Best breakup advice?
I was getting my car checked for emissions the other day, and the technician randomly asked me for dating advice. He wanted to know what the best way to get over your ex.
Now I was surprised by a couple of things: How did emissions technician know I was a dating blogger? Men actually worry about this kind of thing too?
I have gone through a couple of break ups, so thankfully I have come a bit more resilient. I didn’t have many tips to offer the brokenhearted emissions guy. Time makes it a lot easier. Distractions are good. What is a good amount of time to get over a relationship that lasted years?
Some people think that men get over break ups faster, but I think they are just better at hiding their pain. What kind of things do you do when a relationship ends?
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Lily
June 26th, 2012
6:31 am
There isn’t a time or event or a day or a way or something in particular you can do. All the silliy answers of getting under another blah blah blah perpetuates whoring. Just move on the best way you can, time being the one thing that works in your favor. Stay busy and don’t keep hoping or wishing. You take your hands off and time will do the rest.
Don’t let it work on your psyche either. If he (or she) was a dog or trifling or no good, a liar or a pig, not worth you spitting on, they’ll be the same piece of crap of undisciplined nothing with the next person. People don’t flip over and change like that. Let them become the same nothing for the next. Rid yourself and free your space of negativity and bid them on. If you’re smart enough to sniff them and their deeds out, honey let someone else gladly have them. He or she will get the same, just initially wrapped in a different, same content though.
Lily
June 26th, 2012
6:42 am
I have someone that comes to mind as you can probably tell. lol Poor little chicken head is all I can think for the next woman. She’s pretty dumb but that’s her fault. I will also add having someone of quality come behind your “walking away” really helps. NOT jumping bones. Not the same. I said someone new, much better, a quality person. Someone that validates you and your decision to stand your ground and your decision to move on.
Yes, it definitely helps!
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
6:57 am
time heals all wounds, but getting hobbies really helps, basically getting a life that didn’t include that person.
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
7:48 am
Lily..for All ur morning moaning and beotching bout this ‘little’ somebody,the s e x was off da meter,I can tell. That counts for something so don’t be so bitter!
By the way Good morning!
So what did he do to U that left such a Big impression on U?
On topic: the best way to get over an ex..
If I benched the chick then there is Nothing to get over. I benched her! Ofcourse I can always s e x her if I want go back and get some.
If she benched me and I really wanted her like that,yes,find something even temporary,to house the ego untill such time when you get a more permanent starter.
A man can’t shave their hair,pubs,get tattoos, etc the way woman mourn and beyeotch when they get dropped.
At least women can get cats etc. Shave All ur head and nether hair coz u thinking of an ex? Please!
Man can’t do that!
Morning MIA!
Lily
June 26th, 2012
8:05 am
Exiled – Good morning! Surprisingly this has absolutly nothing to do with sex more so than how insulting the person became? I can’t help but respect a person for being who they are openly, even if I don’t agree. Just trust me and take my word when I speak to their actions being more insulting to a woman’s intelligence than the obvious issues of getting sexed and dumped. Absolutely nothing to do with sex!
Good try although you’re off the mark on this one. lol I did get a good tickle though from you this morning.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
8:09 am
“If he (or she) was a dog or trifling or no good, a liar or a pig, not worth you spitting on, they’ll be the same piece of crap of undisciplined nothing with the next person”
Lily wow that’s saying it with conviction.
I don’t know what to tell somebody after a break up with romance. If I did find something it would be cool your heels and don’t let heartache make you do something you normally wouldn’t. I’m here for the long haul today.
Good Morning:
Lily
June 26th, 2012
8:11 am
My morning break is over. I’ll have to peek back in once my shift has ended. See you later Exiled!
Lily
June 26th, 2012
8:12 am
Hello (and goodbye) Blackfoote
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
8:32 am
Lily @8:12 describes my love life in detail……LOL
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
8:36 am
Morning, all!
Wow, Lily said it!
And Blackfoote, I love this: cool your heels and don’t let heartache make you do something you normally wouldn’t.
PS: Blackfoote, what’s for breakfast?
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
8:43 am
Good Morning!
Having a balance life is the key to getting over a break-up quickly. That would include hobbies, friends, family, exercising, when you are busy their is less time to think about the break-up.
If that does not work try Man-Law Number 199. As Exiled would say “always have someone on the bench that is ready to get promoted to the starting line-up”
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
8:47 am
Hi there Light, I wanted to tell you I put 20 on black and it hit how about that. Breakfast will be catered in with love from Chic-fil-a today.
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
8:57 am
WOW! Congrats, BF!! I’ll send you my contact info, so you can mail my share. LOL
Mmmmm, Chick-fil-A. I dig their breakfast burrito.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
9:08 am
Light You got it!
MissMoni
June 26th, 2012
9:19 am
GOOD Tuesday Morning!
Getting over breakups is different for every person. Occupy yourself with something helpful and or useful. Continue to do you and move forward.
abc
June 26th, 2012
9:30 am
You don’t ever really get over it. You just accept it. Men are better at accepting reality, so it seems like we get over it faster.
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
9:31 am
Morning,
Ooooowee, look at Lily with all her girl power this morning! Don’t listen to Mmeello, big ups to you this morning…lol Whether you can directly relate or not, I understand being irked at those folks that’s made a life of operating under no conviction. That’s alright Lily, find solace in knowing for all the games people play no stone goes unturned. People yell “karma” but I like to call it like it is. Somewhere in their life, for every shovel of dirt tossed two shovels gets tossed back on them, reaping what was sowed. They ain’t got to tell you and you don’t have to see it but you can be certain it will come to pass.
Now, on topic: Like someone already said, I don’t have any advice either. There are a number of things that can come into play. Because of such, how you deal with something may not be what’s in the best interest in how the next person deals with it. So no, I can’t or won’t advise. For me, I like spending time with someone new and staying occupied. Out of sight, out of mind…and the sooner the better. I tend to stay a bit irked though if I have repeated encounters or reminders….lol
Think about it, if it’s the great love of your life and a keeper and maybe you caused the demise or something along the lines where the two of you couldn’t work it then naturally that’s going to hit pretty hard. If it’s some player peeing in the same field but on different trees, see it for what it is and skip and a smile. Be happy happy happy for the blessing of dodging that madness.
In essence, do what works for you and is best for you. Just don’t kill nobody or start shooting folks up. Sometimes you might want to but killing folks have repercussions…lol
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
9:33 am
Good morning.
One should keep themselves busy, not trolling for someone’s taco meat. Get your heart and mind in order then re-enter the dating world. If you’re in the “wallowing” stage, stay home and get out of your system. Time and quiet goes a long way.
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
9:35 am
ITL/Blackfoote – I like the breakfast burrito too. I always get my in a bowl though…it’s minus the shell
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
9:40 am
“If it’s some player peeing in the same field but on different trees, see it for what it is”
Cely I’m still crackin up.
