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Dating: Is it lust or love?

One of the reasons I am so irrationally cautious at times with dating is the fear of confusing lust with love. You meet someone so great, you just want to rip their clothes off every time you see them? That’s lust. Not necessarily a bad thing, but definitely NOT love.

A lot of women make the mistake of confusing the two, and I suspect men do too. We are human, so it can be hard to determine when it is real or when it’s love. What do you think is the difference between lust and love?

When do you think you can know with certainty that it is more than lust?

Have you ever confused lust with love? What did you learn, in hindsight, and did it help you for the next time?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Lily

June 25th, 2012
6:52 am

Diva, one thing we know for certain is wanting to rip someone’s clothes off say day one is definitely lust. Wanting to rip someone’s clothes or head off (take your pick) well into the relationship beyond “becoming” familiar is clearly indicative you’re past the physical only stage. IMO you may not recognize true love but you certainly know when it’s lust. If you just met them yesterday or you don’t know their last name or whether or not they have kids, their eye color or how tall they are. If you don’t know their address or what they do for a living, their mother’s maiden name or whether or not they have children. If all they know about you is your first name and the beauty mark on your left butt cheek then you are NOT in love.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 25th, 2012
7:07 am

Lust is the physical attraction with no lasting efects in hopes someone is what you need them to be. Love is a physical attraction with personal attachment, pay attention and listen to your gut if your gut likes somebody then your whole persona will like them. Everybody hav’em (gut feelings) then use it to your satifaction it may lead to love. If it doesn’t go by your own definition and stick to it. I’ve been up all through the night working (really trying to stay woke) and I’m going home now and get in bed.

Good Morning and Good Day:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 25th, 2012
7:09 am

I thought I had you beat Lily, I tried to stay wake around 4am and well you see how that turned out.

Lily

June 25th, 2012
7:16 am

@Blackfoote, it’s the early bird that catches the worm. lol That means you have to at least hit the sack first. It takes a lot to best Lily!! :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 25th, 2012
7:17 am

“I tried to stay awake” instead of I tried to stay wake. If I tried to stay wake what for when I’m already woke. It’s time for me to go I’m sleep talking see ya.

Lily

June 25th, 2012
7:18 am

beat….bloody auto correct

Lily

June 25th, 2012
7:20 am

@Blackfoote, I get it. lol Get some rest mister. :)

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
7:39 am

Don’t know if I’ve ever really lusted after anyone, I like to get to know people (except the one I would have married in a week), the looks can be great, and for at least the first six months your words and you actions mean nothing. If we make it that far, that’s when I really start to pay attention because the real person starts to come out.

Halle

June 25th, 2012
7:50 am

Q. When do you think you can know with certainty that it is more than lust?
A. When he became my family and I knew that my well-being was a priority for him. But I ani’t gon lie we got that “Thang” if left alone in a room together it’s on! :)

Have a Great Day!

disco

June 25th, 2012
9:02 am

good morning. I have to start off with a couple of questions – first, where in the world are all these men that make you want to rip their clothes off every time you see them??? second, how much are tickets to get in?

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
9:25 am

disco

June 25th, 2012
9:48 am

slim – a sister’s just saying. lol.

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
10:01 am

Good morning,

I have nothing on topic :) :)

I do though want to mention I bought these in black (hey WillieD)

http://www.belk.com/AST/Main/Belk_Primary/Shoes/Shop/Womens/Designer/PRD~2900637BERKL2962ZN/MICHAEL+Michael+Kors+Berkley+T+Strap+Sandal.jsp?off=9

and a pair similiar to these made by the same designer (except the toes are covered…and for vacay)

http://www.belk.com/AST/Main/Belk_Primary/Shoes/Shop/Womens/Comfort/PRD~2900273TINAR29164B/Born+Tinari+Sandal.jsp?off=14

and

a dress I couln’t find shown on their website

alllllll from Belks at Phipps for (drumroll please)….the low low…not even $100 bucks total spent. :mrgreen:

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
10:02 am

Why are my comments awaiting moderation :evil: Diva?

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
10:04 am

abc

June 25th, 2012
10:19 am

Now, I would have thought that such a juvenile question would have been answered by the time you were out of high school; but then, upon reading the few posts so far today, I see that people are relatively clueless about something so simple.

Lust is physical. Love is emotional and spiritual. If that still seems mysterious, give up, it’s not worth pondering.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
10:29 am

abc – I think that’s why there aren’t very many comments with regard to the topic.

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
10:32 am

Now now abc…lol I agree. Even so and still what do you suggest? I took matters into my own hands and moved right on to any ole thing :) :)

megan

June 25th, 2012
10:35 am

you just need to care what you need then how long that;s it discreet mix

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
10:42 am

megan – Um….huh?

DreamsMaterialize

June 25th, 2012
10:47 am

Morning
I think most people clearly know the difference between lust and love. We just use lust and emotion to rationalize to ourselves that it’s love because we want it to be.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
10:47 am

“You meet someone so great, you just want to rip their clothes off every time you see them” – Hot Damn, that’s what I’m looking for (lol).

“That’s lust. Not necessarily a bad thing, but definitely NOT love.” – But it is love when when you still feel the same way years later. Again, that’s what I’m looking for.

Good morning, fine people!

abc

June 25th, 2012
10:48 am

Ahem, pardon my bluntness, no intention to diss anybody.

Yo mama so fat when she backs up she beeps.

There, that’s better.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
10:56 am

Since we seem to be free balling it now, did anyone catch the Abraham Lincoln vampire movie this weekend? Wanted to know if it was any good…

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
11:03 am

abc – There, that’s better.

Yeah, only cause you’re mama so fat when she was arrested at the airport they found ten pounds of crack :mrgreen:

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
11:11 am

Hey yall check out this article on the ajc about pheremone parties…um…Ewww or not to ewwww?

http://www.ajc.com/news/nation-world/singles-try-to-sniff-1463208.html

disco

June 25th, 2012
11:18 am

celisea/abc – I knew someone whose momma was so fat she jumped in the air and got stuck.

abc

June 25th, 2012
11:26 am

Re: the pheromone thing: I think it’s legit, if a bit gross. Studies have shown that smell is a good indication of complimentary chemistry — the chemistry thing it literally for real.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
11:31 am

threw back her head and laughed after trying a handful of bags that reeked of sweat, coffee and even weed That is what I’d be afraid of

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
11:33 am

Now that I’ve read the entire topic, Have you ever confused lust with love? What did you learn, in hindsight, and did it help you for the next time? Here’s a true story:

Yes, I have, and it almost cost me. Feel in deep lust with my neighbor’s brother. Man, the sex was off the chain and I was butter in his hands. A year or so into our sexual liasion, he moved back to Tennessee. I found myself sitting on my stoop in misery. I missed him so. After 2 months of him being gone (we spoke every day), we both decided he would move back and live with me. I drove to Tennessee to get my man (lol). Boy o boy, what a freaking mistake. First month was fantastic. However, I quickly noticed his controlling side. I became uncomfortable in my own apartment. Once I realized that, I knew I had to get him out of my system and my life. Everything came to a head when one morning over breakfast he told me that where ever I had to go that day he would be going with me. HUH?? I told him all I had to do was get something for dinner and some gas. He said he would do the driving and I wasn’t to talk to anybody. The hair stood up on the nape of my neck. My mind is reeling wondering how am I to get out of this isht.

I took a shower and locked the door. Told him I wanted to shower alone and all hell broke loose. He broke the door down and pulled me out. (I’m pinching my eyes just reliving this to fight back tears). Anyway, a slippery scuffle ensued. He finally relented when a neighbor knocked on the door. I quickly dressed and started plotting how the hell to get out that apartment safely. He picked up my fish tank and tried to throw it on me. One thing I am is quick, I bobbed and weaved so fast that none of the water got on me, but my poor silver dollar fish were dying on the living room floor. My phone rang, but he wouldn’t let me answer it. Only had one phone in the kitchen. Throughout all the chaos, I was so thankful when he had to use the bathroom. The phone rang again and I ran to it and whispered these words to WHOEVER was on the other end “call the police” and hung up.

He came out of bathroom and slapped me! I slapped him back, but you would have thought I shot him. I was scared, but I was also indignant that this man who professed to loving me would now basically hold me hostage. That hard knock at the door came in the knick of time. POLICE!! I opened the door and pointed and quickly stepped outside. The person I whispered to on the other end was just driving up (one of the gf’s I came to Georgia with). After getting both sides of the story, the police made him leave. No, I didn’t press charges, I just wanted him gone! They stayed while he packed his little belongings. After he left I was never so fearful in my entire life because I didn’t press charges. I went to my bedroom and soon realized he took parts of my favorite outfits with him. Left the skirt, but took the jacket, left the right shoe, but took the left…stuff like that. After about an 3 hrs, I went outside and found all four tires flat. I can only surmise he came back to do that. I did not sleep at my apartment for a week. I looked over my shoulder for months. Even hallucinated that I saw him at a few bus stops and grocery stores. Time went by and I started feeling comfortable within my own skin.

So, can “lust” be confused with “love” the answer is YES (for me). I was blinded by the swerve of our hips together. Young and dumb. I think I was 23, 24 at the time. What have I learned = look at the whole picture when your life is about to be turned around and get to know the person before moving him into your place!

I apologize in advance if this is very long.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
11:34 am

OMG! I running to the station to pay my post fine…..good grief!

disco

June 25th, 2012
11:38 am

leggs – I too laughed when you said you drove to Tennessee to get your man. that there is one heck of a tale. dude was straight up off his rocker. bright side – your friend knew you well enough to know to do as you asked rather than trying to call back and figure it out or assuming you were joking. are the two of you still friends?

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

June 25th, 2012
11:49 am

Wow…Leggs, that’s one crazy story, what were you giving him that had him acting like that…winkwink

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
11:54 am

disco ~ yep, we’re still friends…went to h.s. together!

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
12:00 pm

Leggs – Well dayum…just dayum! :shock:

GracieL

June 25th, 2012
12:00 pm

It IS hard to tell the difference! As such, I avoid both now. (If the sex is good, I think I’m in love. If it’s bad, then… what’s the point?) Sure, my life is boring and empty, but my heart is not in tiny little pieces on the floor, either. Got tired of trying to glue it back together, so I put in in a protective case in a trunk with the other family keepsakes.

disco

June 25th, 2012
12:01 pm

leggs – I figured you two were still friends. I met a guy my last trip to Tennessee. your story has me wondering if I should just delete his number. ESPECIALLY since he said he lived in Atlanta for a little while. mind if I ask you for dude’s initials? lol. (joking but serious too).

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
12:02 pm

I felt like I was reading a scene from Sleeping with the Enemy or something. Thank goodness you got away without it being in a body bag. Dude is looney tunes

GracieL

June 25th, 2012
12:03 pm

Leggs,

Glad you made it out! Geez. You’re right, that’s not love or anything close to it.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
12:08 pm

SP

May be the underlying reason behind me not liking skinny men (lol).

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
12:18 pm

PSA: Skinny men are bat ass crazy… approach with caution….lol

disco

June 25th, 2012
12:20 pm

slim/leggs – I never really thought of skinny men as an issue in general though I’ve long held that the petite men (short/slight) tend to be much more drama than their larger counterparts. don’t know if it’s the whole napoleon thing or what but little men can be a trip.

leggs – thanks. initials don’t match. guess I don’t have to delete old boy’s number just yet.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
12:52 pm

disco – I was just being funny but I do think the vertically challenged men tend to have a chip on their shoulder. Shawt man complex

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
1:29 pm

Seems like this machine needs some oil….it’s a ghost town.

O/T ~ I talked the other day about chocolate and strawberry wings. Went to Mingles Saturday and had mango bbq wings…they were delicious.

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
1:30 pm

Hmm and where do we get that chip from?

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
1:32 pm

Leggs – You’re eating la vida loca lol I’m not a fan of mango so I’d have to pass on those wings…strawberry? maybe

abc

June 25th, 2012
1:34 pm

Short guys have issues? She points at his smallness and asks “who do you think you’re going to please with THAT little thing?” He says, “ME!”

Mr. Unknown

June 25th, 2012
1:40 pm

What up guys?
Lust consist of not wanting anything beyond the physical. If I can’t remember a normal conversation but I can recall every conversation when sex is referenced that is lust to me.

Chocolate wings? Not sure how well that goes together. Try it and let us know. I want some lemon pepper wings right now.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
1:43 pm

abc – I see you’re hanging on the light, free, funny side today. I trust everything is going well ;-)

Mr U – Lemon pepper wings and a freeze cup lol

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
1:44 pm

abc, what smallness??

Elijah

June 25th, 2012
1:50 pm

Good Afternoon!

I am in luv with Celisea but I am lusting after Bluzgirl, Disco, Leggs, SlimUno, Ms Moni, Cybil,QC,GracieL etc…lol

@Leggs I am glad you are o.k. that is so weak ish from a man….

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
1:57 pm

Everyone, thanks. I too am very thankful I got out of that mess. Talking about making your own bed…I went and got my own trouble.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
1:57 pm

I’m not a big fan of mango either. Didn’t taste mangoy (lol).

Mr Unknown ~ The chocolate wings are very, very tasty.

Mr. Unknown

June 25th, 2012
2:00 pm

Freeze cup or long island? Its only Monday but I’m already lusting for Friday. @Leggs did your mini me win the essay contest? Forgot to ask..

Mr. Unknown

June 25th, 2012
2:03 pm

Did anyone read about the white high school student giving back his scholarship because it was meant for black students? I say he should have kept the money.

disco

June 25th, 2012
2:05 pm

Elijah – only you.

leggs – mango-y. I love that you made up a word.

mr. unknown – didn’t read the story but I have to ask – did he give the scholarship back because he felt he’d be taking away from a black student (honorable) or did he give the scholarship back because he didn’t want a “black” scholarship (not so honorable)?

Mr. Unknown

June 25th, 2012
2:15 pm

I just read the article, “I knew they were trying to do a good deed for the African-American community,” Warren told KABC-TV. “I had no trouble giving it back to them at all.” I don’t like the idea having a scholar given by “Martin Luther King Senior Citizens club” only be awarded to one race. Either change the name of your club or include all but he did the honorable thing though by returning the money.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
2:24 pm

Mr. Unknown ~ she didn’t win that particular essay contest. The top 3 winners for that essay weren’t even selected from Georgia participants (phooey).

disco

June 25th, 2012
2:33 pm

okay. I’m sure no one here will take offense when I say this but “THIS BLOG SUCKS”. not in general. just today. is it a holiday? is there a skip party? what’s really going on?

Mr. Unknown

June 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

@Leggs~ gotcha. Good luck to her on all her future endeavors.

I’m out, Its a short day in class today. Talk to ya’ll later.

Willie Dynamite

June 25th, 2012
2:46 pm

Afternoon All,

Lust is part of the topic and only 2 pages so far. Say it aint so. hahaha

Apparently not much to discuss. What else is good with the blog today?

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
2:48 pm

Thanks, Mr. Unknown.

I second disco’s 2:33 post!!!!!

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
2:51 pm

And most of the posts so far has been with Pinocchio and himself…lololol

Celisea

June 25th, 2012
2:52 pm

At least I didn’t say troll :)

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
2:57 pm

Hmmm…any of you all plan on tuning into the train wreck that’ll be coming on tonight? Love and Hip Hop

disco

June 25th, 2012
3:00 pm

slim – not me. I may try to watch unsung (sly and the family stone) tonight.

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

Enter your comments here

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

I’ve got a chip on my shoulder (LOL)

Mike P

June 25th, 2012
3:07 pm

The Blog sucks because the topic sucks… Every adult should already know the difference between the two; if not, they’ll learn soon enough! Nothing else to be said on the subject.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
3:10 pm

disco – Well I’ll be tunned in while my brain is tuned out for that hour that i’ll never be able to get back. lol

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
3:12 pm

Single – I guess that means you arent that tall? lol

SexyCool

June 25th, 2012
3:12 pm

Wise has to be pulling our collective “leg” with this topic. HAS TO BE…

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
3:15 pm

yes slim I’m that tall, just not tall enough for most :-D

disco

June 25th, 2012
3:18 pm

SCool – and why did I read pulling our leg and think “pull my finger”. it’s been a long day – that’s why I need y’all on here.

single and happy – what does “not tall enough for most mean”?

SexyCool

June 25th, 2012
3:19 pm

Otherwise, I would have to give Wise the side eye…

Oh…and as to meeting someone who made me want to rip his clothes off every time I saw him…I have had the good fortune of meeting ONE guy like this in all of my life. However, it was at a point where I’d gained enough life experience and good sense to let him know that I would be limiting my exposure to him because I was not built to be sexually involved with someone and not get attached. I threw him over into the FZ and haven’t looked back.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
3:21 pm

I plan on watching it SlimUno. As soon as I can find it on this dumb arse cable service I switched to last Tuesday. I am miserable trying to cancel this service. I hate it, hate it, HATE IT!!!! I’ve called 5x already with one callback that I missed and they haven’t called again.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

Hmmm, let’s see how we can spruce it up in here….??? Has Lust made you do anything you wouldn’t do if you were in your right mind? If so, do share with us the details….Lust made me run around nekkid with a pair of boxer briefs on my head while singing Yankee Doodle Dandy j/k

Manny

June 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

I have never confused lust with love. I have often been in lust but rarely been in love. Currently being in lust is okay with me. There’s no confusing with either of us.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
3:27 pm

SC – You threw him over into the FZ but where did you hide the dizzle? (just messin)

Single – I’m not a height wh0re but curious…how tall are you?

Row 125 seat 11B

June 25th, 2012
3:34 pm

Hello everyone! How was everyone’s weekend?

SexyCool

June 25th, 2012
3:42 pm

Slim – I did play hide the dizzle a couple of times with Buddy. However, I wasn’t interested in that game for the long haul because he wasn’t looking for anything serious and I didn’t want to fall into that blsht @ss trap again.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
3:46 pm

The Dizzle Trap is a muthasucka…lol

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
3:55 pm

Slim 5′5 and a half inches (LOL)

Slim you sure that was lust or alcohol that made your run around like that

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
3:57 pm

hide the dizzle, girl i luv it. played that game many times. current man is not hearing that now. we in luv!

Elijah

June 25th, 2012
3:58 pm

Hello Celisea!

How was your weekend? By the way who is the Pinocchio? Is Pinocchio your new man? I am jealous rite bout now….lol

Everyone in blog land bring out your Wild Irish Rose and pour a little on the ground for Ms. Venus Williams she can no longer can play tennis….I told her to leave the caucasian brothers alone! lol..

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
4:01 pm

Single – Actually I think it was the bath salts. Thank goodness I didn’t bite his face off. lol

Elijah – Whatchutomboutwillis?

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
4:03 pm

Single, I think everyone on this blog is taller than you, except Mo (lolol).

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:04 pm

@Elijah, i see you left me off your list of people you lust for. how can i be down? lol

disco

June 25th, 2012
4:05 pm

leggs – and don’t forget me (unless, of course, you only meant males).

elijah – i thought of chris rock’s old joke “that’s what you get for messing with them white girls”…

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:05 pm

i don’t kno why but single and happy makes me believe he is tall and lucious. lol i don’t picture anything under six feet :)

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
4:07 pm

lolalee – I’m picturing you with a front laced wig on and singing Brandy’s “I wanna be dowwwwwn” lol

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:08 pm

Lolalee, I’m really vertically challenged, just wondering why everyone always think we have a chip on our shoulder.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
4:08 pm

I’m with you lolalee…he’s just pulling our legs.

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:09 pm

@SlimUno, i just want my slice of fun too. maybe i should come around more often so Elijah can include me with his harem of lust :)

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:12 pm

@Single and Happy, i’m convinced you are tall dark and i’m hoping handsome. never know blogging. lol

@Leggs, you think anybody would admit to being 5′5″? i can’t see that. that’s an admitted strike one. lol he’s pulling our leg.

disco

June 25th, 2012
4:15 pm

lolalee – I can’t speak for the blog men and the lies that they tell but I do know short men who have come to terms with their height and make no bones about it. after all, it’s one of those lies that you can’t reasonably expect to get away with long – at least not in the real world – in blogville you can be any height/weight you want.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
4:15 pm

I know lolalee.

What don’t you want me to forget you in disco?

disco

June 25th, 2012
4:18 pm

leggs – the comment re single and happy being the shortest person on the blog. lol.

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
4:26 pm

in blogville you can be any height/weight you want.

I’m 5″10, 125lbs, have a booty like JLo & Kim K, wear a size 7 shoes, hazel brown eyes, naturally long hair down to my lower back, I’m ripped as far as muscle tone goes and has an Australian accent.

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:30 pm

notice how freaky Randyt is when he posting? that is sexy. lol only admitting because he’s not here today :) get this girl a fan!

in blogland i’m 5′11, short sassy cut, washboard abs, and freaky and like being naked most of the time!

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:34 pm

Disco, most women like tall men so that counts me out

Lolalee, wouldn’t lie about it, I’m very happy with myself

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
4:36 pm

lolalee – You’re funny…’likes being naked most of the time’ :lol:

Reminds me of when we all changed our monikers and tried to guess who was who. lol

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:36 pm

when it comes to internet dating I’ve never lied about anything. just left a few details out (LOL)

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:40 pm

@SlimUno, just adding a little spice to blogland :) guessing who is who sounds like fun!

@single and happy, what internet dating sites have you used? met any strange people?

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:40 pm

Lolalee I like being nekid all the time, (Hedonism here I come) LOL

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:41 pm

move over randyt, single and happy sit next to me! :)

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
4:42 pm

That’s right, you did say you were short (lol).

I was out Saturday and was amazed at all the Spanex talk women were doing in the restroom. The friend I took with me had on a nice strapless leopard print sundress. How about a few hours later this woman walked in with the exact same dress. I laughed so hard because I don’t remember ever being somewhere and someone showed up with the exact same dress. My friend rocked it better simply because the woman was 2 sizes too big for the dress. Sausage meat spewing from under her arms..not a pretty sight.

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:42 pm

Just meet a few people on black planet, an old chat site called wbs, and of course the freaky sex sites (LOL) no I can say I’ve never meet any strange ones

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
4:43 pm

Single – Maybe the Pheremone Party would be good for you. That way a chick would be attracted to your smell at first and deal with the rest later…granted that you do smell good. lol

disco

June 25th, 2012
4:43 pm

slim – 5’10”, 125? when did we start letting crackheads in? lol. now you know that much height needs some weight on it.

lolalee – you want to be tall too? I’ve never wanted to be taller. even now i kind of feel sorry for tall chicks. i’m short and can’t find tall men, imagine the angst of the tall woman.

single and happy – one of my brothers is on the petite side. he’s been stuck on himself since he was a tot so the fact that he’s short didn’t slow him down any. now he’s mid 20s, got a couple of degrees under his belt, no children, excellent earning potential. he says it’s funny how a lot of chicks no longer seem to notice how short he is. lol.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
4:44 pm

Too funny, first lolalee is pining for Randyt then quickly tosses him to the curb for 5′5” nekkid Single!

Fickle, fickle, fickle.

Elijah

June 25th, 2012
4:47 pm

@Disco- Da man will get you every time!

Lolalee— I must see a pic first before you can join the harem…. I like that word Harem…

Man Law number 855. Always get a picture of the women u meet on line…..Because you might get a description like Slimuno just described and get the Ulkrine woman body builder..

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:49 pm

@disco, just in blogland.

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:49 pm

disco I was wondering the same thing about slim with that big ole booty (LOL), yea it’s funny when they see what you have you seem to start to grow (LOL)

Slim I haven’t been to a party since bellbottoms were in style (LOL) oops giving away my age (LOL)

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:50 pm

Lolalee comon i’ve saved you a seat

SlimUno

June 25th, 2012
4:52 pm

disco – Oops, now you know i’m lost when it comes to the weight thing…maybe that should’ve read 135 :lol: I was trying to carry most of my weight in the booty area lol

Elijah :lol:

Leggs – Sausage meet hahahahaha Immediately made me think of those biscuits in a can busting open :lol:

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:52 pm

@Leggs, i got the hots for Randyt. only kidding with Elijah. he can’t make up his mind. like watching a tennis match. lol

@Elijah, have you passed out a pic of yourself? hope all the ladies collected a pic of him. even exchange? lol

i'm swiss

June 25th, 2012
4:53 pm

Elijah — You left out the amendment to Man Law 855 — section 3c, ammendment 4: “The photo must be a full color, full body photograph, standing next to a recognizable object or a measuring stick for perspective, and must either contain a digital timestamp or the subject must be holding up the front page of the current day’s New York Times with the date clearly visible.”

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:54 pm

uh oh, slim done gained 10lbs, must have went to rehab

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
4:55 pm

@i’m swiss, too funny don’t come aknocking if the dizzle ain’t rocking. lol

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
4:57 pm

I’m swiss -don’t do pictures, must have web cam!! digital time stamps can be changed, and it could be her bff with the paper :-D

i'm swiss

June 25th, 2012
4:57 pm

lolalee — Are you asking if my dizzle is rocking? lol

i'm swiss

June 25th, 2012
5:01 pm

Single — Good point. Although, technically, she could get her bff to sit in for her on the web cam, too. Then again, that could lead to both she *and* her bff getting freaky on said web cam if you play your cards right. I’m gonna have to co-sign on the web-cam, and make a motion that we amend the Man Laws accordingly.

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
5:01 pm

Web cams make your head look funny.

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
5:01 pm

@i’m swiss, i already know you rock!

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
5:02 pm

webcams make me tingly. :)

Elijah

June 25th, 2012
5:02 pm

@Swiss we must Amend man law 855 section 3c, ammendment 4: “Single made a good point , the ladies are tech savvy these days.. We are going to need in additional too “The photo must be a full color, full body photograph, standing next to a recognizable object or a measuring stick for perspective, and must either contain a digital timestamp or the subject must be holding up the front page of the current day’s New York Times with the date clearly visible.” Plus Web Cam video’s preferable in the NUDE…. Lolalee….

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
5:03 pm

legg, are you sure it’s the web cam??

i'm swiss

June 25th, 2012
5:03 pm

lolalee — I could tell you were a woman of vast intellect. ;-)

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
5:04 pm

lolalee, comon lets get nekid in front of the web cam

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
5:10 pm

:lol: :lol: Good one, Single. I have a peanut head. Ok, it may be my head after all.

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
5:11 pm

@Elijah, i’m tingling all over

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
5:12 pm

Leggs, mine makes my head looks big (yea that’s it)

lolalee

June 25th, 2012
5:12 pm

ready for my man now :) blog with you guys tomorrow. bring the webcam!

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
5:20 pm

Hope you’re referring to the other head….ba da bing!

Single and Happy

June 25th, 2012
5:23 pm

Okay, so I have 2 big heads :-D

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
5:23 pm

lolalee is virtually getting her swerve on….

Leggs

June 25th, 2012
5:24 pm

Row 125 seat 11b

June 25th, 2012
7:29 pm

Looks like I missed all the freaky free flow. Stepped away for a meeting and a little sumthin sumthin with my older lady coworker. I’ll be present tomorrow for action with lolalee! Webcam and tatas? Whew boy! Single and Happy, Elijah and I’m Swiss are some bad boys. Holding it down!

nelson

June 25th, 2012
8:54 pm

That is a great question I really like it. Love = wife lust = 4 week fling