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Ex files: Reunite or never go back?

I know this coupled up holiday can sometimes have an effect on you. You see red hearts and romance reminders everywhere you look. You can’t make a trip to the grocery store or even the gas station!

These kind of reminders that you are single can make you feel vulnerable, lonely, and a little “randy”. This is when you may consider checking back in with those exes. Or you may even hear from your ex out of the blue. It’s usually the exes that are no good for us but we never truly get out of our systems. Yeah, that one.

What do you do? Is it ever a good idea to reunite with an ex? Is this the time of year to do it?

Have you ever looked up a former flame to offer a little “solace” from a sad Valentine’s Day?

Do you ever feel that you have unfinished business with someone from your past? Would you reunite or decide to never go back?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

232 comments Add your comment

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:10 pm

She’s saying too many of you guys put women down on this blog. Most demise of relationships is usually the woman’s fault. She’s damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:12 pm

I’m eating Now & Laters :)

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:13 pm

I really wanted peanut m&ms but the machine was out.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:20 pm

Since I’m pretty much blogging alone and have about 40 minutes (probably not) before I roll out….got a few randoms:

I pretty much have earplugs in my ears all day listening to music. I LOOOOOVE to work like this and pretty much alone. But today danggit, I’m burned out with same songs so I’ve been YouTubing it :)

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:21 pm

Random: My kid is superhot with me right now. She’ll live. She knew to straigten up though for a second because she wanted to talk to “that boy.” She’ll be an angel by the time VD rolls around

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:22 pm

Random: My coworker won’t put up pics. Says she needs to be ready to move at any time. She keeps a box under her desk (for packing)….lol

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:25 pm

I feel a few sets of eyes on me.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:25 pm

@Celisea ~ mine is hot with me. Senior trip is to Panama City (not sponsored by the school). I already told her she couldn’t go. Weeks ago, I asked her not to have any of her friends call me pleading for me to let her go. Why did one text me this morning. Guess she may have felt with a few weeks passing I may change my mind. Mind you, 6 girls 4 boys renting a house with no chaperon. One girl’s father will be in panama, but will be available for emergencies only. There will be no emergencies on my end cuz she ain’t going.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:26 pm

I have a coworker like that. Minimal decorations, boring cubicle.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:32 pm

Leggs – Ain’t they some little stinkers?

Mine wanted me to come pick her up from choir rehearsal…mind you I’m in walking distance so it’s like 5 minutes in a car. Well I get there and they’re still rehearsing so I go back home. Well she calls again all irritated and I’m like um do I have freaking (didn’t say that), on my forehead. So, I’m telling her give me a sec and she falls straight into an attitude. So I tell her, okay then missy catch a ride with Julia (choir director) 3 doors up from me. Well 10 minutes later she calls and asks, it’s 9:00 now, if she could ride with a couple of kids to pick up another kid and I said NO. Well she comes in with attitude and I meet her with attitude. That was two days ago.

One of these days they’ll realize it was all for their good. I told her, the kid they were on the way to pick up should have been picked up by her own mom.

Then I told her you’re 16, a school night, homework to be done, clothes to be folded….NO COME HOME

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:36 pm

“FREAKING TAXI”….of course I didn’t say that I was thinking it though

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:38 pm

I can definitely see your stance….hell no in Panama City…heck no Any hs trips my kid takes, I’ll be a chaparone. It won’t cure what happens on a daily but Imma serve as contraception as much as I can.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:45 pm

Leggs/Cel?

Ok I’m back.

The reason why men do that is because women these days don’t know the meaning of ‘obey’ ur husband!

U now running wild u women
We need ‘obey’ back in the lingo of married womens. (yes womens)

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:47 pm

Ur co worker married Cee?

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:49 pm

@Celisea ~ Panama City, no chaparone, all that liquor and raging hormones. Heck, I may trust her, just don’t like those little weenies sleep walking falling in her room or vice a verse.

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

February 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

Hey people…

My grandma used to say, “Only a dog returns to its own vomit.”

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

Obey…go sit your kunta kinte behind down (said with love).

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

One sec Mmeello, on the phone cutting up

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:52 pm

Sexy – That’s scripture :) You’re granny is right

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

Mmeello – Okay, I’m not even touching what you said.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

See Leggs,that’s what I thought.

Women who obey or have that mindset are married

Obey is not my creation it’s God’s Abraham Jacob Isaac etc

Well I’m an old testament guy anyway

Equal rights my arse

Christian conservative folks know exactly what I’m talking bout

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

February 10th, 2012
4:58 pm

I think I’ve gotten so used to working until 7 or 8 at night…that it feels wierd to be thinking about leaving at 5p….

I am thinking to myself, “whatdahell?!?!?!?”

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:59 pm

Okay…I’m back…dude please. Let’s talk about something else. We ain’t talking about women obeying their husbands. My name is Benny and I ain’t in it.
Leggs – The kid issue….exactly

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:00 pm

@Ex ~ I know exactly what you’re saying as well.

I understand man is the head of the family and all decisions are final by him. However, my input in those decisions also have to be considered. I don’t mind obeying, but you have to be worthy of me to obey you, let alone marry you.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:05 pm

U marry the one worthy of ur obedience

I thought that was in a high school class extra curricula syllabus

But a lot of females are going to the club at nite and hubby is missing and she got a ring on her finger

Married?

When single dudes are punching ur butt?

Anyway ruminate on that

Good nite and goood weekend

Go Liverpool..YNWA!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:06 pm

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:10 pm

You haven’t spit anything I need to ruminate on.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:12 pm

And you, hubby, looking to go to a 50th bday party to pinch some butts if only with your eyes!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:15 pm

Leggs?

I hope u won’t regret ur sharp elbows when u meet ur maker eventually

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
5:16 pm

I am polygamist in training

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:16 pm

No worries…

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
5:21 pm

BTW, when I meet my maker my sharp elbows will no longer be sharp.