Leggs how are you, have you had any wallowing days…….LOL
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
9:42 am
Blackfoote – LOL I tell you, I’m wondering if we were reared in the same neighborhood, on the same block…lol I just love folks that “get it”
Heeey, you didn’t bring us no breakfast!! Can I get my burrito in a bowl please?
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
9:43 am
Good morning and I’m already hungry for lunch
Mike P
June 26th, 2012
9:50 am
WD wrote: “He wanted to know what the best way to get over your ex…Men actually worry about this kind of thing too? Some people think that men get over break ups faster, but I think they are just better at hiding their pain.”
My reply: For a lot of men, we’ll enter into a relationship with a women that we actually do like, have feelings for, can see the possibilities with her and most importantly enjoy the sex. But lots of time the relationship will end (regardless of who’s at fault) before our hearts are “fully” vested into it; thus allowing us to rapidly moving on… So in this case, in our minds, its as if it was just another fugg-buddy “relationship” On to the NExt One! However; when our hearts are vested, whole different ball of wax!!!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
9:56 am
BF~ I don’t wallow much. I might get a little pissed at stupidity, but when I know it’s no fault of my own, I K.I.M…I don’t tend to wallow over something that wasn’t really anything.
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
10:02 am
(waving) Hey Cely, Leggs, and Slim!
C – I get mine in a bowl, too! We are so twinkies!!!
disco
June 26th, 2012
10:02 am
good morning. since I represent the ghetto faction on here I’ll say the first step in getting over someone (if you are the dumpee) is verbal assault. yell, scream, cuss, talk about their momma, their grandmomma and their funny looking little kids. second step is property damage/pranks. pour bleach on their clothes, spray paint their walls, slide sardines in the curtain rods and let them try to figure out what in the house is smelling so bad. third step is stalking. if you manage to get through the first three steps without criminal charges, consider yourself lucky and move on to step four: acceptance.
abc
June 26th, 2012
10:03 am
Unless you’re a man. Then, just go straight to acceptance.
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
10:05 am
@disco – you left out pouring milk in the carpeting of their car
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
10:07 am
ITL – Twinkies? I love that
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
10:07 am
Hey there, ITL!
You are bonafide crazy, disco (lol). Seriously, why even expend so much energy like that thereby giving him power over your healing?
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
10:11 am
@Leggs: Although I’ve never done the things disco listed (or even the thing I mentioned) but I know that after my last big breakup, I wrote countless letters to him that I never mailed. Some were angry, some were sad, but it helped me get past it, you know? I think there’s a lot to be said for venting your emotions…..so long as you stay on this side of the iron bars.
DreamsMaterialize
June 26th, 2012
10:13 am
Morning
Now I was surprised by a couple of things: How did emissions technician know I was a dating blogger? Men actually worry about this kind of thing too?
Naw he was just trying to holler, and that was his way of letting you know he was single and interested. Come Wisey! lol
I’m probably not the best person to ask for advice on what to do after a break up though. I force myself to move on forward, never looking back, no regrets. When it’s done, it’s done. I know I gave it my best shot, so I’m at peace when I walk away. I don’t fight what’s meant to be. So, when something doesn’t work out, I just accept it as a stepping stone to something better. It’s worked out that way my whole life, so I have faith that it will continue to be the case.
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
10:15 am
ITL – I agree with your 10:11. It’s unhealthy (IMO), to just move it along all for the sake of saying or wanting to feeling like you’re taking the high road and not “giving them power” over you. I think that’s been a cliche for years but I disgree (just me though). I think if you’re angry be angry, if you’re hurt be hurt, if you’re sad be sad. Those are all true emotions…nothing to do with them per se. It’s the reality of a bad situation. Too, I think it does more hurt to not validate your feelings. No you don’t need to put sugar in his gas tank or like I said earlier go shooting folks up but telling him or her to kiss your ass is a.o.k. with me…IMO Just saying
DreamsMaterialize
June 26th, 2012
10:16 am
Oh yeah. Hey ladies.
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
10:18 am
C – right on the nose! (but of course you were – we’re twinkies!)
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
10:18 am
ITL –
I’m loving being a twinkie to you.
disco
June 26th, 2012
10:21 am
leggs – it’s just a release. may not be a positive release but it’s a release just the same. gotta get all of that angst out of you. it’s transference of energy. I was angry, I messed up his stuff. I felt better and he was angry. lol.
dreams – I agree with you that dude was trying to holler. his game was weak but maybe he’ll tweak it.
itl – of course you know I couldn’t list everything but you know the list would be long.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
10:21 am
ITL ~ no doubt venting helps, even writing letters you never intend to mail. But, don’t take action that now make yourself look foolish. Now, you’ll have to vent about those actions (lol). I have friends that have jumped on cars, keyed cars, sugar in tank stuff. Never understood any of that. Sure, I’ve been angry before but never to that point.
Bluzgirl
June 26th, 2012
10:21 am
One thing I learned is that if you keep yourself so busy and not give yourself any time to grieve, it can get worse at times. Yes…it is important to keep busy and pre-occupied, but you have to give yourself time to mourn the end. It can feel just like mourning a death if you truly loved that person. You have to let yourself “feel” the emotions. If you keep them bottled up, you will explode later. Time does heal all wounds. My mom gave me some good advice…she said that your heart feels like it’s broken, but it just bruised and bruises heal in time.
Bluzgirl
June 26th, 2012
10:24 am
I also have tried to get better at writing in my journal. It really helps to just get the feelings out on paper. Keeps you from actually reaching out to the person who hurt you!
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
10:25 am
Buenos días, Dreams. Encantado de verte!
@Leggs – I’ve never crossed the line into sugar in the tank, keying the car, etc.. but in my mind, I’ve done far worse. Something about slathering him with honey and staking him down over an ant bed. Something like that….my memory is fuzzy. LOL
Into the Light
June 26th, 2012
10:26 am
@disco – On a slow blog day, we should make the list. Just in case…..
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
10:31 am
And that’s the thing. Everybody is different and grieves or I should say are affected differently. What may be a breaking point or the bottom line for one may not be for the other. I for one am not giving chance after chance after chance because I’m not that kind of person. I can’t find an appreciation for trying to make a fool out of me or trying to use me or trying to abuse me. Not saying that’s what anyone else is saying…that’s more of an example. Even so and still, I don’t give second chances because I’m not forgiving like that. My level of dislike on something gone wrong is way up there when it’s not my fault. Mainly because it’s bad behavior. People are fully aware I believe in most cases of their behavior. So consciously behaving badly is not forgivable. Now someone else may be more tolerant and won’t reach that level dislike and could be operating or dealing under the same exact capacity.
Just my thoughts
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
10:33 am
Celisea ~ I agree we experience the sadness, the hurt, the disappointment, even regret. Just don’t do disco alludes to (lol).
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
10:35 am
….or if you do, make sure you notify the WLB first, so we can have your honeybun/hair braiding money on your books.
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
10:35 am
Leggs – LOL…hide the gun, the 5 pound bag of sugar and the poisonous darts
disco
June 26th, 2012
10:35 am
I admit I’ve done my share of payback dirt in my day. not so much lately though. a few years ago I go out with an acquaintance and a guy she was dating was in the spot with another chick. acquaintance started crying and then proceeded to tell me that she had just given him $1000. she starts boohoo’ing all up in the joint. I get her out of there and ask her what she wants to do (naturally y’all know that crying mess wasn’t going over well with me). I advised her that her money was gone, she wasn’t likely to get it back and he had probably paid for the other girl’s hair or outfit or at the very least drinks with her money. I then asked her what did she want to do. she’s still crying and snotting all over the place. I suggested all sorts of wrong doing but she wasn’t having it. all I know is it wouldn’t have been me. first off, I wouldn’t give a man money but if I had I would have made sure that he would have spent that $1000 on deductibles or repairs.
ITL – good idea. I put you in charge of remembering it though.
Celisea
June 26th, 2012
10:36 am
ITL – You CANNOT make me laugh out loud right now. I’m in a conference room full of people…lol
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
10:38 am
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
10:40 am
if I had I would have made sure that he would have spent that $1000 on deductibles or repairs
disco, you crack me up!!
uh-oh, C. Did you have to do the muffled laugh/cough/snort thing? I HATE it when that happens. LOLOLOL
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
10:42 am
As much as I may have thought about doing something crazy liking punching holes in the walls, I’ve never actually done any of that. Like my Pops told me some years ago, what you should do is take all that anger, bitterness, and disgusted energy to put the fire under your ass to do better which is the best revenge…not making yourself look like an ass. lol
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
10:42 am
ITL – Not quite the snort but close to it…lol
disco
June 26th, 2012
10:48 am
ITL – I was serious though. we were in the other woman’s car. I even told her we could go back and get my car and I’d drive her. she wouldn’t have to worry about where he was, we knew where he was and she wouldn’t have had to worry about someone identifying her car. I had her back. lol.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
10:52 am
That’s my stance too, SlimUno.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
10:53 am
disco is bonnie w/o clyde (lol).
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
10:54 am
Disco and ITL u ladies are very funny! I have a suggestion call me after a break-up and I will help release all the hurt, pain and anger…. U know it’s my duty to _ _ _ _ _ well u know the rest!
Look at Diva with her celebrity status getting recognize in dem streets…. Yea right!
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
10:54 am
I don’t put any stock in folks on the outside looking in because more than likely they don’t know the truth…the entire story. So if I end up looking like a fool, it’s okay
Who cares what anybody else think when I know and the other person knows the full story.
I would guess it’s probably safe to not form an opinion in these type scenarios unless it know it from both sides.
I don’t think anything merits getting yourself locked up or committed…lol…but before I pass judgement or criticize a situation from the outside looking in, on any man or a woman acting out, I know there’s more to the story than what I’m seeing.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
11:11 am
I can’t imagine my car getting keyed, proving who done it is one thing and knowing who done it is another. Who cares your’e angry don’t act it out take your bumps in the road like everyone else does. An attitude adjustment (shrink) might help and should be considered if you have to resort to bad energy being lost on people you hate.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
11:13 am
Yep
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
11:13 am
@Celisea I totally agree with you, getting locked-up and a criminal record can haunt you for the rest of your life while you were commiting juvenile acts…
This blog- break up with Celisea really has me down….Well fellas it’s time to go to Brazil for some RR!
Albert
June 26th, 2012
11:13 am
Yes, men worry about this kind of thing. Why do you think I read this blog?
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:14 am
Blackfoote – I’m above keying cars and putting sugar in folks gas tanks or firing poisonous darts. I have no quams though in saying KISS MY ASS, getting it said and getting of my chest….LOL Let’s see it as “healing” rather than lost energy…lol
I really don’t have anyone I hate. I have one person though that it’s going to take the love of Jesus and having a come to Jesus moment to rid myself of the disdain I have for them.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:15 am
one person…him..not them
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:16 am
LOL@Elijah. Too bad you blew it, you could have been my twinkie-in-law.
disco
June 26th, 2012
11:17 am
bonnie w/o clyde. that’s funny.
BF – resisting the urge to act out is a journey. we all have our burdens to bear. every single day I have to resist the urge to act out in some form or another. may not necessarily be keying a car but I have to resist cursing out a neighbor, resist pimp slapping a co-worker, resist dragging a retarded A driver out of their car. you get where I’m going with this. it’s not just me and my anger issues, I feel like most folks in general have to deal with resisting their urges to act out. I think it’s kind of why we secretly respect folks who don’t have “acting out filters”. it’s why we laugh and say “so and so is crazy”. we kind of wish that every now and again we’d get a free pass to act out.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:17 am
ITL – The way Elijah hops around, being a twinkie in law would have only translated to taking a bite.
DreamsMaterialize
June 26th, 2012
11:18 am
Buenos días, Dreams. Encantado de verte!
Que pasa Luz! Como estas? Estoy ocupado con trabajar y mi hija. Mi vida es muy bueno.
what you should do is take all that anger, bitterness, and disgusted energy to put the fire under your ass to do better
slimmy You’re pops was right on with that one. Every experience can be a life lesson if you let it. Get that ass in motion. lol
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:22 am
Every now and then there should be someone to come along (male or female) for that one person (again male or female…cause some women are a trip), in letting said person know, you stumbled on the right person this time. When everyone has “done the right thing” in granting a pass on bad behavior or letting stuff slide, there’s nothing wrong with a person that’s not going to tolerate their mess and letting them know so.
abc
June 26th, 2012
11:31 am
Some yall crazy.
DreamsMaterialize
June 26th, 2012
11:32 am
a person that’s not going to tolerate their mess and letting them know so.
Cely Cel someone designated to bring the the reckoning huh. lol I feel that. Sometimes it seems like the penalty for good behavior is being subjected to those who behave badly, and the badly behaving people are rewarded by not having any consequences for their recklessness. So, how have you been?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
11:35 am
Cely a verbal kiss my ass will suffice……LOL
disco I know what you’re talking about and I’m sure it’s harmless until things get physical. I don’t mind at all a lady having my back I got hers.
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
11:35 am
I see a LOT of cars on a weekly basis and you’ll be surprised how many vehicles are subject to insane keying and vandalism. And it’s not your normal keying up and down the side of the car either…B!tch..F you…Lil Dizzle Mofo etc are just a few phrases you’ll find…even a few words inside the car in spray paint as well.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:38 am
Dreams – Sometimes it seems like the penalty for good behavior is being subjected to those who behave badly
So true. I get what others are saying. At the same time I’m not obligated to show any amount of anything to someone that shows blatant disrespect. Being too nice or granting folks a pass can cause a bigger problem….ENABLING. No you can’t change folks nor correct how they get fueled by wronging others but you can let them know to carry that foolishness somewhere else.
