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Are women today too aggressive?

I know guys that are generally surprised whenever a woman approaches them. There are men that can appreciate the type of woman who takes the bull by the horn. Then there are others that think a woman loses her femininity when she flips the script.

Women are more apt to approach and even pursue guys these days but are women too aggressive? Alpha men are respected and admired, but women have to show that they can find a balance

When a woman is more aggressive, does it mean she can’t let a man take the lead?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

275 comments Add your comment

Jeff

April 17th, 2012
6:36 am

That type of personality has its downside no matter which endanger it is. An overly aggressive, arrogant, narcissistic jacka$$ is still a jacka$$ no matter what organs they have.

Lily

April 17th, 2012
6:42 am

Diva, balance is key. Naturally the men of todays generation will be okay as most seem to believe pursuit is a dirty word. In all seriousness, balance is key. Too much of anything just isn’t good. Alright I have to get out of here to make my shift.

Good day!

CoolShadow

April 17th, 2012
7:43 am

When a woman is more aggressive, does it mean she can’t let a man take the lead?

It may mean that she sees someone that she’s intrigued by enough to make a move, and that doesn’t mean she can’t relegate herself to being pursued. Conversely, that doesn’t mean the guy won’t necessarily take the lead afterwards and be the aggressor in the situation. The approach is just the initial encounter; it’s what happens after that is what really counts. And some women gain the courage to take the chance to approach rather than opt for possibly sitting at home alone or masking their fear to approach through some perceived shortcoming on the man’s part.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
8:57 am

When a woman is more aggressive, does it mean she can’t let a man take the lead? – I don’t think it means that at all. Initially, a woman approaching a man first may just indicate she’s comfortable enough to approach and offer that flirt, compliment, dinner or a drink. Pretty sure she can fall back and let the man lead if a relationship should get off the ground.

Morning!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
9:31 am

Well, sounds like you guys have pretty much summed it up. NEXT! ;-)

Good morning all!

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
9:38 am

HiYas!

i’m thinking if roles are reversed from jump, there’s a pretty good chance folks may never find their proper lane in the relationship. but maybe that’s just me.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
9:49 am

You’re absolutely right, czB! We aren’t wired for the roles to be reversed.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
9:50 am

Not only that, an alpha female is usually BUTCH. IJS

GracieL

April 17th, 2012
9:52 am

Ladies, if you have to pursue him, he’s just not that into you, so what’s the point? There’s a correlation between how much effort they put toward something and how much they appreciate having it.

DNG

April 17th, 2012
9:52 am

Of course some women can be too aggressive. I think for the most part women desire to be in a relationship, and when they are single in dating they tend to rush the process of finding a mate, which leaves them back to square one, single. Men like a chase and if you make yourself too available, it seems desperate. Check us out on-line at http://www.datenightgurus.com

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
9:55 am

Well, like it was already mentioned, just because a woman initiates the interest in the guy doesn’t mean she’ll automatically carry the rest of the courtship/relationship. However, if she continues to be the aggressor overall, then that man basically is riding along as you chauffer the r’ship. So you can’t really be surprised when he hops out at the next intersection. I guess there is just something about that new car smell that folks love.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
9:57 am

LOL, well said Slim!

GracieL

April 17th, 2012
10:00 am

A lady can initiate interest without saying a word. If the man is receptive, he will respond to her cues and “initiate” the interest. If he doesn’t respond, he’s just not that into her, and she has not wasted her time or dignity.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:08 am

Shut up and Drive

April 17th, 2012
10:09 am

when you got right one, ain’t no script flippin.

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
10:10 am

Good Morning…………..hmmmm @ the topic………..

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
10:11 am

Morning All!

I see this as a damned if you do/don’t situation. It’s also subjective. Some dudes might consider it “too agressive” if a woman simply flirts with him or offers her number first. Others might consider that same woman not agressive enough. She’s gotta “prove” her interest in him before he’ll lift a finger. Some get bored if the woman isn’t ready to jump his bones coming out of the gate.

So I say do what makes you feel comfortable. Yeah, some will tell you if you don’t get out there and go for what you want, make the 1st move, men will pass you by. That’s not true for everyone. Plenty of women still meet men that are happy to pursue them.

And no, just because she stepped up and got the ball rolling doesn’t mean she wants to “wear the pants” in the relationship either. That’s just some lazy dude’s excuse for not stepping up and handling his business. “She won’t LET me lead” – get outta here!!LOL!!

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
10:13 am

lawd! reallly can’t recall the last time i heard the term “butch”. that took me right back to nyc.

and that’s what i was getting at, slim. starting up convo with a dude is all fine and good. but when i think “aggression” i think of a woman inviting the guy out and then back to her place. if i met up with a guy that went along with such a thing, i can assure he wouldn’t be my “type” overall, so what chance is there of anything long-term? the dude that follows the aggressor is always gonna be content to be lead, so when does she get to hand back over the wheel?

gracie, i luv the point you made. we have a way of giving a guy the green light without actually lifting up our skirt. i don’t consider that aggression, though.

maybe i’m just overthinking this.

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
10:15 am

Kimmie good post! very subjective!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:16 am

Gracie’s 9:52 was nicely said.

Here’s how I see it….a man’s nature has never changed, it’s in him to hunt and pursue. Now many have gotten spoiled and lazy but that’s nothing to do with what he was born with.

I think too if you set the tone so much so that you’re having to take the lead….being woman, he won’t take the pants back if you try to hand them to him… Of course still talking about dudes with the lazies.

That’s right, send the signals if you think possibly he’s not reading but it’s out of sync chasing dudes down….IMO

Morning all….

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:17 am

I really don’t want a lazy-datin- ass man…

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:17 am

Fear and desperation will cause many to have distorted views and act irrationally.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:18 am

And for all the chicks that can’t wait, won’t allow the man to pursue it’s that much harder for the women that know to leave her scent.

Spoiled and lazy I tell you.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
10:26 am

“spoiled and lazy” <———— *spit take* :lol: :lol:

and shame on me for using “always” in my 10:13. i try not to do absolute blanket statements about folks. my apologies.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:27 am

Yeah I would see an agressive woman as someone who is all up front about the initiation, then taking it on home, then inviting the guy places, always paying, always has the plan of what they’ll do, buying his clothes trying to prep him to her liking but then get all p!ssed off when he’s ready to dip on her azz…especially when he gets tired of becoming overbearing and throwing fits when he does not want to do what she says. The movie Thin Line Between Love and hate comes to mind :lol:

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:30 am

Off topic: I was reviewing some documents this morning and needed someone from Research to define and help me understand behind the scene and I went to the chick’s floor that I mentioned yesterday…that’s the team that handle such things.

Well first of all everybody was scared to open the door and let me in…seriously!!! When I got in they were all saying they would get “in trouble” What the…..

Then the chick they all deferred me to as the SME was scared and almost offended. I asked her if it was strange me reaching out to her and she said “yes”….what???!!! I said well it’s a compliment if you’re considered the one person on a team that can provide answers. She was shaking her head the entire time. Then the explanation was vague. And y’all know me, I keep asking until it clicks or make sense Get the hell out of here…seriously

So I called this chick in a building in another part of the city that was a manager there and is now managing another group. She was more than happy to explain and told me what no one else could…as I’d asked others before the retard that was acting all scared. You know I told her…like I said she use to manage that team. She was like oh no, can’t have that.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
10:34 am

“I really don’t want a lazy-datin- ass man…”

Slim, I had to turn one down this past Saturday. Yes, although I’m don’t have any dates, I can still turn one down (LOLOLOL).

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
10:37 am

C cooperate america sis~

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
10:38 am

@czB ~ back in the day in NYC, those butches were downright scary!!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:39 am

Leggs – I’m not mad at cha…there is power & empowerment in the word NO lol

CoolShadow

April 17th, 2012
10:41 am

If he doesn’t respond, he’s just not that into her, and she has not wasted her time or dignity

Sometimes womens’ cues are so subtle that they’re missed and men never pick up on it. For example, I’ve been introduced to women in social settings who never engaged in the conversation, answered questions only asked of them and exhibited a behavior that could be interpreted as standoffish. Well come to find out I get reports later that she ‘liked’ me all the while her body language told me something different.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:41 am

Leggs – did you just know off hand that he fell into the lazy dater category??

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:41 am

Lady – So true.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:48 am

Cool – Sounds like a woman who knows, since she is interested, is being careful not to give off that too eager/too interested/too desperate energy. Just a guess.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
10:48 am

cool, you are what we refer to as “dense”.

i’m kidding! :grin:

honestly, i’m so subtle with expressing an interest that most of the time dudes actually think they made the first move. and i don’t give a second thought to the ones that miss my cues.
i’m only looking for the sharpest knife in the drawer, so it works out well in the end.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
10:48 am

Overly aggressive men are a Turn Off just as well.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:49 am

We need either another corp of topics, corp of bloggers or a new angle. Maybe no longer misadventures in dating but “Life after kids and coupledom” LOL

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:52 am

i don’t give a second thought to the ones that miss my cues.

Now THIS is what I thought after reading Cool Shadow’s post. I mean if I give you a hint, a smile, a nudge and you don’t get it, I’m moving on. I shouldn’t have to hit you across the head and slap a “look at me” banner on my chest…lol

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:53 am

This is by means anything to Cool Shadow because I don’t know him but in my experience most men so oblivious to hints and what not are usually those that have experienced women bringing to them.

Not saying this is even true for all but in my experience this has been the case. I don’t take too well to spoiled men. I’ll take a pass. The next chick and get it for you.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
10:55 am

NOT anything to Cool Shadow…is what I was saying

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:00 am

crop crop crop

Albert

April 17th, 2012
11:06 am

I’d rather a woman be a little aggressive in the pursuit. I hate mistaking a woman’s signals or having to guess whether or not she’s really interested. Nine times out of ten one will guess wrong.

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:06 am

C you geting krunk @ your 10:49!!!!!!!!!! lol

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:08 am

Lady – Nah just saying it ain’t really misadventures for us any more. So either we need fresh faces or the blog to change it’s angle…lol We’re still good hanging out here :)

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
11:09 am

@Slim ~ I know him. We agreed Friday eve to meet Sat afternoon. I called at 1:22. He was doing dishes and said he’ll call me back in a few. That few occurred 7 hours later with him saying he doesn’t have any place in mind we can go but it’s still early and he could be at my place in 30 mins. I told him I’m not interested in dating inside my living room and BYE. Not sure if he said anything else cuz I clicked off.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:10 am

Cel – I agree that we could use some refreshingly new topics. What do you suggest, outside of the one of “Life after kids” because I don’t own any rugrats just yet? ;-)

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:11 am

I do like this hangout joint C~ LOL!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:13 am

Slim – I dunno….I think it would be a great idea if different folks toss ideas in a hat. Only because it’s pretty much the same audience but life for many have shifted somewhat. We’re all married, now divorced (with all the tshirts), booed up ( :) ), not having so much angst…you get what I’m saying.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:13 am

Daaaaaaaamn Leggs, you kick ass and take names quite often. lol I need to join your bootcamp class for “I’m not yo sucka 101″ :D I told yall this dude tried that with my cousin. He said he was feeling like getting away but when she asked what he had in mind, he said, “To my place” :roll:
No ole boy is dead wrong for that one, by not getting back with you in ample amount of time. It does not take 7hrs to wash dishes unless you work in a restaurant as a dishwasher and you simply worked your shift. Stuff like that makes my blood boil.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:14 am

Lady – Me too :)

HST

April 17th, 2012
11:14 am

Since when is going for what you want considered aggressive? Sounds like either the male is insecure, masochistic or wants a woman in the kitchen. I prefer my women to know exactly what they want. I just don’t see how going after what you want is considered aggressive.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
11:14 am

weather getting nicer and days getting longer.
leggs, i’m feeling the need for a blogettes lunch, brunch, sumptn.

HST

April 17th, 2012
11:16 am

opps…misogynistic no masochistic…auto-correct fail…

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:16 am

That is right HST! approved 11:14

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:18 am

Cel – I’m sure we still have angst about things, whether booed up or not. It’s just some of us may not choose to disclose it on here. Take for instance the beau and I, we’re having a serious break down in communication and let’s just say, it’s not breaking down on My end. :???:

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:21 am

What is going on around the city?!? I feel out of loop!!!!! I ‘m free and want to find a patio…………

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:23 am

Slim – Agreed. But not along the same lines as finding the one or breaking the ice or being nervous in moving to quickly. I’m sure there’s angst in marriage but just saying it’s not the same as “misadventures” IMO, so to speak. Heck yeah, I was just telling someone on email, we are never removed from stumbling across a chump, but sometimes you just silently nip that one and K.I.M. :)

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
11:26 am

“Daaaaaaaamn Leggs, you kick ass and take names quite often…”

Unfortunately, this is true. Wish I didn’t have to, but I’m not tolerating the dumba$$ ways guys try to dismiss you only to wind up knocking on my front door. Hell, if you don’t like me like that to actually want to date me, I’m cool with that. I’m also even cooler with you not getting in my panties. I can’t force anyone to see the quality person I see in myself, but I definitely can force them not to take advantage. Easy I ain’t….

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:27 am

;) So need that C~ you made my day!

I need a drink or two too!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
11:29 am

@czB ~ I feel like a blogette luncheon myself. Let’s get one organized.

CoolShadow

April 17th, 2012
11:29 am

@Celisea’s 10:52 – so are you saying just by a mere smile that I’m supposed to know you’re interested? That could be seen as being congenial but not necessarily interested. So let me ask, what are the cues that you give off to show interest? Which cues are most overlooked by men?

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
11:29 am

hst, we’re just chatting out the different ways of “going for” what you want. it’s a tactical discussion.
the chick that opts for the ‘come hither’ look is still going for what she wants. she’s just not going at it balls to the wall.

GracieL

April 17th, 2012
11:30 am

czBrat: “…i don’t give a second thought to the ones that miss my cues. i’m only looking for the sharpest knife in the drawer,…”

Exactly.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
11:32 am

cool, it’s the smile WITH the eye contact, WITH the head tilt, WITH the forward lean …
*sigh* it’s a process, ok?
:lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:32 am

balls to the wall

I wonder if anyone has ever really someone do this and more importantly, WHY would someone put their balls on the wall. Things that make you go Hmmm?

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:39 am

Lady – :)

CoolShadow – I’m no teenager so I’m not scared but I’m not going to go “balls to the wall” as czBrat just said. Nothing wrong with outright speaking or starting a converstaion just in general, giving an opening to engage in conversation. If I see a dude checking me out at that point it could very well be a misfire and I too might be misreading but rather than dismissing I’m going to give him a lift. If it’s the case of me being interested…me personally I ALWAYS like to lock it in…looking sqauare in the face. No flitching, no shyly looking away….out of habit, my lift my left brow goes up for a second and a smile. Not the cheesy smile but the yeah, you know smile. You can make it known without running all over dudes.

When I’m heading in to work it seems once every couple of weeks or so there’s a cute dude sitting at a particular intersection where I purposely look him square in the face as I’m turning and he’s sitting (I have the green and he’s got the red). That’s not to hook up but it’s to let him know, yeah you’re HAWTE!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:40 am

it’s the smile WITH the eye contact, WITH the head tilt, WITH the forward lean And the CT flash, boob flash, finger licks, licking of the lips then last but not least the Open Wide-legged leg cross.

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:41 am

eye contact is so key~

dyslexicbunny

April 17th, 2012
11:43 am

> WHY would someone put their balls on the wall
The balls could exclusively be warm and the wall could be cold. Or vice versa.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
11:44 am

So you see Cool Shadow, so far 3 of us said it’s the look…. Ain’t no time to get coy, look at the man and tell him want you’d much rather not outright say. Now if he can’t move or get from that then he’s a dumb bot…I kid I kid I kid…lol

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
11:45 am

Slim, are you coming on to me? :lol:

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
11:48 am

just interesting………………………..

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
11:52 am

jeeze. slim bout to cause me a hernia from stifling the chuckles.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
11:57 am

off topic; i’ve decided s/o’s b-day getaway this year will be deep sea fishing in panama city.
and that means one full day at the sandestin outlets for me! :grin:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:58 am

swiss – Not this time. I just crop dusted over here and was trying to fan it away. Whew, that was a stinker! :lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
11:59 am

Cz – That’s a great plan of distraction :lol:

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:03 pm

“…the Open Wide-legged leg cross” – Isn’t that called the “Sharon Stone?”

Lady~I will survive!

April 17th, 2012
12:03 pm

I just ate a delish turkey burger and sweet potato fries! yum! I am ready to go too! smh lol

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:05 pm

Leggs – YUP! I sat here with my almost 34 year old mind trying to remember her name. I was going to say, You can thank Sharon Stone for that one :lol: Thanks for the mental boost. I might need to incorporate some Ginko Biloba in my daily routine.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
12:08 pm

slim, he tells me they don’t allow lounging on the top deck, so that leaves me no choice but to schedule my own sport for the day.

Isn’t that called the “Sharon Stone?”
i just call that nasty. :mad:

lady, your lunch does sound delish.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:08 pm

Ummm, I have an O/T that just happened at my desk. Reminded me of the reason “The Slime” decided not to see me anymore.

This older woman stops and tells me she’s loving the relationship she’s in. Met him in February, haven’t done the “do” yet, but they sleep together nekkid when they are together. She sees nothing wrong with that because she wants HIM to value her and pamper her. Penetration takes away from all he’s “supposed” to do to get to the “penetration” part of the relationship. I understand what she’s saying for the most part, but boy my head is spinning. She’s sleeping nekkid with him and foreplay is in full swing (so she says), but haven’t done the deed. She’s 62 and apparently he’s a spry 70. He wants to engage but she doesn’t just yet. She is a prima donna, stuck up, the whole nine. She says he’s not going anywhere and he’s rich. I’m realizing being rich is relative. Like NeNe says, “I’m rich bytch!”

