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Sex on a first date?

If guys only knew how much women go back and forth in their head about whether or not to seal the deal on the first date. There is always worry about sending the wrong message or killing chances of anything serious from happening later on. There is no easy answer and a lot of times, we just want to not regret it afterwards!

One of our readers wants to know what she should do after hooking up on the first date. She does not regret it, but she does feel that the guy looks at her differently. Should she bring it up and let him know that she doesn’t want it to change things?

What do you do when you are in a new romance and things get physical? Should it change the dynamics of the relationship? Will your expectations change?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

154 comments Add your comment

Lily

June 22nd, 2012
5:42 am

Diva, not everyone ponders or mull over such a matter. To each his or her own, just not for me

Exiled catch me if you can. :) :)

Manny

June 22nd, 2012
6:33 am

A lady practices control. Respect goes out the window when a woman is too easy.

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
7:01 am

I’ll respect a woman more for doing what she want’s to do, and not worrying about what others may think of her. If I don’t respect her for having sex with me on the first day, then I can’t respect myself because she didn’t do it by herself! Let grown folks be grown, Life is to short to worry about what someone else may think of you.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
8:12 am

My goodness Lilly did you go to sleep last night?

Ex you know how to say what have to be said.

Everybody is familiar with the rules, no sex on date 1. If her man is cautious because she gave it to him he has a problem not her. If it was a bad idea why did he participate and how can you look at somebody sideways when you do the same exact thing? I’m nuetral but wouldn’t consider it a wash out if we did it on the first go round.

Good Morning:

Lily

June 22nd, 2012
8:41 am

@Blackfoote – I’m the early shift. I know I’m a cheater! :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
8:54 am

Ok Lily, not a cheater in my mind early birds gets the worm. Imagine that!

disco

June 22nd, 2012
8:54 am

good morning all.

single and happy – I agree with you. I actually know folks who have had sex on the first date and gone on to get married. I’d rather a woman have sex on the first date if it’s what she wants than to be sitting around calculating how many dates, how many dinners, how many phone calls, how much he has to spend on me before it’s okay to do this or do that. and yeah, I know chicks who won’t give it up until he starts spending the money. I’m not judging anyone for how/when they do it, just saying do what you want to do and to hell with convention. just be sure you can handle what you are doing. don’t be whining and crying about whatever the consequences and repercussions are.

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
8:54 am

Good morning even though I’m still trying to wake up after a long night watching the game.

Exiled – High Five! ;-)

I don’t mull over whether or not to give it up on the first night…can’t say anyone has given me that urge to jump their bones after just meeting them.

I NEED COFFEE!

MARK

June 22nd, 2012
8:57 am

I AS A MAN WOULD NEVER HAVE SEX ON A FIRST DATE AND IF A WOMAN WANTED TO SHE WOULD NEVER SEE ME AGAIN!!!!

2CPTG

June 22nd, 2012
8:59 am

g’morning…..

sex on the first date? of course! After it happens, though, don’t go writing Steve Harvey tombout you broke the rules, and how to get back to square one…..Slim….hey baby!

disco

June 22nd, 2012
9:03 am

slim – re never wanting to see anyone whose bones you want to jump. just last night I’m in the bar with my mom (and everyone else watching the game). super fine sexy guy comes in alone and sits at a table next to us. I’m sneaking serious peeks at this dude and thinking “ooo wee, if I wasn’t with my momma”. meanwhile I continue my watch. after about 30 minutes some chick (girlfriend I assume) shows up. I even had the nerve to roll my eyes.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
9:11 am

Kudos to Manny for being honest and keeping it real and not saying one thing and doing another (probably) post smash.

Live and let live, yes but don’t be talking out of the all sides of your mouth and your neck too. I know hypocrites that live their life performing for attention so they’ll lie and say anything to smash. Right who does that? Hypocrites, liars, rogues (lol).

Hit mute any and everytime they speak, put blinders on if and when they appear and always for eternity keep about 100 feet between you and them :) ALWAYS!!

Ass is always safe around men (a man) of character. It’s just the coochie crooks you better beware of. Sorry but sadly it’s true and mostly it’s the adults you have to keep all three eyes on.

Good day!

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
9:12 am

Disco, we agree, “lisbeth I’m coming to join you” (LOL)

disco

June 22nd, 2012
9:15 am

lol. don’t fall out on us S/H.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
9:16 am

ooops…Good morning!

now….Good day folks!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
9:20 am

Morning.

I’m with you Lily. If it’s something you want to do and both are consenting, then go for it. Some strong marriages exist with sex on the first date. Some relationships don’t get off the ground because of sex on the first date. It’s all up to what both are looking for in a relationship. I see nothing wrong with her talking to him about it.

Heck two weeks ago I met a nice guy at the fight party. He left me his number. I called two days later and he told me he apologized for giving me his number but he thought against it because I was showing too much clevage. :shock: He thought about it and realized my image wasn’t what he was looking for. Dang, as conservative as I can be, a little clevage scared him. Well, my above the knee skirts/dresses would have him running for the hills. Stop worrying about others expectations and concentrate on your own.

“sex on the first date? of course! After it happens, though don’t…[try] to get back to square one…” – EXACTLY

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
9:28 am

Morning All!!! Still sleepy even with the coffee!

just be sure you can handle what you are doing. don’t be whining and crying about whatever the consequences and repercussions are.

disco – I agree. Be grown about it. I have a few friends that really get on my nerves with their second-guessing of everything they do. Own it! One in particular is “religous” on one hand, and on another hand a freak! She will go on a guilt trip about sex outside of marriage, but taking her clothes off at the same time. I told her if remaining chaste before marriage was really a concern of hers she would behave accordingly and not put herself in such situations. This is one that grabbed a dude to see what he was working with before they did the do. I told her to get out of my face with the holier than thou!

When I was dating, I got physical when I felt comfortable with the guy and the timing felt right. Depending on the guy and the situation, it could happen sooner or later. Can’t say I was ever comfortable on the 1st date, but to each his/her own.

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
9:29 am

Leggs the cleavage is probably what he was looking at in the first place, you must have too long to call (LOL) How you gone give someone your number and then think about and say they’re not your type because of something physical. Were you blind when you gave it to them??

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
9:30 am

Leggs, you have GOT to be kidding! Please tell me you are – too much cleavage????

I’m at a loss!!! :shock:

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
9:34 am

2C – What’s crackalakin cap’n?

disco – Now that is FUNNNNN KNEE rolling your eyes :lol:

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
9:35 am

Single, no doubt he was looking at the clevage AND, it wasn’t a lot. I have one dress that shows a lot of clevage IMO, and I tug at it most of the night when I do wear it.

kimmie ~ girl, what to do, what to do. I have to keep laughing just to keep my sanity. These jokers are off the chain. If you’re at a loss, you can only image my thoughts. Nonetheless, I keep the faith…

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
9:36 am

2C ~ I gave away a lot of my clothes last month, but kept those 2 blouses. :lol: :lol: How you doing?

disco

June 22nd, 2012
9:43 am

slim – it’s funny but it ain’t. lol. I very rarely run up on something that I feel like I’ve got to have. I’ve been pondering if my mother is the catalyst. this is the second time it’s happened since she’s been around these past few weeks.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
9:44 am

Leggs you had too much happening for the guy, cleavage is no big deal. We don’t want to bite off more than we can chew/handle. Mistaken id, for that alone he lumped you in the catagory of easily targeted women.

Big Al

June 22nd, 2012
9:44 am

Sex after first date = Yes
Sex after second date = Yes
Sex after EVERY date = Yes
Sex after marriage = No

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
9:49 am

I suppose, BF, I suppose.

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
9:50 am

Leggs – That’s is pure D CRAZY…If he feels that threatened by cleavage, he may need to join the monastery or something.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
9:55 am

And, I don’t have big boobs!

May have went more like once the liquor wore off, he remembered he was married or living with someone. Anything other than too much clevage…

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
9:57 am

To the blogger who sent the topic into Diva – If you really like this guy and feel there’s a chance for a relationship, talk it out with him. If not, your insecurities will manifest itselft in how you carry yourself going forward. Hey, it may not even have bothered him in looking at your differently. Communication is everything…

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
9:57 am

There are some women that because of their size, if they wear anything short of a turtleneck they are going to show a sliver of cleavage. Leggs is not built that way, and like she says, she dresses like a woman, very tasteful.

Dude had issues.

The men on here talk about how men are not that complicated and easy to please and don’t stress over clothes or status or education & such. What you all don’t realize is that there are a LOT of men that ARE complicated. They DO stress about image and superficial things. You would be surprised. They might not tell their buddies they are that way. Heck, this topic is a prime example. Some dudes have the nerve to judge a woman because she slept with him on the 1st date, even though he was a ready, willing participant! Or, on the other hand, complain if she’s too much of a “good girl” and makes him wait awhile. Some dudes just mess it up for themselves! :shock:

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
9:59 am

Now why you wanna bring me back? lol I’m fighting a migraine. You can trust Celisea knows the game well and have bobbed and weaved many a snakes in my lifetime so no no fronting or regrets or okie dokrs. Just agreeing with those keeping it real. Naturally clowns and jokers and busters will spout the obvious answers. Anything otherwise would be out of character for them…lol

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
10:00 am

that’s for MMEELO

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
10:04 am

Leggs he expected to see more of that cleavage in the morning, not get a call 2 days later (LOL)

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:07 am

Thank you, kimmie! How one perceives another can be mind blogging. Hell I don’t even step outside w/o a bra. Wouldn’t want anyone singing “hang low, sweet chariot.”

Ode to disco’s song choice the other day. :wink:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
10:08 am

LOL…….@Leggs/Kimmie/Cely

I can count on you ladys to bring the heat, no back stepping or moving to the side. I like that in your face stuff, without flinching.

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
10:08 am

Single – You really think 2 days is a long time??

No, I think it’s more like Leggs said, the liquor wore off and he suddenly remembered he’s otherwise “involved”.

Personally, I think he’s a punk. Even if he changed his mind or met someone else or something, why put Leggs down in the process?

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:09 am

“that’s for MMEELO” – I did laugh out loud!!

DJ Sniper

June 22nd, 2012
10:11 am

I’ve had a couple of relationships develop out of first date sex, and there are others that I didn’t see or talk to at all after it was done. Whatever the situation, I’ve never been one to judge a woman for having first date sex, knowing good and well that I was a willing participant as well. Dudes who do that really need to get a clue.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:11 am

let’s rephrase, kimmie, “why heTHINK he could put Leggs down?” :lol: :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
10:11 am

Cely get better dear. We gonna need you later on.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:11 am

Ex ~ sorry dude, I had on jeans.

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
10:13 am

Leggs – Exactly!!!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:13 am

“I know ur tatas ain’t all that” – ummmm, ummmm, and how do you know that?

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
10:14 am

Blackfoote – Alright nah……only a man’s man get it. Let me get out and get to work.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:14 am

Hope you get to feeling better real soon, Celisea! We definitely need you here with a sharp mind.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
10:16 am

Thanks Mmello!

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
10:17 am

Leggs – Thanks lady. You are sweet.

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
10:18 am

Leggs, no I don’t, but he may have thought you would give him a call later on about hooking up, and when you didn’t he looked for an excuse, stranger things have happened.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
10:18 am

Thanks Blackfoote!

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
10:21 am

Enter your comments here

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:21 am

Good point, Single. Stranger things have happened.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:43 am

Ex ~ I was at a fight party at my neighbor’s home! Jeans and a nice summer top!

For the record, Ex, I’ve never stopped feeling good about myself.

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
10:50 am

My mind is soooo not here today. I’m already counting down the time until I can dip up out of this camp!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
10:57 am

I’ve decided, at11:00 a.m., to stop and grab a couple of lemon drop martinis after work…yummy!

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
11:02 am

Leggs – I love lemon drop martinis…there’s this place that is near my job that makes them really good. Some places need to work on their mixology skills. Have one for me though and don’t let Ex get up under your skin (even though he’d really love to literally lol)

abc

June 22nd, 2012
11:05 am

On our first date, my ex-wife said I wouldn’t respect her if we hit it. I told her “I don’t respect you now”. Big hit, we were married 20 years. I never met a woman who wanted to hold out.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:09 am

SlimUno ~ I don’t believe there is much Ex can say to me that would get under my skin. I know the dude and let’s say his alter ego is just that.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:10 am

“On our first date, my ex-wife said I wouldn’t respect her if we hit it. I told her “I don’t respect you now”. – Did anyone else laugh at this. WTH?

