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Single life: Summer is flirting season!

It is officially flirting season! I don’t know if it is due to the relief from the insane pollen count, the temperatures creeping up, or the fact that we are wearing less clothes. Summer time is the right time to get your flirt on.

I get approached more during the summer months, even when I am not even thinking about men! Guys see a little more skin and it’s like they are more compelled to make their moves. It doesn’t have to be at a bar or even at a social gathering.

According to the dating experts (umm not me, obviously) this is the best time of year to relax, paint on smile, and make yourself available for maximum flirting!

So, what are the best places in Atlanta to put your flirting muscles to work? I want location names and addresses, people!

What do you do if you have a small window of opportunity to flirt with someone and you want to get in and make a great first impression? Do you start with a joke? Ask for help? Do you recruit friends to be your wingman or wingwoman?

I admit that I have resorted to some crazy tactics before, like the time I “accidentally” bumped into a guy. It was part genius – part stupid. If I hadn’t nearly toppled us both over, it would have been genius.

What lengths have you gone to in an attempt to get your flirt on:?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

161 comments Add your comment

Lily

June 8th, 2012
6:15 am

Flirting comes natural IMO. It’s just a matter of seizing the moment. That’s winter, spring, summer, fall. There’s not too much “extra” needed. Just dig into your bag of tricks and pull out what you already have and go for what you (already) know.

Toddles and happy Friday!

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
7:29 am

Damn,Lily beat me…

I like flesh,woman’s bare flesh…uuugh,the site of a woman’s shapely legs.

How many of you blog ladies can attest to having nice,well toned shapely legs…

Meelo likes you!

Dating spots: that restaurant on the Chattahooche on I-285…damn romantic spot that.
The Hilton by the Airport area is a nice hotel to get away with a potential…

Ohhh summer…flirty f_cking summer!

Rent a cabin at lake Lanier

Happy Friday!

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
7:33 am

Ohh,Lebron was the bizzness yesterday..very Jordan’ like

nothing but nett everytime he jumped and twisted,hoisting the ball and aiming…

……
Playoffs

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
8:41 am

Flicks on Fifth St., Movies in Central Park, and Centennial Parks Screen on the Green. All are good spots to flirt and mingle, that of course if you’re alone. Went to Flicks on Fifth (MI Ghost Protocol) Wednsday night and it was great, they gave free popcorn, Fuze multi fruit drinks all you care to have and lots of single lady’s to flirt with. The little A has rose up. All movies are free just bring your blankets or out door chairs and enjoy. The good part is the venues don’t overlap each other, so you could go to one each day.

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
8:49 am

Good morning.

What do you do if you have a small window of opportunity to flirt with someone and you want to get in and make a great first impression? – Since there in fact is a window, I’m not a very shy person so I would start with a hello, followed with a compliment of some sort. His outfit, his cologne, his smile…somethig.

Do you start with a joke? – I’m corny by nature, so a joke may either make him laugh or look at me like I lost my marbles. No, I wouldn’t start with that. I am witty (IMO), so I will piggyback on what he says after my initial compliment.

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SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
8:53 am

Good morning,

I can’t say there is any one particular place to get your flirt on because that can go down anywhere…a festival, a museum, restaurant, bar, grocery store, Dave & Busters, Six Flags, park, etc…If you see someone that catches your eye and there is limited time to make yourself known, typically a sweet smile, a wink, joke or compliment can be an opening to a conversation. Most men don’t get compliments that often so that is always a good way to start. As far as anything crazy I’ve done to get the attention of someone, I haven’t really done much outside of the box.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
8:53 am

Don’t like to watch movies outdoors, there’s plenty of bars around town to get your flirt on. If all else fails just say hello to a beautiful lady passing by your way. I’m not confused I think all women are beautiful that’s just me.

disco

June 8th, 2012
8:57 am

good morning.

lily – you don’t be playing with being number 1 up in this camp.

leggs – corny by nature? that’s a good one. I can’t talk though because I refer to myself as square quite a bit.

I was just telling friends that usually every year around march/april I start getting excited about the upcoming summer season. must say it’s already june and that excitement still hasn’t showed up. maybe I’ll be getting my “autumn” on this year.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
8:58 am

Leggs – I find that many dude will open with a joke or a compliment. I recall when Buckhead actually had clubs there and I was out with a friend at Club Chaos. We were waiting on drinks at the bar after dancing and this guy comes up and opens with a joke. Whatever it was was freaking hi la r i ou s and me being my silly self came back with a rebuttal. I think he was surprised at my wit but either way we actually ended up dating for about a year and a half. He ended up getting a job out of state so that was that.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
9:03 am

Slim1 the museum is one my favorites, but not many folks of color go to them. Sometimes there are specs of us in there, I like going to Fernbank to the planetarium that’s one cool place. I know sounds nerdy, but I can be that sometimes.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
9:07 am

Leggs a compliment to a man is a strong flirt, doing that will certainly get you some play time.

disco

June 8th, 2012
9:11 am

BF – but you didn’t put out that disclaimer. I think that in regard to compliments men are like women. a compliment can mean something or nothing depending on who it’s coming from. if some little mud duck chick is in a man’s face grinning and complimenting him he may be gentlemanly and humor her while he’s wishing a light fixture would fall and hit her in the head.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
9:12 am

O/T I see Shaun T’s Rocking Body Workout set is on Groupon for only $20. I wonder if it’s worth it. Any of you guys ever tried it? I’m thinking it wouldn’t hurt since it’s only a dub…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
9:14 am

LOL…..@disco

That is so true, I’ve been there. On both ends too…….LOL

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
9:15 am

disco – Yes you’re right but that’s the case with approaching anyone whether it be a man trying to talk to a woman or a woman trying to talk to a man. A compliment accepted doesn’t mean you’ve signed up for a date lol Some of the men that say stuff to me, i’m wishing their pants would fall around their knees and they’d run away in embarrassment of showing that they still wear tighty whities :lol:

Lady~wow factor

June 8th, 2012
9:16 am

mud duck disco?!? lol hadn’t heard that in ages! lol 0_o

Lady~wow factor

June 8th, 2012
9:18 am

howdy, It seems I am slowly losing my flirting skills and its okay. I am receptive to compliments and compliments others but its neither here or there. Its a bit surface and that is okay too………

disco

June 8th, 2012
9:23 am

lady – yeah. I don’t know where mud duck came from so early in the morning. my flirting skills aren’t strong at all. my saving grace is that I’m not shy. if push comes to shove the direct approach has it’s benefits. it scares some (won’t use that intimidation word) but I’ve found many are receptive to it or at least flattered.

slim – my mud ducks and your tightie whiteys might be opening the door to the flashback phrases of the day. lol.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
9:24 am

Lady what make you think you’re losing it when all you have to do is flash that pretty smile you got.

Elijah

June 8th, 2012
9:28 am

Good Morning Folks!

Any place is a good place to get your flirt on! I like to use compliments to get in the door. Once the lady smiles is it on…

Once Disco sends me that pic and I compliment her on her smooth brown skin, Ms. Disco will get plenty excited about the summer…lol

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
9:28 am

disco ~ I’d rather be “corny” by nature than “naughty” by nature. :lol: :lol:

See I thought that was corny, but funny (my wit at work). :wink:

SlimNu/BF ~ I am one of those women who feel men do not get enough compliments and are always delighted when one is given to them. I do compliment men in the elevator, at the store, etc. Some men wear their clothes very well and if I see one I will offer the compliment (but never if there’s a woman strolling beside him).

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
9:28 am

disco – I think we’ve just opened the floor for FLASHBACK FRIDAY!

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
9:31 am

Whoop Der it Is!

disco

June 8th, 2012
9:33 am

guys – what do you think about those chicks (that you just met) that like to get in close and then keep touching you? you know the ones that laugh and put their hands on your arm and all that. it’s not my style and so when I see it I’m always thinking something like “floozy” in my mind. lol.

Lady~wow factor

June 8th, 2012
9:44 am

awwwwww BF!!!!! ;) I guess I am just not pressed or even cognitive that I am flirting for the most part…….I have dry humor and I can jump in most conversations and hold my own but I am not looking @ it as flirting if you will. just being me……..Thanks again for that compliment sir! ;)

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
9:44 am

Ain’t nuttn but a chicken wing….

Right on!

You dig!

Yeah man, that’s hip!

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
9:47 am

Ain’t nuttn but a chicken wing….</em.

Now that takes me back right there :lol:

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
9:49 am

Oops, didn’t meant to italicize the whole thing

disco

June 8th, 2012
9:50 am

nothing but a chicken wing? dang.

ain’t nothing to it but to do it?

give me five. on the black hand side. up high, down low, you’re too slow. lol.

are we done with the flirting? can’t be. someone has to have a good flirt tale. good pick up line story or something. come on people. dig deep.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
9:56 am

disco LOL…..most men egos would inflate to no mans land and would be flattered to death in full lets get it on mode. I know women like that get a bad girl rap sheet but they pour it on when they know it’s working.

czBrat

June 8th, 2012
9:57 am

HiYas!

yup yup. it’s definitely skin-in-the-streets time. time to see and be seen. i’ll be showing off my loveliness, but please approach with extreme caution and DO NOT TOUCH!

back in the day, eye contact was my preferred form of flirtation. these days, between s/o and i it’s all in the touch. i luv admiring dudes with exposed tatts and tight bods, but i’m careful to avoid eye contact out of respect for my s/o (and myself, of course). same goes when i’m out and about. i’m careful not to sustain eye contact for fear of sending an unintentional invite.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
9:59 am

Jive Talking!

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
10:03 am

i’m careful not to sustain eye contact for fear of sending an unintentional invite

Makes me think about those documentaries about Pimps, Johns and Hookers…the code of the streets to where a hooker should not look another pimp in the eye or even talk to another pimp :lol:

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

June 8th, 2012
10:03 am

@Disco

Anytime anyone uses “I’m/you’re fine” (in response to ‘how are you’ or ‘excuse me’) there’s my responses of “I know and thank you”, “so are you”, followed by “and today is [insert day], since we’re stating the obvious.”

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:03 am

Morning all you lovelies! I see y’all cutting up early. If you got flirt and flaunt it!

disco

June 8th, 2012
10:04 am

BF – so that touchy feely kind of flirting is okay then? or does the same rule apply as with compliments, it’s okay if the chick is okay but inappropriate if she’s not?

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:06 am

Give me five, on the black hand side, in the hole baby you got soul :)

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:07 am

I’m on my device….

I was saying if you got it then flirt and flaunt it.

disco

June 8th, 2012
10:08 am

dan – I hate that “I’m fine – I know – you sure are” mess. anyone who comes with that gets no points for originality or delivery.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
10:09 am

Randy: Can I get you something?
Second Jive Dude: ‘S’mofo butter layin’ me to da’ BONE! Jackin’ me up… tight me!
Randy: I’m sorry, I don’t understand.
First Jive Dude: Cutty say ‘e can’t HANG!
Jive Lady: Oh stewardess! I speak jive.
Randy: Oh, good.
Jive Lady: He said that he’s in great pain and he wants to know if you can help him.
Randy: All right. Would you tell him to just relax and I’ll be back as soon as I can with some medicine?
Jive Lady: [to the Second Jive Dude] Jus’ hang loose, blood. She gonna catch ya up on da’ rebound on da’ med side.
Second Jive Dude: What it is, big mama? My mama no raise no dummies. I dug her rap!
Jive Lady: Cut me some slack, Jack! Chump don’ want no help, chump don’t GET da’ help!
First Jive Dude: Say ‘e can’t hang, say seven up!
Jive Lady: Jive ass dude don’t got no brains anyhow! Shiiiiit.

czBrat

June 8th, 2012
10:11 am

lol @ slim. well i guess i musta picked it up from somewhere. past life perhaps? :lol:

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
10:13 am

The Bert Show was coming up with funny pick up lines and are having one staff member go out this weekend to use them and see if they work. I was still half asleep when I heard it, so I can’t think of the lines they gave him to use. Maybe they’ll come to me once my coffee kicks in. Anyone else hear it this morning?

abc

June 8th, 2012
10:16 am

“get your flirt on”. Hmph. I tend to shut down chicks that try to flirt with me. I mean, come on, stop wasting our time. If we don’t have a reason to be talking, and we don’t actually want to discuss something with each other, don’t bother me, please. I’ll offer the same courtesy, it goes both ways.

lolalee

June 8th, 2012
10:16 am

My best flirt was via text. It was a series of short exchanges, happening as fast as we could type. Like this:
Him: I like your eyes.
Her: Your shoulders
Him: Your mind
Her: You wit
Him: Softness
Her: Hardness

and on an on it went for about 30 mins. Man, stroke my brain and you’ll get the rest.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

June 8th, 2012
10:16 am

@Disco

“You sure are” is corny, lacivious, creepy, and not how the D speaks at all.

“you’re mighty full of yourself aren’t you? You’re cute, yes. But ‘fine’ is you doing too much.” <– delivered in a playful tone/smile/manner is more my speed.

czBrat

June 8th, 2012
10:17 am

waaay o/t: am i just uber-sensitive, or has there been an extreme number of senseless deaths in and around our good city lately?

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:18 am

I don’t think there’s a particular venue or place for flirting heck I locked eyes with some cutie walking in. Publix a couple of days ago. I do think more skin and skimpy clothing makes folks feel more compelled.

lolalee

June 8th, 2012
10:20 am

czBrat Seems to go that way every year as the temperature rise. But shooting somebody at a funeral??! That karma is gonna be r o u g h.

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
10:21 am

@czB ~ I don’t like strangers touching me either. I remember walking by The Equitable Bldg on my lunch hour and this dude reached out and grabbed my arm saying, hey pretty lady. I smacked his hand hard and briskly walked in the direction of the police officer I saw on the corner. I have told many guys not to touch me. I have no idea why they think that’s a cool thing to do. Don’t stroke my forearm because my reflexes may have me plucking you on the forehead…UUUGHH!!!

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:21 am

abc – I love it…..lololol

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
10:23 am

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
10:24 am

LOL……@disco

The rules do change when they get feely touchy. When a few drinks go down the hatch that chick who was inappropriate now becomes a number one draft pick if nothing else is popping.

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
10:24 am

Morning All!!

I see we’re having fun today, cool!!

Leggs/Slim, I have always loved complimenting men. Most of the time it was not to get my flirt on either, but just to give credit where it’s due! I also give other ladies compliments as well. They make everyone feel good!

When I was single, my flirting would mostly consist of a nice, lingering smile. Dudes usually would take it from there to say something, strike up a conversation. I may make a funny comment about something around us to start a convo if he didn’t. Was always pretty successful. Sometimes I was not trying to start anything, just flash my big smile and keep it moving. Loved it when I looked especially hot in my outfit that day and get appreciative nods from the fellas, respectful not creepy!LOL!!

Hey, did any of you all hear the Bert Show yesterday when they were talking about this series of texts this crazy woman sent this dude after ONE date! Bert said they equaled 16 pages!! They got to talking about folks that get too attached & start talking about weddings and baby names of future kids after one date with someone. Talk about crazy!!!

disco

June 8th, 2012
10:25 am

leggs – I have nearly started fights in the club back in the day on account of those buster A dudes who don’t know how to open their mouths and speak so they think they can just reach out and grab you as you walk by. like I’m supposed to feel privileged that you touched my arm. just plain ignorant.

abc

June 8th, 2012
10:29 am

Well really, C! I mean, this chick is standing there with her husband staring at my crotch. No wonder he doesn’t like me. Every time I wear jeans, it’s ‘nice jeans’ or something, I’m like, they are just pants, you don’t have a shot at it, so just stop. wasting. our. time. I figure, what on earth are you thinking? You actually want to interact with people you don’t really know on this level?

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:32 am

abc – Yeah that’s pretty cheesy. I can’t do cheesy. …lol

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
10:32 am

Leggs/disco – I can’t stand dudes that get all touchy-feely!! Once at a club I had on this sleeveless dress and this dude came up and started rubbing his hand up and down my arm. It made my flesh crawl! I went slap off on his behind. One of the ladies I was with asked me if it would have been okay if dude had been good-looking. I looked at her like she was crazy too and told her I don’t like anyone touching me or invading my personal space unless I invite them, cute or not!!!

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
10:34 am

Dang abc, I was initially thinking lighten up, but mess like that is, like C said, quite cheesy!! Yuck!!

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:35 am

I don’t like flirting either where sex or the suggestion of, quickly rises or surfaces. For me that’s crossing the line and will get everything shut down with the quickness

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
10:36 am

I never touch or grab a woman unless she does it to me first. I will reach for her hand when I’m asking for a dance but not in an sly aggressive way. Now she don’t have to give me her hand it’s just a gesture that I make.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:36 am

Yep Kimmie, touching is out

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
10:36 am

Exactly kimmie! Complimenting doesn’t necessary mean flirting. And, I will give a woman her props any day if its due!

I have a gf friend that doesn’t like to compliment me, her friends or anyone. I’ve watched her for many years, and I finally wrote my dissertation on her and her attitude. She’s a jealous bitter b….. I received an A+ on my astuteness…

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:38 am

Dern, I missed the Bert Show. I was still looking at the back of my eyelids…lol

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
10:39 am

Celisea – At that point it’s not fun anymore, just creepy. Even if the other person is physically attractive, that drops them down several notches in my eye.

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
10:40 am

Celisea – I haven’t checked to see if it’s still there, but Bert said they posted the series of texts on their website.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
10:43 am

Kimmie – Exactly. Gotta be careful flirting, folks will poke around to see just how far they can push it.

Okay I’ll see if I can catch that online.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
10:44 am

Most men know it is not a good thing to corrale a lady that is rule no. 1.

disco

June 8th, 2012
11:00 am

speaking of compliments. there’s a little guy in my building who compliments me on something every single time he sees me – clothes, shoes, purse, eyeglasses. it’s getting so old because it’s apparent he’s just trying to get some attention. I joked with a co-worker that I won’t be surprised when he starts complimenting my elbows or something.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
11:00 am

kimmie – I think i told yall about the time I went out for my friends bday back in September…but this dude kept trying to dance with me and touch all on my torso. At first I politely moved out of the way but he would find a way to inch back up close to me. Eventually I spun around and told his ass to quit touching me! So he leaves, i’m standing there dancing with myself by my friends and next thing I know, I feel beer being poured on the back of my shirt. I turn around and him and his brother are facing the bar as if nothing happened. I see that this fool had a just bought a beer for the simple purpose of pouring it on me. I could tell it was him because of all the suds/head that was on the beer still in his bottle. I went over to him and basically cussed his butt out for spilling the beer on me. Of course he denied it and next thing I know I was punching him in his chest! :roll: :twisted:

czBrat

June 8th, 2012
11:06 am

bf/leggs, i had it pointed out to me that i have a tendency to touch people while talking to them. i use my hands a lot when i talk anyway, but i also used to touch a person’s arm or shoulder out of pure reflex. i’ve since became much more aware of controlling that habit

i do believe it served me well in sales though. but when you’re trying to close a deal (and feeling up on someone) things could go left rather quickly. :grin:

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:10 am

I’m not feeling George Stephanapolis (sp). Theres a hint of something we he talks of Obama

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:11 am

there when….ooops

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
11:13 am

Kimmie…I did hear the crazy texts yesterday on the Bert Show. I was thinking “that poor girl.” She needs some serious help. C R A Z Y!!!!!

I don’t understand why some men think it’s ok to just grab a woman that they don’t know. That’s not the way to get it in. If I don’t know you, don’t touch me unless it’s invited.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:16 am

Because oftentimes what’s cool for one dingbat is erroneously assumed that that’s the norm or will slide for another…lol

disco

June 8th, 2012
11:17 am

C – I don’t know why but dingbat made me think of dizzy broad. lol.

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
11:18 am

I’m a touchy/feely person, but only once I get to know you. I’m not going to come out the gate stroking your arm or your earlobe…

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:19 am

disco – Because it’s all the same categorically…. lol

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
11:20 am

Slim – That dude was lucky he wasn’t dealing with a REAL crazy chick that would have shot his behind. I would have probably gone to punching too if someone poured anything on me!! Burns me up just thinking about it!! :(

Bluz – That’s the type of thing people on the outside don’t know about when they see people. They may think to themselves “She/He is so attractive, wonder why someone hasn’t scooped them up?”. They don’t know that they turn folks off with their psycho ways!!!

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:20 am

Leggs – I’m touchy feely too but that’s well over into being acquainted

czBrat

June 8th, 2012
11:25 am

next thing I know I was punching him in his chest!
uh. yeah. that’ll help me remember to keep my hands to myself around strangers. :shock:

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
11:26 am

I just read the crazy chicks endless text messages…OMG!!! She kept going on and on and on and on….WOW!

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
11:30 am

Slim – Bert just KEPT on reading them yesterday!! I was like, when is this going to end!!!LOL!!!

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:31 am

I was just having drinks and snacks with a friend who talked about the high percentage of chicks just waiting to get backed over. I believe his number was 8 out of 10, going in the negative direction.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
11:32 am

the high percentage of chicks just waiting to get backed over

Cel – I’m sorry i’m not up on the lingo but what does that mean…get banged, fugged, ran through??? Or am I really off base right now? lol

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
11:33 am

Ok, I need to go read the texts since they’re still up.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:37 am

Slim – All of the above…..according to him….lol

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
11:40 am

DAAYYYUUUUMM, that chick has problems. WOW. She went on the deepend in a matter of a millisecond. RUN, SPOT, RUN!

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
11:43 am

Okay when I get back to the house Imma have to check out that site.

disco

June 8th, 2012
11:53 am

leggs – I have to admit that was kind of hard to read. it just went on way too freaking long. dude should have blocked her incoming texts long before he collected that many.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
11:53 am

CZ I’m a touchy man but I wait on a the green light before putting my hands on a lady. Love to feel a woman smooth skin but I wont cross the line with her. I like it when we to the point where I can pat on that butt.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
11:55 am

And did it look like she acted like she ‘mistakenly’ sent a text to him that was intended for another friend about going on a date, just to get a reaction out of him???

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
11:57 am

Creflo Dollar has been arrested for battery against his daughter

http://www.ajc.com/news/fayette/megachurch-pastor-creflo-dollar-1454550.html

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
11:59 am

disco ~ it was hard to read, not just that it was long, but that she is pathetic. I hate weak women who give in, rather latches onto a guy so quickly then do everything in their power to show the guy how worthless she views herself. It truly pains me.

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
12:01 pm

SlimUno ~ yep to Michael and to a girlfriend??? She already said she didn’t have any friends. Perhaps this is the same drunk chick that BF took home asking him if he knew where Michael was???

disco

June 8th, 2012
12:03 pm

leggs – and that was my point. it’s one thing to not get it immediately but dang, how long did it take that chick to get the clue? in my opinion it took way too long. here’s my other flashback phrase – that chick was a “bugaboo”.

Elijah

June 8th, 2012
12:10 pm

What’s up Celisea?

What about in the office setting when women come in your cubicle and practically give you a massage. About 2 wks ago I was talking to co-worker and a married female co-worker brushed up against my arm first, I ignored the first brush then a 1 minute later she brushes up against my butt…I feeling kinda violated…lol

She is thick I might have to do some heavy lifting this summer… j/k

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
12:12 pm

Too funny, Elijah, for the past few days you have been everything wrong trying to woe Celisea (lol). Now you’re talking abut lifting up a married coworker (lololol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
12:13 pm

LOL……@Leggs

That girl I don’t know, Kevin better stay faaaaaaaar away from her as possible. That is sad she think she can’t meet somebody that’s feeling her, he1l all Kevin wanted to do was fire and forget. (hit and run)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
12:15 pm

LOL….@Elijah

czBrat

June 8th, 2012
12:17 pm

I hate weak women who give in, rather latches onto a guy so quickly then do everything in their power to show the guy how worthless she views herself. It truly pains me.
just ugh! that is such a sad thing to see.

my sis that i’ve often joked about being a little powder keg got into an actual physical altercation with her beau a couple weeks ago. it was so bad her 20-something son and a friend of his jumped in and fought the guy too. i found out yesterday that they’re still together.

i luv my sis. always will, but i’m struggling with how to “feel” about her right now. i would never expect her to be a woman who would stay in an abusive relationship (even though she gives as good as she gets). it’s just unhealthy all the way around.

why go through all the trials of raising a family, finally reaching a point of complete independence, and then fill that space with violence?

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
12:17 pm

Thanks for feeling the need to clarify “fire and forget.” Cute.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
12:22 pm

BF – Well we don’t know if all Kevin wanted to do was fire and forget because she didn’t give the man time to do much of anything. Off the rip she exposed her crazy behind…she felt guilty about her one night stand romp but jumped to crazy to let homeboy know that’s not all she wanted to be known as. So even if he did want to hang out with her again, she blew it. TURN OFF

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
12:26 pm

She exposed herself to being crazy in the first two texts I believe when she accused him of lying after saying all he had to do was paperwork and couldn’t understand why his evening was already full.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
12:31 pm

disco

June 8th, 2012
12:32 pm

I am glad that for the most part I’ve learned to mask my crazy.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

June 8th, 2012
12:56 pm

@Disco

That cray come out bout that the time the “ooh”/sucking/deep inhale sound come out….

can’t be helped

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
12:59 pm

Kevin sensed danger.

I never knew that I was walking the line
She called my house and said I have no more time
And don’t you pretend you never did me before
With tears in her eye she came right up to my door
She so dangerous the girl is so dangerous
Throw away my money
messing up my time
You can’t call me honey
I’m playing hard to find
You can get no more
So get up off my door
Cause you’re no damn good for me

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
1:00 pm

I always wondered if that word “cray” would ever catch on lol

disco

June 8th, 2012
1:01 pm

dan – I was kidding. I’m not very good at masking my crazy. it’s a constant companion that I try to keep pacified. I tell guys about crazy up front and it’s likely he’ll experience some level of it long before I get around to making “ooh ahh” sounds.

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
1:07 pm

Crazy Disco?

So do u holler loudly in bed when in the zone?

:lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
1:10 pm

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
1:11 pm

Or u crazy like slashing tires?

Are u light skinned Disco?

Coz I have seen a conundrum with chics..light skinned,seemingly pretty,nice body but crazy as he’ll…

like a grenade…u tamper with her just a tad and All clothes are coming off!

:lol: don’t be like that!

By the way Disco,’nice legs’!
:lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
1:14 pm

LOL…..@slashing tires and light skinned.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
1:16 pm

On the flip side and to be fair, if you don’t want to deal with crazy then don’t bring it to yourself. For centuries folks have discovered free has an underlying price to pay. Yeah I peeked over from my phone and saw that chain of crazy but what man haven’t learned only a few select really can play the hit and quit? When you dabble with that kind of stuff, you eventually pull a nut. Maybe next time Kevin will think twice. Yeah she’s crazy but Kevin knew, playing this kind of sport, all the possibilities. Crazy ain’t never ruled out.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
1:21 pm

I think a healthy dose of crazy should be kept nicely stored……on ice. Just enough to let folks know yep you got the right…..lol j/k/b/n/r

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
1:22 pm

Cely the dude surely bit off more than he wanted to chew.

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
1:23 pm

Cel..it’s easier said than done..re1:16!

Crazy has a certain feel..some guud guud

So initially a man wanna hit and quit but once u dabble..the guud guud pulls u back in..

It become a perpetual ‘one more time then I’m done’

:lol:

That’s one attribute about crazy some us men know…

Every positive in women always comes with some negative and vice versa

Beautiful like Halle= insecure!

:lol:

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
1:24 pm

Nice weekend folks!

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

June 8th, 2012
1:26 pm

There’s nothing inherently wrong with ‘crazy’; and there are levels and we all exist on some level of it.

You have to learn, unfortunately by trial and error, the level of crazy you can deal with.

And the signs – the crazy eyes…laugh…behavior

Then make that decision

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
1:30 pm

SlimUno ~ I think cray is being used in the wrong way. If it’s shortened for crazy ok, but if it’s now popular because of the lyrics in the song, then it’s used wrong, because I believe the song is talking about the Cray Brothers.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
1:31 pm

Blackfoote – Absolutely.

Mmeello – But by a certain age, you should know on the scales, crazy is going to outweigh everything…..your high, good good, yum,yum….all of it. And not high as in controlled substances….lol But if kicking yourself with your own leg repeatedly is what you need to learn, make sure you’re wearing a good steady boot.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

June 8th, 2012
1:39 pm

I believe the song is talking about the Cray Brothers.

It is…

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
1:52 pm

Some folks like crazy. In fact, they wouldn’t know what to do with someone that wasn’t crazy and liked to keep up drama. They claim it adds “spice”. That’s why a lot of times I really don’t feel sorry for folks in volatile relationships, especially men. They’ll holla about what a crazy beyotch a woman is, but they ain’t goin nowhere. I remember a few years ago on this very blog a dude came on talking about his brother’s crazy wife and how he had to drive to another state to bail him out of jail cause wife had started a fist fight and then called the cops on him, saying he hit her when really she hit him and he just pushed her off to defend himself. The blog dude was talking about what a good man he was and all the shenanigans she put him thru.

How about they stayed married and even had another kid together. When he told the blog that, I in so many words told him could have kept that cause he wasn’t getting any sympathy from me.

Spice on!

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
1:53 pm

Thanks, SassyMe!

Elijah

June 8th, 2012
1:57 pm

Hey Summertime will bring out the crazy in a lot of folks, in Disco case she walks around with that crazy aura on the regular… lol

@BF… Us men have to do some heavy lifting every sometimes..

@Leggs U my lady are off the charts….Celisea is playing hard to get with her sexy self! I have plenty of patience I will wear her down eventually.

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
1:58 pm

kimmie ~ there are plenty of people who can only exist with crazy and drama in their lives. I had a coworker who told me quite a bit about her life. She and her then husband would fight like two guys were fighting. I was amazed and appalled that she stayed (but who am I interfere in another’s marriage). I listened and kept most of my thoughts to myself. I quickly realized that she thrived on this messy relationship and new no other way. Same gal who told me she stood in front of her lover and let him spit in her mouth. I’m gagging typing this. Who does that????? Right up there with golden showers. BRB….

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
2:01 pm

Leggs – Yeah, that’s disgusting!! But yeah, when folks are whining about all the mess, I just listen and don’t offer anything one way or another. If you didn’t like it, at the first sign of crazy you would have been gone and we would be having a different conversation!

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
2:02 pm

@Leggs U my lady are off the charts….ummmm, I’m going to take that as a compliment because I want to and you used “my lady” in the same sentence.

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
2:04 pm

Kimmie – I agree. Don’t be calling Bert and blasting that crazy chain. lol Know the crazy in which you’re taking on. That thing ran way deep way quick.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
2:04 pm

The Kray Brothers…oooooohhhhhh now I see. Ya learn something new errrrryday.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

June 8th, 2012
2:05 pm

By ‘crazy’ I am referring to the fact that no one is ‘normal’.

disco

June 8th, 2012
2:12 pm

ex – no sir on the light skin. I’ve never had a light skinned day in my life. you can peel a few layers off of me and still won’t get to light skinned. lol.

kimmie – I’ll claim crazy but I won’t claim dramatic. I’m of the “don’t start none, won’t be none” camp. my crazy is of the violent nature in the sense that I’m a fighter. I’ve also had a few instances of property damage but that was way back. lol. back in the day when I was the baby momma from heck I fought dude’s sisters, girlfriend and dared his momma to come outside once. she didn’t. that’s my kind of crazy. I don’t have time for that domestic violence type mess.

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
2:15 pm

SlimUno ~ :lol: :lol: Thanks, the name is spelled with a “K.”

MervTheTerrible

June 8th, 2012
2:17 pm

Thats wight! Be vewy vewy quiet I’m hunting wed headed women!

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
2:20 pm

disco – LOL!! You know what? I can respect that “don’t start none won’t be none” camp! Some folks will try to test you and they need to know you are not the one to mess with!! As mild-mannered as I generally am, I had to let a dude know I had that side in me a few times! It takes a lot to bring out, but really you don’t want to do that!

I had one to call me crazy, but you know he backed off quick and didn’t go there again with me!

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
2:20 pm

Leggs – The advantages of google ;-)

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
2:21 pm

y’all havw yaselves a good one… Y’all can have it!

Celisea........blogging on the go

June 8th, 2012
2:22 pm

crazy roams everywhere

disco

June 8th, 2012
2:24 pm

kimmie – part of it is I come from a crazy A family and crazy is kind of expected but another part (at least way back in high school and around the neighborhood) is that when you are small those thick, big boned chicks think they can punk you. nope I was a squabbling little something in my day.

abc

June 8th, 2012
2:27 pm

Don’t need any crazy, thanks anyway. There’s plenty of crazy driving around town, it’s like I see road rage every day lately.

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
2:28 pm

disco – Yep, it’s the little ones you gotta watch!LOL!!

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
2:29 pm

PSA: Imma need you to flush your bloody toilet cover down with the rest of your waste before you leave the bathroom. No one wants to see that!

disco

June 8th, 2012
2:40 pm

slim – that’s beyond trifling.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
2:42 pm

LOL

Slim1 that’s crazy to do that to a toilet seat, another thing make sure all floating waste is flushed. Those little pieces of waste floating around in the bowl I don’t care if it takes three or four flushes just do it.

kimmie

June 8th, 2012
2:44 pm

Blackfoote – I’m like that too, make sure it’s ALL gone!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

June 8th, 2012
2:47 pm

LOL……@Kimmie

Talk about getting boiling mad, and the bad part you don’t know who did it to get mad at.

SlimUno

June 8th, 2012
2:56 pm

Yeah, we are too grown for that…Anyhoo, yall have a fantabulous weekend…i’m outta here

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
3:10 pm

Golden showers are the bidness!!

Hmmpfff!

:lol:

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
3:13 pm

Disco? So why no ‘thnx’ to my comps on the Leggs?

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
3:57 pm

Woo hoo! Just got a text from the ex that just said “back porch,” which means he dropped my stuff off! Sure hope there’s money also!!! All I care about is the flute being there, which I’m sure it is. Now, I can be DONE!!!!

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
4:14 pm

I know you care about the flute Bluz, but you mentioned that second (lol).

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
4:17 pm

Well…if he’s any kind of man, money will also be there, but I’m not counting on that. Thought about small claims court, but as long as I have the flute, what’s the point in fighting him anymore? I can’t wait to get home now!!!!

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
4:19 pm

Bluz?

You absolutely sure ‘back porch’ does not symbolize him hitting some Other chic from the rear? the way u two seem to snipe at each other. :lol:

Just don’t raise ur holes too high!

Maybe a phone call clarification will do
:lol:

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
4:20 pm

Hopes not holes

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
4:22 pm

Freudian slip, huh Ex? You over there thinking abour orifices (LOLOL).

Leggs

June 8th, 2012
4:22 pm

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
4:27 pm

Ex…nah…I’m pretty sure he means that he’s dropped my things off on my back porch. Once I go home and see that the flute is there, then no more of him! I’m so excited to be totally done with him! I feel like I can breath now (well, once I get home to make sure it is there).

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
4:31 pm

Also…we don’t “snipe” with each other anymore…we don’t speak at all, especially since he told me he’s engaged. I just emailed him to get my things by Saturday and never heard a peep from him until this text.

Exiled!

June 8th, 2012
4:46 pm

Bluz I doubt u totally serverd that umbilical cord..they way u puff and huff and angst about somebody not in your living space. :???:

and yet u say he was a user..

U wld be Totally and Absolutely Happy Right now if that were the case

Kinda like being unshackled!

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
4:54 pm

Ex…I’ve really gained a lot of strength in the past few months. He did use me and I was blindly in love. Now, my eyes are wide open. I’m very happy for this to be it so I can totally move on. I know I’m much better off now without him and I am happier and will continue to get much more happy! I’m in a good place right now…

Sure…the sadness will still hit from time to time, but that’s ok. Time heals all wounds.

Bluzgirl

June 8th, 2012
4:57 pm

Time to hit the road! Have a good weekend everyone!