I’m doing great! How are things going on your end? Hot enough for you?
disco
June 26th, 2012
11:38 am
have you ever seen a car wrapped in saran wrap or bubble tape? granted I don’t think that’s a spiteful break up thing so much as a prank but I’ve seen it a few times. I always think of the dedication/commitment involved in pulling that off.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:39 am
abc – No one is more crazy than Pinocchio…lol Just funning
Color Purple Moment to Mister
June 26th, 2012
11:42 am
Everything you done to me, I already done to you ….with fingers crip walkin
cba
June 26th, 2012
11:43 am
So I cut her wallet size pic into more pieces than a schredder and “pooed” a half gallon of gasoline on it and lit that sucker up.
The fact that I couldn’t get her chanel #5 scent out of my nostrils was no excuse. Then she had the nerve to send my mama a wedding invitation!!
That’s ok, because I still got mind and she had to get her daddy’s truck to move her man ish out. As my blog buddy Cel would say, she could kiss my azz!!
Ok people, that was 1978, do the math….
Where ever you are “G” I hope you have a good day
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:45 am
cba – Hey there! Wow…wedding invitation??
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
11:45 am
LOL…….@keying phrases, folks have gone mad. I wouldn’t hurt anybody keying my car but if I saw them busting windows out and slashing tires that’s a punch in the face. Your vehicle is an extension of you and your home so retalition is permissable in my eye for those offenses. Others I can let go and chalk it up.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:49 am
Blackfoote –
disco
June 26th, 2012
11:49 am
celisea – I’m fond of saying “not on my watch”. sometimes I don’t really care what a person does but they won’t be doing it to me/with me/around me. I just called out my neighbors. ms. there goes the neighborhood and another neighbor have taken to double parking to keep our new neighbors from parking in front of their homes or next to their cars. they don’t have a problem with folks parking in general. just don’t want Hispanic people in front of their house. i told one yesterday that she has a lot of nerve and to not be surprised if she gets a letter/fine from the HOA. while I didn’t exactly threaten to report her I’m hoping she got the hint. I can’t control her issues with the new neighbors but she will not get away with that foolishness on my watch. and no, she hasn’t made arrangements to move yet. lol.
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
11:51 am
If a woman says(Shouts at U) to u,after meeting you in a public place,’KISS MY AZZ!’
,as a guy,u can’t but be so happy and have your ego up coz All it tells chics is u gave her some guud.
Most chics within earshot are bound to ask u,’What did u give her to cuss atcha like that’… which may even solicit fresh cootie offers.
@tcha Celisea
@Disco.. I was laughing at your friend giving a $1000 then crying after bumping dudes with fresh side piece..
that was an amateur move.
Dude was cruel no doubt!
There are dudes who sponge on chics
W8 comes to mind..
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:52 am
disco – sometimes I don’t really care what a person does but they won’t be doing it to me/with me/around me.
And that’s all I’m trying to say. Sometimes for those with the really big egos good at what they do, a stronger message is needed (i.e. acting out)…j/k/b/n/r
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
11:54 am
MMeello –
Funny you say W8 comes to mind. I was thinking the same thing a few days ago…lol
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
11:55 am
Oh boy, blast from the past.
cba ~ dang, that’s a lot of gasoline for such a tiny picture (lol) Where did you actually light it?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
11:57 am
disco they haven’t gotten over the latino family yet? They’re harboring a lot of hate, some hispanics will walk over you if they think they can. I’ve had some try that no speak english jazz so they could get what they wanted.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
12:01 pm
LOL……….@cba
cba
June 26th, 2012
12:01 pm
In the back yard Leggs….we didn’t have alot of grass there. That was gas for the lawn mower but what was the cost of gas in ‘78.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
12:04 pm
Ex 11:51 kma, those are thriving words for men………LOL
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
12:04 pm
I hear ya, cba
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
12:05 pm
BF ~ I agree. I have always been taught never to invite a man to your ass! For some reason, men go to a dark place with they here the words K M A!!!!!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
12:09 pm
LOL…….@Leggs
We do go straight to the dark side.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
12:12 pm
Cely where did your twinkle go, I got a fist full of dollars to unload on her.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
12:14 pm
Blackfoote – I was just about to put out an APB on her. I hope the cookie monster (pun intended) didn’t eat her…lololol I ca-rack me up sometimes
disco
June 26th, 2012
12:18 pm
BF – yes they are still tripping on the new neighbors and are oblivious to how it really makes them look. as far as I’m concerned, how they view them is how they view me. all of their issues are strictly in their own minds. I haven’t had an issue parking and I live directly across the street from them. I haven’t heard loud noise. they appear to come home, go in their house and mind their own business.
ex – that same chick once cried when we were out because another guy she was seeing was dancing with someone. she literally cried. after her second time crying on me I cut her off. now I’ll go to brunch/dinner with her or something but that’s it, no more full fledged social outings.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
12:29 pm
Why is she crying that he danced with another chick? Why didn’t she tell HIM she didn’t like that? How come he didn’t know that? Better yet, did she see that he could care less what she thought about it???
disco
June 26th, 2012
12:31 pm
leggs – she’s a dingbat. no other explanation.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
12:35 pm
disco
June 26th, 2012
12:38 pm
leggs – sometimes she’s even the entertainment. what do I mean? I mean there’s been a time or two or three that the only reason I put that woman on my guest list was so that other people would know that I wasn’t making these stories up. she’s not ashamed to run her business and it always makes folks look at her like “what the heck is wrong with you”.
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
12:46 pm
Hey y’all…I’m back. I had a luncheon to attend.
Soooo, BF, about this money…..
C – Girl, you know the Cookie Monster can’t eat me. Unless he’s got mad skills!
I kid, I kid (sort of)
Dreams – I’m glad to hear it!
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
12:56 pm
ITL – Well being that you’re my twinkie I have to support you in whatever decision you decide to undertake. Just be careful. The cookie monster (i.e. Elijah…yeah) the blogskirt snooper/chaser, is always on for target practice. Keep plenty of penicilin and bullets.
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
1:04 pm
Ok, perfect time to bring up Celebrity Exwives shows from last night…Um…who gets their cooter & booty rejuvenated on tv??
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:09 pm
Oooooh, Elijah is the Cookie Monster?!?!? I couldn’t go there – twinkies before dinkies!!
I have a meeting in half an hour that I am SOOO wishing I could cancel. Bah humbug!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
1:11 pm
Hell, who takes a pregnancy test on Love and Hip Hop with the camera person in the bathroom with them???
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:13 pm
ITL – You’re such a bright little twinkie! I blog heart you
Twinkies before dinkies…LOVE it! Come back after your meeting.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
1:14 pm
twinkies before dinkies!!
I get your drift, but that does sound mighty gayish (lol).
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:15 pm
I think it sounds endearing
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:15 pm
Awww. Blog heart you, too, C!
I’ll be back – I’ll need the pick me up. LOL I’m wondering if I could take my phone and blog during the meeting, but I know one of those old-school jokers would call me out.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:16 pm
ITL – Do it! If I don’t my laptop, I’ll take my phone. Careful twin twinkie (yes twin twinkie)…don’t get caught blogging…lol
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:16 pm
take my laptop
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:19 pm
@Leggs: More gayish than “bros before hos” or any mess like that that men say???
Thanks, C! Blog ^5.
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
1:19 pm
Leggs – A show thats scripted….it’s the new form of Soap Opera’s..
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
1:20 pm
Nope, not more gayish, same level, ITL (lol).
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:22 pm
Okay, y’all. I’m off like a prom dress. Back later.
Randyt (home alone and liking it)
June 26th, 2012
1:34 pm
Wow lots of comments and not much I can add. Getting over is a lot like the two main axioms about radiation exposure…’time and distance’. Stay the hell away from a new relationship and give your raw nerve endings time to heal over!!!
That said, I’m thinking a Match.com or eHarmony question should be “are you or have you ever been a zombie or ever listed human flesh as your favorite food?”. Just a thought since the incidents keep popping up
W8
June 26th, 2012
1:44 pm
Exiled sponging no. I provided a service that costs
Robert
June 26th, 2012
1:45 pm
The President of the USA is in ATL today. He was at the Varsity eating one of those nasty hotdogs (yucks!!!). I know he wishes he was back in Washington, D.C. eating at “Ben’s Chili Bowl” the home of the best hotdogs and half smokes anywhere in the USA. I hope and pray all these crazy GOP/tea party lunatics stay the hell out of his way. Obama 2012.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
1:48 pm
What service was that?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
1:50 pm
I have a break up that I’m not proud of. I allowed a chick to barricade me in my house when I knew damn well I had a date on my birthday with another I had been dating for a while. She called and called that evening (land lines) and I woulnd’t answer so she came to my house and banged on my door. She knew I was home my car was parked outside, I wanted to open the door but the other chick kept pulling me back to the bedroom. I peeked out the window and saw her leaving in disgust she was not stupid she held out for a looong time before she let me back in. I played with fire and got burned never again will that happen.
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
1:50 pm
Disco sounds like she may have participate in some zombie flesh beating…Disco likes to beat that flesh…lol
@Celisea why do I have to be the blog skirt chaser?,,,,I am trying to get over this pain I have in heart for you…Wishing I could find the sunlight in your eyes, I think i’m bout to sing to Cel
Man Law number 3,150 if you were big bright red shoes and play a harmanica your chances to get with Bluzgirl increases 110 percent,,,, Yeah!
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:50 pm
Well ain’t that amazing? W8 just happen to be lurking today. Or does he remain among us?? Hmmmmm
W8
June 26th, 2012
1:50 pm
Services good enough to make you angry
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
1:52 pm
BF high five playa!
Return of the 2009 playa of the year W8….8 I am not sure it is enough women up in this camp for you playa….
W8
June 26th, 2012
1:54 pm
Where is W8 anyway? He’s still famous! Probably on a super secret mission somewhere. Let me change my name back before I cause more trouble “tee hee hee” Recognize the “tee hee” and you know me! Hey chicas
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
1:55 pm
Randyt I bet it feels good to be back home.
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
1:57 pm
Is she married now Disco,…or coupled up in any form or fashion?
She sounds like a nice lady tho..romantic and weak in the knees still..
Right?
Obviously she wldnt be a good match for some fellas who break hearts like its in vogue,serial players… She deserves a worthy man!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
1:58 pm
W8 ~ sure wished I had met you when you were so famous on this blog.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
1:59 pm
Mmeelloo – Is that you speaking? That sounded sort of soft for you
Not a bad look…lol
Or was that Pinocchio again…changing blog costumes?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
2:01 pm
LOL……@Elijah
Man that chick paid for my demise that night, cause I lost a good girl. While the other chick was paying all I thought was damn I lost a good lady.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:02 pm
W8 ~ we knew it wasn’t the real W8!
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
2:05 pm
@Leggs you might have been the only female blogger who did not meet W8! With all that occurred I believe we have a best selling book in the making…. Then we can go the movie route….W8 secret agent blogger…
@Celisea…
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
2:06 pm
That’s me Cel..Disco referenced her adult friend crying at the sight of her guy dancing with another..well I kinda felt pity..
I can’t be hard on somebody so loving..I don’t think it’s St u p I d to be a loving person. U just have to choose carefully.
Hopefully she has learnt her lesson.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:06 pm
Mmeello – Awwww, that’s so sweet of you to say. Mmm hmmm, you ain’t fooling me. I know you have a soft side
Randyt (home alone and liking it)
June 26th, 2012
2:08 pm
@BF. 3+ weeks is too dayum long. This time the schedule didn’t allow me to hop an EasyJet into Europe either so just bad food and too long away from my HD, ragtop, and pool (which was dark green and took several days to clear…nice now though
disco
June 26th, 2012
2:11 pm
ex – she’s a dingbat. in her defense, her heart is in the right place but what’s the point if she’s all heart and no sense? her romantic choices are jacked up. her parenting choices are jacked up. she needs to quit playing tin man and start playing scarecrow. the wiz has to have an extra brain laying around. lol.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
2:15 pm
Got dang disco that’s your buddy……..LOL
Bluzgirl
June 26th, 2012
2:15 pm
Elijah…why you picking on me out of the blue?
DreamsMaterialize
June 26th, 2012
2:15 pm
I’m doing great! How are things going on your end? Hot enough for you?
Celly Cel Things are wonderful on my end. I couldn’t ask for more. It’s definitely hot. I ran 3 miles during lunch, and it drained me.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:16 pm
Elijah ~ that was a trick question that only the real W8 could have answered.
I may know more about W8 than the average blogger.Put it this way, we all know particular things about W8.Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:20 pm
Got dang disco that’s your buddy……..LOL
I ain’t gonna lie, I did think (earlier) with friends like that (busting her chops), who need enemies…lolololol Daaaaaang
I already thought Elijah knows waaay to much about W8 to be fronting. I think he knows but I don’t that’s the Elijah from back then. I just don’t.
cba
June 26th, 2012
2:20 pm
Random: Rielle and John Edwards have split….who wunda thunkit. Damn fool (John Edwards). I’m sure his bank account has taken a major hit.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:21 pm
Celisea ~ must admit I was surprised Elijah new about “W8gate.” He had to have had a different moniker back then.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:21 pm
Dreams – That’s fantab. You ran 3 miles? In this heat? Wowzer, you go boy! I’m looking svelt myself. I hit the gym everyday last week. I’m down 8 pounds total.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:23 pm
Leggs – Honestly I think Elijah is W8 but I don’t think he’s the real Elijah. I do though have my suspicions about who he is. I believe he’s a more currently blogger and folks aren’t catching it. Wellll maybe they are but aren’t saying it.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
2:26 pm
Alright Cely don’t lose those thighs and ham hocks, gotta leave something to knock boots with……..LOL
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:27 pm
cba – She’s been all over the news. And still crying about how she’s not a homewrecker, how he’s not a monster and EE was not a victim like folks believe. I do believe it was mutual so no, I don’t think she should take a beating like most homewreckers do while he gets away but I don’t think it’s really resonated with her that that woman was married and dying and IMO she’s shown very little empathy. I don’t have it much for her. Not so much for the affair (if you understand what I’m saying) but the fact that she’s trying to make it okay. No remorse or anything.
disco
June 26th, 2012
2:28 pm
celisea / BF – she’s an acquaintance. I couldn’t even imagine the relationship growing deep enough for her to have friend status. I tolerate her because like I said, at heart – she’s good people but she’s dense as heck. and trust me when I say I’m not saying anything about her here that I haven’t said to her.