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
11:10 am

A martini of any sort sounds good to me right about now. I’m so ready for the weekend!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:15 am

Lemon Martinis sounds like a winner Leggs.

Just got tickets to the Michael Jackson Immortal World Tour. That show should be hot next Friday night.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:15 am

Cold Cut Artist = Cheryl Lynn (404) 741-1075 = Jackson tix

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:20 am

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:20 am

Where and when will the brothers be here?

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:23 am

Turn it freaky, BF, and they’ll come…literally.

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
11:23 am

BF – That’s the Cirque de Soliel show isn’t it? I wanted to go & take the kids. I heard it was awesome!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:25 am

Kimmie yes, it’s been receiving good solid reviews all over the country.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:26 am

I know you just as much as you my tatas ain’t all that…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:28 am

Leggs what? @11:23

You mean I should dangle the tickets, to see who bites first……LOL

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
11:30 am

BF – I still may try to find a way to take the kids, because I think they will love it. They were sad they never got a chance to see MJ in concert. And I know they will love the acrobatics.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:32 am

Leggs you’ve gotten started on the Martinis early haven’t you……..LOL

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:32 am

BF ~ meaning it’s Freaky Friday. The guys usually come out to play when craziness starts, not necessarily Ex’s craziness, just you know, fun on the rooftop type of stuff (lol).

disco

June 22nd, 2012
11:36 am

leggs – I actually get abc’s first date/respect joke. to me, it is kind of funny. if a guy had said it to me I would have laughed.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:39 am

Kimmie they extended a second show for Saturday night and when it’s over they’re headed to Canada I beleive Montreal. Yeah I heard it’s a must see show from friends that saw it in Nashville.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:40 am

I get it too, still WTH. I don’t respect you now so nothing will change. That’s why I laughed.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:43 am

Ok Leggs I need a bop on the head for not catching on to that.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:43 am

Ex at Phillips Arena.

Bluzgirl

June 22nd, 2012
11:43 am

I don’t understand why a woman is looked down upon for having sex on the first date, but a man is a stud if he hits it on the first date. I think it’s an awful double standard.

Now, my last two serious relationships started out as just booty and turned to more. Granted…I already was friends with them, so it wasn’t like hooking up with a stranger. I wanted a friend with benefits and so did they, but it ended up turning into a relationship. Now, they both were not very good relationships, so I don’t think I’ll be starting off another one that way…

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:48 am

BF ~ I understand how you think for the most part (lol) so no need to bop you…just a teeny tiny nudge and BAM, you got it (lololol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
11:49 am

A couple of reviews from other city’s it was in.

Review 2 for Michael Jackson THE IMMORTAL World Tour by Cirque du Soleil
5 / 5 Cirque du Soleil!!!!!! Sprint Center @ – Kansas City @ , MO @ – Tue, Feb 21, 2012 @
Posted 02/23/2012by Deereesoso77 Location:KansasFeatured Review
If you get the chance to see this show, do NOT pass it up!!!! It was amazing! I have seen many of their shows over the years and this was definitely at the top of the list!!!
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5 / 5 STAPLES Center @ – Los Angeles @ , CA @ – Sun, Jan 29, 2012 @
Favorite moment: MICHAELS LARGE GLOVE AND SHOES ON STAGE @
Posted 02/07/2012by Aishah Location:LONG BEACH, CAFeatured Review
THE SHOW WAS ABSOLUTELY AWEEEEESOMMMMME! THANK YOU FOR SUCH A GREAT TRUBUTE TO A WONDERFUL AND TALENTED PERSON WHOM WE LOVE SO DEARLY.
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5 / 5 This is Perfection merges with perfection HP Pavilion At San Jose @ – San Jose @ , CA @ – Fri, Jan 13, 2012 @
Favorite moment: The translation of his music @
Posted 01/20/2012by KittyKatz1969 Location:san jose californiaFeatured Review
I’m speechless about this show. The perfection of Michael Jackson meets the perfection of Cirque choreographers.
It was moving, thought provoking and a brilliant homage to the late great Michael Jackson.
I want

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
11:49 am

Bluz ~ yes ma’am it’s an awful double standard, but it’s one that will never go away. Women are supposed to carry themselves on a higher, more respectful plane than men and that means not jumping on any weenie as soon as you’re taking a liking to it (lol).

