I really was not going to get into the new HBO, show Girls. I am soo far from being a young girl (birthday is in 10 days!) and I don’t live in New York (not yet, that is.). Yet here I am, thinking about last night’s season finale.
One of the characters decides to up and marry a guy she met a whopping 14 days earlier. Now, I am all for spontaneity and living in the moment, but how does a two week relationship evolve into a marriage? Well, it’s fictional and on HBO, which isn’t just TV, so whatever.
The reality is though, there are people who believe in love at first sight. Some fall so hard and so fast, that they commit to a life together right away. Does that mean their love isn’t real, though?
I really want to know the marriage statistics on people who met and married in a short amount of time, compared to those that didn’t. What do you think those numbers would be?
Would you marry someone after two weeks of knowing them? Do you think love at first sight is possible?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
June 18th, 2012
3:55 pm
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Single and Happy
June 18th, 2012
3:56 pm
@Disco, if you’re paying $1000, you don’t have to cry about it. But it also so trips me out when a guy is crying about him paying for all the things his baby mamas buying with his $50 a week child support (rothlmao)
Leggs
June 18th, 2012
3:56 pm
I sure wished the judge said that to my ex. Nevamind, just remembered my ex wasn’t there for the judge to speak to (lol).
Celisea...dragging and tired :)
June 18th, 2012
3:58 pm
Leggs – She wouldn’t let him say a word. Only because we’d been in there a gazillion times and she was tired of it.
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
June 18th, 2012
3:58 pm
Disco…them $1000/mth dudes don’t got time to complain, they at work…
SlimUno
June 18th, 2012
3:58 pm
14 inches, dayum, he got me an inch That’s what I call self- adver ti sing at it’s finest
disco
June 18th, 2012
3:59 pm
single and happy – sho’ you right. let him tell it that $50 got her hair done, her nails done, took her new man out to eat, put gas in the car, got her teeth whitened and bought her other baby (with a different daddy) an outfit. lol.
Single and Happy
June 18th, 2012
4:00 pm
I once had the girl at the bank tell me that she wouldn’t date me because I had 2 kids and probably didn’t have any thing left after child support, mind you she was cashing my check. Well one day I had to break it down to her, what she saw on my check was after child support
Single and Happy
June 18th, 2012
4:01 pm
disco, don’t forget, make the house and car payments too.
Dani
June 18th, 2012
4:08 pm
My ex husband thought since I made more money than him that the payments were going to be $680 for 2 kids under age 8. That was just a starting point ended up being $1044 per month. When we split all I asked for was $700 no court involved. We could split holidays and birthdays. I’m sure $700 month seem like a better deal now.
Celisea...dragging and tired :)
June 18th, 2012
4:08 pm
After a couple of years paying the amount awarded, my kid’s dad checked himself in some hordy tordy place and claimed “sickness” for getting reduced. Funny thing, right after that little trick, they confiscated his taxes which was a few thousands. I just got an email saying my payment information had been updated. Logged in and bam, payment in my account the next day. God don’t like ugly.
Leggs
June 18th, 2012
4:09 pm
The amount I was awarded is laughable, but I knew he didn’t make a lot of money but when he paid and was a dollar over and asked for his dollar back I again laughed and walked away….just spiteful.
Celisea...dragging and tired :)
June 18th, 2012
4:10 pm
My kid’s dad amount was upped because of the games he played and rightfully so. So to get him caught up the judge stuck it to him.
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
June 18th, 2012
4:15 pm
Slim-you stoopid…
DreamsMaterialize
June 18th, 2012
4:20 pm
What’s good everyone.
i'm swiss
June 18th, 2012
4:23 pm
Wait, we’re talking 14 inches in diameter, right?
Dynamic
June 18th, 2012
4:25 pm
Swiss- I pick HAPPINESS!
OT- If I met somone who meets all my criteria for dating, finances, religion, height, and can throw tha “D”! I think I can committ quick…maybe not in two weeks, but 6 months.
Leggs
June 18th, 2012
4:26 pm
Exit, stage left….
i'm swiss
June 18th, 2012
4:30 pm
Dynamic — I think you have me confused with another blogger, but I’m happy for you all the same.
By the way, is your list of criteria in any particular order of importance?
Dynamic
June 18th, 2012
4:35 pm
My fault swiss….that’s what happens when you luck all day and post at the end of the day. But the list is in no particular order although throwinhg tha “D” is important on my list
4 Real- I pick happiness!
Dynamic
June 18th, 2012
4:37 pm
opps lurk
i'm swiss
June 18th, 2012
4:54 pm
Darn it, Dynamic! I was so hoping it was the “L” that was the typo in that 4:35.