You ask why is she telling me this? I rightly don’t know.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
12:14 pm

Well I guess I’ll grab lunch myself. I’ve got a meeting with my manager. My next project is writing (from scratch and blank stare here) a manual sort of for dummies on a particular process. Okie dokie now. She’s sent two emails saying she’s looking forward to discussing and getting ramped. Ummmm, I have no clue how or where to start…lol

I do know this, the cafe will be closed by the time we’re done…lol

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
12:15 pm

but they sleep together nekkid when they are together
that’s as far as i got. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
what are you ladies doing to me today?

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:19 pm

Guess his balls are to the walls and they’re now blue balls!

Boom Ba Da Bing!!!!

Jaded Guy

April 17th, 2012
12:21 pm

Aggressive AT CHEATING, you mean???

I’ll agree with that.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:21 pm

Leggs – I’m not close to being an ageist but the thought of a 62 and 70 year old engaging in full swing foreplay in the bed nekkid makes me cringe juuuuuuust a little bit. :shock: The fact that she’s telling you all this is only throwing a cherry on top

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
12:24 pm

I thought the problem was that she isn’t throwing the cherry on top? :lol:

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
12:26 pm

Leggs, you should have told her to give that poor old man some pdu$$y before he dies! :lol:

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
12:26 pm

what up ya’ll, headed back to Lurksville,

Leggs-She gonna kill that older gentleman, and ya’ll trippin on that “Ball to the walls” reference…lol

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:28 pm

Jaded – Just throw you balls to the wall, that’ll cool your ass down. Balls to the wall is the top home remedy in blogsville today.

swiss – Good point! I stand corrected ;-) No cherries for him but now that I think about it, at her age, even if she gave the poor old man some puddy it STILL wouldn’t include a cherry :lol:

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
12:29 pm

Actually, Jake’s probably on to something. That’s probably her plan. Get that poor old man so pent up that when she finally does give him some he has a stroke & she takes all his money.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:29 pm

I thought of Staceye’s “tinsel tubes” phrase.

All in good fun, Jake sweet peeda…all in good fun.

Good one swiss!

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
12:30 pm

Slim — True. More like a prune. :lol:

CoolShadow

April 17th, 2012
12:32 pm

Celisea/Lady/czBrat – ok ladies, got it. You look my way and blink, you therefore think I’m hot. It’s on now! :)

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:33 pm

I figured someone would say “ewww” to that post, but I sat here looking at her in amazement. Older folk getting crunked..

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:33 pm

swiss – When I read ‘prune’ the first thing that came to mind was the poor old man’s ballz :lol: But Leggs did say they are doing some serious foreplay. Maybe she likes to rub his fruit clean :lol:

Mike P

April 17th, 2012
12:35 pm

Its nothing wrong with a women being more aggressive per se, its just timing is off I think. When the woman is between the ages of 18 and 30, she getting approached by 100’s of dudes at a time, so this woman don’t go at it more aggressively. and now here this same women in her mid 40’s starting to become more aggressive, when many dudes ain’t checkin for her like that anymore, maybe 5 or 10 dudes, not like the high numbers like when she was in her twenties.

Here’s the problem she’s faced with (for the most part) I think:
(1). general inexperienced in the art of pursuit – given her age.
(2). haven’t learned the art of rejection-management – given her age.
(3). she a 3 or 4 checking for dudes 8 and 9. (from a dude’s point of view)
(4). overzealous in selling herself up (presentation). – a huge turn-off

i donno but that has been my experience with the more aggressive chick.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:36 pm

And the perfect song for the Balls to the wall would be Lil John, “From the windows to the wall, till the sweat drip off my ballz!!!” Ok, to the corner i go :oops:

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:36 pm

I take that back, they’re not getting exactly crunked.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
12:38 pm

@Slim ~ I’ve been singing that song since the balls to the wall comment….

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
12:41 pm

Where does the phrase “Balls to the Walls” come from you ask:

its actually the spinoff of another popular description of man thrusting his whole self into a woman’s vagina, the original term is, “Going Balls Deep”, as time passed, a secondary saying “Balls to the Walls” was derived from the original thought, as in putting my ball to the walls of that p#$$Y…now we continue to use the phrase at various times to mean, I am going all in…There is your Balls lesson for today ladies, brought to you by Mr. Nastyman.

Mike P

April 17th, 2012
12:42 pm

on women and their subtle hints that dudes “aren’t” seeing…

the reason is dude is checking for another chick. we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us, we are not wired that way, women are. If a man approach you after you dropped subtleties, is because he was already checking for you, most cases.

there it is… my two’s for the day!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
12:47 pm

Well well well, I go to lunch and y’all running rampant in here.

Mike P – Well that’s not what Cool Shadow said. He said opposite.

groovygramma

April 17th, 2012
12:48 pm

Nuthin wrong with older folks still enjoying themselves. I stay in shape, work out everyday and very much still have a “good time”. Just an FYI, you younguns have a lot to look forward to!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:49 pm

Jake – I just LOVE your history lessons….dang, I never really thought about it that way. I’ve officially been SCHOOLED. (And for whatever reason, I heard you tell that story in the voice of the Allstate Insurance guys voice) :lol:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
12:56 pm

we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us
generally speaking, i’m not too concerned with what the dude wants (or thinks he wants). mine is but to let him know that he probably won’t get shot down IF he does approach. if you play your role and i play mine, all things will be as they should.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
12:56 pm

Awwwwwwwwwww snap, groovy! That’s what I’m talking about! Go on with your bad self!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
12:58 pm

Slim-you know I consider myself a public servant, wouldn’t want you ladies to be conversing about Balls in an uninformed manner…lol

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
12:58 pm

*wink* cool shadow! ;)

groovygramma

April 17th, 2012
1:02 pm

@ swiss…..that’s right…you’re as young as you feel….and I feel great!

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
1:04 pm

I bet you do, groovy. I bet you do… ;-) :lol:

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:05 pm

Balls to the wall is a term used by pilots. When accelerating quickly, the throttle is pushed all the way to the panel and the throttle lever (ball) actually touches the panel (wall). Hence, balls to the wall.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
1:07 pm

No offense, Leggs, but I like Jake’s version better. :lol:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
1:07 pm

Where does the phrase “Balls to the Walls” come from you ask:

its actually the spinoff of another popular description of man thrusting his whole self into a woman’s vagina,
it’s pilot terminology, but i identify so much more with jake’s explanation.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:08 pm

“the reason is dude is checking for another chick. we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us, we are not wired that way, women are – Not even a true statement.

Sometimes, often enough, the dude really doesn’t see the clues. And many dudes actually do go after someone they found out likes them!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
1:13 pm

Pay Leggs no attention, she has no clue what she is talkin about…lol.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:13 pm

I thought just about everyone thought of Jake’s definition when hearing that phrase. Balls to the wall = some damn good stroking/thrusting.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
1:14 pm

That’s age and lack of experience speaking…..especially speaking so matter of factly —–> the reason is dude is checking for another chick. we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us, we are not wired that way, women are

I think mostly all of us know better because we’ve experienced it.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:15 pm

Another way to look at it is say your boss bellows for you. He lights into you and takes a chomp out your a$$. You come out telling your friends “damn, that mofo just threw my balls to the wall.”

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:15 pm

Leggs – Your explanation puts me in the mind of Peddle to the Metal….but yeah, I think i’ll stick with Mr. Nastymans version ;-) lol

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:18 pm

i identify so much more with jake’s explanation

cz – Um, so someone has been ‘balls deep’ in that thang before? :lol: Sorry I could’t resist. I’m surprised swiss didn’t hop on that.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:19 pm

Who knew ‘balls to the wall’ had some many different meanings. lol

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:20 pm

Slim – That’s what I was thinking, Pedal to the Metal!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:21 pm

And speaking earlier of the old couple sleeping nekkid, check out this story: http://shine.yahoo.com/vitality/94-old-billionaire-marries-fifth-time-old-rich-171900363.html 94 year old billionaire about to marry for 5th time and wants more kids. :shock:

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:22 pm

:lol: Exactly, Celisea!!! (1:14)

Willie Dynamite

April 17th, 2012
1:22 pm

Afternoon All,

Easing in late, taking a seat in the back while not trying to interrupt the lecture. Thinking to myself dayum a pilot I like where the fellas taking this discussion.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
1:23 pm

leggs, jake’s version was new to me. i always relate that term to my past life in timeshare sales. we were told to throw all the packs on the wall and see what sticks.

someone has been ‘balls deep’ in that thang before?
but of course, slim. i mean, if he ain’t gonna go all out, why bother? :oops:

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
1:25 pm

Well sir Mike P “we go after what we want” say it ain’t so!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:25 pm

Slim/czB/swiss ~ nothing wrong in being diversed in the different meanings. Now you know the original meaning, as well as the more popular meaning. :lol: :lol: :cool:

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
1:26 pm

is because he was already checking for you, most cases.<<<<<<<<<<I so heard this before in another life time! #wow Men speak universal language!!!! O_o

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:27 pm

Slim – He can dream on, but ole girl ain’t having no babies!LOL!! He’s a cute little man! She won’t tell her age, but she looks late 50’s to me.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

So I guess all his plumbing still works down there…wow!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

Men do go after what they want alright. So if they want to be a “kept” man and let the woman do all the work, that’s what they go for. It’s plenty that will oblige. Those that want to be the hunter will do that too. It’s somebody out there for everyone!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

Are there pedals in the co**ckpit? Thought it was full of trottles and levers and a bunch of gauges (lololol).

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:31 pm

kimmie – If he’s having a hard time deciding how to blow that money, um…i’m sure I could think of a few ways :lol: 5,4,3,2….

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:32 pm

I know this may come as a surprise to some of you but Slim’s never been inside a cockpit

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:33 pm

Leggs, you are really stirring the pot, girl!LOL!!!

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
1:33 pm

That is what I was thinking too Kimmie sigh!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:34 pm

Slim – Someone blogging behind that story said “adopt me, I don’t even need to be potty-trained”!LOL!!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:39 pm

In fact, yeah, he could adopt me, especially since he wants more “kids”!LOL! That would be great! Then I wouldn’t have to worry about having to “do the do” with him! :shock:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
1:43 pm

awww. i know we’re getting topics jumbled, but slim just took me back to those international flights when i was a kid and, yes, the stewardess’ let well-behaved kiddies see the cockpit and get little pin-on wings. :grin:

well said, kimmie. it’s perfectly aight for a dude to look over my head and eyeball the chick at the bar. we each find the yin to our yang and fall into cadence.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:49 pm

kimmie – that only thing about that though is home boy just may live another 100yrs. He may have the same doctors that cured Magic Johnson back in the day. :lol:

cz – I always eyed the cockpit from 1st class whenever I was afforded that opportunity…just never got the ‘official’ tour ;-)

Willie Dynamite

April 17th, 2012
1:49 pm

Kimmie – 1:30 and the exact same for women. Hence Trophy Wives, mistresses, etc etc

DJ Sniper

April 17th, 2012
1:51 pm

I’ve never had a problem with women who make the first move. Contrary to what a lot of people think, just because a woman makes the first move, that doesn’t automatically set the tone for anything that may happen in the future.

I’ve also heard women say stuff like “if he didn’t see me, that means he wasn’t interested.” Um, what kind of logic is that? It’s very possible that you can be giving out all the subtle hints in the world, but the man simply doesn’t see you in the room. In situations like that, what do you have to lose by going up and simply introducing yourself?

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:51 pm

Willie – Oh yeah, the Trophy Wives didn’t marry themselves!LOL!! Somebody wanted what they were selling!

C from Marietta

April 17th, 2012
1:54 pm

LOL
Reading all you ladies drum about what guys do and don’t. Also, how they think etc..
Don’t you realize every guy is different. Sure, you have the dominent males that think they need to hit on every women they see. However, you also have guys with brains and don’t think about sex soley. If you find us cute, then come talk to us. When I meet a friend at the pub. I don’t always go to the pub to pick up women. This is not make me lazy or entitled. It means I like to focus on my company. NOT let’s see if we score on spring break.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
1:55 pm

The “cockpit”, also a vagina reference…lol.

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:55 pm

DJ – Yeah, but according to one blogger, if you’re 40+ dudes are not checking you like that anymore! And it’s assumed she has poor “rejection management” skills! LOL!!

Just clowning, like your post!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:57 pm

C – Are you a college student? (reference to spring break)

C from Marietta

April 17th, 2012
1:59 pm

Hey Slim,

No, just out of college. I have friends that treat every night about the bar like it’s spring break. Trying to be funny :-) .

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:00 pm

@kimmie ~ I like stirring the pot (lol).

@Lady ~ you ok? Why you sighing.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:01 pm

C – Oh ok, cool beans.

Jake – Frank and beans – another ‘cockpit’ reference ;-) :lol:

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
2:01 pm

C – I understand. Back when I was single, a lot of times I would go out with my friends just to hang out with them and catch up. Not to be “picked up”. When dudes would approach me, I’d let them know that, in a very nice way. :wink:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:02 pm

Random – That birthday cake song has really grown on me. (Rihanna & Chris Brown) :oops:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

according to one blogger, if you’re 40+ dudes are not checking you like that anymore!

Yes and they’re doomed to spend the rest of their lives single….living witg a bunch of cats… :lol:

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

I’m only hoping C from Marietts is in college cause it would be a darn shame if a grown man still going to south beach with the kiddies…lol They talked about that on The Bert Show 35 and old still going to spring break….WITH THE COLLEGE KIDS

Yep Kimmie said it…according to some, life ends at 39 :| I guess it’s a figment then when I’m picked up for dinner

Not touching the balls to the wall convo….nope

And yes we realize every man is different, as is every woman. If we have to see you all individually and adjust ourselves accordingly, then so should you (men). Come original each time you see a lady and decide to approach.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

*with*…mea culpa

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

kimmie – Yeah, that’s how my friends and I were. We went out for a good time, not to be hunted.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:06 pm

That birthday cake song has really grown on me.

I like it,too. I think it’s catchy and fun for the club…

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
2:07 pm

Sassy – What was that dudes name that would come on talking about women over 30 that were not married were doomed to a life with a housefull of cats? Stanley? He was a riot!!!LOL!!!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:09 pm

Speaking of cats, I saw this bumper sticker a while ago. It read, “I’m one bad relationship away from having 30 cats”. Stan may have been the culprit behind that one lol

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:13 pm

Leggs Venus and Msrs….Men and Women tomato tomoto………………… that is all all is good with me sis! thanks!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:14 pm

I need a snack sho nuff…I’m feening almost for something anything…trail mix even

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:14 pm

That’s who it was Kimmie…Stanley something or other.

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:15 pm

yes you can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;) LOL!

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:16 pm

Mars that is !

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:18 pm

Lady – I’m heading down shortly. I will try to keep it light…trailmix or something.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:24 pm

Lady – Boy oh boy oh boy….too bad I can’t. I just wish that I could…lol. IF….you know what I mean…wink wink

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:28 pm

;) liquid courage if you drop that diet coke for a texas margarita hahahah don’t be scared! lo j/k

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:30 pm

The “cockpit”, also a vagina reference…lol.

Dang, I let that one get away. You’re right, Jake sweet peeda!

Now WLBs, we are being a tad bit too aggressive with all this balls to the walls, and agreeing with other spinoffs comments. We must be a bit more demure.

{{Leggs, Leggs, wake up!}}

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:34 pm

@Celisea ~ I have a bag of Almonds…want some?

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:36 pm

Leggs – Definitely…I LOVE nuts. Cashews at the top of the list. Dr Oz said almonds are the best nuts for you.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

I have a bag of Almonds…want some?

Sounds like something swiss would offer (sorry lol)

Well, we’ve pretty much beaten the balls to the wall to the wall so what’s next? :D (Slim getting pretty restless right aboutttttttt, Now!)

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

no pun intended, no pun intended, no pun intended

Ey, whatever happened to Row 125 and his hookup? Or was someone just feeding the blog some fuel? LOL

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

@Slim ~ again wasn’t thinking. So glad I didn’t say I had a bag of nuts!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

Ex should be making an appearance shortly.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
2:40 pm

” I’m surprised swiss didn’t hop on that.”

Why do you think she can identify, Slim? :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:40 pm

Definitely…I LOVE nuts.

Me,too albeit they’re kinda fatty so you have to watch how many you eat…almonds and walnuts are said to be some of the best but I like pumpkin seeds as well.

I’m sure Swiss/ Uni-Baller has some kind of nut reference he’s itching to post

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:41 pm

@Celisea ~ had to laugh when I read your comment. I said oh boy…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

Or was someone just feeding the blog some fuel?

Usually that’s all it is Celi…a regular tryna start sumthin..

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

interesting~!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:44 pm

“Me,too albeit they’re kinda fatty so you have to watch how many you eat”

@Sassy ~ I swear I thought you were talking nuts with them being fatty and all. I am cracking up over here.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
2:44 pm

How did you know my nuts nut were was itching, Sassy?

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:46 pm

Swiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol yall be easy! peace!

C Yes you can! ;)

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:46 pm

Sassy – It is a regular. I’m convinced. You got a chick “2 floors down, 10 departments away” and you’re on a blog asking for help…naaaah not buying…still if they wanna give us a laugh and spark the convo, hey I’m a good reader…lol

Sassy – Dr Oz also recommended pumpkin seeds. Fatty? I just stop buy cashews because once I open a can, they’re as good as gone.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:47 pm

Lady – I’m good…lol

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:52 pm

Fatty nuts huh? :lol:

I had brownies with walnuts just last week, with a scoop of ice cream and a drizzle of chocolate fudge. Mmm mmm goood

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
2:56 pm

Slim…that Cake song is currently a Mr. Nastyman favorite as well, “its not even her birthday, but I wanna lick the icing off”…its definitely a jam…and it helps that we know CB has been “Balls Deep” in RiRi’s “cockpit”.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:58 pm

Leggs I was..seriously nuts are good for you but in very small quantities. That being said, I was smiling as I typed that b/c it can be misconstrued/interpreted so many ways…but I was being legit originally.

It is a regular. I’m convinced

I was always convinced Celi…and it’s usually the same culprit.

How did you know my nut were itching

Swiss…that one nut has to do the work for his “phantom twin” as well so there’s no telling what’s going on with lil…does it/he have a name? ;-) :lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:00 pm

Jake – What a way to tie in all the random topics today, together. I must admit that sometimes I get a very strong energy from RiRi but not quite BUTCHY though. In her case, she maybe putting her walls to the balls…it’s humping like that, that make a dude go crazy on dat ass. :lol:

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:01 pm

Here’s some sexy right here:

Ain’t this what you came for
Don’t you wish you came, oh
Girl what you’re playing for
Come on, let me kiss that
Ooh, I know you miss that
What’s wrong, let me fix that
Twist that

Baby, tonight’s the night I let you know
Baby, tonight’s the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight i’ll be the best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I hit you with the best flow,
Freestlying in the restroom
Til you blowing cigarette smoke
And now the bad’s gone
So what we gon’ do now
F-ck it, round two now
Work it out, then we cool down
Cool down

Baby, tonight’s the night I let you know
Baby, tonight’s the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight i’ll be the best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

Baby, tonight’s the night I let you know
Baby, tonight’s the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight i’ll be the best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:02 pm

does it/he have a name? OMG :lol: :lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:03 pm

I hit you with the best flow,
Freestlying in the restroom
Til you blowing cigarette smoke
Heyal yeah, i’m feeling some kinda way bout that right there. :oops:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

John got down with that one Celi…

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

Ahhhhh yeah…first time I heard that I was like mmm mmm mmm

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:06 pm

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:06 pm

Sassy – YES HE DID!!!!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Aight, speaking of sexy songs…from a hip-hop perspective, is there anyone better than LLCoolJ, dude got several songs that instantly make you want sex from somebody…”I’m Gone Love you Better” comes to mind here…

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
3:10 pm

I’m not a John Legend fan, but I heard this song last week and the words captivated me. Nice lyrics.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

every time i hear that legend tune i get to missin the mister.

THANX a lot, celisea!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

He’s just such a sexy singer…mmm mmm mmm

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

Ladies…ya’ll like John Legend “like that”….cause he seems extremely suspect to me.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

czBrat – Mmm hmmm, he has that effect.

Jake – His singing. Yes yes yes….SEXY

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

Sassy — Some call him the Round Mound of Puddy Pound. :lol:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

nothing puts me in the mood like “diary of a mad band”. pretty much any cut from that album makes me relax the knees just a lil bit.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

I agree Leggs…he’s put out a hit or two I like but this song right here is my fav.

Jake I like that song LL has with the hook: Doin it, and doin it and doin it well…

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:16 pm

Speaking of LL, can’t forget about “Doing It’

It’s the first time together and I’m feeling kinda h0rny
Conventional methods of making love kinda bore me
I wanna knock your block off
Get my rocks off
Blow your socks off
Make sure your G spot’s soft

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:16 pm

Sassy – we are :-D

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

@Jake ~ I don’t care for John Legend. It’s like he snuck in here impersonating Marvin Gaye or someone.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

I like John Legend :) I like just about anything he drops. I like the sultry in his voice and songs

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

I like the song Jake…the man ain’t exactly my cup o’tea. I need an alpha male…like the one I got..

Swiss LOL @ the Round Mound!!!!!

It almost sound like he needs a cape and some theme music :lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

meant to say “here”

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

pretty much any cut from that album makes me relax the knees just a lil bit.

Well alrighty then cz…I hear you mami ;-)

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

I’m getting out of here today…I didnt leave yesterday until 6:53 NOT TODAY

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

i luv john’s music. great live permorfer too.
he reminds me of what carl thomas could have been. :shock:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
3:22 pm

:lol: @ sassy.
juicy fruit, indeed!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
3:22 pm

Nobody can touch LL, love that man, his songs and his muscles!!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
3:26 pm

Got a whopping 83 cents on this old Starbucks card I found in my desk drawer!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:26 pm

I know right?! What ever happened to Carl Thomas?….cause his cd is the shiit! That’s something you can play from start to finish…and repeat. Lord know I done killt a few to that one…

cz we’re >>>here<<< :lol:

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
3:26 pm

“You know I need your love
You’ve got that hold over me
Long as I’ve got your love
You know that I’ll never leave
When I wanted you to share my life
I had no doubt in my mind
And it’s been you, woman
Right down the line”

There’s a little white boy groove for your listening pleasure, ladies. DJ Swiss sending that one out as a special dedication the bestest wifey ever. :-)

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:31 pm

cz-Carl Thomas was a casualty of Diddy, that Emotional CD goes into my panty dropper Hall of Fame, right next to the Isley’s Mission To Please, and the 1st K-Ci&JoJo album, I was knocking them down left and right during those days….Carl Thomas should have been so much more successful

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
3:32 pm

swiss, that happens to be a personal fave of this chocolate drop chica.
couldn’t be too picky growing up on armed forces radio.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:35 pm

that Emotional CD goes into my panty dropper Hall of Fame

Well it’s in my Hall of Fame,too as well as that Isley Brother’s Mission to Please and some old skool Isley Brothers (Atlantis, Footsteps in the Dark, Hello it’s Me, etc)….I take my work seriously and when I go in…I go iiiiiin :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:37 pm

I was knocking them down left and right during those days….Carl Thomas should have been so much more successful

As I’ve said…I done killt me a few to that Emotional cd….as I reminisce…

My $.02..

April 17th, 2012
3:39 pm

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
3:40 pm

Did Carl Thomas sing that song – Cause if you love someone, you just don’t treat them bad, I just need time to see, where I wanna be?

I heard that yesterday.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:42 pm

Sassy…Go Online, or go pick up this CD….The Isley Brothers…Beautiful Ballads…it has all of the old school classics….i bought that CD in 1995, I still have it, and its still in rotation for sexy cook together nights and such.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:43 pm

Kimmie-that Donell Jones

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
3:44 pm

Brat — Gerry Rafferty is highly underrated IMO…

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
3:44 pm

Thanks Jake, I forgot about him!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
3:46 pm

Swiss – I like your song too! I heard it not too long ago. I listen to everything!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:46 pm

Jake…I have that one…I don’t play.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:49 pm

that Donell Jones

He is sooo under rated….but please, please y’all don’t sleep on Joe…he is sooo smoooth. I’ve always liked his music…he’s sincere and nasty at the same time but he’s so slick with it if you listening to slow you’ll miss it…

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
3:55 pm

Sassy:

“Nothing can be sweeter, than the SOUND…OF…MA-KIN LOVE!!”

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:59 pm

I hear you Sassy who doesn’t play….I guess the name is an exact fit, but sorry I cannot do Joe…but he has gotten progressively better. He is like Brian McKnight…They have core fans, will always be around, but nothing they do will be overtly impressive.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
4:02 pm

Fun fact, a certain caucasion singer used to be called Brian McWhite because he was Brian McKnight’s writer….(Robin Thicke)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:02 pm

Kimmie!!!!!!!

Gurl you already know!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!

SassaFrass blog hollering like cwazy

His latest cd: The Good, The Bad, The Sexy is too much…I think I played song #6 (Dear Joe) like three or four times when I first heard it…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

I hear you Jake and I understand…I’ve always enjoyed Joe and I think he has gotten better with time. I get lost in his lyrics…damn I want to listen to him right now actually…

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:07 pm

Are there any sexy Country songs? :???:

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
4:08 pm

Now Brian McNight I have never been able to stomach much. Too much of a combo whine/moan style of singing!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:08 pm

Oh, and Honky Tonk Badoncka Dock doesn’t count

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:09 pm

Brian McNight I have never been able to stomach much.

Me,either…blehh

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
4:09 pm

I will say that Joe is part of one of my all time favorite R&B songs…He and Case…”Faded Pictures”

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:16 pm

That’s a nice jam pha sho Jake…Case had a few ballads I liked,too…

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
4:18 pm

yes, jake! “faded pictures” and “missing you” put me in time out every time.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:21 pm

Don’t forget “Happily Ever After”, cz..

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
4:26 pm

Sassy…Case put together one of those timeless wedding songs with “Happily Ever After”, that song will be here forever.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
4:27 pm

Oh, and how can I forget? This one always gets Mrs. Swiss in the mood:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=geV8SmVhs0U

“Sucking on my t!tt!es like you wanted me
Calling me, all the time like Blondie
Check out my chrissy behind
It’s fine all of the time
Like sex on the beaches
What else is in the teaches of peaches? Huh? What?”

:lol:

(With her accent, it’s funny to hear the Mrs sing the “sucking on my t!tt!es” part…) :lol:

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
4:33 pm

Okay, new topic, who is your favorite music group that nobody who knows you would realize you like….Red Hot Chili Peppers for me, I was listening to Californication the other day, and my boy Tim McGraw be jamming too.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:33 pm

swiss – I always like that song!!! Every time I hear it, I think of the Jackass movie where Johnny Knoxville is dressed up like the old man with his ‘fake balls’ hanging out of his shawt shorts

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
4:33 pm

and since i’m thinking bout it, lemme just throw out there the one OVER-rated singer whose music i have never really liked.
the infamous mr. robert kelly. :mad:

get home safely, all.

ciao!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

Okay skimming…did someone mention Brian McNight? I used to like him but all the rolls in his song IMO takes away from the essence. You ain’t gotta prove like that, that you can lay it down. I heard him on some rerun show and it was NOT the same as hearing him years ago.

Y’all on a roll I see.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

who is your favorite music group that nobody who knows you would realize you like
nickelback
yes. i said nickelback!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

Kings of Leon
Staind
Creed
and….cough cough Day 26 (when they were a group) lol

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
4:36 pm

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:36 pm

cz – Did you hear that R Kelly is going to add some more stories to that long drawn out Trapped in the Closet series??

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:37 pm

who is your favorite music group that nobody who knows you would realize you like

Maroon 5…I wanna do the lead singer….don’t judge me…

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
4:37 pm

Chester

Glad I wore my rain jacket because it’s thundering and the rain will be here shortly

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:38 pm

I like that song by Audio Push called Up & Down too

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
4:38 pm

Slim — That song is also in a great scene from Lost In Translation, too. It’s a scene in a Japanese strip club, with a skrippa upside down w/ her t!tt!es all flopping around… :lol:

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
4:39 pm

OneRepublic, The Script, Maroon 5

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:39 pm

yes. i said nickelback!

cosign….

That song ” I miss youuuuuuuu” had me when I used to watch Laguna Beach on Mtv…yeah I said it Laguna Beach

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
4:40 pm

Okay this weather and all this slow poke music means I need to leave here and call HIM…

I think Imma dj tonight :oops:

Read y’all tomorrow.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:44 pm

swiss – I don’t think i’ve seen that movie. Just might have to check it out

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
4:45 pm

I don’t know that there’s anything that would surprise anybody that knows me. I have such weird taste, I don’t think anything would be shocking. Probably the most “out of place” would be something like The System — man, I used to jam to “Don’t Disturb This Groove” back in middle school… :lol:

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
4:46 pm

Slim — Here’s one of my favorite scenes from that movie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQnH450hPM

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
4:47 pm

“For relaxing times, make it…. Santori Time”

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
4:47 pm

no, slim. hadn’t heard that. and really couldn’t care much less about it. just smdh.
how does such depravity gain so much kudos?

also REALLY like kelly clarkston.

and most who think they know me would probably be surprised by how much i like bebe & cece’s music.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:51 pm

cz – Yeah I feel ya. I definitely felt some kinda way after seeing that home video :shock:

swiss – Is that video work friendly

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
4:51 pm

Slim — Yes. No t!tt!es in that clip. :lol:

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
4:53 pm

Swiss…that’s a jam, “Don’t Disturb this Groove”

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
4:57 pm

Maroon 5, Lenny K, and on another front…I sometimes listen to Big Band Jazz, I prefer Duke & Basie, over contemporary stuff.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:57 pm

Oh yeah love that song, Don’t disturb this groove….Yall remember PM Dawn, “Set Adrift on Memory bliss of you”??

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
4:57 pm

swiss – you know I have to always do the check with you before I go pulling up stuff all willy nilly :lol:

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
5:05 pm

I would have been offended if you didn’t ask, Slim. ;-) :lol: