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Men love romance!

You don’t have to buy a Lamborghini for your man to show him romance. No disrespect to that Kardashian lady because buying a car for a man is quite a romantic surprise. Men dig (good!) surprises, though and women can take a cue from Kim K about showing a man he should be pampered too.

Quiet as its kept, a lot of women forget that they need to put in some work in the romance department. There are even women who are kind of clueless about wooing a man. Not the same as seducing – mind you.

When it comes to romance and pampering, what do men like?
Guys, what was the most romantic thing a woman has done for you?

What kind of romantic things do you like to do for your men, ladies?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

214 comments Add your comment

Lily

June 13th, 2012
7:42 am

Diva, a reference to taking notes from Kim K. is an insult. She’s a professional tramp and can’t speak to anything unless its “on her back” and no “buying” her man is not romantic. Stupid maybe but hardly romantic. There are many things on a less grand scale that would garnet far more appreciation.

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
8:18 am

Yeaaa,FIRST!!!

Take that Lily!

Ohhh blush

Missed! :lol:

Shrug

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
8:27 am

Kim K bought who a Lamborghini ?

They have been too numerous for her…

(not counting the last one the gay dude)

On topic:

Anything ordinary o wouldn’t consider romantic,just routine.

To be Romantic with capital R she has to reaaaally go the extra mile and spend some dough for me to see that as Rrrrrrrr omantic!

Something like… figure out when I’m coming home get a private jet/limo,get us to either some exotic locale or some local place I have ne’er been before but that’s reknowed for it’s beauty and aura…All unbeknown to me…

Along those lines…

Anything else…I’m dismissive

Good morning

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
8:30 am

Now she gives me 400$ to go blow with the boys at the strip..saying ‘here Daddy,it’s Father’s day,take ur boys!’

That’s Romantic!

Strokkers here we Come!

Randyt (is the plane fueled and ready yet?)

June 13th, 2012
9:22 am

I will make this simple for all and when you embrace this, you can go ahead and move on to the next topic…men desire RESPECT more than ANYTHING else. Show this in a word or gesture, show pride and admiration, and all else just falls in to place. Shall I repeat this? Show men you are PROUD of them, that you RESPECT them with words and gestures…and all will be well.

Your homework assignment is to go home and ask your man what shows him respect, what demonstates pride in him…and just take it from there. That is ALL you need to know about men and romance, trust me.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:26 am

Nice topic Diva.

There are many things that I like to do for him that are romantic but to be candidly honest here, as the parents of two little ones the extent of romance in our lives these days is the baths that he and manage to get in together a few nights a week.

No soft music. No candlelight. Just the mandatory, daily washing of the body. We do wash each other back while sharing the day’s most interesting, comical and/or frustrating happenings though.

And since we have put a television in the bathroom we sometimes will spend half an hour watching the 10:30pm ‘House Hunters International’ usually with him sitting in front leaning back up against me until the water starts to get cold. That is kind of romantic. Kinda sorta.

I know he misses the romantic gestures I afforded him in the past, because I know I miss what he used to do for me. But the reality is we are the “aged” parents of two small kids. That’s a choice we made. The needs of those two small kids along with their 17 year old older brother consume much of our time.

The romance is not dead however, as long as we are spending some time alone together, no matter how it comes packaged. And the physical intimacy is still alive even if it is waking up an hour earlier to get it on and shower before the little ones start to wake.

Thinking out loud…Morning time is good. I don’t have a whole day of events and stuff that I have to try to relax my mind from to fully get into the mood.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:29 am

Hi Randy. How are you?

I am standing here smiling because seeing your name just brought to mind a lace top stocking and garter belt afternoon idea I could maybe put together in the name of romance for the hub. LOL

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:30 am

One thing that did come to mind once is trying to get the little ones fed and bathed before the hub gets home from work. He usually comes in in the evenings around 6:45ish. I figure if they are fed and bathed when he comes home, he can spend daddy-time with them getting them in bed and reading to the little lady while I prepare dinner for he and I.

The down side is that will take away from the family dinner time with all of us eating together. And until my dad moves back to Ohio I don’t know if that will work out as I would like. Family dinner time is a big deal for him. However the up side is the hub and I will have that time to talk alone and be able to enjoy our meal without having to tend to the babies. I barely can eat a fully prepared plate of food these days having to make sure the little ones eat all of their meal.

I guess if we could set Saturdays and Sundays aside to be everyone eats at the same time around the table days. Mon-Fri would be ample enough times for getting the kids out the way first and having the mama and papa/husband and wife dinner time together.

I don’t know. There is always coulda, woulda, shouldas.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:33 am

Since you have me thinking and pondering…I guess I could get an afternoon sitter one day and go kidnap the hub from his office and whisk him away for a nice lunch or picnic. That may be romantic. It would have to be an indoor picnic though. I don’t know what it is that I am doing differently but the mosquitoes seem to love me these days. Maybe it’s the new body moisturizer that I use.

Or I could very well get an evening sitter that may be willing to stay overnight. I could be waiting with an overnight bag, looking and smelling extra nice when the hub gets home. Have reservations at his favorite high end restaurant with an evening of dancing to follow. Afterwards check into a nice hotel…where we both will probably collapse and fall into grizzly bear hibernation from utter exhaustion the minute the door closes behind us. LOL

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:33 am

Hello M-e-l-o. How are you?

Randyt (is the plane fueled and ready yet?)

June 13th, 2012
9:35 am

Hi Raqi…wondering about you often (and the stockings ;-) …somehow I don’t think I would get quite the same effect if this was tried by the midget with 15 teeth in the drive through at McDonalds here in northern England, LOL. SOOOO, I absolutely endorse waking up hubby with the stockings, (lucky guy!!!).

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:40 am

Randy, you are waiting for a plane? Where are you going?

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
9:41 am

Again nice topic Wise Diva. Especially for the fathers since Father’s Day is quickly approaching.

Romance and Father’s Day really don’t coincide though. Father’s Day is to show appreciation the Father in the man while romance shows the appreciation for the Man in the father.

That’s all folks. I have a dreadful doctor’s appointment staring me in face. I hate medical appointments. They are so invasive.

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
9:48 am

Lily ~ had to laugh at professional tramp!

Ex ~ a day late a dollar short (LOLOL)

“…usually with him sitting in front leaning back up against me until the water starts to get cold. That is kind of romantic. Kinda sorta.” No kinda sorta, Raqi, that’s very romantic. You should go with your last paragraph at 9:33.

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
9:48 am

Oops, good morning!

Randyt (is the plane fueled and ready yet?)

June 13th, 2012
9:49 am

Raqi…got sent to England with 4 days notice to put out a ‘fire’ 2 1/2 weeks ago.. Miss my house, my HD, my pool, my children (not in this order), my Bimmer, my dogs…and any potential new opportunity on Match.com. I am sick of the food, the weather, the work, the ‘Traditional English Breakfast’…did I mention the food and weather? Usually I find an opportunity to hop over to the continent for a few days, but this time the work schedule precluded that.

I’m almost ready to start swimming west.

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
9:55 am

HiYas!

just as i was pulling up AJC, my mind was on how frustrated i am with s/o at this moment. he kinda put his foot in the b-day plans i was trying to make for him. then at almost zero hour, he decides i should go ahead with everything. well … shi!t is booked up now!

anywho, my thoughts were on how i should just go with my heart and do what i know he would like, even if claims it’s doing too much. what’s wrong with allowing himself to be pampered every now & then? lord knows he does it for me all the time.

randy, your words are true indeed. it can be a difficult thing for a certain type of woman to embrace, but respecting your man as your head makes him twice the man he ever thought he could be. it’s a beautiful thing.

abc

June 13th, 2012
10:00 am

What Randy said. And, acts of service, it could be anything. The last thing of interest would be anything material. I think that goes both ways, although it’s hard to tell when most folks can’t tell that themselves.

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:01 am

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, FOR REAL Hope you get to use your infamous ZZZZIIIIPPPPP!!!

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:03 am

Ummm, seems I’m a day ealier on bday wishes. Dang calendar mishap!

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:03 am

Go for it, czB!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
10:11 am

I’m not a mushy type but I like to be acknowledged. Respect and basic tenderness is all I care for, you don’t have to surprise me with anything or special extras although they would be appreciated. Knowing she is proud I’m her man is enough romance for me.

Good Morning:

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
10:15 am

leggs, you know i’m a stickler for order and organization. lol. i feel like i’m forcing things to come together “just so” at the last minute, but it’ll work out. i’m sure we’ll have a great time.
a little fishing, a little fine dining, lots of booze, beach and laughter.

Elijah

June 13th, 2012
10:19 am

Good Morning!

It is good to read Mrs. Raqi who brings it like no other…

Romance really does start with respect which is becoming a lost art due to parents lack of teaching on how to respect people first.

Celisea I want you to come and pick-up me up for an outdoor picnic and tell how much u really appreciate me! lol

Kim K. is da bomb! She just gets paid for what she does paid quite well at that…. Funny how other ladies call other ladies a tramp when they have probably as much as Kim K has done…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
10:21 am

CZ sounds like a plan, today is my Friday and my plans are to get on a beach, swim, fish, and of course lots of booze. A little time on the blackjack and roulette tables will do nicely too.

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
10:25 am

where ya headed, footie?

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:29 am

lots of booze and beach….stay clear of the water (lol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
10:35 am

Tunica, MS. then roll up to the blues capital (Beale St.) in Memphis, TN. I know they’re not your ordinary beach towns but they have their stuff together for visitors. Well they’re on the Mississippi River and I can catch a river boat ride to boot.

disco

June 13th, 2012
10:35 am

good morning gang. I don’t have the energy to pretend to be on the romantic tip this morning but I’m all for getting on the booze / beach bandwagon.

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
10:40 am

bf, been dying to ride a riverboat ever since we went to “memphis in may” a couple years ago. just watching them from the riverfront park was awesome! and very romantic, i might add.
have fuuuuuunnnn!!

lol @ disco. that booze/beach bandwagon will lead to all kinds of romance … if done properly.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
10:44 am

Leggs I’ll be so boozed up I may not find the water. I might not be able to get off the ground…….LOL

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:46 am

Not it won’t czB. The booze/beach bandwagon will only lead to an evening of debauchery…if done properly (lol).

Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
10:48 am

BF…instructions to the beach bartender, “bring me a large margarita every 20 minutes until you see my head in a trash can…then every 40 minutes after that!!!”.

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:50 am

I can see you now, BF!

My typing sucks!!!

disco

June 13th, 2012
10:51 am

leggs / brat – I’m single remember? I’ll take the romance or the debauchery. to be totally honest I’m leaning toward the debauchery.

Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
10:54 am

@ disco…could one suggest that “debauchery” IS “romance” with the guilt stripped out (usually in close proximity to alcohol)?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
10:56 am

LOL…..@Randyt

And in between those wait times I’ll chug down a few long island teas. I’m not sobering up until it’s hours before time to leave and come home……LOL

disco

June 13th, 2012
11:00 am

randy – semantics. all I’m saying is that I’m not trying to put energy/effort/thought/planning into romance. call me selfish. wait – guilt? where does guilt play into romance? are you saying debauchery is romance without guilt? I’m confused.

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
11:01 am

I’ll take the romance or the debauchery
leggs/disco, it has been my experience that one generally leads to the other (if done properly).
take them in your order of preference. :grin:

Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
11:03 am

Just asking the question, disco…maybe romance could sometimes be considered “watered down” debauchery? ;-)

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
11:03 am

“show pride and admiration, and all else just falls in to place. Shall I repeat this? Show men you are PROUD of them, that you RESPECT them with words and gestures…and all will be well.”

Randy, I agree…HOWEVER…there has to be more.

I have been pretty open about my life with my hub on here and how traditional my marriage is. I am nowhere near perfect but I do TRY to respect him at all times as a man first, my husband second and as the father of my babies next. I am proud of him in many many ways even when I don’t say it all the time. But he knows that I am. I don’t agree with everything he does and/or every idea that he has but I do love that he DOES and HAVE IDEAS.

I love my husband and I don’t think anyone that knows us personally will ever doubt or question that. But how much more can I show respect and admiration for him outside of providing a nice comfortable home for him to come home to. Birthing and caring for his babies. Not talking down to him when he is wrong or makes a mistake. Having his back even when I don’t agree with him. What the heck else is there beyond the everyday mundane activities? That is if showing respect and telling him I am proud of him is all I as his woman and wife have to do.

I open mind to embrace his ideas and endeavors. I open my heart to love and accept him beyond his faults. I open my bank account to get him over a hump when he needs me to. I open my legs to share my body with him and give him pleasure. However, I still wonder am I doing enough. Am I doing all I can and should be doing.

Yeah I get angry and tell him to shut up talking to me because HE is being unreasonable. Yeah I turn my back to him and don’t give him love because HE disrespected me. Yeah I take my babies and leave the house at 9am on a Saturday morning and not return until late evening because HE is going to pay for acting like a (fill in the blank). But everything aligns back again.

Many years ago I used to worry that if a man, my man did not say “I love you” enough that I could recall the last time he said it, he must not love me all that much. But I am a grown woman now. I know love in action. He does not have to say it but instead keep doing it. However I do love the random cards of affection. The more.

So if I don’t buy him something. Or if I don’t treat him to a night out. Or if I don’t let him sleep in late on a holiday and I deal with breakfast with kids alone. If I don’t do those EXTRAs what makes the romance, or whatever it can categorized as, stand out? What makes it known?

If I am already showing respect, if he already knows I am proud of him, does he as a man not require or desire more? Or am I just thinking like a woman, that I am?

At what point should it differ from what is always supposed to be (Respect – Proud) to the act of being appreciative? Do men really not need or want more?

Please tell me so I can put my mind to rest. Yall know I have no problem saying that sometimes I just worry. Needlessly probably…but quite often all the same.

I don’t have my babies here to occupy my thoughts so my mind is in overload. LOL

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
11:04 am

Hey Leggs and Blackfoote.

Bluzgirl

June 13th, 2012
11:05 am

BF…I’m jealous! I love Memphis! I want to go back and eat at Rendezvous…wonderful BBQ!

On topic…I think it’s important for both sides to make romantic gestures. I have always been good about doing sweet things or buying a thoughtful gift out of the blue for my man. Although…I’m ready to have a man do that for me! I haven’t been with a truly romantic man in a while.

Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
11:07 am

One of the potential conflicts here is that with men, Debauchery can lead to romance (translated, lay a man good and he will get romantic)…

With women, romance can lead to debauchery (translated, she will get much more involved if the man has demonstrated romance)

Seems like one or the other is backwards ;-)

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
11:08 am

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Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
11:13 am

@ Raqi…re: “If I am already showing respect, if he already knows I am proud of him, does he as a man not require or desire more? Or am I just thinking like a woman, that I am?”

I wwould suggest (and not speaaking for EVERY man) thaqt this is enough…caveat though, men are not that deep, and frankly not mindreaders, so the key word is “showing”…is the message absolutely getting through.

(Not a bad idea to particularly demonstrate this CLEARLY when you get the sense that the day, life, job, whatever, may have kicked him in the azz and he gets quiet…watch for these opportunities and he will follow you anywhere).

Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
11:15 am

REWRITE WITHOUT THE FRIGGIN TYPOS

@ Raqi…re: “If I am already showing respect, if he already knows I am proud of him, does he as a man not require or desire more? Or am I just thinking like a woman, that I am?”

I would suggest (and not speaking for EVERY man) that this is enough…

Caveat though, men are not that deep, and frankly not mindreaders, so the key word is “showing”…is the message absolutely getting through?

(Not a bad idea to particularly demonstrate this CLEARLY when you get the sense that the day, life, job, whatever, may have kicked him in the azz and he gets quiet…watch for these opportunities and he will follow you anywhere).

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
11:16 am

Morning All!

Raqi – Good to read ya lady! And to answer your 11:03, yes you are doing more than enough. You are superwife/woman! From what you’ve said about your husband, I think, no I’m gonna say I know, he appreciates you and knows he’s got a great thing. Neither of you are perfect, but you are perfect for each other and your household works just fine. Plus, if you aren’t enough then DANG, the rest of us should worry.

On topic – I love to do nice things for my great husband. I don’t want to get too mushy here, but he did one of the nicest, most thoughtful things for our anniversary. I was off from work the Friday before and the Monday of our anniversary. The Tuesday I returned to work I got the most beautiful flowers, but not just any flowers. They included the type of roses we had in our wedding. They were special to me because they were my mom’s favorites. He included a note saying he knew I was off the 2 days, but he wanted me to have some flowers in the office. When my assistant brought them to me, I sat for about 5 minutes with my mouth open. It blew me away that a man paid attention to such detail.

Anything that man ever wants or needs from me he can get! :)

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
11:16 am

“I’ll take the romance or the debauchery. to be totally honest I’m leaning toward the debauchery.” – :lol: :lol: Me too!

Hi Raqi. Always a pleasure when you’re on board!

Randyt ~ I agree – lay a man good and romance will follow. Also your post on respect said all that needed to be said. When you show your man respect and appreciation and yes, telling him you’re proud of him, will only trickle down to him doing and showing his woman wonderful things in turn.

Randyt (save a seat on the plane for me)

June 13th, 2012
11:22 am

Hi Leggs…as I have said ‘ad nauseum’…men aren’t that complicated (and women keep looking for depth that just isn’t there, I swear it). Two or three areas of basic understanding and 95% of all men will be eating out of your hand, LOL. Respect being numero uno.

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
11:26 am

^5 @ kimmie. go’on, girl!

question: i know y’all may think i’m being silly but i have to ask. that r.kelly song, is he saying “populate” or “copulate”???
with him, you just never know.

disco

June 13th, 2012
11:28 am

randy – forgive me but here I go. first let me say that I agree with you. men are relatively simple, not that complex, don’t need much and respect goes a long way. the issue I have is that a lot of men don’t command respect and many don’t deserve it. now don’t get me wrong – I’m not talking about the general common courtesy type respect that every human being is entitled to. I’m talking respect on another level. in fact when discussing these matters with friends I’ve started using the word admire/admiration in place of respect because I’ve generalized the term respect. so, in essence, I’m saying I don’t seek a man I respect (because in theory I respect all men) but a man that I admire. yeah – my friends say I think too much. lol.

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
11:29 am

Brat — Just glad he isn’t saying “urinate” :lol:

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
11:33 am

disco – I can relate to your feelings about respect versus admiration. It actually perfectly explains how I feel about my husband. More than just respect, I admire him. In fact, thinking back, I felt that admiration for him before I fell in love.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
11:35 am

Randy seriously, that’s it? Why? LOL That just feels rather subpar.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
11:36 am

Kimmie That was a wonderful first anniversary. You knowz I am happy for you.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
11:42 am

Hello Raqi V:
You know how to put it out here great stuff too. Wish I had it like your hubs, good women know how to treat their men.

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
11:46 am

Thanks Raqita!

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
11:47 am

Disco I have always been taught that respect is earned. While my moral standards may not allow me hate a person, that does not mean I have respect for them. I don’t have respect for a man just because he is a man. I have respect for a man that does what a man is supposed to do.

Admiration and respect are both quite personal with me. I don’t believe in mistreating anyone however you have to earn my respect. Respect goes along way and not everyone is deserving of that.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
11:53 am

Blackfoote I don’t remember how long we have been reading each other here but I have to tell you that I can be a witch. LOL My bestie talks about how passionate I am and tells me that it works against me sometimes.

I had a birthday back in April. We all got together to have a nice evening for my birthday. While amongst the friends the hub rubbed me the wrong way in something that he said and tried to brush it off as nothing. I told that joker later that evening if he didn’t take his hands off me I was going to break his fingers. I was holding and twisting them as I was saying it.

I am not nice all the time. LOL And it runs just as deep as my being nice does.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
11:55 am

Bluz:

I can’t wait to get to Memphis and wallow in all those bbq joints. My food theme for the weekend will be booze, seafood, and bbq until they find my head in the trash can…….LOL.

Elijah

June 13th, 2012
12:00 pm

Raqi a true Aries woman can be mean as you are nice….Nevertheless a passionate, thoughtful wife who needs to express her thoughts, ideas and be recognized for the contributions.

Celisea where are u? Lemon Pepper wings this week!

czBrat

June 13th, 2012
12:02 pm

eeewww, swiss! just eeewww!

o/t: the salmon i threw on the foreman grill this morning was ridikulously simple and is insanely yum!
time to get my first lunch on.
later!

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:02 pm

:lol: :lol:

Swiss the Fool!

:lol:

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:03 pm

I worry too much. I am actually feeling guilty because I have until 2pm without the little ones. LOL

I need to indulge in a guilty pleasure right now.

I know…Double Chocolate Cupcake with cream cheese icing. Imma make only two and eat them both by myself.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
12:03 pm

I too believe women should respect men but not under the guise of that being an automatic because of the gender. I believe you respect those that are doing it and getting it done. If you’re living by a different set of rules, prescribe to the do as I say not as I do plan, don’t live up to your fullest potential then no you haven’t earned respect. I agree too that admiration is that extra that goes beyond.

Elijah – I am here…..yes? :)

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:05 pm

Hey Raqi!

Kimmie’ anything he wants he can git it!’

That’s nice Kimmie!!

Kimmie’s husband:’ you get a spanking today my beautiful wife!’
:lol:

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
12:07 pm

Kimmie – That was nice!

Mmeello – What’s up?!

Raqi – Don’t fret. I can guarantee (and I’m not Mason) :) that you are doing a fabulous job. Two babies, two older kids, a hubs, a dad and running a home is a LOT to take on.

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
12:07 pm

Brat — Hey, I’m not the one peeing on folks… lol

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
12:07 pm

disco – Gon’ and get your debauchery on :)

Okay…gotta run out for a while

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:09 pm

Celisea if he’s Not earning your respect Bench him!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
12:10 pm

MMeello – That only needs to be said once…lol You got that right.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:11 pm

M-e-l-o you are correct. My mother told me that I was her meanest child and very sassy.

I have done some pretty mean things in my life and have made some very piercing statements too.

I remember before the hub and I married he had made me angry. I did all I could to not say what I wanted to say. He said if looks could kill that look I was giving him would put me away for life on manslaughter.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
12:13 pm

Hey Ex:

We have some good women on this blog. Try and pick one I couldn’t cause they all are too damn good.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:14 pm

Kimmie can you help me out on something?

I am making some cupcakes but don’t have any powdered sugar for my icing. What can use in place of it?

Will pounding out or blending regular sugar work?

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:15 pm

Hey Cel!

I think a golden shower is bad Only If the tape comes out in the public domain!

A woman and man should do what they please in the comfy of their bedroom.

Chuurch must say Amen here..that’s the truf!

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:19 pm

Blackfoote..you greedy buddy! :lol:

Settle on One good blog chic single hopefully and lock her in.

Otherwise you break ur neck,looking at Cel,Lady J smiles you look,then look at Bluz then Disco’s legs…..ummmm See :lol:

Hey let me watch a lil soccer it’s lunchtime

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:20 pm

Hey Celisea. Imma tell him you said so the next time he tells me that he is going to send me home to my daddy for being mean to him. LOL

In an argument once (yeah another argument) I reminded him that my dad says the husband and wife both are to OBEY THE MARRIAGE. He grabbed me by the arm saying he was going to take me back to my daddy. He doesn’t know this but I talked to me father about the situation that led to the whole incident and my dad agreed with him. But that’s our little secret.

disco

June 13th, 2012
12:22 pm

raqi – re respect being earned. yep. I get it which is why I put out there that “general” respect due a person as a human being. in that regard I’ll have to give each person the benefit of the doubt and give them general respect until I can determine if they are worthy of more. I have to co-sign celisea’s statement that I can’t get onboard with respecting a man just because he was born with a “dangling participle” between his legs. that quality alone doesn’t warrant respect. and I won’t even crack the joke that some of those participles wouldn’t pass inspection. okay. sorry. guess I snuck that in there.

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
12:22 pm

Raqi – I was going to mention making a glaze, but again you need powdered sugar. Pounding the regular stuff won’t cut it!LOL!! Do you have any chocolate chips? If so, you could melt them and spread on the cupcakes, like a ganache. Or if you have some Cool Whip and cocoa you could mix the 2 into a frosting.

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
12:24 pm

Just glad he isn’t saying “urinate” – Hilarious!

He’s saying populate…let’s do what we were born to do…add to the population (lol).

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
12:25 pm

disco – too many men do think they are “owed” respect just by being male. Forget that they’ve done nothing to earn it. And yes, to me admiration is that something special that not alot get from me.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:28 pm

Two of my besties are away on vacation and the other is tied up in this being one of the busiest times of the year for her career so yall are my go to for companionship for a little while today.

Kimmie I am putting chocolate chips in the cupcake batter. I like the coolwhip and cocoa idea though. I will go with that.

Unless I can sifter the sugar to powder it. LOL I just love cream cheese icing. I guess I could go buy some but going to the store for one thing just does not sound like something I want to do. I have cool whip and cocoa already so that is what I will use. Thanks.

disco

June 13th, 2012
12:33 pm

O/T – someone jacked me for my sharpie.

raqi – I love that you are willing to find a way to make your granulated sugar work. lol. run it through the food processor, put it in the blender, beat it with a meat tenderizer, put it in a Ziploc bag and set a brick on it. okay. sorry again for being silly. it’s almost lunchtime. I’ll be better after some sustenance.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:35 pm

Disco exactly. That protrusion of skin and muscle only makes one male. A man is how he carries himself. When one acts with respect I will respect them.

My idea of respecting someone is not the same as not mistreating them.

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
12:35 pm

Raqi – I like cream cheese icing too! Hopefully the cocoa & cool whip will be sweet enough.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
12:41 pm

Raqi V forgot to ask, how is the little man doing? Is he running around causing trouble yet?

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
12:51 pm

Blackfoote he is running yet but he is surely getting around and getting into everything. I am not gonna lie because I have spoken the words before the Man Upstairs. I sometimes ask myself what is the world was I thinking having two babies in my 40’s.

Al Green said it best. “Love will make you do thangs!!!” That man should have got at me sooner so his little mini-me(s) would at least be half way through elementary school now. LOL

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:53 pm

Pounding…!

Nice verb!

:lol: :lol:

pounding!

Hey Kimmie and Swiss,I read some yhis weekend,on ajc.co
about ur UGA professor ..Respected highly regarded!

What’s up with that? :lol:

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:56 pm

Disco u just so hard to please…

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
12:58 pm

Exiled – All I can say is UGA is a BIG school, almost the size of a small city. In any city, you have your good & your bad. Hey, it happens!

Personally, I could not care less about some German professor!

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
12:58 pm

Celisea is Not hard to please coz I think she’s romantic

She just needs a pastor who knows his bible,is phoine and true to the book…

No Eddie

No Creflo like types!

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
12:59 pm

Me.lo — Pimpin’ ain’t easy.

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
1:00 pm

The man just wanted a lil spice Kimmie..nothing wrong there

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
1:01 pm

swiss – that’s a great way to put it!LOL!!!

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
1:02 pm

Exiled – Hey, let him knock himself out!LOL!!!

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
1:03 pm

The hub had a glass of juice in the den on the table. When he walked back into the room it had gotten knocked over. Liz had that look like “it wasn’t me. Mason did it.” The hub starting scolding my baby pointing his finger and him reminding him (a one year old) that he said not to touch the glass.

Me knowing that Liz did it because she bumped the table and lies like that on Mason I quickly went to rescue of my baby. I grabbed that little girl and put her in front of her dad and told him ‘you mother did it. Get her.’ Not only does she have that woman’s name she has her evilness also.

Yall know it went from NO MASON!!! to “Elizabeth you made a mess. Help daddy clean it up”.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
1:05 pm

Anyone watching Master Chef on Fox? The first few episodes have been good. I think it’s going to be a good show because all of the competitors are just self made cooks. Unlike the Food Network shows where everyone is already a chef.

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
1:07 pm

The idea of the professor charging for the service,Now that’s another subject.

UGA must pay it’s Highly touted professors well.

:lol: :lol:

I’m sticking that knife in you Kimmie and Swiss back! :lol:

Have a nice day folks!

abc

June 13th, 2012
1:11 pm

I think the differentiation between respect and admiration is apropos.

When you’re a child, you respect your teacher because the situation commands it; your parents because they insist upon it. When you’re in the military, you respect the grade, not necessarily admire the man — you offer respect because it’s completely appropriate to do so.

Similarly, a husband deserves respect not because of his behavior, but because of his position. A wife deserves sacrifice for her benefit on behalf of her husband, not because her behavior warrants it, but because of her position.

You may not admire a man because of whatever reason under the sun, but if you don’t offer him respect, you’re likely to get a negative reaction from him. It’s the way men are wired. Women are similar, but different — respecting womanhood is not the same as respecting manhood.

Raqi...A Real Housewife in Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
1:19 pm

One double chocolate cupcake with cool whip topping served on a nice plate by candlelight after dinner can be romantic. Right? Yeah. Imma go with that. One 6hrs old cold tiny cake served in the dark for my loving husband this evening. RO. MAN. TIC.

It’s about time for my babies to be coming home. You all have a good rest of the day. I promise I will not speak to all again for the rest of the year. LOL

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
1:25 pm

“One double chocolate cupcake with cool whip topping served on a nice plate by candlelight after dinner can be romantic.”

Raqi — If you make that 2 double chocolate cupcakes with whipped cream topping, and replace the cupcakes with some nice double chocolate boobies, that would be even more romantic, IMO… lol

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
1:25 pm

For me, I had to have respect for the person inside the male body before he got the position of husband. Not only the respect but the admiration that set him apart from others. That which made him special.

To me, giving one the respect and the position before he’s earned it is like putting the cart before the horse.

I agree with Raqi – me not mistreating you as another human being is not the same as my having respect for you.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
1:31 pm

Hey y’all!

Finally got free long enough to pop in and say hi. They got me so busy I don’t know whether to scratch my watch or wind my butt. :lol:

How’s everyone been? I miss the blog. :cry:

Hey Randyt – long time, no read. :wink:

Heeeeey Swiss and Kimmie and other DGDs in the house! Was thinking of y’all the other day when I received an email re: 2012 football tix.

Dashing to lunch…hope to be back this afternoon.

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
1:34 pm

Hey ITL, what’s up? You have season tickets? If so, you should invite me & kimmie and we can have a blog tailgate. lol

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
1:37 pm

swiss – I know that’s right! ITL what do you need us to bring to the party??!!!

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
1:40 pm

LOL@Swiss and Kimmie. Don’t need you to bring a thing except your smiling faces. We keep a fairly well stocked bar, beer, mimosas, etc, and plenty of food on the grill and on the table. :grin:

Raqi...A Real Housewife of Dunwoody

June 13th, 2012
1:45 pm

One last question Randy and Blackfoote.

Do you all receive or appreciate romance better when it’s the observance of an event (i.e. Birthday, Anniversary) or merely just because?

This topic got me planning a nice romantic evening for September (his birthday) or October (our anniversary). Or June (because it’s June right now LOL).

I just asked my brother over the phone if “Men Love Romance”. He said men love to be fed and f*****. He said feed the man plenty and f*** frequently and he will be a happy fellow for many years to come. LOL

Okay I am gone for real this time.

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
1:46 pm

ITL — Cool. But, um, for real, though… about those tickets? You got any extras for any games that I could buy from you? lol

disco

June 13th, 2012
2:12 pm

hello??? did you all start the beach/booze fest without me? that’s messed up.

SlimUno

June 13th, 2012
2:13 pm

Howdy folks! Whats the fugg going on in here. Sounds like I need to throw on a rain coat as to not get any p1ss on me. The weather man said there was a chance of rain but not Golden showers.

Mr. Unknown

June 13th, 2012
2:25 pm

Whats up guys!!

I do appreciate romance, I love the effort put forth to make me happy. Now on the same token don’t halfA@# on the gesture. I say if your going to do something nice, go all out. The effort means its planned out from start to finish. Examples, the gas tank on full, reservations made, hotel booked, slide me some money and tell me to get my haircut. What I’m say is Plan an actual day of activities for us ladies. Include some type of sporting event or comedy tickets and through out the day send us a sexy text msg showing what awaits us at the end of our night. If your bold enough, venture outside of the normal bed room activities. Maybe some public uhhh risky behavior. I could go on and on and on… Just don’t get arrested..

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
2:32 pm

“If your bold enough, venture outside of the normal bed room activities. Maybe some public uhhh risky behavior.”

Mr. U — That reminds me… I meant to chime in with this the other day when the topic was taking vacations together, but the public debauchery ties in, too. I can tell you the exact moment I knew I was going to marry Mrs. Swiss. It was on our first trip together, in Cancun, when she f__ked my brains out (totally initiated by her, btw) in the outdoor hot tub in broad daylight in the middle of the day. lol I already knew all the other great things about her, but once I got a glimpse of that inner naughty side she’d be saving for just the right moment, I knew I had to put her on lock down. lol

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
2:35 pm

* she’d been saving…

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:41 pm

MMeello – Man stop…lol I’m laughing at your 12:58. You know dern well Eddie “muscle man” Long ain’t true…lol Next time use better examples. And no they don’t have to know the bible or be a pastor. Actually I would prefer not. They’ll Jesus me to death…trust me on that…lol Give me a rank sinner and I’ll work on him. My old pastor told me that…lol

Mr. Unknown

June 13th, 2012
2:42 pm

Swiss- Exactly.. lol.. She needs something that sets her apart from the rest.

MervTheTerrible

June 13th, 2012
2:44 pm

Well if the topic had nothing to do with what smug, stuck up yuppies do I’d have something better to say, but when dealing with yuppies I have nothing nice to say, sorry. (scampers off to wait for the next topic)

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:45 pm

In fairness to you MMeelloo…you did say “not like” Eddie or Creflo. They shouldn’t be the first persons that come to mind when talking pastors…that was my point :)

disco

June 13th, 2012
2:45 pm

celisea – you got jokes.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:48 pm

disco – Chile I dated a dude for a hot second that was a so called “deacon”…yeah he was the one I talked with my pastor about. We were just chatting, not like some consultation session or something and he was like “drop him.” LOL Buddy wanted to have “clean” fun. Nuh uh. I want mine the normal way…all the way dirty…lol Don’t be tryna take me to the edge and then stop cause you don’t want to do sin. It’s all sin the edge or over the cliff…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
2:49 pm

Raqi V:
Sorry Raqi our system went down for a while, your brother answered your question the same way I would have. Just because for me, of course anniversarys, birthdays are a given so to speak. Food and a bed are winners, everything in between is icing on the cake.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:49 pm

Of course if I’m refraining then we ain’t even going to the edge… just saying. When I’m serious, I’m serious.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
2:50 pm

Sorry, Swissie. No extras now, but I’ll keep you in the loop. The athletic office sent an email saying that tix to the Buffalo, Florida Atlantic, and Vandy games.

Elijah

June 13th, 2012
2:52 pm

Don’t be tryna take me to the edge and then stop cause you don’t want to do sin. It’s all sin the edge or over the cliff…lol

This is why I likes me some Celisea….

disco

June 13th, 2012
2:55 pm

I have a friend who was fond of saying “sin now, repent later”.

celisea – the other day we talked about expressions that we hated to hear our parents say. one that I didn’t think of until last night “I know you better than you know yourself”. uggh.

SlimUno

June 13th, 2012
2:55 pm

I knew a ‘church guy’ that was studying theology or what have you…he had a serious foot fetish. I’m not ready for that :shock:

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:55 pm

Elijah – You do know the context in which I used right? I ain’t saying I’m hanging all over the place all willy nilly, I’m talking strictly on folks trying to split hairs.

You know Elijah, you better be glad we’re virtual. I would call your bluff just because.. You act like you’re gonna hand a girl the moon. As they said back in the day, you ain’t gon’ buss (burst) a grape…lol

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
2:56 pm

“Eddie or Creflo. They shouldn’t be the first persons that come to mind when talking pastors…”

C — Would you prefer Jimmy Swaggart? Or Ted Haggard? Or Jim Bakker? (Or pretty much any catholic priest?) ;-)

Sorry, you know I can’t resist…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
2:57 pm

Light how’s it going lady?

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:57 pm

disco – And that’s a ton of truth to that. I know my kid better than she knows herself…little fast thing. I know her because I know me…lol Well I will say I ain’t quite mastered “her daddy” habits and what not coming to surface…lol

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
2:58 pm

there’s not that’s

Swiss – You ain’t right…lol Boy that Tammy Faye and Jim both were hot messes back in the day. She wore so much makeup I always wonder if she would EVER get all that off…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
2:59 pm

Cely I think Elijah is slowly wearing you down.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:00 pm

Blackfoote – Intentional mean is hard to keep going when someone is fairly nice. Although with Elijah he just likes saying something…heck any ole thing…lol

Naash, he tried to swindle a couple of blog boos right under our noses…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 13th, 2012
3:01 pm

Good day folks I’m gone, I’ll check in from MS. or TN to see what y’all got.

To the Fellas Happy Fathers Day!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:02 pm

Blackfoote – Be safe!

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:04 pm

Hey BF!! Good to read you.

Have a safe trip, and put $20 on black for me. :)

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:09 pm

Hey Cely! Catch me up…who is this stalker Elijah? Cely and Elijah sittin’ in a tree…. :lol:

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:11 pm

ITL – Hey there lady! I asked about you a couple of times. Lean in so I can whisper and to keep Elijah from hearing us…lol I think “you know who” is some old blogger or a current blogger that changes his moniker when he sees me so he can poke fun. Nothing more Okay, don’t tell him I said that. I just play along :)

MervTheTerrible

June 13th, 2012
3:13 pm

I lied I’m back, funny thought, I wonder how many yuppies I’d catch if tied a bag of prissy clothing and tennis rackets (rackets to act like spinners like on some fishing lures) with a extra large starbucks cup as a bobber to my bumper and road through Buck head and Vinings.GAHAHAHAHA Yes I am being a butthead.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:16 pm

setting: Bonefish

Hostess: Elijah, party of 12
Elijah: Here we are
Hostess: “We? I only see you, sir.”
Elijah: Ek-ZACHLY!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:17 pm

ITL – You don’t reckon it’s on the level of Bonefish? Whoa…that ain’t good…lol

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
3:17 pm

I is tired…had my 3 month fitness assessment. Like a fool, I scheduled a mammogram right behind that. Whew…ladies, don’t ever do that.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:22 pm

Cely – I dunno. I was just trying to be funny based on what you said about moniker swapping.

