If you are devoting all your free time to someone but you aren’t crazy about them, you are wasting time -theirs and yours. Single people do this all the time. To stave off boredom or loneliness, they selfishly bide their time until something better comes along.
The reality is that it doesn’t take a really long time to determine if you like someone enough to start a relationship with them. Men are especially adept at figuring this kind of thing out fairly quickly. Once they know, it’s only a matter of when they are ready to tell (and show) the woman that she is the “chosen one”.
How long does it take you to figure out if you like them enough to keep things going?
How can you avoid being someone’s “placeholder”? How can you tell when they like you enough?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog