What makes them attractive?
Women can never predict who will be attracted to them. Sometimes I am so confused when a guy asks me out because I wonder how he decided I was his type?
Aside from looks, what makes a woman attractive to men? I think a lot of women believe that good looks are enough to keep a man interested. Obviously it keeps them interested for a period of time, but something else keeps them around.
What is it about women that makes women irresistible?
Ladies, what is it about men that you find irresistible besides looks?
What keeps you interested and willing to open up yourself to another person?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
2:53 pm
Jake — Cool. Does tomorrow work for you? Willie D & I were talking about hitting up Taco Mac on Holcomb Bridge tomorrow around 6:30 – 7:00. Lemme know if you’re in or if that doesn’t work for you, we can see about rescheduling.
And anybody else who’s interested, hit me up:
brent.arrington@gmail.com
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
2:53 pm
I don’t ever want to go through a divorce again. Some guys buy, I’d rather rent
And we all know how folks dog out rentals because they know it isn’t theirs to own and once you return it, someone else will be in line to check it back out lol j/k
nothing like drankin and tellin lies
For whatever reason that made me laugh. I call it, Men and their Big Fish stories
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
2:58 pm
WillieD – I want deets Wednesday
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
3:02 pm
C — Why don’t you just join us? You can get all the deets first hand…
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 30th, 2012
3:03 pm
I was thinking toward the back end of the week, but if the beer is cold there, why not?
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:03 pm
Swiss – I would love to, just can’t do it tomorrow
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
3:07 pm
I’m pretty flexible. The only day that’s no good for me is Thursday. Willie D / Jake / C / others — Any preference?
Willie Dynamite
April 30th, 2012
3:11 pm
Cel – you want details for everything or just the part of the Agenda that’s dedicated to discussing you?
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:20 pm
WillieD – Ha ha ha…Everything, ESPECIALLY THE PART DISCUSSING ME. If y’all are anything like us, yeah, I need to know what y’all saying about me
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 30th, 2012
3:21 pm
Hey , Willie, Swiss, can we bring it down some, maybe Peachtree Street, or Lindbergh Taco mac… to centralize it, ya boy live dayum near in Snellville….
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:21 pm
I’m scared to go in with you fellas.
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:22 pm
That wasn’t the right emoticon…I was looking for one with shakes around the face…lol
But really, I was kidding
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:22 pm
I’m downtown
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
3:25 pm
Jake — That’s fine by me. As long as there’s plenty of beer to choose from & sports on TV, I’m good. Willie D — thoughts?
Oh, and by the way… I’ve now got reason to celebrate. Mrs. Swiss just got a call from the doctor — looks like a Mini-Swiss is on the way.
kimmie
April 30th, 2012
3:27 pm
Swiss – YAY!!!! Congrats!! Is ATL big enought for TWO swiss steaks?!!!!
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:27 pm
Awwwwwwwwww – Congrats Swiss….
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 30th, 2012
3:30 pm
That’s whats up Swiss, congrats…its the Yoga…lol
Cel…so you are saying if we move it dtown, you gonna visit us.
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
3:31 pm
Awwww, congratulations Swiss!!!!
Willie Dynamite
April 30th, 2012
3:32 pm
Downtown or Lindbergh don’t matter much to me I’m flexible. Just give me the specifics and I’m there.
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
3:33 pm
Thanks, kimmie & C! The funny thing is, we were literally just about to drop $20-large to start in-vitro treatments. We were just waiting for her next period to come to start the meds, and it never came.
I even went in last week to do the semen analysis (again) to make sure my boys were still okay. After the doctor gave Mrs. Swiss the news, she said, “oh, and by the way, your husband’s semen analysis was all good.” 
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:34 pm
Jake – I’ll do my bestest….
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:34 pm
We’re gonna have to have a blog baby shower….for real
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
3:36 pm
I just love babies (for a little while at least)…they sho shweet and smell so good
kimmie
April 30th, 2012
3:36 pm
Swiss – I can’t count how many stories I’ve heard of folks getting preggers just when they are about to adopt or consult technology!
Willie Dynamite
April 30th, 2012
3:37 pm
Congrats Swiss.
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
3:40 pm
Thanks, Jake & Willie D
So what’s the verdict on happy hour? Does Lindburgh Taco Mac work for everyone? And what day? Any day but Thursday works for me.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
3:48 pm
Awwww swisss, I’m so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
disco
April 30th, 2012
3:52 pm
kimmie – and I can’t count the number of folks who get in the family way AFTER they adopt. something about letting go of the stress and anxiety around all the “trying”.
congrats swiss.
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
3:56 pm
Congrats Swiss. I like you so much I’m not even going to bring up the “who’s the daddy” stuff
. I guess you know this but get as much sleep as you can because after the event you won’t sleep well for about 20 years 
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
3:59 pm
Thanks, everybody.
Randy — I know, right? I should take a video of how happy the Mrs & I are today so we can remember this in when we haven’t had a full night’s sleep for a year or so…
Exiled!
April 30th, 2012
3:59 pm
Re: 12:15!
@Slim?
Seeing that u dated that garbage dude,it can(may)mean ur guys don’t mind diving headlong into ur sewege down under either!!
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
3:59 pm
My best friend is currently pregnant and they didn’t believe it was going to happen either. She got so defeated and upset that it wasn’t happening and basically got fed up. Her and the hubby went to Costa Rica for a getaway and low and behold soon after they were preggers. I guess finally relaxing and not stressing about it helped nature do its thing….well, that and the fact of a little vacation intoxication
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
4:00 pm
And I have three of those t-shirts lol.
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
4:02 pm
Right Swiss. After about two or three days your previous life will seem like a weird dream or some movie you watched once.
Exiled!
April 30th, 2012
4:02 pm
Oh Swiss got a young coming?
Congrats man,u did it!
Exiled!
April 30th, 2012
4:04 pm
Man city leading 1-0 if u care!
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
4:04 pm
That’s right, Me.lo, the Uni-ball can still pack a punch!
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
4:09 pm
Sidebar to me.lo. My daughter has been seeing a Welsh soccer coach exchange student. He watched a local ATL team the Silverbacks and was disgusted from the kickoff. No ball skills.
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
4:12 pm
A full nights sleep for a year or so? Ummm, it might be longer than that. As as soon as you are able to sleep, here comes the teenage/young adult years….you won’t be sleeping then either. At least not until they’re coming in the front door.
I had a few grays but since this “boyfriend” thing has kicked in, I’ve see a couple more…gheesh
Exiled!
April 30th, 2012
4:13 pm
Two balls is a bonus Swiss,only one will do it.. And can knock a ehhhh…let’s just say it will vigorously deform and inflate a female tummy!
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
4:14 pm
Seriously, we need to move over to another blog or Diva needs to revamp…lol This is family/kiddie central.
Exiled!
April 30th, 2012
4:16 pm
Silverbacks? they will get better with time Randyt tho I dont watch major league..
I would have to have eye surgery
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
4:17 pm
Ex – Wherever you came from, go back there….
And I’ve never dated a ‘garbage dude’.
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
4:19 pm
Celisea is right, Swiss. My kids are grown now but every time I hear a siren I count down in my head where my children are right then.
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
4:20 pm
Even now.
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
4:24 pm
C / Randy — Well, d@mn, now I do need a drink!
Nah, it’s all good. I know (well, at least 2nd hand) what I’ve signed up for. Now I’ve just got to start planning the tennis regimen. Little SwissMocha is going to have one hell of a backhand if I have anything to say about it… 
Exiled!
April 30th, 2012
4:25 pm
Slim..what do u call that ex boyfriend who left trash everwhere in the house?
U think he even cared Not going down there,clean or funky…considering?
Any way how is Officer?
He wasn’t on that presidential advance party to Colombia,was he?
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
4:25 pm
Awwww, I’m loving SwissMocha…that’s is so cute. That’s the official blog name for him/her
Randyt (had to work some, again)
April 30th, 2012
4:26 pm
Hey Swiss…just dawned on me that you can tape over that video you got of your ex and her friend. I can guarantee you you won’t need that kind of distraction anymore lol.
kimmie
April 30th, 2012
4:30 pm
Swiss-Mr gon be a daddy!!! Luv that SwissMocha!!!