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Are women today too aggressive?

I know guys that are generally surprised whenever a woman approaches them. There are men that can appreciate the type of woman who takes the bull by the horn. Then there are others that think a woman loses her femininity when she flips the script.

Women are more apt to approach and even pursue guys these days but are women too aggressive? Alpha men are respected and admired, but women have to show that they can find a balance

When a woman is more aggressive, does it mean she can’t let a man take the lead?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

275 comments Add your comment

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:00 pm

@kimmie ~ I like stirring the pot (lol).

@Lady ~ you ok? Why you sighing.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:01 pm

C – Oh ok, cool beans.

Jake – Frank and beans – another ‘cockpit’ reference ;-) :lol:

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
2:01 pm

C – I understand. Back when I was single, a lot of times I would go out with my friends just to hang out with them and catch up. Not to be “picked up”. When dudes would approach me, I’d let them know that, in a very nice way. :wink:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:02 pm

Random – That birthday cake song has really grown on me. (Rihanna & Chris Brown) :oops:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

according to one blogger, if you’re 40+ dudes are not checking you like that anymore!

Yes and they’re doomed to spend the rest of their lives single….living witg a bunch of cats… :lol:

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

I’m only hoping C from Marietts is in college cause it would be a darn shame if a grown man still going to south beach with the kiddies…lol They talked about that on The Bert Show 35 and old still going to spring break….WITH THE COLLEGE KIDS

Yep Kimmie said it…according to some, life ends at 39 :| I guess it’s a figment then when I’m picked up for dinner

Not touching the balls to the wall convo….nope

And yes we realize every man is different, as is every woman. If we have to see you all individually and adjust ourselves accordingly, then so should you (men). Come original each time you see a lady and decide to approach.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

*with*…mea culpa

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:03 pm

kimmie – Yeah, that’s how my friends and I were. We went out for a good time, not to be hunted.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:06 pm

That birthday cake song has really grown on me.

I like it,too. I think it’s catchy and fun for the club…

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
2:07 pm

Sassy – What was that dudes name that would come on talking about women over 30 that were not married were doomed to a life with a housefull of cats? Stanley? He was a riot!!!LOL!!!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:09 pm

Speaking of cats, I saw this bumper sticker a while ago. It read, “I’m one bad relationship away from having 30 cats”. Stan may have been the culprit behind that one lol

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:13 pm

Leggs Venus and Msrs….Men and Women tomato tomoto………………… that is all all is good with me sis! thanks!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:14 pm

I need a snack sho nuff…I’m feening almost for something anything…trail mix even

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:14 pm

That’s who it was Kimmie…Stanley something or other.

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:15 pm

yes you can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;) LOL!

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:16 pm

Mars that is !

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:18 pm

Lady – I’m heading down shortly. I will try to keep it light…trailmix or something.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:24 pm

Lady – Boy oh boy oh boy….too bad I can’t. I just wish that I could…lol. IF….you know what I mean…wink wink

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:28 pm

;) liquid courage if you drop that diet coke for a texas margarita hahahah don’t be scared! lo j/k

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:30 pm

The “cockpit”, also a vagina reference…lol.

Dang, I let that one get away. You’re right, Jake sweet peeda!

Now WLBs, we are being a tad bit too aggressive with all this balls to the walls, and agreeing with other spinoffs comments. We must be a bit more demure.

{{Leggs, Leggs, wake up!}}

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:34 pm

@Celisea ~ I have a bag of Almonds…want some?

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:36 pm

Leggs – Definitely…I LOVE nuts. Cashews at the top of the list. Dr Oz said almonds are the best nuts for you.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

I have a bag of Almonds…want some?

Sounds like something swiss would offer (sorry lol)

Well, we’ve pretty much beaten the balls to the wall to the wall so what’s next? :D (Slim getting pretty restless right aboutttttttt, Now!)

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

no pun intended, no pun intended, no pun intended

Ey, whatever happened to Row 125 and his hookup? Or was someone just feeding the blog some fuel? LOL

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

@Slim ~ again wasn’t thinking. So glad I didn’t say I had a bag of nuts!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

Ex should be making an appearance shortly.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
2:40 pm

” I’m surprised swiss didn’t hop on that.”

