What would you do if you were seeing someone who had a problem with constantly checking other people out? I ask because I am curious to know how many people would actually find this rude behavior a forgivable offense?
If everything else about the person is pretty great, could you live with their wandering eye? Does it mean you are dating a jerk? I’ve heard the argument that if you are “secure” then it should not bother you. Do you agree with that?
Admittedly, the “wandering eye” can happen without you even realizing it. Someone catches your eye and it’s normal to turn and look at them closer, right?
I can say that it has happened to me once (ok twice, but I had sunglasses on) but if it is a habitual thing? Not good – it could easily land you in the disrespectful territory you don’t want to be in.
Why do you think some people have a problem with letting their eyes wander even when their date next to them?
A lot of people will think having a wandering eye is rude, but is it a deal breaker? Would you dump someone over it if they are “just looking”? Is it a precursor to two-timing?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog