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Dating: Do men enjoy humor?

Ask any woman what traits she would like in a man, and I can imagine a sense of humor is mentioned a lot. Women love to laugh, so the man who knows how to bring joy and laughter to a woman is a virtual chick whisperer!

Do men feel the same way we do about the importance of humor in a mate? Some would argue that they do not. In fact, many have said that wit and humor can actually count against a woman to some men.

What is it about funny women that is so off putting, though? I seriously thought that a happy, fun, jovial woman would be appealing to a man who loves to laugh.

Are funny women sexy? One of my twitter friends asked, “Do men like women with a sense of humor?” and further, is there such a thing as too much humor?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

192 comments Add your comment

kimmie

June 12th, 2012
3:01 pm

Celisea – Vanzant is actually irritating to me! She’ll take a simple statement from someone like “I feel sad” and twist it up into all kind of pronouncements! She’s like “you’re not really sad, you’re frustrated because you didn’t get the pony you asked for when you were 12 and so you took it out on your 1st husband when he cheated on you with your sister and you are mad because you are always late for church and don’t do your meditations every morning before you shower”!! :lol:

disco

June 12th, 2012
3:01 pm

C – I told you, Elijah “will not be denied”. listen to leggs. run. and you might want to house your rabbits inside for a while.

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:02 pm

Leggs – I think you might be right. That’s eerie even for blogsville.

czBrat

June 12th, 2012
3:02 pm

Once that grab your hand, they usually spin you around twisting your arm behind your back and pushing you into a wall whispering crap in your ear while you whince in pain. Then, they let you go glaring at you for not wanting them anymore….
dang! what’d i miss? see what happens when you get lost deep in thought about pee?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 12th, 2012
3:02 pm

I was wondering where Leggs holding out at.

i'm swiss

June 12th, 2012
3:02 pm

C – It’s okay, we’re talking blog-boo. As in, in the blog world. And we’re all blog-single, right? :lol:

disco

June 12th, 2012
3:05 pm

swiss – and I thought “what happens in blogville, stays in blogville” though I wonder if that’s true since it’s cyberspace and all.

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:06 pm

Kimmie – Soooo true about her. LOLOLOL Sooo true. I was listening to her on Oprah making confessions and I guess clearing the air of something gone wrong between them. Well probably for her cause Oprah was like it’s all good for me…lol…and she just seems so scrambled. Trying to assess and diagnose folks is NOT the right line of work for her.

disco – will not be denied is rather strong ain’t it?

kimmie

June 12th, 2012
3:06 pm

Leggs – I’m scared. :shock:

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:08 pm

Swiss – You know…good point. Everybody is blog single….that we know. You saw Elijah drop that generic email addy and how quick. Never know what’s going on behind the scene. Soooooo if you’re blogly rich, it really doesn’t matter does it?? OMGosh, blog stamina means that’s cyber too?!?!? Phooey! LOL

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:09 pm

Leggs – I’m scared.

LOLOLOLOL See what you did Elijah??

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:10 pm

Swiss – I didn’t want to see all blogslutty or blogtrampy or either.

kimmie

June 12th, 2012
3:10 pm

disco – That reminds me of The Bert Show this morning. Bert was talking about how years ago when you were in elementary school, the teacher used to threaten you when you got into something and say “that’s going on your permanent record!” When really, there was no such thing. But now, thanks to cyberspace, everything is “permanent”!LOL!!

disco

June 12th, 2012
3:11 pm

C – “I will not be denied” is indeed strong. That line had to contribute to the success of fatal attraction.

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:12 pm

Okay…again….

I didn’t want to seem all blogslutty or blogtrampy

Leggs

June 12th, 2012
3:16 pm

Cracking up at you being lost deep in pee…that was funny.

BF ~ been in the gym with lil leggs. Boss went home sick…

Celisea ~ stand your ground…we have laws and can interpret them to suit the circumstances at hand. Elijah may like a strong woman, but if you actually wear two pair of pants instead of one, he may run for the hills….that’s too strong for him!!!

i'm swiss

June 12th, 2012
3:20 pm

C — Don’t worry. I know you’re a blog-lady in the streets, but a blog-freak in the sheets. :lol:

Leggs

June 12th, 2012
3:22 pm

Every time I hear the promo on Baisden’s show when she (Iyana) says something about the “fruit on the tree,” it sounds like she’s saying something deep and waiting for an “AHA” from Mike and George only to receive a small whimper from them. It always makes me snicker. She thought she was saying something really profound.

