What makes them attractive?
Women can never predict who will be attracted to them. Sometimes I am so confused when a guy asks me out because I wonder how he decided I was his type?
Aside from looks, what makes a woman attractive to men? I think a lot of women believe that good looks are enough to keep a man interested. Obviously it keeps them interested for a period of time, but something else keeps them around.
What is it about women that makes women irresistible?
Ladies, what is it about men that you find irresistible besides looks?
What keeps you interested and willing to open up yourself to another person?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
accessAtlanta Partner Sites
Sections
Advertise on accessAtlanta.com »
Reach the audience you want by advertising on accessAtlanta.com
Join the Access Atlanta Network »
Advertisers and Publishers, expand your reach by joining the Access Atlanta Network.
Tell us what you think about the site
Visitor Agreement | Privacy Statement | About our ads
© 2013 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
221 comments Add your comment
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
12:53 pm
Swiss – I hear you too…scrumpdillyishous
Randyt (gone but hopefully not forgotten)
April 30th, 2012
12:55 pm
Although they can get a little big
If she sits on your face and you can’t hear the stereo…
(I’m sorry, couldn’t resist that one
I’m outta here, Have a good one. Dayum a gal with half her chest showing just sat across from…oh well, if you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them both.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
12:59 pm
See now, this is the kind of knowledge fathers need to share with their sons before the come of age
swiss – Maybe you should create a kit called From Boys to Men…and in the kit you should have scratch and sniff cards of a rank smelling CT and one that is good so they’ll know the difference
Mr. Unknown
April 30th, 2012
1:00 pm
lol!! I feel bad for talking about her this morning. Going to take her to lunch and see if I can pick her brain a little. Holla at ya’ll later.
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
1:01 pm
I’d have to make sure to include a disclaimer: DO NOT scratch actual puddy!
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
1:05 pm
Belks
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
1:15 pm
Hey Randy, BT is doing fine. Haven’t seen him in quite some time, but we do speak. He’s involved with someone. You know the saying, “you slow you blow…”
I am so ok with that 
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 30th, 2012
1:19 pm
Who in here talkin bout wearin thighs as earmuffs….what up peeps.
Everyone is attractive in their own way, can’t really answer this question, its so random with regard to what will hold your attention and make you keep her.
SexyCool
April 30th, 2012
1:29 pm
Hey people.
kimmie
April 30th, 2012
1:39 pm
What’s shakin, SCool!! Got your text this morn!!
halo46
April 30th, 2012
1:41 pm
Thank you @Leggs. I appreciate it. Was off to lunch so gotta catch up on what I missed.
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
1:44 pm
Lol @Leggs…such knowledge going to waste.
I took a new lady down to the Inman Park Festival yesterday. Day ended too soon. Interesting lady. Seems to be some chemistry there. Her friend thinks I’m a playa and have a wife somewhere
Willie Dynamite
April 30th, 2012
1:47 pm
Afternoon All,
Like Jake said I am attracted to quite a bit of random looks. Of course my kryptonite (chocolate) is well known but not a pre-requisite. I love love love a pretty smile. After that It really is how the package is put together then onward to how she talks, thinks etc.
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
1:47 pm
@Slim…not sure about that scratch and sniff. Some people like strawberries, some like sushi
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
1:48 pm
Since you aren’t interested in her friend, Randy, bunk her (lol). You’re not trying to seal the deal with her friend. Guess this can be an example of how much the friend influences the person you’re trying to make an impression upon.
Willie Dynamite
April 30th, 2012
1:48 pm
Randyt- maybe not the Wife somewhere but you are putting togther a HOF type resume. You don’t get that many t-shirts from riding the bench. hahaha
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
1:51 pm
Yeah Leggs, her friend has some weird ideas based on her “vast” experience. she told her friend that maybe that is the reason she is sitting at home lol.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
1:53 pm
I don’t anyone that likes the smell of sushi but if you say so. I personally do not
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
1:54 pm
This is probably as opportune a time as any (since the blog convo has turned to Earmuffelectomies) to send out the Bat Signal to the MLBers: Who’s up for happy hour? We need to meet up & drink some booze & talk some sh!t. Who’s in?
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
1:54 pm
Hey WD, I just put myself out there and things just happen. It isn’t rocket science, and I still scratch my head and azz trying to understand lol.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
1:56 pm
Randy – She is being a cockblocker, pure and simple.
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
1:56 pm
Sounds like a self-sabotager, Randy! Those type women are mighty dangerous who usually hang around women who can’t think for themselves…coming from my “vast” amount of experience (lol). I kid, I kid.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
1:59 pm
I still scratch my head and azz trying to understand
Me too Randy, me too *sigh*
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
1:59 pm
@Slim & Leggs …yes and yes
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:01 pm
No joke Slim, the more I know the more I realize I don’t know. Fortunately I am content in my own skin lol.
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
2:02 pm
She sounds sneaky to me SlimNu. People who adamantly dismiss another has a trick or two up their sleeves and cockblocking may be one of them!