(leaning in to whisper) This is the first I’ve seen of you know who. Is he nice??

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:29 pm

ITL – LOL..gooootcha You scared me there because initially I said he ain’t gonna do buss (burst) a grape. “Bonefish” had me rattled a bit. Lean in closer….I can’t say really much about this character. That name shows up to snag a blog boo. Outside of that not much blog interaction…lol You don’t know this but that name was present a couple of years ago but popped in sporadically. He would say something crazy and end with “YEAH” But that’s all we know about him. Maybe we should put together a blog patrol to be on the safe side. I don’t think anyone really know too much about you know who

disco

June 13th, 2012
3:33 pm

C / ITL – don’t know if it’s my imagination but I can actually hear (read) the conspiratorial tone the two of you are using. y’all are a mess. going all inspector gadget on the blog.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:34 pm

disco – Shhhhh NOT SO LOUD…you know who might hear us…lololololol

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:37 pm

disco – girl, you know the WLB stick together. :wink:

Cely: I thought I saw a post from you about you know who talking about money and I thought maybe Mr. Red Bottoms/No Birkin Buyer was reincarnated. :lol:

Elijah

June 13th, 2012
3:37 pm

@BF….U R 100 percent correct sir I am going break thru the Super Celisea defense shield… Once done I am going to have the time of my life….lol

Celisea, I am one and the same from back in the day Ms.Professor…Um no blog women yet! At least not until I romance U.

Celisea please call my bluff ….

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:37 pm

Know what you need, Leggs? A drank. Yup. I said “drank”

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:39 pm

ITL – You know that’s crossed my mind a number of times, along with a few other names. I dare not say that out loud though. I’ve come close to getting stoned on here…as recent as yesterday…lol I have to make sure I tread carefully. One wrong slip and it’s stoning for Celisea :oops:

disco

June 13th, 2012
3:39 pm

C – my apologies because I’d blow your cover. as old as I am you’d think I’d have perfected a whisper but nope.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:41 pm

disco – Danggit! Now I gotta run for real. I was almost stoned yesterday. I’m sure to get it now….

Elijah – Bluff called.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:43 pm

Cely, in the words of the immortal Bob Dylan, “Everybody must get stoned!” LOL :lol: :lol:

Seriously, though, you okay?? Shoot, girl, you know I got your back. Like I told you a long time ago, I’ll help you bury the body AND put money on your books for honeybuns and noodle soup. :)

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:45 pm

Elijah – Bluff called.

Game on.

(ITL running to the blog kitchen for some popcorn and a diet Coke and hurrying back to her ringside seat)

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:46 pm

ITL – LOLOLOLOL See, that’s what I’m talking about. I knew I could depend on you. Kimmie helped me out of a pinch yesterday. I thought I was a goner. Well, I’m gonna bank on your 3:43. Shovels and body bags in the trunk….just in case. If it goes down and I’m sent away, please keep the books going. I cannot live without honeybuns :)

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
3:51 pm

I got you, Cely. :lol: I’ll even pass the hat on the blog the first of every month for a little sumthin’ extra…just in case you need to get your hair braided. LOLOLOL

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
3:58 pm

Elijah aka Alvin from back in the day!

Don’t front! I’ve been on to you from Day One you started back blogging. Your style has not changed!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
3:59 pm

ITL – Thanks. Let’s hope though it won’t come to that…needing shovels and body bags. I’m really not looking forward to the rest of my time in a cell…lol

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
3:59 pm

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:00 pm

ITL – Oh I forgot to mention, I’m a fantastic braider. We can put those funds to use elswhere…lol

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
4:02 pm

Leggs – You got it, didn’t you!! LOL!!

Man, you gotta get up early in the morning to out-slick me! I was wondering how long he was going to go!!LOL!!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:02 pm

Ut oh, Elijah has gone eerily quiet again :cry: I want my mommie

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
4:02 pm

Wait… C, you weren’t “Professor” were you? I thought “Professor” became “Dirty Diana” and then disappeared after that epic battle with Kym? Do I have my blog history mixed up? lol

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:03 pm

Alvin as in Demigod? I don’t think we said more than two words in passing.

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
4:04 pm

So there were two Alvins because Alvin was also known as DemiGod????

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:04 pm

Swiss – LOL…No I’m not professor. She took her azz whupping and scadaddled…LOL

Elijah – All this time you’ve been stalking hitting on the wrong blog woman…lol THAT IS WAAAAY TOO FUNNY…Bwah ah ah ah ah ah

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:05 pm

Alvin?? Who’s Alvin? And where are Simon and Theodore?!?!? Bwaaaahaaaahaaa. I crack me up. :lol:

Cely – but can you braid your own hair?!?! Everytime I try I end up looking like first runner up in the “WTHeck happened to your hair Pageant”

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
4:05 pm

Your right, swiss! You get an “A.”

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:07 pm

ITL – Braids prison style is all braided back. I can do that for myself…lol

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:07 pm

This must all be before my time. Although I have heard Professor mentioned.

And speaking of Kym….where is she?!?! I hope she didn’t sell all the rights to our Sista Shine franchise and runoff to the islands. LOLOL

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
4:08 pm

Swiss you are right about Professor aka Dirty Diana until the Kym battle!

Leggs – It must have been two Alvins, because I do remember DemiGod but not evolved from Alvin.

The only thing I remember is Alvin & Elijah having a split personality – one being mean & nasty and the other angelic and flirty with me, kinda eery too, like Elijah is now. One day he revealed that he was one in the same!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:09 pm

Elijah – See that’s what happen when you don’t keep up. You’re in a time warp. The professor left soon after you did. What did you think she changed monikers to Celisea?

I will say I had someone to email me under the name of Elijah a couple of years back. He took my email addy from the screen when I posted for someone else. Maybe he thought back the he was hitting up Professor…lol Mystery meat I tell ya

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:10 pm

@Cely – Guuurrrl, if I’m there with you, I’m gonna have to swap you some honeybuns or meat skins to do mine. Either that or wear pony/pigtails.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:11 pm

Like sands through the hourglass……so are the days of our blog…. :)

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:12 pm

I thought Elijah started out being L@RKER (I was “it’s me l@rker) and forgot to switch monikers while changing back and forth between that and Elijah and somebody busted him. After he was busted he stayed under Elijah but slowy left from embarassment.

Play That Funky Music, White Boy (totally new, first time blogger. never been here before, and most definitely NOT i'm swiss)

June 13th, 2012
4:12 pm

Good day, good people! May I interest any of you lovely blog ladies in a free earmuffilectomy?

BAM!

and

YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
4:13 pm

ITL – It can be quite a soap in here at times!LOL!!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:13 pm

ITL – For having my back, the hairdo is on me :)

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
4:15 pm

Welcome, PTFMWB!

Yeah…. you know, this isn’t as fun as I thought it would be.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:15 pm

I don’t think he’s Alvin. I have in mind who I think he is. He initially started out with a completely different style than the old Elijah. You can tell there’s the effort to now sound like the old Elijah…especiall with those “I want Celisea, yes I do”…nuh uh…can’t fool me.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:17 pm

@Swissykins: Why do I hear Lil John in my head??!?

@Kimmie – right?!?!

@Cely – Awwww… that’s my girl! :)

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
4:17 pm

C – L. ur.ker is mixed in there too. He was mean, and used to do that YEAHHHH mess too! Looks like he’s back!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:19 pm

Kimmie – You’re on to him. Remember L@RKER use to get nasty and fresh and Elijah blogged all saintly?? Just wild I tell ya. That was sooo funny when got busted….lol He could only admit it…lol

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:19 pm

I guess he’ll tuck his tail and go now that he’s been called out.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:20 pm

Cel – who do you think he is?!?!? I’ll lean in so you can whisper…. (DISCO – DO NOT PUT US ON BLAST!) LOLOLOL

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
4:20 pm

C – Yep!!LOL!!!

kimmie

June 13th, 2012
4:22 pm

C – I actually was on to him, Elijah, the minute he came back on. I was just laying back in the cut to see what might happen. When he started his heavy flirting I knew he was getting comfortable again!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:23 pm

ITL – Can’t say yet. I think he’s some of these other folks that shows up at other times too BUT….I could be wrong. It can be scrambly tryina keep up. That ain’t worth it.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:24 pm

disco

June 13th, 2012
4:24 pm

swiss – you crazy.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:24 pm

@C – Whew. Too much energy for too little reward. :)

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:25 pm

Kimmie – Yep, and showing his hand chasing after cute booties is a dead give away. As soon as Swiss said I had a cute booty and disco blogged about her cute booty here he comes. A couple of other crushes this person has have shown up in his posts but he thinks he’s slick so I ain’t said nothing. He ain’t slick. I say we just move on and let him think we’re all fooled….of course we’re whispering this so he can’t hear us…lol

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:27 pm

ITL – That’s why we’re just gonna nod and keep on moving past him…lol Too he goes quiet and that’s spooky

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
4:27 pm

Dang, it’s about to get good and I have to leave.

Kym is doing well.

Demigod’s twin was known as Alvin. He’s doing good too.

Nite!

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:28 pm

SN: I just overheard a couple of folks talking about meeting minutes and immediately started humming, “6 minutes….6 minutes…..6 minutes Dougie Fresh and you’re on, on, o-o-on-on.” Earlier today, I said, “That’s what I’m screamin’!” I think I took a wrong turn onto memory lane today. LOL

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:28 pm

We’re gonna have to work on disco’s whispering skills…lol

PTFMWB (Not Swiss) – WELCOME!!!

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:28 pm

ITL – We’re hanging out tonight….you down?

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
4:38 pm

Totally off topic:

Mrs. Swiss’s little baby bump is starting to appear. Not enough that anyone else could tell, but I can see it because I stare at her buck nekkid every day. This sounds kinda wrong to say, but the more pregnant she looks, the h0rnier she makes me. lol

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:41 pm

C – Getting my color done tonight. But out of general nosiness, where are y’all going?!?!?

Awwww, Swiss…. :)

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:43 pm

Disco – Just us girls Loca Luna

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
4:47 pm

disco, are you here from Cackalacky??!?!?

disco

June 13th, 2012
4:55 pm

celisea – my whispering skills are nil but that’s okay because I’m that chick who is quick to say that anything I can say once I can say twice. (mom drilled that in to me around the time little girls start keeping up some he said/she said mess). if some blog pest steps to me talking about did you say I’ll be like “yep. I said it. what?”. lol.

ITL – not clear on what you are asking. am I in atl? no. am I from cackalacky? no. I’m I currently in cackalacky? yes.

Celisea

June 13th, 2012
4:57 pm

disco – No better policy. I’m never afraid to repeat myself. If it can’t be repeated then it’s probably safe to not say at all…lol Watch out now, that kind of backbone will get you stoned up in this piece…lol

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
5:06 pm

I was asking if you were in atl because C posted the meet and greet location to you. Thought maybe you were here. Then I was gonna be double sorry to miss it. :) (Although I won’t be too sorry, bc I noticed when I was getting my hair cut last night that more than just the roots are showing. Somebody pasted some ugly gray hairs in there while I wasn’t looking! We will be fixing that problem this evening.)

disco

June 13th, 2012
5:18 pm

ITL – I will definitely spread the word when I plan my next visit down that way.

Into the Light

June 13th, 2012
5:22 pm

@disco – and I know we’ll hear you, unless your whispering skills improve by then! LOLOLOL I’m sorry, girl, I just had to say it.

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
5:23 pm

When are u Not H0rny Swiss?!

Exiled!

June 13th, 2012
5:24 pm

Me? After I Nutted!
:lol:

i'm swiss

June 13th, 2012
5:37 pm

Good point, Me.lo. Of course, at the moment my h0rniness is exacerbated by several factors:

1) the mini baby bump
2) Mrs. Swiss’ boobs look F__KING AMAZING right about now :lol:
3) She’s been exhausted & sick, and so not in the conjugal mood so much. :(

The other night, I couldn’t take it any longer & bypassed conventional “warm up” tactics to get her in the mood & went straight to sticking my tongue in her booty. :shock: (Which worked spectacularly, by the way — it was a good night). :lol:

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
9:54 pm

Excellent, there’s a window open. Let me crawl in. Oh no, there’s a light on in back room. Need to jump back in the shrubs. Whew, light is out, but it’s late. Ok, I’m in….

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:02 pm

The rest of my post won’t go through messing up me coming thru window..

Leggs

June 13th, 2012
10:03 pm

tossing salad???

Elijah

June 13th, 2012
10:58 pm

Go to bed

June 13th, 2012
11:34 pm

go to bed Elijah