Post-date surveys? It’s a thing, apparently
I could not stop myself from giggling at this hilarious idea of a guy handing a woman a survey at the conclusion of their date. A survey in which she was asked specific questions that would offer insight, feedback, and critique.
Brilliant idea or some form of social masochism? YOU decide!
The young man, Mike Stolar, admits that he has some difficulty on the dating scene. He believed the survey could better his chances of improving his, um technique to woo women. Or something!
I can not imagine how I would react if a man handed me a paper and asked me to fill out a survey on him and our date experience. Perhaps I would be into it and give total honesty and hope that the next woman would benefit from my opinions. Who knows? My ego is way to big to make my own survey.
I am curious to know your thoughts, though? Would you complete a post date survey? What about a post first time in bed survey?
If you were bold enough, what would you put on a post-date survey that someone would fill out on you and your dating etiquette, behavior, etc.?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:06 pm
funny!!! #finally
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:09 pm
i need a nap. feel like I am a day off! I am looking forward to a restful weekend! oh I may hit the jazz fest late sunday or monday!!!! that’s an option
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
May 24th, 2012
1:09 pm
A survey….terrible idea…..dating, love & relationships are about Chemistry, its there or it aint, but be true to self at all times, dayum a survey,,,
what’s good folks
The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior
May 24th, 2012
1:10 pm
So my co-worker just said “I know when you’re in the office from the low hum when you’re listening to music.”
What can I say, Tenderoni followed by Rock wit’cha got cha boy ready to go skating.
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:20 pm
hey Jake!!
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
May 24th, 2012
1:21 pm
Hey Lady, how are you sweets?
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:22 pm
just fine sir! Hope all is well with you too!
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
May 24th, 2012
1:28 pm
We are just fine…me,myself and I are great!!
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
1:33 pm
Random:
A coworker just called me from NC upset and in tears because my manager wouldnt’ give her a definitive on whether or not we’re getting out of here early tomorrow… In tears, literally
Iyayaya
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:34 pm
twitter folks are hilarious! #random
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
1:34 pm
I’d love to get out early but I don’t think I’ll cry about it. I just told her to not “bank” on leaving early around the holidays. It would be nice but it’s not a requirement. That way if it don’t happen you aren’t too disappointed. It’s only for a couple of hours
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:36 pm
wow I often say I would crumble in Cooperate America but then again maybe not my bff (rest her soul) says I remind her of a chameleon…….I can rock with most atmospheres
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
1:36 pm
Lady – You would roll right along with it.
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:36 pm
I love the flexibility I have currently with school and a small child! I am riding it out a few more years before a transition
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:38 pm
sure would bc I am going to get mine in on the back end lolololololol!!!!!
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
May 24th, 2012
1:45 pm
You want it in your back end?…lol
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:47 pm
no sir I don’t *lol* look @ you!
JtJ
May 24th, 2012
1:48 pm
Hi gang…..just dropping in for a spell. On topic: All this new age dating stuffiness is way over my head!!!! Date survey just sounds silly to me….maybe someone feels they need this. Question is..how many people would be totally honest or just sugar coat and be nice. Not really an effective method.
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
May 24th, 2012
1:51 pm
My bad Lady, I read it wrong…..
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
May 24th, 2012
1:52 pm
Cely:
I have a couple of cook outs to go to over the weekend other than that nothing much going on plus I’m working Monday I know what a drag that is.
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
1:52 pm
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
May 24th, 2012
2:00 pm
Jake:
What’s up your 1:09 straighten things up. How is a piece of paper related to chemistry?
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
2:02 pm
Blackfoote – Sounds like a relaxing weekend. Bummer you have to work Monday. My kid is visiting this entire holiday weekend Soooooo what’s Celisea to do? WHO KNOWS!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
May 24th, 2012
2:04 pm
Ut oh, home alone?
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
2:05 pm
go c you will maximize it I know!
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
2:05 pm
Ahhh….yeah
What to do, what to do, what to do…is the question:)
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
May 24th, 2012
2:05 pm
I’m acting up even if you are I know there wont be any shennanigans happening.
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
2:06 pm
Lady –
TOOOO
THEEEEE
MAXXXX
kimmie
May 24th, 2012
2:08 pm
Slim – I didn’t see that particular episode, but I’m sure they will rerun it because that sounds very interesting!!
What tripped me out was the chubby ATL couple(if that’s what you want to call them) Gaylyn and Sheldon. Boy, talk about a desperate woman! She’s like “This is Atlanta! The men outnumber the women 18 to 1, so if you find even a piece of a man you better hold on to him!” Bottom line, if he couldn’t be there for me when my daddy died, game over!! What was cool were the statistics they flashed in the corner, that actually the ratio of men to women in ATL is 1.3 to 1.
Interesting show.
Celisea
May 24th, 2012
2:08 pm
Blackfoote – I will make no promises nor guarantees
j/k/b/n/r
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
May 24th, 2012
2:14 pm
BF: I just try to call it the way I drink my Whiskey: On the rocks, Straight, no chaser
Swiss, if you are lurking, you got that bottle of Jameson yet?
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
2:14 pm
Interesting~
The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior
May 24th, 2012
2:18 pm
@Kimmie
That number is male to female; it does not account for married couples, gay males/females, bi-females, or the various socio-income demographics. Thus the number is just as erroneous as 18 to 1.
Depending on one’s ’standards’ the latter number may be accurate.
kimmie
May 24th, 2012
2:22 pm
Dan – Oh, I figured the numbers were flawed in both cases! The show flashing that statistic, though, just highlighted how pitiful she was to feel like she had to settle for dude’s shenanigans. I mean, he would stand her up on many occasions, and she just went along with it because she felt she had to. She wouldn’t even confront him and tell him it was unacceptable to treat her that way.
The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior
May 24th, 2012
2:33 pm
Hey, people date low self esteem and denial more than their SOs
kimmie
May 24th, 2012
2:40 pm
Dan – Some of the folks on that show are poster children for low self esteem and denial!! A lot are dealing with not having a father around, or had one but he was jacked up, you name it!
Lady~Love will win the fight~
May 24th, 2012
2:42 pm
Enjoy your evenings MIA!!!! Peace
!!!
disco
May 24th, 2012
2:51 pm
come on y’all. it’s not quitting time yet. marco…
RL
May 24th, 2012
2:57 pm
polo
disco
May 24th, 2012
2:57 pm
and then there were two…
kimmie
May 24th, 2012
2:58 pm
Hey disco! Wish I could go home now. I’m off tomorrow tho!!
RL
May 24th, 2012
2:58 pm
im with you disco lady
RL
May 24th, 2012
2:59 pm
and kimmie makes three
disco
May 24th, 2012
3:01 pm
one more person and we can get an blog game of spades going.
congrats on your day off kimmie. lol.
RL
May 24th, 2012
3:02 pm
shake it up, shake it down, move it in, move it round, disco lady
RL
May 24th, 2012
3:03 pm
spades? i say we hoola hoop disco lady
kimmie
May 24th, 2012
3:05 pm
disco – Thanks! Really, it was an honor just to be nominated! LOL!!
disco
May 24th, 2012
3:08 pm
see now you funny. those of us who didn’t get nominated (translation – not off tomorrow) do not appreciate your humor. lol. of course, the way things look up in here today I guess i/we should just appreciate that you are here today. can’t be worried about tomorrow.
kimmie
May 24th, 2012
3:14 pm
disco –
What do you have planned for the holiday weekend?
disco
May 24th, 2012
3:17 pm
kimmie – zip, zilch, NADA. there are a few things going on that I might decide to get into last minute but I’m not committed to anything. next weekend I’m off to my son’s graduation.