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
2:05 pm
I need something sweet to eat. I going to look for a minature snicker. That’s all I can stand to eat.
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:05 pm
This lady isn’t listening to her friend though. Goodbye was pleasant lol.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
2:11 pm
Leggs – I was craving something sweet when I ran out to Wendy’s and ended up with a chocolate frosty. Unfortunately, that isn’t really what I wanted and ended up throwing most of it away. I guess it’s just a case of the Monday’s but i’m so restless right now and just plain ole ready to gizzoooooooo
Randy – Goodbye was pleasant huh? Sounds like someone got some good lip slobbing action
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:13 pm
“I need something sweet to eat. I going to look for a minature”.
Dayum Leggs, I am craving a cupcake from the cafe next door and was hoping to stall until they close. Those crunches with the medicine ball hurt when you have to add a bunch for the sweets. You make it tough mentioning that snickers.
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
2:15 pm
Glad to hear it, Randy, because sometimes “misery loves company,” and that’s motivation enough for some of these bitter women with “vast” experiences (not including me, tho…lol).
disco
April 30th, 2012
2:16 pm
hold up. wait a minute. before we all dismiss the friend as a blocker has anyone done a background check on randy? (no offense randy – it’s all just fun). I mean maybe this chick’s spidey senses are on point and randy is just running around town running game on everyone, including blog peeps. lol.
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:17 pm
Laughing at SlimNu…a lot of guys don’t get that a really good, tender kiss, a touch on the cheek, and then a wink and a goodbye actually work better than a full frontal assault…I mean for those that might try to take advantage I mean. I wouldn’t know personally since I am as clean as the driven snow
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:19 pm
Hey disco, I wouldn’t know personally, I just read a lot of Psychology Today”. LOL
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:21 pm
I’m not a player, just looking for the same things that most are…just been looking for awhile and learned a few things along the way,
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
2:22 pm
disco disco disco – Get out of my head!
That chick might be on to something. Maybe she knows of playa-ism and the hidden wife syndrome…LOLOLOL Maybe she’s just not gullible as the friend. Maybe she’s a good friend just looking out
Of course I’m just funning
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
2:24 pm
I see okie doke ain’t exempt from the screen, we’re gonna have to install a blog filter…LOL
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
2:24 pm
@disco ~ Randy has been on this blog since forever. He has every t-shirt you can imagine. Married he’s not because they wouldn’t still be sitting in the pile in the corner!!!
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:29 pm
Lol @ Leggs, hey I’ve gotten smarter Leggs…I haven’t run in to any of those with the lit candle in the backside fetishes in a long time now. They are still crazy, but not AS crazy.
SexyCool
April 30th, 2012
2:29 pm
Randy – if it was your lady that relayed this to you and not her friend, your lady has some of her own concerns or insecurities. Otherwise, she would not have mentioned it.
disco
April 30th, 2012
2:31 pm
leggs – did we not just discuss nasty chicks this a.m.? randy – not saying you’d marry a nasty chick but other, lesser men have. lol. okay, I’m done. I’m just being contrary.
Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:32 pm
I know SC, but I have reassured her. I’m kind of an odd situation because I travel, not at home at seemingly strange times, and have two houses and apartment. It looks weird and I understand that.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
2:34 pm
He’s not a player, he just crushes a lot
Celisea
April 30th, 2012
2:34 pm
I’m just messing with Randyt today. He’s sounding quick fiery. Maybe it’s backed up blogging because he haven’t been here in so long.
SlimNu
April 30th, 2012
2:36 pm
swiss – I just heard the commercial for that place I mentioned earlier. It’s called the Yardhouse at Atlanta Station…they have 130-250 taps of imported, craft and specialty ales and lagers. The commercial stated, Now open so I assume it’s a new spot here
Leggs
April 30th, 2012
2:43 pm
“leggs – did we not just discuss nasty chicks this a.m.?” – I didn’t read many of the posts from this morning. The only nasty chick thing I saw was Mr. U’s girl with the nasty car.
i'm swiss
April 30th, 2012
2:44 pm
Slim — Thanks for the
niptip. I’ll have to check that place out sometime.Randyt (if it is Monday then this must be work)
April 30th, 2012
2:45 pm
Lol@disco…not saying I haven’t gotten involved withe the nasty chicos, but I never lead with the “marry me baby”, I’ll leave that to others
. I think about marriage, but I don’t ever want to go through a divorce again. Some guys buy, I’d rather rent 
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 30th, 2012
2:49 pm
Swiss-I’m down for some boozin, nothing like drankin and tellin lies..
Randy,welcome back…. they trying to blow your cover today, don’t give in, tell’em, you are just a man lookin for the right woman, you won’t find her without a little trial and error…lol
disco
April 30th, 2012
2:53 pm
randy – perhaps it’s that “renter mentality” that old girl’s friend is smelling on you. perhaps what she really told her friend was that you were just going to put excess miles on her along with a little bit of wear and tear and bring her back to the lot. okay – sorry – this time I’m done for real. randy – you alright with me man. good luck with old girl.