I want to offer a little Dating PSA: Don’t take psychos. No, really. I have to explicitly state this as a lead in today’s topic: The art of juggling dates. If you don’t fully grasp the don’t date psychos PSA then discussing the art of date juggling is pointless.
So, now that we no longer invite psychos into our dating lives, let’s talk about the importance of selecting mature, honest people to date. These are not like Keebler elves – they do exist!
Now we get to the meat of our discussion, dating multiple people, without misleading anyone:
Be truthful about your availability – emotional and physical
Do not overbook, double book, or be inconsiderate of other people’s time
Do not name names. No need to run down all the details of people you are seeing. Atlanta is too small, you may not want to know.
As soon as you realize you feel a stronger connection with one of your romantic interests, carefully adjust your dating focus. Let the others know and free them to find someone else.
These are a few lessons I learned the hard way! What would you add?
Do you find it difficult to juggle dates and focus on getting to more than one person at a time? How do you make it work ..drama free?
P.S. Did I mention don’t date psychos?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog