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Do you argue too much?

I have a friend who tells me that he has noticed a disturbing trend in the last few months. A lot of the women he has met turn out to be rather argumentative. He is not opposed to debate and spirited conversations, but he flat out refuses to engage in an argument about politics, religion, etc.

I am somewhat surprised that he has managed to attract or be attracted to someone who is argumentative. He is laid back, extremely mellow, and is not one to be excitable. Is this a case of opposites attract?

Do you think that there is a difference between debating and arguing?

Have you ever dated the type of person who seems to enjoy fighting, or arguing? Has anyone ever told you that you argue way too much?

I have to ask, I’m sorry: Are you a lover of a fighter?!

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

345 comments Add your comment

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:00 pm

No czB don’t do it…you don’t want to see him pound his opponent into submission and get prison raped…shield your eyes!

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:02 pm

Air drums time…time to turn up the radio and dance around my chair. I just did that with R.Kelly’s new song (Save My Love). Nice stepping song!

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:03 pm

Leggs – 30 minutes eh? I’m going with you then…lol Surpisingly I can still hear a few folks talking. Normally and in this kind of weather it’s ghost in here. That’s the way it will be the next few months…lol I like long weekends or leaving early but I especially like being off during the week while everybody else is working :)

i'm swiss

April 27th, 2012
4:03 pm

Brat — My match will start at 9am. We’re playing at a subdivision called Hampton Hall.

HAMPTON HALL
8165 HIGH HAMPTON CHASE
ALPHARETTA, GA 30022

I’ll be the hot one w/ the totally intimidating red bandana head band. :lol:

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:04 pm

Leggs – Is that the song where he’s praying to God?

Why? Why do men mess up and THEN wanna pray or get scared or beg or say woulda coulda shoulda? LOL

Willie Dynamite

April 27th, 2012
4:09 pm

Cel – funny funny cause Wifey told me the sweater/sweater vest was fake (still ruff round the edges). I can pull off the slacks button down/polo look tho.
I got a almost free w/e but I’m a homebody so me and my smoker (food) and some brews chillin.

czBrat

April 27th, 2012
4:09 pm

celisea, i’ve had nothing but diet cokes all day. i’m in serious need of a good water flush.

swiss, i’ll have to see how close that is to the fitness center on states bridge.
i’ll be the one cat-calling and whistling at ya. :wink:

celisea, dudes beg and pray before they mess up too. they’re just beg and pray they not get caught.

eeewww, leggs. just eeewww! :lol:

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:10 pm

@Celisea ~ no. That’s the song where he’s trying to show a woman how he show her how to POPULATE…

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:11 pm

Dang I flustered myself between the song and that red hot bandana (lol).

Willie Dynamite

April 27th, 2012
4:12 pm

I think that’s my plan, lol

czBrat

April 27th, 2012
4:14 pm

ok. this is ridikulously random. my loan officer told me yesterday that my fico would go up 10 pts if i put a $500 gap between my credit limit and outstanding balance on this one particular card. in other words, work on paying it down. just now, i got an email from the credit company that they’ve just increased my limit by $1000! :shock: :grin:

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:18 pm

WillieD – If you can pull off the preppy look…almost with polo/slacks/button downs, heck you’re almost there…lol I like men that have the street now how but crisp (my favorite word) and clean cut. Tell wifey you are well on your way.

Grilling and movies and snacks beverages sounds like a plan to me. I like getting out about as much as chilling at home :) I can do either. Especially if I’m loaded down with movies and good eats.

czBrat – I’m a diet coker drinker for sure. It’s usually worse at home. I don’t too much drink sodas during the day unless I’m dining out for lunch. Just every blue moon I need one to burn the back of my throat.

Leggs – Thanks. That other song is killing me…lol

Dang it’s just 4:18

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:20 pm

czBrat – celisea, dudes beg and pray before they mess up too. they’re just beg and pray they not get caught.

Soooo true, oh so true

Willie Dynamite

April 27th, 2012
4:21 pm

Brat – I see you doing the Math now. 10 pts, $500, $1,000, shoes/mall. STOP.

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:21 pm

I just had this dude to IM me at work about the position that opened. He would be good in that role.

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:22 pm

Just every blue moon I need one to burn the back of my throat. – Didn’t look at it like that this afternoon, but I really wanted the taste of a soda. So I went to the fountain in the cafeterial and put a sip in a cup then left (lol)….

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:23 pm

Well, a gulp….

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:24 pm

But he’s a birl…he would definitely get to neck jerking and fingers snapping if ever ticked. He was in the group I was in and he told me he was gonna go Ike Turner on the manager we were both under. I almost lost it. She was scared of him. Not only did she promote him, she helped him get out of there.

czBrat

April 27th, 2012
4:25 pm

wd, i won’t deny you’re onto me. but i’m disciplined enough to wait until after closing. (and don’t forget to figure in the monthly savings by getting the lower rate. that’s going toward the shoes too).

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:25 pm

Leggs – I don’t know if it’s just me but I find the much stronger drinks to be the fountain sodas. I miss cokes back in the day where you couldn’t take but a couple of swigs before coming up for air. They were too strong to straight gulp.

Okay, I’m just posting and rambling now…lol

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:29 pm

Coke is still too strong for me. There was a time when I thought Sprite would burn my ears off and. I thought everybody’s ears burned when they drank soda. Found out that not to be the case (lol). Sprite is still strong, but not like Coke.

Willie Dynamite

April 27th, 2012
4:32 pm

Brat – that’s cool (I’m married remember). Impulsive but brainy. I like.

Cel /Leggs – channeling my inner Swiss. Its okay to sip a taste. You don’t havta gulp (unless you wanna). Just don’t spit it out. Hahaha

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:33 pm

Nothing like a strong drink

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:36 pm

WillieD – Shet it up!! Ain’t that how you say it Leggs?? LOL I should have started the countdown with that one. If it wasn’t Friday and so late that would be (gulping that is) the call of the wild back up in here…lol

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:37 pm

A strong drink w/ likka…

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:38 pm

Yep, that’s how you say it, Celisea!

i'm swiss

April 27th, 2012
4:40 pm

Legs — Did you say you need a strong drink and a licker?

czBrat

April 27th, 2012
4:42 pm

oy. i’ll leave yous to your foursome.

ciacito, good people!

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:42 pm

Leggs – I thought so…lol

Iz a virgin drinker dranker :)

The time is now 4:42 :)

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:43 pm

See I said that wrong..

Iz a virgin drink dranker…maybe I had too much to drink :)

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:44 pm

Now I KNOW it’s time to go…lol

I’m rambling for sure

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:44 pm

OMG, Swiss, I am hollering over here…only you man., only you! Good one twisting the word.

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:46 pm

Celisea ~ I’m watching the clock and it’s moving very, very slowly.

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:49 pm

(Celisea speaking in a whisper…shhhhh) There were no trolls trolling today!

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:50 pm

Leggs – When I looked up the first time and it said 4:18 the old saying came to mind…a watched pot never boils. As long as we’re watching the clock the hands are gonna stand still….lol

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:52 pm

And watching for that digital number to flip over is nerve wracking (lol).

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:54 pm

Leggs?? IT’S 4:53 :mrgreen:

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:55 pm

Did WillieD and Swiss leave? I guess clock watching (ooooh, that sounded kinky) ain’t fun huh?

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:55 pm

I’m laughing at myself, I was just kidding in that 4:56 :mrgreen:

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
4:55 pm

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:56 pm

Leggs – LOLOLOL my bad

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
4:59 pm

I have my purse on the desk, my loaf of raisin bed out of the drawer, my book in hand…all I’m waiting for now is time. As soon as the clock strike, it’s laptop in bag

Night folks..have a great weekend :mrgreen:

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
5:00 pm

I wasn’t correcting you, I was posting the time as I looked at the clock. That’s even funnier now reading your post.

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
5:00 pm

I have the rest of my food on my desk to take home, purse on desk and gym bag by door (lol).

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
5:00 pm

Nite!!!

Have a great weekend….It’s 5:00!!! FINALLY