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Are women today too aggressive?

I know guys that are generally surprised whenever a woman approaches them. There are men that can appreciate the type of woman who takes the bull by the horn. Then there are others that think a woman loses her femininity when she flips the script.

Women are more apt to approach and even pursue guys these days but are women too aggressive? Alpha men are respected and admired, but women have to show that they can find a balance

When a woman is more aggressive, does it mean she can’t let a man take the lead?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Blog

275 comments Add your comment

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
12:41 pm

Where does the phrase “Balls to the Walls” come from you ask:

its actually the spinoff of another popular description of man thrusting his whole self into a woman’s vagina, the original term is, “Going Balls Deep”, as time passed, a secondary saying “Balls to the Walls” was derived from the original thought, as in putting my ball to the walls of that p#$$Y…now we continue to use the phrase at various times to mean, I am going all in…There is your Balls lesson for today ladies, brought to you by Mr. Nastyman.

Mike P

April 17th, 2012
12:42 pm

on women and their subtle hints that dudes “aren’t” seeing…

the reason is dude is checking for another chick. we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us, we are not wired that way, women are. If a man approach you after you dropped subtleties, is because he was already checking for you, most cases.

there it is… my two’s for the day!

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
12:47 pm

Well well well, I go to lunch and y’all running rampant in here.

Mike P – Well that’s not what Cool Shadow said. He said opposite.

groovygramma

April 17th, 2012
12:48 pm

Nuthin wrong with older folks still enjoying themselves. I stay in shape, work out everyday and very much still have a “good time”. Just an FYI, you younguns have a lot to look forward to!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
12:49 pm

Jake – I just LOVE your history lessons….dang, I never really thought about it that way. I’ve officially been SCHOOLED. (And for whatever reason, I heard you tell that story in the voice of the Allstate Insurance guys voice) :lol:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
12:56 pm

we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us
generally speaking, i’m not too concerned with what the dude wants (or thinks he wants). mine is but to let him know that he probably won’t get shot down IF he does approach. if you play your role and i play mine, all things will be as they should.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
12:56 pm

Awwwwwwwwwww snap, groovy! That’s what I’m talking about! Go on with your bad self!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
12:58 pm

Slim-you know I consider myself a public servant, wouldn’t want you ladies to be conversing about Balls in an uninformed manner…lol

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
12:58 pm

*wink* cool shadow! ;)

groovygramma

April 17th, 2012
1:02 pm

@ swiss…..that’s right…you’re as young as you feel….and I feel great!

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
1:04 pm

I bet you do, groovy. I bet you do… ;-) :lol:

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:05 pm

Balls to the wall is a term used by pilots. When accelerating quickly, the throttle is pushed all the way to the panel and the throttle lever (ball) actually touches the panel (wall). Hence, balls to the wall.

i'm swiss

April 17th, 2012
1:07 pm

No offense, Leggs, but I like Jake’s version better. :lol:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
1:07 pm

Where does the phrase “Balls to the Walls” come from you ask:

its actually the spinoff of another popular description of man thrusting his whole self into a woman’s vagina,
it’s pilot terminology, but i identify so much more with jake’s explanation.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:08 pm

“the reason is dude is checking for another chick. we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us, we are not wired that way, women are – Not even a true statement.

Sometimes, often enough, the dude really doesn’t see the clues. And many dudes actually do go after someone they found out likes them!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
1:13 pm

Pay Leggs no attention, she has no clue what she is talkin about…lol.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:13 pm

I thought just about everyone thought of Jake’s definition when hearing that phrase. Balls to the wall = some damn good stroking/thrusting.

Celisea

April 17th, 2012
1:14 pm

That’s age and lack of experience speaking…..especially speaking so matter of factly —–> the reason is dude is checking for another chick. we go after what we want, and not just someone we think like us, we are not wired that way, women are

I think mostly all of us know better because we’ve experienced it.

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:15 pm

Another way to look at it is say your boss bellows for you. He lights into you and takes a chomp out your a$$. You come out telling your friends “damn, that mofo just threw my balls to the wall.”

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:15 pm

Leggs – Your explanation puts me in the mind of Peddle to the Metal….but yeah, I think i’ll stick with Mr. Nastymans version ;-) lol

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:18 pm

i identify so much more with jake’s explanation

cz – Um, so someone has been ‘balls deep’ in that thang before? :lol: Sorry I could’t resist. I’m surprised swiss didn’t hop on that.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:19 pm

Who knew ‘balls to the wall’ had some many different meanings. lol

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:20 pm

Slim – That’s what I was thinking, Pedal to the Metal!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:21 pm

And speaking earlier of the old couple sleeping nekkid, check out this story: http://shine.yahoo.com/vitality/94-old-billionaire-marries-fifth-time-old-rich-171900363.html 94 year old billionaire about to marry for 5th time and wants more kids. :shock:

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:22 pm

:lol: Exactly, Celisea!!! (1:14)

Willie Dynamite

April 17th, 2012
1:22 pm

Afternoon All,

Easing in late, taking a seat in the back while not trying to interrupt the lecture. Thinking to myself dayum a pilot I like where the fellas taking this discussion.

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
1:23 pm

leggs, jake’s version was new to me. i always relate that term to my past life in timeshare sales. we were told to throw all the packs on the wall and see what sticks.

someone has been ‘balls deep’ in that thang before?
but of course, slim. i mean, if he ain’t gonna go all out, why bother? :oops:

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
1:25 pm

Well sir Mike P “we go after what we want” say it ain’t so!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:25 pm

Slim/czB/swiss ~ nothing wrong in being diversed in the different meanings. Now you know the original meaning, as well as the more popular meaning. :lol: :lol: :cool:

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
1:26 pm

is because he was already checking for you, most cases.<<<<<<<<<<I so heard this before in another life time! #wow Men speak universal language!!!! O_o

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:27 pm

Slim – He can dream on, but ole girl ain’t having no babies!LOL!! He’s a cute little man! She won’t tell her age, but she looks late 50’s to me.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

So I guess all his plumbing still works down there…wow!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

Men do go after what they want alright. So if they want to be a “kept” man and let the woman do all the work, that’s what they go for. It’s plenty that will oblige. Those that want to be the hunter will do that too. It’s somebody out there for everyone!

Leggs

April 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

Are there pedals in the co**ckpit? Thought it was full of trottles and levers and a bunch of gauges (lololol).

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:31 pm

kimmie – If he’s having a hard time deciding how to blow that money, um…i’m sure I could think of a few ways :lol: 5,4,3,2….

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:32 pm

I know this may come as a surprise to some of you but Slim’s never been inside a cockpit

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:33 pm

Leggs, you are really stirring the pot, girl!LOL!!!

Lady~

April 17th, 2012
1:33 pm

That is what I was thinking too Kimmie sigh!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:34 pm

Slim – Someone blogging behind that story said “adopt me, I don’t even need to be potty-trained”!LOL!!

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:39 pm

In fact, yeah, he could adopt me, especially since he wants more “kids”!LOL! That would be great! Then I wouldn’t have to worry about having to “do the do” with him! :shock:

czBrat

April 17th, 2012
1:43 pm

awww. i know we’re getting topics jumbled, but slim just took me back to those international flights when i was a kid and, yes, the stewardess’ let well-behaved kiddies see the cockpit and get little pin-on wings. :grin:

well said, kimmie. it’s perfectly aight for a dude to look over my head and eyeball the chick at the bar. we each find the yin to our yang and fall into cadence.

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:49 pm

kimmie – that only thing about that though is home boy just may live another 100yrs. He may have the same doctors that cured Magic Johnson back in the day. :lol:

cz – I always eyed the cockpit from 1st class whenever I was afforded that opportunity…just never got the ‘official’ tour ;-)

Willie Dynamite

April 17th, 2012
1:49 pm

Kimmie – 1:30 and the exact same for women. Hence Trophy Wives, mistresses, etc etc

DJ Sniper

April 17th, 2012
1:51 pm

I’ve never had a problem with women who make the first move. Contrary to what a lot of people think, just because a woman makes the first move, that doesn’t automatically set the tone for anything that may happen in the future.

I’ve also heard women say stuff like “if he didn’t see me, that means he wasn’t interested.” Um, what kind of logic is that? It’s very possible that you can be giving out all the subtle hints in the world, but the man simply doesn’t see you in the room. In situations like that, what do you have to lose by going up and simply introducing yourself?

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:51 pm

Willie – Oh yeah, the Trophy Wives didn’t marry themselves!LOL!! Somebody wanted what they were selling!

C from Marietta

April 17th, 2012
1:54 pm

LOL
Reading all you ladies drum about what guys do and don’t. Also, how they think etc..
Don’t you realize every guy is different. Sure, you have the dominent males that think they need to hit on every women they see. However, you also have guys with brains and don’t think about sex soley. If you find us cute, then come talk to us. When I meet a friend at the pub. I don’t always go to the pub to pick up women. This is not make me lazy or entitled. It means I like to focus on my company. NOT let’s see if we score on spring break.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 17th, 2012
1:55 pm

The “cockpit”, also a vagina reference…lol.

kimmie

April 17th, 2012
1:55 pm

DJ – Yeah, but according to one blogger, if you’re 40+ dudes are not checking you like that anymore! And it’s assumed she has poor “rejection management” skills! LOL!!

Just clowning, like your post!

SlimUno

April 17th, 2012
1:57 pm

C – Are you a college student? (reference to spring break)

C from Marietta

April 17th, 2012
1:59 pm

Hey Slim,

No, just out of college. I have friends that treat every night about the bar like it’s spring break. Trying to be funny :-) .