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:23 pm

Leggs – I’m standing strong and tall.

Elijah – Next time, even in cyber you cannot have more than one women. On here dropping email addys…shame on you…lol

Maybe Elijah is blogly hawt and wanted to spread the hawtness around…lol

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:24 pm

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:24 pm

woman…gheesh. I need to get back to work

SexyCool

June 12th, 2012
3:24 pm

I think that’s the rub with me when it comes to her – she tries too hard to be profound. Some ish aint that deep. Some ish you just have to be like Sweet Brown – “I ain’t got time for that!”

For Real

June 12th, 2012
3:25 pm

let me see what the blog happs are today.

C dumps Elijah and becomes a blogslut?

For Real now smoovin down his baby hair and combing thru his taco meat.

Leggs

June 12th, 2012
3:25 pm

Spreading all that hawtness only leads to the spreading of Pencillin…

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:27 pm

For Real – Please don’t let it be that 1970s babyhair…lol You know the kind Chili still slicks down and the kind my aunts still wears to church (around the temples) after getting her hair done. Please not THAT baby hair

i'm swiss

June 12th, 2012
3:27 pm

I better watch my back. Elijah my blog-cut my azz for blog-macking on C

i'm swiss

June 12th, 2012
3:28 pm

Leggs

June 12th, 2012
3:33 pm

<em?Do Men Enjoy Humor?

The men here in Blogsville sure do!

For Real

June 12th, 2012
3:33 pm

Quotes by Lyana:

Two white horses fall in the mud. Dirty.

An apple is to a tree what pee is to a toilet.

Push em down Tony pushed me down.

I lace my life like I lace my shoes with velco straps.

I rather poot and be ashamed than hold it back an buss a vein.

12oz of water, 12oz in my bladder gridelock issa mitty ficky.

For Real now snapping his fangas at the deepnessity.

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:34 pm

Swiss – No worries…Blackfoote has been hired as the blog bodyguard :)

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:35 pm

For Real – Seriously? I’m am ca-racking up…out loud

Leggs

June 12th, 2012
3:37 pm

For Real

June 12th, 2012
3:38 pm

Celisea in the words of Prince – Feel what you been dying for don’t be afraid baby, touch it and explode

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:39 pm

For Real – We’re in cyber. I can’t feel a thing :)

For Real

June 12th, 2012
3:39 pm

“We’re in cyber. I can’t feel a thing” – That’s what she said. Wait! That didn’t come out right.

disco

June 12th, 2012
3:41 pm

aww C – did you really just tell dude that can’t feel a thing? lol. shame on you.

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:42 pm

For Real – It’s out there now…lolololol

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
3:44 pm

disco – I’m talking cyber. For Real said otherwise. I think the words jumped off his keyboard…lol

Elijah

June 12th, 2012
4:37 pm

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
2:04 pm
Kimmie – Honey you know I’m agreeing. We already know there’s a role for man and woman but that doesn’t not negate the validity and importance of both roles. I too respect my SO,

Whew this has been a tough day! First Celesia my blog soul mate has a SO.

1. Then she dumps me!
2. Then Swiss makes his move in 3 blog seconds
3. Then Celesia tells 4-Real she cannot feel anything

I am going to put on my clown shoes and Red nose and try to find Bluzgirl this week! lol

SlimUno

June 12th, 2012
4:59 pm

I am going to put on my clown shoes and Red nose and try to find Bluzgirl this week

Elijah – Make sure to bring a flute ;-)

Nighty Night yall :lol:

i'm swiss

June 12th, 2012
5:10 pm

This one time, at band camp…

Celisea

June 12th, 2012
5:11 pm

Elijah – Now c’mon…tell it straight…lol

In all fairness, our blog split came from you tryna holler at another…no? That caused me to exercise my other options…lol Sleep on that…gotta run and beat the drycleaners to pick up my clothes

Night!