012
5:47 pm
And for the record, I don’t care what color someone’s collar is. It’s the content of your character, not the color of your skin, your collar, or anything else.
Single and Happy
June 28th, 2012
6:01 pm
ITL I know everyone isn’t like that, didn’t mean anything by it