I’m about to type up my own little scenario for y’all to pick apart. give me a minute.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:30 pm
Blackfoote – Alright nah…lol I can’t get too small. I’m not fat at now but I did put on about 15 pounds from where I lost 23 in 2007. There’s about where I want to be. Back where I was then.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:31 pm
???? My posts aren’t going through. ????
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:32 pm
disco – I hear you. Sometimes tough love is what people really need to wake up.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:32 pm
Enter your comments here
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:35 pm
Right now I’m struggling. I want something sweet sooooooooo bad. I have really cut back on the junk food.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
2:35 pm
What’s wrong Leggs I’ve never known you to hold your tongue. Ut oh this is one for Swiss make his splashing debut.
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
2:36 pm
O/T: What’s a polite way to tell a co-worker that the fragrance/lotion or whatever they periodically put on throughout the day offends your senses…is too strong…causes almost an instant headache every time they put it on??
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:36 pm
I’m not holding my tongue, the machine isn’t allowing my two sentence W8 comment through.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:38 pm
Why not go up to her and and say “excuse me so and so, but yo isht stinks. Please take it home!”
disco
June 26th, 2012
2:39 pm
slim – it doesn’t smell like tiger rose does it?
cba
June 26th, 2012
2:39 pm
Cel, I totally agree w/your post. I’ll give her a pass on being a home wrecker, afterall John was the one married and wife had a terminal illness. Just out of respect, she could have left all references about Elizabeth out of her book.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:40 pm
cba – Exactly. Folks operating with no convictions. Just a dang shame.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:43 pm
Celisea ~ I’m following you. I do remember Elijah being ___________. W8gate is rarely mentioned here so for someone to post as W8 says a lot!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:43 pm
WOW, guess the old moniker has been banned.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:45 pm
Leggs – Yep. I’ve already laughed and thought, just let “Elijah” keep busting his chops. After a while he’s gonna tell on himself.
disco
June 26th, 2012
2:46 pm
i’m about ready to “break up” with a guy I met earlier this month. so here’s the deal. when I met him I essentially “stalked” him (well I initiated contact since he acted like he wasn’t checking for me. lol). that night we sat in a quiet corner and spoke for hours. he insists the exchange was “amazing”. (I put amazing in quotes because this is the same guy who I told to shut it with the amazing like that’s the only adjective he knows). having spoken nearly every day since we met I’ve realized that if left to his own devices he really has nothing interesting to say. he’ll talk about his job or his family or what he’s having for dinner or any old nothing. If I introduce a topic or lead a conversation he follows along well enough but I hate having to be responsible for carrying the conversation. frankly I’m about ready to either just cut losses now or tell dude to up his talk game. what says the infinite wisdom of the blog?
mocha_latte
June 26th, 2012
2:47 pm
W8 is Elijah now?
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
2:47 pm
disco – I can’t say that i’ve ever smelled tiger rose..or even know what that is. The person is smoker and I think she puts whatever it is on, to cover the cigarette smell and it just does not mix.
disco
June 26th, 2012
2:51 pm
slim – that’s my inside joke. that’s what my co-workers cranberry joy by body shop smells like.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:52 pm
disco – he’ll talk about his job or his family or what he’s having for dinner or any old nothing
You said you can bring topics up where’s doing an okay job following well enough. and he’s bringing a bit of conversation. I mean to talk about his day IMO is something to talk about. So, what else would you like to talk about? Is it that you’re just needing a reason? Say not really feeling him?
I’ve read some of the men here say they would dump a chick if she can’t talk on current events. I don’t really agree with that. I want to know how your day went and how are things going with you. Current events for me is secondary. It’s okay to talk about, don’t get me wrong but I want to be that person or place to talk about more immediate personal things. I don’t want to hear a man whining but sort of like letting him lean on you as an outlet for all that’s happened that day. You know?
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:55 pm
I essentially “stalked” him (well I initiated contact since he acted like he wasn’t checking for me. lol). – that’s doesn’t look on your part, disco.
I at first thought you were talking about your dingbat acquaintenance when I realized this is about the guy you told to shut up a few weeks ago. Ummm, i see you monopolizing this relationship then running it in the ground because you’re disgusted with his lack of intelligent input. Go stalk someone you can actually spar with (lololol).
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
2:56 pm
mocha latte – We aren’t really sure but it was just funny how this so called “Elijah” was able to immediately bring up that time. I would say a tragic time for a couple of women on here. Had folks retreating and stuff. We do however believe this so called “Elijah” is not the one from back then but could possible be the real W8 that morph into another blog persona. Now this current so called “Elijah” is like over the top now. He started out saying something here and there, not sounding like the old one but when we called him on that, I dunno he started trying to sound like the old Elijah, going from bad to worse. Too the old Elijah was fresh but not disrespectful. He’s trying to hard now. He wants to blogho but he’s doing so under disguise….or so he thinks.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:56 pm
that’s doesn’t look on your part, disco. TRANSLATION: that doesn’t look good on your part, disco!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
2:58 pm
” I would say a tragic time for a couple of women on here” – and that right there is the kicker, Celisea! No one jokes about that time. I wanted to feel him out but I already knew.
COME OUT, COME OUT ELIJAH!
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
2:59 pm
Cel?
u want something sweet and All these men hear that and Do nothing..
Sometimes blogmen just disappoint me by their denseness and lack of drive..
It’s called crotch flatfooted!
@Mochalatte? Looks like u ripe for some licking urself! How appropriate when u pop in when we discussing the licker in chief W8!
need a cobweb cleaning
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:01 pm
Leggs – What’s funny is he’s been here…all along. He’s not as slick as he believes. Sometimes you just go along for the sake of keeping the blog peace. He’s several different names but I can’t say. There are a couple of dead giveaways. Not anything you’d have to study but I think if you’re pretty astute they’re apparent.
But don’t mind us Pinocchio, go on and your thing. LOLOL
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:03 pm
MMeello – Noooo, I HAVE something sweet. I was speaking specifically to you and your ability to be hard on women sometimes. I was just saying you ain’t all that hard. Just like I’m not
cba
June 26th, 2012
3:03 pm
disco, you’re a straight shooter…..just tell the brotha you’re no longer interested. That’s the reason I had to use a half gallon of gasoline on that wallet size pic 34 yrs ago. If you are not interested in me, hell say so.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:05 pm
cba – LOLOLOL..say it ain’t so
disco
June 26th, 2012
3:05 pm
celisea – actually I do get what you are saying. thing is, that’s not my personality type in the least. i’ll accept a quick synopsis of your day but I don’t need the blow by blow. I won’t say I’m using this as an excuse to bounce but I already recognize that it could be a problem for me.
leggs –I use the word stalk because it’s entertaining. still, I did watch him for a while before making the first move. he just looked like somebody that maybe I should know. lol. you may have hit the nail on the head though. some friends and I already analyzed the whole educational background, blue collar/white collar thing. I’d like to be big enough to say it doesn’t matter but who would I be kidding.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:06 pm
disco – Sometimes it’s a no go. Pull the plug, gently please ma’am (look at me talking). Let him down easy.
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
3:08 pm
Disco..are u worldly,do u like politics,sports, etc and when he responds do u have an actual conversation and he tells u his opinion or he merely listens?
IF and IF there is no input other than yea,ya oh okay..yea Dump Him!
Starting with you job is good.
Tell him your boss did a b c d,something jacked up and contrived and see if he offers sympathy for
u or not.
If Not,don’t even give him Sympathy pudy!
Toss him!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:09 pm
Celisea ~ many have never left. I agree. A person’s writing style is their fingerprint and the more they try to cover it up, the more the light shines on them.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:11 pm
disco ~ I didn’t think you actually stalked him. I remember your original post when you said you approached him first.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:12 pm
Leggs – Exactly! It’s a little pompous to not feel the need to at least TRY and fool folks. To do stuff under folks’ noses is brazen to say the least.
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
3:13 pm
CeL my 2:59…I was jokingly responding to your ‘ I want something sweet’
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:17 pm
Mmeelloo – Ooooooooooooh, okay. I totally missed you spinning from that…lol I do though. I’m having the shakes over here. There was a gang of desserts in the conference room when I went back in to turn out the lights but I didn’t touch because I believe another group is probably going. If I check again in a few minutes and the they’re still there, I’m going to help myself to something
disco
June 26th, 2012
3:17 pm
ex – sympathy booty? from me? puh-leeze. no man who knows me would even try to go there.
celisea – I could just hear me now with the it’s not you, it’s me speech. “it’s not that you can’t carry a conversation it’s just that I don’t want to hear the bs you are talking about”, “it’s not that I’m judging you for your poor spelling it’s just that I wanted a man I could play scrabble with”, “it’s not that I have a problem with your southern accent it’s just that I’m from the northeast and we speak differently”. lol. I swear I’m not trying to seem all saditty but I sound that way even to myself.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:18 pm
disco – Don’t break it down like that!! Just tell him so sweetly “it’s not you babe it’s me” If he insists, maybe. lol
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
3:21 pm
Ladies, Ladies it is I the one and only Elijah. I had to take a hiatus from the MIA blog when W8 was cutting the rug as the old timer’s use to say. Actually I know very little about what happened with W8 and the others. With the housing market crash plus other responsibilities I no longer had time to blog..
SlimUno
June 26th, 2012
3:23 pm
disco – That reminds me of last night’s episode of Single Ladies…the new chick that took Stacey Dash place was into this dude because he was super cut and sexy…However, he would say some very strong opinions about women athlethes, the president as well as ghey men. Every time it would bother her, she’d get side-tracked by his body but finally she couldn’t take it anymore and kicked him to the curb. Taking his shirt off didn’t work that time lol
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:24 pm
Elijah – Give us a sign…lol Show us your birthmark
disco
June 26th, 2012
3:26 pm
slim – we are in different states so his talk game carries a lot of weight. all that tall, dark, and prison cut pounds (someone on here said prison cut pounds and I liked it) can’t help him on the phone.
okay, I’m done clowning. he truly does seem like a nice enough guy and as a single woman over a certain age I’m really trying to remain open minded.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:29 pm
Elijah, if I gave you your initials would you be honest with me and say I’m right or wrong???
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
3:35 pm
@Celisa I did not bring-up W8 that was exiled….I am still the same. I would never approach a woman I am interested by requesting a picture… I am just having a little fun. The MIA blog sometimes serves a great purpose… good relationship advice and good Laughter….
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
3:36 pm
Yes Leggs I would be honest, but only if you send me a picture! j/k
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:37 pm
Elijah – I’m not mad at you…lol I say have fun, do your thing. Yes, I know MMeello mentioned W8.
Be warned though…remember what happened to Pinocchio?? It’s not gonna be the nose though. Just saying…lol
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:38 pm
Elijah ~ are your initials LP??
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:39 pm
“…remember what happened to Pinocchio?? It’s not gonna be the nose though. Just saying…lol”
That was funny.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:39 pm
And it’s NOT gonna grow. Just saying. That’s what happens to grown up Pinocchios….I’m only funning
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:39 pm
Leggs –
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:41 pm
I hate our performance review platform. I mean really? It’s like rocket science. I’m trying to attach some “stuff” that folks have written in on me over the last six months. Dang, I’m close to printing, stapling and mailing to my manager.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:42 pm
Sounds like Lorena Bobbit is about to infiltrate…
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:45 pm
Elijah, answer my 3:38 please.
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
3:45 pm
Disco, what’s the blue collar/white collar thing?
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:46 pm
Single, his collar is still blue cuz he used some cheap bleach while her collar stayed white.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:47 pm
Because she used Clorox….
Exiled!
June 26th, 2012
3:48 pm
So Disco..u and Cel are kinda the hard chics on the blog although I think Cel has a much softer and romantic side to..
So u tell me No man has ever made u purrrrr?
No going over middle of nite to knock on his window,unannounced coz u missing him like that?
No ghetto luv has been that intense for u,even with ur baby daddy back then?
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
3:50 pm
leggs so you trying to say he had a blue neck (LOL)
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:51 pm
“No going over middle of nite to knock on his window,unannounced coz u missing him like that?”
Now, that’s interesting deserving introspection from you ladies (lol).
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:51 pm
I’m so wrong for this but Imma say it cause I’m thinking it….
The cute white guy here is looking so fine today that I’m having to stay at my desk. Okay that’s a bit of an exaggeration but I’m just saying. Whew Jesus. Slacks hitting just right, pant cuff hitting the shoe just right. Mmm mm mmm. Pleats laying down in the front.
I’ll be glad when he works through his home issues cause we can’t work together as smoothly as we should with him rollercoastering….just saying. He did let something jump out of his mouth that we all pretended we didn’t hear. We were standing around talking (me, him and a couple of gay coworkers) and well one of the two is “out” He jokingly talked about another coworker vacationing in Dubai and said he’d hate to visit over there and be openly affectionate only to get arrested. So I said, that suxs (open affection being a problem…but speaking hetereosexually of course). Well the fine white guy says “well depending on who your wife is” Y’all know we clutched our pearls and kept on talking. He tried to say a million times in those few minutes “i’m just kidding” Ummm, no you weren’t. Anyhoo just doing like the men do….just mentioning
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
3:52 pm
Cely it wont grow ouch, and Pinocchios y’all are a mess.
disco he aint letting you walk away that easily he gon stalk you until you relent and give him some.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:52 pm
I’m saying he had ring around the collar…
Nothing like what disco is saying, but I thought her blue colloar/white collar term was obvious (lol).
disco
June 26th, 2012
3:53 pm
leggs – you been getting in some good jokes here lately.
single and happy – just the typical job reference thing.
ex – as ghetto as I am I have never been caught up in the whole “baby daddy” phenomenon.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:53 pm
MMeello – I’m only hard if someone don’t come right. Otherwise coming correct taps into my softer side. Mmeello, did you really just say that? Man, I can probably teach you a thing or two. I don’t pretend to be chaste. I just don’t pretend
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
3:54 pm
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
3:55 pm
I know it’s a typical, job thing but being a lowly blue collar worker, I’ve always wondered why some fell we’re uneducated, and can’t talk about the problems of the world?
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
3:59 pm
Blakfoote – Only in the land of make believe…lol
I see nothing wrong with blue collar
I work around white collar all day and they ain’t all that desirous. Heck anybody can make money. As long as it’s an honest living I’m good.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:00 pm
Never mind me. I caught the end of the blue/white collar convo. My bad.
Did Elijah leave?
disco
June 26th, 2012
4:01 pm
single and happy – I understand that and it’s a fair question. not all blue collar work is “busy” work. some of it is skilled labor and like I stated I respect work – period. in my defense I went in being fair and open minded. it’s taken me three weeks to determine dude can’t carry a conversation if you put it in a bucket. I’m sure there are lots of highly educated folks who also can’t carry on a conversation.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:10 pm
Perhaps I scared him, Celisea.
“I’ve always wondered why some fell we’re uneducated, and can’t talk about the problems of the world?” – I think because SOME are uneducated….not everyone. But perhaps she came across a blue collar worker that’s limited intellectually to her mind.
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
4:10 pm
celisea, that was meant for legs (LOL)
Disco, I’ve been around some white collar people who’s whole conversation consist of their job, and I’m sitting their thinking (damn, do you have a life?? ) put what he’s doing on the individual, not a whole group. Because I’m one of those who don’t like talking about work at work, so sure don’t want talk about it at home
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
4:13 pm
Leggs some educated people can’t talk about the problems of the world (LOL)
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:14 pm
Oops, didn’t see your 4:01 until I refreshed, disco!
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:14 pm
It’s already been stated it goes both ways, Single!
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:15 pm
Leggs – Perhaps..lol
Single and Happy – I wasn’t responding to you. I was just talking out loud which is why I said never mind. I didn’t catch the entire conversation.
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
4:16 pm
back at cha leggs
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:16 pm
He said he would be honest and answer me…oh well.
disco
June 26th, 2012
4:16 pm
single and happy – point taken. in fact, I think we made the same point. I wasn’t blasting the group. I was just saying that the topic came up in discussion as did a lot of other points. in essence we were just discussing the pros and cons of the brother’s stats. is blue collar job a pro or con? in and of itself, neither. in conjunction with other factors, it could go either way.
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:17 pm
Leggs – Silence gives consent.
Single and Happy
June 26th, 2012
4:18 pm
But I don’t talk about the problems of the world cause I chose not too, I have to many problems of my own, and I choose not to talk about them either. right now the only thing on my mind is what am I going to do on my next vacation (LOL)
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:19 pm
In this case I think it gave
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:19 pm
Yep. Unless he had to plop off to attend some other nonblog business (I say that with sarcasm)….lol
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:24 pm
Much like nolo contendre = I ain’t saying jack!!!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
June 26th, 2012
4:26 pm
Leggs/Cely y’all booted the man off the blog too funny…………LOL
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:26 pm
Blackfoote – He’s still here
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:27 pm
Blackfoote – We just have to be stand-up blog citizens and move right along playing nice. You know, interacting, engaging as if nothing.
Leggs
June 26th, 2012
4:27 pm
Yep
Nite!
Elijah ~ if I’m right,
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
4:30 pm
@Leggs A.a.k.a Charmaine…. How about when u e-mailed me about the blog get together in 2009. Nope those are not my initials.
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:41 pm
Dang – how does a one hour meeting stretch to 3 hours????
What’d I miss???
Willie Dynamite
June 26th, 2012
4:44 pm
Afternoon All,
Just wow
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:47 pm
ITL – Did you see where we put out an APB?
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
4:54 pm
C- Nope. Who’s missing????
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
June 26th, 2012
4:58 pm
Actually I know very little about what happened with W8 and the others. With the housing market crash plus other responsibilities I no longer had time to blog..
Eli I’m callling bullsh..it on that play and you know for certain you knew b/c you emailed me about it and I blew your azz outta the water for it…guess that’s why I never heard from you again
Willie Dynamite
June 26th, 2012
5:01 pm
just wow
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:01 pm
(whistles) Dayum Gina!!
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
June 26th, 2012
5:01 pm
I know right Willie…
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)
June 26th, 2012
5:02 pm
Looks like my work here is done…read y’all tomorrow
Up..up and awaaaaaaaaaay!!!!!!!!!!!
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
June 26th, 2012
5:03 pm
uh, uh, uh
Willie Dynamite
June 26th, 2012
5:03 pm
Hey Sassy – I hadn’t seen your blog smile in a minute. How you been?
Willie Dynamite
June 26th, 2012
5:07 pm
Cel/Leggs – yall still around?
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:09 pm
Um, yeah – hey there to you, too, Willie D.
Willie Dynamite
June 26th, 2012
5:12 pm
Sup ITL? where have you been hiding?
Into the Light - Celisea's Twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:18 pm
@WD – at work. They got me busier than a one-legged man in a butt-kicking contest.
How about you? How’ve you been?
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:35 pm
Willie I’m still here…what’s up?
ITL – You went missing…lol
Sassy – Dead on it
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:36 pm
Dang – I got called to do a conference call at the last minute…danggit I hate I missed the end. I’m calling BS too
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:38 pm
I know folks wanna call me mean sometims but you just get tired of folks hanging around these parts changing dang names, sniffing up skirt tails UNDACOVA (be out with it)….you can’t though cause you’re a coward. Calling folks crazy when you’re the head looney up in this mug. Yeah I know it’s a blog but most days I have to hold it cause it prevents folks from talking and getting serious when you’re dang changing characters like you’re changing drawers…
Then you wanna pop in and speak as if you ain’t been there the whole time….just retarded I tell ya….lol
Celisea....ITL's twinkie
June 26th, 2012
5:40 pm
Alright I’m out…guess everybody left already
Elijah
June 26th, 2012
6:23 pm
@Sassy are you mental? Did someone drop u on your head because you make some of the dumbest statement I have ever read from a woman. You blasted me because I made a statement about what I think is going to you and actual think I stop e-mailing because of your weak azz comments!
I stop e-mailing you because u are immature in your thoughts and in your actions.
Funny how you think you can put me on blast when I did not even bring up W8 situation
I usually don’t get in a back in forth with folks on the blog unless its for fun…But please Sassy u blasted me…U must put a lot of important to this blog because I don’t need to blog to achieve what I Want…. When are you going to grow-up?
W8
June 26th, 2012
6:50 pm
Hello Elijah! I am you, you r me, we agree!
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