Why do you think she can identify, Slim? :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:40 pm

Definitely…I LOVE nuts.

Me,too albeit they’re kinda fatty so you have to watch how many you eat…almonds and walnuts are said to be some of the best but I like pumpkin seeds as well.

I’m sure Swiss/ Uni-Baller has some kind of nut reference he’s itching to post

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:41 pm

@Celisea ~ had to laugh when I read your comment. I said oh boy…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

Or was someone just feeding the blog some fuel?

Usually that’s all it is Celi…a regular tryna start sumthin..

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

interesting~!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
2:44 pm

“Me,too albeit they’re kinda fatty so you have to watch how many you eat”

@Sassy ~ I swear I thought you were talking nuts with them being fatty and all. I am cracking up over here.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
2:44 pm

How did you know my nuts nut were was itching, Sassy?

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
2:46 pm

Swiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol yall be easy! peace!

C Yes you can! ;)

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:46 pm

Sassy – It is a regular. I’m convinced. You got a chick “2 floors down, 10 departments away” and you’re on a blog asking for help…naaaah not buying…still if they wanna give us a laugh and spark the convo, hey I’m a good reader…lol

Sassy – Dr Oz also recommended pumpkin seeds. Fatty? I just stop buy cashews because once I open a can, they’re as good as gone.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
2:47 pm

Lady – I’m good…lol

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
2:52 pm

Fatty nuts huh? :lol:

I had brownies with walnuts just last week, with a scoop of ice cream and a drizzle of chocolate fudge. Mmm mmm goood

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
2:56 pm

Slim…that Cake song is currently a Mr. Nastyman favorite as well, “its not even her birthday, but I wanna lick the icing off”…its definitely a jam…and it helps that we know CB has been “Balls Deep” in RiRi’s “cockpit”.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
2:58 pm

Leggs I was..seriously nuts are good for you but in very small quantities. That being said, I was smiling as I typed that b/c it can be misconstrued/interpreted so many ways…but I was being legit originally.

It is a regular. I’m convinced

I was always convinced Celi…and it’s usually the same culprit.

How did you know my nut were itching

Swiss…that one nut has to do the work for his “phantom twin” as well so there’s no telling what’s going on with lil…does it/he have a name? ;-) :lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:00 pm

Jake – What a way to tie in all the random topics today, together. I must admit that sometimes I get a very strong energy from RiRi but not quite BUTCHY though. In her case, she maybe putting her walls to the balls…it’s humping like that, that make a dude go crazy on dat ass. :lol:

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:01 pm

Here’s some sexy right here:

Ain’t this what you came for
Don’t you wish you came, oh
Girl what you’re playing for
Come on, let me kiss that
Ooh, I know you miss that
What’s wrong, let me fix that
Twist that

Baby, tonight’s the night I let you know
Baby, tonight’s the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight i’ll be the best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I hit you with the best flow,
Freestlying in the restroom
Til you blowing cigarette smoke
And now the bad’s gone
So what we gon’ do now
F-ck it, round two now
Work it out, then we cool down
Cool down

Baby, tonight’s the night I let you know
Baby, tonight’s the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight i’ll be the best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

Baby, tonight’s the night I let you know
Baby, tonight’s the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight i’ll be the best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

I don’t wanna brag, but i’ll be
The best you ever had

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:02 pm

does it/he have a name? OMG :lol: :lol:

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
3:03 pm

I hit you with the best flow,
Freestlying in the restroom
Til you blowing cigarette smoke
Heyal yeah, i’m feeling some kinda way bout that right there. :oops:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

John got down with that one Celi…

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

Ahhhhh yeah…first time I heard that I was like mmm mmm mmm

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

April 17th, 2012
3:06 pm

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
3:06 pm

Sassy – YES HE DID!!!!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Aight, speaking of sexy songs…from a hip-hop perspective, is there anyone better than LLCoolJ, dude got several songs that instantly make you want sex from somebody…”I’m Gone Love you Better” comes to mind here…

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
3:10 pm

I’m not a John Legend fan, but I heard this song last week and the words captivated me. Nice lyrics.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

every time i hear that legend tune i get to missin the mister.

THANX a lot, celisea!