There is an interesting debate that started over at Huffington Post and I heard about on Q100’s The Bert Show. It is centered around the questions: Do women now have a sexual advantage? Are women more sexually empowered than men?
Since women are earning more, staying single longer, and are generally living on their own terms, our sex lives are drastically different. Somehow this translates to a sexual advantage.
There is something about sexual empowerment being connected to economics that bothers me, but I understand the point that is being made. The idea is that there is some type of advantage in being a female today with more money, power, and freedom to make choices.
What I wonder though is how can one truly qualify or quantify sexual empowerment? Perhaps I am over thinking this, what are your thoughts?
Is sexual empowerment in men and women something that can truly be compared? Especially considering all of the different/double standards society hold for men and women?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Lady~
April 11th, 2012
12:36 pm
So where is everyone?!? Seems time stopped this morning…..sigh
Mike P
April 11th, 2012
12:46 pm
I donno, you’d think more people would find it interesting and add their two cent to this topic, it made it on the bert show after-all. sigh~indeed. going back to work
cba
April 11th, 2012
12:49 pm
Hey Lady, I’m reading a very happy vibe from you. Keep living your dream young lady.
Cel, I read yesterday where you “joined” your office mate in the enjoyment of the chip
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
12:57 pm
awww thanks cba made me smile harder!!!!
right Mike P~
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
1:03 pm
cba – Hey there! Yep, I enjoyed every bit of my crunching. She’s already crunched today…lol
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
1:06 pm
I am sitting @ my desk listening to Kem and this song use to bring sad tears now I am weeping bc I can listen to it and smile ~Love never fails~ #wow
cba look what you started LOL I am dying laughing! smh
Leggs
April 11th, 2012
1:23 pm
Good afternoon everyone.
Women have always been more sexually empowered. Many wars have been fought over a woman. Some use this power the wrong way, while others bask in the power and dispenses it rightfully and with much vigor.
cba
April 11th, 2012
1:34 pm
Lady, I’m sure you’re familar with one of Kem’s song that says no high is like love….something like that
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
1:39 pm
yep something like that #funny
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Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
2:04 pm
Afternoon, all.
It is WINDY outside. And chilly. Brrrr. I hope it warms up before Friday night!!
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:05 pm
the easter snap is real. i tried to tell some folks to hold off on the booty shorts 0_o lol
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
2:10 pm
i tried to tell some folks to hold off on the booty shorts
And not just until after the Easter snap. How about forever?!? LOL
Many wars have been fought over a woman>/i>
And many a man dethroned, defrocked, fired, or otherwise broken.
cba
April 11th, 2012
2:21 pm
ITL, speaking of dethroned……can you say Bobby Petrino.
I know the bulldawg nation not shedding any tears.
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:22 pm
I’m holding up my hand as guilty. I have on slides and I was cold as heck this morning. The Easter snap is real…lol It’s my week to drive in the carpool so I didn’t have time to run back in the house.
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:22 pm
cba would you consider that bad karma or it was just arpart of his journey to stray and it be on front street?!?
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
2:24 pm
EXACTLY who I was thinking about when I started typing that, cba. As a DGD and a Falcons fan, I’m not shedding a single tear. I think it’s unfortunate, and I feel sorry for his family, but not for him.
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:24 pm
I was sitting @ a gsoftball game last night and had to get a jacket and a umbrella cold April rain ain’t the business but it is baseball weather! April and March are my least favorite months. always have been. I am a Fall gal!
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:26 pm
One of my coworkers was telling me about Bobby Petrino this morning. I don’t know much and haven’t followed the story but he was skipping and said he got what he deserved. Him getting canned.
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:26 pm
Lady – April showers bring May flowers
Willie Dynamite
April 11th, 2012
2:26 pm
Afternoon All,
American women have gained empowerment in almost every facet of life over time. Why wouldn’t that also include sexual empowerment? I wouldn’t say they are more empowered than Men as a whole but the opportunity for them based on factors given in the topic as well as your posts does exist. Whether a Woman chooses to act on that is entirely her choice based on her beliefs and position in life. I don’t knock a Woman for doing so either way.
Personally I know me, whether she is empowered or not she still has to have a well rounded balance to her being to even get a tryout.
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:27 pm
That was corny of me…..LOLOLOLOL
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:28 pm
LOL C #dead
cheating is not new and it happens just being on the front page of the AJC is like wow #blank
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:30 pm
Again I totally love what Lily posted and Kimmie too.
I see myself there. A bit of the old woman and modern woman comingled.
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:30 pm
Cheating has been here as long as the world been standing. I don’t get folks acting shock when it happens. Not in this case but IJS. It ain’t right but it sure ain’t nothing new.
cba
April 11th, 2012
2:31 pm
Lady, as my wife always tell me; untruth will eventually comes to light. I know you follow football and this guy has alot of baggage. If anything, the karma is on the Razorbacks. This guy leaves the Falcons in the middle of the night and in the middle of the season….what did they expect??
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:36 pm
that is where I was going with that cba……………..be careful how you treat folks bc it will come back. i could care less he cheated………..really
Row 125, seat 11B
April 11th, 2012
2:36 pm
LOL…I think I might be the only Petrino fan in teh state of Georgia…. LOL…. Now he shold not have been creeping, but I am still a fan of the guy. He has mad skills when it comes to coaching….
cba
April 11th, 2012
2:37 pm
I’m listening to the Stews, and they say word on the street is BP was beaten by they young lady’s bf. They are saying she didn’t have any visible injuries but his face is f’upped…..hmmm
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:38 pm
wow he was taking football anger out on that dude lol j/k wow
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:39 pm
Why in the hell did my coworker just send an email thanking me for covering for her from now until the 20th??? I sooo don’t remember her asking me but I guess so. Dang, I hate to cover for folks cause that’s when everything falls apart.
Shoot, I was gonna leave early to get my hair done….I GUESS FREAKING NOT now…
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:41 pm
lol be flexible C smh #grownfolks! lol
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
2:43 pm
Lady – I know right…
Team Player She’s headed home to the Carribean
Lady~
April 11th, 2012
2:49 pm
oh well let me skip to my Lou!!!! peace out good folks and thanks again cba~
cba
April 11th, 2012
2:52 pm
Leggs
April 11th, 2012
2:57 pm
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Willie Dynamite
April 11th, 2012
2:57 pm
Petrino got fired because he’s a dumbazz. He didn’t give Karma a chance to catch up with him. This dummy hired his gf to work in the Athletic dept. That alone opened up the Univ to Harassment liability. Then the dummy lied to his boss and didn’t come clean. This dude is just a dummy all the way around. The cheating part is between him and his wife. I am sure she’s not shocked. Embarrased but not shocked.
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
3:00 pm
@Row:
@cba: He’s got some serious road rash going on. Considering he was riding without a helmet, though, he’s pretty lucky.
I’m ready to go!!!
Celisea
April 11th, 2012
3:02 pm
Great…now I have the song lou lou skip to my lou on the brain…thanks Lady
kimmie
April 11th, 2012
3:10 pm
Willie – I agree with you about Petrino. Idiot!! I could not care less about the cheating.
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 11th, 2012
3:12 pm
I wont say a word till I read whats been said today, sure seems slow though with a interesting topic.
Willie Dynamite
April 11th, 2012
3:15 pm
Kimmie – yep, the cheating is personal, the rest of it is business.
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
3:26 pm
I’m tired. And sleepy.
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB
April 11th, 2012
3:26 pm
WD-Petrino wife knows he was clocking 3.5M a year, dayum right she embarrassed, but she ain’t suprised and prolly knew about the girlfriend/co-worker he has had to spend extra time with for a team project.
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
3:26 pm
And speaking of DGDs, heeeey Kimmie!!!
Now where’s Swiss?!?!?
Willie Dynamite
April 11th, 2012
3:28 pm
Jake – Exactly
Leggs
April 11th, 2012
3:30 pm
She’s 25, having an affair with the head couch and, and engaged to another…that’s some deep throating going on!
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
3:35 pm
Looking at Bobby, I’d say not all that deep…. but that’s just my own personal guess….
Into the Light
April 11th, 2012
3:36 pm
LOL@head couch. You must be confusing the Hawgs with WV, Leggs.
Leggs
April 11th, 2012
3:39 pm