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Dating dilemma: Is their/your job too sexy?

I was bypassing the TV One network and spotted a show called Love Addiction. This particular episode featured Dr. Tartt, who has guest blogged on our MIA blog before, talking to a couple in distress. I am not sure where the addiction came in, but the woman was dating a guy who is paid to rub on dangerously naked women all day.

I started to wonder which jobs, careers brought a slew of potential dangers if you were in a relationship. Obviously a massage therapist has to look at women all day as they moan in pleasure (if he’s doing it right!), is pretty close to most sexiest jobs. What about an OB/GYN? Or a bartender?

Do you think that certain jobs or careers would require a super secure, totally understanding partner, for things to work?

I can not imagine having to constantly explain about “clients” to a significant other. Then again, what is it really like having to deal with your mate, basically flirting and turning on charm for a living?

What do you think? Would it bother you if you were dating someone in an industry that involved hot bodies and flirting? Are you in that kind of career now? Has it caused dating problems for you? If so, how did you handle it?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

260 comments Add your comment

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:38 pm

Rarely for me to say anything about fat people….hell I was a toothpick and had my share of picking on and bullying.

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:39 pm

Rare for me….

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:40 pm

Leggs, well you turned out just right! Those wouldn’t be “stripper” legs would they? JUST KIDDING don’t shoot me.

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:41 pm

Exiled, any women I deem good enough to have sex with I would go down on. So if I end up in bed with one yes it’s safe to say I would but I try and stay stripperless

disco

June 21st, 2012
3:42 pm

she might have been a stripper if all of her lotion has glitter in it.

she might have been a stripper if most of her shoes have clear heels.

she might have been a stripper if she knows the difference between a thong, g-string and t-backs.

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:42 pm

Is Single and Happy a man or a woman?

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:43 pm

disco I disagree with your last point.

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:43 pm

If she has a tattoo covering both butt cheeks she was probably a stripper

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:44 pm

All they know about the father….naw. I’ve seen hood mamas and papas and n’aaan one of them drove a fancy car. Everyone isn’t sexing another driving a nice car…there’s a lot of hooptie love making going down.

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:46 pm

@PR ~ don’t know about stripper legs, but I’ve been told I have the gait of a find philly (lol). Must admit I thought that was one of the funniest lines I’ve ever heard.

disco

June 21st, 2012
3:46 pm

well dang purple and I thought I was on a roll. guess I’m out of the strip game. lol.

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:48 pm

PR ~ since you aren’t always on here asking for suggestive photos of newbies, let me put you out of your misery. Single and happy is male.

SlimUno

June 21st, 2012
3:50 pm

I have never paid attention to your face before

PR – Yes you did, you just didn’t realize that was my face :lol:

Exiled – I was really just kidding. I do aight…I’m not ready go under the knife for plastic surgery just yet ;-)

Purp – You are skrait tripping up in here right about now :lol:

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:50 pm

“All the senior blog chics(Legs,Slim,Kimmie,Sexycool etc) wld tell us that skill was got thru keggel exercises!: – Again wrong. None of us senior ladies would tell you anything….

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
3:51 pm

I forgot the infamous :wink: behind my post.

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:52 pm

I was asking because Single and Happy sounds like a name a woman would choose, but then Exiled asked a question towards Single and Happy that made it seem like a guy. No offense SIngle and Happy, I was just wondering.

SlimUno

June 21st, 2012
3:53 pm

I have yet to meet a kid named Box Chevy :lol:

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:54 pm

Slim your face looks like ass and I mean that in a good way!

SlimUno

June 21st, 2012
3:54 pm

She may have been a stripper if she pays all her bills in one dollar bills

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:56 pm

Slim, you may not know a little girl named”box chevy” but I bet you know a little girl named “Caprice”

disco

June 21st, 2012
3:57 pm

ex – you’d be surprised at what a so-called, straight-laced respectable chick will do. strippers don’t have tattoos, body piercing or anything else on lock.

SlimUno

June 21st, 2012
3:58 pm

Exiled – If I have a tatt covering both of my butt cheeks, it’s probably because my arse is small as hell. I cottonball would cover my whole ass.

PR – You cannot use Ex asking a specific gender a question…afterall, he’s the man that asked another man about his nether region :shock: lol

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
3:58 pm

The best strippers don’t have tattoos or piercings

Exiled!

June 21st, 2012
4:01 pm

Disco,I ain’t talking bout so-called

I’m talking bout respectable

There is a difference (so-called)

SlimUno

June 21st, 2012
4:02 pm

“PR ur 3:52 confirms u have strong authentic Balls” <— And there he goes again…Repeat balls & wang offender

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:02 pm

Slim, that is true.

Single and Happy

June 21st, 2012
4:05 pm

Exiled would I go down, been there done that

disco

June 21st, 2012
4:05 pm

ex – well I’ll rephrase. you’d be surprised what a straight-laced, respectable chick will do.

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:09 pm

disco, define straightlaced and respectable

Single and Happy

June 21st, 2012
4:09 pm

Ex I’m like Marvyn Gaye, I like me a good ole church gurl :-D

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
4:10 pm

PR ~ I see you were about to make the same mistake, using the same reasoning that Ex did trying to figure out Single’s gender.

Also, like the “caprice” comment…cool!

Single and Happy

June 21st, 2012
4:10 pm

dem some freaks (LOL)

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:12 pm

I don’t know if you all remember my best friend who got paroled last year but he has two strippers pregnant from the same club (there are only two here) at the same time.

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:12 pm

Lebron has that look in his eyes. He is not bs’ing around.

SlimUno

June 21st, 2012
4:16 pm

Wow, he needs a ticket for excessive skrippa raw doggin

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:19 pm

Exiled you always look before you lick!

Slim, he had just came home, I just laugh at him and tell him to make sure he gets a dna test.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

June 21st, 2012
4:19 pm

lebron aint closing nothing….

what up people, whats good, besides the fact that its the first day of summer and the ladies have the high heels, toes, backs, navels, cleavage,posteriors, calfs, ankles, and arms OUT

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:21 pm

Jake you have OKC tonight? Somebody needs to give Westbrook an ice cream cone, he looks like a special needs kid

Single and Happy

June 21st, 2012
4:22 pm

Ex looked like all the rest of them to me.

How do you know your girl used to be a stripper? You used to be one of her tricks!

“oh I knew I had meet you before”

kimmie

June 21st, 2012
4:23 pm

Exiled – My daddy paid my way thru UGA, thank you very much!! But back then it was only about 6k a year, no joke, for tuition, room & board!

I did know a chick that paid her way thru undergrad at UGA and grad. She was one of the first AA to dance at the Gold Club! At least she went top shelf! She was a pretty girl too – a Jet beauty of the week in a suede fringe bikini! She was studying chemistry or biology. Nice girl, I liked her but other female students hated on her. She was cool with me, no threat!

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:24 pm

Single that’s a good one.

Why do guys fall in love with strippers, like he is the only one she is running game on?

Single and Happy

June 21st, 2012
4:27 pm

PR, you’ve dated her for months, trying to figure out where you’ve seen each other, then the first time she gets nekid and gives you a lap dance, you both say damn now I remember

Leggs

June 21st, 2012
4:31 pm

kimmie

June 21st, 2012
4:32 pm

Exiled – A lot use that as an excuse, that “I’m paying my way thru college”. That’s the one and only time I saw it in action. She was actually in one of my classes!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

June 21st, 2012
4:33 pm

yeah, their youth and the refs are killin OKC, I just say, they better close tonight, if it goes back to OKC, we will have a game 7

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:36 pm

I had a “friend” named “Fawn” who danced at the Cheetah when I lived down there. She looks just like Rihanna without the block head and a little more booty. For some reason I do not really think her name was Fawn

Single and Happy

June 21st, 2012
4:37 pm

As Micheal Baisden once said along the lines about women who won’t strip is because most of them can’t strip.

kimmie

June 21st, 2012
4:38 pm

Purple – You know that was her stage name!!LOL!!

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:39 pm

kimmie, whaaaa?

Purple Reign

June 21st, 2012
4:39 pm