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Dating: Act your age!

When you start dating someone new, you probably pay attention to how mature they are. While it is important to know you can have fun with them, you also should know they can handle their business. As in, grown up business: working, taking care of responsibilities, etc.

I meet a lot of single people who say they thought they were dating an adult but it was their “representative” that was the adult. The reality was they behaved like a spoiled child when they didn’t get their way. Or they had the emotional maturity of a teenager.

Have you ever met someone really great but just didn’t act his age? How do you know when you are a dating a man or a boy? How can you tell if she is a woman or a young girl pretending to be a grown up?

Shouldn’t maturity – or lack of- be a real deal breaker in dating? Why do so many of us stick with those immature people then complain about their …immaturity?

Has anyone ever told you that you needed to grow up? Did you take heed and take a look at how you conducted yourself in a relationship?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

282 comments Add your comment

i'm swiss

March 13th, 2012
1:06 pm

C — You knew I wouldn’t miss the “Swiss Signal” didn’t you? :lol:

SlimUno

March 13th, 2012
1:08 pm

Cel – You basically shined a big Camel Toe symbol in the sky…and herrreeeee’s Swiss as expected. :lol:

Celisea

March 13th, 2012
1:09 pm

Swiss – LOL….Not at all. I knew Puss as in Snagga would signal the big P in the sky, summoning our hero to the rescue :)

Celisea

March 13th, 2012
1:10 pm

Slim – LOL All I could think of was “Batman, to the batcave!”

Exiled!

March 13th, 2012
1:10 pm

Swiss?

well if that is the official definition seems like it’s a ‘ hit her from the back’ desire!

coz I figure,looking at her from behind,her $@8((6& is well developed and shapely!

Am I right? :lol:

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

March 13th, 2012
1:10 pm

The Gap-
the natural contour of a woman’s hips to high inner thigh, the V, typically more prevalent in thinner, bow-legged women, but also found in varying body types. Women with this genetic trait essentially have a gaping space between her thighs, in which the thighs do not touch each other….considered to be extremely visual stimulating to most heterosexual men. How’s that definition ladies…lol

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

March 13th, 2012
1:12 pm

i'm swiss

March 13th, 2012
1:14 pm

Wouldn’t it be more of a Roman numeral “U”? There’s not really a gap with a “V”. :lol:

SlimUno

March 13th, 2012
1:15 pm

I knew Puss as in Snagga would signal the big P in the sky, summoning our hero to the rescue

It’s a bird, It’s a Plane…It’s it’s Swiss Cap’n Save-a-Puss!!

Celisea

March 13th, 2012
1:17 pm

Looks like someone has studied GAPOLOGY

Leggs

March 13th, 2012
1:21 pm

@Ex ~ what makes you think I will oblige and tell you what a “gap” is (lol).

I told you at 12:33 their little feet was running to their keyboards the mention of baby got “gap.”

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

March 13th, 2012
1:29 pm

No Swiss, contrary to popular Gapology studies, it is actually more akin to a V. If you look at woman while sitting, you will see as her upper inner thigh is drawn closer to the hips, it actually forms a V, trust me, I am specialist in this field of study…lol.

cba

March 13th, 2012
1:32 pm

EX, I’ll bet Andrea Sniederman has a GAP…..it’ll make you delusional

Exiled!

March 13th, 2012
1:32 pm

Jake..thanx!

‘the thighs do not touch each other..’

‘how’s is that ladies?’

long pause..

All the blog ladies looking at, and placing their hands between thighs ,checking to prove the gap theory or lack thereof, before responding to Jake!

Leggs

March 13th, 2012
1:35 pm

Good one, cba, but she’s too wide to have a gap (lolol).

Fion

March 13th, 2012
1:35 pm

I heard Andrea has that Snapper!!! That real shonuff.

Leggs

March 13th, 2012
1:36 pm

@Ex ~ it’s quite apparent you really don’t know what a gap is, but please believe NONE of the ladies are checking. We know if we have one or not without looking. Some had gaps and lost them, and some never had them. No checking is needed, mister man!

Celisea

March 13th, 2012
1:36 pm

I hate to break up the convo but my kid will be 17 in exactly 30 days :) I hope I don’t kill her before that time…lol

Celisea

March 13th, 2012
1:39 pm

I guess it’s true, crazy is the best!

Celisea

March 13th, 2012
1:42 pm

Mmeello – Let me put you on the spot. Can you confirm if crazy is the best?

Fion

March 13th, 2012
1:42 pm

Dr. Jake I concur with your prognosis. Gentlemen, this condition is also referred to as a “Phat Rabbit”.

Next slide please.

Leggs

March 13th, 2012
1:46 pm

It would seem the phatter the rabbit, the less you’ll be able to distinguish the gap (lol).

Exiled!

March 13th, 2012
1:47 pm

Cba…Andrea def got it.

She ain’t necessarily pretty but her look oozes a certain sexual aura….

I hope the dude is found guilty and she is scot free..with no criminal charges pending.

We will just just have to wait and see what the next man that hits it will experience.

I never thunk a Jewish woman would have it like that.

But :lightbulb: was Mary Magadelene Jewish?

If not that bible history is proly fudged! :lol:

Purple

March 13th, 2012
1:48 pm

Fion, I beg to differ a gap is not always the sign of a phat rabbit.

i'm swiss

March 13th, 2012
1:49 pm

Jake — Thanks for the visual. Seriously, thanks. :lol: But I never thought of the “V” as being a “gap.” Being a white boy, when I hear “gap” I think of chicks who are booty-deficient and have that skeletal look to their hips/crotchal regions. :lol: Cultural differences, I guess. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
1:49 pm

Fion:

Don’t forget it also is reffered as a fur burger, kitty and, cootie cat.

Into the Light

March 13th, 2012
1:51 pm

(covering my ears)

la la la la la la la la la

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
1:52 pm

LOL……@Light

i'm swiss

March 13th, 2012
1:52 pm

This is why standardized tests are inherently culturally biased. :lol:

Leggs

March 13th, 2012
1:53 pm

I think it would be better if you cover your eyes….

Purple

March 13th, 2012
1:54 pm

Swiss some nice thick girls have a gap also!

Into the Light

March 13th, 2012
1:55 pm

LOL@Leggs. Good idea!!!

Purple

March 13th, 2012
1:55 pm

Leggs has to have a gap. I have never heard nor seen a woman with nice toned legs without a gap. LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
1:57 pm

Purple yep she does.

SlimUno

March 13th, 2012
1:57 pm

fion :lol: I’m digging visualizing the MLB sitting in a dark classroom watching different slides of phatty catty’s, gaps, furry burgers, beef curtain etc and you standing at the back of the class with a white lab coat on

Fion

March 13th, 2012
1:58 pm

@Dr. Purple
Let me delineate the hypothesis. Although the “Gap’ (Slender thighs) does not guarantee the Phat Rabbit, but rather enhances ones ability
to see that thang……..hummppp excuse me, the subject area.

Button

March 13th, 2012
1:59 pm

Leggs – he only said that to shut you down. Tit for tat.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

March 13th, 2012
2:00 pm

Swiss, you aren’t wrong per se, a lot of the mocha’s have that structure, with plenty of meat attached…

Leggs..we call that a Hanging Monkey…lol

Into the Light

March 13th, 2012
2:00 pm

I’m learning so much today…. :)

Exiled!

March 13th, 2012
2:01 pm

Cel?

as far as the romp is concerned,yep,crazy is da bomb

but the woman carrying the crazy is crazier a lotta times…

so that’s a conundrum men are faced with.

Kinda like that chic Left Eye!!

Fiya pudy,that chic!

J-Ho bootey? Blah and cold.. Stick a finger in it and u like ,naw,he’ll naw :frown:

SlimUno

March 13th, 2012
2:02 pm

BF – Don’t hurt cha self trying to heist your leg up on that so fast lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
2:02 pm

disco

March 13th, 2012
2:05 pm

slim – whatcha trying to say? queen gone go in his grill? too funny. and not that we (y’all) are discussing gaps.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

March 13th, 2012
2:07 pm

Dr. Purp, thank you for the concurring research results.

Professor Fion, that observation will be duly noted, and cited as such.

SlimUno

March 13th, 2012
2:09 pm

disco – Exactly ;-) Queen didn’t make it this far being Queen without gettin in his arse when he ack up. I’m sure they have a great “Checks & Balances” plan in place.

I’m learning so much today…

ITL – I hope you’re taking notes because ya neva know when we get that Pop Quiz ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
2:09 pm

Slim1

Leggs knew she was in the presence of a bonafide wolf. I wouldn’t allow her to see my fangs. Just sniffing out the gap……..LOL

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda TWB

March 13th, 2012
2:10 pm

BF…I’m done man, just having lil fun…

SlimUno

March 13th, 2012
2:14 pm

BlackWolf – Now you know you can’t be talking like that all willy nilly. You gone make Ex knock his desk over. :lol:

Okay since yall tombout the female gap, what’s up with yall and that circular wet spot on the front of your pants after you exit the restroom? Sometimes you might have to throw an extra shake in there to ensure you get it all. That ain’t cute :shock:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
2:14 pm

Something about that gap, whether two finger or three it hollers out at a man.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

March 13th, 2012
2:14 pm

I meant “wolf”…….LOL