If you meet someone at a bar or a club, is it really fair to judge them for going out too much? I mean, it stands to reason, if they were not outgoing, you never would have met them in the first place, right?
It is interesting how the things we find appeasing and attractive in the beginning of a relationship can be the very same things that wrecks a romance. You love their sense of humor and quirky behavior until you don’t anymore. Great sense of humor becomes “never taking things seriously” and quirky behavior starts to look a lot like a weird freak with strange habits. Ahh, you have to love how familiarity breeds contempt, no?
But I digress. If someone goes out too much, is that a turn off? Do you prefer the type that sticks close to home and is low-key?
I once had a guy I was seeing complain that I was on the go way too much. He much preferred that I go home more and demonstrate my domestic duties for an imaginary family that I don’t have yet. Yes, this was an actual conversation. No, we did not last long.
What are your thoughts? Do you think it is a bad sign if someone “runs the streets” a lot – as the old people like to say.
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog