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Most embarrassing date?

If you have spend any time on the dating scene, you will embarrass yourself on a date. It’s one of those things that happens inevitably, because we are human. We try to put our best foot forward, impress our date, and present a great image because we want them to like us. Sometimes, things go awry and the next thing you know you are trying to play off a slip, fall, or foot-in-mouth comment.

I think embarrassing moments on a date can be a blessing in disguise, though! How you recover and handle the situation can actually impress your date more, endear you to them, and break the tension a little.

What is the most embarrassing moment you have experienced on a date? How did you recover from it?

Have you ever been stuck with someone who embarrassed you? Was it something they did that ruined their chances with you?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

267 comments Add your comment

Lily

March 23rd, 2012
7:03 am

Diva I can’t recall any moments where I was embarrassed and need to bury with me. I can however think of someone who I wouldn’t have mind dropping down a black hole (lol). Maybe I’ll have an opportunity to come back later during my workday with details.

Good day!

Jim

March 23rd, 2012
8:04 am

Ate Mexican food and flatulence just took over. smdh needless to say the date ended early.

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
8:35 am

Morning,

Can’t think of any embarassing or bad dates. Oh well…

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
9:05 am

Where is everybody? Too embarassed to share with us the details of their most embarassing dating moments I suppose.

Let’s not allow this day to drag ass. :roll:

Into the Light

March 23rd, 2012
9:12 am

Morning, all!

Nothing to share on topic.

LOL@Slim. Let’s get it hopping!!

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
9:20 am

ITL – We shole need to get it poppin but SOME folks may find it rude to change the topic so early. But anyway, did you hear about the ’still sorta vague’ toxicology reports about Whitney??

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:27 am

Morning,

I’m tired this morning…late night last night… :mad:

On topic: Nothing that I can recall off the top of my head so much so that it’s a “ya gotta here this” story. If there were any major faux pas and hiccups and mishaps it must have been much much younger. Here of late and over the last decade I’ve done well with mate selection :) So no, nothing asinine to report…lol

You CANNOT abuse the body and it won’t eventually take it’s toll. The body is a temple and should be treated as such. Whether it’s drugs or something phyiscal and I’d venture further to say even sex. You cannot do harmful things and it not come back on you. So sad to hear the toxicology results on Whitney.

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
9:30 am

Cel – I think they are going to do another final one in two weeks too…I can’t see how they are calling it a drowning but who am I? I’m not a coroner.

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:33 am

Slim – I didn’t hear that. I’d be very interested in knowing those results. Too, what about the condition of her heart? I bet she didn’t know. Maybe if she’d known she would have been more apprehensive in taking all that stuff. Weed, blow, pills, alcohol…. That’s a lot for the body to take.

Into the Light

March 23rd, 2012
9:34 am

I read the article about Whitney this morning. So sad. And, like the coroner said, you are not going to drown like that UNLESS you are incapacitated in some way. I’m not a doctor, but I think the years of abuse were finally just more than her body could take and it gave out.

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:34 am

hear not here….oops

disco

March 23rd, 2012
9:35 am

good morning. I can’t think of anything overly embarrassing that happened to me. I do remember once when I was really young (probably 19/20) that I was totally embarrassed at having spilled some kind of sauce on my shirt. that type of thing isn’t a big deal now. I have a friend who said she went over to a guy’s house to watch movies (etc.) and he ended up with a bad case of the “bubblies”. she said he kept excusing himself and she was embarrassed for him.

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:35 am

Even though there was water in her lungs, it sounded to me like she was dead already. Remember before the reports came out, they were saying it was not enough water in her lungs to conclude she’d drowned.

Lady~

March 23rd, 2012
9:35 am

Hey Ladies! Happy Friday! ;)

kimmie

March 23rd, 2012
9:37 am

Morning All!

Can’t really remember anything that stands out. The only time I can remember being truly embarrassed was when my bf at the time claimed he “left his wallet in the car” and we had to leave a dinner with some of his friends. I say “claimed” because he enough money in his pocket to buy our drinks. But when the menu came and he took a look at it, we had to leave. And we are talking about a moderately priced place, nothing was over $25 on the menu, most entrees in the mid-teens. He had horrible money management skills. I was embarrassed and disgusted. He drove me home in silence.

Into the Light

March 23rd, 2012
9:39 am

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
9:39 am

Cel – Well if blow, pills, weed etc was a regular part of her life, I would doubt that she’d quit or slow down too much even if she did know the condition of her heart. When you’re on stuff, you tend to feel invincible or either just don’t really care about all that.

I had an embarassing moment in HS but never on a date. I had on a dress and put my book bag on my back as was customary then. However, the book bag snagged the bottom of the back of my dress and I went to lunch. Everyone had seen my rear the whole time in the lunch line until someone told me my ass was showing and my dress was up. :oops:

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:40 am

Hey there Lady! I wondered where you were this morning? You’re like the blog’s coffee…good and first thing in the morning :)

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:41 am

Slim – Yeah, true

Slim – Not the dress tucked in the panties (or similiar) story…lololol Classic!

Into the Light

March 23rd, 2012
9:42 am

Slim: What kinda fever you got?!?!?

Morning, Kimmie!

On another note, I am SO HAPPY it rained. My truck is now white again.

Lady~

March 23rd, 2012
9:44 am

Awwwww C!!!! had to handle some business! Thanks Sis!!!! ;)

Waving @ ITL!!!!! ;)

kimmie

March 23rd, 2012
9:44 am

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
9:45 am

Cel – I was thinking damn, just how big was that tub and how much water did she have in there. But maybe she passed out or something and slipped down into the water some how.

I already told yall I was at White Water one time with a two-piece bathing suit on…when I got off the slide, my top slipped up and was exposing one of the boobies. However, I did not notice until a little boy and his crew pointed it out to me. :oops:

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
9:48 am

ITL – I have Spring Fever with INEEDAVACATION type symptoms as well ;-) I’m thinking about riding out to Lookout Mtn in the morning just because…Not sure though. We’ll see what I have a feening/taste for when I wake up.

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:48 am

Slim – That’s what I thought and what they tried to sort of unofficially conclude before these reports. I’m no medical expert but I’d venture to say she probably succumbed before going down in the water.

Last night while out, we say a chick and this dude all “lay up” and I saw the edge of her areola. Buddy had no problem with her boobs hanging low and hanging out. Neither did she.

disco

March 23rd, 2012
9:50 am

as for general embarrassment – I’ve got a few good trips/falls under my belt. once a few years ago it was a little chilly but I was stalling on turning on the heat because gas prices were crazy. I had my arms tucked into my sweatsheart and went to climb the stairs. messed around and missed a step and tripped but couldn’t catch myself because my arms were in my shirt. my stairwell curves and so instead of falling straight up I fell head first into the wall.

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:52 am

I’m heading out in the morning to look for my kid’s Easter suit. We always have a HUGE program and it’s sort of geared to the teenagers. We have little kiddies but they have small roles. Our program is always Easter night so they’re up on stage and off and knocked out by 7:30…lol So the rest of the program is skits one main play and singing. So they’re all dudded up (and no I know that’s not what Easter is all about) with suits, hair styles and pumps. We’ve had a few that tried to slide in with what looks like CFMPs.

So, I’ll try and knock that out in the morning.

Purple

March 23rd, 2012
9:52 am

I think my most embarrasing moment is when I went out on a date on only had one pants leg ironed on my slacks. My date pointed it out to me LOL

Off Topic, My brothers, father and I got back in town after a week yesterday and one of the bulls, a stud, was out in the field roaming. I asked the wife why he was out there and she said he was not mating he was just in there goring the heifers and making a lot of noise so they seperated him and left him in the field. This morning about 4am I am out loading feed and the darn thing decides to charge me from about 30 yards away. All of a sudden I hear a rifle crack and see the bull drop. Wifey said she was worried about how the bull was acting so she was watching while I was working this morning and saw him coming at me and shot him. That was a dead on 50-60 yard head shot with a 30-6!!

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:54 am

I have though had other embarrasing moments but I wasn’t on a date though :neutral:

Mike P

March 23rd, 2012
9:54 am

Good Morning Ladies…

Yes the body is indeed a temple, so keep it holy, meaning reserve it for GOD and his spirit.

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
9:56 am

Mike P – You got that right. A temple indeed

kimmie

March 23rd, 2012
9:58 am

I had a “wardrobe malfunction” back when I was about 10. We were at I think Lake Lanier. I had on this little halter swimsuit and luckily all I had at the time were some mosquito bites up top. Anyway, this little boy kept messing with me on the beach. Finally I had had enough and went to swinging on his behind in the shallow water. I was in full windmill mode! I looked over on the beach where my mom & sister were sitting and they were falling out laughing. I look down and my swimsuit had come down to my waist!

disco

March 23rd, 2012
10:00 am

purple – that’s what you call having someone’s back.

kimmie – that’s funny but no worries. lots of chicks have come out of their clothes when fighting. I think that’s part of why men get a kick out of “chick fights”.

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
10:00 am

messed around and missed a step and tripped but couldn’t catch myself because my arms were in my shirt. my stairwell curves and so instead of falling straight up I fell head first into the wall.

Awwww disco…first let me ask if you were okay? Ok, I cannot hold it any longer. OMG! I almost choked on my breakfast sammich trying to picture that in my head. Dang I’m cracking up. :lol:

Purp – Hi there! You must’ve been excited about the date lol Now about the wifey taking the bull out, did that turn you on or freak you out just a weeeee whittle bit? :shock:

kimmie

March 23rd, 2012
10:01 am

Purple – High 5 to Jules! That’s one bad lady you’re married to!!

Celisea

March 23rd, 2012
10:03 am

Be back a bit later folks!

Leggs

March 23rd, 2012
10:04 am

‘I can’t think of anything overly embarrassing that happened to me. I’ – Not you disco (lol). I just knew you would have a story or two.

Good morning.

Purple

March 23rd, 2012
10:06 am

Slim, a little of both because I had my headphones on so I didn’t hear him coming at me but I heard the shot. I wanted to “play” when I got inside but by then she was getting dressed for work. Hooked it up to the 4 wheeler and drug it to the river so the wolves can eat on it.

disco

March 23rd, 2012
10:09 am

slim – even I had to laugh. initially I sat there kind of dumbfounded but yeah, it was funny.

leggs – yeah. I keep some entertaining stories to tell.

kimmie

March 23rd, 2012
10:09 am

Purple – The thought of that thing charging at you is scary though.

Purple

March 23rd, 2012
10:19 am

kimmie very very scary. I mean i’ve been charged before and when you expect it you can handle it but from the blind side never. Even more scary that she had the confidence to take that shot and hit the darn thing. Then get dressed to our son to my parents and go to work LOL

kimmie

March 23rd, 2012
10:21 am

Purple – Jules is probably like “All in a day’s work”! That’s a blessing – God was watching out for you guys, as always.

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
10:22 am

disco – At the beaus house there is a bathroom downstairs and the stairs are right about the bathroom. So he’s in the bathroom and I’m upstairs. I come down and next thing you know I slip, fall and ride the fall on down to the bottom of the stairwell. So you can only imagine what it sounded like to him in the bathroom. So i just laid there in shock for a moment before getting my wits back. He comes out and says, “Did you just fall down the stairs?!” I’m like, yeaaaaah :-( and he busts out laughing before he could ask me if I was alright. lol

Purp – Good thing for you that us women like to watch our men at work…it’s a turn on ;-)

Leggs

March 23rd, 2012
10:22 am

‘…instead of falling straight up I fell head first into the wall.” – Ok, that explains a lot. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Leggs

March 23rd, 2012
10:24 am

Damn, PR! Wifey got your back…you sound really, really proud! Sister can shoot…

Into the Light

March 23rd, 2012
10:25 am

Dang, Purp! Jules saved your life. Thank God she was watching.

LOL@disco. I’m imagining you trying to get your arms out to save yourself and getting all tangled. :)

Which reminds me of an embarassing story. I was at the gym one morning on the treadmill and started to get hot, so I decided to take my sweatshirt off. Rather than break stride, I thought I could do it while keeping pace. Yeah….I ended up sliding off the back and falling into the wall and then onto the floor, sweatshirt still stuck half over my head. If I were a cartoon, I’d have had those little birds flying around my head….

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
10:25 am

Leggs – Wow!!! :lol: You may get at least 3 minutes under the stairs for that one

disco

March 23rd, 2012
10:26 am

slim – it does make an awful lot of noise when someone falls down stairs. I’m not even mad at the beau. it’s almost second nature to laugh when someone falls.

leggs – you got jokes. thing is this was only a few years ago and I’ve been crazy since way before then.

Leggs

March 23rd, 2012
10:27 am

@Slim ~ I remember when my ex fell down the stairs and landed in the big flower pot at the bottom. I couldn’t get the words out to ask if he was ok because I was nearly dying with laughter.

Slim's got the fever!

March 23rd, 2012
10:27 am

ITL – :lol: :lol: :lol: Why is that one of my biggest fears when I’m on the treadmill?!!! I’m scared my shoe string will become loose and i’ll end up flying off that thing into the elliptals right behind them and cause a big scene.