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
11:52 am

I would love to see that show but the tix are so expensive

Bluzgirl

June 22nd, 2012
11:59 am

Not that I want to be a studeddess (lol), but if I wanted to, I should be considered a s l u t while the man gets high fives for all of his conquests!

disco

June 22nd, 2012
12:01 pm

bluz – easy solution. change the company you keep. there are some circles that would high five a chick for getting it in. you can even flip the scrip and start treating the fellows like the man-whores that some of them are. lol.

Bluzgirl

June 22nd, 2012
12:07 pm

“should NOT”

Bluzgirl

June 22nd, 2012
12:08 pm

True dat disco! I don’t really care what people think about me and how many people I may or may not have slept with. They can think what they want. I’ll just continue to be me!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 22nd, 2012
12:09 pm

LOL…..@Ex’s studeddess

Slim1 get the beau to do a security detail down there and y’all can get in for free. I used to pull that trick all the time at concerts I wanted to see and it worked. But we had fewer maniacs back then than we do now. What they’re asking, for some of these tix you could buy a small car engine.

i'm swiss

June 22nd, 2012
12:10 pm

Double standards are a fact of life. Some work in your favor, some don’t. It is what it is.

As for women giving it up on the first date, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that — if you feel like hitting it, more power to you. However, I think most guys (myself included) would not think of you as wifey material if you give it up on the first date. Is that fair? No. But that’s life. :)

Morning Afternoon, folks!

disco

June 22nd, 2012
12:15 pm

swiss – true true but the real is that some guys should just be happy they are getting some and most certainly can’t pass much judgment on any chick that breaks down and gives him some. some guys out there would have a hard time even paying for some. beggars can’t be choosers. lol. any of y’all ever look at a person and wonder if they’ve ever even had any or wonder who in the world is doing that person? okay, I’m sorry. I’m being bad.

Jarred Schenke

June 22nd, 2012
12:21 pm

I’m married. What’s this sex thing you are all talking about?

i'm swiss

June 22nd, 2012
12:33 pm

“any of y’all ever look at a person and wonder if they’ve ever even had any or wonder who in the world is doing that person?”

disco — I feel that way whenever I look at pretty much any ultra right-wing, stick-up-their-azz blow hard.

Like this fat piece of sh!t, or this orange m___f____r, or this over-inflated douchebag.

disco

June 22nd, 2012
12:34 pm

ex – lol. last time I called him to change a light bulb I couldn’t reach. it might just be time to give him a call and ask him to swap out the air filters. thanks for the reminder. am I thinking about giving him some? naw. but of course we just had the conversation about negotiating earlier this week. if he makes me an offer I can’t refuse I’ll see what I can do. lol. as I previously stated, no shame in my game.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
12:45 pm

With the title of orange m____f___r, I thought there would be a picture of the crispy looking tanning woman.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2012
12:47 pm

Indeed Disco..his issues got nothing to do with the fact that u got cobwebs that need some dusting!

eve now and then…

i'm swiss

June 22nd, 2012
1:15 pm

What happened? Did the whole blog shut down to dust disco’s cobwebs & I wasn’t invited???

Willie Dynamite

June 22nd, 2012
1:18 pm

Afternoon All,
Good topic for debate, where do I start? My Opinion only. For me getting puddy has never ever been an issue that I had to fret over. The goal was always get to a point of knowing I could get it (ego) preferrably asap. Whether I acted on that or not mattered not to the womans perspective. At the end of the day if I want to act on it or not depended on the situation. If not I could always make a ph call to take care of any needs I had. For me the goal wasn’t trying to get the puddy moreso getting to the point of her giving me the puddy. I always thought it amazing that when you take away the full court press to get the puddy that it was easier to be given.
Yeah I’ve been a wolf, coochie snatcher, good guy and all of the above depending on the day/chick.

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
1:56 pm

disco – I so agree, some should just be happy they got some!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
2:03 pm

Ex, guess you didn’t get the memo. Golden showers do not fit with the maturity of the women in Blogsville!

Willie Dynamite

June 22nd, 2012
2:05 pm

To be contrary (it is Friday) some Women just want to get done good by someone they don’t consider a buster. They may have a high opinion of themselves but we get the concept of low hanging fruit. IJS, its a lot of f ugging going on and it is mutual.

disco

June 22nd, 2012
2:13 pm

swiss – my jaw dropped. dang. lol.

Single and Happy

June 22nd, 2012
2:15 pm

Ex you wouldn’t consider her wifey type, yea you can turn a h into a housewife! so the first time I come homes and she’s acting like Susie home maker, she got to go!!

SlimUno

June 22nd, 2012
2:18 pm

its a lot of f ugging going on and it is mutual.

WD – Yup yup lol

i'm swiss

June 22nd, 2012
2:19 pm

disco — I know you’re one baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad chick, but I didn’t realized it took the whole blog to service you. ;-) lol

disco

June 22nd, 2012
2:21 pm

swiss – well if I’m cobwebbed up like the blog (well like ex) is trying to make me out to be things might just take a while. you know how cobwebs are sticky and hard to get off? lol. okay. I’m going to stop talking about myself. I do my share to entertain the blog but virtual trains is not my forte.

i'm swiss

June 22nd, 2012
2:25 pm

disco — Did you just say you were sticky and hard to get off? Sounds like a challenge to me… lol

Willie Dynamite

June 22nd, 2012
2:28 pm

Swiss – disco is one of those stats that throws off the bell curve. You can’t include her in the stat pool. Then again its some dude(s) that will say she full of isht. She’s our female version of Ex on the blog.

HST

June 22nd, 2012
2:31 pm

Hello Bloggers! My cumulative hang-over is finally gone.

OT: I would never consider a girl loose if she had sex with me on the first date. I also don’t kiss and tell, I learned early in life that girls do way more sexually when you don’t tell. As usual, this is a very subjective subject. I say, if you feel bad about it, you have to look at yourself, no one else does. I personally don’t have a set of rules for dating, I take each date differently, as I do each woman.

I leave judging for Judges, and if it’s not for me, I remove myself.

Willie Dynamite

June 22nd, 2012
2:33 pm

Disco – and I don’t say that as a jab to you so put the razor back in ya natural fro. Hahaha

disco

June 22nd, 2012
2:33 pm

willie d – I think I resent that remark. come on now, don’t do me like that. not that I’m denying that I probably would throw off the curve but ex is in a class all by himself.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
2:33 pm

I’m just glad no one (here) has EVER seen a slip, hem, panties, pantylines or a whiff of my cookies :) I can’t control what anybody else think or believe…lololololol

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
2:36 pm

I don’t knock wolves that know they’re wolves or busters that know they’re busters or even clowns that know they’re clowns. It’s the posers, fakers and all folks that hang out in that category that just kills me…

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
2:36 pm

That hang in those categories but hanging out like sheep that just kiiiillls me :) They’ve got fangs, whiskers, claws and stuff hanging out all over the place.

Willie Dynamite

June 22nd, 2012
2:39 pm

Disco – no fuss but you too are in a class by yourself.

Cel – I did see the skrippa shoes and the 440 legs. You can blame the old roommates but mine eyes have seen the glory. I know shet it up. Hahaha

disco

June 22nd, 2012
2:42 pm

touché willie. touché.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
2:42 pm

WillieD – LOLOLOL…That buster comment was not for you. I can dig a stand-up dude all day long… Heck I can dig a ho that’s a ho, owning a ho…all day long

Skrippa shoes and 440 leggs :) :) :) Me likey!

HST

June 22nd, 2012
2:44 pm

What does 440 leggs mean?

kimmie

June 22nd, 2012
2:47 pm

Willie D – You are right. Sometimes, women too just want to get it done and go on. Not looking for a husband.

There were a few times I had a Mr Right Now. Wasn’t trying to really build a future with these dudes, for whatever reason, just wanted to hookup every now & then and hang out. I remember one guy in particular. I hadn’t too long gone thru the stress of losing my mother. He was a guy at work. I knew he had a girlfriend, though he tried to play that off. We had a secret thing going on that we kept outside the office for about 3 months. I had my fun, and then I just didn’t want to be bothered anymore. He came over one time and I basically ignored him. He was going off on me, asking how I could just cast him aside like that. I just shrugged my shoulders and went back to looking at the tv. He stormed out. Got mad as all get out when I got promoted at work too!LOL!!

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
2:55 pm

MMeelloo – LOL…I ain’t saying nothing but what I said. Frankly I don’t really know too much outside of what the screen says daily about the other women here. Honest I don’t.

abc

June 22nd, 2012
3:08 pm

Testing a thing… this is how AJC is trying to make some dough off this news site, just like everyone on the Internet does.

You land on ajc.com, and it writes a cookie. A doubleclick ad comes up and write a cookie, and 20 others; meebo ad comes up, 20 more cookies; and so on. You surf to another site that advertising group has ads on, they read the cookies from your ajc.com visit and write some more. In that way they trace pretty much every click you ever make, keeping records. The records define you; they are your profile. Based on the profile, you become a targeted ad recipient; your loan-worthiness, employability, insurability, and so on are measured against your profile, kind of like a credit report.

There’s a Firefox add-on that demonstrates this in action while you surf, called Collusion. https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/collusion/

There’s one for Chrome somewhere, google it. Google will keep track that you searched for it and put it in your profile. No kiddin.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
3:10 pm

Ex, perhaps I do talk too much, but I’m not anyone’s spokesperson. You stated we were MIA because we may be out getting those nasty showers. Some things the joke is absent (at least for me).

HST

June 22nd, 2012
3:10 pm

Did anyone out here see the Gold Rush Rally cars take off out of Atlanta? I hired the police to escort us to the highway, it was nuts! Did anyone come down to the W to party or see the cars?

Still would like to know what 440 legs are, I goggled and used Urban Dictionary…

HST

June 22nd, 2012
3:16 pm

Exiled, I do like a MILF. I date age appropriate (what’s best for me), so soccer moms are always on the agenda, but I don’t single out. I am a serial dater, and basically a commitaphobe; however, I own it, and never act differently.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

June 22nd, 2012
3:23 pm

Happy Friday Folks….Sex on the First Night, sure why not….If its right its right, I know I wore some thighmuffs a couple of times right off the bat…

HST

June 22nd, 2012
3:25 pm

abc, use CCleaner after every site and that won’t happen – tracking internet users is out of control. All my buddies who are Computer Scientists told me about CCleaner, and how to use it properly. It’s free to download, and when you see the amount of cookies you get from each site, you’ll be in awe. Everytime I close the internet, or iTunes I CClean, and sometimes I have to do it twice.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2012
3:31 pm

Leggs,everything I say here..99% is a joke coz I ain’t in anybody’s space like that to know ur lives and make a joke be something else..when its not a joke,I speak in generalities. It’s not targeted but yes it may stick.
I think most here that I blog with know that..well maybe except u…

I wll exude you from my jokes and if I say’ blogwomen,women or some such gender’ reference without ur name in it and the joke ain’t palatable to u,well take yourself out of it then…

How’s that? @ Leggs

HST

June 22nd, 2012
3:42 pm

Commitahole (hahaa) is the direct opposite of commitaphobe, but commitaphobe is in the Urban Dictionary, which seems to be the new Oxford. Keeping up with acronyms, and Urban words is an arduous task…

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
3:46 pm

Some of your posts don’t sound like jokes so I speak on some of it. Nevertheless, I’m cool

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
3:46 pm

Nothing arduous or hard about “keeping up”…that is unless it’s a square peg getting forced in a round hole :)

Mmeello – You shole got a lot of time on your hands today :) I’m glad to see you hanging out. Some days your appearance is rare. I guess though that’s what happens when you move on up and start balling and stomping with the big dogs…lol

HST

June 22nd, 2012
3:51 pm

Whatever Celisea, I see a new acronym at least once a week (was way more frequent), and see words that only exist in the Urban Dictionary often.

Square Peg…holy 80’s…

abc

June 22nd, 2012
3:54 pm

firefox and chrome can be configured to dump all the cookies everytime you close, or even moving between sites — course, chrome does tracking of its own, I think.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
3:56 pm

LOLOL…my reference like the 440 legs remark went over your head. Don’t sweat it…you can’t “study” urban

Celisea

June 22nd, 2012
3:56 pm

HST

June 22nd, 2012
3:57 pm

abc, it does, and even with those configurations set you will still be tracked. You get tracked even off-line, so that when you do get on-line info is already collected. Download CCleaner, and you’ll really see the extent of the tracking by search engines.

HST

June 22nd, 2012
4:00 pm

Celisea, I got the square to round reference, but the 440 leg I have no idea.

HST

June 22nd, 2012
4:01 pm

I’m out as well. Have a great weekend everyone!

DreamsMaterialize

June 22nd, 2012
4:05 pm

Hey blogettes and fellas.

How’s everyone doing? What’s the haps for the weekend?

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:09 pm

Hey DreamsM.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
4:11 pm

TGIF All!! Long time, no blog! Hope all is well in Blogsville!

So whats good party people? Hey Dreams!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:12 pm

Hey Mo. Glad you came on…Ok, what other old heads are about to surface!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
4:14 pm

Hey Leggs!

Im trying to speed read thru the last page and catch up (if you all are still on topic)

Man this day cannot be over with fast enough!! GEESH!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:17 pm

I’m going for lemon drop martini in one hour….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
4:20 pm

That sounds good Leggs!! I have some spirits already in the ‘fridge for when I get back to the Eastside!

Its been a crazy week!

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:24 pm

I have spirits in the fridge too, just need to be outside people watching.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
4:26 pm

Ok so I see a few folks dropped in today! Wish I couldve stopped in earlier!

DreamsMaterialize

June 22nd, 2012
4:31 pm

Hey Dreams!
Mo what’s up. Good to read you. It’s been a while. You ready for the weekend?

DreamsMaterialize

June 22nd, 2012
4:32 pm

Leggs How are you? I see you on the lemon drop martini.

I have some spirits already in the ‘fridge for when I get back to the Eastside!
Mo Dang, you got one save for me? lol

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
4:34 pm

Heeeey Dreams! Ready for the weekend? Since Monday, LOL! Its been one of THOSE weeks!

How are you? And yep, you know I got you on the spirits! LOL

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:37 pm

I’m good, DreamsM. No complaints…well I have some, but who really cares about them (lol).

This is the longest hour. My boss just called to tell me he’s stuck in traffic and don’t know when he’ll return to the office for me to have a great weekend and he’ll see me on Monday.

Yeah, right. I ain’t falling for the stuck in traffic trick and leave early…no no no!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
4:42 pm

LOL, I hear you Leggs! Well I have an hour and 15 to go…..LAWD it cant go by fast enough!

DreamsMaterialize

June 22nd, 2012
4:50 pm

How are you? And yep, you know I got you on the spirits!
Mo Everything is good on my end. Just looking forward to relaxing this evening. Just a few more minutes left. Trying to decide if I want relax Tequila style or Blue Moon style. lol

Leggs Glad to hear things are going well. Don’t hurt ‘em this weekend. ;-)

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:52 pm

I have a singles meetup tomorrow, and I definitely plan to hurt somebody (lol), visually that is.

i'm swiss

June 22nd, 2012
4:53 pm

“Trying to decide if I want relax Tequila style or Blue Moon style.”

Dreams — Double fist it. Problem solved.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:53 pm

Wait, hold up…that didn’t come out right. I don’t want to necessarily hurt anyone by them seeing me (lol). Just hope to meet some nice people.

Leggs

June 22nd, 2012
4:54 pm

My boss just walked in….me took no stupid pill today!!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 22nd, 2012
5:07 pm

Have a great weekend!