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Should you juggle dates?

One of the perks of being single and unattached is having the freedom to mix and mingle, meet new potential marches. When you are lucky enough to find not one but two really cool people, should you juggle them?

Is it bad dating ethics to see more than one person until you are sure about how you feel about each of them?

A guy friends has a problem when he is seeing one woman while she is still juggling a couple of suitors. He feels as if she is obligated to let him know if he is not the only one in the picture. He admits that it would change his efforts – and it could result in him losing interest.

When do you juggle dates and when do you decide it’s time to let one go? Do you think it is good to tell when they are one of many people jockeying for your time?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Leggs

April 4th, 2012
1:12 pm

I agree with you Newbie!!! After the 4th date or so, I see no reason with the woman asking out him out and paying for the evening.

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
1:13 pm

Cee..Most guys(even chics) have Mike’s stance.

The only problem is most chics won’t disclose that they are dating other folks,especially if the think they like the guy or if they just wanna maintain the illusion of liking this today guy.

So guys don’t know ‘we being played’

That’s why abc is Always Right bout chics being good at this(lying-faking) game. :lol:

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
1:14 pm

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
1:20 pm

never said Mike P was whining at all…..respect his POV. but a whining man is the worst just like a begging woman

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
1:24 pm

MMeelloo – I think both men and women tread in that regard but at some point a person has to trust WHILE being watchful…eyes opened and ear to the ground. If that person is not quite what they’re representing, trust your instincts to clue you in on that.

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
1:25 pm

tread lightly and cautiously.

MMeello – Additionally, you don’t have to spend all willy nilly but you CANNOT date without spending. You gotta be able at some point to chaulk it up if it fizzles.

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
1:37 pm

You gotta be able at some point to chaulk it up if it fizzles.<<<<<<<<<<<<<,Its apart of the game. it happens

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
1:38 pm

(waving) Heeeeey Lady!!

Sorry I’m in and out today, y’all. I’m playing catch up (been out of the office since Friday).

La Paz sounds GREAT! And i will definitely take a half-day…no going back to work when there are margaritas to enjoy. :)

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
1:40 pm

Did we say May 10, or the Thursday before?

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
1:41 pm

So are u inviting a few quality specially chosen blog men to this shinding?

@ITL,Cee,Lady!

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
1:43 pm

So are u inviting a few quality specially chosen blog men to this shinding?

I’m sure Blackfoote, Willie D, Jake, and Swiss and welcome if they wanna come. :lol:

;) Couldnt’ resist, Ex. ;)

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
1:50 pm

May 10th after 5:30 ITL enjoying the evening sis

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
1:52 pm

@ITL.. Ouch!!

in that case a rival and more inclusive blog shinding is in order then

For Real and Slim to co host!

There..

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
1:53 pm

Even better, Lady, because I am off the next day! :) And I have a friend who lives crawling walking distance. :)

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
1:56 pm

LOL@Ex. What makes you think Slim won’t be hanging with the girls?!?!? ;)

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
1:59 pm

i am off may 11th too sis can’t wait~

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
1:59 pm

@ITL..easy..we invited the(her) Officer guy and offered him free Corona! :lol:

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
2:00 pm

ITL your 1:43 is on point~ waiting ;)

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
2:01 pm

Well heck, I’ll just take the 11th off then too

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
2:03 pm

@Lady: Me, too! Wonder where the mens are at today (yeah, I said “mens” on purpose). ;)

Where did y’all go yesterday??

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
2:03 pm

Might as well, C!! Never know what we might get into! ;) You did see Bridesmaids, right?!?!? LOL :lol:

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
2:04 pm

funny movie ITL~

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
2:05 pm

ITL – I did…lol And now that I think about it, I’m DEFINITELY taking Friday off….lol I just have a feeling….

We went to Garrisons

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
2:06 pm

C you ready for your spin class sis?!?

this evening I am going to Harbour Seafood in decatur…………………last night wen to dugans on flat shoals………enjoyed myself

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
2:10 pm

Lady – Girl, I was just sitting here thinking about that…shoot I guess or hope rather. I have my gym gear in the car. I hope I can hang.

You’re going to have to give us a report on Harbour Seafood tomorrow. I LOVE seafood and always looking for a new place

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
2:11 pm

Mike P you are welcome as well sir! ;)

Slim's got the fever!

April 4th, 2012
2:11 pm

Did someone riiiiing? ;-)

easy..we invited the(her) Officer guy and offered him free Corona Well I guess I still would be with the girls because Mr. Agent man is a Heineken guy :lol:

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
2:11 pm

will do sis~

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
2:13 pm

Good call, C! ;)

LOL@Slim. Did I mention the girls will also have shots of Goose?!?!? Just sayin’…. ;)

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
2:16 pm

ITL – I can’t be slayed somewhere in the wee hours of the morning and then trying to go to work. Did that a decade ago and CANNOT hang now…lol Of course I don’t have any worries, it will be diet coke or “virgin” drinks for me :)

Lady~

April 4th, 2012
2:17 pm

ITL is on it~

Slim's got the fever!

April 4th, 2012
2:18 pm

ITL – Goose?!! Well, that’s pretty much a no brainer. GIRLS ROCK, DUH! :lol:

Leggs

April 4th, 2012
2:21 pm

I am so sleepy…

kimmie

April 4th, 2012
2:24 pm

Newbie – Part of the game. There are some women just out for free meals and using, just like there are dudes that do the same. If you get played, quit jumping in, leading with wallet and choose better. Real simple. If you choose right and take your time to get to know someone and really listen and find out where their head is and not race to get in the drawers, your odds are better that you’ll find a keeper. And if you get suckered into taking a ZERO to some nice places she couldn’t afford, well you shouldn’t have been leading with wallet. A real woman won’t have an issue treating sometimes either.

Exiled – I do like some of what you said about real men not having a problem with paying.

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
2:25 pm

I’m with you, Cely. Those days are behind me now…. :)

LOL@Slim and Lady. Girls rule, boys drool! LOLOLOL

Leggs

April 4th, 2012
2:39 pm

Don’t start that girl rules, boys drool stuff. Will only bleed into the convo yesterday afternoon.

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
2:42 pm

Thnx Kimmie!

@ITL girls rule boys drool…I think I agree,especially if the chics are enjoying our free flowing beer and drinks,partying hard,loud and are phine!

We drooling…

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
2:43 pm

What happened yesterday?!?!?

Leggs

April 4th, 2012
2:50 pm

Just a nice convo on the changing dynamics between man and woman.

Slim's got the fever!

April 4th, 2012
2:53 pm

There doesn’t seem to be much going on in here at the moment. So I decided to take my exercise outside yesterday and figured I’d go run on the local track. Let me tell ya, that treadmill running has nothing on running outside in the elements. It was nice to get out of the gym but I almost felt like I was back at square one. Now that the weather is heating up, I’ll be able to incorporate more outside runs with my gym schedule.

Leggs – I’ve been feeling lethargic since last night. Yawwwwwn

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
2:55 pm

Slim?

Lethargic?

Is your Vitamin away on duty? :lol:

Into the Light

April 4th, 2012
2:56 pm

Hmmmm, maybe I need to go back and read carefully….

Leggs

April 4th, 2012
3:02 pm

@Slim – I ran/briskly walked 2.5 miles on Monday and it felt good getting out of the gym.

disco

April 4th, 2012
3:02 pm

hey y’all.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

April 4th, 2012
3:03 pm

What up ya’ll..the man has his phalanges on my throat today…back to Lurksville, but shid, I’m down for whatever shindig is in the works.

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
3:05 pm

SPINNING today :)

Celisea

April 4th, 2012
3:07 pm

If I have to attend any more conference calls regarding disregarded entities and tax classifications I’m going to scream!!!!!!

At least I’m sitting across from a hottie

Leggs

April 4th, 2012
3:08 pm

So you do have your work clothes in the car Celisea? Excellent.

Exiled!

April 4th, 2012
3:08 pm

@ Jake…

don’t bring the wife!

Leggs

April 4th, 2012
3:09 pm

@Celisea ~ I had to blink because I first read “sitting across frm a bottle. Blinked and the letters were more focused (lol).