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Dating: Faking it?

One of the many challenges of a new relationship is figuring out the other person’s quirks. You can only put your best foot forward so long before you have to let it all hang out. This can be a great thing, though! Well, until you start to wonder what was real and what was fake.

You know I always say that you meet the person’s “dating representative” in the first couple of weeks of dating them. The dating rep is supposed to reel you in, but what happens when the rep leaves?

A friend of mine is trying to determine how much was real and how much is fake in his new woman. Specifically, he is wondering if she was faking the Big O – early in the relationship, or is she faking it now. Apparently, there are stark differences and he doesn’t know what to make of it.

Would you want to know if someone was faking it in bed? Do you think you would come out and ask if they were?

When it comes to sex and dating, where does the real vs. fake come into play before you know the real person? How do you know when someone is being authentic or fake with you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta.

P.S. I am officially spinsterlicious!! It’s my birthday! Thanks for all the wonderful birthday wishes, you guys are the best!

552 comments Add your comment

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:45 pm

Yeah, yeah, yeah ;-)

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:45 pm

ITL – I’m hoping so…lol

Swiss – I hope it’s a SwissMochette

Single and Happy

June 28th, 2012
4:45 pm

Bluz if your dream is to visit London then visit, they have flight going there every day, don’t put your hopes on it working out with him, life is too short.

disco

June 28th, 2012
4:45 pm

y’all gone make me put “gazelle” in my rotation. I’ll be like “stop acting like a gazelle” or “that chick has gazelle written all over her”. I love a good code word.

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:46 pm

Woo hoo…10 pages before 5:)) again!!!

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:46 pm

Swiss – And do the MLB keep you company when y’all disappear??

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:46 pm

I’m sooo hungry

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
4:46 pm

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:43 pm
Cel…did you see where I said I was making a joke?

June 28th, 2012
4:44 pm
Bluzy – I did sug but I wasn’t really convinced. Love you

Celisea ~ I bit my tongue trying not to laugh.

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:47 pm

Leggs – I’m a stinker I know :twisted:

Okay, y’all got all the O’s out of me this week. If y’all (being the men) want Freaky Friday, bring it.

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
4:47 pm

Man, when the kid gloves come off…

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:47 pm

It seriously was a joke…like ITL said…poking fun at the situtaion.

I really have dreamed of going to London, as well as some other places in Europe. I’m not waiting for a man to take me. I just don’t have the funds to do it for a while. I’ve started a little travel savings account, so maybe I can go in a couple of years. My passport expires in 2 years and I haven’t used it once! It’s very sad…

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:48 pm

Oooh, Freaky Friday. I miss that. I still remember a certain encounter under a table in a restaurant….. Leggs, do you still have those stories?

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:49 pm

I CAN laugh at myself sometimes…remember the clown stuff? LOL

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:49 pm

Bluzy – Nuh uh, don’t you start that “it’s sad” stuff again. If it expires then travel domestically or get it renewed. It’s ain’t sad though.

SlimUno

June 28th, 2012
4:49 pm

I did sug but I wasn’t really convinced. Love you

Cel – That’s like when yo mama whoops your tail and tells you she does it because she loves you :lol:

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
4:49 pm

ITL, yes ma’am I have the stories filed away.

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:50 pm

Slim – Yep…I know right :) Bluzy is the blog’s baby right now.

Single and Happy

June 28th, 2012
4:50 pm

Bluz, you don’t have the funds, your passport expires in 2 years, and they last for 10 and you haven’t used it? Great reasons to stop dating losers and start concentrating on you!!

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:50 pm

@Slim: “This hurts me more than it hurts you….” Psht. The heck you say. Bend over and let me swing that switch a minute and then we’ll talk. :lol:

i'm swiss

June 28th, 2012
4:51 pm

C — I’ll be happy with a healthy SwissMocha(ette). Either way. (Although, secretly, I do kinda hope for a boy, because I think having another mini-Mrs. Swiss running around might kill me) :lol:

ITL — I’m a Lone Wolf. My Man Cave is a Fortress of Solitude. ;-)

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
4:51 pm

I have laughed, I have teared up, I have pinched the top of the bridge of my nose, and I have tsked, tsked, tsked today. Now, I’m leaving soon and going to get a lemon drop!

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:51 pm

Okay…it’s 4:50…I don’t want nobody tombout can you come see me at 5:00. I got stuck in here Tuesday doing a conference call at 5:00. We still have an unresolved issue and folks around here laughing and playing. I’m pulling up at 5:00

SlimUno

June 28th, 2012
4:51 pm

“that chick has gazelle written all over her”.

