My friend Joe told me about a woman he met recently who has a little hang up when it comes to accepting kind gestures, compliments, gifts from him. She told him that she is not accustomed to generous men, so when he shows that side to her she gets uncomfortable.
It is sad to think that women aren’t used to a guy pursuing them and treating them with kindness and generosity, but I have met a lot of women like this. It becomes that old self-fulfilling prophecy behavior thinking “If it is too good to be true, it probably is” or does the generosity come with strings?
Have you ever met or dated someone who is put off by generosity? Do you ever feel uncomfortable when someone showers you with romantic gifts?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Into the Light
March 22nd, 2012
6:14 pm
LOL. What did you say? I was talking to Zachery on the phone and couldn’t quite hear you….. (giggling, “Oh, Zachery, you say the funniest things….”)
i'm swiss
March 22nd, 2012
6:20 pm
Okay, I see how it is… Goodnight, you naughty little blog tease, you…
Into the Light
March 22nd, 2012
6:21 pm
Goodnight to you, Swiss.