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Ex files: Reunite or never go back?

I know this coupled up holiday can sometimes have an effect on you. You see red hearts and romance reminders everywhere you look. You can’t make a trip to the grocery store or even the gas station!

These kind of reminders that you are single can make you feel vulnerable, lonely, and a little “randy”. This is when you may consider checking back in with those exes. Or you may even hear from your ex out of the blue. It’s usually the exes that are no good for us but we never truly get out of our systems. Yeah, that one.

What do you do? Is it ever a good idea to reunite with an ex? Is this the time of year to do it?

Have you ever looked up a former flame to offer a little “solace” from a sad Valentine’s Day?

Do you ever feel that you have unfinished business with someone from your past? Would you reunite or decide to never go back?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

232 comments Add your comment

Bob Smith

February 10th, 2012
6:56 am

Lily

February 10th, 2012
7:02 am

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
7:52 am

Good Morning~ Happy Fantastic Friday!

Lady doesn’t play the going back game. This is one area I master well actually.

Foxy

February 10th, 2012
8:19 am

Foxy does not repeat herself!:)

Have a Fab Friday Kids!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
8:22 am

chuckling @ the V-Word = vulnerable!

roughrider

February 10th, 2012
8:43 am

My dad always told me that you don’t learn ANYTHING the second time a mule kicks you.

Good Day Fan

February 10th, 2012
8:43 am

I don’t have a Valentine this year, but I’m not tempted to call up any of my exes either. It’s a reason why they’re exes.

Pamela

February 10th, 2012
9:06 am

Never…ever….EVER !! If it didn’t work out the first time…..it won’t work out the second….third…..fourth….lol….

disco

February 10th, 2012
9:08 am

good morning. roughrider I like that though I’d say you probably didn’t learn much the first time the mule kicked you if you are within kicking range of the mule the second time. sort of like the first time shame on you, second time shame on me statement.

I generally agree with the stay away from the exes but I’m in a contrary mood today and so I’ll try to find the benefits of a quick hookup with an ex. hmmm. let’s see. you already know them and likely no how to contact them so it’s not like you have to get dolled/duded up and go out into the world of strangers and pick up some random person. you already know whether or not the sex is worth your time. no way of knowing that when you get with a new person and we all know how disappointing bad sex can be. what else, what else. well everyone is quick to point out you are exes for a reason. if that reason isn’t bad sex then a mutually agreed upon no strings attached rendezvous for old times’ sake might be in order. it’s valentine’s day weekend – treat yourself to some “feel good”. now here’s my disclaimer: if you are one of those who tend to get emotionally detached and all caught up, LEAVE THE EX ALONE. if you can roll with it, get yours and bounce, I say roll with it, get yours and bounce.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:12 am

second time shame on me statement. <<<<<really if you go back and it back fires this applies! I would love to hear from a couple that dissolved and went back and was successful the second time around. I know some exist maybe?!?

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
9:14 am

Good Friday morning!

I’m not going to do the cliche that’s been mentioned a hundred times already this morning…lol

I’m going to say generally and typically for me, that’s a no no. I wills say with a bit of “effort”, there’s probably one ex that can get it with me. He carries kryptonite :)

Otherwise, naaaaah, I’ll pass. I think I’d rather have a quick meeting of stranger than to rekindle (with the others).

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:17 am

I’m going to say generally and typically for me, that’s a no no. I wills say with a bit of “effort”, there’s probably one ex that can get it with me. He carries kryptonite <<<<<<<the truth.com I think we all have one but even with that one it will be new parameters I think…….lol

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
9:18 am

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:19 am

Bob Evans

February 10th, 2012
9:20 am

Reunite with Paula Deen?

Yeah, I’d hit that one more time.

disco

February 10th, 2012
9:22 am

lady – I’ve heard of several couples who remarried the same person. that’s the real get back with an ex right there. a lot of that break up, back together stuff between boyfriend/girlfriend is child’s play compared to that. I have one friend in particular who gets together with her ex-husband when she’s between men. for a long time she and ex-hubs were both single, they both remarried and they both got divorced again. through it all, they continue to hook up. if they were ever to announce that they were getting remarried I’d be like “it’s about daggone time”.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:26 am

disco I can’t imagine in a million years getting back with my ex-hubby when I am between men. Lawd I told that dude the day he left he could never come back to me ever and I meant that. I am so proud we never played that game.

Kudos to the divorce couples who remarry and last!

disco

February 10th, 2012
9:30 am

lady – in this particular friend’s defense her ex-hubs is fine. I’m not even into white men but he’s got that rugged cowboy thing going on, he’s tall and muscled up. they live in texas too so he’s got the look down. he’s one sexy something or other. they were married young and likely just couldn’t cope with the foolishness back then. my guess is that with time/age they might really be able to work it all out again. I suggest it all the time and she tells me I’m tripping all the time but she’s the one that keeps screwing him. go figure. still – not mad at her because dude is nice.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:31 am

& disco I can really see it for some bc they have that chemistry and bond that is still present. My faded quickly and I ask too many questions and would want more that the sex. naw that game isn’t for me. lol

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:31 am

meant mine faded

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
9:34 am

What do you do? – Continue what I’ve been doing = Doing Me, carefree, drama free!

Is it ever a good idea to reunite with an ex? – Why, just because it’s V-day, a day for romance and love. NOPE! That’s not romance or love, it’s just knocking the rust of your pipes.

Is this the time of year to do it? NOPE! Feel sorry for those who let a day like V-day knock them on their backs because they’re emotionally vulnerable. It’s a day with significance, sure, but why put yourself out there to be an insignificant piece is someone’s life??

Have you ever looked up a former flame to offer a little “solace” from a sad Valentine’s Day? NOPE! A “sad” V-day is “sad” only because YOU made it sad. Get a grip! Love yourself and solace yourself. Buy yourself flowers, take yourself to dinner, buy yourself a gift if that’s what you’re seeking. To feel you spent V-day with a former flame just so you didn’t spend it alone is a testament to your own weakness.