We need a word for a chick that is already road kill…road kill sounds a bit too harsh. Lions like to hunt fresh living prey…scavengers go for what’s already dead

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:52 pm

Cel…nah…not really sad. Just hoping I get to use it before it expires. My BFF and I are talking about taking a cruise within the year, so I guess I’ll get to have it stamped then! I just had to take it out for orientation for a part time job yesterday and chuckled because it looks brand new. I had hoped that by this point in my life, I would have already made it overseas…

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
4:52 pm

If you have a girl, that man cave is going to turn into a place to have tea parties…

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:52 pm

Bluzy – You see how Single and Happy said he was treating for our vacay? That’s the kind of man you go for. One that’s gonna take care of you with no hesitency

disco

June 28th, 2012
4:54 pm

baby my behind. bluz is a grown A woman. how’s that for keeping it real? lol.

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:54 pm

Single…I know, right?!?!?! If I hadn’t wasted time with the last loser, I’d probably have enough saved up to go! Oh well…working on it.

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:54 pm

Leggs – Get the porcelain tea set please :)

Swiss – As long as the baby is healthy, that’s all that matters. If it’s a girl though she’s gonna be soooooooo cute. And you’re gonna get PMS double :evil:

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:54 pm

disco – There you go again….lolololol Some days you are a riot.

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
4:55 pm

baby my behind. bluz is a grown A woman. how’s that for keeping it real? lol.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:56 pm

@slim: Vulture Vittles?? :lol: :lol: I am cracking myself up over here.

i'm swiss

June 28th, 2012
4:56 pm

Leggs / C — See now, you two keep thinking “girl” and when it happens, I’m gonna show up at your doors, asking if I can use y’alls toilet for some “me time.” :lol:

Single and Happy

June 28th, 2012
4:56 pm

bluz, are your eyes opening? you should never make sacrifices for yourself when given to another.

SlimUno

June 28th, 2012
4:56 pm

My Man Cave is a Fortress of Solitude

Until the lilswiss(ette) gets here….it’ll start off with a few toys here and there. Then the Powerwheels cars will be in there, then a chalkboard, then the alphabet wall banner, the two toys boxes and 3 book shelves….list goes on and on

disco

June 28th, 2012
4:56 pm

I just had to intervene. y’all tough love her and then reach in and give her a hug and coddle her. the hug and the coddle cancels out the tough love.

Bluzgirl

June 28th, 2012
4:58 pm

Single…my eyes have opened a lot since the breakup (even for a bit before when I didn’t want to admit it).

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:59 pm

@Swissie: How does the saying go? When you have a boy you worry about one peni$, when you have a girl you worry about ALL of them.

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:59 pm

Swiss – Because I understand being a girl, you’ll get a pass everytime to borrow the toilet…lol

Slim – Yeah he needs to scratch tryna have a man cave. First of all she’s gonna kidnap his heart so what ever lil mama says goes. There will be all kind of stuff in the man baby cave

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
4:59 pm

disco – So true. I just hate to slap her around and then not give her something to put on the bruise.

Single and Happy

June 28th, 2012
5:00 pm

yea bluz there are so many places you can go, domestically, but renew that passport and live your dream, you only get one chance at life, so make the best of it!!

disco

June 28th, 2012
5:01 pm

celisea – I come from the school of “walk it off”. lol.

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
5:01 pm

Man, this day has FLOWN by. Another day of hilarity in Blogville. :)

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
5:02 pm

Guess no one faked much of anything today!!!

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
5:03 pm

disco – Me too

Why am I hearing the Love Boat’s theme song behind Single and Happy’s post and heads moving from side to side and folks rocking in unisom? Just the music not the lyrics.

LOLOLOLOLOL

Into the Light....Celisea and Blackfoote - the Zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
5:03 pm

And I saw Dreams sneak in….I thought he would open the blog bar, but no such luck.

Leggs, if you weren’t halfway to Florida I’d come join you in a lemon drop. :)

Leggs

June 28th, 2012
5:03 pm

Let’s stop with the alphabet banner (LOL)…

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
5:04 pm

YOU CAN DO IT, YES YOU CAN :mrgreen:

Single and Happy

June 28th, 2012
5:04 pm

maybe (LOL) someone faked something, Celisea faked going on vacay with me, and I faked taking her (LOL)

Celisea....ITL and Blackfoote...the zinger triplets

June 28th, 2012
5:05 pm

ba domp domp…good one Single and Happy