There are few things more annoying than showing up to a date with absolutely no plans. Being spontaneous is fun, but you don’t want to spent a lot of date time “figuring out” what to do, where to go, how it will all go down.
So what is the best way to make solid plans so that you aren’t stuck doing something you both want to do? Research! It’s one of those cases where a little goes a long way. Asking important questions about what your date is into, finding out what events are happening in the city, can make things a bit easier.
I know the spontaneous ones like to “see how things unfold” and all the fun that comes with it. There are some perks to that, but there will come a time when spontaneous starts to resemble unorganized.
Do you plan out date nights in advance? Is it a good idea for women to let men know what activities they want to do? Would it be a turn off if a woman gave a list of things she likes to do for a date?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog