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Ex-files: Are all your exes insane?

I will never forget returning from a night out with a new guy, only to find my ex waiting in my driveway. Psycho cop was not open to the idea of “parting ways” so he actively tried to sabotage any new potential romances.

The young man I was trying to rebound with was patient as any good man could be, but when he asked me, “Are all your exes this insane?”, well I had to own up to my poor choices in men! Is it fair to judge someone by the last person they dated?

What do you do when your ex is not ready to move on but you are already gone? Do you let the new person know that the ex is lingering around, much to your chagrin?

P.S. Did you hear the one about two guys walk into a club and start taunting one another about their shared ex? No punchline. It happened. What would you do if you found out your exes were fighting about you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

210 comments Add your comment

Lily

June 15th, 2012
6:19 am

Exiled!

June 15th, 2012
6:50 am

Lily,you have punched me to defeat.

Yea,second!

If All your exes keep rebounding,yea,you maybe pyscho yourself! Birds of a feather,I say.

Although I will confess,top notch nana will make a guy want to keep in contact even after being benched.
Top notch kuchi is like glue! It nuts s dude’s brain.

Hmmm..do Diva got a nice package..no wonder she got do much divaish swag.. :lol:

Exiled!

June 15th, 2012
6:51 am

So Diva…..

2CPTG

June 15th, 2012
8:12 am

morning……

I agree with exiled! Diva what are you doing to these men? I’mma start referring to you as “Diva 3-5-7″ …..juicy got ‘em crazy!!!!

HH7

June 15th, 2012
8:29 am

the answer to your question is …Yes!
that is why my policy is the ex does not EXist!
if he has NO reason to keep in contact, he better not even try..period.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
8:58 am

Good morning!

Lily, you’re always first. Ex, give up trying.

Hey, 2C! What’s cooking.

I don’t have any insane ex’s. I pretty much can spot crazy before it’s in full bloom. There are 2 guys that are still vying for my attention 30 years later, but I know their dirt and can’t get down with them.

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
8:58 am

2C – Good to read ya man and you have me cracking the hell up with the 357 reference :lol:

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
9:01 am

lmao @ lily & me-lo.
x, why do you even bother? :lol:

quite happy to report that i have no experience whatsoever with today’s topic. my exes are still my chums and rather cool dudes.
the ex hubs is in a trash class by himself, true, but he’s no psycho.

my heart goes out to the bloggers with stalker tales. that’s got to be some unnerving kinda crap.

disco

June 15th, 2012
9:08 am

omg – did ya say “juicy got ‘em crazy”. now that’s what I needed on a Friday morning. cold going mad. that’s what’s up!

good morning everyone.

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
9:08 am

Oh, and good morning Blogsville…

Once when I was trying to move on from the ex, he could not get a hold of me because I was out with the new guy and ex was blowing me up. He called me about 30 times and even left a msg saying he was outside of my apt waiting and had been out there at least 3 hrs already. That was about as crazy as I can think of at the moment.

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
9:18 am

Diva what are you doing to these men?
wait. what? does this mean i wasn’t ‘too good to let go’?

nah! it’s like leggs said, them joes had their cuckoo under wraps from day one.
you just gotta be patient and savvy enough to flush it out.

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
9:24 am

GOOD Friday Morning Everyone!

All of my ex’s are NOT insane. 1 or 2 do need some professional counseling, but none are stalkers. However, I do have 1 that I work with everyday and contrary to popular belief, it is going better than expected. If in fact you DON’T want to be bothered, stand your ground and keep your ex on their side of the fence.

Elijah

June 15th, 2012
9:26 am

What it do good people?

That good juice will have you doing some crazy things! I once dated a woman who threw down like no other! We had a bitter break-up, On a few occasions I noticed her car outside during this time I had a guest over and she would start blowing up the phone. Long story short after the madness subsided I started knocking dem boots again… Yea I know should not have, but the juice was calling me! lol

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
9:27 am

czBrat I am a firm believer in the fact that a person does not turn psycho overnight. There are always warning signs, it’s up to the person as to whether or not they pay attention to them. *Loving the patient & savvy*

disco

June 15th, 2012
9:29 am

just yesterday I mentioned a news article out of Cleveland where an ex-girlfriend doused the current girlfriend in gasoline and tried to set her on fire. if D makes you do all that, that’s the D I don’t want. I’m crazy enough by myself. I don’t need anything adding to my level of crazy.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
9:29 am

O/T ~ Has Drake and Chris Brown lost their freaking minds???

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
9:30 am

“but the juice was calling me! lol” – reminds me of Richard Pryor before he caught on fire.

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
9:34 am

Leggs, to answer your ?, YES they have! Like seriously, what ADULT men act like that in public?

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
9:40 am

MissMoni ~ I said the same thing while watching the news.

disco

June 15th, 2012
9:42 am

okay leggs/moni. i missed it. i heard their names on the radio this a.m. and changed the station but now y’all at least have me curious. what did they do?

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
9:44 am

If women act a fool after a break up then she is simply deemed crazy. However, if a dude is acting a little wacky then it automatically assumed to be because of some guuud guud puddy. Is it that hard to fathom that the sex known to be practical, could actually just be crazy as hell?

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
9:50 am

Brown and Drake were at the same club in NYC with their bodyguards. Brown sent a bottle of champagne over to Drake’s table. Drake returned the bottle with a note saying something to the effect of him being Rhiana’s true love. Bottles started flying, with one gashing Brown’s chin. Bodyguard in hospital, not sure from which camp. An Australian woman in the club received 16 stitches from the mayhem. Others in hospital (I think 4-6) with minor injuries.

disco

June 15th, 2012
9:56 am

what’s truly amazing to me – well I guess not so amazing, I should be used to it by now – is that this junk consistently makes the news. the paparazzi and the media need to pull back and leave folks alone. there are far more important things for these so-called journalists to report. certainly not condoning their behavior or making excuses but dang. too many folks are worried about what these celebs are doing. guess it confirms why some (usually hollywood’s bad boys/girls) stand by the concept of no press is bad press.

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
10:06 am

lol @ ms.moni. you can come about that patience & savvy a couple ways;
learn from your own near-psycho experience, or heed the mishaps of others.

i’ve chosen the latter. it’s a little less painful.

kimmie

June 15th, 2012
10:06 am

Morning All!!!

No crazy exes. One TRIED to go there with me, come calling over to my daddy’s house during the time he’d had his stroke and I would be over there alot caring for him. Cried like a big sissy when I broke it off with him. Claimed he was just “concerned” about me so that’s why he was calling me at my daddy’s house. My dad was not able to fight him at the time, but he main caregiver, a kinda crazy, ex-veteran that had seen real battle, was more than willing when he answered his calls! I told him it wasn’t necessary, but told dude DO NOT call my house or my daddy’s house ever again or he would not like the outcome. He’d really have something to cry about then, I told him. He left me alone!

That’s my only bout with crazy. I too, can spot it a mile away. I get a strong vibe. Those are the times when I can’t explain it when other people ask me “why didn’t I give so-and-so a chance”. Alot of times didn’t have anything “concrete” to base my decision on, just wanted to avoid the crazy I could feel possibly coming on.

Yeah, you dudes keep on runny after that crazy puddy! You and everyone around you will have to deal with the collateral damage. Is it really worth it? And you call US irrational!!

Exiled!

June 15th, 2012
10:08 am

Up north we had the news yesterday folds!

The DJs drive down to NY at night and are on the radio the next morning dishing out dirt.

Folks up here are just celebrity crazy

I can tell u todays news here that news there tmrw if u want! Lol

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
10:09 am

Disco, it is borderline annoying that mainstream media is filled with celeb & politician everything. Most of the time, I’m like really, who cares? A crazy ex is just that & it doesn’t matter WHO they are.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:09 am

Morning all,

I’ve had one all out crazy and one that had a hard time letting go.

I can admit though, I’ve probably been someone’s crazy…lol Not stalking or anything but snapping? Yeah I’ve gone all in and deservedly so. Next time don’t think me to be umm fu fu. Still and even so I bet they were thinking WTH??? LOLOLOLOL

kimmie

June 15th, 2012
10:10 am

Exiled – That Drake/CB mess was all over the news here yesterday too, early in the morning. They were talking about it on Frank & Wanda yesterday! I don’t know why the press is acting like it just happened last nite!!

Wanda was saying CB really needs to quit trying to be this big thug, cause he ain’t one!!LOL!!

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
10:12 am

And another thing, sometimes people ALLOW music to inspire them when they really should listen to ANOTHER song. Case in point: Jennifer Holiday- And I’m Telling You
This is NOT a song to listen to after a breakup! You can’t MAKE anybody love you.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:12 am

The all out crazy would just “show” up and try and sabotage anything new or potentially new I had going on. Constantly walked in without knocking, followed me, for about a year would call my desk EVERY Monday until he was dang tired. That would last Monday and about a half day Tuesday. He’d go quiet Wednesday on and back at it Monday. Looking through my stuff, questioning my kid about who’s coming over….I could go on and on and on

disco

June 15th, 2012
10:16 am

ex – I’m not truly mad at the media and the paparazzi as much as the idiots who support the media and the paparazzi. of course, it’s easier to blame the media and paparazzi than the general population. this fascination with other peoples’ lives (celebrity news and reality tv) is so beyond my understanding but apparently there’s a market. it takes all kinds.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:16 am

Did I mention knocking on my windows at night, showing up at my job (calling from the security desk…nut), oh when he said (out of his mouth) he was going to put roots on me because he couldn’t get me like he wanted me…. What stupid? LOL

Anyhoo it’s Friday and I feel like cutting up :)

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
10:21 am

Celisea, I’m so GLAD you got away from that FOOL! You definitely got a reason to ENJOY your Friday! ;-)

disco

June 15th, 2012
10:22 am

celisea – you have a very colorful past. stripper roommates, workplace stalkers, a kid who blocks with a subtle little cough. lol. (wait, that was your kid wasn’t it? might have you confused with someone else).

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
10:23 am

I have only had one ex that I was a little scared of. Psycho in Seattle was definitely psychotic around the time of the breakup. He is bipolar and was not taking the proper meds or getting treatment. I was so glad that he lived in Seattle, but still worried about him coming here to visit friends and showing up. I was relieved when I moved and he wouldn’t have had my address anymore.

The recent ex…he isn’t psycho, but his new woman is and has stuck her nose in where it doesn’t belong. If I hear from her one more time, I will show her true psycho!!!

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:26 am

MissMoni – LOL…okaaaay How are you today?

disco – Yeah, that was my kid blocking…lol Not too checkered. Honey I’m a big sissy (please..no offense to anyone). Most of that action happened with me on the sidelines watching, clutching pearls and not believing (oh my virgin eyes and ears) or somebody seeing my back from running…lol Chile I was too scared to get into anything but if I had to put my eyes out from all that I’ve seen, well……

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:26 am

Oh snap, Bluz, the new gf is contacting you? Why?

Also, the license plate number was a bust!

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:27 am

disco – The best seat in the house is from the sidelines. From the time of being reared around pops and my brothers to the stuff I didn’t know folks did, I learned a lot. I’m not angel but I observed a great deal of stuff along the way. I ain’t gotta experience everything to know what NOT to do. I learned from listening and watching.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:28 am

Bluz – Say it ain’t so!

disco

June 15th, 2012
10:29 am

C – well you see that story stuck with me because it was just so funny. sidelines or not, you were there and so you were a part of the experience.

leggs – I have my suspicions why but I’ll wait for bluz to share.

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
10:29 am

I can’t wait to hear this…Bluz, do tell :shock:

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:30 am

disco ~ just read that the note Drake sent back to Chris said “I’m still f….. Rhiana” then all hell broke loose.

lolalee

June 15th, 2012
10:30 am

One truly crazy ex. I have a permanent restraining order on him. Seriously. Crazy.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:30 am

Me too disco, unfortunately!

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:30 am

disco – Yeah, something like that.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:31 am

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:32 am

Cracking up…

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:33 am

Did Bluz leave?

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
10:33 am

Leggs…first, she sent me a FB message the day he called me to tell me he’s getting married…I blocked her.

On Monday, he discovered the “redecorated” bass I gave back to him and they both were being nasty to me, even though he’s the one who didn’t give me the money he owes me and treated me like dirt for the most part (wish I had noticed that sooner). I told her to stay out of it and she kept on. I told them both if I heard from either of them again, I would file a restraining order. I mean…she must be crazy to get engaged to him after only 3 weeks of dating and he was living in his car!!! She’s a country bumpkin and I don’t trust it. I know she’s probably threatened by me a little because she knows we just broke up in Feb…who knows. I just hope both of them leave me alone now.

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
10:34 am

stripper roommates :shock:

Most of that action happened with me on the sidelines watching, clutching pearls and not believing (oh my virgin eyes and ears) or somebody seeing my back from running
^^^ that’s my girl! :lol: :lol: :lol:

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
10:36 am

Celisea, I am JUST FINE!

Leggs- A note saying such probably rubbed his ego the wrong way, hence the bottle throwing. . .

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:36 am

czBrat – It ain’t as colorful as disco tryna paint it….lolol :) :)

lolalee

June 15th, 2012
10:37 am

Bluz he must be crazy to be engaged so quickly.
btw, you can’t get a restraining order just because somebody treats you badly.

disco

June 15th, 2012
10:37 am

well so long as I’m not the only one.

since things are slowing down I’ll throw in an off topic. I took my mom to dinner last night and she didn’t complain about one single, solitary thing. I wanted to call ripley’s believe it or not (is ripley still around?). anyway, it was amazing. another thing I’ll say – in particular to all the blog gents – is that I have a new found appreciation for brothers who consistently pick up the tab. I’ve been buying for two for two weeks (meals, event tickets, travel accommodations, everything) and in the back of my mind I’m like “this is some bull”. to all the guys who consistently pick up the tab disco says “you are the man. I don’t know you but I love you. keep up the good work.”

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:37 am

Really….

1. What did the FB msg say? Smart to have blocked her. I’m just being nosey.
2. She’s not crazy, just thirsty…yeah, crazy too.
3. Hope you expected him being nasty to you about your “redecorations.”
4. I immediately saw you guys on Maury fighting over musical instruments and the new gf jumping up from the audience threatening to whoop your arse when you guys get back home.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:38 am

MMeelloo – That’s my take too….nothing but youngins Both of them need to go on somewhere and sit down. I know Chris Brown needs a switch taken to him…lol

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:38 am

MissMoni ~ it’s reported that Drake threw the first bottle.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
10:39 am

Lola…no…I’d get the restraining order if they continue harassing me…Also, borderline cyber-bullying on Monday, even though he took down the stuff. KIM…this boy is almost 46! I can’t believe he gave chick my number for her to start texting me…

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
10:39 am

Drake needs a switch too then…lol

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:41 am

@disco ~ our mothers are alike. I was afraid to take mine out while she was here because I know her too well. She complained, but I made sure we ate home the rest of her visit.

Brown is still on probation, so this ruckus isn’t good. BUT, at least Rhiana wasn’t at the place with them. Boy, that would have been even nastier.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
10:42 am

Leggs…her FB message said something about being really sorry and that was the hardest call he ever had to make but thought it was only fair for me to hear it from him. I wrote back a couple of things, including that I wanted my stuff back and for them to get out of my life, then I blocked her so she couldn’t write me again.

Of course I expected something about the bass, but it was MY bass…a friend even called him out on that when he was b*tching about it on FB. He gave it to me. Anyway…I could have posted the picture of my front door he busted, but I’m better than that.

The thing is…it was between me and him. She should not be involved in any way. That girl has a huge awakening coming, though!

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
10:45 am

Wow…I dunno on this one

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:46 am

Wait a minute, Bluz. She FB you saying she’s sorry after he calls and tells you he’s getting married? What is she sorry for? If you gave the bass to him, it was no longer yours.

MissMoni

June 15th, 2012
10:46 am

Bluzgirl- THAT situation is worthy of reality tv!

Leggs- I too would like to know the answer to your #1 ? for Bluzgirl.

Celisea- I agree, they ALL need to go to TIMEOUT.

Disco- Why are they guys not paying?

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
10:46 am

but I observed a great deal of stuff along the way. I ain’t gotta experience everything to know what NOT to do. I learned from listening and watching.
sing it!!
like i said earlier, this is my preferred method for making life choices. and the one i’ve tried to instill in the munchkins.

bluz, it may take you a few more of these experiences to learn how to simply wish someone well, cut those ties (and the $$$ you’re owed), and move on in peace.
if she’s crazy and he’s homeless, be thankful they found each other and leave it at that.
don’t fuel the fire then wonder why the flames are lapping at your door.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
10:47 am

I know I seemed a little psycho with the bass…and I will admit to temporary insanity! LOL!!! I had reasons, though. He still didn’t give me the money he owes me before he got the bass back. I just destroyed my own property. I kind of wish I had just sold it, but that wouldn’t have felt as good! LOL

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:48 am

disco ~ here’s the story:

http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/chris-brown-injured-nyc-bar-brawl-drake-rihanna-article-1.1095516

The girl about to take a sip of her drink in the one the pictures looks like a cartoon character (lol).

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
10:49 am

Leggs…no kidding! I don’t know why she felt the need to tell me she was sorry. We do not know each other or have any mutual friends. I think she just wanted to have her presence known.

I am glad to be done with him at this point. He’s her problem now. He can use her like he used me. I learned a LOT of lessons with this one…including, listen to my family and friends when they question me about being with him…

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
10:50 am

Miss Moni – Exactly. They both know better and should be making better choices.

czBrat – Me too and exactly. Like my mama would say, I don’t have to stick my hand in the fire to know it’s hot. That’s a lot to be said in observing rather than going all in. That’s no different than what we do when broaching potentially new relationships. We sit back and observe hopefully to avoid going all in each and every time. THIS is what I tell my kid.

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
10:51 am

don’t fuel the fire then wonder why the flames are lapping at your door

Well said!

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:52 am

“don’t fuel the fire then wonder why the flames are lapping at your door.” – NICE.

Some people thrive on drama and Bluz, you may be one of them. It really is easy to just walk away from things, especially those things that aren’t good for you. I never give anyone a second chance to fugg with my heart!

Bluz ~ stop saying you destroyed your own property. If that was indeed the case, you would have destroyed it and kept it. You gave it back to him, because you relinquished your rights to it.

lolalee

June 15th, 2012
10:52 am

BLuz you have to prove legitimate risk of danger, esp since you don’t live together. judge gonna say why don’t you just change your number or block her number. even if you got a restraining order it would only be for a short period of time. im just saying so you know. like i said i have a PERMANENT order against my ex. <–those are extremely rare esp with children, but i had facts and evidence to get it. so i guess iknow a lil about it.

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
10:54 am

Destroying something and then doing show and tell…is fueling the fire

Okay I got meetings. Who in the world line up meetings on a Friday???

disco

June 15th, 2012
10:55 am

moni – re why are the guys not paying? I’m not sure what you mean. all I was saying is that I’ve been paying for me and my momma for 2 weeks and I totally get why men might feel some kind of way re always paying. lol. me, myself, personally – I’m not used to this.

bluz – again I ask, do you not have any friends or family members who will put a little bug in your ear, give you a stern talking to from time to time? you need intervention, tough love and prayer. this drama with the ex is long and drawn out and it’s all you. if you would just stop then this mess would be done.

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
10:56 am

Bluz – Not that you asked my opinion but it may just be better to cut all ties and chuck up whatever stuff he is supposed to give you as a loss. Peace of mind can trump material things sometimes.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:58 am

Bluz ~ if that’s the case, she wanted more than just her presence known. That was her way of letting you know she’s spiteful and vindictive. That was your wakeup call….she was telling you “it’s on and popping” and if you aren’t over your ex she will make it her point to make you get over him and out the picture.

No woman in her right ming FB another woman saying “sorry” that she’s getting married to her ex! Crazy is as crazy does, and you stepped right into an Alfred Hitchcock episode.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
10:58 am

I will say this, Bluz. Whenever the blog is slow, your situation always spark a lively conversation.

lolalee

June 15th, 2012
10:59 am

how bout we don’t fuel Bluz’s drama anymore either?
happy friday.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
11:00 am

Destroying something and then doing show and tell…is fueling the fire

Yes ma’am!

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
11:01 am

Celisea ~ I think you said the same thing about Friday meetings, last Friday (lol).

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:02 am

Leggs – I probably did…lol This is the day when most folks are done traveling. So I know for this demo we’re about to do it was scheduled today in an effort to “catch” folks while they have them…lol

disco

June 15th, 2012
11:03 am

lolalee – re bluz’ drama. better here than in real life. shoot, if I was bluz’ real life friend I would have dug a hole by now. lol. there’s only so much support I’m willing to dole out and only so much listening to the same tale of woe that I’m willing to do. this here – on the blog – gets me through the day.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
11:05 am

Celisea ~ it’s the same way here. No work M-Thurs, but come Friday, I’m busting my arse. Thank goodness he’s out of town today. But come Monday, I know he’s going to call me on the carpet. I rented a car for him to be picked up from the airport. Problem is I ordered the pickup for Tallahassee and he’s flying into Jacksonville. I corrected the error hours later, but as far as he’s concerned the mistake was made. Oh well, NEXT problem…

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
11:10 am

c, i sometimes wonder if my life is rather boring because of the risks i didn’t take.
then i remember … i’m HAPPY!!! :grin:

leggs, i don’t bother much with keeping up with what the celebs are up to. especially the young ones. but when i hear stuff like what yous are talking about today, it makes me wonder what will become of this world once we grow old and they’re running things. smh.

ThirdWheelSingle

June 15th, 2012
11:12 am

Good Morning yall!!!! I have had two crazy exes…..ok maybe three…. One I dated in high school and dumped him right before graduation and he stalked me after I graduated and came up to my job with his friend and he harrassed me. It was great…. Then I had another ex I dated for two months but I dumped him because he got boring. Come to find out he married my neighbor/classmate and when she found out that we were dating she blew a fuse. Then SHE stalked me at my job. It got to the point that I had to quit and move to another town. Now I am still living with ex number three and he is crazy as all get out… currently trying to break our lease and move on with my life. Why do I want to get married again? LOL

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:12 am

Leggs – Dontcha just hate it? I like for Fridays to be easy breezy. Getting loaded down on Fridays is blah… Glad to have a job though :) Glad you got the mix-up fixed. Can you imagine if you wouldn’t have caught it? Whew Thanks goodness for pencils as they have erasers (metaphorically speaking maybe…okay that was cheesy…lol)

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
11:13 am

czB ~ like the promo for young kids doing crazy things on “Clipaholics” poignantly states “We are F……!”

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
11:14 am

I know that I fueled the fire, but it’s all over now. I can honestly say that I’m really over him. I may not be over all he did to me, but I’m over any feelings for him. His true colors have shown. I want NOTHING to do with either one of them ever again. Like I said, I just hope they both leave me alone.

I can admit that I have thrived on drama, but I’m trying my best to not do that anymore. I want my life to be drama free. I’m tired of it.

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:15 am

czBrat – Noooooo, you did the right thing. Of my kid’s dad he was ALWAYS the risk taker. I saw of stuff chew his butt for me not to want to partake in that foolishness. That simply means you would have the experiences but a gang of consequences as well. Nope, good choice :)

I don’t too much follow celebs either. IMO, it’s all just so overstated or overlapping that it’s outrageous sometimes. Give me the simply life :)

kimmie

June 15th, 2012
11:16 am

How long are folks gonna give Chris Brown and Drake the “their young” excuse? If yo A– is over 18 and really when yo behind reaches 21, adult behavior is expected, plain & simple!!! Plus, wasn’t everyone giving CB the excuse when he beat RiRi that he had the right cause she had given him an STD?? If that’s the case, what they fighting over??? Naw, they are fighting for publicity, and stupid folks lap it up!!

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:17 am

Ohhhh Lord….NOT ONE OF MY KID’S DAD…I only have one kid. My kid’s dad…I don’t know HOW I did that. I am NOT hiding another kid somewhere…lolololol

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:18 am

Never mind…I was re-reading…whew Okay I’m screwy today :evil:

lolalee

June 15th, 2012
11:18 am

disco guess ive had my fill of bluz’ drama here. some people energize through drama (remember the celestine prophesy?), so im guessing bluz is one of those. not trying to be unsympathetic but somebody who keeps fanning the flames must like the fire. guess im too over that.

kimmie

June 15th, 2012
11:18 am

Drake is 26, pushing 30 in my book. CB is 23. Neither are babies, until it’s convenient anyway.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
11:18 am

3rdWheel ~ I was thinking about you yesterday because I was invited out with a husband wife tomorrow night. I thought “no can do, I hate being the 3rd wheel.” Poof, here you are. How are things going for you? You’re still living with ex?

Correct me if I’m wrong, but I thought the last time you were here, you said you left your 500lb boyfriend who smelled like swamp a$$. Now, you know that’s not someone like me would forget (lol).

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
11:18 am

Ex…I wasn’t Facebooking them. They are both blocked at this point. I kept quiet on FB about the whole break up and will continue to keep quiet on there.

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:19 am

Even though Celisea agrees….she’s not saying a word :)

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:19 am

And it keeps on going and going and going

disco

June 15th, 2012
11:19 am

celisea – you might not be hiding a kid but I hope you aren’t jinxing yourself. lol.

kimmie – stupid folks lap it up. and that’s the true shame of it all. I think about the movie the Bronx tale when sonny asked colojero (sp?) if mickey mantle was going to pay his rent.

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:21 am

disco – Let’s hope not. I would have to be committed…lol

Celisea....Only 2 men over a 14 year stretch ;)

June 15th, 2012
11:21 am

I actually turned the radio station from listening to that mess

lolalee

June 15th, 2012
11:23 am

CB, Drake and Rianna deserve one another. they gotta have publicity to breathe, so they do what they gotta do. nature of the beast.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
11:23 am

By the way…I’m not sitting here hoping for support or advice from anyone…just telling what happened recently. Think what ya’ll want to think…

ThirdWheelSingle

June 15th, 2012
11:28 am

LOLOL Hey Leggs!!! I am hanging in there… it’s rough…. How are you? Thanks for thinking of me. I have been lurking the last week reading everyone’s replies and laughing. I did leave the 500lb boyfriend who still by the way smells like swamp a$$ and wears jackets when it’s 90 degrees outside…but we are still living together because we are stuck in a lease…. We live in seperate rooms but we still have to share the common areas and bills. I am at my wits end and could become a SNAPPED episode any day now. I am looking for a place to live in the city of Atlanta though.

kimmie

June 15th, 2012
11:29 am

Some folks really do like to keep the drama going with exes. One of my good friends is a prime example. She’s in a long distance relationship with a dude and is very jealous of his ex-wife. The relationship seems to be going rather well though and they’ve been together almost 2 years. Why last night she calls me laughing about 2 of HER exes that she claims have been calling her alot lately and want her back? She even met one at church and later went to lunch with him!! She is playing with fire if her bf finds out! Plus, she would lose her mind if her bf was doing the same! I think it’s a big ego boost to her though! I just listen and stay out of it. When she broke it off with both those dudes I told her then to cut all ties. But hey, what do I know??

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
11:33 am

Hey gang :mrgreen:

I don’t know what it is about exes wanting to stay relevant but you’re an EX for several reasons so K.I.M. Within the last few months I’ve had the boy toy show up unannounced, my ex with the two demon seed chirren popped up claiming to need help with schoolwork (ain’t there a tutor for that?!) and most recently I had an ex of 18 yrs to contact me recently. Dude left me for a chick who claimed she was pregnant by him but come to find out they weren’t his twins…fast forward to now, they’re married (but legally separated he claims) and she had a second set of twins(these were his)..but I couldn’t care less. His mom and sisters have called me asking when we’re getting back together and I’m like :shock: Who said that’s gonna happen, cause it’s not….EVER.

The crazy part of this is I know the first two exes drive by my house on occasion…but it won’t change anything casue I’m done with them.

I don’t backtrack for n’aan nugga…

disco

June 15th, 2012
11:36 am

sassy – I was really feeling that n’aan. that’s what I’m talking ‘bout (or should I say tombout?) lol.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
11:41 am

Disco you know sometimes it be like that :lol:

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
11:45 am

I like that n’aan much better than my “nare.”

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
11:51 am

sassy, shall we add to the fact that some exes feel the need to stay relevant …
and some folks just don’t know how to show the exes that THEY ARE NOT!!

if you find yourself involved with someone who entertains the exes’ shenanigans,
that someone is most definitely part of the problem.

standing O to you for not participating in that nonsense.
my exes know not to even allude to a second time around.
they can think it, but they betta not say it!
they’d get the death-ray look, then the door slam.

disco

June 15th, 2012
11:56 am

I’m all for exes being cool, friendly, cordial and all that. I guess the real issue is the one’s that don’t get the daggone message that they are no longer wanted, that their advances are no longer appreciated. my grandma always said don’t waste time wanting someone that doesn’t want you. so simple. of course, I guess that’s just in theory. lol.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
12:06 pm

czBrat,thank you for that. I don’t see the sense or need to ride by or show up to someones house in hopes that it’ll make you want them back…we’re through so deal with it.

I guess the real issue is the one’s that don’t get the daggone message that they are no longer wanted

That’s cause sometimes you can’t/shouldn’t be cool, friendly, cordial and all that…for some it gives a glimmer of hope. That’s a slippery slope with a very fine line that one would have to navigate very carefully OR just cut ‘em off like a gangrenous pinky toe…

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
12:11 pm

czB ~ perhaps one should send their ex’s that infamous t-shirt saying “You’re A Non-M…F…. Factor.”

That should help shed light on things for them.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
12:11 pm

I have one ex that I was close friends with after the break up. It took me about 6 months to get over the feelings I had for him. Once I was over the feelings, we were able to maintain a friendship. He was a great person…we just didn’t click as a couple. Unfortunately, he passed away in March. I found out then that he still had some kind of feelings for me. When I went to his house the night he died, I saw a teddy bear that had a picture of me and him in it that I had given him for Valentine’s Day about 5-6 years ago. I’m glad we never got back together as a couple, but even more happy that we were able remain close as friends.

disco

June 15th, 2012
12:12 pm

sassy – not to be argumentative but that’s just it. the ones that you are totally through with you don’t give a glimmer of hope to. you essentially give them a “move B, get out the way” and they just don’t get it. they are the hangers-ons for lack of a better term. being cordial is for the amicable splits where both parties can lick their wounds, count their losses or whatever and go on with their lives with no hard feelings and no desire to drive past one another’s house or call each other from blocked numbers. lol.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
12:13 pm

perhaps one should send their ex’s that infamous t-shirt saying “You’re A Non-M…F…. Factor.”

Now that’s how you hurt a muhf@#$as feelings…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
12:14 pm

disco point made…point taken..

disco

June 15th, 2012
12:17 pm

thanks sassy. I didn’t want to seem contrary. what I do want is some freaking lunch. I’m starving up in here.

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
12:22 pm

Now that’s how you hurt a muhf@#$as feelings…
and don’t give a sh!t.
woop woop!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
12:26 pm

and don’t give a sh!t.

Okaaay?!?!

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
12:50 pm

I step out and come back to the ladies handing out verbal lashing…Every time I hear “non Mfing factor, I crack up.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
12:53 pm

Good Lord, that was brutal…I was soooo sleepy 11:30 – 12:52…next meeting starts at 1:50 – 3:00. Guess I better grab lunch

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
1:02 pm

c, i grabbed fast food for lunch yesterday (just mickey-d fries) for the fist time in over a month of healthy eating. i got sooooo sleepy from that junk. i actually walked into a 3:00 meeting announcing apologies in advance for all the yawning and head nodding that would take place over the next hour or so.
and indeed it did.
take it from me … skip the drive-thru!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 15th, 2012
1:05 pm

I wont lie I chased a lady who broke up with me, not for long though. I was young and p whipped sho was, and I thought I couldn’t move on with having more. Several years later I can smile about how whooped I was and pass the experience on to the young guys. Most men will go through this in their early stages in life it’s not a bad thing unless it become physical.

I can’t belive it disco got compassion, I knew it was there or your mom put something in your drink at dinner last night.
Cely I am shocked you being a apprentice bad girl in training, glad you stepped a long way from it.
Het Ex hody man kep the ladys aware you are the right guy to lead the way……LOL Happy Daddy Day Dude
Hey Leggs, Kimmie, Sassy, Bluz, and everyone else. Having a ball, even though I’m losing my shirt I quit and just chillin right now. Y’all take care and have a good weekend

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 15th, 2012
1:07 pm

CZ I didn’t forget you my lady y’all hold it down.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 15th, 2012
1:09 pm

“couldn’t move on without having more”
What I was trying to say, blame it on the alcohol.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
1:10 pm

czBrat – LOL, nah it will be something from the cafe downstairs. Thanks though :)

Blackfoote – Don’t be listening to folks…lol The only “bad” in that story (and equation) was the “boy.” Which caused us to always be at odds…lol Trust me I have a mind of my own. Always have. Anyway…(said in my Joey from Friends voice)….how you doin’

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 15th, 2012
1:14 pm

Cely sitting back watching these gigantic barges moving down the Mississippi, just being at peace.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
1:15 pm

Okay so I confessed to going on in and Blackfoote confessed to being “whipped” Are we the only two? Everybody else have always always been the recipient of crazy? Y’all do know we all got a little crazy below the surface…and rightfully so now. Right?

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
1:16 pm

going ALL in….

Blackfoote – Good for you. You stay out of trouble now. Don’t want to have to send somebody for you.

czBrat

June 15th, 2012
1:16 pm

no worries, bf. i read between the lines in “everyone else” and felt the luv. :lol:
go’on and lose your shirt, as long as it’s a good look for you.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
1:22 pm

Everybody else have always always been the recipient of crazy?

I can say for sure that I’ve always been the recipient…my ego will NOT allow me to do anything that foolish/stalkerish…just cain’t do it.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
1:24 pm

Sassy…lol I hear ya. Well, I have gon in on a brother…of course for taking me there. I too have too much pride to following folks, begging, camping out, peeking…so forth and so on. I feel ya there.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
1:28 pm

When I say taking me there….for lying on me, for painting a distorted picture of the situation and for trying to make it look like it was me when in fact it wasn’t….that sort of thing. I took it to the source, not the town and the neighborhood like they did.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
1:31 pm

SO OFF TOPIC:

Am I that far out the loop?…yesterday the woman played Andell on The Parkers died yesterday from cervical cancer :-(

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
1:34 pm

I took it to the source, not the town and the neighborhood like they did.

Ain’t nuthing wrong with that Celi..sometimes a person will take you there and you have to unleash on his azz so he’ll know you ain’t the one to f@$k with. Now I’ve done that to the point to where I start making up curse words and wanting to lay hands on a fool, but thankfully I haven’t had to ’cause the cursin he got was enough to suffice.

Robert

June 15th, 2012
1:37 pm

“What would you do if you found out your exes were fighting about you?”

Once upon a time I was almost married. I thought we had a good relationship until she decided to check my cell phone and call all (7) women listed in my contacts. She was very calm and direct and never raised her voice or acted like she was mad. She wanted to know who I was sleeping with and how long? She encouraged them to call each other and compare notes (dates, trips, etc.). She set-up a meeting with 4 women who came to my house to confront me with their facts. When they arrived I was sitting on the couch in the basement and all of them came down stairs. I was stunned and shocked to see them working together. My ex-fiancee started the conversation by telling the other women about how I hurt her and asking me what did I have to say? Before I could say anything one of my lady friends stepped forward to criticize my ex-fiancee for contacting her and causing alot of trouble. She did not care how many women friends I had as long as I treated her with respect. After all I was not yet married and she thought we were a good match. My ex-fiancee went “crazy” and I had to break-up a fight that could have been avoided if my ex-fiancee would have handled this situation differently. The other women looked with shock and thought I was crazy for wanting to marry this woman. Today I am still friends with all 7 women and we laugh about my crazy ex-fiancee.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
1:40 pm

and you have to unleash on his azz so he’ll know you ain’t the one to f@$k with

Okaaay. I haven’t had to pull this behavior up in years. I did though in the not too distant past. It was like riding a bike. The words were just flowing…lol Thankfully that has passed and hopefully I don’t ever encounter another “character” that will cause me to snapppp!! And really Sassy, that ain’t crazy. It’s just letting folks know…lol

I checked Google and yes, she passed…at the age of 48

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
1:46 pm

It was like riding a bike. The words were just flowing…lol

LOL @ that…Celi you’re right chica, that ain’t craze but sometimes you gotta let’em know…

she passed…at the age of 48

From what I read she had stge 4 cervical cancer as well as kidney problems…sad,sad,sad. At least she’s not suffering anymore. I’m not afraid of much but death is one of them. I try to rationalize it b/c I know one day we will all transition but it still scares me once in a while if I linger on it too long…

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:03 pm

Ran to Pizza shop at 12:20 for 2 slices of stuffed pizza for dinner. Wound up spending $75 at Big Lots. Just got back to my desk woofing down chick-fil-a sammich. I am starving.

Hey BF ~ I appreciate your honesty and saying you were puddy whooped. Many men are (lol). No doubt women are weenie whooped as well.

advice for blue and other psychos

June 15th, 2012
2:05 pm

If he can make you act crazy he has the upper hand

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:07 pm

Robert ~ bold of her to invite the other women to her home. Greater chance for a brawl to erupt. I think the one who stepped to your ex was wrong. If she didn’t like her bringing everyone together, she could have kept her behind home!!

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:09 pm

Sassy ~ I don’t fear much either, but death is one of them. People say I shouldn’t. My boss even told me I need to take the tour of the cemetry off Memorial (?). First stepped into a cemetry 2 years ago to honor a lady that I really admired. I was scared, don’t know why, but I was.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:11 pm

Cel…I admitted it! LOL

The ex that I remained friends with…I went a little crazy because I didn’t want to let go, but not too bad. I just drunk dialed and texted him a bit. In the end, I’m glad I was able to let go of the feelings and just be friends. Also glad he didn’t hold the drunk calls and texts against me!!!

disco

June 15th, 2012
2:11 pm

BF – I expressed compassion? really? when? I must go back and take notes. lol.

Celisea – you know I owned my crazy right up front. there’s no denying it.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 15th, 2012
2:13 pm

I feel you Leggs and I understand what you’re saying…earlier this year in January, we buried my grandmother and it’s really rocked me and confronted me with my own mortality. People say you shouldn’t be afraid and sometimes I’m comforted when I read my Bible…but the humanity in me is still afraid at times…

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:17 pm

I think most women experience “crazy” moments. One thing is for sure…if a man makes me feel like I need to get crazy, then I really need to reevaluate the situation! I always joke that I’d become lesbian if women weren’t so crazy! LOL!!!

disco

June 15th, 2012
2:19 pm

bluz – you crazy. I always joke that the reason I couldn’t be a lesbian is because I’m too confrontational. while I can say with certainty that I will not be in a domestic violence relationship with a man I don’t think I could say the same if I was a lesbian.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:20 pm

disco/Bluz – A bit of crazy is sane. That’s what advice for blue and other psychos seemingly fail to realized. Save the cookie cutter quotes and sayings…lol All the time it’s not about puppeteering, sometimes you need to stare crazy in the face with crazy.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:21 pm

Okay…Imma have to come back. I need to pay attention on this call

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
2:21 pm

Yall don’t have any weird experiences with ghosts, demons, spirits etc???

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:21 pm

I have my issues, but I ain’t crazy. I can act crazy at times. I’ll admit that! At least I admit I have issues and that’s why I go to therapy and take meds…to lesson the crazy moments!

i'm swiss

June 15th, 2012
2:26 pm

“I always joke that the reason I couldn’t be a lesbian is because I’m too confrontational. while I can say with certainty that I will not be in a domestic violence relationship with a man I don’t think I could say the same if I was a lesbian”

disco — So, what you’re saying is, sometimes you’re just asking for an azz-whooping? lol

disco

June 15th, 2012
2:28 pm

slim – I hate to admit it but I was raised up on ghost stories and all that mess. a lot of the family elders insisted their houses were haunted by long deceased relatives. a light would come on or a curtain would move or whatever and they’d be like that was cousin so and so or uncle so and so.

swiss – I’m saying I’ll only push a man so far when he ticks me off but a woman. please, we’d be fighting on the regular. nope. I wouldn’t make a good lesbian. we’d forever be all scratched up and bruised. not a good look.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:28 pm

Bluz ~ I don’t think most women experience “crazy.” I’m honestly looking back on my dating life, and I’ve never gone bonkers on some dude. Sure, I’ve cussed out many, but never blew up phones, send certified mail letters (texting wasn’t developed yet), jump on hoods of cars, hide in bushes, show up at jobs, make a master key and climb through patio door to wait for him on the couch, beg for him to take me back, give my body as a way of keeping him…naw, never did any of that crazy stuff.

I do have friends who have. Like Celisea said earlier, a lot of things can be learned on what not to do just by watching others!

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:28 pm

In talking about the fear of dying. I think it’s normal and probably something everybody at some point feel. I just love it though when those saints are making their transitions and fears set aside and they’re ready. I’ve seen it a few times in my lifetime. To have that assurance that all is and will be well when you transitions is profound to say the least.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:30 pm

Sassy, I know it’s just me, but walking over plots felt so wrong to me. I didn’t know where to step or stand. I truly would have preferred to jump on one of the men backs and continue with the burial.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:31 pm

Leggs – I agree with your 2:28. We’re human. Being human allots for reacting. Stalking, breaking car windows, jumping out of trees or bushes (if you’re short…lol), boiling rabbits…yeah all that stuff is crazy

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:36 pm

Leggs…I haven’t gone that far. :-) I also have a couple of friends who have. I joined one friend who wanted to track down her man…we had no idea where he was or who he might be with. I just got in the car with her while we drove down the interstate! Another girlfriend was just telling me the other day about some of the crazy things she did in the past…like showing up at her ex’s door when he had another woman over…calling the other woman over and over. I hear these stories and realize that I’m not that bad. Actually…destroying the bass is the craziest thing I’ve done…

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:37 pm

jumping out of trees or bushes (if you’re short…lol), – hysterical….

I wish someone would jump out of a tree. Well, didn’t have to worry about that in NYC, we didn’t have any trees. :wink:

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:39 pm

Bluz – Actually…destroying the bass is the craziest thing I’ve done…

Yeah, you tipped the scale a bit on this one…lol What you should have done was sold it. That way it would have been out of your life as a constant reminder and a little rattle in your pocket to boot

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:40 pm

Leggs – Short folks got crazy too, just don’t run as long as as thoughtful…cause they’re short….lolololol

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
2:41 pm

disco – So since you were brought up that way, do you subscribe to those types of experiences/beliefs now?

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:41 pm

I rode with a gf to Adamsville looking for her man ONCE. Thank goodness we laughed a lot along the way and I’m glad we didn’t find him. When she wanted to track him down a few weeks later I told her I couldn’t do it and she didn’t need to go. I hid her keys. I left later on after helping her find them. Called her the next morning before she had to leave for work and told her where they were. It never fails, hide something under their nose, they won’t find it. It was in the flower pot in her room (lol).

disco

June 15th, 2012
2:42 pm

when I was a teenager I was riding in a car with my aunt when she saw her husband riding with another woman. guess they’d already had issues regarding this woman. my aunt literally started following his car and every time he stopped at a light or stop sign she rammed into the back of his car. this went on for some distance. we finally got to a point where he let the other woman out of the car. my aunt yelled a few choice words out the window at the woman and I’m guessing she dealt with her husband when she got home.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:42 pm

Okay, okay, that’s not really “under her nose.”

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:44 pm

Cel…I am wishing I had sold it so I could buy a new front door, but like I said…it was fun smashing it up! LOL

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:47 pm

Slim…I definitely believe in spirits. I’ve experienced deceased loved ones “visiting” me. The night after my friend passed away in March, I was laying in bed having a hard time sleeping and I felt a hand on my head. I touched the top of my head to see if there was something else it could have been and when I removed my hand, it still felt like a hand was there for a couple more seconds.

disco

June 15th, 2012
2:47 pm

slim – one of my great grandmother’s was a spell lady. folks literally used to come and pay her to cast spells. whether they worked or she was just running a hustle I guess I’ll never know. am I into that type stuff? no, but I do respect that a lot of people are. do I see ghosts around every corner? naw, but I respect the possibility of a few spirits hanging around. in short, I’m not a big believer in all that but I won’t judge and put folks down that do.

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
2:50 pm

disco – That 2:42…a riot…lol

Bluz – Chaulk it up and work on getting that new door when you can.

disco

June 15th, 2012
2:51 pm

bluz – re your spirit incident. after having my wisdom teeth pulled they prescribed me norco. i was home alone but my deceased grandmother an my son were there with me. crazy I know. I was holding conversations with them (telling my son to close the blinds, listening to my grandmother tell me this and that), I felt the furniture shift as if under their weight. it was crazy as heck. I immediately threw those daggone pills away and spent the next few days just coping with the pain. that episode tripped me out for real. i was telling everybody. a lot of people wanted to know what my grandmother said to me but I never did tell.

Celisea.....sometimes you need to stare crazy in the face with crazy

June 15th, 2012
2:51 pm

I feel like I need a blog cleansing. I’ve been on here too much and cutting up too much :(

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
2:55 pm

Cel…I am…I have a friend who will install a door for me…I just have to call him and schedule it.

Another spirit story that happened to my friend who doesn’t believe in all of that…she was the best friend and roommate of my friend who passed. About two weeks ago, she had a dream about him and he told her he had something very important for her and told her where to look for it. The next morning, she got up and looked and found a letter he had written her a while back talking about how much he loves her and wished he could express it better. She’s still having a hard time grasping it!

SlimUno

June 15th, 2012
2:57 pm

I been in a room by myself and felt the weight as if someone sat next to me on the couch or bed…I always chalk it up to imagination but ya jus neva know..

Yall have fun and HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO ALL OUR BLOG FATHERS :-D

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
2:57 pm

disco ~ had to laugh at your 2:51. After I gave birth, they gave me Percocet. I was truly tripping. I was laying in my bed talking to people who weren’t there. I realized no one was there when I moved my head to listen to what they had to see only to find no one in the room with me. That same day, I found myself in Houston at the Hilton. I remember a marble green lobby in my altered state of mind. When it finally dawned on me I was still in the hospital, I hit the buzzer for the nurse and told her to take these pills away from me. Haven’t had one since.

DuShawn

June 15th, 2012
2:59 pm

I remember when I first started dating my wife, after a couple of dates her psycho ex came out of the wood works. I knew a chick that fine had to have some baggage. Dude was trippin. While she was at my house, he kicked the door in at her apartment and stole her TV (that he bought), somehow he got my cell number and would call me telling me to leave her alone, they were just going thru something and would inevitably get back together. Then he told me she was pregnant from him. Finally, he tried to threaten me. He said if he saw us together he was going to do something to both of us. I felt sorry for lil buddy. That love is worse than that crack and he was on it bad. Needless to say, I had to have an intervention with him; he realized the error of his ways and got the hell on.

Celisea.....sometimes you need to stare crazy in the face with crazy

June 15th, 2012
3:00 pm

Bluz – Good for you

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:00 pm

Slim…I also wonder if one of my cats sees spirits. I’ll be sitting there and all of a sudden, he starts looking around quickly. He’s deaf and I wonder if he sees something. He has freaked me out a little before, but I like to think that if there are spirits around, they are all good spirits!

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:04 pm

Is it really only 3:00?!?!?! Ugh!!!

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:05 pm

Cats can hear when a bug crosses the floor (even carpeted)…

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:11 pm

Oops, you did say your’s was deaf.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:11 pm

Leggs…this cat is deaf, though. His other senses are better, though…he may just be feeling something!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

June 15th, 2012
3:26 pm

Kick in the door, waving the four-four, all you hear is poppa don’t hit me no more….

What’s happennin folks?

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

June 15th, 2012
3:32 pm

So Bluz and Disco have latent Lesbian desires, what els did I miss today?

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:33 pm

The doctor that killed his ex gf has been found DEAD. He was married with a son! Good grief. Talking about people being puddy whipped.

abc

June 15th, 2012
3:35 pm

I think one should never destroy a musical instrument. Think of a player that really needs one and can’t get one; an under-privileged student, perhaps. That ax could be the greatest thing that ever happened to them. Plus, depending on what kind it was, it’d be worth a couple bucks. What kind of bass was it? Please don’t say ‘pre-CBS Fender Precision’.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:38 pm

I definitely agree, abc, re: giving to a student.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:39 pm

abc…it wasn’t a valuable bass. It was a Memphis, but it was pieced together. I’m now in the market of finding a new bass because I still want to learn to play.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:40 pm

If it was worth any real money, he wouldn’t have given it to me

Celisea.....sometimes you need to stare crazy in the face with crazy

June 15th, 2012
3:40 pm

Instruments are expensive. We all played music growing up but I know moms and pops struggled to get and with that purchased some second hand. There was the piano for the girls, my clarinet (2nd hand), and the cello I played. My brother’s silver trumpet (2nd hand) and snare and tenor (I think that’s what they’re called) drums. Always always always give it away or sell if you just need to get rid over. Keep them if at all possible. But never destroy.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:42 pm

I am trading or selling the amp that went with it. Again…temporary insanity! LOL!

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
3:46 pm

Anything good for the weekend? Anybody??

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:46 pm

I can barely keep my eyes open…..zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:48 pm

I hear ya Leggs! I just started a muscle relaxer for issues with my shoulder and I’m about zonked out. Also, I ate Chinese food for lunch. I’m so ready to get home and nap!!! I feel old…I used to look forward to going out on Fri nights, but now I just want to chill!

Only thing I know of going on this weekend is a blues and beer fest in downtown Norcross. I’m so looking forward to that.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:51 pm

I chill quite a bit, I’m going out Bluz (lol).

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
3:52 pm

I do have a friend playing tonight a couple of miles from home and I may go…just need to nap first! LOL

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
3:54 pm

I have a little sumthin going on :) Maybe we’ll try a spin at Loca Luna. I just like the spot and how that little area is unknown. At least to me it was

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
3:55 pm

Where is this Loca Luna?

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
4:00 pm

Off of 10th (town)….on Amesterdam

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
4:04 pm

Ok, I was thinking the Lindberg area. Gotcha.

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
4:09 pm

Shoot…my friend is playing from 6:30 – 9…no time to nap! Now, I’m debating on going…

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
4:40 pm

My 65 year old Jamaican coworker (in FL) is telling me that she zip lined when she went home a couple weeks ago. She swears she’s 25 years old…lol

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
4:45 pm

I want to do that one day!!!

Celisea

June 15th, 2012
4:47 pm

Bluz – She’s trying to get me to hook up with her when I’m in Orlando in a few weeks. Nuh uh

Bluzgirl

June 15th, 2012
4:53 pm

I think I would be terrified to do it, but I think it would be so much fun!!! There are a few places around GA to zip line. I may do it one day soon, but gotta get my shoulder fixed up first.

Well…I’m outta here. Have a great weekend.

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
4:58 pm

I have spent the last 20 mins looking for my glasses. I have no freaking idea where they are. I really don’t want to play bumper cars this evening….

Leggs

June 15th, 2012
5:00 pm

If you guys do it, just make sure it’s not homemade!!!

MyrnaTheMaiden

June 15th, 2012
6:40 pm

Right on! Let your crazy peek through!

Hamburgee

June 16th, 2012
8:12 pm

My exes are best buds. That’s what I call psycho