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Dating: Does sex get in the way?

If you enter a relationship with a desire to make it actually last, you may need to consider when, how, and why you decide to handle sex and intimacy. Some people believe sex has little to no real impact on a new relationship. Others have experienced the complete opposite, in which sex changed everything.

Do you believe that sex/no sex is an important part of a dating relationship? In your past experiences, did you figure out what role, if any, sex played on the future of your relationship?

I have heard men say that once the relationship got physical, things changed – the women changed, or the dynamics of the relationship did.

Do men change their behavior after they become sexually involved?

Do you think there is a way to avoid sex getting in the way?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

161 comments Add your comment

Celisea

April 12th, 2012
4:59 pm

Jake – I’m not disagreeing. I believe that’s how men think…most anyway. I’m just saying I’ll gladly take a pass…if I gotta allow a test run first…lol No can do

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit !! ;-)

April 12th, 2012
5:00 pm

we could always invite Sassy in for the after hours Barbershop convo.

I wish…cause I’d light this by.tch up…but ufortunately I’ll be in traffic. Speaking of…gotta go. Just wanted to pop in right quick..read y’all tomorrow :lol:

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 12th, 2012
5:01 pm

Slim…I did say get them in both scenarios, but wouldn’t you like for a guy to remind you of something you said weeks ago, and decided to act on out of kindness, as opposed to I said flowers on Monday, got them Friday…It wouldn’t mean a lil more to you?

Celisea

April 12th, 2012
5:02 pm

Willie – Cel used to frequent but I think it got in the way of Bible study or something.

LOLOLOLOL…boy you made me disturb my neighbor. Funnneee…y’all are a riot some days. I’z a good girl :)

Celisea

April 12th, 2012
5:03 pm

I wish…cause I’d light this by.tch up

LOOOOVE IT!!!

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 12th, 2012
5:04 pm

Cel&Sassy, you won’t know the difference

Celisea

April 12th, 2012
5:05 pm

Willie/Jake – I miss the barbershop days. No one hangs around anymore. Sometimes just lurking while y’all cut up.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2012
5:19 pm

Look at Sassy feeling all empowered (there’s that word again) talking isht. Its not that kinda party. We just relax a bit more and chop it up. Heyal I’m looking forward to it now.

Cel – you went from just a good girl to hella cool in my book during those convo’s.

Celisea

April 12th, 2012
5:26 pm

WillieD – Awwwww, don’t go making me all misty eyed now. You know I can roll with the best of them right? If I let my hair down too much in the daytime folks might get confused…lol Ahhh yeah, laid back after hours :)

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2012
5:30 pm

Ok folks good eve, headed to the locker room to take off this Sheeps clothing. Hahaha

Lady A

April 13th, 2012
8:46 pm

Put the brakes on sex. Often people sleep together way too soon and their judgement is clouded. You no longer see the person for who they really are because you are caught up in the pleasure you partake with that person. Too late you realize that you are not friends but just lovers. Sex clouds your judgement. Take the time to really get to know that other person if you want a quality relationship built to last.