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How do you handle temptation?

When you are in a relationship and you happen to hit a rough patch, it suddenly becomes easier to get distracted by other people. That harmless flirting starts to become a little more than flirting. The next thing you know, you are being tempted to get attention from someone other than you significant other.

It’s natural and normal to be attracted to other people when you are unavailable. It is how you handle it that makes or breaks a relationship. Some people use it as an excuse to get more attention they are missing. I think a lot of people are not prepared to deal with temptation because they didn’t expect to be tempted.

What do you do when you are involved with someone but you find yourself attracted to someone else? Does it mean you should break up and explore things with the new object of your desire?

When you are in a dating relationship, is it tough to stay focused on one person and build a relationship when you are tempted by other options?

P.S. Happy Mother’s Day!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

264 comments Add your comment

Lily

May 11th, 2012
7:06 am

Yes you can become “distracted” or have “distracted” people become interested in you. What do you? Stay mindful of the bigger mess that will become of it and do the right thing. I’ve been on both sides and neither position is a fun place to be. Check yourself and work through what you’re currently committed to or sever completely before moving on. No matter how fun and good it feels having a diversion from say your current troubles you always owe to all involved for keeping honest. If not, we all can attest to how this story will likely end. Hurt feelings, anger and resentment.

Good day!

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
8:13 am

Fantastic Friday!!!! Great topic and Lily great post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)

Seen it Before

May 11th, 2012
8:30 am

My ex-wife would advise that you should act as selfish and self-indulgent as possible. Just go for it. You only live once. You are special. The normal rules don’t apply to you. You deserve an extra slice just because you are so fabulous! Right?

If your (in)significant other trusts you and believes your BS, they shouldn’t complain because they have enjoyed the pleasure of your company – which is a reward itself. They will get over it, eventually.

Ummmm

May 11th, 2012
8:37 am

Opportunity knocks only once or twice, but Temptation just sits on the doorbell!

RealBlonde

May 11th, 2012
8:38 am

I think we all struggle with this one. Given that my sweetie travels a great deal this is something that happens to us. I try hard to remember and ask myself would this “dally” be truly worth it. Worth the pain, risk of damage to what I have. If I get bored or distracted, I go to the gym, go out with girlfriends, work in the yard for six hours., etc. That always redirects my attention to what is important: keeping what I have with my wonderful man.

Angie's World

May 11th, 2012
8:38 am

The problem with resisting temptation is that it might not come around again.

Drapes match the carpet

May 11th, 2012
8:40 am

If nobody took any pictures, then it never happened.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
8:47 am

Jill T

May 11th, 2012
8:55 am

My husband and I have an open marriage and that relieves any temptation on both parts. We have an understanding that we can introduce a “friend” to each other and if we get the approval, then the fun begins. Monogamy is not natural, I don’t care what any of you say. I still love my husband and he loves me. We both understand that it’s just physical and neither one of us can fill that “fantasy” role forever. It keeps our relationship fresh so we can concentrate on what keeps us together, mutual interests, personality and care. Sex is just sex. It’s physical, fun, feels incredible and we both love it. You can have your trapped, boring, monotonous relationships that involves lying. We are up front and know that we will always wind up together after the fantasy world is over.

justme

May 11th, 2012
9:02 am

@ Jill T

Best of luck at the clinic!

Master of My Domain (Usually)

May 11th, 2012
9:06 am

I usually handle my temptation with lots of soap & water in the shower or perhaps some lotion while relaxing on my bed.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
9:07 am

Good morning, good morning.

Stay mindful of the bigger mess that will become of it and do the right thing.

Lily said it best right out the gate. If more were mindful and RESPECTFUL of the relationship and of the person, temptation can be kept at bay. But no, so many effing greedy people in the world!!!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
9:08 am

@jusme ~ tks for the laugh.

DreamsMaterialize

May 11th, 2012
9:11 am

Stay single and this will be a non-issue. haha

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

May 11th, 2012
9:12 am

Happy Mothers Day to you wonderful mothers, step mothers, single mothers, mothers to be. Lady’s with no children you are still a mother in my world. For people who lost their mother, remember she is home waiting for you.

Good Morning:

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
9:12 am

A married guy friend of mine told me that him and his wife have very open lines of communication. Whenever he feels a strong urge to want to fugg someone else, he talks to his wife about it. That tends to let some air of his tires as far as wanting to act on that desire. When it comes to cheating, for some, it really is the thrill of doing something you probably shouldn’t be doing…the secrecy, the chance of getting caught blah blah blah…so he says by talking about it, it sort of takes part of that thrill & excitement away. I’m not sure how long that process will be effective but thought I’d just throw it out there.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
9:17 am

Thank you, BF.

@DreamsM ~ so are you saying don’t marry and don’t date cuz while dating, you’re still single!!

abc

May 11th, 2012
9:21 am

Control your libido, lest it comes to control you. It speaks of personal weakness and lack of trustworthiness.

Button

May 11th, 2012
9:24 am

Lily – like

Button

May 11th, 2012
9:27 am

Temptation is all around us–hense “lead us not into temptation”
Some are weak and some are strong.
I flirt but I know how far to go with it. It’s especially tough when things are going so well in the datlationship either. That’s when I’m most tempted.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
9:27 am

Thanks BF (I’m not an actual mother but I am a co-parent/Auntie to my busy body of a 3yr old niece) :-D

I think the more you play and toy with the idea of messing around in your mind, the easier it becomes to actually act on it. The mind is a powerful entity that can have you justifying all types of behavior with some sort of bogus excuse/reason.

Details: My SO has not been giving me any affection. He seems to be a little standoffish and I’m not feeling loved or not getting attention that I need…my love meter is low

Mind: Well, he’s not giving you what you need right? You’ve told him how you feel and he is basically pushing you into that fione ass UPS man’s arms. At least HE tells you how cute you are every day when he comes to deliver. So, one man’s trash is another mans piece of ass…ooops I meant treasure.

Details: My baby has a rocking body and she’s cool but we have been together for a while. The sex is sort of routine even though it helps to know how to get each

Mind: You been with your girl for a while and you’ve been a good guy…you haven’t really done too much to fugg up and who wouldnt mind some new puddy errrrrrr now and then. I know that Asian chick down the hallway wanna get somma this just by the way she be switching that ass by my office. Come to think of it, I haven’t hit an Asian chick yet…only live once right?

Button

May 11th, 2012
9:27 am

Meant: going not so well……

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
9:32 am

An idle mind…..

n

May 11th, 2012
9:33 am

Do not let go of a current sweetie until the new sweetie is available. Look how bad it would be to rise to the bait of a new prospect and the current friend lets go and moves on and the new sweetie pie moves on also. It is even worse when it is a church setting when the congreagation can see the whole episode unfolding. Even praying has its limits. So much for that, if I were President I could raffle off myself for a date.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

May 11th, 2012
9:34 am

Temptation is associated with weakness, we have the trait. Like a bad habit we need to know and learn how to contain it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

May 11th, 2012
9:40 am

Slim1 that’s what I’m talking about, Auntie/Mom.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
9:42 am

It’s all a gamble…taking a chance to see if the bird in the hand is really not worth the two in the bush.

Seen it Before

May 11th, 2012
9:51 am

I hooked up with Lily once. The crabs I got from her were so big, I could see their cold sores.

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
9:59 am

Morning All this lovely Friday!!

I’m really feeling BF’s posts this morning, all of them!

Just consider what you have to lose by acting on a temptation. Not talking just immediate stuff, but the entire picture. Even if you are not married or living with the person you would be cheating on, would you want to risk hurting and/or losing that person?

A big thing that would tear me up if I ever did something so stupid to my spouse is the loss of respect in his eyes and his children. He’s a decent human being, a genuinely good person. He’s never done anything to hurt me. Before I did something to hurt him and the kids I would go ahead and leave him.

Really though, one of yall come find me and shoot me if I did something so stupid! Cause I can’t imagine any dude out here that’s even half the man that would tempt me.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:03 am

awwww kimmie, how sweet

Slim now walks away to throw up a lil in her mouth lol

disco

May 11th, 2012
10:08 am

good morning y’all. I’ve been sitting around lurking attempting to patiently wait for a topic change. I’m single and contemplating putting a sign around my neck that says “tempt me”.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

May 11th, 2012
10:09 am

As my patnah Devin the Dude said it, “Don’t be messin over yo fo sho puddy trying to get some mo Puddayy, you end up with, no puddayy”

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
10:15 am

disco – I’ve over here cracking up at your visual with the sign around your neck!LOL!!

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:16 am

Jake – I haven’t some Devin the Dude in a minute but that dude is hi lar ious lol

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

May 11th, 2012
10:20 am

He was in concert here about a month ago in East Atlanta, the place was smoked out, they was passin it from the stage to the crowd, doing all the classics, real live show!!!!

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:23 am

haven’t Heard – typo

Jake – That boy is a walking advertisement for herb lol

Sassy Me...all SMILES :-)

May 11th, 2012
10:25 am

MORNTING ALL :mrgreen:

It’s all choices..temptation will come and go but it’s how we chooose to handle it that determines the outcome. Boundaries exist for a reason and one must know that when you cross them, there WILL be consequences and repurcussions..might be today or years from now but it’ll all come to the light eventually.

disco

May 11th, 2012
10:25 am

kimmie – don’t laugh at me. told y’all the other day it’s a jungle out there.

so, the other day we discussed date or no date. I asked a guy to go to a movie with me last night (in the darkness, holocaust film with subtitles. movie was good). anyway, the plan was to meet there, grab a bite, catch the flick. he was late because he went to my house first to pick me up (duh – not the plan) and then had the nerve to ask me – all in public mind you – if he should have onions (translation: should he expect a kiss). in this guy’s mind he was on a date with me. in my mind, I was just asking the fellow to watch a daggone movie.

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
10:32 am

Slim — Did you just say you had 2 in the bush & 1 in the hand? Sounds like a party. :lol:

What? Too early?

Morning, folks!

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:34 am

disco – Guess you need to more clear in the future..he was probably excited at the invite that he didn’t have to initiate

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
10:36 am

disco — In dude’s defense, I think pretty much all of us would assume that if we were being forced to sit through a foreign film with subtitles, it d@mn well better be a date. Just saying… :lol:

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
10:37 am

these phones are way too f*cking busy for a friday!!! :mad:

HiYas. think i’ll do some catching up before i jump in.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:39 am

swiss – I can’t believe i’m saying this but of course it isn’t too early…It’s Freaky Friday

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
10:40 am

Yeah, you’re right, Slim. It’s never too early for a g@ng b@ng reference on Freaky Friday. :lol:

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:46 am

swiss – Well now, the phrase g@ng b@ng my be a bit harsh before noon so we’ll just call it Team Adult Sports ;-)

disco

May 11th, 2012
10:47 am

slim – that was my point the other day. guy asks me out I ask “is this a date”.

swiss – lol. those foreign/indy films are usually a hard sell but I’m hooked. (oh and he wasn’t “forced”. I asked, he was free to say no he wasn’t interested).

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
10:47 am

disco – I’m sorry for laughing but the visual is too much. I still see you as Pam Grier, so picturing her with the sign is funny. But I don’t have amnesia at all, I know it’s rough out there. That’s why I can’t see anyone really tempting me to step out in it anymore.

With some men, any attention at all from a woman is a sign she’s interested in more than just being friendly. You actually invited dude out? He feels like he hit the jackpot!

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
10:50 am

of course it isn’t too early…It’s Freaky Friday

It sho ain’t…I’m feeling some kinda way,too, so let’s run it ;-)

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
10:50 am

Wait, what’s the actual topic? Oh, right, temptation.

The first step in dealing with temptation is to admit you have a problem. I have the hottest wife on the planet, but I’m still not immune to temptation. But because I know this, I can take steps to avoid situations where temptation and opportunity are too much aligned.

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
10:52 am

You actually invited dude out? He feels like he hit the jackpot!

Yeah so in his mind, it was a date…hence the lame question about if he should have onions…

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
10:56 am

I can take steps to avoid situations where temptation and opportunity are too much aligned.

Whoop there it is…that’s the crux of it all right there.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
10:58 am

I can take steps to avoid situations where temptation and opportunity are too much aligned

That’s what my stepdad always says…he’s like you have to keep yourself out of sticky situations because lawd knows what he would do if he ended up in a room cornered by a bukket nekkid chick.

DreamsMaterialize

May 11th, 2012
10:59 am

DreamsM ~ so are you saying don’t marry and don’t date cuz while dating, you’re still single!!
Leggs I’m saying, if you have doubts about whether you can control your temptations, then you need to do the committed relationship-oriented people a favor and stay single.

in this guy’s mind he was on a date with me. in my mind, I was just asking the fellow to watch a daggone movie.
Dang disco. Please give some examples of a date. Gala? Black tie affair? White House Correspondents Dinner? The Oscars? lol

Aunt Smokie

May 11th, 2012
11:00 am

Jake- Why you bring up my man Devin……I love him :lol:

On topic- For me, a damper to temptation is to imagine your S/O doing to somebody other than you, the things you are thinking about doing( or have done). It usually makes my head hurt so bad that kills all desire :lol:

Y’all have a good Friday!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:06 am

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:07 am

WOW, none of my posts are going through.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:07 am

Why am I looking for a document dated 1990 that no one in the company can find….UUUGGGH!

Because, I’m the finder of lost ysht around these parts.

{{back to regularly scheduled blogging}}

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:07 am

Looka here…

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
11:08 am

Sassy / Slim — Every now & then I actually say something kinda deep & on topic. That’s enough of that. Now back to talking about puddy! :lol:

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
11:08 am

…a damper to temptation is to imagine your S/O doing to somebody other than you, the things you are thinking about doing( or have done).

As soon as I read that, the late great Johnny Taylor came to mind. Remember that song that had the hook, “Who’s makin love to your old lady, while you were out making love?”.

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:10 am

Some of the off the cuff comments out here today are great.

I’m so bored – my GF is leaving the country for years – all I can think about is the Gumball Rally. I feel like my whole life is temptation and indulgence, right now.

My self-control is accepting that I don’t want to have any.

Commitment is an antiquated way of approaching a relationship today. Divorce, walking away, cheating, lying and deception seems to be celebrated these days.

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
11:11 am

Swiss you’re a certified nut (and I wasn’t talking ’bout the Uniballer either) ;-)

disco

May 11th, 2012
11:14 am

dreams – leggs already confirmed that I’m crazy and my issues are in my own mind. I just feel like dates have an added sense of excitement, hope, anticipation. if it’s a new person you are wondering if he/she could be the one. if it’s a current s/o you go into trying to maintain what you already have. a date is about more than what appears on the surface, it’s more than the activity. me and dude grabbing a bite and seeing a movie wasn’t deep, it was face value.

sassy – don’t break out the Johnny taylor this morning. you know I like “disco lady.” lol.

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
11:14 am

CZ…come in chica!!! I need to know how you feel about Jessica Simpson’s shoes….matter of fact ANY of the blog ladies who’ve purchased some PLEASE let me know. I need an intervention cause these shoes I’m seeing on line are the BIZNESS!!

#theytrynatakemymoney

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
11:16 am

you know I like “disco lady.”

GUURRRL you couldn’t tell me I wasn’t the isht when that song comes on!!

Shake it up, shake it down
Move it in, move it round, disco lady
Move it in, move it out, move it in round about, disco lady
Shake it up, shake it down
Move it in, move it around, disco lady

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
11:19 am

Divorce, walking away, cheating, lying and deception seems to be celebrated these days

It’s just what’s easier…we all want what we want when we want it…microwave, drive-thru, cell phones giving you immediate access to internet/people/p0rn/information etc…We’ve become a world of Instant gratificationers ….taking the path most traveled.

disco

May 11th, 2012
11:20 am

sassy – the “bizness”. how wally cleaver. I can just hear him saying he’s going to give eddie Haskell the bizness. lol. I like the look of the Jessica simpson shoes but they are not comfortable (to me). carlos Santana also had some nice looking shoes but they don’t feel too good. I’m not the chick that’s going to walk around with her feet hurting.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:20 am

Who’s making love to your old lady….love, love, love that song. That, along with Poppa Was A Rolling Stone, got me slapped in my face my dear ole sweet Mama for me being a smart a$$ in front of company. Lawdy, the things we can’t forget.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
11:20 am

I cheated once about 11 years ago and felt so horrible about it and vowed I would never do it again. I did it because I wasn’t in love with the guy anymore, but he was so sweet that I didn’t want to break his heart. It would have really hurt him badly if he ever found out.

At this point in my life, when I’m with someone, I’m only with them. When I really love someone, I can’t imagine being with anyone else and ruining what we have. If I really feel tempted, then I know something is wrong and need to evaluate the situation for myself. I would much rather break off the relationship before giving in. I told my last S/O if he ever wanted to cheat on me, I would rather him break up with me first (even if it’s over the phone moments before he does it). I wouldn’t want to find out afterwards because I would probably go psycho!

O/T…I’ve mentioned on here before about the guy I met through a mutual friend in Feb and we only text and email. Well…he is going to meet me in Charleston for Memorial Day weekend so we can spend time together and get to know each other! I’m so excited and nervous!!!

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:22 am

“It’s just what’s easier” I couldn’t agree more.

I love instant gratification, but I find it with shopping. OK, I couldn’t live without my smart phone.

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
11:25 am

Sassy – Alot of Jessica’s shoes are cute, but I’ll echo Disco in that they are not comfortable. I’ve never bought any because just trying them on they hurt me. They are not constructed well and not with the greatest leather/materials.

DreamsMaterialize

May 11th, 2012
11:26 am

me and dude grabbing a bite and seeing a movie wasn’t deep, it was face value.
disco I know, so tell us about a time you went on a date…in your mind. lol I’m trying to see things from disco’s view. ;-)

truth

May 11th, 2012
11:27 am

Believe in your relationship. Understand these are temporarily feelings and when you least expect it your significant other usually comes through and does something to completely surprise you which would make you feel like crap if you acted on these temporary feelings.
When you find someone else attractive and you’re having problems, avoid that other person. Remember, often the grass is not greener on the other side. Do not pass go, do not exchange numbers/emails, and under no circumstances take a business card-resist temptation.

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:27 am

“I’ve mentioned on here before about the guy I met through a mutual friend in Feb and we only text and email. Well…he is going to meet me in Charleston for Memorial Day weekend so we can spend time together and get to know each other! I’m so excited and nervous!!!” dating in the 21st century – e-mails and texts – I miss when people just met or called each other. Good for you Bluz, Charleston is such a beautiful city.

disco

May 11th, 2012
11:31 am

dreams – leave me alone. just say you understand (maybe you don’t agree but I’m guessing you understand).

HST – Charleston is nice. I’m planning on “crashing” a family reunion down there this summer. (by crashing I simply mean it’s not my family. I did receive an invition).

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
11:34 am

Totally off topic:

Quote just now from Mrs. Swiss: “I think my pee situation is getting worse.” :lol:

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
11:35 am

hey, good people. luv the responses to topic so far. plenty of grown, AWARE folk on the blog today.

single or not, unless you’re dead you’re gonna experience temptation in some form or another. could be physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and so on. you gotta know what that “thing” is that gets your juices flowing, and acknowledge when it’s someone other than your s/o that’s doing it for you …. too often. i think that’s the key. the continuity that leads to a little too much comfort between you and someone else.

sassy, i’ve been “tempted” by some js styles. call me whatever you like, but that’s one brand i simply do not care to own. plenty of similar styles out there without the aura of hollywood madness attached to them. in my mind, that is. but hey, show us the footwear so we can ooh and aah with you!

off topic: the fam did great at the family feud audition last night. won both rounds!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:37 am

@swiss ~ hold on tight, cuz she has 8 more months to go. Her pee situation is nothing compared to the months ahead of you and her (lololol).

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:37 am

truth, you sound co-dependent and also having a complacent approach “when you least expect it your significant other usually comes through and does something to completely surprise you” is not a prosperous way to life. I personally would never wait for someone to surprise me with happiness – I take my own responsibility for my happiness.

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:40 am

czBrat, awesome to the Family Feud auditions.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
11:40 am

That’s great czB. Will it be aired??

@disco ~ if you got an invite to the family union, how are you crashing it???

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
11:42 am

HST…I have had an issue with just texts and emails…he lives out of town and is very busy (as am I). He’s been in London for three weeks for work and the death of his mother. He was thinking about coming to Atlanta for Memorial Day wkend, but I told him I was already planning on Charleston to stay with my best friend and invited him. Didn’t think he’d take it seriously, but he asked if the offer still stood because he would like to spend face time with me!

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
11:44 am

Remember, often the grass is not greener on the other side

truth – 9.9 times out of 10 it’s not! This other person is looking good and smelling good and saying all the right things. They appear all shiny and new on the outside. Best believe once you peel back the layers, what lies below if probably rotten!

I remember being in bad relationships, only to be tempted by another dude. It’s easy to be tempted when you are unhappy. At this point, if I’m that unhappy I’m going to go ahead and leave the situation. I don’t need “temptation” to prompt me to leave.

I may be married, but I am not blind. I have eyes and find other men attractive. But that’s just the outside. I also interact with other men, on my job, at church, etc. A lot are very nice and are probably good people. I still don’t “know” these men. I don’t know what’s truly on the inside.

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:45 am

You bloggers have me looking at hotels in Charleston for the weekend – so many great restaurants and activities.

I have to find something to do this weekend.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
11:47 am

I do love Charleston and hope to go several times this summer. I’m happy that my best friend moved out there!!!

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
11:48 am

HST…all the beaches in Charleston are awesome! We tend to go to Folly more when I visit. Have you ever been? It’s a beautiful place!

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
11:49 am

cz – I’ve always wanted to go on that show…I hope the fam get’s theirs shows on tv.

disco

May 11th, 2012
11:52 am

leggs – I just call it crash because it’s not my family.

kimmie – your post re remembering being single made me think of a chick on Michael baisden the other day. said she had a good husband but stepped out and ruined a good thing. she’s now single and hates it. she told Michael baisden she’s learned her lesson and her next husband will have the best wife ever. had to laugh because you could hear the serious in her voice.

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:53 am

Bluzgirl, there’s no way getting around text and e-mail as the main source of communication in the 21st century.

I can see your nervousness, an invite that you thought would be dismissed was accepted. I learned about that a decade ago offering a ‘Hey, why don’t you come with me?’ and never being refused.

I realize there’s differences, but I understand your nervousness to the situation.

I always say it’s conjecture until it happens.

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
11:54 am

You bloggers have me looking at hotels in Charleston for the weekend

Try staying Downtown or by the airport…those will be your best options. If you do go, visit The Battery, Waterfront Park,The Market Place, Brittlebank Park and King street. They’re all really close together and are fun places to sight see and spend time.

Okay ladies now y’all got me re-thinking JS shoes…but I like damn near all of the ones I’ve seen….decisions..decisions

HST

May 11th, 2012
11:54 am

Bluzgirl, I’m checking Folly out right now…

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
11:55 am

thanx hst/leggs. we’ll know in a couple weeks if they’re selected to be on a taped episode. from what my nieces told me, the biggest challenge was feigning all that excitement and hand-clapping. we’re pretty much a low-key bunch. we do get loud at times … but no shuckin and jivin.
apparently, the FF cameras prefer a real minstrel show. oh well.

bluz, sounds like a great plan! charleston is beautiful, and shouldn’t be too too hot by memorial day.

bloggers, i need someone to put me in check before i get petty with s/o. i’m seriously about to let him know i’m not too happy with him right now. anybody in the mood for a slightly long story?

cba

May 11th, 2012
12:02 pm

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY to all thoses who are fortunate enough to be called MOM and also to those who fortunate enough to still have your MOM around.
Have a blessed weekend!!

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
12:06 pm

anybody in the mood for a slightly long story?

Okay go…

HST

May 11th, 2012
12:08 pm

czBrat, just tell his ass and put him on notice. I will listen also if you’d like to tell why.

Bluzgirl, that beach looks great. I’m trying to find a decent hotel on the strip – Water’s Edge is nice, but I wanna see the ocean.

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
12:09 pm

lmao @ hst. luv u!!!!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:09 pm

oh no, czB…oh no!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:10 pm

Seriously, it’s cool to be none to happy with something your SO has done or said. What’s key is to communicate your unhappiness with him, sort it out, wash it off, and put it away!

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
12:12 pm

HST…I am nervous, but also very excited! It will be interesting to say the least. At least we’ll be in a beautiful city and able to swim in the ocean! I’m looking forward to it.

Go ahead Brat!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:14 pm

Exactly, HST!

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
12:18 pm

thanx, slim. i’ll keep ya posted.

so, we took my truck to the drive-in saturday. tank was on fumes by the time we got home at 3 in the morning. next day he left and forgot about putting gas in the car. no biggie really.
yesterday, he tells me we’re switching cars so he can take mine to his mechanic. we do the switch at my job, he reminds me his tank is on the passenger side and i say “why are you telling me that? does it need gas?”. he said “not right now, but just in case you have to use it the rest of the week.” coz we didn’t know how long my car might be in the shop. still no biggie.

how bout his fuel light came on before i could make it the 10 miles from my job to yoga. i started getting a little pissy with him right then and there. the dash said it had 36 miles left, so i went to yoga then home. this morning it was at 17 miles. i seriously considered draining it all the way to work and giving it back to him just like that, but i didn’t.
plus, i am gonna have it until tomorrow so i woulda been shooting myself in the foot. :lol:

anyway …. right about now i’m feeling a serious lack of consideration. how you keep leaving your chick with an empty ride? on one hand, it’s so not like him to not ‘take care’ of me. on the other hand, he can be a bit oblivious to the seemingly obvious at times.
unlike the nationwide man, those two hands is all i got. so what now? i’m ok with telling him exactly how i feel. i’m just wondering if it’s ridikulous to even feel mistreated (for lack of a better word) over something so trivial.

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
12:18 pm

told yas it was long.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
12:19 pm

HST…Isle of Palms is also nice, but I think it’s a little more touristy…

HST

May 11th, 2012
12:20 pm

It seems I am not the only one restless this weekend. Every decent hotel on the beach is booked. I am now looking at St. Simons…

Bluzgirl, I now have to swim in the ocean this weekend.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:23 pm

“mistreated” is the wrong word. He’s taking your car to the shop for you, you will be driving his car a few days, why not put gas in it. He leaves you with a 1/4 tank. Ok, what’s the problem here???

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
12:23 pm

Brat…I see no reason to not bring it up. It annoyed you, so you should say something so that he knows that it annoyed you. You can always say it jokingly and then turn it into a real conversation. It seems like you don’t want to go off on him, just want to nudge him about it a little bit.

HST

May 11th, 2012
12:23 pm

czBrat, let that go. That’s a grain of salt.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:24 pm

@HST, again, I agree with you (lol). We all posted at the same time.

HST

May 11th, 2012
12:27 pm

We sure did, three posts at the same time…hahaaa.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
12:27 pm

HST…Tybee Island is also one of my favorite places. Only about 20 minutes from Savannah!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:29 pm

You know, when my child leaves for college, I’m going to visit some of these places you guys always talk about.

disco

May 11th, 2012
12:30 pm

brat – don’t let them steal your angst. you can vent here all you want. how dare he!!!!

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
12:33 pm

Brat — You’re right, it is trivial. He clearly isn’t trying to take advantage of you or anything — he took your car to the shop for you, after all. The gas probably never crossed his mind.

My advice — if you do bring it up, make sure you do it in a very light-hearted way, otherwise you’re going to come off sounding like a spoiled brat. (No pun intended)

Just my $0.02

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:34 pm

@swiss ~ I started to respond to Bluz post about since it annoyed her she should talk about it to him lightly. I didn’t like the word “lightly,” so I deleted my comment.

Thanks, my brain wouldn’t go there, but light-hearted manner is what I was feeling.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:35 pm

don’t let them steal your angst. Funny. No, you can’t be mad, get over it. I’ll be mad for you…that’s funny to me.

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
12:37 pm

just damnit!!!!
:lol: :lol:

honestly, i luv you ladies for keeping it real. i recognize when i’m being a brat. but we’ve said it before, continue to do the things you did to get them if you want to keep them. this is soooo not like him.

i’m definitely going to tell him cuz he would want to know if he’s done something to annoy me. as bluz so aptly put it. he’ll either tell me i’ve taken it the wrong way so get over it, or he’ll say oops! won’t happen again.

hst, we did tybee and st. simons last year but booked through vrbo. if you have no luck with hotels, try that site. as a matter of fact, we booked the st. simons house just a few days before 4th of july weekend for a great price.

exactly, disco! how dare he!! :lol:

Sassy Me...Sun Kissed :-)

May 11th, 2012
12:42 pm

cz I don’t think he did it on purpose,however, the WAY you approach this matter when you do talk with him about it will make or break the conversation. Superman doesn’t ALWAYS wear his cape…

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:48 pm

“…continue to do the things you did to get them if you want to keep them.” – I get the sentiment, czB, but isn’t he still doing it with nice deeds of swapping cars and taking yours to the shop? Is it suppoed to be 100% giving all the time, can’t they fall back to 75% sometimes (lol).

he’ll either tell me i’ve taken it the wrong way so get over it, or he’ll say oops! won’t happen again.

Exactly.

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
12:54 pm

he’ll either tell me i’ve taken it the wrong way so get over it, or he’ll say oops! won’t happen again.
come to think of it, he’ll probably do some combination of the two. something like, “i’ll try not to let that happen again. if it does, get over it.” lol

thank you, sassy/swiss! in the grand scheme of things, it’s a non-issue. he’s probably had a long week.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
12:55 pm

The question is even after yall have said not to trip over the gas thing, will she actually blow it off or will she let it simmer and boil over at some unforeseen time?

(I’m sure there’s a skit in there somewhere but I don’t feel creative enough to come up with it right now)

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
12:56 pm

Well, peeps, I’m proud of myself. I found the document. Took me 4 hrs. but I found it! Me need food…

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
12:56 pm

ALL RIGHT, LEGGS! YOU MADE YOUR POINT AT 12:23!! roflmao

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
12:57 pm

So the next blog topic has been created from “How do you handle temptation?” to How do you handle your temper? :D

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
12:57 pm

“The question is even after yall have said not to trip over the gas thing, will she actually blow it off or will she let it simmer and boil over at some unforeseen time?”

Slim — Oh, that’s not even a question. I guarantee this will get thrown in dude’s face at some point in the future when Brat is pissed of about something else. That’s just how you ladies roll. ;-) :lol:

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
1:07 pm

And, yes, I realize that was a sweeping generalization, but that doesn’t make it untrue. :lol:

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
1:08 pm

nah, slim. the simmer is now. it’s when i’m choosing between attack or retreat. if i’m going to address it, we’ll deal with it and squash it once and for all. if i decide to just let it go, it’s gone. never to be seen again. i mean, it’s not like i actually ran out of gas and sat on the side of the road for two hours waiting for rescue. THAT he would pay for dearly.

swiss, i have much bigger things to throw when i’m pissed. that’s why he keeps me happy. :grin:

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
1:17 pm

swiss – I pictured her falling in the toilet one late night, half-way sleep because he didn’t put the seat down. Then in her rant she starts talking about how he didn’t put gas in the car, how he mistakenly put her favorite silk shirt in the dryer, left the milk in the fridge with barely a teaspoon in it….it all comes out in the wash :lol:

cz – I’m just messing with ya girlie. ;-)

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
1:18 pm

Knowing czB, don’t think she’ll let it simmer and boil over. She’ll probably speak on it immediately, or leave it completely alone.

HST

May 11th, 2012
1:19 pm

I checked St. Simmons but there’s a volleyball tournament and everything decent on the beach is booked.

I had to go get some Sushi, this search made me hungry.

Any cool ideas or specific hotels are greatly appreciated bloggers.

I’m getting in the ocean this weekend!

Bluzgirl, does Folly have nice roads (gotta figure what vehicle to bring)? That beach looks so quaint – I just wish I could find a 4-5 star on the beach. There’s some nice hotels/bed&breakfasts right off the beach, but I want to have coffee on my balcony over-looking the ocean.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
1:20 pm

Can this day go by any slower?!?! Ready for margaritas after work!!! If any of ya’ll are in Norcross/Duluth area, you are welcome to join!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
1:21 pm

Ummm, nevamind, you guys already answered it. SHE already answered it (lol).

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
1:22 pm

As far as I know, Folly has pretty decent roads. You do park in some gravel/sand if you are not staying right on the beach. Wish I could recommend hotels…I’ve always stayed at my friend’s house. To me, though, you only get a hotel to sleep in when you go to the beach! It doesn’t have to be too fancy!

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
1:23 pm

Have you checked out Tybee?

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
1:27 pm

The sh!t Slim says is for entertainment purposes only. Do not try this at home

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
1:28 pm

slim, i have actual tears from laughing so hard.

hst, you can also try brunswick and jekyll island if you don’t mind driving just a bit further down 95.

bluz, i’m so down, chica!!

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
1:29 pm

Brat…me and a couple of friends are meeting at El Porton off of Buford Hwy and Old P’tree in Duluth. If you’re really up for it, send me an email to bluzgirl79@gmail.com

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
1:31 pm

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
1:35 pm

Enter your comments here

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
1:39 pm

‘I feel I am ready to give marriage a go and maybe go to bed with a man. You are never too old for anything. – The problem is she may be ready, but is there a man out there ready to tackle this mountain???

She said she still has bundles of energy and suspects it is the single life that has kept her young. – Not necessarily the single life, perhaps the “non-stressed” single life.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
1:40 pm

I’m wondering if she even has a viable opening down there after all this time. :shock:

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
1:42 pm

Where’s Me.lo when you need a good “cobwebs” reference?

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
1:46 pm

swiss – are you going to get the Mrs anything for the holiday? A mother-to-be card or something?

I ordered an edible arrangement for mom’s & sis

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
1:47 pm

any thoughts on the hoopla over the time magazine breast-feeding cover?

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
1:54 pm

Slim — Yeah, planning on doing something for my little M(to be)ILF. Not sure what, exactly, but I’ll come up with something.

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:00 pm

Slim – I saw that 70 year virgin mess. Even if she hasn’t done it with a man, I find it hard to believe she hasn’t used other “artificial” means.

Nothing surprises me anymore though, so I wouldn’t doubt it. Not much more unbelievable than those couples that are married and have not done the do for 10 or 20 years straight.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:03 pm

kimmie – I’m wondering how many bj’s she’s given in those 70 years lol

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:07 pm

cz – I didn’t put too much thought into the cover. I believe the Bert show had that topic on one of the shows some time ago….that kid i’m sure has teeth and he looks every bit of 5 to 6. I would not want to still be breastfeeding then but what do I know….Plus when you think about it, boyz never seem to grow out of the boob sucking phase, even into adulthood

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:08 pm

Bluzgirl, single ladies meeting for margaritas?

Finding a hotel is becoming harder than I thought…

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:10 pm

@czB ~ I think a 4-yr old still breastfeeding is crazy. The main purpose of breastfeeding is to give your baby the necessary pure nutrients to help in its growth. “Colostrum” has many healing agents in that it helps protect the baby build it’s own immune system can do it on its own. At age 4 your immune system is no longer that fragile. You shouldn’t be sucking on mommy’s tit tas at age 4. Although I know someone who has breastfed until age 7.

To all you Bert show fans, any of you remember the young woman who was getting married and when stressed or needs relaxing, she goes to her mother and sucks on her breast. True story, according to the call-in. She was in in her mid 20’s I believe.

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:10 pm

I either have to settle on a hotel or wait. I dislike both of those verbs right now.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:10 pm

Oh, btw, if you can chew and swallow solid food, you don’t need to be sucking on mommy’s boobs.

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:12 pm

Slim – Plenty. She’s probably done plenty other stuff too, just not the real thing!

Brat – I heard about that. Only thing I have to say is weird. My mom said you stop breastfeeding when babies become “social”. That’s well beyond the social stage.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:12 pm

:lol: :lol: @SlimNu. I remember.

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
2:13 pm

“the young woman who was getting married and when stressed or needs relaxing, she goes to her mother and sucks on her breast”

:shock: See, even for me, that’s not hot. :lol:

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:14 pm

Leggs – I didn’t hear that on the Bert show, but it’s sick, I don’t care what anyone says. Sick.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:15 pm

Leggs – Yeah I remember that CRAZY ASS story…that chick needed to be smacked lol

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:16 pm

I will second that breast-feeding is wack past 2yrs old, and even at 2 it’s pushing the bounds of propriety.

However, that’s just my opinion, even if it’s based on what I fell medicinally.

The only person I know whom was breast fed until 4 (maybe longer) died of a drug over-dose when he got in college.

I also think “Bird Feeding/Regurgitation” is completely wrong. So much wrong with doing that…gross.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
2:18 pm

HST…I’m single…one friend isn’t. Two guys also possibly meeting us. And maybe Brat!

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:18 pm

My sis stopped Bfeeding after getting her nips bit by my niece. She said her first reflex reaction was to drop & pop her but her better judgement did kick in before knocking her butt to the floor :lol: I think she fed for about a year

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
2:19 pm

HST…if you hold off and go to Charleston for Memorial Day, maybe we can meet up!

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:23 pm

When you pull back the layers in getting to know people, you may find a whole lot of weird ways and thought processes. Stuff you would have no idea folks were into just by seeing them out and about every day. Never know what goes on behind closed doors.

See it would be just my luck, if I was stupid enough to fall for some “temptation” and leave my hubby, I would meet up with some weirdo. Some dude that was still going over to his mama for a “feeding”!

:shock:

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
2:24 pm

As a dad-to-be, let me just go on record as saying, after a year or two, I want my tittays back! :lol:

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:24 pm

HST – I was going to bring up the bird feeding thing but i started feeling queasy just thinking about it. It’s one thing to maybe bite off a large piece of an apple or something to give to a kid but to actually chew it up and give that to the kid makes gag (and that almost never happens) :shock:

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:24 pm

Is Tybee a crowded beach? For years I’ve just stayed in Historical Savannah. I don’t think I’ve ever decided to just go to the beach at Tybee.

Hilton – Booked
Folly – No beach front rooms left
Tybee – settling on hotel but on the beach

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

May 11th, 2012
2:24 pm

What up folks….HST, as for the St. Simons/Savannah choice, depends on your vibe…St. Simons/Jekyll area is really for the conservationist…the beaches are pure, some untouched period, may see be able to to view the mating of Sea Turtles and really more relaxed….if you wanna grab a Jet Ski, see some Dolphins and the like, go to Tybee,,,,I used this company last year, look up Hodnett Cooper Realty

disco

May 11th, 2012
2:25 pm

i have one friend whose sister breastfed for so long that the other sisters joked that it was bordering on incest. I have on little cousin who, while not breastfed, was on the bottle until he was like 6. no lie. the kid would literally take his bottle to the fridge and fill it up himself.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:27 pm

swiss :lol: You better hope for a little girl then because I’d hate for you to have your manhood tested by your seed at only 2yrs old lol

Man oh man, why did they just tell me at work that some mothers will put their mouth over their kids nose and suck out the snot if the kid has a runny nose, as opposed to using that suction thing. :???:

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:27 pm

Bluzgirl, I’m right down the road. I live off a road from Old P’tree, but by the Mall of GA.

I asked when y’all were meeting for drinks?

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:29 pm

Jake, St. Simmons is my first choice but everything is booked on the beach. There’s a volleyball tournament this weekend. I’ve been watching Sea Turtles there since I was a boy. I love those islands…

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
2:29 pm

‘You better hope for a little girl then because I’d hate for you to have your manhood tested by your seed at only 2yrs old lol”

Slim — Oh, I will check a lil’ mufugger…. :lol:

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:29 pm

the kid would literally take his bottle to the fridge and fill it up himself.

Disco – Now this has me cracking up! :lol:

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:32 pm

If your kids’ feet are dragging on the ground while sitting in a stroller, then they ass need to be walking

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
2:32 pm

leggs, i’m slack jawed. no words for that nonsense about the grown chick on the t!t. all i can say is eeewww!!

my cue to stop nursing my daughter was once she was old enough to say (quite loudly) “mama, t!t-t!t”. yeah. we were done right then. she was just over a year old. i weaned my son at about 6 months cuz the bigger he got, the more incestuous the whole thing seemed to me.

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:32 pm

This woman that sits in the cubicle behind me is a nice person. But every now & then she puts those headphones on and sings the gospel music she’s listening to!! She has an okay voice, but it’s very depressing!

I am about to scream!!!! :shock:

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:32 pm

If your kid is big enough to play tee ball, then they are too old to be walking around with a paci fier

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
2:33 pm

HST…the crowd at Tybee probably isn’t so bad yet. It’s a small, quaint town. I like it because I feel it’s not too touristy. You go there to relax and enjoy the beach! What hotels are you looking at? One I can tell you to stay away from is Rodeway Inn!!! Bad experience. Good thing about Tybee is that no matter where you stay, the ocean is only a block away! My favorite restaurant there is Stingray’s. The Breakfast Club is good, but the Sunrise has just as good breakfast food and is cheaper. The Sand Bar is a great hang out spot.

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:34 pm

Brat – Like my mom said, wean them off once they get “social”!

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
2:35 pm

HST…meeting around 5:20ish tonight.

disco

May 11th, 2012
2:35 pm

slim – I didn’t call it birdfeeding (or whatever) but I’ve pre-chewed food before giving it to my son when he was a baby. I certainly don’t see what the big deal is. I’m also familiar with the suction move. I also know how to mix up a batch of pet milk and caro syrup at a fraction of the cost of Enfamil or similac.

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
2:37 pm

poppn’ in and waving @ HST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I needed your expertise recently but I overcame!!! Glad all is well and yall doing weekend getaways huh?!? Enjoy!!!!

This has been a drag of a Friday! I am finally free on Fridays and can do Happy Hour and pondering what direction I should go in after work?!? I wanna be on a patio and chit chatting it up in a quaint spot~

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
2:38 pm

Bluz what’s the address of the place you all are going to?!? I may pop in if that is cool ~

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
2:39 pm

More power to ya but it still makes my flesh crawl thinking about it. I’m still traumatized from the spitty thumb move my dad used to do to me when I was young to get crud off my face. Ewwwwww

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:39 pm

Ocean Plaza Beach Resort, it fits the bill but lacks the amenities/service I like. Seems like it’s in a good spot and I can get a Beach Front Balcony as well. Dining looks to be fair enough and if it isn’t there’s always Savannah. I just wanna bring one of my favorite cars – I need covered and secure parking.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:39 pm

The woman’s husband seemed numb about the whole thing. However, the groom to be had trouble with it. However, he still planned on marrying her. The daughter saw nothing wrong with what she was doing. You can’t ask a crazy person if they’re crazy because they don’t know.

@kimmie ~ that was about 2 years ago on The Bert Show.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:42 pm

@swiss ~ you know darn well, you’re gonna ask mrs.swiss for a gulp (lol).

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

May 11th, 2012
2:42 pm

Bluzgirl…Stingray’s is definitely the best, the shrimp is soooo fresh…

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:42 pm

Slim – I’m right there with ya, can’t take such!!!

kimmie

May 11th, 2012
2:43 pm

Dang, the “singer” stopped, now she’s fired up again!!

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
2:45 pm

“@swiss ~ you know darn well, you’re gonna ask mrs.swiss for a gulp (lol).”

Leggs — Well, duh. :lol: I’ve been practicing sucking on them tittays for 5.5 years, why would I stop once the tap is open? :lol:

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:46 pm

Lady, hello, get your Happy Hour on! Yes, I have to be in the ocean this weekend – it’s gonna happen!

SlimNu, I too am still traumatized by the face wipe with spit. My Mom went to do it the other day to my Nephew. I jumped at was like NNNNOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! My Nephew laughed, and then said “thanks Uncle, grandma don’t do that it’s gross”. My Mom blushed, i told her it was OK because she’s old.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:46 pm

@disco ~ damn! Fill up his own bottle. How’s his teeth. Lots of calcium deposits???

@czB ~ yeah buddy. If you can ask for the tit tit, it’s time to stop.

The birdfeeding story is plain disgusting! That was my first time hearing a human did it to that extent. Thought only birds did that.

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
2:47 pm

Afternoon All,

I know yall are not on topic this late but I’ll say this;
Temptation – I’ve met her and the bish wont leave me alone.She’s a stalker. hahaha

HST – Stop acting like a tourist. Call the Hotel you want to stay in. Strike up a conversation with a young lady (preferably) that works the phones. Give her your information and let her know the minute she gets a cancellation to call you and you’ll pay on the spot. I have done that numerous times (Wifey as well) with the last minute road-trips. It is more than 1 way to skin a cat.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:47 pm

Pet Milk and Kyro Syrup. I use that to make my candied yams.

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
2:50 pm

Take in the blue seas HST!!!! I am jealous!!! lol soon for me though! lol

Where am I going for beer and wings today?!? rhetorical I know but still my brain is delayed today no thinking has taken place………

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:52 pm

Sorry, not the Pet Milk.

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:52 pm

Willie, I have 2 calls in with my favorite being the Tides Folly Beach Hotel. I am no amateur traveler, but local spots (within 5 hrs of home) isn’t something I do often.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:52 pm

Beer and wings…thanks for the idea for dinner tonight (lol).

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
2:53 pm

I had salmon croquettes and homefries last night.

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
2:54 pm

“the groom to be had trouble with it. However, he still planned on marrying her. “

Sorry, but that dude gets no sympathy for all the grief he surely is enduring now. If you’re not smart enough to avoid a chick who is literally still attached to the MIL’s tit, you get what you deserve…

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
2:54 pm

awwww leggs beer and wings is standard for Friday’s I just feel weird being free………….I promise you I will end up in bed watching dateline lol seems I just can’t rip and run on whim like before smh pay me no mind lol

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
2:55 pm

If your kids’ feet are dragging on the ground while sitting in a stroller, then they ass need to be walking
and if he can pack and unpack the damn thing by himself, he should just hoist it over his shoulder and keep on trucking.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

May 11th, 2012
2:56 pm

Well wouldn’t you know it, they want me to do some real work….On FRIDAY, I was intending on hanging in here….Ya’ll folks have a wonderful weekend!!!!

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:58 pm

Yeah Lady, my LTR (if it was even that) is moving to Russia. I want to do stuff to keep my mind occupied. Gumball is so close, I’m having problems sleeping with anticipation. Add that with my one shot at true love (seems that way) is leaving the country for years – I can not have an idle mind.

If I don’t hear from Folly soon I’m booking Tybee.

I just realized why everything is so booked – Mother’s Day. WTH, it was mentioned here several times, and I have a Mom. D’OH!

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
2:58 pm

Have a great weekend folks and Happy Mother’s Day Ladies!!!!

Enjoy those beaches too ;)

Peace!

HST

May 11th, 2012
2:59 pm

Jake, have a great weekend!

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
3:02 pm

HST – Give it a try. My wife being the smart-azz that she is challenged me to sweet talk a receptionist into giving me a room that was booked. Usually the receptionists are not that well paid. In the end I talked our way into a Suite with a balcony (beachview) in Panama City and the chick even gave me the employee dicount that she had. I gave her a lil change but still came out on top. All the wife had to say was “I’m checking in right beside you and that bish betnot be smiling too much”. hahaha

Also check out Hilton Head – Marriot Beachfront Resort. That really is my fav getaway with the Wifey.

SlimNu

May 11th, 2012
3:02 pm

Yall be easy, and Happy Mama’s day!

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:08 pm

Willie, I’ve been digging for a Hotel for a minute. I’ve done all you’ve stated and some. It’s Mother’s Day Weekend – everything decent is booked. I will try to give some sugar to the receptionist at the Tides Folly Beach if I don’t hear from them soon enough.

I must have 4 or more stars.
Secure parking
Beachfront with balcony

Not the easiest to do on Mother’s day weekend. Just saying that, makes me realize that cancellations most likely aren’t happening.

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
3:12 pm

HST – I feel your pain. Try the VRBO site suggested earlier (forget by whom). That usually works as sometimes you get to s/w the Owner of the rental personally. Whats your range (driving distance)?

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
3:19 pm

Lady…come on! We’ll be at El Porton – 2640 Old Peachtree Rd # A, Duluth, GA.

HST…that is probably the nicest hotel there besides the ones that were converted into condos. It’s not a fancy schmancy town, but it’s nice!

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:24 pm

At this point, I feel like I’m settling. I’m just going to go to my Cabin. I don’t know why I didn’t think of Mother’s Day. I kept thinking why in the hell is everything booked?

I want to keep it less than 400 miles.

At this point, I just can’t see it happening. Moreover, hanging out with families isn’t my idea of a good time either, so maybe it’s best.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
3:30 pm

@HST, czB is always talking about her being a brat. I think you may be her twin (no disrespect). I’m jut picturing you with your lip poked out bevcause you forget it it was Mother’s Day and all you can get sounds like a roach motel booking.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
3:30 pm

And, I’ve never witnessed czB being a brat, just that she calls herself one.

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:30 pm

Bluzgirl, I mentioned that hotel to my friend and he told me I’d be disappointed – I’m all about fancy schmancy…

I’m now realizing, no matter what, I’m around families. Not that I wanted Spring Breakers, but young children usually get on my nerves. This weekend is all about the celebration of Motherhood. Moms deserve to have their day, so I’m acquiescing from my debaucherous plans.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
3:30 pm

HST…you should just come have margaritas!!!

I wouldn’t have thought that Mother’s Day would be a beach getaway weekend. :-(

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:31 pm

I dislike that you’re right Leggs…

I really am pouting…

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
3:39 pm

Sorry HST…It definitely is a relaxing town and very down to earth.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
3:43 pm

Did everyone jump ship already? :-)

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:46 pm

Just an odd weekend for me trying to get last minute reservations.

5:20 ish? It would be completely irresponsible for me have a drink and drive one of my cars, but some chips and food sounds good. Do you have some single GFs coming? I don’t want to be the oddball who’s single…

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
3:50 pm

I’ve never witnessed czB being a brat
well. you’ve seen shades. :grin:

yes! do come out for a drinky-poo, hst. the closer it gets to 5:00, the more i know i NEEDS it.

bluz, i was kinda wondering about that choice for a mother’s day getaway too. probably lots of folks going home to be near mom and taking up the hotel rooms.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
3:51 pm

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
3:51 pm

Ummm, not that you’re unhappy, HST, but that I’m right. :wink:

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
3:53 pm

I’ve never witnessed czB being a brat
well. you’ve seen shades.

FUNNY!!!

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:54 pm

I got ya Leggs, you read me like a book earlier. Too funny…

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
3:56 pm

I put it out there on FB to see if more folks will come, but so far, I’m the only single girl. One GF is attached, but open to something better! LOL!!!

If you come, I’m a white girl with long black hair. I’m wearing jeans and a long sleeve button up blouse that is black, white, and gray striped.

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
3:59 pm

The more the merrier…I’m wondering if the cute army guy I met last Sat will be there. I don’t want him to think I’m stalking him, so I’d like a big group!!! I just wanna go because they have awesome margaritas and it’s pay day!

HST

May 11th, 2012
3:59 pm

I am a white boy with a full head of hair, and my attire is undecided.

czBrat, are you coming also?

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
4:00 pm

I’ll be there Bluz!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:01 pm

I would come, but it’s too far.

H S T, yousa white boy? :lol: :lol:

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:05 pm

Cool Lady!!! Give a description so I know what you look like!

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
4:07 pm

um. i’m single.

leggs, i know it’s a serious hike for you. be adventurous!

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:09 pm

Glad that Lady stepped up. Wouldn’t want to have a segregated meet and greet. j/k j/k

Lady~interesting.........

May 11th, 2012
4:12 pm

Sorry WD…not my style :)

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:12 pm

Awww Leggs…come on! :-)

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:15 pm

HST – As the sole member of the Male blogging community (MLB). It is your duty to provide a scouting report on all the female bloggers in attendance. We have a scouting report on Leggs (if she shows ) and Lady but they need updating. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, take out all biases and just just report the fact sir. Also, it would help if you got the info before drinking. hahaha

Celisea

May 11th, 2012
4:16 pm

Still cutting up I see WillieD

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:20 pm

WD…you ain’t right! LOL!!!

Celisea

May 11th, 2012
4:20 pm

Looks like today was much ado about nothing….

Let the weekend begin!!

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:21 pm

Cel – nawwww you got it all wrong. No you don’t, I can’t help it. Way you been?

Bluz- we have an APD out on you.

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:23 pm

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:23 pm

@Celisea ~ don’t say that (lol). We’ve helped czB with her issue (lol). Now, she’s not gonna plum snap on her SO!!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:25 pm

@WillieD ~ I immediately thought you were saying All Points D___ out in all directions for Bluz. I’m sorry….

Running to my corner!!!

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:25 pm

Oh dear Lord!!! Should I be very afraid? LOL

Celisea

May 11th, 2012
4:25 pm

WillieD – I’ve been “keeping busy”…lol :)

Leggs – I skimmed a bit…been sort of tied up. I’ll have to go back and read. Surely the blog gave her good sound advice :) Can’t have her snapping on her SO

Celisea

May 11th, 2012
4:26 pm

Bluz – Don’t be shocked if I show up :)

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:33 pm

Cel…hope you do!!! This is gonna be fun!!!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:34 pm

How old are you HST?

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:40 pm

Leggs – see, them cobwebs got ya brain all clouded. Mind in the gutter the body will follow soon after. I’m telling you, you need to just get a Maintenance Man and be done with it. I know I know shet it up. hahaha

Blu – nothing bad at all. No worries. You are about to get your very own page in the MLB blue I meant handbook.

Cel – I have tried and tried to be the contrarian this week but I am obviously not as good at it as you (smile).

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:44 pm

These last few minutes of work are taking WAY TOO LONG!!! I’m ready for margaritas!!!!!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:44 pm

Even if I had a maintenance man, my mind would still be in the gutter…what else you got??

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
4:49 pm

@Leggs — Keep your mind in the gutter, chica. It’s that dirty mind of yours that would have me giving you unlimited earmuffelectomies in an alternate universe. Lol

Bluzgirl

May 11th, 2012
4:49 pm

Well…gonna finish up some things and hit the road! See some of you soon!!

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:51 pm

Sometimes the best way to handle temptation is to IGNORE IT!!!!

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:54 pm

Leggs – I guess you told me. I forgot that NY fiestiness was still in you. I will let you in on a secret. Its a proven scientific fact that when you get that Toe curling, eyes rolling in the back of your head, leg shaking experience then your mind is incapable of fiestiness. You will come on here talking about flowers and sunshiney days.

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
4:56 pm

I’m cracking up, WillieD! Real funny!!

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
4:58 pm

On a serious note – I want to wish all the Mothers a very very very Happy Mothers Day. Regardless of your occupation or station in life, being a Mother is without a doubt the best job you ever could have. To the blog Mothers, I appreciate the job that you are doing with your kids. Alot of folks don’t get it right but we read every day how you ladies are indeed getting IT RIGHT. Thank You.

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
5:02 pm

@Leggs — Don’t front. I see you blushing over there. Lol

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
5:04 pm

Thank you WillieD…that was sweet…

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
5:05 pm

“…being a Mother is without a doubt the best job you ever could have.” Had to laugh, because everyone doesn’t quite feel that way (lol).

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
5:09 pm

Swiss – Don’t mess this one up. This Mothers Day will be the MOST important of your Married life. Go overboard just cause.

czBrat

May 11th, 2012
5:11 pm

thanx, willie.

happy mother’s day, ladies!

ciaocito, good people :)

Leggs

May 11th, 2012
5:12 pm

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY, LADIES…

i'm swiss

May 11th, 2012
5:12 pm

@Willie D — I’ve got a little something up my sleeve for my M(to be)ILF.

Willie Dynamite

May 11th, 2012
5:14 pm

Swiss – attaboy, less raunchy more awwwww. trust me on this.