Dating mistakes: Caught snooping?
What would you do if you were invited to your date’s house for the first time and they found you snooping? One of our readers decided to go on an a fact finding mission in her date’s house. He sort of caught her red handed and she made some excuse up, but she could read the disappointment on his face!
I have to admit, I have been where she is. In my case, I suspected he wasn’t truly divorced and I turned out to be right. Had I been wrong though, I don’t know how I could have recovered. It is difficult and embarrassing to admit to someone you don’t trust them or believe what they tell you.
How do you recover from dating mistakes? If you really like someone, do you try to confess and explain?
Have you ever been caught snooping for information about your date? What did you do? How would you react if you walked in on your date snooping through your things?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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146 comments Add your comment
Lily
March 26th, 2012
5:47 am
I have never been caught snooping because I’m not a snooper. I have however definitely been where I didn’t trust someone. The extent of my searching a person is for safety reasons. I don’t go digging on people where the chances are slim to known they’ll ever be anything. I’m not looking for how much you make because I work for a living….I’m not nosey like that. That’s not only nosey but an invasion. What snoopers fail to realize is sometimes it’s reversed. I’ve known people that snooped and didn’t disclose. I’ve had people to even find my phone number AND CALL, without revealing that I was aware. That’s borderline stalker.
Lily
March 26th, 2012
7:19 am
Lily was up too early…she’s sleepy now!
Lily
March 26th, 2012
7:20 am
Lily was up too early…she’s sleepy now!
Good day!
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
8:12 am
Good Monday Morning MIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
8:37 am
Good Morning
I’ve caught women snooping before, I have even set some women up to fail right of the bat. A older gent taught me “its a fact of life women are born nosey” sorry ladies. I think as you guys grow older and wiser your able to control the urge to snoop but for the most part I expect a woman to be nosey to a certain extent. On the flip side there is never a good reason to snoop on a woman. If she caught you snooping in her home thats like a death sentence. you skip strike 1,2, and go to strike 3 automatically. You would need the governers pardon to be invited back.
Rick
March 26th, 2012
8:38 am
I went snooping when I started dating my girlfriend. She was in the shower and I just casually went through her nightstand. I found nipple clamps, sex toys, adult videos, handcuffs and a pair of snap in vampire teeth. Now you know why I decided to KEEP her as my girlfriend!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
8:58 am
Good morning.
What would you do if you were invited to your date’s house for the first time and they found you snooping? I wouldn’t do this, so I have nothing to be concerned about.
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:03 am
Leggs~ You don’t do this now or you never snooped ever? GM.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
9:04 am
Seriously, if you’r at our man’s home and he’s in the shower, that’s not your time to go through drawers, night stands, kitchen cabinets, couch cushions. Sit still and wait for him. If he runs to the store and leaves you at his place, sit still and remain fixated on what’s on TV!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
9:07 am
Mr. Unknown ~ I have never snooped. Seriously, I don’t go through pockets or wallets. Never have. However, when doing laundry, I will go through pockets then.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:09 am
So true Leggs……………………I just still still and wait shoot if you go looking you will find…………stay in your lane and all will be revealed…..most times the writing is on the wall and snooping is just confirmation of what one already suspects…………………
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:11 am
Cool, your a rare exception…
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:19 am
meant sit still……………….i need glasses. sigh
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:19 am
my point is let it come to you………………….
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:20 am
I am currently working on a personality disorder case study I have to assess and it tedious…………………personalty is so complex 0_o
Celisea......no such thing as "version of the truth"
March 26th, 2012
9:30 am
Hey Lady!
Intents are my biggest concerns. People that live their lives not meaning mean and ill intent in nature can’t be googled. Trust your instincts and watch for the truth to make itself known.
People can only fake for so long. So if there’s something there, all in time. Like I’ve said before, I’ll google for the intent of making sure technical stuff checks out. But trying to determine if you’re rotten to the core? Nah, you’ll make that known for me.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:32 am
Hi there C!!!!! The truth is the truth huh C~
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:32 am
Dating mistakes.. I have given mixed signals. Recovered by being more consistent with my approach and wording. Old mistakes.. Judging someone to early or labeling them.
Celisea......no such thing as "version of the truth"
March 26th, 2012
9:33 am
Lady – How was your weekend?
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
9:35 am
@Mr.Unknown ~ my philosophy is much like Lady described at 9:09.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
9:36 am
It must be tedious, Lady. It’s affecting your spelling (lol).
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:38 am
C it was challenging with classes…………..dealing with personality disorders ironically and go figure sis……..#smirk…….I have to do a couple of case studies then I can get ready for spring break and to cut up with up @ our ladies lunch!
How was your weekend?!?
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:39 am
Leggs I looked @ that word several times and said whatever yall will get it lol my brain is fried lol
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:42 am
Oh C thanks for see my point for my 9:09 it is what it is sis lol but you know this
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:43 am
I hear you Leggs, but thats unfortunately not the norm. Good thought process though.
Celisea......no such thing as "version of the truth"
March 26th, 2012
9:43 am
My weekend was fantab….gotta drop you a little something via email…so look for that.
Sorry about the grueling weekend but look at it like this…this time next week, we’ll be revving up for our ladie’s luncheon
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
9:46 am
@Mr.Unknown ~ that was another concern of mine, being set up to snoop so I thought it best to never make it a practice of mine. If you don’t mind, give an example or two of how you’ve set up a woman to snoop.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:49 am
yep C!!!!! I am bout to get this ish done so I can come out and play honey! LOL
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:50 am
Lady~ “I am currently working on a personality disorder case study” Good job!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
9:51 am
And, Mr. Unknown, has anyone ever not taken the bait? How did you feel? Did you try a second time?
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
9:51 am
Mr U you can do it for me and it will be even better!
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:54 am
Leggs~ booby trapped the medicine cabinet, so when its open it makes a loud noise. All you need is floss, tape. Or I had some of my sis belongings there from when she would visit And I would see how long it would take for her to say something.
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
9:59 am
Lady~ uhh no. Leggs~ I see what your getting at, I’m not spending large amounts of time setting up this elaborate trap. If there is no tape broken on the first time cool. No need for a second time.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
10:00 am
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:01 am
lol okay~
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
10:08 am
Lady~ what would you specialize in when you finish?. If thats not to personal
Robert
March 26th, 2012
10:10 am
How would you react if you walked in on your date snooping through your things?
Trust is a 2-way street in any relationship and “snooping” through your Man’s personal items (cell phone, email, black book, closet, kitchen, pants/coat pockets, car, etc.) are deal breakers. I would tell her that “I have a headache” and ask her to put her clothes on and leave my house. Good nite.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:11 am
Severe pathological disorders (population adults but prob make more money with kids sadly), teach ethics and human growth, and consult with EAP Programs doing workshops here and there…………
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:14 am
I don’t want to do marriage counseling or work with personality disorders but Mr. U those situations are more prevalent than ever O_0 lol
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:15 am
so really crisis management is my expertise and I want to do research and complete my ED.S in counseling along the way
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
10:16 am
Thats a good look!
Mr. Unknown
March 26th, 2012
10:16 am
brb
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:17 am
Thanks!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
10:19 am
Going through cell phones is comical to me. Heightened insecurity and seeking drama to sustain one’s life. If you look, you will find. Every contact will not be known to you, what you deem to be a code may in fact not be a code. Stirring up unnecessary strife simply because you have trust issues. Naw, can’t go into a relationship like that.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:23 am
Leggs you ever gotten a random text from someone you’ve dealt with that just didn’t make any sense @ all and you follow up weeks later to learn it was a snooping spouse! #awkward dead too…smh if you snooping you already know your mate is suspect and not being 100% honest
that happen to me once. I never responded to the text bc it was so weird. they saw what had happen and was blowing me up trying to explain it was such and such and she “crazy” sigh lol
The tangle web we weave when we practice to deceive~
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
10:27 am
Morning All!
An old boyfriend set up a few lame booby-traps(the tape on the drawer mess) when he left me alone to grab us some food. I did not touch a thing, was still sitting in the same spot when he got back. He was shocked I didn’t go in his things and told me so. I told him I wasn’t raised that way. It floored him though, so I guess I was the first not to do so.
My mom had us terrified to touch any of her or dad’s things, to the point that when she died I still felt weird going thru her things to sort out. She used to tell us being nosey would have us finding something she didn’t want to see. I’ve actually become just like her because I go ballistic when anyone goes in my closet or drawers. The kids & hubby are trained. They tell me if they have to go in something, like the house alarm box is in my closet, so hubs has had to go in there, but he tells me when he does.
I have not gone in my hubs things ever and we are married. I don’t want it done to me, so I don’t do it to others.
Yeah, I know I may be the exception.
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
10:33 am
Leggs – Your 10:19, we see eye-2-eye.
It’s just so tiring to live that way anyway. I’m a very busy person, so when I have free time I don’t use it looking for trouble. I do my due-diligence in the beginning, when we first start seeing each other. That’s the time to really get to know, ask the right questions, don’t rush into the physical, see if he’s a man of his word. Under the surface stuff will be revealed rather quickly if you pay attention. After that, what he has in his medicine cabinet or under the bed will be irrelevant.
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
10:35 am
correction – Mom told us we may stumble on something WE might not want to see by being nosey.
Robert
March 26th, 2012
10:37 am
“How do you recover from dating mistakes?”
Whenever I meet someone new I use my past as my guide to avoid mistakes. Know that I am older and much more mature I choose my dates carefully. For example a created a simple fact finding checklist to help me figure out the who, what and how to avoid dating mistakes.
NEW WOMAN TEST – Scale
1. Appearance (hair, body, face, clothes, etc.)
2. Maturity (age appropriate)
3. Communication Skills (read, write, hear, etc.)
4. Adaptability (changes to lifestyle)
5. Kids (How Many)
6. Relationship Status (Married, Divorced, etc.)
7. Family (Mother, Father, etc.)
8. Church (Faith, Service, etc.)
9. Physical Fitness (health, diet, exercise)
10 Career (Income, investments, retirement)
Ladies, just for fun “test” yourself and let’s see what the numbers reveal.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
10:39 am
@Lady ~ never got a strange text from a spouse, but I have gotten a phone call (lol). Not pretty.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:42 am
LOL~ naw no phone calls here just a random text…………silence speaks volume!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
10:43 am
How do you put a number on 6, 7 and 8?
Dani
March 26th, 2012
10:43 am
I posted here a few months back under Almost divorced. I’m offically divorces now. I was online paying the cell phone. It was more than the usual amount so I checked the records to see what caused this overage. At the time I didn’t send nor receive text messages. My ex husband had all these text messages and a 20 min phone call at 5:00 am on a Sunday morning. He had recently confessed to a one night stand and looking at the calendar it was on this weekend. So I was crazy lady and called the number. I knew then that the marriage was over. I had never snooped before in 6 years of dating and 7 years of marriage. I refused to make myself crazy worrying about what someone else is going to do.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
10:44 am
I agree, Lady. My phone rang, I answered. I thought it might be her because the call came from their home number. She sought, I told!
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
10:44 am
How did I recover from dating mistakes?
The times I have messed up I never got a chance to recover. I stopped hearing from guys and that was it. I’ve apologized on the spot, but I’ve found most men to be unforgiving. Or they will forgive, but move on to someone else.
Could be their loss or mine, either way, I am a believer in stuff happening for a reason.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:45 am
my failed marriage taught me to fight fair. I don’t argue with spouses and spouses should deal with their mates. If I have a problem with you I am dealing with you not the world…….I am not vindictive
abc
March 26th, 2012
10:46 am
Just plain wow. If I had ever discovered some chick rummaging through my stuff, that would have been the end, period. What on earth would ever make anyone think that was acceptable? Privacy much? Sheesh.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:46 am
see leggs!
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
10:46 am
privacy is to be respected abc! I totally agree!
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
10:52 am
It’s just such a violation to go thru someones things. When I was in college, in summer school, my apt got broken into. The robbers turned everything out of my closets & drawers. They ended up not stealing anything, but I remember feeling completely violated.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
10:59 am
That’s sad, Dani. Hope you now on the healing side and you’ve gotten to the “other side of thru.” Divorce isn’t easy. Remember, do your best and “try” to always take the high road. It’s not easy, but it’s not difficult either.
Dani
March 26th, 2012
11:11 am
Thanks Leggs, I’m on the growing from past mistakes side of it.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
11:16 am
@Dani ~ and, the operative word is “growing.” That’s all you can do. Keep on keeping on!!!!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
11:36 am
Did everyone run out into traffic at the same time???
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
11:37 am
lol leggs! I am sitting her dazed myself! friday please come honey!
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
11:40 am
here that is wow smh
Sassy Me...Beaming!! ;-)
March 26th, 2012
11:47 am
Heeeeey Blog!!
On topic: I don’t snoop around other people’s things and really woudln’t want that done to me. It’s disrespectful and a violation of trust and privacy. If you pay attention and bide your time, usually you will find out what you want to know without crossing any lines.
Sassy Me...Beaming!! ;-)
March 26th, 2012
11:48 am
really *wouldn’t*..but I digress
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
11:48 am
That is funny, “Friday please come honey” – You waiting on something or someone?
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
12:06 pm
WOW, I read that wrong. Thought you meant to say “please come here,” only to see you spelled here wrong and please come honey actually makes sense. Perhaps I need to walk into traffic….
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
12:31 pm
LMBAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
12:49 pm
O/T ~ anybody here seen The Hunger Games? I saw it this weekend and it’s a great movie. At the end, I was the only one who clapped at the end (lol). Very good movie.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
12:49 pm
Leggs I heard it was good this morning on the radio.. Guess I willcheck it out
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
1:01 pm
Loved Headquarters and how they made “things” happen.
GlammourGirl
March 26th, 2012
1:09 pm
I saw Hunger Games and thought is was a great movie. I never read the books, so didn’t have it to compare to. There’s all this outrage because Rue was black. People need something better to be outraged about. Smh. http://hungergamestweets.tumblr.com/
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
1:23 pm
My daughter says the movie is EXACTLY like the book. She was hyped.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
1:23 pm
I instantly fell in love with Rue!
GlammourGirl
March 26th, 2012
1:29 pm
I fell in love with Rue too. It makes me want to read the book now.
Naso Livisi
March 26th, 2012
1:44 pm
http://www.YouHadMeAtHello.com
Fastest Growing 100% Free Dating Site
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
1:48 pm
It may be one of the fastest growing free dating site. So was POF (Plenty of Fish) and look at all the creeks there (lololol).
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
1:49 pm
creeps…..to be fair, most free sites have all the creeps.
Lady~
March 26th, 2012
1:50 pm
O_o lol leggs
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
1:51 pm
It’s slow in here, I’m going to Wal-mart….
C from Marietta
March 26th, 2012
1:58 pm
Makes me glad I am married to a great women. Reading these blogs. It is clear Morals are not a big priority for a lot of folks.
Sassy Me...Beaming!! ;-)
March 26th, 2012
3:03 pm
>>>>>>crickets<<<<<<<
MARCO…
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:06 pm
Dang, get back still no convo
POLO….
Celisea......no such thing as "version of the truth"
March 26th, 2012
3:08 pm
I’m just getting back from a client luncheon and this is it??
Celisea......no such thing as "version of the truth"
March 26th, 2012
3:09 pm
Lady – Are you still here? Oh, I think you leave around 3:00 ish…never mind
Alright I’m out.
Bam It' Elijah Time
March 26th, 2012
3:20 pm
I see C, lady and Leggs are still droppin it like it hot….Give it to them Eli…Yes
Bam It' Elijah Time
March 26th, 2012
3:22 pm
Wise one you just need to have ole Eli put a smile on those sweet membranes of yours then you can snoop all you want….When u go snooping in the landry room drop a load in the washer….Bam
Bam It' Elijah Time
March 26th, 2012
3:24 pm
Congrats to Kimmie her marriage, I still will be waiting..
Congrats to Cybil BKA as sexy Kool on purchasing the home and trapping the MAN…
Sassy Me...Beaming!! ;-)
March 26th, 2012
3:30 pm
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:34 pm
WOW….she didn’t trap anyone. He willingly went to her….
Robert
March 26th, 2012
3:38 pm
@Leggs – “How do you put a number on 6, 7 and 8?”
6.Relationship Status (Married, Divorced, etc.) – Is she Cheating or is she a Playerette
7. Family (Mother, Father, etc.) – Would you take her home to meet your Mother or Father
8. Church (Faith, Service, etc.) – What is her Faith (Baptist, AME, Muslim, etc.)
– How does she serve her community (volunteer, border babies, etc.)
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
3:39 pm
Hi Leggs! How are things?
I saw Hunger Games, but for some reason it really reminded me of a movie from the 80’s called “The Running Man” with Richard Dawson (from Family Feud) and Arnold Scwart….(however he spells his name)
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:44 pm
PoppaG is in da house. Hey there!!! How are you? Have you graduated? Someone was looking for some furniture and I told them about Kolo Collection.
@Robert ~ I thought you wanted us to grade ourselves according to your list. Apparently, my reading comprehension if off today???
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:45 pm
I don’t remember The Running Man…the title immediately evokes scenes from The Fugitive.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:46 pm
“border babies”…I’ve heard it all.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
3:51 pm
I am good.Yes, I graduated and passed the GA bar. However, the wife and I now live near Philly, PA. We still have our house in the ATL. We are renting it out to some Morehouse College students since house is not far from campus.
Also, you can tell Raqi that her dust eventually did the trick and then some. We are expecting twins in June.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:55 pm
CONGRATULATIONS on both. I rememeber you studying and leaving the blog to do so. Even then I thought your priorities out of wack (lolol).
OMGoodness…twins…that is freaking hysterical. CONGRATULATIONS! Awwwww, make sure I get a picture. sharmynk@gmail.com
That dust is no joke…..
Bam It' Elijah Time
March 26th, 2012
3:56 pm
Leggs u are truly the mother of the blog defending all the ladies… I am kidding…
How R U doing Leggs?
Hello Sassy!
Congrats Mr. Grande!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:56 pm
Raqi no longer blogs. She had to concentrate on her family as well and moving. Lurksville residency has increased tenfold.
An old soul from around the way.....
March 26th, 2012
3:57 pm
Booby trapping? Grow up
Long lists? Grow up
@Elijah: Last week the psuedo name “Volvo” gave the same shout out. Do we need another round of “Troll-Be-Gone”
@Poppa: Congrats man on extending your family
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
3:58 pm
I know you’re kidding, Elijah. I am well, very well. Thanks for asking.
I started to say he willingly went to her dungeon, but didn’t want to feed into your lunancy.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:00 pm
I happen to be available today, but I am here in the ATL for my mom’s surgery. I had a little bit of time. I can’t remember the last time that I was on a blog. So, it is understandable.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:00 pm
Old Soul…thanks
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:01 pm
Elijah…thanks
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:03 pm
POPPA G is having twins. Man, you did your best to navigate that dust. Dust prevails (lol).
Bam It' Elijah Time
March 26th, 2012
4:04 pm
Leggs I am glad to hear that you are well. I see you still holding it down in blog land…I have missed a lot…
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:05 pm
Sending a prayer up for God to wrap your mom in his Armor!
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:07 pm
Leggs, we must have gotten some of that dust in our bags when we visited Italy last fall following the bar. Probably should have worn a surgical mask….lol. That stuff is strong. We can send some your way. There is no danger in us handling it now..
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:09 pm
I’m not holding it down…there’s a lot of us still around. Everyone must be playing hide and seek today.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:11 pm
Man, don’t send no dust here. Baby pictures when time comes (lol). Doesn’t matter, I cain’t burf no mo babies…
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:12 pm
Italy will do it every time (lol). Apparently, you had a ball.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:12 pm
Ummm, she had a ball. I’m cracking up. Yep, still silly!!!!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:13 pm
Too funny, the bar took you to Italy, and the LSAT took me to the bar (lololol).
Sassy Me...Beaming!! ;-)
March 26th, 2012
4:16 pm
Do we need another round of “Troll-Be-Gone”
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:18 pm
She had two…
We originally plan to go to Egypt, but things are a little bit crazy in that area right now. She has not seen the pyramids and she wanted to do so.
Thanks in regard to my mom’s surgery. My mom’s surgery is one of those female things. She claims that they are taking the equipment from her playground…ugh…parents seem to lose their filter when their kids grow up. After she said that, I asked her to go bake some cookies or something..lol
Don’t worry I was kidding about sending dust your way. Of course, I remember that you have younger lady in your house. She gonna be vet, right?
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:18 pm
Why you Beaming so much, SassyMe???? And with exclamations points.
Sassy Me...Beaming!! ;-)
March 26th, 2012
4:24 pm
Just life Leggs!! Had a grrrreat weekend, I feel refreshed n well rested…and I’m just in a gooood mooood!!!
Gotta go…Read you all tomorrow!!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:26 pm
She’s been accepted to GA Southern. Waiting to hear from UGA and Georgia State. Majoring in Nursing, still leaning toward Pre-Vet. Her senior year she’s taken a lot of nursing courses and was took a test for some form of certification (yep, I know what I’m talking about (lol). She really, really likes nursing.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:26 pm
That’s the way it should be SassyMe…keep on beaming!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:27 pm
taking….
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:28 pm
Didn’t slip on the other ball, just slipped on my commenting…awww, nevamind…
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:29 pm
Lil Leggs handling business, and it is good that she has goal on which to keep her eyes.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:30 pm
I got you.
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
4:32 pm
Hey Poppa!! Congrats on the babies!!!
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:33 pm
Hey Kimmie! Thanks. Congratulations to you as well.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:34 pm
She’s focused for the most part. Right now, she’s experiencing “Senioritis” and I have to keep her in check…
kimmie
March 26th, 2012
4:35 pm
Thanks Poppa!
Gonna sneak out now, you guys be cool!
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:35 pm
The crazy thing was telling my mother in law that she would have another set twin grandchildren. My brother in law has 4 year old twin girls.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:35 pm
Take care, Kimmie!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:36 pm
@PoppaG ~ personally, I don’t think kimmie is ever going to leave the honeymoon stage. She’s working, as well he is too, to keep the honeymoon stage front and center! Awwww, Hercules, Hercules, Hercules….
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:41 pm
Hey PoppaG…vote for her essay for a possible scholarship and pass along to your friends.
http://www.wyzant.com/scholarships/v2/Essay29569-Ellenwood-GA.aspx
Thank you.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:41 pm
Well, the Mrs and I never really have either. We know when to give each other space, though. I still get to go on trips with the guys (it will be earlier this year..before the kids). She goes on trips with the girls. She planned to go to NYC this year, but now with us living near Philly, that is not really a trip.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:44 pm
WRONG LINK!!!!
http://www.wyzant/com/scholarships/v2/Essay39569-Ellenwood-GA.aspx
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:45 pm
LOL. exactly, PoppaG. NYC now really isn’t a trip.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:52 pm
The guys are headed to South Beach. I don’t know where they are going. They may still go to NYC. A 5′2″ female pregnant with twins does not move well. She is heading near month number 7.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:52 pm
Please ignore 4:41. I don’t know who that is.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:55 pm
I went to South Beach last summer. Had a blast. Partied, partied, partied. Best party of the trip was at the Deron…..can’t think of the name!!!
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
4:55 pm
I did. Call me crazy but I didn’t think that Lil Leggs was named Rob. The second link isn’t working for me. I see at least three people from Ellenwood.
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:56 pm
Let’s try this again. This is the right one!!!
http://www.wyzant.com/scholarships/v2/Essay39569-Ellenwood-GA.aspx
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
4:58 pm
We need votes!! I think she’s in 5th. This scholarship is won by Popular Vote using social media.
Poppa Grande
March 26th, 2012
5:00 pm
Got it this time. Take care, Leggs.
I think that you are talking about Darin Delgado. ( I think that is the place)
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
5:03 pm
Yes, Delagado…had a blast.
Glad you popped in! Take care, you and Mrs. G!
Leggs
March 26th, 2012
5:05 pm
Thanks for jogging the memory…the name of hotel is Delano.