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How will I know?

Whitney Houston, may she rest in peace, sang the music that many of us grew up on. Her songs are the soundtracks to my first love, first heartbreak, first restraining order (don’t ask) – and her voice got me through a lot of tough times.

I remember going through those emotions of being uncertain about a guy. I think looking back, that is exactly how he wanted it – uncertain. Have you ever fallen for someone who was not forthcoming about how they felt about you? It’s not the best position to be in and they end up having a lot of “power” in the relationship. If someone wants power in a relationship, that is a clear sign there is a problem.

You should not have to wonder or question how someone feels about you. When it feels like a big guessing game, it’s because someone is playing one.

How will you know when someone has good intentions?

If you are in love, falling in love, or are seriously smitten with someone, what do you do to show them?

Happy Valentine’s Day to those that acknowledge it!

For those who don’t…kick rocks Cupid!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

227 comments Add your comment

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
8:20 am

Good Morning Hearts of MIA!!!! ;) I love this song how will I know by Whitney Houston!!!! It was my first video upload as I’ve been celebrating her life!!!!

The little priceless acts always rocks 365 and the 14th of February its just a tad bit more special as we celebrate love for ourselves and the ones who adore us unconditionally! ;)

Happy Valentine’s Day!!!!! ;)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
8:25 am

How will you know when someone has good intentions? hmmmmm your heart may skip a beat and things will happen effortlessly and consistently……the actions will match what is being said and you will be at peace making decisions with and for this person………..deep down we know when it is right for us or not. It is what we do with it either way that will determine the said outcome~

I Love Him..I Love Him Not...

February 14th, 2012
8:32 am

As quirkey as I am…he won’t go away…I Love him.

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 14th, 2012
8:35 am

Good day.

“How will you know when someone has good intentions?”

I think the best way to gauge anyone’s intentions is by their effort and their consistency! Consistency is the best indicator of anyones effort and it is releated to everyone thing, (how much time they spend together, calling, getting to know each other.) Its all about consistency!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
8:37 am

quirky is a good thing bc I am quirky and I am cool with that! LOL

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
8:41 am

~Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. -Lao Tzu~

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
8:56 am

How will you know?

You will Never know for sure,100% !!!! People will proclaim love but it’s not Always that way. And love evolves and fades away.

Love yourself!
That should be the ever present Constant.
Someone can love you today but not tomorrow. You can’t spend your time worrying bout that!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
8:58 am

Someone can love you today but not tomorrow. You can’t spend your time worrying bout that! <<<<<So True Ex! Hi there!

Mike P

February 14th, 2012
9:01 am

Good Morning,

Kick rocks Cupid USA…AKA the Commercial Industrial Complex. Scamming Men since 1955.

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:02 am

Love doesn’t make the world go round.
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:02 am

LOL Mike P!!!!! women buy too plus its a leap year~!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:27 am

why does the IRS suck! grrrrrr! sheesh!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:29 am

how many “Happy Valentine Day” texts from numbers not save in your phone do you all get?!? these folks are amusing I have not clue…..lol

MsMarriedUp

February 14th, 2012
9:42 am

Very interesting, and probing question…One I’ve asked before… maybe not in these exact words, but similar, to come up with being unable to trust no one but myself…why I no longer ask this question.

People change, they flip, turn on us (with and without cause we don’t always understand). They may start out loving, and then next I know…I do something like drop a pot-holder on their foot…they tell another confidant who tells them x,y, z… *general* stuff like this is how and what changes people…alongside a host of other reasons that people feel one way in one space of time, and then another at some distant time.

I will say, I love everyone. My children and my husband I love the deepest, though most know once *we* bond, they’ll never lose my friendship/love unless they decide to change that.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

February 14th, 2012
9:43 am

Happy Valentine’s Day Blogsville!

Just stepping in for sec to say hi! Hoping I’ll get a chance to chime back in later!

Lady – Love this —> Love doesn’t make the world go round.
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
9:46 am

Happy Valentine’s Morning and Day All!

I can so identify with Wise about the dude that kept her uncertain. Looking back at a few guys I dated earlier in my life, they were masters at keeping me uncertain, guessing, on edge. They were evasive and elusive. It was a horrible place to be in. I vowed never again.

That is what I love about my husband. From day one he made his intentions crystal clear. I have never had to 2nd guess where I stood in his life or his feelings for me. He not only shows me in his actions, he expresses his feelings to me. I need both and he gives me both. In turn, I show him how I feel by my dedication to do everything I can to make his life and that of the kids as comfortable and happy as I can. I also tell them too, that I love them.

I looked at him at church on Sunday, so handsome and kind to everyone. I have to pinch myself sometimes and still wonder how I was so blessed.

Like Whitney in her song, I used to ask myself how will I know. I hate to use the old cliche’, but when that person comes along, you definitely know – there is no question in your mind!

Bluzgirl

February 14th, 2012
9:49 am

O/T…I stuck to my guns. Last night was the first night without him in the house. He still has to move stuff out, but I think he’s going to get most of it out tonight because I won’t be home. It’s been really, really hard. I know I’m gonna cry and be sad for a while, but I’ll pick up the pieces and move on. Just thought I’d let ya’ll know…

Robert.

February 14th, 2012
9:49 am

Communication makes things so much easier.

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
9:49 am

For you Stevie Wonder fans, he has a song called You Will Know that’s wonderful.

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:50 am

Waving @ Mo!!!!! Long time sis! :) Thank You!

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
9:50 am

Atta girl, Bluz. It will get better. Trust!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:51 am

Bluzgirl keep pressing forward sis!!!!!! its a process!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:52 am

From day one he made his intentions crystal clear. <<<<<<<Kimmie I love this and must say it feels great to get this! ;)

Bluzgirl

February 14th, 2012
9:55 am

Thanks ya’ll…one day at a time for me…gotta lean on my friends during this time and not allow myself to crawl into a hole…

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
9:57 am

I embraced my support system chica!!!! They are there for a reason!

singlelongtime

February 14th, 2012
9:59 am

Bluzgirl: Thinking bout ya girl!!! Remember, this too shall pass. Now you start with a clean slate and just look forward to what lies ahead for you…..good things, I’m sure!!!

disco

February 14th, 2012
10:00 am

good morning. thanks kimmie for putting Stevie wonder in my head. I’d been stuck on “how will I know” for a while. funny though, I went from you will know to the song that’s in the outsiders.

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
10:00 am

Good morning, Haven’t read the topic, haven’t read any posts but HAPPY LOVERS DAY AND IF YOU DON’T HAVE A LOVER THEN LOVE YOSELF AND YO FRIENDS AND YO FAMILY! <3

xoxoxoxoxoxo

Mike P

February 14th, 2012
10:04 am

Hey there Lady~

why does the IRS suck! grrrrrr! sheesh!
–Because it is in its nature.

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
10:09 am

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
10:17 am

oh and Hello Mike P!

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
10:17 am

HiYas!

Have you ever fallen for someone who was not forthcoming about how they felt about you?
now this is, indeed, foreign to me.

kimmie, i am soooo feeling your posts today.

even if you DO have a lover, still luv yourself, friends and fam. there’s room enough in your heart for everyone. and every luv serves a purpose.

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
10:24 am

Hey Brat! Thanks, have a sweet one!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
10:48 am

Valentine’s joke – Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go out to a nice restaurant TWO TIMES a week. A little candlelight, soft music, dinner, and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays. ~Red (lol think these couples do exist)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
10:53 am

Valentine’s joke- One man says to another man, “My wife is an angel.” The other man says, “You’re lucky, mine is still alive.” <<<<SMH LOL

i'm swiss

February 14th, 2012
10:54 am

Slim — Did you just tell single folks to practice some self loving? ;-)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
10:55 am

I wanna see a good comedy movie and the new Eddie Murphy movie looks funny (or I am just bias bc I love him lol)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
10:57 am

“Love is just a word until some comes along and gives it meaning”<<<<Of course love starts within also! ;)

Tom Cruise

February 14th, 2012
11:01 am

If you are married, what do you get out of participating in this blog?

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
11:03 am

God bless the married folk with no dating experience. :roll:

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
11:03 am

You are lucky mine is still alive!

Lol

@Lady!

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
11:04 am

Lady – I forgot about this Whitney song I used to love/still do – All The Man That I Need!

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
11:06 am

Brat – Love your 11:03! I mean really!!LOL!!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:07 am

Kimmie love that song sis!!!! your husband sounds wonderful and I am truly happy for you!!!!!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:07 am

czBrat PREACH!

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
11:08 am

Thanks Lady!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:09 am

Kimmie I like Saving all my love for you too honey! Whitney is CLASSIC! #tear this is this first day I am not completely said about her passing. sigh I am cool with the death it is just the way she went out….

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:10 am

meant SAD not said smh lol

Mo (aka Moeisha)

February 14th, 2012
11:11 am

Ok, able to drop back in…

Lol @ Im Swiss with the ’self loving’….HA!!

Lady – yeah chica been a minute, new job keeps a sistah BUSY!

Tonight is date night for me and Lil Mo. After homework is done, its a movie – Captain America. Gotta love the kiddies!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:12 am

awwwww lil Mo!!!! it is baseball and softball season and lil lady is looking forward to softball! we have to reconnect soon Mo!!!!! ;)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:13 am

Her funeral is Saturday! I am so glad they aren’t holding her body!

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
11:13 am

@Lady?

Whitney went out happy and in bliss considering she had just puffed some.

I watched Jennifer Holiday on Piers Mirgan last nite. She seemed honest. She hit the music scene with Whitney same time and said they All sniffed at that time. Bobby!(yelling his name) had none to do with her sniffing issues. Chaka Khan said so too on same show.

Very candid discussion.

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:15 am

you are so right sir I eluding to that Sunday on my fb post…….

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:18 am

~Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. #tears

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:19 am

NP Glenn Jones Here we go again!!!!! Love this joint! ;)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:23 am

& I agree they need to stop with Bobby! He has much to contend with! it was reported he hasn’t seen his daughter yet! I have a hard time believing that but all families have dysfunctions and folks need to chill out a bit

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:24 am

Bobby’s new girlfriend is pretty too! he keeps a woman!

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:27 am

my child wants me to come to her party after school I have a meeting though what will yall do?!?

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
11:31 am

Did you just tell single folks to practice some self loving?

swiss – Well since you put it that way, I suppose so.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
11:31 am

I think Bobby has a drink and grass habit. His lips give him away.
But whitney’s death will proly make him take a pause.

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:32 am

I agree Ex!!!!

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
11:36 am

Oh Lady,I grew up around cousins and uncles puffing on skrooong African Wild kush..

I know! Lol

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:38 am

how is your brother?!? Mine has been stable for the past two years with minor setbacks but he has been maintaining

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
11:38 am

lady, depends entirely on whether the meeting is optional.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
11:38 am

Jamaican kush is blah

African kush will have u singing Methodist hym
songs morning till sunset

:lol: :lol:

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:38 am

no grady for 2 years I will take that! ;)

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:39 am

u singing Methodist hym
songs morning till sunset<<<<<,I was raised on those Methodist hymns lol but no kush lol i sucked @ smoking lol

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
11:40 am

He is on the mend,much difference since I went home

Reminds me I owe his therapist 3 grand

Thx for asking

Lady~I say a prayer with every heartbeat-Whitney Houston

February 14th, 2012
11:42 am

no prob sir!!!! you good people sir!!!!! ok y’all until later I will be back! ;)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

February 14th, 2012
11:45 am

Lady – yes, it is baseball season so Im about to be busier!! Is Lil Lady playing softball? And yeah we will have to get together!

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
12:00 pm

Just got some flowers

Where is everybody these days?

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
12:02 pm

Gasp, gasp, gasping for air….

Good afternoon you fine folk. Happy V-Day to all.

@Bluz ~ it’s hard in the beginning, but it will get better. Dance with yourself sometimes (it will make you laugh).

O/T ~ I felt bad for Rite-Aid last night. Walgreen’s parking lot was jammed packed and only 5 cars were over at Rite Aid. Took lil leggs to by a card for her little crush. As we were walking out the store, he and his mom walked in. That was too cute!

As fa as the topic “How Will I Know,” according to Cher “It’s In His Kiss”….

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
12:09 pm

Leggs!

Those flowers and then God decides to fuse some wintry mix in the weather ….

there is gon be a lota loving tonite and objectives accomplished by those flowers. Lol

Trust!

@Slim?

soo u giving it up tonite since the flowers arrived? Lol

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
12:12 pm

What flowers are you talking about, Ex?

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
12:14 pm

the ones Slim got from the pot bellied car dealer for Valentines.

Lol

Purple

February 14th, 2012
12:15 pm

Happy side chick awareness day!

On topic, you will know when you know. There is no set way to know. For some love is real and forever…some are skeptics and keep their guard up…those will never know true love to the fullest.

Bluz, I hope you have a wonderful day. Do something fun and safe tonight.

Although issues arise I am happy to know that she is all mine. Happy Valentine’s Day to you all

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
12:20 pm

Bluzgirl

February 14th, 2012
12:25 pm

Luckily, tonight, I have dinner plans at a restaurant that is donating 20% to a non profit that I’m involved in. Will be surrounded by people who love me lots! If I cry to them, I’ll have all kinds of hugs! :-) I’m glad I have something positive to do tonight.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
12:29 pm

That’s excellent, Bluz. You don’t need to be alone today!

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
12:29 pm

Ex – You’re wrong for the pot-bellied car dealer dude but these came from the beau. Naw, he isn’t getting any tonight. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, My Bloody Valentine :-(

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
12:31 pm

And speaking of MBV, my apologies for the jinx. You know who you are :lol:

disco

February 14th, 2012
12:35 pm

aww naw purple – too funny!!! side chick awareness day. that’s what’s up. look at all the angles. the man with the side chick needs to look out for her today. the wife of the man with the side chick needs to be on her game. the side chick gets to stand up and be “proud” for this one day. wow! now that’s sharing the vday love.

also – purple’s comment about skeptics missing out makes me wonder about the folks who are in love all the time. in particular I have a friend who got divorced. post-divorce she had 3 or 4 “friends”. thing is she swore she was in love with each and every one of them. personally, I didn’t understand that and I still don’t.

Purple

February 14th, 2012
12:41 pm

disco, side chicks got yesterday or tomorrow as Valentines…just not today. Or they may have a dude who’s woman knows the deal and then said side chick will not get Valentines until this weekend. Vice Versa for fellas. I really don’t believe you can be in love more than twice in a lifetime. But that is just my opinion.

disco

February 14th, 2012
12:43 pm

side chick day reminded me of marry your baby daddy day. yes. that’s real. or at least it was. it was some years ago and some non-profit was encouraging couples that were in long-term relationships, lived together and had children to get married.

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
12:44 pm

picture this: s/o has sent flowers the last three years in a row. this year he said “i know you’re not big on this holiday so i’ll stop”. so the UPS guy just showed up with a boxed flower delivery and i actually got a little giddy, until i see they’re for my boss. :sad: as i’m signing for the package, in walks my honey with orchids, cards and candy.

ugh! i just hate it when he’s sooooo sweet! :razz:

Oran Juice

February 14th, 2012
12:48 pm

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
12:57 pm

some are skeptics and keep their guard up…those will never know true love to the fullest.
HEY!!

disco, my first reaction to the “marry your baby daddy day” was :shock: . but yeah, if we’re talking about folks making babies in long-term relationships i say go ahead and make the commitment to each other while you’re at it.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
1:03 pm

@czB ~ that is so fabulous! I got flowers delivered today, much to my suprise. Inside the box were two cards. One read “To my wonderful wife, I hope this makes you smile as much as you make me smile. Love Always, Kyle.”

I kept looking at my name on the box, and back to the card knowing I’m no one’s wife and I know no one named Kyle. It took me a minute to find the other card. The other card said “Hope these brighten your day, Love Mayah!” What a nice surprise and I know her father had a hand in it.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
1:12 pm

That video cracked me up! How come that dang bag was full with him stuffing her clothes in it only to be flat with her walking down the street? Parting words, “Don’t Touch that Coat….” – Hilarious!

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
1:13 pm

lmao! leggs, did you have a twilight zone moment? :lol: :lol:

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
1:30 pm

I sure did, czB. Immediately felt like the side chick who got the wife’s flowers by mistake (roflmao).

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
1:41 pm

Ladies?

have u observed or seen any flower movements at your office today that seem suspect..like it is a self delivery?

Or a remark that suggests home girl is not happy that v day is blank for her.

@Disco..howre u spending the nite?

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
1:46 pm

Dang, don’t even ask how you spending the day, just the nite!!

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
1:51 pm

me-lo, there are only three of us in this office. i work with two older white women. i seriously doubt they’d have any noteworthy shenanigans going on.

but then again, who the he!! knows. *shrugs*

gentlemen, have you observed any covert tactics among your co-workers? dudes picking up cards, candies & flowers in sets of two or more perhaps? speed-dialing different numbers, always leaving the same tender message to a generic pet name?

just wondering.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
1:52 pm

I know she’s at work and got no known boyfriend

but darkness + sleet + cold may warrant some valentine cosines.

Slim?

my bad but u wrong for that bloody V…just as well he not a newbie there.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
1:55 pm

poppin’ back in!!!! what have I missed?!?

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
1:57 pm

Bluz are you going to Agave?!? if so enjoy honey that place is so good and it gives back the 20% to some type of charity weekly !

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
1:58 pm

Ex I haven’t seen any flowers around this piece………..

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
1:59 pm

“There is no remedy for love but to love more.” -Thoreau

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
1:59 pm

@Ex ~ I realized this is a foolish question, but why do you talk about coochie all day, everyday?

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:00 pm

What u get for Vee day Lady?

from dude wooing u…?

did he pass the Vday test?

if any u ladies fore go shenanigans over the weekend,reserving them for today,that was a good decision.

If I were ur dude I elf leave wrk at 3:35 and go home to light up the fire.

Snugging in front of fireplace,wine beside us…

Its goin Down!

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:04 pm

Valentine’s joke- There’s two ways to keep your marriage on point. 1. When you’re wrong admit it. 2. When you are right, shut up. <<<<,lol interesting

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:05 pm

Ex he did and I can’t even share it was priceless and very thoughtful he is a winner and almost my official Boo! he is a winner! ;) wow! :)

Bluzgirl

February 14th, 2012
2:05 pm

Hmmm…my post didn’t show. Lady…I’m going to D.B.A. Barbecue

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:07 pm

Valentine’s Joke- Woman says I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day = Bitter. Man says I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day =Cheap

disco

February 14th, 2012
2:07 pm

leggs – thanks for that day/nite thing with exiled. that was kind of called for. the way I see it if I’m single all day valentine’s day then I’m single all night valentine’s night. it’s all good.

ex – no known boyfriend? as opposed to an unknown boyfriend?

leggs – why does ex talk about coochie all day? well have you never “talked something up”. lol. maybe he thinks if he talks about it / writes about it some will magically appear.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:07 pm

oh ok cool!!! Bluz maybe one evening we can do happy hour @ Agave! I would love to meet you sis!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:07 pm

Awww, Lady is winning (lol)…

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:09 pm

LEGGS!!!!! Yes ma’am I am ready! ;)

Bluzgirl

February 14th, 2012
2:11 pm

@Lady…that would be fun! Once I get back to being on track financially, we’ll plan it!

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
2:12 pm

it was priceless and very thoughtful he is a winner and almost my official Boo! he is a winner! wow!
luv this ^

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

czBrat thank you honey!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

Not talking about Valentine Day, but why do men believe because it’s a holiday you automatically supposed to be having sex…President’s Day, Ground Hog Day, Mother’s Day, Yom Kippur….

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:14 pm

get it krunk ms leggs!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:15 pm

Ready…whatcha ready for Ms. Lady???

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:17 pm

a real exclusive relationship Ms Leggs! ;) #embracingiteffortlessly ;)

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:19 pm

finally some congruence leggs……….finally

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:19 pm

@Leggs ??

why automatic s e x for men?

well,men just know and appreciate good food

the way to a man’s heart is good food….literally and figuratively

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
2:21 pm

but why do men believe because it’s a holiday you automatically supposed to be having sex…
and why do men think every day is a holiday?

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:22 pm

screamin’ lol

cba

February 14th, 2012
2:22 pm

:-) @ Ms Lady
I’m kinda missing reading Ms Celisea…….Leggs you know anything?? :-)

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:22 pm

Show me a happy married middle aged man

the wife is Not feigning headaches!

:lol: LOL

disco

February 14th, 2012
2:23 pm

leggs (and all the co-signers) let’s not jump on men for expecting/wanting sex on bdays/holidays. part of that is just their sexual greed but some of it is because they are with women that dole it out a little at a time. those guys almost have to wait for special occasions to get it. that might have a little to do with purple’s notion of “side chick day”.

ex – the way to a man’s heart is through his chest, with a bullet. okay. sorry that wasn’t vday appropriate. i recant.

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
2:24 pm

how bout i just realized the cartoon on my desk calendar this month is pepe le pew forcing a kiss from his unrequited love. hilarious!

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:25 pm

cba you so crossed my mind one day I will share why but you were right! ;) Thank you sir! ;)

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:26 pm

I miss C too but was trying to remain quiet about it lol Leggs is she okay?!?

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:26 pm

pepe le pew forcing a kiss from his unrequited love <<<<<Classic! awwww!

cba

February 14th, 2012
2:28 pm

EX, I might be a couple of notches pass middle-age, but having sex with my wife, when I want is really no issue and never has been. Maybe I’m one of the lucky few, issue of having sex is waaaaaaaaaaaay down the list.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:28 pm

Disco? thru his chest?

I will take that one if thats coming from a spurned ex wife/girlfriend.

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
2:31 pm

Afternoon All,

Happy Valentines Day to the blog Ladies. I hope your day everything you want it to be and more.

I haven’t read yet sooooo please tell me this isn’t a mushy mushy day round here.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:32 pm

Cba?

It’s not an issue because having it is not an issue in your marriage,right?

If u didn’t have when U want it it would be an issue

It’s like saying Mitt Romney has no issue with money
how can he?
:lol:

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:33 pm

Valentine’s Joke- When a man steals your wife, there is no better way to avenge him than to let him keep her. <<<<yall see I am getting these from a man LOL too funny! lol

disco

February 14th, 2012
2:33 pm

aww ex, that’s just one of my hard chick jokey jokes. besides I think that statement is far more true than that through his stomach mess. we’ve pointed out countless times how many fellas love women that can’t cook.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:33 pm

Hey WD! ;) Thanks!

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
2:33 pm

what happened to c? and where has sexy been?

granted their business is none of mine, but they’re exceptionally cool ladies. wishing them well.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:34 pm

It’s like saying Mitt Romney has no issue with money
how can he? <<<<<< dead ex! smh LOL

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:39 pm

awwww SNE died from exposure to cold weather! bless her heart! ;(

cba

February 14th, 2012
2:39 pm

EX, that was in reference to your 2:22……but you did mention happy. At this stage of the game, sex is only one of the many ingredients, sorta like strong concrete, it requires cement, sand, gravel, water, fly ash, etc :-)

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:40 pm

Food and sex

for men

Top 2!

@Disco…if the woman ain’t cooking,he is buying the food but getting lots of sex

There has to be a trade off

Food + sex = happy

No food + no sexy but appearing happy = cheating

but u may not know this, looking in

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 14th, 2012
2:42 pm

Happy V-Day folks….

Ya’ll get off Ex, he just thinking out loud.

Diso-sexual greed, nah….how bout men just love puddy, and we don’t mind lettin the world know.

Well Slim, its a Bloody VDay you say, I am sure there are other things you can do to make it a very special occassion, P90Neck excercises

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:44 pm

@Lady ~ Finally….I’m happy for you! Now, remember the 3 C’s! Unfortunately, I can only think of two of them…communication and consistency. Anyone remember the other C???

@czB ~ funny, but true!!!

@cba ~ waiting to hear back from her? Will let you know.

“ex – the way to a man’s heart is through his chest, with a bullet. okay. sorry that wasn’t vday appropriate. i recant.” Pure comedy!

disco

February 14th, 2012
2:44 pm

okay here’s a question for the fellas present. with all of ex’s lack of sex talk, has any man here ever been in a relationship with a woman that wanted it more than he does? it’s been known to happen. or any woman here have a man that couldn’t keep up?

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:44 pm

Cba? But u also said past middle age

meaning testestorene levels are going down as well

so fulfillment comes in more ways than just food and sex

U know it

Don’t deceive these single chics

They marry and ration it(sex)

= cheating by their mates plus unhappiness ! :lol:

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:47 pm

@Jake?

P90Neck exercises!

Lol
She got u! Lol

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:48 pm

Thank You Leggs!

LOL Jake count me in for Bloody VDay too! its true about that timing and folks youinteract with! lol damn you slim too damn funny!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:50 pm

Here’s a msg from Celisea:

Hey there….Awwww, that’s sweet. I got about 3 February 17 deadlines I’m wrapping. Working simultaneously on all so I’m snowed. I’ll try and pop in. Tell those missing me I said hello.

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 14th, 2012
2:51 pm

Disco-cant say that I have had any ladies with my appetite!

Ex brought up Rationing-a woman’s biggest mistake in her intimate relationship, never use it as a weapon, the average man will find another supplier if the lady cannot handle the demand.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:51 pm

did y’all read this?!? A Letter to Roland: Make It Right

Tom Joyner

I think one of the things that makes the TJMS work is that, like a real family, we bring a variety of personalities, talents and flaws to the table, yet we accept our differences and roll with them. It only becomes a problem when one of our actions – or lack thereof – begins to detract from our overall goal, which is to entertain and empower black people.

As head of the family, I’ve sat back as long as I could, hoping I wouldn’t have to say anything. But now the time has come.

So, Roland, we love you and need you full force to be able to do what you do – represent us and our views on CNN and other arenas. In order to continue your role on that show, on the speaking circuit, etc., it’s time for you to make a sincere apology to GLAAD (The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation). When people are offended by something we say or do, it doesn’t matter what our intentions are. The job of the offender is simply to apologize and learn a lesson about what to say or do going forward.

Your mission is greater than your principal. It’s no longer about you. Now it’s grown into something bigger than you are, but only you can make right.

We love and appreciate what you do as a journalist, an analyst and commentator. You are a much -needed voice in the community and have the gift of being able to relate with everybody from the ‘hood to the White House.

We’ve gone through this with another family member who refused to turn around. I sure would hate to see pride silence another important voice.

Make it right, Roland, so we can move forward.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
2:54 pm

good deal leggs!

i'm swiss

February 14th, 2012
2:54 pm

“Now, remember the 3 C’s! Unfortunately, I can only think of two of them…communication and consistency. Anyone remember the other C???”

Cunnilingus.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
2:57 pm

GLAAD is f cking even the heteros too

We done!

We vanguished!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:57 pm

OMG, swiss! OMG. I walked right into that one! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
2:58 pm

P90Neck excercises

Jake – Daaaaamn you came in banging I see…lol

I think the excitement that surrounds holiday’s, birthdays, V-day etc is you are usually in a good mood during these times, especially if you have a special someone to share it with. So you’re in a good mood, you’re happy and happy people like to get it on. Ever notice that sometimes the sex is better on those special days? (and even more so if it’s sloppy drunk humping) ;-)

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
2:59 pm

That tickled me to the bone!

disco

February 14th, 2012
2:59 pm

lady – re the roland letter. am I the only one who hates fake A apologies? I’m all for a sincere apology but an apology just for the sake of political correctness or smoothing something over – whatever. and for the person/group with the hurt feelings that is willing to accept a fake A apology, I feel like they have bigger issues. folks need to grow up, man up, toughen up and deal. I can’t stand anybody whining about their hurt feelings. I’ve received fake apologies from folks and really and truly, apology or not, I never really effed with that person the same way again. now if I think you meant it we might be able to work past it and move on.

sorry for the tirade but like I said – I can’t stand fake apologies. (disclaimer: and by no means am I for or against roland – I’m not even caught up on what went down with that situation).

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
3:00 pm

Cunnilingus. 0_o lol

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
3:01 pm

got you disco I see both sides of the argument……….I just see him like Tavis Smiley if he don’t apologize! it was easy to read between those lines! Tom said “Don’t make me” bc i will! wow lol

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
3:03 pm

I think Glaad folks want folks to say they like the Becham commercial or shut up..

If u don’t like it don’t say it

I’m for Roland

Free speech

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
3:04 pm

money talk and I guess corporate money talks more #shrugs

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
3:05 pm

has anyone played the video on the google home page today? i’m curious what it says to you?

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 14th, 2012
3:05 pm

Hey Slim, why tip-toe in, when there is door in front saying kick me!!

Disco-As for Roland, the whole issue is bull, he made a comment about the Beckham undie commercial, essentially saying that if a dude at your SBowl party got excited during that commercial, you should slap the ish out of him…is it suggestive, Yes, is it hate speech, he!! no, and Roland should stick to his guns….and on another note, FuG Tom Joyner!!!

cba

February 14th, 2012
3:06 pm

Lady, I’m wondering if Anderson Cooper is behind this more than GLAAD. I reread that tweet many times, I just don’t see gay bashing. But!! Roland should have used better judgement than putting it out there for the world to read.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
3:07 pm

well hey to you too Jake! lol

y’all have a good one! peace~ ;)

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
3:07 pm

cba I am thing Don Lemon his disgust bothers me and he irks me too! Anderson can kick rocks! I don’t do him @ all he seems ___________.

Lady~

February 14th, 2012
3:08 pm

meant I think

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:10 pm

So what if a guy at the SBowl party got excited over that commercial. Is Roland saying you shouldn’t have gay friends?

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:10 pm

@cba ~ did you see the msg from Celisea???

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
3:10 pm

Who is the other family member Tom Joyner is referring to?

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 14th, 2012
3:10 pm

Hey Lady!!….don’t mind me , I just think TJoyner is a punk, and his open letter toward Roland is inappropriate and only puts his brotherman up against the wall, who does this help?

disco

February 14th, 2012
3:10 pm

jake – that’s the gist of what I’ve heard through word of mouth but I didn’t read/watch any news to confirm any facts. I, too, agree with him and his statement and even if I didn’t agree with it I don’t think that it’s offensive. gay folks (and their support groups) ought to know by now that there will always be folks for them and folks against them. they need to get some business.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:12 pm

Awww, Marvin Gaye’s “Get To This” is one…now, that’s one pelvic thrusting dance song (LOLOLOL).

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:12 pm

@Ex – Tavis Smiley!!!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:13 pm

“… and his open letter toward Roland is inappropriate and only puts his brotherman up against the wall, who does this help?” – My thoughts exactly.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
3:13 pm

Leggs…he’s making a gay joke which he is entitled to

what’s the offense?

cba

February 14th, 2012
3:13 pm

Yes Leggs I did, thanks. I just dropped a little something in the collection plate for you :-)

disco

February 14th, 2012
3:14 pm

leggs – I don’t think his statement meant not having gay friends. I think it meant that the superbowl party isn’t the time or the place.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
3:14 pm

So Tavis and Tom don’t see eye to eye now?

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:17 pm

I don’t get it, disco. Superbowl is not the time or place for what….to swoon over a commercial? Or are you saying, only manly men should be watching the game that day??

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
3:17 pm

leggs, we’re listening to the same station. i was sitting here swaying to that song thinking “hmmm. i miss him already”.

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 14th, 2012
3:18 pm

And the blog police just aint my post, probably because I said these words, alternative, rainbow, special

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:19 pm

@czB ~ well, you’ll have the chance to show him just how much he was missed (lol). That song brought back some memories…

disco

February 14th, 2012
3:21 pm

by no means am I making this about manly men but I am taking into consideration that a lot of men are homophobic whether they own it or not. taking that into consideration, even when they are accepting of their gay friends/family members I think there’s only so much they can take. I think swooning by a gay male at a superbowl might make them uncomfortable. sure, that’s more their problem than the gay man’s problem but I get it. I’d also assume that most men don’t want women (like me) at superbowl parties swooning over men either. not that it’d make them uncomfortable but I’m sure they just don’t want to hear all that “so and so is fine”. it’s not the time or the place. just my opinion.

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 14th, 2012
3:21 pm

Here is a cleaner version blog police…I think the LBGT community should be treated equally and respected by all, however; the projected outrage that comes from the said community is misplaced in this case and many other. Treating one community equally should not mean that another community is not allowed to voice their opinions.

disco

February 14th, 2012
3:21 pm

by women like me I meant to say women that don’t even like football

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
3:23 pm

Damn right Disco

that Beckham commercial was terrible taste

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
3:29 pm

i thought the commercial was awesome! luved the ink. luved the body. couldn’t care less about the drawers though. and yeah, dudes in the room were probablly wondering was it even necessary, but nobody wigged out over it.

he!! i don’t appreciate sofia’s ample bottom prancing across the sand for a can of soda, but i get it … sex sells!

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
3:33 pm

Beckham commercial is/was for the ladies. If a dude liked then then yeah he prolly gay. What roland said was just that. Whether he meant it one way or not is besides the point. If you are gay then you think he was talking about you (rightly So). Gay folks got a right to complain about anything just like any other group. it just so happens they have the PC clout and the $$$ to either force change or cause mayhem. To me it is not that big a deal.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
3:34 pm

Cz?

So u support Me and Roland right?

they need to show that Beckham commercial in lifetime/O /Qvc channel etc instead. Lol

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
3:37 pm

Side Topic – Today is officially Opening Day of Free Agency for ALL Playas. As of dark thirty you will know who is on/off the market. Also if she is out tonight by herself then of course you have been granted with a once a year opportunity. Godspeed!!!!

disco

February 14th, 2012
3:38 pm

I didn’t watch the superbowl and haven’t seen any of the commercials. I did see the david beckham H/M print ad in sports illustrated and I remember commenting that I thought $14.95 (I think) was too much for those little cheap looking skivvies.

willie d – re the PC clout. that’s just it. I don’t think joe blow the average gay person is even tripping off of it. these daggone interest groups just like to keep up mess.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
3:38 pm

@czB ~ I too thought the commercial tastefully done as well.

@disco ~ I understand what you’re saying, but it seems like this Roland fiasco has grown into something it shouldn’t have.

@WillieD ~ of course the commercial was made for women.

czBrat

February 14th, 2012
3:45 pm

the commercial can/should be shown anytime and on any channel that their studies show they will reach their target demographic.

if you find it popping up often while you’re watching the tube, you might want to rethink your choice in entertainment. you may be watching too much dr. phil or project runway.

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
3:46 pm

WD – Many folks will be having ‘backup plan sex’ today…pure pity, down and out about not having a boo need an ego boost type sex.

kimmie - the original :)

February 14th, 2012
3:47 pm

I don’t think that Beckham commercial was any different from one of those Vicki Secret commercials.

disco

February 14th, 2012
3:52 pm

kimmie – the only difference is that the “homophobic men” wouldn’t take issue with the half naked women and their ability to get guests excited. heck, they wouldn’t even care if the female guests got excited. they might even be willing to forgo the rest of the game if that happened.

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
3:52 pm

Disco – The interest groups are just doing there jobs. I don’t have a problem with them per se`

Brat – exactly. hahaha

Slim – When I was a 1 man Wolfpack I use to love this day.

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
3:53 pm

Late afternoon all,

David Beckham is fine…end of story. I didn’t think it was distasteful. All I could think was buddy is fine as heck.

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
3:57 pm

1 man wolfpack hahahahaha Oh the irony here

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
4:01 pm

Why are u ladies letting the lesbians fight Roland on ur behalf

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
4:01 pm

Cel – Inquiring minds want to know. Did the ballplayer playa give you anything for Vday? just asking

Slim – Irony???

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:04 pm

WillieD – I almost think I should be offended at that comment but honestly I burst out laughing. Naw man, IT AIN’T LIKE THAT….I’m no longer “with” him. Now let someone read WAAAAAAY into that. We are no longer paired. Not only did my manager move me, I requested and sent to her exec boss.

So effective 2/1/2012, I was removed from his gift list…lol

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
4:06 pm

Cel – Ok just checking. You sure no random Hershey kisses showed up anonymously? We got a updated scouting report at MLB headquarters and I must say it looks promising.

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:10 pm

WilleD – Random? Nothing random I can confirm.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:14 pm

I am craving an orange…

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:14 pm

But I only have an apple and one peanut butter cookie…

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
4:17 pm

Cel – Nothing at all? dayum we gotta do better.

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:19 pm

You didn’t if anything….you asked random. I tried to answer the way you asked.

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:20 pm

You didn’t “ask” if anything…

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
4:21 pm

Leggs..nutts and two smooth ballish items(orange and apple)?

seems ur feelings are moving tight along with the spirit and flavor of the day.

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
4:22 pm

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:29 pm

Naw, Ex! Your feelings are moving right along…right down to your groin.

SlimNu

February 14th, 2012
4:35 pm

WD – Yeah irony…a ONE man wolf PACK…lol

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
4:37 pm

@Slim

Make dinner for Officer tonite,maybe that will make up for ur Very poor scheduling!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:43 pm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=JwTMSN_p5Eo

This is funny because I thought about the guy who hurt her so badly….

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:44 pm

Dammit, wrong link!

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:45 pm

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
4:48 pm

Cel- gotcha, I asked the wrong ? Silly me. Honestly tell me, how many on the team?

Exiled!

February 14th, 2012
4:51 pm

I wanna go home !

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:53 pm

WillieD – The blog has gotten some sort of air about these days so you have to be reaaaal careful about what you say and put out. Unless I’m asked specifically, I’m not answering. Even then, some things I won’t answer. I can’t have folks tryna take my sitiations (situations), as beautfiul as they are..lol..and make them tawdry and dirty. Okay, that was a bit dramatic.

What team?

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:55 pm

You’re walking into mayhem, Celisea! Do not answer WillieD.

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:55 pm

I’m a one man woman. Seriously. How’s that?

Don’t know what happened to my last post.

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
4:56 pm

Legg – I see the breadcrumbs leading to the cage. I’m not.

Leggs

February 14th, 2012
4:57 pm

I have two leggs…lol

Willie Dynamite

February 14th, 2012
5:06 pm

Willie D – now RE-READING 101 ways to skin a Kat. hahahaha

Celisea

February 14th, 2012
5:07 pm

WillieD – You got it…lol

homens ricos

February 14th, 2012
9:53 pm

Happy valentines to all.