Good morning.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
9:40 am

Mmmmmmm………

I’m having egg whites, a slice of french toast and a cup of coffee

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:44 am

I didn’t want breakfast C but I am hungry will be running out in a few to grab subway. I am so just ready to go though….smh lol

ThirdWheelFlunkie

February 10th, 2012
9:45 am

NO NO and NO!! I learning this lesson the hard way… NEVER AGAIN!!!…. Good Morning Yall!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
9:52 am

Lady, that hit the spot. I don’t usually do the full country breakfast. That’s waaaay too heavy. Something light to fuel the body.

HST

February 10th, 2012
9:55 am

Good Morning All,
Never, unless it was strictly a booty-call. However, most of my break-ups didn’t end badly. Usually, the women realized that I wouldn’t marry no matter how hard they tried. They only had themselves to blame for thinking I didn’t mean what I was saying, I really did get a vasectomy (no way to trick there) and I had no design on commitment other than I enjoy monogamy.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
9:59 am

never HST?!? you wine and dine and never want to take it to the next level?!? lol correct me if I am wrong sir! ;)

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:01 am

O/T ~ how much dang mucus can one nose make!!!!!

disco

February 10th, 2012
10:02 am

leggs – that sounds like a question for bill nie the science guy.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:03 am

much the secretion is healthy to a degree Leggs!

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:03 am

Lady, I always take it to the next level sexually but I will never be married again. The one girl that I’ve dated for 12 years works internationally. She’s so hot and awesome but with that comes the knowledge that I couldn’t be the only one. She’s told me point blank – I’m not marrying material. She’s right but I do enjoy monogamy.

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
10:05 am

Morning All!

In the words of Miss Boss, Diana Ross – “I Want Muscles!” Heard that song on Steve Harvey this morning, along with some of her other hits. Had not heard it in a long time, sounded so good! She’s getting a well-deserved lifetime acheivement award at the Grammy’s!

Let me go back & read so I can comment on the topic.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:05 am

Oh ok cool sir! Thanks!

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:07 am

Secretions from the nose depend on the amount of contaminates in the sinus. You will continue to make mucus until the contaminant is absolved. You can get an over the counter remedy that is homeopathic and works wonders…it’s called Sinu-Rinse. Get the bottle not the pot Sinu-Rinse. It works wonders and is great if you ever come in contact with sick people. I use it everytime after I leave the hospital.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:08 am

@Lady ~ yeah, I know. White mucus is better than green mucus.

Ok, ok, ok…I’m done with the mucus (well it’s not done with me, but you know what I mean).

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:10 am

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:11 am

@kimmie ~ I can kick myself. Went online to purchase a ticket for myself to go see Ms. Ross and closed out because I tried to win them on the radio. Kiss 104.1 was giving them away, but I was never the 14th caller. Was #9 and #13. Now, I won’t be in the audience because I tried to score free tickets. Serve me right.

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:11 am

Leggs, Sinu-Rinse will make that go away with 2-3 treatments at the most. I have to use it also after working in the yard. Even an infection will go away if you haven’t let it go for too long.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

February 10th, 2012
10:12 am

much the secretion is healthy to a degree Leggs!

True that…also check the color ( I know, TMI right)..if it’s slightly yellow or clear that means your on the mend and getting better.

On topic: I don’ t back track… If we were in a serious relationship that’s met its demise then so be it, there’s no reason to re-vist the scene of the crime. If you’re my ex, you’re that for a reason…

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
10:16 am

I don’t think I even have to say anything on this topic today! LOL

I’m thankful that I have several girlfriends who have offered to be my Valentines this year!!!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:16 am

there’s no reason to re-vist the scene of the crime<<<<<<<< HILARITY!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:17 am

Bluzgirl You crossed my mind this morning if it not too much can you email me I want you to help me with something please ma’am msjenkins8@gmail.com

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
10:17 am

Good day.

You have to totally go silent on the ex’s especially around this time of the year. Just keep it moving.

The real question should be if you are dating multiple people, how do you handle this valentines day weekend/day? I think even if you two have an understanding, somebody in the back of their mind is always expecting something different.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:19 am

The real question should be if you are dating multiple people, how do you handle this valentines day weekend/day? <<<<<M. that will tell a story sooner than later but the writing maybe on the wall too! Wow! this is a funny valentine kind of weekend for many! LOL

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:19 am

@HST ~ interesting you say that, cuz my ex brought me Sinu-Rinse yesterday. Yeah, we’re talking about ex’s, but no going back. Go to the store for me, I’m fine with that. But, that’s it.

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:20 am

Do you ladies and men always have relationships that end so badly? I kind of don’t get that…I’m friends with all my exs – even the married ones. Is it because y’all expect marriage to come from dating?

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 10th, 2012
10:20 am

I hinted at this before, but me and the Mrs had some difficult times over the years. Split, come back, break up to make up stuff which had more to do with personal growth than differences that were impossible overcome, no cheating or nothin of the sort…so my ex is my Mrs. Its possible, wouldn’t change any of the trials we had, the relationship is much better when you allow yourself to experience real troubles, and find it deep somewhere to push on….if you are gonna have any type of significant long term love, marriage, etc….you will need to develop that strength between you and your S/O….in somes cases that means muddling through the tough times to get to forever!

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:21 am

Leggs, he did the right thing for you – have you used it?

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 10th, 2012
10:21 am

be back, got a meeting

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:23 am

@M. ~ I would imagine those dating multiple parties are in a bit of a quandary on what to do and how much a dent in their wallets this day will make.

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
10:23 am

@Lady

LOL it is going to be funny because (not to generalize) but if you are dating multiple people, somebody is going to want to hang out with you this weekend AND February 14th even though valentines day is in the middle of the week. Female and Male Players beware! LOL

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:25 am

HST the ex hubby and I did have a terrible ending however 6 years later and much growth between the two of us we are beyond cordial. We are friendly and truly respect each other. we are great co-parents and I am just glad we overcame the hate that once divided us. This was our first year exchanging gifts on holidays and they were gifts that went beyond the norm they were thoughtful and that just enhanced the respect we have for one another. I even embrace his girlfriend bc she is good to my child and I brought her a gift as well! Yes, I’ve come a long way and I am glad! I released that hurt and pain! LOL

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:25 am

M. hilarity! SMH!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

February 10th, 2012
10:26 am

Hey Lady!!

Do you ladies and men always have relationships that end so badly?

No we don’t…that being said, I’m not friends with any of my exes and I’m okay with that.

Is it because y’all expect marriage to come from dating?

For me no not b/c I “expected” marriage…usually some it’s some egregious act that leads to the “no contact order” being instituted. All breakups aren’t bad for everyone.

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:26 am

Lady that is awesome and some should take notes.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:27 am

@HST ~ I have never had a relationship end badly. My divorce wasn’t bad because I made sure, for the sake of lil leggs, that it wouldn’t be one full of strife and discord. He was hurt, but time healed that (to a certain degree – the annoying complimentary texts have stopped just this year).

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
10:28 am

@Leggs

Exactly! Another thing is you cant do the normal, lets go to brunch or something and be done, they want your ENTIRE weekend.

@Ladies

If you are or have dated multiple guys in the past, how did you handle V-Day?

@Guys

If you are or have dated multiple women in the past, how did you handle V-Day?

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:28 am

Hey Sassy honey!!!!

Thanks HST! It wasn’t easy but I overcame! ;)

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:28 am

Sassy, the last answer has me LOL-ing.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:32 am

my post divorce ex boo are cool and business partners. nope the door isn’t open and neither on of us even tried. its really growth for me bc I am not buddy buddy with many exes but we share a bond…we were each other’s both post divorce flings and it was a critical time for us both.,……it taught me much! That song by Estelle Thank You sums it up! I am glad we are friends…. We are better friends than lovers! ;)

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:32 am

meant “and I”

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:33 am

M, for me, I have residences in 3 states so I would say I’m at this one or that. I have multiple cars and garages so that made it easier as well. It was one of those better to avoid than tell the truth situations. That isn’t to mean that the respective ladies didn’t know I wasn’t dating others. I just didn’t want to put it in their faces and have them stew over it/why/blah,blah, blah. I do agree with “I want the whole day” from most women I’ve dated.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:36 am

@HST ~ I have to take back my statement that I never had a relationship end badly. I was dating a Marta bus driver that didn’t end well. Mid 20’s, very hurt, couldn’t eat nor sleep much. He contacted me months later to apologize for how he ended things. I accepted it and that was the last I’ve seen or spoken with him.

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
10:36 am

@HST…I only had one relationship end really badly…that’s because he was a psycho that was really, truly mean to me. Luckily, he lived in Seattle, so I didn’t have to worry about him coming to my house and getting psychotic in person. If he lived here, I have a feeling he would have gotten physical with me and the cops would have been involved, unless he killed me.

disco

February 10th, 2012
10:36 am

HST – I’m one of those that has a couple of exes as friends. one mentioned that he’d see if he’d be able to attend my son’s college graduation this spring. if he does show up, I’ll appreciate it and we’ll have a good time graduation weekend. I’m sure neither of us will attempt to make a bigger deal out of it than it is.

Mdot – I love a good he/she got busted on valentines day story….

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
10:38 am

@Lady ~ I didn’t have a divorce fling, but I stepped back one day when I walked into my closet and realized I went on a shoe shopping frenzy back then.

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:38 am

Lady that is how I met my 12 year love. We found solace in each other post-divorce. Even more weird is that we share the same views on relationships and etc. I do love her but time has taught me that love has many facets.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:40 am

leggs POST divorce during the separation and making it LEGAL and FINAL stage! most take time for themselves but you know me! SMH!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:41 am

yep HST! I feel ya!

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:44 am

Great responses ladies.

I feel that relationships end badly because one drags out the inevitable. I’d rather just be completely honest and leave on a good term. Moreover, as some of you stated it’s all about forgiveness or saying sorry when you’re wrong.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:44 am

HST I met him @ a house party @ his house during the all star weekend thingy but anyway he was apart of my journey and as much as I wanted to never ever be his friend bc I thought I really wanted to be his wife lol I am glad we are friends! we would crumble as husband and wife and I know that to be a fact.com!

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
10:45 am

@HST

I see what you are saying. They may say they are cool with you dating others until they see it, then all bets are off!

@Disco

It always happens like this.

@Guys

Have any of you ever have a woman just come around before valentines day because she doesn’t want to be the only girl out the crew with no plans/date?

Fion

February 10th, 2012
10:46 am

@M. (pronouced M dot)
“If you are or have dated multiple women in the past, how did you handle V-Day?’

I’ll answer your question with an analogy. Imagine the world is bubble gum and HARD D^cks. Some women have all the bubble gum they need.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:46 am

Bluzgirl made my day!!!! Thanks sis! ;) #girlpower

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:47 am

Fion is a hot mess! restroom break on that one! I am dying laughing!!!!! SMH!!!!!

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
10:48 am

On topic – I am not “friends” with any of my exes(except 1) and that’s fine with me. Some ended badly, some didn’t, just never had that desire to remain in contact. I have enough real friends over the years I can call, female and male, so no need to backtrack to some dudes that were never real “friends” to begin with. The one I still consider a friend is one where we developed a strong friendship while dating. I respect him and his intelligence and I became close to his family. No hard feelings and he lives in another state and has been married near 15 years now.

I would have entirely TOO much pride to drag my tail back to one cause I’m lonely on Vday or any other holiday. Would not be that hard up! Like Leggs said, get a grip and get over it! It’s not that serious.

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
10:52 am

@Fion

LOL exactly that’s why I think women have the capacity to cheat more than men. All they have to do is thrown on that outfit go where the guys are and just wait lol

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:52 am

M, that’s how its always worked for me…everytime.

Lady, I met my friend Super Bowl weekend 12 years ago. Funny part is, neither of us watch sports besides Sports Car Racing (not to be confused with NASCAR) but we met a Super Bowl party (we later confessed at how bored we were and didn’t want to be alone post-divorce no matter what the activity was). I bought her a R8 this year hoping she’ll stay in the US. Not that I’d marry her but I’d certainly give any other girl up for her to be monogamous. I think on deep level we could spend our days till the end that way.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
10:53 am

Ummmm, okay then…just wow

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
10:54 am

I don’t really see the benefit of talking and remaining eternally monogamous.

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
10:55 am

Have any of you ever have a woman just come around before valentines day because she doesn’t want to be the only girl out the crew with no plans/date?

M Dot – That is absolutely pathetic! SMH Never, never, never, yeah I’m saying it!!!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
10:55 am

Most women, NOT ALL, have a goal of marriage so teaching how to be good at an unsealed relationship seems futile.

Maybe I’m being the contrarian. Shrugs

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:55 am

Look @ you HST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HST

February 10th, 2012
10:58 am

M, I find more women hit on me the older I get. From your comment I can only assume you’re in your 20s. Your perspective will change as you approach 40 if you’re still single. Women love an accomplished man without behavioral problems. I get patronized constantly by women…I wonder sometimes if it’s payback for my behavior to women earlier in life.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
10:59 am

correct C that is why he lose me sometimes! HST sounds so charming but I would want the ring and paper work! lol

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
10:59 am

@Lady…I’m glad I made someone’s day! It helps me to know that! :-)

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
10:59 am

And for all the “what do you do for Vday” questions posed by the men, VD is handled like any other day. Not a pass for reverting, digressing, slipping, ooopsing…just a regular day.

My kid might think it’s right up there behind Christmas but really not so much.

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:00 am

Celisea, is this because of your beliefs/religion? Could you elaborate?

SlimNu

February 10th, 2012
11:00 am

Mdot – The fact that Vday is during the week, it actually works out for a playa playa because it gives them the weekend before to get some chicks out the way, the actual day Tuesday, then the weekend afterwards.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:01 am

Indeed Bluzgirl! There’s hope always! ;)

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:02 am

C i am ready for the VDay to pass real talk LOL but laughing @ the rhetoric! LOL

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:03 am

“correct C that is why he lose me sometimes! HST sounds so charming but I would want the ring and paper work! lol” what if we both just didn’t believe in the the ideology behind marriage and religion? Doesn’t mean we don’t believe in love, I think we just have our own ideals…

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
11:03 am

That reminds me of Grey’s Anatomy last night. This lady came in the emergency room with her bf of 8 years that had been in an accident. She was mad because every V day she would expect a ring and he never gave her one. Towards the end of the show, when she realized his life was in danger, she said she didn’t care if they got married, she just didn’t want to live life without him. He ended up dying. When the dr was putting his personal items in a bag, she ran across the heart-shaped locket he had given his girlfriend that she threw back in his face. Yep, inside it said Will You Marry Me? :(

I don’t know. The older I’ve gotten, the more accepting I get of other people and their different points of view. Marriage is really not for everyone, but that doesn’t mean 2 people can’t have a committed relationship that works for THEM, THEIR WAY. As long as both are getting what they want and are happy, I’m happy for them. Live and let live.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:04 am

Sorry HST – Not doing the long drawn out whys and why nots today. Nothing personal

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:04 am

I hear you sir!

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:05 am

Kimmie, well said!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:05 am

LOL @ C!!!!!!!!!!!

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
11:05 am

@Kimmie

LOL that has happened before. Some women may send out a mass text to some guy’s like hey what you up tonight and see what response they get lol.

I had a woman hit me up a few days before Vday one year and was like so what you got planned for us for Vday? She wasnt joking lol!!!

@SlimNu

Yeah it does help that its on a weekday but unless you have the day off you only have afterwork to go out with who you are going out with. You cant make plans with some woman @ 930pm on Vday…that will get you deleted for sure lol

So the player has to make a decision, who am I going out with and who am I ok with being upset with me lol

disco

February 10th, 2012
11:05 am

Mdot – re women’s capacity to cheat. I think you might mean ability to cheat or opportunity to cheat. it’s been my experience that most (not all of course) women don’t want to cheat. most women want to be stuck on one guy. most women tend to dedicate themselves to a guy. most women want to be that faithful, stand by your man kind of woman.

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:08 am

M, a real player would go under the radar to the other woman. Play-on…

disco

February 10th, 2012
11:08 am

Mdot – the real player has no decision to make. he gets ghost on Vday. if he has a main chick – she gets the day while the side pieces wait their turn (if they even get a turn). if they are all just hang out chicks he’ll likely dis them all and come back with his excuse after the fact. women who deal with men like that know they are dealing with men like that. you get what you get.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:08 am

that is juvenile!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:09 am

PREACH DISCO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL GHOST.COM that is where I thought M. was going with the VDADY talk!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
11:10 am

alrighty folks be back a lil later!!! lol

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:10 am

You don’t tell the other woman! That’s just mean and like lady said… juvenile.

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
11:11 am

@disco

True. I believe that too…but if you arent doing your job or if they just get bored, they are defiantly looking for another situation.

My saying is this:

Most women date like someone who has a good job that is looking for a better job=a good man but would not turn down a better man. This is why some women jump from guy to guy.

Most men date like someone who got laid off but has a 1 year severance package. They are not necessarily looking for another job unless it falls in their lap. =They could have a good woman, break up and take a break until the woman they want comes along.

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:11 am

I’m out also, nice to type with all of you and have a great weekend.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:11 am

I see shoes again!!!

Fion

February 10th, 2012
11:13 am

@Kimmie
Your 11:03 Soliloquies sounds like a back door acceptance of “Expectations” getting in the way of a relationship.

Hellene

February 10th, 2012
11:13 am

Hellene

In October 2011, I was on the verge of losing my boyfriend. After this love spell I cast I found he still loved me.Before i cast the spell A friend advised me to speak to him and apologies but still. He refused to open up. I asked PROPHET ALUTA about casting a spell. He explained the process and i followed by his words. Within 1 WEEK, his SPELL WORK FOR MY EX BOYFRIEND and he
completely changed, his outlook improved 100 percent and we made plans for the future. Now we’re engaged and the wedding is April
14_2012. Thank you. — FREE MERCY TEMPLE,(traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com ) Viewer’s should help me thank him…. I am getting married soon.
His spell worked for me in the time-frame he hoped for. Thanks. you can also contact him for the come back of your ex and you will see the solution okay.
I felt the power of the Love Spell almost immediately. Results happened! Thanks! you can also contact him for your problem.– Hellene,
bye for now i await your reply okay.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
11:14 am

@kimmie ~ almost texted you last night re: Grey’s and re the slut on Private Practice.

Everything is relative. Perhaps the fact that I’m single my thoughts are different. I’m not bogged down with being alone on V-day. I will not be in a state of mind that I’m spending this day alone. Won’t be bothered either way. I’m happy for those who are coupled up and want to be coupled up, and I pity those coupled up who can’t find an escape route.

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
11:14 am

HST – People talk about the demise of marriage and values and such, but I’m able to look at things differently. I think it’s a great time to be alive. You are more free to be you and do you and what truly makes you happy, not what “society” says you must do to be accepted. I’ve always relished doing things “my way”. I love being married, but even that I did non-traditionally and in my time, my way and also what worked for my husband. And forget what other folks say. They are on the outside looking in.

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
11:14 am

@HST & Disco

I get the getting lost on valentines day, but wont she look at you sideways the next time she sees/talks to you if ever? Like disco said, they get what they get or deserve lol

Its like that scene from a thin line between love and hate when darnell did not show up for brandy’s birthday…we all know how that turned out for him he almost his life lol

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
11:18 am

@Celisea ~ I asked you yesterday to leave the pills home. Do I need to call an “intervention?”

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
11:19 am

Fion – Hey, if that’s the way you see it. With that said, my expectation of marriage didn’t get in the way of finding a man that had the same expectation. :)

I actually think worrying about “other people’s expectations” are what make a lot of folks unhappy, worrying about what other people say or think. I learned to focus on my own expectations and not those of other people on the outside looking in.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
11:20 am

Hell, if a spell got you your man and not your skills, character and traits of being a woman, a good woman, down the road the hex will be on you.

Albert

February 10th, 2012
11:23 am

I’m still friends with both of the women I dated seriously, and I’d go back to either one of them if they asked me to. Starting from scratch can be lots of fun, but if it doesn’t work, it can be discouraging. At least when you already know someone you don’t feel you have to start from the very beginning.

Of course, if it works, starting from scratch can be a real blast.! :) ))

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:23 am

I could care less what anybody does. I agree LIVE AND LET LIVE. I don’t question, I don’t ask, I don’t care…lol Just don’t ask me base on what you think or believe. I do me and all other do and live as you please and like. I have no judgements. :mrgreen:

Leggs – Toldja, I was born this way…lol I think though….never mind :)

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
11:26 am

I get the getting lost on valentines day, but wont she look at you sideways the next time she sees/talks to you if ever?

M dot – If she’s not a complete dunce and has half an ounce of pride, you won’t hear from her again. We talked about this a few days ago. If a dude got ghost on me just because a holiday is coming up, then he needs to stay gone. That’s some lame high school mess. I like real men, not silly little boys!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:27 am

My uncle had a dog named Buffie and when his daughter wanted to get married and HE KNEW she wasn’t ready, told her “you can marry Buffie for all I care…you like him, I love him” LOL THAT’S how I feel. I think she was bucking though when he tried to give her some insight…lol

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:29 am

Oh Lawd, we got somebody casting spells for love? That’s funny

disco

February 10th, 2012
11:30 am

kimmie – and that’s why I say those chicks get what they get. my grandma used to say “see a fool, use a fool”. if a chick wants to sit around playing herself then more power to her. and that same chick who probably didn’t get a gift from her man probably went all out trying to do something special for him. they better ask somebody.

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
11:33 am

disco – Yep, and I’ve been that fool too. Woke up real quick though!!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:34 am

I wish it was nice outside, I would walk out for lunch a bit later. Too cloudy

disco

February 10th, 2012
11:36 am

kimmie – my gimme on the vday gift was way back in high school. I got a little boyfriend a gift (it wasn’t much but it was something). he showed up empty handed. ever since then I’ve been a “give me mine first” kind of girl. bump that.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
11:37 am

@Celisea ~ casting spells for love is pathetic! If you can’t get the love on your own, why go to such drastic measures. Don’t know anything about spells, but do they not wear off???

HST

February 10th, 2012
11:37 am

I forgot to hit send and shut off my computer…

Celisea @ 10:54 you said, “I don’t really see the benefit of talking and remaining eternally monogamous.” you do realize you just described a healthy marriage/relationship besides “I don’t really see”…maybe that’s the problem you don’t really see one…

Kimmie, I couldn’t agree more.

By all ~ HST

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:39 am

HST – Thanks!!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
11:40 am

Too cloudy to walk…it’s not raining…go take that walk (lol). I’m still waiting to see shoes…

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
11:40 am

Leggs – Take a pill and you’ll see…lol

M. (pronouced M dot)

February 10th, 2012
11:42 am

@Kimmie

Vday defiantly lets everyone know where they stand!

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
11:44 am

disco – “Give me mine first” – I love it, got that right!!

disco

February 10th, 2012
11:46 am

kimmie – I was working at a little five and dime back then (yeah, the five and dime). I could have found something else to do with my little $3(?) an hour. so, yep, I learned that lesson pretty darned quick.

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

February 10th, 2012
11:51 am

So who is buying what for VDay?

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
11:52 am

@Disco..so u don’t give a dude a gift unless u know they are returning or initiating the favor?

I like ur v-day humping tho. I feel the same way. If ex wants some to feel good about the day,why not?

Yes a lot of females get vulnerable especially when they see other females coupled up. If u hit the club scene and just watch the crowd,u see them. Kinda like deer in headlights. That’s when the playas pounce.(that’s a discussion for another day)

But v day is way commercialized and unfortunately a lot of folks are so sucked in by the hype!
But to be honest when I was on the hunt,v day was the day to score points. It works a lot with lots of females. So guys,playa to playa have some cash in reserve,buy dome flowers etc and send them to her(their) j o b(s)

U will be surprised that there are females who actually send themselves gifts at the job just to ’show off’ to workmates.
Women!!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
11:53 am

some flowers

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
11:55 am

@Ex ~ I don’t anyone is surprised at women sending themselves flowers at work. We all know that happens.

disco

February 10th, 2012
11:56 am

exiled – that only applies to reciprocal gift giving occasions like xmas and vday. I don’t expect a gift on dude’s bday or on father’s day or whatever. it may be wrong but it is what it is and I certainly won’t apologize for it.

and ex I know COUNTLESS women who send themselves gifts. two of my closest friends (I’m friends with both of them – they can’t stand each other) had a falling out way back in college re that very thing. one told somebody that they other gifted herself. they almost came to blows over that. still I know chicks that lie and say some suitor or other bought them this that or the other. I also know chicks who bought their own engagement ring and lied about it.

CKM

February 10th, 2012
12:03 pm

How bizzare this topic would come up now. Just last week, I contacted an ex that I haven’t seen in 20+ years. V-Day had absolutely nothing to do with it. Not looking for a re-do, but the catching up has been cool and he looks great. Sort of like a time-warp. I was only 19 when we were together (a baby). As far as the exes that came after him, NO WAY. Definitely learned from those mistakes! I’ve participated in the on again/off again game. My advice: Waste of time.

Purple

February 10th, 2012
12:06 pm

LOL, flowers are so boring for Valentines Day. On topic no I never go back ever. Whether it be a serious relationship, a fling or a start up….if I am done I am done. Ladies be careful the next few days some ladies will be nice for no apparent reason because they don’t want to be alone. SOme are fine with being alone.

Also, if you are a single woman over 30…just know you are a part of some mans rotation somehow. LOL

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
12:09 pm

Ex/disco – See that “sending yourself flowers” mess and acting like they came from a boo is a prime example of worrying about other folks opinions and expectations(Fion)!

If I’m buying myself something, the heck if I’m going to blow that money on delivering some flowers to myself. That probably $50+ would be spent on some shoes or something else, not trying to impress some folks I don’t care about! Stupid!!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
12:10 pm

I wish women didn’t do that!

Imagine,if women didn’t prize coochie so high by demanding ‘meaning’ to a relationship and building barriers to it or conditions at every turn then dudes would not be playas or notch builders.

But the more females make coochie scarce,the more we want it and the more the price goes up and the more dudes wanna build notches because if men terms,that’s value!

Coochie economics 105!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
12:11 pm

Good thing we all move on and don’t cry over spilled milk…. VD would be like dooms day

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
12:12 pm

in men terms

disco

February 10th, 2012
12:12 pm

kimmie – your stupid sounded like it needed to be said three times. “stupid. stupid. stupid.”

purple – elaborate on this rotation. (I’m single over 30)

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
12:16 pm

Even though I know hubs & I will have a nice Vday, I’m going out right now and buy myself a nice gift! And I’ll tell anyone that cares that I BOUGHT IT!

CKM

February 10th, 2012
12:19 pm

@Purple: I’m over 30 as well, You are dead wrong….idiot.

disco

February 10th, 2012
12:19 pm

exiled – my grandmother used to say that every woman needs to put a price on her cooch. I guess each chick has to determine her own worth/value in that regard. my grandmother said it could be exchanged for love, money, pleasure or whatever but it was a sad woman that was exchanging it for nothing at all.

my point being – that if it’s throwing off your budget and messing up your tally you can always seek out those sad women that are exchanging it for nothing.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
12:24 pm

I took what Purple was saying that if you don’t hear from this person on a regular basis, but find yourself getting calls from you on V-day it’s probably because he thinks you’re easy prey. In that regard, you are on his rotation, especially if you decide to go and spend time with that person.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
12:27 pm

Disco?

see that’s why FWB have been thrown underground(Internet) due to such reasoning. A dude can’t approach a chic on the street and say that’s what they want. Even tho there are willing participants on both sides. The price of cooch is thus kept artificially high!

(I’m really being academic and cerebral with a coach economics argument ) smdh!

disco

February 10th, 2012
12:36 pm

ex – stop being cheap. there’s some out there for every price point.

Purple

February 10th, 2012
12:40 pm

Leggs, thank you. You are correct. I musth have hit a nerve with CKM. ohhh I was called an “idoit”

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
12:41 pm

Disco?

I doubt it..I would want some j-lo,Opprah,Dianne Sawyer type coochay eve day regular price. U can’t get that if u go on the street to find it. U go on the net instead u might be lucky to get a high prized target looking for working class D… But even if I do,she won’t walk arm in arm with me in public!

disco

February 10th, 2012
12:56 pm

since that is indeed what purple meant I must say I’m way out of rotation. I just envisioned myself trying to double dutch. you know that little lean/bounce you do before you jump in the ropes? I’m out of rotation and so I’m just leaning and bouncing but I can’t seem to get in. dang.

i'm swiss

February 10th, 2012
1:03 pm

Me.lo — You might want to re-think pining for Oprah’s cooch:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t302MbYcQUQ

:lol:

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:12 pm

Swiss..I will open that link at home. Hope it’s good.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:17 pm

It’s corny, Ex (lol).

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:19 pm

Swiss,I opened it but I have no sound on my desk top…read the comments.
saw the Liverpol accent comment..what a coicidence.
I hope it is a good omen for me as we have a massive game with the manu scums tmrw morning on ESP live!

Blogsville pray for meto win please! I apologize to you for everything(I have to if I can count on ur prayers)

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:21 pm

You only have to if the apology is sincere…doesn’t sound since to me (LOLOLOL).

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:21 pm

doesn’t sound sincere…

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:31 pm

poppin back in! whew lawd!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:31 pm

Leggs catch me up please ma’am lol

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:34 pm

Lady?

the only news really is that the price of cooch had shot up astronomically(during ur absence) but now it has stabilized again.

I think u got some to do with it one way or the other! :lol:

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:36 pm

DEAD EX!!!!! I just hollered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOLOL!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:40 pm

Nothing to catch up on. Ex is looking for prayers to help him win in an event. He’s still talking about his favorite topic…coochie.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:41 pm

I see chuckle!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:43 pm

My bad..I quit

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:46 pm

gon be cold this weekend whatchu got planned Lady,Leggs

By the way u shake off the bug Leggs?

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:47 pm

nothing Ex my twin niece and nephew are turning 5~ its a celebration! :)

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:50 pm

Bug is still in me. Worming itself out slowly. Hopefully by weekend I’ll be 100%.

Supposed to go to a 50th b-day party tomorrow, but don’t think that would be a smart thing to do. No plans other than chores.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:54 pm

Nice Lady! It’s a kids party don’t make it a grwon folks party by uall jiving and shacking, debauchery style! :lol: black people! :lol:

Leggs 50th party? Where is that at.. U have a comp invite I would luv to be there…same age folks..

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:55 pm

LOLOLOL U so right dude! its all about the kids! its @ the skating rink midday so that is going to work out straight! ha! ;)

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:56 pm

I wonder where SlimNu’s colored and tatted slim butt is at? :lol:

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:56 pm

You can be there if you bring Queen with you!!!!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:57 pm

@Ex ~ curious, why are you ending your sentences with “at?”

It reminds me of the “IS” guy…

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:58 pm

Ok give me the info Leggs

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:59 pm

To fit in Leggs! Lol

i'm swiss

February 10th, 2012
2:01 pm

Me.lo — I’ll give you the back-story on that link: Oprah’s vajay-jay and @sshole are upset because Oprah is so busy with her career that she is neglecting them. So they mount a plan to disgrace Oprah so that she will lose her show & thus have more time to devote to her vajay-jay (Minge) and @asshole (Gary). :lol: Unfortunately, the plan goes horribly wrong and ends up in a hostage situation. That’s where the clip picks up. :lol:

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
2:06 pm

Swiss..I’m not listening to u! see 1:19 and the 1:40 reprimand and 1:43 confession

So I am on a( bad word here) :arrow: $&@(/& fasting until after the 7:40 am game tmrw then I re-assess,win or draw!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:08 pm

@Ex ~ info on my work computer. Not even show if I’m going. If I’ll go, I’ll let Queen know (lol).

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:09 pm

nor SURE….

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:18 pm

I see the medication is kicking in….

Meant NOT SURE….

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
2:29 pm

where did everyone go?!? early friday out?!? lol

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
2:43 pm

Just got back from a little shopping, for myself and others. Got baby girl a solar system kit for her school project. Got myself some snazzy nail polish & eyeshadow and some nice-smelling body creme. Subway for lunch.

Whatchall doin?

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
2:46 pm

Will this day ever end?!?!? Then again…not in too much of a hurry…have to go straight from job A to job B and probably won’t get home until after midnight…

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
2:47 pm

my work is done here! Thanks again Bluzgirl! ;) Enjoy your weekend MIA Crew!!! peace out~

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
2:48 pm

How many dudes in here can tell if a female is giving u or gave u the,’I see U look’ (with a show of hands fellas)

I think I saw a hubby silently showing and flexing his sharp elbows to me coz of the wife.. :lol:

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:50 pm

@Ex ~ you probably didn’t see what you thought. A lot of hubby won’t necessarily flex, they’ll step to you and shut you down with the quickness (lololol).

LL411

February 10th, 2012
2:55 pm

>>>>>were never real “friends” to begin with.

My ex-longterm cannot understand why I don’t want to be friends… Fool you had the #1 spot and you blew it. May I’d think differently if you hadn’t said or did or didn’t do somethings that made me realize you really didn’t like me all that much.

I’ll say it again… I value quality over quanity every time, some just don’t get it.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
2:55 pm

Maybe…….
I didn’t do none other than look(I happened to be facing that direction,kinda sideways to them)

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
3:15 pm

Looks like the blog has died for the day. Have a good weekend everyone…

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
3:22 pm

Everyone have a great weekend. Get your candy, flowers and dinner dates lined up. Just remember who you asked out and don’t mix locations up (lolol). I’d bet lots of people will be cold busted this V-day.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
3:27 pm

Leggs?

Re 3:22

The best playas will promise All the bench warmers(individually ofcourse) that he is picking
them up at 8:00 pm tonite for dinner….meanwhile he’s out at that time with First lady or first lady for the day.

That makes the coast Very Clear!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
3:36 pm

Okay…let me skim to catch up

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
3:47 pm

Okay not sure what happened to my post…I’ll say it again…

Nothing much happening, yesterday was Friday’s eve and happening…draining today of it’s blog juice…lol

Newbies, watchers, l@rkers…pay these folks no mind. Take it with a grain of salt or not at all. Better yet, don’t put out there stuff folks are gonna pounce on.

Aha! I said “L@RKER” and my post went missing.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
3:48 pm

Because we all know for fun if nothing else this place can be called “if she did it, she’s a ho” central…no matter what “it” is. If you breath, you caused the demise of something…lol Brush it aside and keep blogging and living.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
3:59 pm

I agree, Ex. To get picked up by 8:00, and you’re not a couple, he probably spent the day with someone special, hoping you would be his midnight snack. It could go either way. He got the FWB out of the way during the day to spend time with the special one at night.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:00 pm

Cel?
So u saying be a Ho but keep it on the low low?

‘if she did it she’s a ho’
:lol:

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:08 pm

MMeelloo – What I’m saying is what I said.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:09 pm

Take it, like it, lick it, lump it…or don’t :)

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:10 pm

She’s saying too many of you guys put women down on this blog. Most demise of relationships is usually the woman’s fault. She’s damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:12 pm

I’m eating Now & Laters :)

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:13 pm

I really wanted peanut m&ms but the machine was out.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:20 pm

Since I’m pretty much blogging alone and have about 40 minutes (probably not) before I roll out….got a few randoms:

I pretty much have earplugs in my ears all day listening to music. I LOOOOOVE to work like this and pretty much alone. But today danggit, I’m burned out with same songs so I’ve been YouTubing it :)

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:21 pm

Random: My kid is superhot with me right now. She’ll live. She knew to straigten up though for a second because she wanted to talk to “that boy.” She’ll be an angel by the time VD rolls around

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:22 pm

Random: My coworker won’t put up pics. Says she needs to be ready to move at any time. She keeps a box under her desk (for packing)….lol

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:25 pm

I feel a few sets of eyes on me.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:25 pm

@Celisea ~ mine is hot with me. Senior trip is to Panama City (not sponsored by the school). I already told her she couldn’t go. Weeks ago, I asked her not to have any of her friends call me pleading for me to let her go. Why did one text me this morning. Guess she may have felt with a few weeks passing I may change my mind. Mind you, 6 girls 4 boys renting a house with no chaperon. One girl’s father will be in panama, but will be available for emergencies only. There will be no emergencies on my end cuz she ain’t going.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:26 pm

I have a coworker like that. Minimal decorations, boring cubicle.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:32 pm

Leggs – Ain’t they some little stinkers?

Mine wanted me to come pick her up from choir rehearsal…mind you I’m in walking distance so it’s like 5 minutes in a car. Well I get there and they’re still rehearsing so I go back home. Well she calls again all irritated and I’m like um do I have freaking (didn’t say that), on my forehead. So, I’m telling her give me a sec and she falls straight into an attitude. So I tell her, okay then missy catch a ride with Julia (choir director) 3 doors up from me. Well 10 minutes later she calls and asks, it’s 9:00 now, if she could ride with a couple of kids to pick up another kid and I said NO. Well she comes in with attitude and I meet her with attitude. That was two days ago.

One of these days they’ll realize it was all for their good. I told her, the kid they were on the way to pick up should have been picked up by her own mom.

Then I told her you’re 16, a school night, homework to be done, clothes to be folded….NO COME HOME

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:36 pm

“FREAKING TAXI”….of course I didn’t say that I was thinking it though

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:38 pm

I can definitely see your stance….hell no in Panama City…heck no Any hs trips my kid takes, I’ll be a chaparone. It won’t cure what happens on a daily but Imma serve as contraception as much as I can.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:45 pm

Leggs/Cel?

Ok I’m back.

The reason why men do that is because women these days don’t know the meaning of ‘obey’ ur husband!

U now running wild u women
We need ‘obey’ back in the lingo of married womens. (yes womens)

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:47 pm

Ur co worker married Cee?

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:49 pm

@Celisea ~ Panama City, no chaparone, all that liquor and raging hormones. Heck, I may trust her, just don’t like those little weenies sleep walking falling in her room or vice a verse.

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

February 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

Hey people…

My grandma used to say, “Only a dog returns to its own vomit.”

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

Obey…go sit your kunta kinte behind down (said with love).

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

One sec Mmeello, on the phone cutting up

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:52 pm

Sexy – That’s scripture :) You’re granny is right

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

Mmeello – Okay, I’m not even touching what you said.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

See Leggs,that’s what I thought.

Women who obey or have that mindset are married

Obey is not my creation it’s God’s Abraham Jacob Isaac etc

Well I’m an old testament guy anyway

Equal rights my arse

Christian conservative folks know exactly what I’m talking bout

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

February 10th, 2012
4:58 pm

I think I’ve gotten so used to working until 7 or 8 at night…that it feels wierd to be thinking about leaving at 5p….

I am thinking to myself, “whatdahell?!?!?!?”

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:59 pm

Okay…I’m back…dude please. Let’s talk about something else. We ain’t talking about women obeying their husbands. My name is Benny and I ain’t in it.
Leggs – The kid issue….exactly

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:00 pm

@Ex ~ I know exactly what you’re saying as well.

I understand man is the head of the family and all decisions are final by him. However, my input in those decisions also have to be considered. I don’t mind obeying, but you have to be worthy of me to obey you, let alone marry you.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:05 pm

U marry the one worthy of ur obedience

I thought that was in a high school class extra curricula syllabus

But a lot of females are going to the club at nite and hubby is missing and she got a ring on her finger

Married?

When single dudes are punching ur butt?

Anyway ruminate on that

Good nite and goood weekend

Go Liverpool..YNWA!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:06 pm

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:10 pm

You haven’t spit anything I need to ruminate on.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:12 pm

And you, hubby, looking to go to a 50th bday party to pinch some butts if only with your eyes!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:15 pm

Leggs?

I hope u won’t regret ur sharp elbows when u meet ur maker eventually

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:16 pm

I am polygamist in training

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:16 pm

No worries…

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:21 pm

BTW, when I meet my maker my sharp elbows will no longer be sharp.