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Do you argue too much?

I have a friend who tells me that he has noticed a disturbing trend in the last few months. A lot of the women he has met turn out to be rather argumentative. He is not opposed to debate and spirited conversations, but he flat out refuses to engage in an argument about politics, religion, etc.

I am somewhat surprised that he has managed to attract or be attracted to someone who is argumentative. He is laid back, extremely mellow, and is not one to be excitable. Is this a case of opposites attract?

Do you think that there is a difference between debating and arguing?

Have you ever dated the type of person who seems to enjoy fighting, or arguing? Has anyone ever told you that you argue way too much?

I have to ask, I’m sorry: Are you a lover of a fighter?!

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

345 comments Add your comment

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
1:58 pm

LMBAO SWISS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sassy Me...all SMILES :-)

April 27th, 2012
1:58 pm

Okay back from lunch with a serious case of “the itis”…

Slim, Swiss must be somewhere tied up(and probably liking it) to not have commented on what you posted…I’m sure he would’ve come through with something by now.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 27th, 2012
1:59 pm

BF…man I have been doing my best, glad everythings good on your end.

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
1:59 pm

I knew it, Slim. You can’t put those two words to gether. It’s like the movie The Birds, the men are flocking together coming from all corners…

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
1:59 pm

Arguing to determine who can cuss and shout the most……not interested<<<<<LOL funny cba some men do this too smh lololol

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:01 pm

I am ready to see what Indy is gonna do!!!! I love me some reggie wayne! lol that is my bandwagon team lol smh

Sassy Me...all SMILES :-)

April 27th, 2012
2:02 pm

Ooh okay Swiss, that’s more like it :lol:

SlimNu

April 27th, 2012
2:02 pm

It’s amazing how the mere mention of ‘good good’ seemed to made the men magically appear.

swiss – I don’t even know why I thought I’d get away unscathed from that comment. lol

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:03 pm

it is Slim I was thinking that too! Its a man’s world honey #smirk

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:03 pm

I knew you wouldn’t SlimNu. No way…

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 27th, 2012
2:04 pm

Lady…that wagon don’t have wheels on it, get off early, 4-12

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:05 pm

lolololol Jake you know I will lololol

Willie Dynamite

April 27th, 2012
2:09 pm

Afternoon All,

First of all- Black, congrats and blessings.

Topic – I am a lover, no fighting no knock down drag out arguing. I do have a short fuse burt it takes hella fuel to ignite. I’m laid back 99.9% of the time so if I’m pissed its legit. The wifey does not argue but she does fuss. I’m calm so that pisses her off. I just let her go then I ask “what else” a few times then I go with the “are you finished, you feel better now?” If I get to tghe point where I’m bout to be pissed I take off and just drive.

disco

April 27th, 2012
2:10 pm

celisea – re folks using the library as daycare, seems like a few years back some woman dropped her kids off at barnes and noble. apparently it doesn’t work like the public library. she got arrested.

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:11 pm

told you disco lol its neglect lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

April 27th, 2012
2:12 pm

Hey thanks cba and all my bruhs.

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:14 pm

between counseling and education you become sworn ga reporters and you will get in just as much troulbe for not report abuse these days now smh

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
2:14 pm

disco – As should be. I wish the po po was waiting on the chicken heads leaving their kids to run around and do God knows what all day. Hey if they blocking you made ‘em. Deal with it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

April 27th, 2012
2:14 pm

You too WillieD thank you bruh.

cba

April 27th, 2012
2:14 pm

Leggs, that’s why as parents we have to be reeeeeeeeal careful how we teach our kids. I know he was raised in a different generation (’20’s) and was probably taught the same by his father. Unfortunately/fortunately some of the things we are taught don’t manifest itself until we are young adults.

Lady, in my younger years, most of the cussing and shouting with guys were about sports….. who’s best Wille Mays or Hank Aaron, Jim Brown of OJ, Jordan or Magic……..who’s finer Peaches or Kesha :lol:

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:15 pm

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:15 pm

I hear ya cba. I get it men don’t do the arguing thingy! lololol

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
2:16 pm

And nowadays it’s who finer, Peaches, Uncle Peaches or Kesha…lol

kimmie

April 27th, 2012
2:16 pm

BF – Beautiful about your moms!!! That’s what I love to hear!!

Leggs/ladies – Okay it’s on and popping now. I’m really going to have to dicipline myself. A new Nordstroms Rack just opened near my job. I just did some SERIOUS damage up in there! But I feel good – I needed and earned it all. Got 3 HOT new pairs of shoes with leather so soft it feels like butter! A few cute outfits – it’s on, summer!!!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 27th, 2012
2:16 pm

Alright Ladies & Gents….the kid bustin out early today, you guys have wonderful weekend, its gonna warm up a bit, enjoy it, Ladies “Its Spring, Get Sprung”, but I have one request for my blog buddies….This Weekend’s Favor for Jake….tell them junkies, I don’t have any spare change for you, but I’ll get you something to eat, buy a homeless person a meal this weekend….you don’t know their struggle!! Be cool folks!!!!

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:17 pm

Kimmie know she is a shopper.com you go girl!!!!! ;) Enjoy!!! ;)

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:18 pm

Bye Jake!!! Oprah did that recently with a wad of cash too! Pay it forward! ;)

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
2:18 pm

Lady – I got irked the other day when this chick pulls in, looking all dolled up and some wacked ghetto hairstyle picking up her boys at the close of day. Looked like she stopped doing whatever it was she was doing long enough to come get them and probably dropped somewhere else so she could go back to doing whatever she was doing. Getting there five minutes before they locked up. One kid looking seven-ish and the other nine-ish

i'm swiss

April 27th, 2012
2:18 pm

BF — What’s up, man? Long time no see.

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:19 pm

C stop! a uncle Keisha did my hair last weekend and did awesome! see they fine too ! lolol

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:20 pm

our babies going through much social injustices that is why I am flexible and patient with them~

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
2:20 pm

I down all day buying someone something to eat….that’s homeless :)

WillieD – Did y’all have y’all meet and greet last night? Ooops I asked didn’t I?

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:21 pm

but some homeless folks will tell you where to go bc they want the money! 0_o but many will take a hot meal!

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
2:21 pm

Lady – LOLOL

disco

April 27th, 2012
2:22 pm

jake – I’ve always offered to buy food. fast food if a restaurant is close. snacks/water/whatever if a convenience store is close. I don’t give out cash money though.

kimmie – you beat me to it because as soon as I am released I’m going to be like biz markie in the albee square mall. “go shopping. go shopping”

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:23 pm

Great request, Jake.

It was on the radio this morning that a homeless man asked Oprah for a bowl of soup. How she responded was coming up next, but I had to get out the car. Probably will be on Inside Edition this evening.

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:24 pm

Ok, perhaps I got my answer from Lady’s post (2:18).

Celisea

April 27th, 2012
2:25 pm

Kimmie – Imma have to check it out. I have NEVER found anything in Nordstroms that I like. Ever. So maybe it’s time to give Nordstrom’s Rack a chance. When my pops died I went there first but didn’t see anything. I like very simple, toned down elegance. I saw one dress but it was a bit too revealing on top (sort of like chiffon), IMO for a funeral.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

April 27th, 2012
2:26 pm

Kimmie like I told Leggs I couldn’t have made it with you guys love thanks so much.

Hey Swiss what’s happening man, when Slim1 said her say I knew you were coming in for the kill……..LOL

Sassy Me...all SMILES :-)

April 27th, 2012
2:27 pm

tell them junkies, I don’t have any spare change for you, but I’ll get you something to eat, buy a homeless person a meal this weekend….

I’ve done that before…sometimes it’ll work but sometimes when I say, “I’ll buy you something to eat but I won’t give you any money”, they come up with excuses…really?!

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:27 pm

I heard on the radio this morning….

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:27 pm

she gave money and food leggs. she is trying to recover and saver her network its been a learning experience for her I am not knocking her good deeds bc she always gives I am just throwing out there this past year has been tough for her too they laid off half the network and revamping

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:28 pm

There’s one person regularly on the corner that I refuse to give $$ to. I sense he has more money than I do.

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:29 pm

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:29 pm

I hope Magic’s network is a success too!

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:29 pm

Everything is relative. I sense no matter how tough it is for her network, she’ll never be broke.

Lady~

April 27th, 2012
2:31 pm

ever leggs! at all but she is human is my point it ain’t a cake walk for the rich either I am sure it is smoother though but rejection doesn’t discriminate

SlimNu

April 27th, 2012
2:33 pm

WD – OMG you sound just like the beau, “Are you done? What else? Do you feel better now?” Aaarrrgggghhh!

I just got invited to a self-defense class and margaritas next weekend…this ought to be interesting and I must admit I’m a bit excited

Willie Dynamite

April 27th, 2012
2:33 pm

Black – that cancer thing is an old skool 15 rounder with no standing 8. She needs a good corner man and I think you just might be Dundee. Kudos
Peaches was finer but she had miles on her. Kesha was/is a keeper, cause nobody got past 2nd base (but me).

Cel – no, work life balance got in the way.

Leggs

April 27th, 2012
2:34 pm

I agree, Lady, the rich are having troubles as well. But I don’t think she’ll ever be broke (again).